After Battling Depression For A Decade, This Brazilian Model With Vitiligo Learnt To Accept Himself
Roger Monter is a 37-year-old model based in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. The special feature that makes him stand out in the crowd and has also caused major life challenges is vitiligo. It’s a rare skin disease that causes pigment loss, leaving large white patches all over the body.After the first white patch appeared on Roger’s skin at the age of 23, the world as he knew it shattered into pieces. It took a decade to accept who he really is and stop hiding behind makeup and avoiding any situation that would reveal his secret. He kept blaming himself for his skin condition after learning it can be aggravated by stress. Strangers avoided getting too close to him as they believed it was contagious, while others showered him in ill-mannered remarks about his appearance to the point that he couldn’t stand looking at himself in the mirror and was suffering from severe depression.
Only after he found genuine support in 2016 in a group of new friends he had met at the gym, he started to embrace his uniqueness. One day, he made a first step toward accepting his natural beauty and shared his raw photo on Instagram. No makeup. No filter. Inspired by the overwhelmingly positive and inspiring response, he continued to share his story on social media and eventually caught the attention of photographers who wanted to capture his out-of-the-ordinary appearance. Roger finally learned to love himself and ignore the negative comments.
But the true power of his influence on social media with 34.3k followers is the fact that by sharing his personal story of struggle and acceptance, he is able to help other people around the world to stand strong and embrace their true selves.
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A 37-year-old model from Rio De Janeiro, Roger Monter, has a rare skin condition called vitiligo
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Lack of melanin causes white patches to appear on his golden skin
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As a child, Roger didn’t suffer from vitiligo; it only developed at the age of 23
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He blamed himself every single day after discovering the condition can be caused by emotional stress
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He thought his life was over and spiraled down into severe depression
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During his darkest few years, he couldn’t look in the mirror and wouldn’t accept his condition
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He used to cover his white patches with a thick layer of makeup to hide his condition from the world, avoid the beach and the gym
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Strangers steered clear of Roger, thinking his vitiligo was contagious, or made hateful comments because of the way he looked
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His life changed in 2016 when a group of new friends at the gym convinced Roger his skin is unique and beautiful
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On January 14 of 2017, he posted his true face on Instagram and it was liberating: “This is me, no makeup, no filter. This is what I see when I wake up and before I go to sleep”
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He received an overwhelmingly positive response from his friends and strangers
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After finding out that his story inspired a boy to stop hiding his skin with makeup and helped another girl battling depression, he decided to post more pictures
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With this new confidence, he continued posting photos on social media and soon caught the attention of photographers
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Roger hopes that by sharing his story and photos, he will be able to help others to embrace their natural beauty
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Anyone can suffer from depression, anyone can have body insecurities. We need to include more voices in this conversation. I am very ashamed and embarrassed that I’ve let myself feel insecure for so long. This man took what was once painful to him, and turned it into a passion to help others and for himself to shine.
So good for him, but also I find it odd when someone is like, I thought I was ugly...so I became a model.
I was nauseated by heights, so I started to indoor rock climb...it’s one of the things I look forward to doing when it’s safe for me to do so. Eventually, I might take it outside.
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Okay everyone listen up, there are bullies out there and they pick on everyone they feel they can get away with picking on. The problem is not with you it's with them. All of us are different and we should be fine and accepting of that, don't let any one steal your joy. Bullies feed on other people to boost their own insecurities. I am a behavioral therapist and i can tell you a lot more about other people in 2 seconds. Life is not perfect but neither are they. Enjoy life especially in these difficult times, it's not always the big things. Peace of mind is a wonderful thing, do what makes you happy as long as no one is harmed physically, mentally or otherwise because Karma is a Bitch!
Anyone can suffer from depression, anyone can have body insecurities. We need to include more voices in this conversation. I am very ashamed and embarrassed that I’ve let myself feel insecure for so long. This man took what was once painful to him, and turned it into a passion to help others and for himself to shine.
So good for him, but also I find it odd when someone is like, I thought I was ugly...so I became a model.
I was nauseated by heights, so I started to indoor rock climb...it’s one of the things I look forward to doing when it’s safe for me to do so. Eventually, I might take it outside.
Load More Replies... Okay everyone listen up, there are bullies out there and they pick on everyone they feel they can get away with picking on. The problem is not with you it's with them. All of us are different and we should be fine and accepting of that, don't let any one steal your joy. Bullies feed on other people to boost their own insecurities. I am a behavioral therapist and i can tell you a lot more about other people in 2 seconds. Life is not perfect but neither are they. Enjoy life especially in these difficult times, it's not always the big things. Peace of mind is a wonderful thing, do what makes you happy as long as no one is harmed physically, mentally or otherwise because Karma is a Bitch!
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