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This Woman Had A Date During A Family Vacation, Gave Everyone A Leaflet To Answer Their Annoying Questions
This Woman Had A Date During A Family Vacation, Gave Everyone A Leaflet To Answer Their Annoying Questions
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This Woman Had A Date During A Family Vacation, Gave Everyone A Leaflet To Answer Their Annoying Questions

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Everyone who has nosy family members knows how hard it is to have a personal life. It can be really exhausting to deal with all of the questions and snooping around once they suspect that something new is going in your life. However, there are people who learn to skillfully deal with this sort of behavior. Take, for instance, Mary Beth Barone who showed everyone a perfect example of how to deal with curious extended family members.

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    27-year-old Mary from New York planned a date during her family vacation

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    Mary, a 27-year-old stand-up comedian, and a writer from New York planned a date with a guy she met at a wedding. However the date was supposed to happen during the family holiday to Pompano Beach, Florida, so she was trying to come up with a plan how to sneak away from her family without having to explain where she’s going.

    She decided to create a pamphlet to answer all of the questions her nosy family members might have

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    “We met at a wedding a few weeks prior to the date! He lives in Miami and I’m in New York so it seemed like a good place to meet up (since my family was vacationing just about an hour outside Miami),” she told Bored Panda.

    After realizing that the best way is to tell the truth, Mary knew she has to prepare to answer a bunch of questions about the date. And she found a brilliant solution to answer all the questions at once – give her family a pamphlet of frequently asked questions. Mary’s family loved this idea. “They all have a great sense of humor! I am the youngest of 6 kids and my family is huge and super close. There were about 30 people on the trip so it was a lot of people to communicate the information to. They all laughed and had a good time with it, ” she said.

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    Her idea quickly went viral, and while many people were praising her, others wanted to know how did her date go. Mary explained that while the date was great, he actually ghosted her soon after. “But at least I got the pamphlet out of it,” said Mary.

    After her FAQ pamphlet went viral people still had questions

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    Jus
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went on family vacation 2 or 3 times as an adult and it was horrible. It should be forbidden for extroverts and introverts to be forced to go together...

    Lars Lasersson
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooh yes. "Why are you so quiet?" "What's the matter?" "Loosen up!" "Have some fun, will ya!" Well I might if you quit yapping for, let's say, a couple of hours, or days...

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    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that her family would be annoying and not let her get away without asking questions but I feel like this is a ton of energy and hope placed onto a simple date. That’s a lot of pressure she is putting on herself and him too in a way. And I bet that this attitude is part of why he flat out ghosted her. It’s a bad look.

    Stille20
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is a bit dramatic. It assumes her family is going to be pushy and informs them that she expects this behavior.

    Non-New-Toni-An
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she gave a (different) pamphlet to her date as well, and thats why she was ghosted!!!

    Mae
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More questions: 1) Who goes on a family vacation as an adult? 2) Why do you need to tell them you're going on a date? 3) Anyone else interested in finding this Sarah person's brother? (too easy these days when most people have most of their online profiles public)

    Jerome Goodwin
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did you feel it was necessary to tell EVERYONE you had a date?

    Sam Kunz
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is screaming "Look at me! Give me attenion! I know no one cares what I do but I need self validation!"

    ivan bolitekurac
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So everyone now needs to know the answers?Yes,you found a funny way to respond to your family but can't people date without social media?Everyone wants a like for being special.So sad...

    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She must not be very serious about stand up comedy, to cancel a show people presumably had already planned to attend, for a date.

    Luna
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother meet someone from Twitter at a knuckle puck show and she came over to our house when they were friends(they're dating now) and my parents asked him like all of these questions the next day(also asked me some because I was there!!) he was 21 at the time

    Kieth9
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol Good I hope the date went good

    A Rose Among Thorns
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is very sweet, I hope her vacation and date went smoothly. Cool that he is bi-lingual!

    C
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She says there that he ghosted her weeks later.

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    SilverSkyCloud
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it says she had a show and people are saying shes a comedian, does that mean that the show she cancled is a show shes performing? if so thats kind of a d**k move to anyone who paid to go and was looking forward to it

    KT Pinto
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds to me like she wants attention from her family. Most adults would just say "See ya!" and go out.

