Are you an "innie" or an "outie"? No, I'm not talking about your belly button! I mean are you an introvert or an extrovert?
Statistics show that you're just as likely to be one or the other. According to a test carried out by the Myers-Briggs organization in 1998, there's an almost even split between the number of introverts and the number of extroverts (in the US at least).
For those of you who consider yourself a member of the former group, Bored Panda has compiled this awesome list of cartoons illustrating what it means to be an introvert. And even if you're an extrovert then you'll probably still find them funny. You might even tell your friends about it. Or maybe just your cat. It all depends what camp you're in.
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As I sip my tea, and put down my book to comment on this post...
<3 I need this. Add chocolate, a fireplace for winter and a flower/veggie garden outside the house for good measure and I'd pretty much be set.
Rainy days ARE beautiful, they are just better appreciated when you are warm and dry at home :)
I like to just stand in the rain I only see it like 2-5 times a year.
Load More Replies...idk i like rainy days in the summer--only if im outside tho
Me at party during ...a quarter of an hour....then I run away.
Wow. That is so me! I hate making "official" phone calls! I bribe my boyfriend to do them for me! :D
That's also meeee ...! Oh , I thought for so long that there's something wrong with me !
Load More Replies...Sometimes I write a speech of what I'll say and potential answers to potential replies
Phones have always a huge stress source for me, i mean, i can take a call, but making one? HELL
Never make plans..spur of the moment type of girl...don't ever want to disappoint
I used to get my mum to ground me to avoid friends dragging me outside to play...
I just realised my son is an introvert, or maybe it's just puberty ? :/
Once in kindergarten, I asked the teacher to tell other kids not to play with me, because it was really annoying. She looked at me weird!
Actually, most entertainers are introverts. It's their managers that are the extroverts as they are the best at getting them noticed.
True. Your comment compliments, not conflicts with, the comics at all.
Load More Replies...I'm inclined to disagree ..I'm an introvert and I have a decent singing voice but I sing to make myself happy and I seek no acknowledgement.. I was in choir and even made the Acapella choir after auditioning in private and never had a solo because I chose not to.. I was terribly afraid
So extroverts can't be creative? What about the musicians in picture 3? Is music not creative? This picture is c**p :D
I would've left as soon as the first person at the party started acting tipsy. I don't drink, and have zero tolerance for being around people when they're drunk. It's not even about being an introvert though.... I just can't stand the smell of alcohol, or the idiocy it fosters in most humans - so I remove myself from the situation rather than endure it.
Holy cow! Can you read my mind and create a comic of my perfect future
I was never sure which one I was until seeing this. Describes me perfectly. Especially alone on a boat on a quiet lake listening to nature as I fish.
I hate it when I'm walking around in magazines with my earphones and salespersons try to start a conversation or are asking if they can help me. If I have earphones in my ears, just leave me alone, you don't even have to greet me. Because if you do, I will run away, but otherwise I could even buy something. :)
That's her job. Her supervisor will be on her case if she doesn't do it. Chances are, she's an introvert too, and HATES interrupting you. Signed, Been There.
Load More Replies...I hate it when I am listening to music and reading and people are just like: "HEYA WATCHA READING?! CAN I LISTEN TO YOUR MUSIC?
In ancient China, when two people are about to encounter each other on the street, one may pull out his fan and hold it up across his face. This absolves them both from having to acknowledge and greet each other. The 'polite fiction' is that, because one persons face is obscured by the fan, the other person can't be expected to recognize him, and so doesn't have to greet him. In this way, there is no insult if they pass each other by. We do the same thing today, I think, by looking down at our phones at strategic times.
I can so easily relate to this for when I was doing my erasmus exchange and lived in a flat share. When I came back home I -needed- to live alone (again)!
This is why I chose the one-room apartment with no room mate so I don't need to share the bathroom & kitchen - I can stay all by myself 😂
even worse when you are a vegetarian introvert and the roomie has a bar b q with all her carnivore friends.
I avoided getting groceries yesterday because I didn't want to see or hear people...
OMG !! And people who do not even bother to apologise when jostling you, acting like this is totally normal thing after all !!
same hate cars and if im i them then I start banging on thing then I don't get dinner
HAHA that's so me! So glad I finally got my license and a car! I don't have this issue anymore!
A friend an I colour in together only the noise of pencils moving across the page
I saw something like this on pinterest before. it said "I want to be lonely with you."
My whole family of 2 parents & 6 kids would all cheerfully be watching TV while reading, w rare moments of sharing gems or ponders.
