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Expectant Mom Crushed When Hubby Gifts Her Nursery Stroller To Sis, Insisting Fam Comes First
Pregnant mom-to-be looking distressed while talking on phone, upset about her dream stroller being given away.

Expectant Mom Crushed When Hubby Gifts Her Nursery Stroller To Sis, Insisting Fam Comes First

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Pregnancy is often a time of anticipation, preparation, and deep emotional connection. For many expectant parents, the nursery becomes more than just a room, it is a tangible expression of love, care, and hope for the future. Every item, from the crib to the stroller, carries meaning and represents the effort and thought invested in welcoming a new life.

So what happens when that carefully created space is disrupted without consent? For today’s Original Poster (OP), her dream stroller which was gifted by her parents after months of saving, was taken by her husband and given to his sister without her knowledge. However, she didn’t his reaction when she called him out on it.

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    This is going to look a lot like opening the fridge after a long, hot day, reaching for that cold drink you’ve been craving, and discovering your sibling drank it without a thought

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    The author received her dream stroller, a gift her parents had saved for months, and kept it set up in the nursery because it made her so happy

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    Her husband’s sister, who is newly pregnant and struggling financially, visited and expressed that she couldn’t afford baby items

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    Without asking, her husband packed up the stroller and gave it to his sister, claiming she needed it more and that they could get another one later

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    The author was devastated, confronted her husband, and demanded the stroller back, while his family criticized her for “overreacting” to what they called a piece of plastic

    At seven months pregnant, the OP was already deep into nesting mode. Her parents, who don’t have much money, spent months saving to buy her the stroller she’d always dreamed of. In fact, when they brought it over, she cried and kept it set up in the nursery just to look at it. One day, she walked into the nursery one and saw that the stroller was completely gone.

    Thinking that someone had broken into the house, she panicked and called her husband, explaining that nothing was stolen, but that he’d rather given it to his older sister. For context, her husband’s sister was eight weeks pregnant and had apparently come over crying about money, so he packed up the stroller and handed it over as a gesture of support.

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    When she asked him why he would do that without checking with her first, he argued that they still had a few months before their baby arrived, and that her parents could “just buy another one”. He also added that alternatively, they could settle for something cheaper themselves.

    This left the OP livid and told him he had effectively stolen from both her and her parents. She then insisted that bring the stroller back within 24 hours or she would change the locks, to which he responded by calling her a spoiled brat. Now his mother has joined the fray, accusing her of “severely stressing out” a newly pregnant woman over “a piece of plastic”.

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    Preparing a nursery is more than just arranging furniture or picking colors, it’s a deeply emotional experience for expectant parents. According to Reality Pathing, setting up a nursery allows mothers to connect with their unborn child, channel their natural nesting instincts, and create a sense of control and excitement.

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    However, emotional attachments to personal items extend beyond nursery décor. Mindful Spark emphasizes that dismissing a partner’s feelings about their belongings can seriously damage a relationship. When these attachments are ignored, trust and emotional safety erode, prompting withdrawal, resentment, and heightened conflict.

    Healthy relationships thrive on communication and shared decision-making. As Dinks Finance points out, couples who collaborate on important choices build mutual respect, reduce resentment, and strengthen intimacy. Viewing marriage as a partnership ensures that both partners feel heard, prevents power imbalances, and turns potential conflicts into opportunities for growth.

    Netizens emphasized that the stroller is far more than just “a piece of plastic” and criticized the OP’s husband and his entitlement, as well as his family for overstepping boundaries. What do you think about this situation? Do you think the husband was justified, or was this a major boundary violation? We would love to know your thoughts!

    Netizens supports the author’s right to reclaim her gift while warning that ignoring the breach could have long-term relational consequences

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    Trillian
    Community Member
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go get the stroller back and leave the husband there.