    Roberto Durante
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    never did, don't want to see my vacation becoming a nightmare

    My dog is my co pilot.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one of the many many many reasons I love owning a dog. I'm the one who stays behind on my own to look after him. This has been the way for years and it has got me out of family holidays get togethers parties and weddings. I love my family dearly but I hate being forced to go to such parties and having to go on holiday even for just a week or two would kill me. I'm much happier on my own with my dog.

    Isabella
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A 27 yr GROWN UP woman must explain herself to her family members?! - this is SICK situation, seriously.

    Kathleen Barlow
    Community Member
    6 years ago

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    I'd be really annoyed if a family member went off on a date during a family vacation. You're there to spend time with your family. I find this so disrespectful. If you're an adult and don't want to spend time with your family, don't go!

    Ben Smith
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    6 years ago

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    Hm. She’s looks like a lesbian. Surprising.

    Lazar
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    6 years ago

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    Hah she got dumped

    wacky jack 100
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's time for you to go crawl back under your rock

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    Jus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went on family vacation 2 or 3 times as an adult and it was horrible. It should be forbidden for extroverts and introverts to be forced to go together...

    Lars Lasersson
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooh yes. "Why are you so quiet?" "What's the matter?" "Loosen up!" "Have some fun, will ya!" Well I might if you quit yapping for, let's say, a couple of hours, or days...

    Load More Replies...
    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that her family would be annoying and not let her get away without asking questions but I feel like this is a ton of energy and hope placed onto a simple date. That’s a lot of pressure she is putting on herself and him too in a way. And I bet that this attitude is part of why he flat out ghosted her. It’s a bad look.

    Stille20
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is a bit dramatic. It assumes her family is going to be pushy and informs them that she expects this behavior.

    Non-New-Toni-An
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she gave a (different) pamphlet to her date as well, and thats why she was ghosted!!!

    Mae
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More questions: 1) Who goes on a family vacation as an adult? 2) Why do you need to tell them you're going on a date? 3) Anyone else interested in finding this Sarah person's brother? (too easy these days when most people have most of their online profiles public)

    Jerome Goodwin
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did you feel it was necessary to tell EVERYONE you had a date?

    Sam Kunz
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is screaming "Look at me! Give me attenion! I know no one cares what I do but I need self validation!"

    ivan bolitekurac
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So everyone now needs to know the answers?Yes,you found a funny way to respond to your family but can't people date without social media?Everyone wants a like for being special.So sad...

    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She must not be very serious about stand up comedy, to cancel a show people presumably had already planned to attend, for a date.

    Luna
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother meet someone from Twitter at a knuckle puck show and she came over to our house when they were friends(they're dating now) and my parents asked him like all of these questions the next day(also asked me some because I was there!!) he was 21 at the time

    Kieth9
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol Good I hope the date went good

    A Rose Among Thorns
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is very sweet, I hope her vacation and date went smoothly. Cool that he is bi-lingual!

    C
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She says there that he ghosted her weeks later.

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    SilverSkyCloud
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it says she had a show and people are saying shes a comedian, does that mean that the show she cancled is a show shes performing? if so thats kind of a d**k move to anyone who paid to go and was looking forward to it

    KT Pinto
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds to me like she wants attention from her family. Most adults would just say "See ya!" and go out.

    Roberto Durante
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    never did, don't want to see my vacation becoming a nightmare

    My dog is my co pilot.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one of the many many many reasons I love owning a dog. I'm the one who stays behind on my own to look after him. This has been the way for years and it has got me out of family holidays get togethers parties and weddings. I love my family dearly but I hate being forced to go to such parties and having to go on holiday even for just a week or two would kill me. I'm much happier on my own with my dog.

    Isabella
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A 27 yr GROWN UP woman must explain herself to her family members?! - this is SICK situation, seriously.

    Kathleen Barlow
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    I'd be really annoyed if a family member went off on a date during a family vacation. You're there to spend time with your family. I find this so disrespectful. If you're an adult and don't want to spend time with your family, don't go!

    Ben Smith
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Hm. She’s looks like a lesbian. Surprising.

    Lazar
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Hah she got dumped

    wacky jack 100
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's time for you to go crawl back under your rock

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