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What's the most transphobic thing someone's said to you or a friend, and how did you react/what was your comeback?
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#1
One of my best friends is trans, and his school friends act like nothing's changed, and refer to her as him. I just give "the look," and refer to her in a correct way. One of them even said that "something's wrong" with the way she is, and I just told him to have some respect for people's decisions in life since they're not in the position to judge what's wrong or not.
Final score:
7points
Sista of the moon 4 years ago
Well, my friend came out to me as gender fluid a while ago but my friends still have to correct me if i say “she” or “her”. I’m trying hard, but its really really hard. I’m still not used to it. This was like year ago too. I’m just so used to *them being she!!
TransBean 2 years ago
That's okay <3 sometimes I misgender my ZaXe, just keep trying and do your best xx
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depressePANcake 4 years ago
It seems you are having a hard time adjusting to the new pronouns. You state his and him. I know it’s hard, I’m working on my friend anew pronouns right now. Best of luck!
Evil Bitch 4 years ago
I am trans. I was dressed in my typical all girls clothes with makeup and nails to do some shopping at Target. A woman came up to me out of the customer service line and said in a voice loud enough to make everybody notice,"You'll never be a REAL woman!" I looked at her, put my hand on my hip and cocked it sideways and said, "You are mistaken. What is true however is that you will never make size 6 skinny jeans look as good as I do." The other people waiting in line applauded while she did her best fish impersonation. I left her to do my shopping.
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#2
One time me and my friend wanted to play 4-square with the other kids, so we got in line. One boy said that I could play but my friend couldn't because they were "weird since they were trans."
Final score:
7points
#3
I put my pronouns (they/them) in my Kahoot name, and this kid had the audacity to pretend to put his pronouns down too but instead he wrote nor/mal and i- anyways I then proceeded to absolutely crush him at both kahoots because I'm fueled by the hate and confusion of transphobes.
Final score:
6points
Sista of the moon 4 years ago
When you come in 1st in Kahoot but the teacher says “you’re all winners”
#4
I was at lunch with my old best friend and we were on the topic of LGBTQ+, and I was talking about non-binary people and gender-fluid people, and he stopped me. I said, "what?" "There are only TWO genders." God, I'm so glad we're not friends anymore, I just realized how transphobic, homophobic and misogynistic he is.
Final score:
5points
#5
I am really sad to say i have made transphobic comments to one of my old friends, When she first came out to me as trans (She was born a male) I was kinda shocked and just said i didn't believe her, now i feel really terrible for treating her like that when she told me. My parents don't support LGBTQ and so i live in a place where lesbians are "disgusting" and its "Not natural" to be anything other than straight, and at that time i didn't realize i was bi yet, so yea thats my transphobic comment story :/
Final score:
5points
#6
This boy on a bus said that they're the father of my brother's child, so my brother said this(btw he's not gay),"I felt that gayness, daddy," then winked. The boy was shocked.
Final score:
4points
#7
me and my cousin were talking about trans people and she said "thats weird you shouldn't be able to do that" and I didnt know what she meant so i said "what" AND SHE LOOKED AT ME AND SAID: "yea thats not 'natural'." o_O best believe i dont talk to her much anymore. plus shes anti-mask
Final score:
4points
#8
My dad misgendering a trans girl in a tv show multiple times then calling her dumb because “he is a boy pretending to be a girl” and “people who want to do that do it either for attention or “because it’s just a phase”
Final score:
3points
#9
Omg I’m trans (or I consider myself trans) bc I went from female to demiboy and my friend told her grandmother and she said “born a girl, always a girl”
Final score:
3points
#10
“What are you Transgender?”
Final score:
3points
Stack o' Pancakes 4 years ago
I like to say "What are you f****n straight?" because LGBTQ people are just devasted by it
What do you think ?
Bi Kirby 4 years ago
I remember posting something like this. I was walking past a boy and a girl talking. They were talking about sexuality. The boy said something like " Bisexual people aren't real. Even if they were, they'd be cheating on the genders am I right? " expecting the girl to agree with him. She slapped him and left. You go girl!
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
Whoops looks like I'm late. I'll just post down here. I told my friend I was questioning my gender identity and she proceeded to tell me that girls have a chest and a period and boys don't have a chest and have something else down there. She said "be a boy who dresses in girl clothes. Be a girl who dresses in boy clothes. I could care less. But if youre a girl who says you're a boy, or a boy who says youre a girl, you're not. You were put in your body by God, and he wants you to stay what he made you." I identified as cis for a little bit after that. But now I'm experimenting with different pronouns
Bi Kirby 4 years ago
I remember posting something like this. I was walking past a boy and a girl talking. They were talking about sexuality. The boy said something like " Bisexual people aren't real. Even if they were, they'd be cheating on the genders am I right? " expecting the girl to agree with him. She slapped him and left. You go girl!
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
Whoops looks like I'm late. I'll just post down here. I told my friend I was questioning my gender identity and she proceeded to tell me that girls have a chest and a period and boys don't have a chest and have something else down there. She said "be a boy who dresses in girl clothes. Be a girl who dresses in boy clothes. I could care less. But if youre a girl who says you're a boy, or a boy who says youre a girl, you're not. You were put in your body by God, and he wants you to stay what he made you." I identified as cis for a little bit after that. But now I'm experimenting with different pronouns
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