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Yesterday we posted a compilation of tweets about parenting that either strengthened your resolve to never have kids, or, if you already have them, made you laugh and feel like you’re not alone. If you’re in the latter group, you already know what comes next, and we hope you’re prepared: your kids turn into teenagers.

Maybe it’s not as dramatic as it sounds. As a matter of fact, even if it’s been a while since you were a teenager, you’ll notice that not a lot has changed. Arguing about doing household chores is a time-honored tradition, trust and data privacy remain areas of contention, and parents are still bewildered by their teens’ surly attitudes. While it’s worth mentioning that 15 to 17-year-olds, in a recent study done in the US, reported higher rates of stress and mental health issues than adults, the researchers say teenagers self-awareness in this area makes them more willing to discuss and address its causes, and also noted young people’s attention to social issues.

For generations upon generations, we as humans have been reminding our parents that their sense of humor and cultural literacy are being buried by the passage of time. Parents going through this process now say that they’ve never felt more “boring”, and complain about the quality of their kids’ memes (any teenager who shows their memes to their parents is a brave soul - I’m glad I didn’t show my parents some of the garbage I talked about on forums when I was in high school.)

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    ChristiLukasiak Report

    Olga K
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's pretty important people, teens included, learn about personal boundaries

    Sinkvenice
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she has a literal stroke every time you breathe within a one mile radius of her phone, it might be a good idea to take her to the hospital.

    Chris Jones
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Wish more people understood the meaning of literal!

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    Samantha Pines
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You could always lock your phone, Christi.

    Night Owl
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make a deal with them: if they get to scroll through your phone you also get to scroll through theirs

    Tim Douglass
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stick a couple naked pictures of yourself in your camera roll and I guarantee they will never, ever, touch your phone again!

    María Hermida
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just tell her next time she touches your phone you are going to do exactly the same: check the camera, read the messages, etc. It's called "quid pro quo", and it works miracles.

    Tara
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? And I have had to change my passwords to CIA level encryption, and she still finds a way in. My “favorite” part is the blurry photo of me looking like death that she secretly snaps and makes my wallpaper.

    GenXandEarnedItAll
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope! You should know your child's password and access to it at any time. Sound helecoptery? When some 45 year old man is texting her you want to know BEFORE you're posting on Facebook if anyone knows where she is.

    Jessica
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One word "secrets" they probably assume they know everything about you. But they don't want to get caught with their Snaps of them vaping in the parking lot, sharing dirty jokes with their friends, s**t talking and flirting. That and their phone connects them to all their friends and the world in general.

    m. b
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coz u dont search for sexy lingerie! Make em shut up and down. You own your life!

    Alexis minnix
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once was using my dads iPad and my mom texted him. I was bored and I’m nosy so I went to see what the text was about. Then i scrolled a little and saw a d**k pic my dad sent my mom. I’ve never went through their messages again.

    Colin Leetham
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just start discussing *all* of the amazing tracking apps that are available nowadays...

    Tiny van Pouderoyen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kiss your phone. They'll never touch it again.

    KoalaLa
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 26, love my parents... But weirdly enough, this is still true. Ofcourse, I ask upfront, but they'er always like 'yeah, sure, here's my phone & my pincode, go ahead'. The other way around, noooooo, NEVER.

    Steve Cruz
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kids should not "have their own phone" until they "pay their own bill." My sister keeps the chargers for the phones in her room and the kids hand them in at night. In the morning, the first one finished with chores gets to pick the nicest phone. Interesting how there are no problems with sexting or text messages in the middle of the night.

    Milo Prentice
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thats so cotnrolling, she sounds kinda crazy ngl.

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    Debbie Palmer
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    6 years ago

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    As a parent, you not only have th right to look at/through there phone but a responsibility to. There's just too much out there that can hurt them that they don't know of.

    Helen Haley
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It has actually been shown to be detrimental to invade teenage privacy like that. It is now recommended to educate them about the possible dangers and to leave lines of communication open so they run something iffy past you. Rather than crush their sense of privacy, autonomy and they learn to trust themselves and feel confident.

