“Wait… This Is Wholesome”: 73 Posts That Feel Like A Tight, Warm Hug (New Pics)
We’ve all been there… One minute, you’re happily scrolling through your feed. Next, you’re sucked into a never-ending vortex of negativity. It’s easy to become disillusioned when the bad stuff is constantly staring us in the face. That’s why it’s important to cleanse your aura every so often, with a dash of uplifting positivity.
If you’re struggling to source said positive vibes, fear not because Bored Panda has your back. We’ve compiled a list of heartwarming and happy posts that might have you breathing a sigh of relief while you think, “Wait… This Is Wholesome.” Each of them has been sourced from a page with that exact name. It has no less than 926,000 followers, all queuing for their daily dose of pick-me-uppers.
Grab a comforting drink, maybe even a cozy blanket, sit back and keep scrolling. Feel free to consider this your virtual group hug and debriefing session, but don’t get so happy that you forget to upvote your favorites.
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This Is Parenting Done Right🙌💙💛
I Painted This For My Husband
This Is Why Kids Should Do Chores Around The House. They See How Their Actions Affect Others In The House, Both Positively And Negatively
If you think PTSD is reserved for army veterans, and those who have experienced violent trauma first-hand, think again. Research has shown that simply viewing graphic, violent, or disturbing content online can cause indirect or secondary trauma, as well as depression.
Some call it “vicarious PTSD.” And the more you doom-scroll, or view negative content, the higher your chances of developing symptoms. These include intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, hyperarousal, and sleep disturbances.
“Repeatedly watching or ‘doomscrolling’ through unedited media and tragic events online overloads the brain's stress response,” explains the American Psychiatric Association’s site.
I Have A New Hero 😁
Starting A Marriage With Love Instead Of Debt? Absolute Insanity
A marriage isn't expensive. If anything it will save money by combining two people's resources into one home. A wedding can be expensive, but no one needs that to get married. And most people shouldn't bother with it as it's a massive expense for one silly day.
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This one made me smile big time. Sorry you got busted, Sir Whiskerton the Third!
Even mental health experts aren’t immune. Jeffrey Pickens, a Professor of Psychology at St. Thomas University, recalls how he clicked a harmless-looking link while surfing a conventional news thread.
“Suddenly, my screen was filled with full-on war footage. Violent images from a soldier's body cam, trench warfare, drones, explosions, and close combat are presented with a heavy metal soundtrack,” says the expert, adding that at first, he was transfixed. But that soon turned to shock, and he switched off the video.
Pickens says those few seconds exposed him to real scenes of violence that he did not wish to see but couldn't "un-see."
One Of The Builders
Dudes Helping Dudes!
That was a very kind act and hope the bloke has a nice furnished Apartment now.
These Are All So Beautiful. 🥹
The expert says the best solution is to avoid viewing traumatic content. But as we have come to learn, that's not always possible. Pickens advises that you teach yourself to tune out toxic imagery and tune in to your reactions to potential stress triggers.
“If you must view traumatic media, learn to take breaks, turn off the sound, and talk or journal about your feelings about what you witnessed,” he explains.
I Told You She Was Real !*
Lmao she looks almost IDENTICAL to one of my friends (like could legit be her if she changed the hairstyle, she even has identical nose ring). From my experience, such cryptids are always kind, accepting and fun to hang out with ^^
I Love Kind People And For This To Come From A Man Hits So Different. And Truly How Lucky His Girlfriend Must Be To Have Him
I Was Sobbing On The Subway Today
Those over at The Summit Counseling Center agree. They add that it also helps to practice self-care, and engage in positive activities for your mental health. For example, mindfulness, exercise, breathing, etc. when feeling stressed.
“Balance source material,” they advise. This doesn’t mean going to another source for a different version of the negative content. But rather, searching for something more positive to watch or read (like this wholesome listicle you're currently scrolling through).
Ran Into This Dude
This is very true! All our acts, thoughts and words have consequences in one way or another. For ourselves, for the people we meet, for the entire world even. Be true, be kind!
This Was Written By A Grateful Worm
I DO THIS! With snails, too. I don't want them to be trodden on by the next dog walker, so I pick each one up and throw it off the path into the grass (or place them carefully, in the case of the snails).
I Used To Feed The Crows
Sheryl Ankrom, a licensed clinical professional counselor who serves as the director of clinical services for Lifeline Behavioral Healthcare, says it’s important that immediately after experiencing something disturbing, you remove yourself from that trigger.
“Get away from the computer, don’t view that image again, and go for a walk,” she advises. Ankrom told Vice that some counterprogramming can also help. This might mean listening to music you love, watching your favorite TV show, or even calling a friend who can ground you in physical reality again.
Basically, “anything that helps overwrite the immediate horror and revulsion can help make it easier to deal with those feelings down the line,” she says.
This Is A Great Response
Not everything needs to be a drama, we've got enough TV for that. Good for her and a great response from the Dad.
What's The Difference
When Did You Realize How Important Sisterhood Is To You?
While there’s no doubt that consuming negative media can be harmful to our mental health, the opposite is also true. A Harvard study found that routine social media use can be beneficial - as long as you are mindful of how it is affecting you.
“Our findings suggest that the ways that people are using social media may have more of an impact on their mental health and well-being than just the frequency and duration of their use,” said the study’s co-author Mesfin Bakalu, adding that the findings go against what some might expect.
