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#1
There is a girl in most of my classes and she is like literally perfect. Seeing her be so perfect makes me feel ugly and not good enough. It like every flaw of mine, she has it better. I have acne, she has perfect skin. I don't have the best relationship with my older brother, her brother is her friend. I don't have any close friends, she is new and already has tons of friends in lots of different friend groups. My hair is ugly and hairstyles don't usually work out, her hair is pretty red and looks good in every style. I quit all the sports, she is the best at everyone that I failed at. I hate to see her be so flawless, but I hate myself for thinking that. To hate someone for being good at everything you aren't isn't right, and I hate myself for not liking her. What should I do?
Final score:
4points
Juan Hernandez 4 years ago
If u can I would ignore her. And there is no way she’s better at every thing there is something that u do that she couldn’t even compare to. And u arnt ugly and your hair is amazing. There are people out there who would think she is absolutely the ugliest girl but to that person u might be like a goddess to them. U can’t compare your self to others it never works well. U are u and u are special and amazing in your own way. Also a lot of times people like her that are considered popular , pretty normal are shallow af. So Ik one way u are better than her. U got a amazing personality :D. U are a amazing person and a good friend 🥺 don’t let some girl make u think different about your self
Jeweled Dragon 4 years ago
Find something that you like to do. If you don't do well the first time, that is okay. Try again. And just because she seems perfect doesn't mean you are not good enough. If you want, I can give you my email and we can chat. Insecurity is a terrible thing to struggle with. Believe me. I know from personal experience. And YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. Maybe try befriending her, or ask for advice on hair, sports, or whatever you want. As for your relationship with your brother, yeah, sorry, but can't help. My brother and I have a semi-sucky relationship. Maybe try identifying why your relationship with your brother is not good, or if you already know, and see if there is a way to mend it. Unless he's a jerk, in which case, I'm sorry. But if you want, we can continue talking. If you continue feeling like you aren't good enough, spend time with the people you care about. I can assure you, to those people, you are the world.
Anonymousplease (Submission author) 4 years ago
Thank you so much for the advice, I would love to keep talking!
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#2
My instagram page got taken down, it was literally just pictures of some plush toy animals going different places i can’t imagine anything more innocent, pictures of a toy sheep travelling around wales can’t possibly be offensive to anyone! 😞
Final score:
3points
#3
Idk if I’m the ass in the situation cause everyone is saying I am but during the summer my best friend went to summer school and he met these girl. At the time he hade a gf and I asked if he could give me her snap cause tis was lonely ;—; well he said no. He’s reasoning was he want to make these girl his f**ck toy. A few months go by and she get really suicidal and he drops her. But continues to talk to her and playing with her feelings he openly admitted to doing it and he thought it was funny because she was trying to kill herself. I told him to stop or I will tell her he’s just playing with her at these point. He didn’t stop and he started making jokes about rapping her and killing her. He made fun of her for being a rape victim and called her a h**e for it. I end up dropping him as a friend then started dating the girl but I fell like I did Something wrong….
Final score:
1point
Jeweled Dragon 4 years ago
You did nothing wrong. Your ex-friend is the one in the wrong here. In fact, you actually did the right thing by losing such a toxic friend. And as long as you are helping her, you will not be in the wrong at all.
Juan Hernandez (Submission author) 4 years ago
Tis all I wanna do is help her :D I care a lot about her. I still feel bad tho because after everything he kinda turned everyone against me and her so I have no friends anymore :/ everyone I thought I could cont on left and that’s y I question if I did the right thing. She’s happy now and her depression has gotten a lot better she’s no longer suicidal :D so I guess I did do the right thing
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As long as you didn't take advantage of the girl, and tried to help her, you did the right thing I think
Juan Hernandez (Submission author) 4 years ago
I wouldn’t take advantage of her . I care a lot about her 🥺 and I wanted to get her away from what was happening. I wuv her a lot 🥰 and I don’t want anything bad to happen to her and I’d never do anything to her.
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