Oh, i could never. Love my solitude too much. But like the idea on this pic.
Proximity Intimacy explanations are unnecessary and disruptive. Shhhh
And then they get their feelings hurt when you finally give up and quit inviting them to things.
...but in 7 hours she will be dreaming about her pajamas again :/
More likely the last face for the introvert is the one I will be wearing since I got invited...
I am an introvert and still enjoy being among people though i never talk to any of them :D
the internet gives me more advice on how to murder someone then i would ever need.
Yep. I almost drowned in a crowded pool cause asking foreign strangers for help seemed like such a hassle. Lucky a friend saw me silently waving from under the water and saved me in time...
I am an introvert and recognize myself in this but life gets really hard if I constantly act this way. Train your social skills, develop yourself!
Actually, this doesn't affect me as it used to, i'd have no problem facing these 'enemies'. I won't like it, but i can handle it.
Have an appliance break down and they are the only person available to be around to see what needs to have what done to it by the sociable happy repair person....
The 10-minute hour because 10 minutes feels like an hour...
Load More Replies...Dealing with extroverts is exhausting....like waiting for my dentist.
Sometimes they don't give you space because they don't get it. You can see how it went
This is the main reason I have a Ring doorbell and an additional CCTV camera inside a front window. I wouldn't want to go outside at the wrong moment and have to acknowledge someone.
Truuuu sometimes I get bored at home but when I go out I'm too awkward to do anything lol
EXACTLY! However, I found an antidote: Take walks now and then!
Load More Replies...Always eager to get back home! Then it's like a day or two before I go back put again.
i like tiny places to get stuck in and read just like my cat (no she does not read)
I get told to read but then they say I read to much.........WHAT DO YOU MEAN!!!
LOL someone on Twitter asked, "Why are the cool people in the wall?" And someone replied, "Because they belong there." XD
I don't agree with the "cool people" sign. "Cool" is subjective not matter how the media keeps defining it.
What kind of a jerk says "I didn't even know you HAD other friends". That is a horrible friend.
I am a akward combanation of both, I need interaction but I am to socccially akward to have real friends.
I think introverts do need interaction to varying degrees and it doesn't mean they're ambiverts necessarily. My energy bucket can get too full and start overflowing onto the floor so I do need to dip into it about once a week. But my energy is definitely generated while being alone and expended while being with people.
Load More Replies...This is how I feel and I feel like no matter how direct I am with people, there are too many people at my workplace (call center) that want to always talk and hangout . My closest friends understand and it actually works for us . I even left my last job just so I can start with a clean slate, however people seem to always gravitate to me . I don't like being mean to people but I feel like that might be my last resort. Ive posted stuff like this on fb to educate people but a lot of people don't take it seriously or take it as me trying to be an a*s****. sigh
Conversing is really annoying and taxing on me so whenever I try show and not tell, people take it as an insult a lot (TuT) /cries in corner
People always want me to speak up, but they suddenly change their minds when i express my thoughts. It has happened here and everywhere.
Load More Replies...how did you describe me? No one has ever been able to truly describe me!
ugh. my mom is a very aggressive alpha female (tiger mom, if you will) who apparently knows exactly what she wants and what is good for her daughters. she basically crushed us our whole lives by asserting for us instead of teaching us properly and we don't even bother making decisions anymore because we just know that she'll just do whatever she wants, regardless of what we think or say
My mum and dad as well...... Your not the only one.
Load More Replies...As long as you play by their rules, they'll think you're ok... if you question them or stand up for yourself, they'll shove you away. Society today is loaded with hypocrites. Love all or love none.
my mother. She'd aim me at a kid and say "go make friends!" I think that is child abuse
"Why can't you be more like Billy?!" GAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! CAUSE I'M NOT HIM!!!!!!
*both of you giggle awkwardly and then proceed to ignore each other's existence*
I love how one person said goodbye, and instead of saying bye back, the other person just said yes.
I would intentionally walk in an incorrect and round-about direction to avoid this.
Once after college orientation two girls followed me after chit chat. I turned and sneered, "You guys don't HAVE to follow me." X( Yet even with my rudeness they kept following me. Go figure.
Damn, even when I was in trouble my parents never sent me to my room. On the contrary, it was when I was well behaved that they allowed me to do so (I think they knew I loved to be there ^_^ )
Load More Replies...This was TOTALLY me when I was growing up. My parents would punish me by making me come in the living room and watch TV with them. Lol
Heh, they did that as if it was going to hurt me. When i was born the word introvert didn't existed. It's 'nice' way to call us weird, or freak.
