Woman Tells The Man She’s Dating She Had Cancer, And It Escalates Terribly

More than his lack of knowledge about cancer, what's worse here is his attitude. If he doesn't trust her now about this issue, he will be doubting her about other things forever.

So, for the privilege of dating you, you want me to 1) make an appointment with my doctor 2) pay for an appointment with my doctor 3) have my doctor state and explain my medical history to you. Well, since I'm not a race horse and you are not a functioning adult, I'm going to have to give that a hard pass.

I wish there was a cure for the rampant spread of willful ignorance.

"The Way This Guy Reacts To Learning That His Date Had Cancer Is So Stupid, It’s Unbelievable" OK, this time the title fits

My job tried to fire me for taking too many days off innorder to erradicate my cancer.

He probably thinks heart-attcks and strokes are contagious too. H'e never going to have a lifetime partner if he runs a mile whenever they get seriously ill.

2018: the year of "let's share every single text we've ever had to get internet accolades". next year: rate my poo

Dad left mum after she had cancer right after giving birth to me. She couldn’t have any more kids and I’m a girl. World is f****d up.

Honest question, how does he function on a day to day basis?

"And even though she has “blocked and deleted” the guy from her life immediately, Vix doesn’t think it’s something that deserves a lot of attention." And then she posts the entire conversation somewhere on the internet, where anyone can see it and it gets shitloads of attention..

I SINCERELY hope he sees this post. I want in the worst way for him to see and read just what an idiot he is. BUT - thank God she found this out before this relationship went any further. Congratulations on your surviving!

What a very stupid person that human is, better know now that they are so backward than after your in a relationship! Attitude adjustment needed&more brain power! This female is better off finding someone with real intelegents&a kind heart to understand the struggles&admire the strength of your survival!

What an uneducated boy. He isn’t even a man. I think he either coasted through school or, dropped out, and never learned anything. And in all his. Wahingever cUght on that cancer, isn’t contagious!

I'm sure we all remember the terror when AIDS was first discovered. Despite being told repeatedly that you couldn't catch it from a hug, handshake or toilet seat, people freaked the f**k out. Remember that kid, Ryan White? He got AIDS from a tainted blood transfusion. He was 12 (?) and grown a*s people called him a f****t, he was shunned and bullied at school. People made his life a living hell. All due to ignorance, stupidity and unfounded fear.

Seen this very close up. When people hear that someone has cancer, they get cold feet, and when the treatments start, they get the cold shoulder, and when things turn south, people start disappearing like puffs of smoke in the wind, as they can't "cope with it". Wasn't your friendship with the person worth more than that? You just toss them away when things get real, rather than be there, give the lending hand you did before, the listening ear you lent for gossip, the support when they felt sad, the very things they did for you, when you felt the same or needed a bit of help? People are thick, and only think about themselves... and yes, how many times have i not heard the thing - are you not afraid of getting it? or even, i'm afraid to get it off you, as you deal with her... how do I know you are not contagious with that cancer thing? (you need a fscking brain implant, pal...). It is at this point you get to know who your real friends are, and which ones you need to dump.

I understand being worried that your children could have an increased risk as a result of a parent survivors genes, but never on earth have I ever heard of someone being afraid that THEY were going to catch cancer from their partner. Never on earth, have I seen the most painful results of the modern death of the intellectual our world is experiencing.

I'd say yep, you've got it to, and your d**k is going to shrink even smaller, if anyone can believe that, then fall off...

it's maybe less far fetched if you think about HPV can cause cancer and you can get a vaccination for it.. And thats sexually transmitted (he is still very ill informed, but with all the commercials on the HPV and getting a shot..)

I literally just learned this week that I have cancer, these stories are far from encouraging. On that note I would like to add that it's good to know what to expect.

Someone send this men the link to watch "Hataraku Saibou" please.

Not sure why she brought it up. My wife didn't know I had asthma until after we were married because she saw my inhaler.

We may be finding cures for cancer, but there's no cure for this guy's stupidity.

He should have been tested to make sure he can't sexually transmit stupidity

I know it’s a lot different, but I had septicaemia (blood poisoning) when I was four years old, and it shook my family enough. I can imagine what it’s like for parents when their child gets a form of cancer.

Some people shouldn't breed.

he could have googled "is cancer contagious" and generated an answer without having to bother her with his dumb a*s insecurities. He did her a huge favor. She's too strong for him.

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She should have messed with him by telling him she was also bisexual. That way he could not only 'catch' cancer but also 'catch' gay.

I totally understand. When I was diagnosed, my ex-wife said, "I didn't sign up for this." She got the kids and the proceeds from selling the house; I was basically homeless until an old friend from the Army let me move in with him. Fast forward 8 years, I'm remarried to a much better (and better looking) woman and we're blessed with a handsome, intelligent toddler.

Who has a conversation like this over text message???

Whichever school this guy went to needs to thoroughly review its biology department...

I know that there are stupid people around the world but first the braid, after him... I prefer other type of posts here in bp. Why not about nice people?

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Incredible ignorance. Not a candidate for relationships in any way. And here I am with a relationship partner who has recently been diagnosed with cancer, too. This is how common it is. You'd think there'd be some basic f*****g awareness that cancer isn't contagious...

The scary thing is that this kind of people are allowed to vote.

I would say bye immediately. I don't need fools in my life and he is beyond stupid. I haven't got cancer, but I have lots of allergies and I met people who seriously thought allergy is contagious.

How could someone reach dating age thinking cancer is contagious?

My second comment to him after "what?" would be "I'm sorry, but you are too stupid for me to date."

Is this real? Can't believe someone is that stupid. On the other hand, what does "I'm really private about my medical stuff"mean?

As soon as he stated that he thought cancer was contageous, she should have said "bye bye Felicia." And from one survivor to another - go get 'em girl!