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Convincing someone you’re right is all about confidence. If you fake it, you’ll make it, right? R-right? Having bucketloads of confidence is great (and certainly dramatic), however, it’s never enough in isolation… especially if you’re just plain wrong and everyone around you knows it.

Being direct. Looking assured. Feeling unwavering and braver than Braveheart—these are all wonderful qualities to have, but without other substantial things to back it up, it’s all just bravado without the bite. And darn it if it isn’t entertaining as heck to watch!

We’re not the only ones to think so. In fact, that’s why the ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit, with over 404k members, exists. Their community is built around poking fun at people who are chock full of confidence but get deflated the moment someone with an ounce of logic and common sense chimes in. There’s plenty of facepalm moments waiting for you, so get scrolling and upvoting your fave pics. Remember to visit the r/confidentlyincorrect community if you like their stuff!

Bored Panda interviewed the creator of the subreddit, redditor ShadowAlchemy. Read on for what they told us about how the community started and got popular, as well as for their thoughts about to what extent confidence is important in real life and what we should do if we ever find ourselves to be confidently incorrect.

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Princes vs. Princess. Plurals Are Difficult For Some

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The ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit has been growing by leaps and bounds. Created just over a year ago, in January 2020, they’re continuing to provide awesome content that keeps us humble. (And it’s a gentle reminder to double and triple-check even facts that we’re completely sure about.)

ShadowAlchemy told Bored Panda that they founded the 'Confidently Incorrect' subreddit "on a whim" just over a year ago. "Someone posted a video of Conan interviewing Jennifer Garner to another subreddit called r/WatchPeopleDieInside. I scrolled through the comments and saw someone who thought stuff like that would make a great community of its own. It was super late at night when I saw that, so I made a subreddit really quick for no reason, posted a video or two, then went to bed."

But what ShadowAlchemy couldn't foresee was how quickly the subreddit went viral. They woke up to see a huge surprise. "I wake up with probably 1,000 or so notifications, apparently the sub had blown up overnight! Tons of people were talking about the ridiculously fast growth of the sub, I think we got around 30k members in our first day. It was super popular its first week, and its growth died down a bit after that. We've been on a steady increase ever since. We just hit 400k members, actually!" the founder shared their joy.

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Raine Soo
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Twice an idiot in the span of two statements. That is impressive.

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In ShadowAlchemy's opinion, confidence is "an incredibly important" part of our personalities. "Without confidence, we're nothing. Confidence is what gets us out of bed, what gets us out the door to face life. People definitely listen to those who show confidence,"

The founder told Bored Panda that we don't have to look far to see the vital role confidence plays in our lives. "Just look at politics. Politicians are probably some of the most confident people on the planet, and a pretty large amount of people just listen to what they say. Our sub is probably 75-80% politics. It's people parroting what they've heard their favorite politicians say, and they parrot it because they believe those politicians. They believe that confidence."

They added, "No one's gonna listen to a shy person with all the facts."

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The founder of the sub also had some spot-on advice for anyone who's been confidently incorrect in their lives. And it all starts with openly admitting that you're wrong (both to others and to yourself). "If someone corrects you and they're right, you've just gotta accept it right then and there. Insisting that you're correct is what makes you look like a dumbass, and what makes you remember it for years and years. Nobody wants to be confidently incorrect, but if you are, you've gotta admit it. You've gotta admit that you're wrong."

ShadowAlchemy said that nothing would be possible without the incredibly supportive members and moderators that make up the r/confidentlyincorrect subreddit. "Thanks to all the people who've brought this subreddit up so much, it was quite the surprise for me. Thanks to my mod team for keeping this sub together."

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"I'm Not Sure If I Agree But Ok"

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Hmm... Yes. That Sounds Right. Zeus, Mr Horny Year Round, Has Only One Son

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love it that he was random things like animals and gold showers (gold thank you not golden lol), like who were these women like "damn, that goose is sexy!"

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Third Hole?! Surely You Jest!

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Just JoLynn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people should really be forced to take anatomy before being allowed to go near any hole.

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There’s a deep sense of shame that we feel when we’ve been outed being wrong even though we thought we were in the right. It’s an embarrassment so powerful, it can still make us flush beet-red and cringe years after it happened.