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like "newly pregnant" sister should get an abortion or consider adoption, since she's obviously not up to parenting. If he was my husband, I'd tell him to get comfortable at his mom's, because he will never be welcomed back to my home. That I sure hope his little escapade was worth losing his marriage and not being there to witness the birth of his child, because from here on out, I will be telling him absolute nothing about my pregnancy or when I go into labor. That I will let him know well after the fact that the baby was born and that I will make no allowances for his family to visit the baby for at least the first three months. That my parents will be the only grandparents to actually see the baby for as long as I can manage it. That I will do everything in my power to keep my child away from his rancid low character family. Then I'd call a lawyer and do everything I could to have full physical custody.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    2 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the way you think, Kate! (But you’re out of your mind for making that first suggestion; brace yourself for the reply that’s coming from someone who wildly disagrees with you! 😉) Given that these are people who believe someone in the first eight weeks of pregnancy NEEDS a stroller more than someone who’s close to GIVING BIRTH, I’m worried about the IQ of OP’s new baby because she BRED with one of ‘em! OP’s husband saw her cry with happiness upon receiving it, listened to her worry about her folks who had to take EXTRA WORK to be able to get it for her, and has watched her CONTINUE to cry happy tears over it, and after all that, HE decides his still-barely-pregnant sister needs it MORE than his wife who’s preparing to pop! If I were a tad more cynical, I might wonder whether he’s the father of his sister’s baby, because how can he experience all he went through with his happy wife and then just GIVE IT AWAY?

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    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd get the police involved, along with a divorce lawyer, because this whole scenario is a relationship ender. A man who will steal from his wife, child, and in-laws, needs to be kicked to the curb

    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. Show up with the cops and hopefully a receipt in one of OP's parent's name or shows last 4 digits of their credit card number. Since SIL didn't buy it, it's not hers. And throw away that useless hubs + make sure he pays support.

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    Angela Corvaia
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    2 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would NEVER trust him or his family with my child . In-laws can be difficult but when your husband steals from you for them and then expects I you to bend -- LEAVE! It will only get worse once you have to fight for your baby.

    Doodles1983
    Community Member
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP has a stroller theft problem. An In-laws problem. And a massive (EX)husband problem.

    Erm Actually…
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Family helps family eh? What about the parents who BOUGHT the stroller FOR THEIR DAUGHTER. That’s family helping family. I hope those parents are LIVID. If I bought MY DAUGHTER a stroller for MY GRANDBABY, and then her husband steals it to give MY gift for My daughter to someone I DIDNT BUY IT FOR, I’d be just as livid as my daughter! Please do press charges because that wasn’t his to give the sisters AT ALL. SMH,

    Robyn Hill
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand why people insist on having babies they clearly can’t afford and are NOT capable of raising. Hope the OP files a police report and gets her stroller back, and gets rid of the husband.

    Stygtand
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Family comes first, except my wife… what a spongecake. Dump him, he will do this again and again.

    Mari
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe that they were a happy couple before this happened. Nobody who has a good relationship will take a gift from his wife to give it to his sister without telling. The relationship was likely not so great or there was no communication.

    Ge Po
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once you get married, you have started a new family. One that goes before whatever family you grew up in/with.

    Chippy Chap
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she should make sure that the husband and his family are aware that this just isn't any stroller. Reconfirm that they know her parents worked overtime for this special gift to their daughter and grandchild, and make sure they know the price tag. If they still don't care, then change the locks. - I'm curious to know about this stroller. How much is it??

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the husband did was WRONG! If wants to give his sister a stroller he can go buy her one i stead of the GIFT from his in-laws that saved for months to buy it. This lady needs to write down what she wants to say to him so that she doesn't forget anything. If he doesn't get HER stroller back she will be NC with his whole family unless they all sincerely apologize to her. This poor girl is in a big mess that I have a feeling will end in divorce. This baby will be 2nd fiddle to the sisters baby even though he or she is several mos older.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    2 days ago

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    You should even have a pram in the house untill the baby is born, but it yes but keep it else where , and you most defiantly should NOThave a pram in the house before the second trimester it’s extremely bad luck, the husband is pos, call the police for him stealing it ,and go to Sils to get it back! Change the locks and kick that pos out, what else will he do once baby is here awfully person he is !

    Julie S
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't be so ridiculous.

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    Trillian
    Community Member
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go get the stroller back and leave the husband there.

