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Long gone are the days when you have to go to reunions to learn what your former classmates are up to. All you need now is social media. Just log into Facebook, Instagram, or some other platform they're on and stalk away. Many share so much of their personal lives that it makes it quite easy.

So when Reddit user Desperate_Bluejay330 asked people "What happened to the smartest kid at your high school?", the replies immediately started pouring in, reminding us that you never really know what the future holds.

Continue scrolling to check out some of the most interesting stories, and don't miss the talk we had about looking back at your past with licensed clinical psychologist, Michael Stein, Psy.D.

#1

He does some kind of morbidity projections for a hospital in a major city in Europe. The reason I know this is because in April or May of 2020, he posted on Facebook asking someone to call him because he was afraid he was going to hurt himself. I literally hadn’t talked to this guy since probably 5th grade (we went to the same elementary school and then different middle schools. When we got to high school, he had skipped two grades. We weren’t really friends in high school). It was 9 or 10 at night where I live so probably about 4 am where he lived. It was late, and I was worried nobody would see his post. I couldn’t have lived with myself if he had done something and I hadn’t called. So I called him using Facebook messenger. He was drunk and thinking about jumping off his balcony. His whole job was predicting covid deaths, and the numbers he was coming up with were terrifyingly high (and accurate), but nobody was listening to him. We talked for a long time. We both cried some. It was the weirdest thing - I literally talked him off a ledge. He didn’t jump, and now he seems to be doing great. He quit drinking, got back into running, and got through the pandemic. I think of him often, which is weird considering we were never really what you’d call friends.

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Shane
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But a friend is exactly what you are.

Ahimsa Soul
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It must have been so overwhelming for him! I'm so glad you called him and listened when ne needed the most. And he is smart, he did ask for help when he needed.

DKS 001
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it doesn't matter how long ago you knew someone, or if you were friends or not. It matters that you step in when they need someone the most. You did that. Thank you.

Ivy la Sangrienta
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're a good person, is what you are.

Jordi Sharpe
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3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bless your heart. You did a wonderful thing.

Shannon Donnelly
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are amazing!! I can only imagine how grateful he was that you picked up the phone!! The world needs more people like you!! ((((Hugs))))

Seedy Vine
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad you called! Alcohol is so dangerous. Quit myself recently.

Peta Warren
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't need to see each other or talk regularly to be a friend, you proved yourself as a trusted friend in a time of deep need. Covid has taken a terrible toll and we need to continue to support others in the aftermath.

Gabriela
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know OP won’t see this comment, but I’m so glad he saw that message when he did. He was a genuine kind human to another one in much need. I’m glad both are still in this world.

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Stein, who runs a team of therapists in Colorado called Anxiety Solutions of Denver, thinks the main motivation that drives us to check up on our past acquaintances is simply comparison.

"People love to compare their own accomplishments to those of others, for better or worse," he told Bored Panda. "That's not necessarily a healthy thing, but it's something a lot of people feel compelled to do. It can feel good to know that your career or relationship status compares favorably to others, but of course that can run the other way as well; it can hurt to see that you have not progressed in life as much as your peers."

"I think the other biggest reason though is just curiosity. People have their set impressions of what their classmates were like in high school and they're curious to know if those classmates turned out how they thought they would. And then a final reason I would say is gossip! People love talking about people, and it can be entertaining to share what you found out, especially if you find something funny about a former acquaintance," Stein explained.

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    #2

    He became an astronaut, a doctor, AND a Navy seal. And was even nice in high school. Disgusting.

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    David H
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And still his parent's are disappointed in him for underachieving /s

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    OmBoyGanesh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He’s kinda famous and has even been posted here on BP a few times.

    Polargiraffe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I follow him on Instagram. He's awesome

    Mark Bayliss
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people eh!! Just greedy! ;-)

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not expecting an high achiever to be 'nice' can cause green eyed jealousy - observed it in High Sch

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dont know how to vote with the ending , Disgusting. sarcasm or irony?

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    #3

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) I married her

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    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly you were pretty smart as well. My friend used to always say the smartest thing he ever said was, “I do.”

    Pandaroo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats lovely. Im happy for you.

    Joy van der Linden
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This tells me exactly nothing about her and is more about him TBH

    Joy van der Linden
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That does not tell me a single thing about who she became and is more about him TBH

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    The psychologist believes that high school can be a precursor for someone's adult life, but that's not always the case.

    "By high school, you are likely to have a pretty good idea of a person's academic achievement, and high academic achievement in high school tends to lead to high academic achievement after it, but in terms of a person's personality, that is definitely not set in stone by high school. Personality tends to solidify in our mid-20s, so there is a lot of room for people to change from who they were in high school."