Yeah I'm like that when I was punished I was forbidden to read or play in my room. I had to sit on my bed and sit still for 30 min. :)
When I was a kid i loved being sent to my room, it was the only uninterrupted alone time I'd get :)
For me, the world CAN explode. As long as it takes all the imbeciles, then i'm good.
You know that feeling when you have to do something and your nose flares ...... I felt it before I posted this!
firstly hermit crabs in the wild can be in groups over 100 and In captivity the have to have others or else they die due to depression
if I can order it online... you bet ur a*s that is my method of shopping!
I love online shopping... except when you have to pay a LOT of money for shipping and when you accidentally order something from China on ebay. (I did that a few days ago and I still haven't been able to cancel my order)
It's funny because as soon as I read the 'ding dong ' of the comic strip , someone rang my doorbell !
So glad my people knows me, i don't get invited because they know i won't go. I've tamed their extrovertism.
Parties are good only with quiet or no music, so that you can find a quiet corner to wait til the end
My friends and I played the "Red flag green flag." My red flag, my obbseion of books. My green flag, that I can read a book in any condission
This was so me until I got to understand myself better after taking the MBTI test on humanmetrics.com .Give it an honest try to know if your introverted or extraverted or a mix of both. Good day .
For me, I hesitate a but, say "F**k it" and call. Then I regret it and hope that they dont pick up :'D
or hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii like in a high pitched voice like a crazy lady then she will leave that's what I do
I actually hate self checkout lanes. That used to be someone's job.
Yep, self checkout is an extrovert's domain. I might have a problem and - gasp - have to ask.someone for help. Arrrggggghhhhhh!!!!!
Load More Replies...Hmm... I would like to live somewhere between the Solitude Mountains and the Country of Animal Pals. Of maybe on the Isle of Netflix, surrounded by the Sea of Books.
I wasn't planning in going anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Some have cancel me as a way to teach me a lesson, so i get what i'm missing in life. The idiots...
Being anti-social doesn't mean rudeness, it's just we don't care on your lame plans.
This is literally my life. Getting asked everyday, " heyy girl do you want to go to my part ?
What I want to say : nah bruh I don't feel like going What I actually say : oh... Sorry..... Today is my goldfishes funeral.....
Load More Replies...Sadly I'm a big pushover and says yes to every party even if I prefer not to
Yeah, and people think I'm great at cleaning and organizing but I'm really not. Hahaha
Load More Replies...something needs to be fixed / straightened / cleaned / organized? hello, excuse to keep me from talking to another human being
I used to stay and graze at the food table. It's impolite to talk with your mouth full.
When i am at a party and it is still too early for me to leave without being rude, I get myself to a corner, face the party and play sudoku on my phone, if somebody gets close I rapidly change to my chat app. Furthermore, if I get someone to sit or stand next to me, I actually start sending messages as if in an important conversation... the recipient is another number of mine.
If a girl at a party said that to me I would be immediately interested in talking further. Because it's different, and same is boring.
Nobody likes the intelligent ones, you have to play idiot in order to be like and have friends. It's something that i've learned over the years. I refuse to be an idiot to be liked on BP, Pinterest or DeviantArt. Brain over maniacally-sensitive bashers that will kill their moms for an up-vote.
Heaven. But I wouldn't have a blanket, I get too hot. A long nightshirt, preferably decorated with a cute pattern.
Phone nearby yes, but with the ringtone deactivated, just the sms tone activated.
I was selected from 50 people in a job application and i didnt get the job case they asked me the same question... I didnt known what to say
I've done the bed blanket thing after interviews and worried about getting the job, thus having to work with total strangers!
And what is wrong with being this way? That's a parasitical teacher, forcing others to be like her.
I hated jack-in-the-boxes when I was a kid...still do...don't like surprises-scary...
From my understanding.. In those pic extrovert ppl always excited for something new even if it stupid thing. But the introverts ppl just meh and don't care about those kind of thing.
Load More Replies...i always prepare what to say, but the person always ask questions i didn't prepare for
The same thing happens to me! I've spent loooong amounts of time deciding what I was going to say to someone. Usually, when I need to ask the teacher a question in math class, instead of thinking over the problem I stare at my paper so it looks like I'm thinking about the math but I'm really thinking about how to ask the question that I want to answer to. And then, about 15 minutes ago, the librarian asked me a question about a tv show and I was so not ready to answer. It was only a few seconds, but I felt like I was stuttering and stumbling over my words for 5 minutes.