However, there is a possible upside to this. Research has shown that, counter-intuitively, it’s far easier to correct the errors made by people who are extremely confident that they’re right, compared to correcting the mistakes made by those who have ‘low confidence’ that they’re correct.

This is called the ‘hypercorrection effect’ which essentially means that we’re more likely to remember the correct answer to a question if we’re proven wrong when we’re extremely confident that we actually know the ‘right’ answer. Or, in other words, we remember being shocked at how at odds the truth was with our confidence that we were right.

Of course, there are some nuances like how some high confidence errors can ‘reemerge’ if we’re not tested on our newfound knowledge quickly enough. But on the bright side, being confidently incorrect might just be the best way to retain facts and figures after we make complete buffoons of ourselves online. So go out there and don’t be afraid to fail, dear Readers—your newfound knowledge will stick in your mind like a panda in a bamboo grove.

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Oscar The Grouch

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But he is not homeless. That is where he chooses to live and loves it. Omg I am defending a puppet. Never saw that coming lol.

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Ah, Us Politics... A Neverending Source

Ah, Us Politics... A Neverending Source

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1) Star Is A Shape And 2) Oranges And Blackberries

1) Star Is A Shape And 2) Oranges And Blackberries

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Covid Has Brought Out The Best In Everyone!

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Communism Is When You Are Only Allowed To Buy One Share Of A Stock

Communism Is When You Are Only Allowed To Buy One Share Of A Stock

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Something
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both are wrong. This is quite unlike how capitalism is supposed to work, but that doesn't make it communist. Also, communism is not simply a lack of capitalism.

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Tina Hugh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It took me a minute to figure this out. Abilgail is a transwoman and Hot Take Harry is unintentionally being super supportive.

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America Didn’t Import Slaves

America Didn’t Import Slaves

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Autumn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The phrase 'slave-class' is really irksome, like what does she mean?

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He Wasn’t Even Italian, He Was Austrian And Born In Modern Day Croatia. Not To Mention He Was Also An American Citizen At One Point

He Wasn’t Even Italian, He Was Austrian And Born In Modern Day Croatia. Not To Mention He Was Also An American Citizen At One Point

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Serial pacifist
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many wrongs. Nikola Tesla is a Croatian Serb (minority group). He lived well into the 20th century (not the 1700s). He is not Nikolai or Nicolas, but Nikola. Ford parts mostly come from the EU + Japan, Venezuela, Canada...

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“Where’d You Get That, From CNN?”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think they teach geography in US schools... I saw a lot of these things online during the elections

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Someone Doesn’t Understand How The Food Supply Chain Works... Or Agriculture, For That Matter

Someone Doesn’t Understand How The Food Supply Chain Works... Or Agriculture, For That Matter

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Ben...

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Trying To Justify A Murder

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Serious answer: If you can speak (and make a sound), it means you can exhale. It doesn't mean you can inhale.

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Three Perfect Example. Except For, Not

Three Perfect Example. Except For, Not

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Katie Lutesinger
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus JKR actually got a grant so she could write HP. Guess where the money came from?

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“That’s Because We Are Not A Democracy!”

“That’s Because We Are Not A Democracy!”

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Dave P
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Technically a Republic and a Democracy are two different forms of goverment, however we use today the term "Democracy" to not refer to the system of govt by that name but the general concept of citizen participation governance

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David Moody
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now I'm confused, is America a republic or a democracy? (This is a joke people, don't make yourselves look like the idiots in these posts.)

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Ripley
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ms Yellow: "how can you not understand the basics of voting in the US?!?!?!?! OMG" Rest of the World: "Uh-huh, so . . . please tell us how voting works in, say, France, or Australia. No? What a surprise." The eyeroll is strong for this one.

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Bob Belcher
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember my junior high history teacher preaching that we live in a Republic not a Democracy. Year after that I had Government class and learned that a Republic is a type of Democracy. I was so mad at the history teacher because he was a d**k about it.

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Alex Hall
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well, it isn't exactly a very good form of democracy. One person one vote would be cooler.

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Sasha Kuleshov
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you don't even bother to read your Own Constitution ._______.

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Gyro Pilot
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A course in comparative political systems taught me that the US federation and electoral college are designed to protect minority interests and prevent tyranny of the majority. Small states vs larger states, special interests of small regional groups, etc.