    #4

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) I graduated in a class of 18 people (Edit). I was co-Valedictorian. Thanks to social media and my mother sending me the local paper for years, I can tell you what happened to all of them: Two are dead. Three are in jail, including my co-Valedictorian (child molestation). Three work in healthcare (RNs and radiologists, etc). One is a FEMA inspector (she’s in Kissimmee right now). Two work for the Cherokee Nation. One is a roofer. One has been fired as a jail guard (violence toward inmates) and kicked out of a church as pastor for embezzlement. One is a high school basketball coach. One is an openly gay cop in Austin, which I find fascinating considering where we came from. Two are meth heads who dropped off the map. And I got college scholarships, left my shitty town for an English degree and the promise of the Great American Novel. Instead I became a college advisor, married a college professor, had a great kid later in life, and then semi-retired last year to be the single cook at my son’s small private school. Today I made Sour Cream Chicken Enchiladas with a roasted tomatillo sauce from scratch. Truly living my best life. #Classof88

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    JoyfulZebra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's um... quite a high school. Happy for OP though.

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This kind of sounds like a tongue-in-cheek post of patting himself on the back a little bit in comparison.

    Mulberry Juice
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this guy deserves to pat himself on the back. That enchilada sounds delish!!

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    witchling
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I graduated in 88 too. Bout 700 in my class. I don't know what they're up to nor do I want to!!!

    kaycee14
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    May I please have the recipe for Sour Cream Enchiladas with roasted tomatillo sauce? 🙏

    Bobby
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are private school lunches really this much better?

    Kevin Felton
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing to do with the post, but where the hell did they find the cuffs to do that picture, a museum? Those are some Wyatt Earp cuffs right there.

    OmBoyGanesh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the aweosme thing about attending a small school. Of the 14 in my graduating class, I’ve no idea what happened to 3, am extremely close friends with 4 and have been in contact with the remaining 6 via Facebook/Instagram. One’s a stay at home mom, one is an actress/director with at least one Oscar, one is in prison for DV/rape/murder, then there’s an oncologist, fish researcher (?), an environmental engineer and a mixed media artist.

    NotTodaySatan!!
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think we may have attended the same school!

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    #5

    Valedictorian with perfect SAT. Kind, approachable and funny. Everyone assumed he would want to go into law or become a doctor. Instead learned traditional dance and joined a well respected dance troupe performing at cultural events and weddings. Was honored to have them perform at my wedding. Still an amazing human as far as I know.

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    Frank Hassler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smart enough to know what made him happy.

    Rigor Moreno
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is never predictable indeed...

    Suzi Q
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for him for following his heart.

    Some predictions, however, are possible. For example, when researchers from the University of Virginia looked at a community sample of 169 adolescents over 10 years (from the time they were age 15 to when they were 25), they found that teen friendships (or the lack of them) may directly impact their long-term mental and emotional health.

    "High school students with higher-quality best friendships tended to improve in several aspects of mental health over time, while teens who were popular among their peers during high school may be more prone to social anxiety later in life," said Rachel K. Narr, a Ph.D. candidate in clinical psychology, who led the study.

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    #6

    She graduated from college, got married, had 5 kids, and homeschools now. She and her husband lived way below their means, saved every penny, invested in trailer parks, and retired early. She goes on cruises twice a year and makes a mean homebrew in her basement. She is me. Thanks for asking!

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    Ahimsa Soul
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You sound genuinely happy! Good for you!

    Ben
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How humble you are.

    An Unpopular Opinion.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are sarcastically calling her humble but you know what- It is okay to be proud of yourself. Let her be

    Dre Mosley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for her. I don’t think she’s being arrogant or putting herself on a pedestal. It’s okay to speak highly of oneself. It shouldn’t be taboo.

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha. I am my own smartest school mate too.

    Florence O'Grady
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You did what we all should do, THINK. You and your husband thought and planned. You invested wisely and so have a cushion to help with extra expenses that pop up in life. You homeschool/rd your children which will bless them as adults and siblings. Congratulations on following your longings and listening to each other.

    RezFidel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    cruiseshits? Bah.... https://foe.org/blog/cruise-ships-environmental-impact/

    An Unpopular Opinion.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah... not like everyone is going to stop going on cruises suddenly though, that's a fact.

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    Jordan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Way to put yourself on a pedestal

    Amber.exe (She/They)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was like oh wow you know a lot about her did you marry her I didn't realize you were her.

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    #7

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He took 6 years to finish college and graduated with a chemical dependency problem that took another 6 years to get over. He has a low key job now and is reliable, if unremarkable. Some would say he never realized his potential, but he's content and doesn't really care what people say.

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    Lama
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only potential that really matters, is your potential to be a good, happy human. If you are, congratulations, potential realized :) Don't let anyone put you on a path, just because you are able to walk it.

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when people throw an addict’s “lost potential” in their face. Glad he is clean now.

    Suzi Q
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I see many people thrive after addiction recovery.

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    DKS 001
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if he is happy where he is, that is what matters

    Suzi Q
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The addiction could have resulted from being pushed to live a certain way, to have a certain career, to be someone he's not. I hope he's living his best life.

    John
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reaching "potential" is just people projecting their own insecurity of their own potential lost.

    Olivia Aspen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They saw the point in not living up to other's expectations of them.