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Kid Is A Superhero
Giving My Classroom Gluesticks Human Names Has Been Revolutionary
Bakalu explains that having a strong social network is associated with positive mental health and well-being.
“Routine social media use may compensate for diminishing face-to-face social interactions in people’s busy lives,” said the researcher. “Social media may provide individuals with a platform that overcomes barriers of distance and time, allowing them to connect and reconnect with others and thereby expand and strengthen their in-person networks and interactions.”
Women Like Mac And Cheese. Because Everyone Likes Mac And Cheese
The more of these I read, the more my faith in guys increases. It was always there but guys are now far more up front about caring and giving a dāmn.
Dog Haircut
The World Needs This
Now I have to worry about peeing in the woods and I might be flashing someone on camera.
According to Bakalu and his co-authors, routine social media use, like responding to content that others share, is positively associated with social well-being, positive mental health, and self-rated health. It’s when there’s an emotional connection, or obsession with social media, that you should worry.
For example, say the experts, checking apps excessively out of fear of missing out, being disappointed about or feeling disconnected from friends when not logged into social media, are all shown to have a negative effect on our well-being, mental and self-rated physical health.
In short: choose wisely what you consume, and you should be fine.
Absolutely The Best Hahahaha
Why Throw Parades?
Fighting back tears here. But they won. I so want to hug that man.
The Venue Is A Sports Bar In Portland, Oregon. It Recently Expanded Into A Franchise With Support From Reddit’s Co-Founder And Even Hosted A Pop-Up Event In Paris
This Is So Pure And Good I Love It
Just Moved In With My Mom
My Niece, Melody
"I'm Not Trying To Be Weird
Bad men are bad. Average men say 'not all men'. Good men know that women have no way to tell which one he is and adjust their behavior accordingly without feeling offended.
My Daughter's Last Day Of High School
We had something similar in secondary school (years 7 - 11) here. At Christmas in Year 7, the teachers put on a silly pantomime / play in the sports hall and got us all involved in silly games like musical chairs, eating three cream crackers in a minute, passing an orange under the chin to the next person, etc.... then in Year 11 they surprised us by taking us out to the sports hall and doing EXACTLY the same thing again, despite many people moaning we were too old for it. I'm pretty sure we all secretly loved it though.
They Gotz All The Flavas
Thats Real Family Right There
This Is How Women Save The World
Send Koozie Picture Imediately
Feeling Under The Weather
Age Regressing To Get Out Of Conscription
That's About Right 😀
Flying Kite
That is sad to think about growing up without ever having flown a kite. :-(
I've Loved Sean Astin Since High School, When I Did A Report On Psych Class About His Mom's Bpd. He's So Precious
I love John Astin and always will. Loved him since I first saw him on "I'm Dickens He's Fenster" back in the day.
You Got Netflix?
Building Inspector
My Husband And I Are Surprising Our 6 Year Old
Lost Keys
This Thread Is Everything Right Now
I am 51 years old and I am working on starting my very first business doing graphic design and 3D printing. You’re never too old.
Field Day
That's so nice of 8th graders! Every merit to schoolmaster and teachers!
Osha-Certified Caterpillar
Notice He Is Content Both With And Without Apple. A Lot To Learn Here
Wanted
I Remember Watching This Show A Lot As A Kid. I Don’t Remember Much About What Happened, But I Remember How It Made Me Feel— Happy And Relaxed
Now That's Some Good Signage!
Fat Little Chickens
Normalize Calling Men Pretty. Normalize Calling Everyone Pretty
Love This
Girly I'm Talking To Is A Baker
Graduation
The Look Of Frustration
Honk
Meet The Chevrotain
Sure, You Can Use Your New Art Set
I Freaking Love How Her Hat Matches Her Skin Tone Eyes And Hair. It's Pleasing To See 🥰
Brushing Teeth
Heart Shaped
This Is Adorable
You Absolutely Have To Become Ok With Not Being Liked
Men Who Are Open About Their Feelings Need To Be Celebrated
Hugs
There Were Two Kids A Year Below Me Who Were Annoying And Somewhat Unkind. I Typically Avoided Interacting With Them Even Though They Hung Out In Many Of The Same Circles As I Did
This Is The First Time I Have Heard The Last Name Cranston Attached To Her. It Has Always Been Taylor Dearden
Jurassic Park
Pretty 🤩
Both
When I Finish The Thesis
my person has really bad anxiety and worries she is a bad mum to her autistic 6 year old i read somewhere that naming it takes its power away so we named her anxiety Frank so whenever she is anxious or is stressing she is a bad mum i say its not true its just Frank it again so f**k off Frank.
Yup. It really works. I've been naming my ailments for twenty years, and it makes life so much more bearable. Hugs to your person, and to you x
Load More Replies...I was so moved by many of these! Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful. THANK YOU!!!!!!
Please help people remember these when they’re whining about BP “stealing content,” and about the type of content, too, because “BP always steals c**p.” 🙄
Load More Replies...my person has really bad anxiety and worries she is a bad mum to her autistic 6 year old i read somewhere that naming it takes its power away so we named her anxiety Frank so whenever she is anxious or is stressing she is a bad mum i say its not true its just Frank it again so f**k off Frank.
Yup. It really works. I've been naming my ailments for twenty years, and it makes life so much more bearable. Hugs to your person, and to you x
Load More Replies...I was so moved by many of these! Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful. THANK YOU!!!!!!
Please help people remember these when they’re whining about BP “stealing content,” and about the type of content, too, because “BP always steals c**p.” 🙄
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