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Mae (just add water)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah we’re a democracy, PLUS, of course it’s “not very democratic” because no side is supposed to have complete power over everything, dumba$$.

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Lisa Chambers
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is nothing f'ed up about the EC. But when you write laws to force those voters to match the popular vote, it pretty much does away with that check on more populated states picking leadership for the rest of the country. And additionally just to be sure they can control everything and defeat both of those systems, the deep state picks the candidate and runs us all through the pure fantasy of voting altogether.

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Jennifer Crompton
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The major difference between a democracy and a republic is that a republic is a form of government whereas a democracy is an ideology that helps shape how a government is run.

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Karen Lyon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am with the second poster in terms of his frustration, though: we are not a "pure" democracy. People really need to stop thinking we are.

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Ian MacFarlane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. A constitutional Republic is not necessarily a democracy. Russia is a constitutional republic, so is China. England (the UK) is a constitutional monarchy. The USA is a republic but it's system of government is a democracy. The UK has a democratic system of elections as well. "Republic" simply means that the country is not a monarchy. "Republic" does not define any method of choosing the members of government. "Democracy" does.

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M Kate McCulloch
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ehhhh... sorta... A tru Democracy, meaning rule of the people, would mean each and every individual gets a say before the decision and the decision should be unanimous, or at least a significant majority. In a Democratic Republic, we vote, people are elected who are supposed to represent our say/our voice. But with the electoral college, the people vote, then the electors, who are chosen by people already installed by the electors, after ostensibly being elected by the people (but not really), the electors vote in the representatives. So, we truly are not in any way a Democracy.

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Richard McArthur
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd be a little careful about saying a Constitutional Republic is a form of democracy. Sometimes they are not. (Although most constitutional republics did have some democratic aspects).

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Leodavinci
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Key words here are "a form of". That's not exactly a dictionary definition there. Btw, still not the same.

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Phil Rod
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

America is a representative democracy. So people's votes put elected representatives into place who make political decisions on voters' behalf (not necessarily in their best interest). The electoral college is an extension of this, with electors casting the vote based on the majority vote of their state. It is perfectly legitimate under a democratic system and outlined in the US constitution. However, it is antiquated and should be changed.

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Shull GaRett
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can being wrong and right at the same time count as fuzzy logic?

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Chris Lee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Definition of democracy: From the Greek- Demos meaning people and Crass meaning stupid!

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Cat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please get acquainted with your stuff before you teach people the "basics"

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I Guess Aztecs Are Not Native To The Americas...

I Guess Aztecs Are Not Native To The Americas...

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Confidently Argued Blind People Couldn't Feel Their Own Fingers

Confidently Argued Blind People Couldn't Feel Their Own Fingers

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if these guys stare at the keyboard and poke slowly to make sure they pushed the right keys.

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It Does

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd kinda like the commenter to be right. Because then we could pretend that Marjorie Taylor Greene isn't a congresswoman. But she is.

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1 Kilometre Is Less Than A Mile

1 Kilometre Is Less Than A Mile

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Apparently, Skin Color Is An STD Now

Apparently, Skin Color Is An STD Now

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Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait.. we change color according to the color of the man we marry? How does that work? If I marry several men of different color... do I become a rainbow?

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“Counting Votes After Election Day Has Never Been Done Before”

“Counting Votes After Election Day Has Never Been Done Before”

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Never Leave Home Without A Clean Tampon!

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Ty Stratton-Quirk
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Andy: "Sir, I have three sisters and a fiance, and I'm sure they would agree with me that you've been using your tampons incorrectly the whole time."

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Confidently Incorrect About North America

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Adam C
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this really this common that Americans don't know geography outside USA?

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The President Of The United States, Totally Ignorant Of History That Took Place During His Own Lifetime

The President Of The United States, Totally Ignorant Of History That Took Place During His Own Lifetime

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Diamonds Are Heavier Than... Diamonds?

Diamonds Are Heavier Than... Diamonds?

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peter howard
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok first diamond isn't a metal (it's carbon) and 1g of diamond is still 1g of diamond ( the old question of which is heavier a tonne of feathers or a tonne of lead)

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An Interesting Way Of Adding Percentages....

An Interesting Way Of Adding Percentages....

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