    Judy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, but this poster sounds like a real jerk

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    Interestingly, neither having a strong best friendship nor being more popular predicted short-term changes in mental health; these differences only became apparent later and they appeared regardless of the youth's experiences in the interim.

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    "Our study affirms that forming strong close friendships is likely one of the most critical pieces of the teenage social experience," Joseph Allen, Hugh P. Kelly Professor of Psychology at the University of Virginia, who co-authored the study, added. "Being well-liked by a large group of people cannot take the place of forging deep, supportive friendships. And these experiences stay with us, over and above what happens later. As technology makes it increasingly easy to build a social network of superficial friends, focusing time and attention on cultivating close connections with a few individuals should be a priority."

    #8

    Four years after high school graduation, he was driving back to Yale from spring break, weeks from graduating with highest honors, and then starting a Rhodes scholarship, when his car was hit head-on by a truck. He was killed instantly. We all believed he would be the first African American president of the U.S.

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    Chancey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's true. His name was Roosevelt Thompson and it happened in 1984.

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    #9

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He was actually quite overweight. When he left for college, he was studying physics. Couple of years later, I learned that he lost 175 pounds, became super into fitness, dropped out of college and became a gym trainer.

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    Ahimsa Soul
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taking care of your health and doing what you love is a smart move! Good for him!

    Pandaroo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Health is always the most important

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is an achievement right up there with studying Physics.

    Eithne Griffiths
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Average student ,average looking,average all round.Became a star player for Everton F.C.

    Berdarien Brown
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Scientists and people who love science become the best personal fitness coaches. Good for him.

    Our former classmates aren't the only people from our past we like to keep tabs on. How many times have you "accidentally" looked up your ex?

    "These are obviously people that you've had a strong emotional attachment to and the obvious question people want the answer to is whether they found someone new," Dr. Stein said.

    "Again, it's that comparison thing: for better or worse, people want to know if past relationship partners have moved on to someone else, what that person is like, and in general see how they are doing in life. I don't think there are many people who haven't looked up past partners online!"

    Quick, someone ask Redditors about this topic!

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    #10

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Not my class, like 15 years after I graduated. I visited my hs to see an old teacher who was retiring. While talking to the principle he tells me about this student who was legit one of the most brilliant students the school had had in decades. He wanted to be a chef. (I am one). Cut to the graduation and he is due to give his speech. The one they approved was totally dropped. He gave a scathing tirade against all the teachers for not supporting him and kept pushing him to not follow his dreams and to just go to regular college. I heard it was brutal. (Kid had a scholarship to several top culinary programs already, his family owned a successful restaurant). He is a happy chef. His family doesn’t support the school anymore. My years smart folks are all married and grandparents by now.

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    Jay TheSaltLord
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somehow doubt that the reddit poster is going to see your correction of their spelling here.

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    Suzi Q
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for that chef. He had a passion and it should've been supported. It sounds like his family and culinary schools appreciated him.

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    #11

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Became a doctor, decided it wasnt for her and went to law school. Is currently a barrister as far as I know.

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    Anon822209
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And all I can think is how did she pay for all of that school? Not in a critical way, but in an envious way. I still haven't paid back my loans from my BA 10 years after I got it.

    Pandaroo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Giving up money for what she likes to do

    HardieBoysMama
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lawyers make good money. A barrister is a type of lawyer.

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    CatchTheWind
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lots of wasted education there.

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    #12

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He had a offer to work on a nuclear submarine I s**t you not. But he failed the drug test. The last person he smoked with. Me. I felt horrible.

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    Chris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi choice not yours! No need to feel bad…

    PeachPossum
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He could have chosen not to smoke, even chosen not to be around you when you smoked. Instead, he chose to smoke with the writer. That was his mistake, not writer's. A friend and her family lived in a duplex. My friend's older son slept in the basement to have his own space, letting his younger brother have the spare bedroom on the top floor to himself. Their duplex neighbor smoked weed in his basement at night. The odor would wake up my friend's son. Their son had plans to join the military after high school. For more than a month before he was due his mandatory drug test, he moved back upstairs with his younger brother because he didn't want even a trace of that stuff in his system. He passed his tests and went on for a three-year tour of duty in the army.

    Seabeast
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it was THC, that stays in the body a long time. So it probably wasn't a one-off.

    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you force him to smoke? No? His own damn fault then.

    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a blessing in disguise. Being on a submarine seems like it would be terrible.

    Nolgoth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a former submariner i can say it is def not for everyone. Loved my job but most people in the military suck so i wasnt a fan of a lot of the people i served with.

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    Whitefox
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've known people who smoke. That is their choice, I wont begrudge them that, but it's not for me. Your friend had a choice and he made it. Honestly, if he had a history of smoking being the last he smoked with wouldn't make much of a difference in a drug test.

    Kat Min
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And their loss for not taking brilliant people because they smoked a joint before they are offered a job.

    Christian Maas
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's no reason to exclude anybody for cannabis use. Alcohol is far more harmful and legal. They need to start excluding people for alcohol use.