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like "newly pregnant" sister should get an abortion or consider adoption, since she's obviously not up to parenting. If he was my husband, I'd tell him to get comfortable at his mom's, because he will never be welcomed back to my home. That I sure hope his little escapade was worth losing his marriage and not being there to witness the birth of his child, because from here on out, I will be telling him absolute nothing about my pregnancy or when I go into labor. That I will let him know well after the fact that the baby was born and that I will make no allowances for his family to visit the baby for at least the first three months. That my parents will be the only grandparents to actually see the baby for as long as I can manage it. That I will do everything in my power to keep my child away from his rancid low character family. Then I'd call a lawyer and do everything I could to have full physical custody.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    2 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the way you think, Kate! (But you’re out of your mind for making that first suggestion; brace yourself for the reply that’s coming from someone who wildly disagrees with you! 😉) Given that these are people who believe someone in the first eight weeks of pregnancy NEEDS a stroller more than someone who’s close to GIVING BIRTH, I’m worried about the IQ of OP’s new baby because she BRED with one of ‘em! OP’s husband saw her cry with happiness upon receiving it, listened to her worry about her folks who had to take EXTRA WORK to be able to get it for her, and has watched her CONTINUE to cry happy tears over it, and after all that, HE decides his still-barely-pregnant sister needs it MORE than his wife who’s preparing to pop! If I were a tad more cynical, I might wonder whether he’s the father of his sister’s baby, because how can he experience all he went through with his happy wife and then just GIVE IT AWAY?

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    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd get the police involved, along with a divorce lawyer, because this whole scenario is a relationship ender. A man who will steal from his wife, child, and in-laws, needs to be kicked to the curb

    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. Show up with the cops and hopefully a receipt in one of OP's parent's name or shows last 4 digits of their credit card number. Since SIL didn't buy it, it's not hers. And throw away that useless hubs + make sure he pays support.

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    Angela Corvaia
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would NEVER trust him or his family with my child . In-laws can be difficult but when your husband steals from you for them and then expects I you to bend -- LEAVE! It will only get worse once you have to fight for your baby.

    Doodles1983
    Community Member
    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP has a stroller theft problem. An In-laws problem. And a massive (EX)husband problem.

    Erm Actually…
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Family helps family eh? What about the parents who BOUGHT the stroller FOR THEIR DAUGHTER. That’s family helping family. I hope those parents are LIVID. If I bought MY DAUGHTER a stroller for MY GRANDBABY, and then her husband steals it to give MY gift for My daughter to someone I DIDNT BUY IT FOR, I’d be just as livid as my daughter! Please do press charges because that wasn’t his to give the sisters AT ALL. SMH,

    Robyn Hill
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand why people insist on having babies they clearly can’t afford and are NOT capable of raising. Hope the OP files a police report and gets her stroller back, and gets rid of the husband.

    Stygtand
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Family comes first, except my wife… what a spongecake. Dump him, he will do this again and again.

    Mari
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe that they were a happy couple before this happened. Nobody who has a good relationship will take a gift from his wife to give it to his sister without telling. The relationship was likely not so great or there was no communication.

    Ge Po
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once you get married, you have started a new family. One that goes before whatever family you grew up in/with.

    Chippy Chap
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she should make sure that the husband and his family are aware that this just isn't any stroller. Reconfirm that they know her parents worked overtime for this special gift to their daughter and grandchild, and make sure they know the price tag. If they still don't care, then change the locks. - I'm curious to know about this stroller. How much is it??

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the husband did was WRONG! If wants to give his sister a stroller he can go buy her one i stead of the GIFT from his in-laws that saved for months to buy it. This lady needs to write down what she wants to say to him so that she doesn't forget anything. If he doesn't get HER stroller back she will be NC with his whole family unless they all sincerely apologize to her. This poor girl is in a big mess that I have a feeling will end in divorce. This baby will be 2nd fiddle to the sisters baby even though he or she is several mos older.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    2 days ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    You should even have a pram in the house untill the baby is born, but it yes but keep it else where , and you most defiantly should NOThave a pram in the house before the second trimester it’s extremely bad luck, the husband is pos, call the police for him stealing it ,and go to Sils to get it back! Change the locks and kick that pos out, what else will he do once baby is here awfully person he is !

    Julie S
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't be so ridiculous.

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