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    Being a teenager is also a time when you learn the skills that you’ll take with you into adulthood. After all, if you don’t like what your parents are making you for lunch, it’s time to make it yourself, even if it means having to learn what a cabbage is and how to use it.

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    Check out these tweets by parents who rise to the challenge, as frustrated and confused as they may be by the things their teenagers do.

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    Six_Pack_Mom Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister tried to slam the lounge door once when we were young. It had a doorwedge under it though, and after three tugs she stamped to her room and slammed her door twice to compensate

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    functionalrandi Report

    Olga K
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is 35, still does that))))

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    FinallyHeSleeps Report

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing to be alarmed about. He's just asking how much time he has with his girlfriend. Together. In his bedroom.

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    Divergentmama Report

    Night Owl
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Psychosomatic illnesses are a thing, you know

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    sarcasticmommy4 Report

    Foxxy’s #1 fan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter wakes herself up and gets ready whilst I still sleep. She is old enough to sort herself out and take responsibility.

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    Six_Pack_Mom Report

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    jjhartinger Report

    Loki
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm the youngest (14) and I snuck out to go see senses fail and i met them afterwards and they offered to text my parents that im okay and nothing bad happened to me

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    MinistryOfMum Report

    Chris Jones
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, text. Common that they prefer to text.

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    sarcasticmommy4 Report

    Bill
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a teen I only ate one meal a day. From the time I woke up till I went to bed.

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    thebabylady7 Report

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    sara_ashlynn Report

    Chris Jones
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All parents should just do that. If they want to live in a pit, let them. Pay professionals to clean it when they leave home.

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    simoncholland Report

    Anne
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a hill to die on, they cold, they cold.

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    sarcasticmommy4 Report

    Vicky Zar
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get these situations. Just don't allow to eat in the bedrooms. I never did that and neither will my kids be allowed. Meals are family time.

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    RodLacroix Report

    Foxxy’s #1 fan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am 33 years old and I have never heard the hashtag symbol also being called pound sign.

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    IjeomaOluo Report

    Tara
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine always wants a specific reaction too. Do I laugh? Stay neutral? Roll my eyes? It’s never an easy answer.

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    CarolineHirons Report

    Olga K
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry for saying that because giving birth to a baby is a damn hard job but it's not like our kids actually asked us to do that, it was our decision to have babies, wasn't it?

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    DannyZuker Report

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    AndyRichter Report

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    WendiAarons Report

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    BigMama Report

    GenXandEarnedItAll
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If I didn't love you, I wouldn't care," is my stock answer.

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    ksujulie Report

    Lucas
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister went through puberty at the same time as my mother went through the menopause. It was truly horrible. Not sure I've forgiven either of them yet.

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    Parkerlawyer Report

    Rachel Neye
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Child is blind to the treasure in front of him

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    Parkerlawyer Report

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    YEGlifer Report

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    steveolivas Report

    Loki
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, the bands could mean a lot to her, my parents got into a lot of the bands i like

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    antiheroine Report

    Foxxy’s #1 fan
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Simple, don’t argue with them and if they get cold it’s their own fault. I may ask my daughter to grab a jacket or jumper but if she refuses I tell her don’t whinge to me if your cold. And if she whinges I tell her I don’t want to hear it, I warned you so shut it. And that’s the end.

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    NatashaVianna Report

    Zenozenobee
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe teens are cats. Or at least like my cat "look my soft belly, come and rub it" and after 30 seconds "hissss, what do you think you're doing rubing my belly".

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    HousewifeOfHell Report

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    Cheeseboy22 Report

    María Hermida
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Solution: don't wash anything that's not placed inside the laundry basket. When he runs out of clean underwear/tshirts/trousers he'll start to be careful. You are not your son's slave.

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    sarcasticmommy4 Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hold on to the handle, lol when I learned to drive I called it the Jesus handle as my dad would grab it several times per minute to exclaim that "prayer". Our family calls it the Jesus handle to this day ^-^

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    MommaUnfiltered Report

    Batty
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, what an a*****e. I don't care if they're "just a kid," they should know better than to be so deliberately rude.

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    EricaWhoToYou Report

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    Parkerlawyer Report

    Gary
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep....Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn.

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