    Squiddles
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, he didn't get to become a shill and kill people...I think the puff puff was worth it in the long run.

    Bored_Panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand the 2nd half of the first sentence. May someone please explain?

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    #13

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) My best friend was arguably the smartest kid in my school, or one of the smartest. Had a lot of inner demons, passed away young because of those inner demons.

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    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smart doesn’t always equal emotionally/psychologically sound. Too many instances out there of people being baffled that smart kids don’t always have everything going for them. “He was so smart, he should have known better than to try drugs.” Umm, different elements at play there.

    Thomas Alskit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with that statement, and it really is quite sad. Just because they're smart doesn't mean that they are immune to depression, or anxiety, or even just basic things like neglect or unkindness. People seem to see them as less human than the rest, which just isn't true.

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    Paul Brown
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My step-son was one the smartest kids i ever seen, he could've literally been anything he wanted to be. Instead he's a heroin addict with one od and several car wrecks to his name. Sad.

    Monosyllabic girl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was in the advanced classes from 1st grade on, skipped 3rd grade. Started taking college courses in the summer in between years of high school. Being book smart doesn't help you relieve the boredom from being smart or the pressure to succeed. At 16 i started smoking pot and drinking, 17 using lsd. 18, pain pills as they melt all the worries away. At 20 graduated to heroin as the pills got harder to obtain. I've been clean for 8 years now and i try to give advice to people who i see are going down my path. We can't change the past but we can change the future and don't deserve to be judged for the people we were. Not getting emotional support from loved ones is what is "sad."

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    Sparkle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of the smartest people are also the most depressed. I'm so sorry.

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    #14

    He dropped out if uni and became a bartender. Made fun of me and bullied me because i was failing at math and science in hs. Now I have an engineering degree and last I saw him, he was still living with his parents.

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    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karma, but make sure not to use the failures of others to validate yourself.

    soakingwetbread
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thats exactly what started “not like other girls” other women’s success does not determine your own.

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    Doug the Special one
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gosh golly gee willikers aren't we allowed to make ourselves feel good by demeaning others?

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus, they don’t know what kind of home life or issues this bully might have had going on. Not that bullying is justifiable, but there could be reasons that guy ended up living with his parents and working at a bar that others had no idea about.

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    Julia Wolfe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The idea that it’s a failure to live with your parents needs to die.

    BeaBea
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plot twist: as bartender he made stacks that he invested wisely. Parents live with him allowing all to save money to invest. In 10 years he'll be able to retire

    Christian Maas
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And today on things that never happened!

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    #15

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He went on to study Business and Chinese and now he's a businessman in China

    KatTheFat , Jhon Jim Report

    Donkey boi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I studied Boredom and Pandas, now I'm a Bored Panda!

    #16

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) I still talk to him. He's a good friend of mine, still. He's an engineer at Google now. I am not.

    Endymian , Pawel Czerwinski Report

    Pandaroo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice. I hope they pay well

    John G
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My office neighbor's wife works at Google. I worked at a company that got bought by Google (Motorola) but it was made clear we didn't work for Google. That part of the company was sold within a year.

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    #17

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) She went to college, got her Master's degree, started medical school, got pregnant and has been a stay at home Mom for 20 years.

    YouGuysKilledIt , Tanaphong Toochinda Report

    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she's happy and in a good situation then that's all that matters I suppose

    Kat Min
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the 'good situation' includes her having financial means independent of a husband who may or may not leave her, then, yes. If she doesn't, it's quite a gamble.

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    Khara Mei
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that is what she wants to do, there is nothing wrong with that, as long as she is happy :)

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if they are trying to imply something about her not using her education? Maybe I am hypersensitive because I have a friend who is a stay at home mom with a Master’s degree whose mother always tells her “You could be running a hospital right now instead of changing diapers!”

    David H
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there was an article a while back about a woman who graduated summa cum laude from a top university who did 1 year of med school, dropped out to find herself, became a SAMH in a religious community, had several kids, and at 33 decided to go back to med school, graduated valedictorian of her med school class and while in Med School had 2 more kids. She and her husband made it work. She said she was unhappy in her early 20's, found religion, was very happy, but decided once she discovered herself and found her balance in life, to go back and do her dream, and now she is a doctor in Florida in her residency. People need to make what they feel is best for their lives, and not let others tell them otherwise

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    Gozer LeGozerian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What an insult to all professions that actually pay and are essential to the world functioning

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    LuckyL
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And now she's raising really smart kids!

    Vera Diblikova
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is very good for children to have educated full-time mom.

    BeaBea
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not me thinking she opened a medical school, LMAO

    Gozer LeGozerian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why waste your time taking a master's just to stay at home. What a waste of potential.

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    #18

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) I was friends with the guy who had the 2nd highest GPA in our class. He created a business renting out and managing office equipment. I lost touch with him, but I just Google his business. It's still open, and he's still the owner, after 15-20 years. Glassdoor says it's worth 5 to 25 million USD.