Ambivert! TIL a new word. Now I have to spend the day being introspective and questioning everything about myself...
Same! I spend more time thinking about if what I said was correct than actually having a conversation.
Load More Replies...I would just continue walking and pause to ask if I can pet the dog (only human interaction required).
And I will only ever remember the dog's name. I will refer to people in the third (dog) person! Spike's dad, Fluffy's mom, etc...
My mother did this to me all the time! I would run every time the phone rang.
This is on the same scale for me as "Tell them about the time you...." If I wanted to tell the story, I would have.
UGH!! My parents do that to me ALL the time! So annoying and embarrassing!!
As an introvert if you touch me without permission I will punch you in the face.
i would just scream like a maniac and run away
Load More Replies...I hate it when my friends hug me or anything, but I told my friend that in exchange for a giant donut, she could give me unlimited hugs for the rest of the school year... I’m kind of starting to regret it...
As someone random probably said "Get out of my face and if you touch me I will beat you bloody and rip out your liver and beat you with your intestines."
I am going to say the second response to one of my friends next time they ask me why I'm reading.
introverts are like really shy singers. very talented but won't really open up much to sing (in a place that isn't a shower)
I sing ALLLLLLLL the time in the shower, nowhere else tho
Load More Replies...I completely agree with you, Lindsay. The only place I ever sing aloud is in the shower, and even then I make sure I'm very quiet.
today my hands were in my pockets when someone said hello i didn't even move a finger. No handshakes please.
He comes at night when everyone's asleep to avoid social interaction . . .
I just busted out laughing in a public place...of course while alone and avoiding eye contact with everyone else.
I've even given myself the nickname 'Captain Forgetfulness' because of it!
Load More Replies...Pretend to be engaged and paying attention. They always call the kid falling asleep or chit chatting.
Me in school: Everyone raises their hand but me. Teacher calls on me. I answer correctly. Teacher asks, "why didn't you raise your hand if you knew the answer"? I knew you would only call on me if I didn't. Teacher makes a Picachoo face. Teacher doesn't call on me again the rest of the year whether I raise my hand or not. VICTORY in 5th grade...
And couch cushions? Those are the smelliest part of the butt shelf!
yay now where do i buy that jar and are the couch cushions included
i rarely visit my account too and when i do its to see what people posted and get the hell out before some friend of a friend notices i am there and decides to chit chat.
Black shirt, jeans, hoodie, airpods. practical and isn't a attention grabber
I know that many of this comics are just made for laugh , but just some psychology to encourage some persons to meet new people and be happier: Introverts are drained by multiple stimulation and energized by controlled stimulation. Their disposition is frequently misconstrued as shyness, social phobia or even avoidance personality disorder, but many introverts socialize easily. They just need a manageable environment and the right amount of people :D
Yep, and a lot of introverts are actually quite outgoing, and often entertaining (think of comedians), it just drains us SO much more than the average extrovert, and a lot of time outgoing introverts get confused for extroverts so when we need some alone time, it confuses people.
Load More Replies...I am an introvert, am shy, suffer from social phobia and GAD (general anxiety disorder) so I can relate to all the comics
The pandemic created the perfect mandatory introvert world. Social distancing, self-isolation, avoid groups, don't touch others. Basically, nothing changed for us and we were officially normalized.
those people who drawed those picture are artists and because they are artist, so.....
It's really hard when you have kids. You have to on all of the time. Sometimes I just want to go hide under the bed with a book and a bott...er, I mean a glass of wine.
I know that many of this comics are just made for laugh , but just some psychology to encourage some persons to meet new people and be happier: Introverts are drained by multiple stimulation and energized by controlled stimulation. Their disposition is frequently misconstrued as shyness, social phobia or even avoidance personality disorder, but many introverts socialize easily. They just need a manageable environment and the right amount of people :D
Yep, and a lot of introverts are actually quite outgoing, and often entertaining (think of comedians), it just drains us SO much more than the average extrovert, and a lot of time outgoing introverts get confused for extroverts so when we need some alone time, it confuses people.
Load More Replies...I am an introvert, am shy, suffer from social phobia and GAD (general anxiety disorder) so I can relate to all the comics
The pandemic created the perfect mandatory introvert world. Social distancing, self-isolation, avoid groups, don't touch others. Basically, nothing changed for us and we were officially normalized.
those people who drawed those picture are artists and because they are artist, so.....
It's really hard when you have kids. You have to on all of the time. Sometimes I just want to go hide under the bed with a book and a bott...er, I mean a glass of wine.