    YeePepper , Peter van Eijk Report

    Pheebs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t trust the GPAs from my high school as being indicators of smart. A lot of kids worked the system to bloat their GPAs taking easier classes. The top 50 kids basically skated through. I will say the valedictorian was pretty smart, but I didn’t really see her as “doctor” smart. Super nice, though. Hope she’s done well.

    Nikki Angulo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    5 to 25? That’s a big gap, which one is it?

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    #19

    I was the smartest in my school, I am now in university and have become the depressed average student with no skills or social life.

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    Ahimsa Soul
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey! You're young and smart. Skills can be acquired so there's hope!

    OnAFreakingRollercoaster
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yo. I can totally relate. Got married, had kids, am a SAHM and suffer from massive depression. I was the A++ student, could accomplish anything I put my mind to and now ... 🤷🏼‍♀️ Not only is life a b*tch, it has puppies 😏

    gie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happened to one of my classmates. Highschool is a little pond where being exceptionally smart or talented does stand out. In uni, the sea is full of peers who were most likely just as exceptional and talented as you if not better. It can be a lot of first year students who weren't prepared emotionally or managed expectations what happens if you end up becoming one of the average students versus the top of class that they were used to in high school. That's why I think some average students in high school manage well after graduation because they understood and accepted their lot and know there's other options for themselves including going up.

    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It definitely was a struggle for me. I never needed to study or be disciplined through school,

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    Clarisse
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have become a 30+ depressed minimum wage worker, so I guess same here

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depressed because average or average because depressed I wonder.

    BG
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a school full of valedictorians, average is GREAT.

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dont say that. Join groups until you find your satisfaction and happiness

    Tammy Leung
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Btw, the smartest kid in medical school did not become a doctor. He switched before finishing medical school and became a neurobiologist. I am sure he saved way more people by doing research.

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    #20

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Went to West Point. Knocked up his girlfriend his junior year, so automatically disqualified from attending (you couldn't have dependents and attend a military academy at the time, not sure if that is still true). Married the girl, got divorced a couple of years later. Enlisted in the Army to fulfill his service obligation, finally became an officer in his early 30s and is now flying blackhawks. Got remarried and has two kids with the new wife. Seems genuinely happy.

    bagboysa , U.S. Department of Defense Report

    Susie Elle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some paths are straight, others have a few curves.

    Sleepy children love Moon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no one's paths are straight. they are all curved and/or super squiggly lines

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    #21

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) The one older than me went to MIT and then Stanford. He’s doing something tech related in Silicon Valley or something like that. The one younger than me (and I never knew he was this smart) wound up at Harvard Medical and then was a Fulbright Scholar. He’s a doctor in New England somewhere and his wife is also a Harvard doctor.

    Thirty_Helens_Agree , Johny Georgiadis Report

    Vanja Timmers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just wondering if a "Harvard doctor" has better skills than a not Harvard doctor. In my country we would never mention the name of the University as it is not relevant (same qualifications). But as I often see similar references I just wonder if this is different in the US.

    Tess
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The US college system is all geared toward elitism. Harvard University is considered one of the best, if not the best. This is even more applicable as far as medicine goes. You're competing with every other high school graduate in the country for the few places available. You pretty much have to have been the best in every way your entire schooling life, or close to it and come from the right lineage, or both. Getting in is almost impossible. Being able to pay for tuition is also almost impossible. Then you have to complete with every other student in your class, because that's more or less all you've ever known how to do. If you manage to make it through to graduation, you're already pretty much conditioned to use the name Harvard as a prefix. This is my take as someone from Australia who didn't want to go to university.

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    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its awesome to have beem amongst such people

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When it rains, it pours. Great being amongst the brightest

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    #22

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Has 6 kids to 5 different fathers & is currently being investigated for massive benefit fraud.

    Legendof1983 , Vitolda Klein Report

    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t appreciate when people add on the “by so many fathers” thing. Not just here, but in general. It just implies something trashy unnecessarily.

    AnkleByter
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I won't downvote you, because downvotes here suck when unnecessary, but, there is something trashy going on in this instance (re: benefits fraud). It is also implied that if one needs benefits, continuing to have children with multiple partners for years on end, is pretty trashy behavior. Even my own sister will tell you her behavior when younger was pretty trashy (which is why her children have 3 different fathers). She learned from it, and is in a better place in life now, making better life choices, which I commend. But she won't deny what she once was, or did, that's just asinine.

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    Tunk
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This always makes me laugh. 'Benefit fraud'. Is that opposed to multi billion dollar companies legally avoiding taxes sort of thing? Long as we keep picking on each other instead of lifting our eyes to the real crimes permitted in society we will always be the underclass.

    Doug the Special one
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    5 male partners who impregnated her does sound trashy.

    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet no one is trashing those five males here…

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    Vera Diblikova
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chaotical, bad decisions, criminal - psychic problems?

    Della
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is messy. It implies instability and poor decisions, if one needs to commit fraud to support 6 children, who deserve constancy and security.

    Rylosalex
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did I read that in a happy yet sarcastic voice?

    TheElderNom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having six children to five different fathers was literally something I said I wanted as a child. But I wanted to be a grocery clerk so I wouldn't have to do math, not being investigated for fraud. Still, it's hard seeing others living your dream :p

    May Au
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    6 kids 5 different fathers? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔. There’s very little way to not look bad.

    Sarah SH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking bad and being shamed are different things. Replace “trashy” with other potential phrases like “having problems,” or “bad choices.”

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    #23

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He went to college and double majored in business and biomechanical engineering at a very good school. Graduated, and is apparently doing research for some big company. Dude is smart as f**k.

    BrilliantWeight , National Cancer Institute Report

    Tess
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And here I am not knowing that biomechanical engineering was even an option.

    #24

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He's a NASA scientist, while I just come on Reddit

    superdupernumnuts , NASA Goddard Space Flight Center Report

    CrunChewy McSandybutt
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's futile to compare yourself to others.

    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet the NASA scientist goes on Reddit too anyways 😝

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    Sarah Monk
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are just as valuable and worthy, there is no ‘just’ in this what you’ve done is ‘just’ as amazing xx well done

    Frank S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are we still doing “phrasing”?

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    #25

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Last I saw our class valedictorian, 40 years ago - when we were about 21, he bragged about he and a couple of friends breaking into a logging company's powder shack to steal the explosives. He was disappointed that they failed to ignite under the bridge they had selected. It is very depressing to know that I'm stupider than him.

    lumberjack_jeff , Nikita Pavlov Report

    JoyfulZebra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He might be more "intelligent" but you are waaaaay more smart

    JP Purves
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not smart or intelligent to blow up a bridge. In this case OP is far the brighter person.

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    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Intelligence and common sense don’t always go hand in hand.

    Pheebs
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see common sense on a bell curve. The smarter or dumber you are, the less you have. I say this as someone who has worked with people on both ends of the bell.

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    Mulberry Juice
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s many different kinds of smart

    JenniB
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Book smart" rarely means "smart" smart...

    Thomas Alskit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forgive me, but as a Brit, I have absolutely no idea what a valedictorian is, save for the fact that they are selected at graduation to perform a speech. Could someone please enlighten me?

    Craig Staley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A valedictorian is the person who had the best grades in the graduating class.

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    Sparkle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If you judge a fish based on its ability to climb a tree, it will spend its entire life believing it's stupid."

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dont be depressed. You assessing his behaviour makes you smarter than him

    Almarako94
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Acing at school doesn't mean you're smart, it means you fit into the system perfectly and are good at remembering stuff, that's all.

    Kantami Blossom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being intelligent doesn't necessarily mean being smart, I passed a mensa test that I did out of boredom/curiosity which should mean I'm intelligent yet I often do things that are considered stupid and I consider myself as being average in intelligence I'm just good at remembering random stuff.

    Tess
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of the dumbest individuals that I have encountered in my life, are apparently considered the smartest on paper.

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    #26

    After graduation at our high school, he did four years of University, I went to his wedding right after University Graduation. She was probably the smartest girl at our high School. Got a job with Lockheed Martin real quick. Nobody has seen him since. I could see him in a top secret government lab inventing anti gravity flight. Whenever I hear about a UFO sighting, I say “ Oh that’s just Bill”

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    Upil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont get it, she or him? Im not a native english, sorry.

    Esme Love and Squalor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am native English speaker and was confused as well.

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    Paulio
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm dumb what's Lockheed Martin

    Daniel Atkins
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Manufacturer of Aircraft for the Military The f16 the f35 the f22 fighter jets and many of the helicopters just ti name a few of their products.

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    Brian Droste
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I had to read this twice to figure this out.

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anti gravity flight already invented.

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    #27

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He lives in the same small village he was living in when we were in school, is married with kids and apparently works in an office in the nearest town. He had aspirations of becoming a surgeon when we were in school, it didn't happen, but it sounds like he's living a good life regardless

    zerbey , Juliane Liebermann Report

    Diphylleia Grayi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only think that should matters to us the most is to find our own paths! I was 15 when I finished highschool. I got very anxious because around two years two teachers kept comparing me and others with the most intelligent of our groups, it haunted me years, in personal experience that kid only lost a gift from my aunt and I did not hate her a a single day, but, the assumptions of teachers that of 100 adolescents only her would be the one that was going to go to the university made me not wanting to even listen her name again, I wish her well always. And then, adulthood crushed me and taught me that my biggest dream is to find in which thing I am good enough because I am below average, and I did not like the job unestability that provides my career, so I started to study programming languages, I suck, but at least if it helps me to fullffil my dream I would be honoured and happy too find my own path in life.

    ThatBiBookLover
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish you all the best in your journey!! <3 hugs 🫂

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    #28

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He was my investment advisor. I wasn’t overly impressed with him but I trusted him. We are all retired now.

    Hamfiter , Scott Graham Report

    #29

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He barely graduated due to giving up on public school, joined the army for one term to get out of his rural improvised town. He struggled for 15+ years to make ends meet and at his mid 40s is finally buying a house and is on track to retire at 55. Being the smartest out of a class of 100 isn't that exceptional.

    Festernd , Specna Arms Report

    PeachPossum
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm... This one makes me think there's more to it than meets the eye. He must be doing something right to be able to retire by age 55, a full decade younger than the average.

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too. Like did something happen while he was in the army?

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    DKS 001
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it is not exceptional. I got D's and C's in high school. 5 years of A's in college. Did not graduate (too much study and not enough fun is not good for the brain). Even interned at NASA. Now I am a custodian. Happier than I've ever been in life, and that's okay.

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Satisfaction and happiness is alright

    BG
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being "smartest" isn't exceptional at all if you don't apply it. Laziness negates intelligence.

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    #30

    She got her Ph.D in Chemistry from Harvard and is now Dean of the Science Department at our local state university, of about 20k students. Went to a high school in a town of about 4,500 people. Still see her occasionally.

    PhillyCSteaky Report

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    #31

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Completely fell off the radar. I assume he's running some sort of nefarious thinktank for a huge tech company or something.

    ckuiper , U.S. Army DEVCOM Report

    Cuppa tea?
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or not on internet at all - no social media. I know many people this, they're not off the radar, just off the digital footprints.

    harpling
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly, that is the most likely outcome and a perfectly logical assumption to make.

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah my mind totally went there after the word nefarious.

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    #32

    The smartest kid: Went to an esteemed Aerospace university but had to move back home due to medical issues. No idea what happened to him there. The valedictorian (smartest on paper): Works as an OBGYN in upstate New York. The most successful: A musical tiktok star with 12 million followers.

    PhreedomPhighter Report

    *Displayname*=idk
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to Google OBGYN is "A branch of medicine that specializes in the care of women during pregnancy and childbirth and in the diagnosis and treatment of diseases of the female reproductive organs" (I didn't know what it stood for)

    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And in wording is Obstetrics and Gynecology

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    MalayDragon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, when did being a TikTok "star" become more successful than a Freaking Medical professional. I know which would be more useful during childbirth and which one would be chosen. Nobody gonna say "No i don't need my OBGYN, get me that Tiktok star gonna make me some content"

    Wendy Lampl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess it all depends on your definition of success. Being a tictok star is not it to me, even less so, a tictok follower.

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    #33

    So the valedictorian is a dentist. The person I believe is the actual smartest person (I think she was 3rd in our class) is getting her PhD in physics of some sort.

    couchmonster2920 Report

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of these aren’t surprising, but definitely good achievements.

    Sidhe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dental school and Vet school are the two hardest professional schools to get into, because there are so few of them compared to law or medical school. So getting into dental school is no joke, and quite the achievement

    #34

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Professor at Cambridge University

    TimothyBenn , Miguel Henriques Report

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    #35

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Male: Got a 4.0 from a top public university, studied Financial Mathematics, became a quantitative Trader Female: Graduated Summa Cum Laude from an Ivy and is now in Medical School

    Desperate_Bluejay330 , National Cancer Institute Report

    Emerald Ocean
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What’s a quantitative trader?

    Temporary Dork
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's someone who thinks up the algorithms that computers use to buy and sell stock.

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    Althea Whyte
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonderful to be amongst the intelligents

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    #36

    Graduated college early, worked with data/stats, quit the job to raise her kids and bake fancy cookies. Seems genuinely happy.

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    #37

    Smartest girl: is enrolled in a special Law program which takes 6+1 years to complete, saw her on the news recently for scoring all of her year's exams cum laude. Smartest boy: dropped off the face of the Earth internet-wise, no activity from his social media whatsoever, so I can't tell you.

    Sinistrail Report

    B.Nelson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually it means getting your undergraduate and graduate degree at the same time in the program. Had a friend that did a 4+1 program where 4 years for undergrad and 1 extra year for masters...but I could be wrong.

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    #38

    One studied medicine and emigrated to Australia. He's a flying doctor now. The other, who did even better at A levels stayed in the small town we went to school in and got a job in a bank. She never went to university as it was against her parents' wishes - despite her lifelong dream of teaching. I have no idea what happened to her, she never got social media, it's like she dropped off the face of the earth.

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    harpling
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure what a flying doctor is, but in my head it's someone performing open-heart surgery in mid-air!

    Timmy Pillinger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rural Australia has a service where doctors fly to their patients.

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    🇳🇬 Asi Bassey 🇳🇬
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder why people equate not being in social media to “dropping off the face of the earth”. I rather think that people who aren’t on social media are healthier mentally.

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    #40

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) He's a scientist (something related to nutrition) and a big fitness Youtuber

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    #41

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Got falsely accused of SA Won the court case after proving he wasn't in the town when the SA supposedly happened Nearly unalived himself Got sent to US where he now is

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    Craig Staley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It means killed. Some websites (like Bored Panda) censor the word "killed" so people use "unalived."

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    #42

    She went to U Miami, became a lawyer, got addicted to cocaine and died of an OD. Doesn’t matter how smart you are.

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    #43

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) She's currently going to medical school at Duke University.

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    #44

    Stanford, dot com millionaire, married the homecoming Queen.

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    #45

    Working for NASA as an aerospace engineer.

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    #46

    Dropped out of med school and is a Kindergarten teacher.

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    #47

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) There were 3 I would argue were the smartest. They were all neck and neck for the valedictorian and salutatorian title. 2 of them I was never really close to so I have no idea what they're doing exactly. One of them moved out half way across the country and had a child and the other was a johovahs witness and there was something about them not being allowed to go to university for what they wanted to do. Other than that I don't know what they're doing. The other was actually a good friend I knew since the 3rd grade but we fell in and out of each other's lives. Life changed directions for them as far as aspirations go. Originally he was part way through a master's program for human kinetics but he realized it wasn't going to pan out as expected so he went into teaching. Now he's married, has a kid and overall happy I believe.

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    Thomas Alskit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The religion of Jehovah's witnesses seems more messed up than ever now.

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    #49

    He went to Oxford Uni. I couldn’t stand the kid, but his life’s going pretty well so fair play to him. He had that arrogance about him, that just made you want to punch him in the face, but he was too scrawny to punch without looking like an a*****e.

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    #50

    One's a Partner for a highly renowned financial firm. The other is either a surgeon, or in his residency to become one.

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    #51

    Planned for med school from the time I met him in 8th grade. Even signed yearbooks "MD2B". Went to med school through the program where the military will pay for a few years service. Somehow, through his Air Force service, started working for National Security. Never became an actual doctor.

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    Nathan Pogorzala
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the U.S. Government provides a pretty solid career, benefits and pensions. Plus, there are over 2 million (non-military) positions.

    #52

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) Knew a guy who was really smart, but also was kind of a s**t bag. He got caught a couple years back producing a ton of Fentanyl at his aunt or grandmas house I think.

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    #53

    I became a lawyer, live alone and feel unfulfilled

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    Ahimsa Soul
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry to hear that. Hope you find something that makes you fullfilled.

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe seeing yourself as the smartest person you know can leave you feeling unfulfilled with your life though. Like “things should be better for me because after all, I am not just smart, I am the very smartest in my class.”

    ThePalm52
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know people who became lawyers. Hated it. You listen to people's problems all day. Get out. They did and became successful and fulfilled at other occupations.

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    #54

    Went and got a doctorate in physics and now works as a logistics corrosive m coordinator for an energy company.

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    #55

    Last I heard he was a well known, very successful attorney in Massachusetts.

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    #56

    Funny, she didn't pass the admition exam for the carreer she wanted in Uni. Three years after she finally got in, she was expelled for cheating.

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    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I almost feel bad. Like she obviously really wanted a certain career, but maybe not good at tests/studying. Some people are smart and dedicated, but struggle at certain skills in education. Cheating can sometimes come from desperation. (Teacher here).

    CJT MSG
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she wasn't so smart after all!

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    #57

    Got a scholarship to Harvard. No idea what happened after she gave her valedictorian speech.

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    3 years ago

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    #58

    People Are Revealing Who Their High School's "Smartest Kid" Turned Out To Be (35 Stories) he had disappeared, and since nobody heard about him

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    #59

    Teaches English in Japan

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    tHeBoRdEsTpAnDa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My secondary school English teacher taught english in japan before coming back to england

    #60

    He now works at my old high school. Teaching Math. He was smart as s**t, but as ambitious as a slug

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    Juririn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...so it's preferable the not smart ones teach math to high schoolers?

    HardieBoysMama
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just looking at high school maths gives me an aneurysm, so good for him. Teaching is incredibly ambitious. It's not just summers and holidays off, it's hard work. And dealing with parents...no thanks.

    Sarah SH
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like becoming a teacher requires no effort or commitment or something?

    Lama
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ambition doesn't necessarily make you happy. I hope he's living a good life!

    Diphylleia Grayi
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Society builds the education. Education builds the society.

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    #61

    Dated me for about 4 years (first mistake). Was Valedictorian. Went to Duke University. Last I heard she dropped out her sophomore year right after we broke up, but I don't know what happened after that. This was nearly 20 years ago. That was the high school I graduated from. The previous high school I went to: Was Valedictorian. Went to Texas A&M. Got kicked out for setting a couch on fire on the quad.

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    Heather Murphy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought it said coach and wondered how that happened.

    BenMaharaj
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read that as coach and became very very concerned

    #62

    Brain surgeon.

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    #63

    Got a scholarship to become a civil servant. Will eventually have a hand in running the country

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    #64

    We had two: one is a music producer getting her PhD to become a professor, the other is Disguised Toast. I am on reddit with a bag of nachos.

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    tHeBoRdEsTpAnDa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disguised Toast is a canadian youtuber btw

    #65

    He was gay and now is a gay priest.

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    #66

    Became a pretty successful lawyer.

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