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Society is an ever-shifting landscape of trends, traditions, rituals, and norms. Change is the name of the game, but for some people, change doesn’t happen fast enough. Redditor Jimjoe1 asked people what modern social trends anger them the most, and they couldn’t wait to share their real thoughts and feelings about what they feel is wrong with the world.

We’ve collected the best responses below, so have a read through them and tell us what you think, dear Pandas. Remember to upvote the ones you agree with and be sure to drop us a comment with how you’d personally answer Jimjoe1’s question.

Pssst, spoiler warning, plenty of these people think that social media and attention-seeking are some of the fundamental ills of the times that we live in. Read on for Bored Panda’s interview about our desire to be seen and adored on social media with an expert in history. If you think our fascination with wanting attention is something new, you’re in for a rough awakening.

#1

People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Treating opinion as fact and fact as opinion

Psychological_Bat865 , GoToVan Report

Lauren Caswell
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awesome court ruling here recently: judge deemed a mother's own 'googling and internet research' was not sufficient to deny her children vaccines, esp measles after a 2019 outbreak (NB this parent also rejected haircuts and dental care for kids until forced to[free of charge of course]). Judge basically said if I allow your (mum) opinion to be equivalent to that of a genuine specialist witness, then what is the point of these special experts? Anyone could start to claim to be an expert, too dangerous a precedent. Kids are getting vaccinated. Awful that it had to be done like this. She said they had natural immunity and didn't need vaccines, as her kids hadn't ever gotten the illnesses, and had been given 'holistic vaccines' whatever the hell those are 🤦‍♀️

Lauren Caswell
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She won't lose custody, they aren't stealing her kids or anythkng like that. There is just a minimum standard that children have the right to have, and serious risk outweighs the research she presented up until and during court

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StrawberryParfait
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Truth. Also, treating feelings as facts. Science is taking a real beating right now.

Ick Villiams
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just my opinion but this is going to be the defining entity of this age we are living. When people look back and learn a sizeable portion of internet enabled population believed and acted on woefully anti-science, anti-fact bs as though it was real they will find it hard to believe.

Mazer
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I might add information to the subject on masks and anti-VAXer’s. I was just googling to see whether or not anyone had thought to ask attorneys if they could sue somebody who refuse to wear a mask and refuse to get vaccinated. So I noticed that attorneys are actually advertising this now so if you get Covid from someone who has not worn a mask and has been all over social media spouting their “freedom” to not wear a mask and contact tracing Shows that that person has infected you you can sue them, I love it

Car addict
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

dont tell me that sign in the corner says lockdown = terrorism smh

Arctic Fox Lover
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awww, the poor doggo is owned by an anti-masker fool. I feel bad for the dog :(

Martha Hubbs
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could upvote this one unlimited times!!! Preach!!

Id row
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stupidity is a trend. That's depressing.

Jan Smith
Community Member
4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i hope this goes for ventilator mask as well as shouldn't be treated cos helping to spread it to others! selfish!

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    #2

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) The whole instagram influencer thing. Why are we following these people??

    rburgundy69 , Kate Torline Report

    Monic Krugell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly, what made them experts to give healthy informed advise on how to live your life?

    kasa alex
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don't influence jackshit. All they do is blindly promote consumerism and capitalist ideals. Except for body positive and women in sports and other influencer-types for marginalised groups and communities

    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Influencers" are the worst.

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or everyone has an onlyfans account and wants you to pay for their stupid pictures that aren't even worth paying for.

    POLARBEARLUVER
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    all they do is post PHOTOSHOPED pics of them

    Katie Garr
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    imo, some people that have followings on instagram deserve it (artists for example), but those who simply post random promotions or photos drive me crazy. redirect the fame to those who deserve it and work for it.

    Marco Pespega
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't follow none, I don't even understand why people follow them

    Jane Martin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are people being influenced by strangers.

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    #3

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Playing music or watching videos in public without headphones. If I go to a park or the beach I want to be able to hear the wind and waves and birds singing, not whatever obnoxious s**t you feel you have the right to subject everyone to.

    twcochran , Budgeron Bach Report

    Roland Gosselin
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    4 years ago

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    That's a basic lack of education, TBH.

    Something
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No it isn't. Education doesn't cure assholery.

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    kennedy1209
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, I would call it a basic lack of respect.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. It’s a fine point most people don’t get. They have every right to listen to whatever music they want, but when their music leaves their personal space and invades someone else’s, that’s where their rights end and the other person’s begin. Therefore, keeping it contained in their own space through the use of headphones or earbuds keeps them firmly within their own rights without diminishing everyone else’s enjoyment of the place, or their quality of life, or even potentially affecting their health by stressing them out—-remember, there are some people who are legitimately adversely affected by loud noise (such as some on the autism spectrum), as well as those who just want a little peace and quiet.

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or FaceTiming with someone in public or being on speaker phone..

    Laura
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's when you join in on the conversation or start sings the words to the song - loudly and badly :)

    Katz
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've also thought that FaceTiming on e.g. public transport should be considered as an open invitation for anyone in hearing range to join the conversation :D Haven't had yet possibility to try ;)

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    Michael Timme
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has become quite the problem with all the new hikers in national and state parks. Many go to these places to escape the everyday noise and racket and listen to nature instead.

    Bepina
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! It should be banned by law!

    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a top tier pet peeve of mine.

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    #4

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Gender reveal. Especially when people react badly. Imagine being a kid and coming across a video of one of your parents having a tantrum because you aren’t they gender they wanted you to be.

    ScienceFactsNumbers , BARBARA RIBEIRO Report

    Friday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine being the kid who’s parents started a wildfire or accidentally killed someone at your gender reveal. Some people are so narrow minded, selfish and just beyond stupid.

    𝕊𝕒𝕞 (𝕋𝕙𝕖𝕪/𝕋𝕙𝕖𝕞)
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine being the kid whose parents accidentally burned down half of California and then you turned out to be trans

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    Vorknkx
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why this "reveal" has to be a special occasion at all... I guess I'm too old-fashioned.

    JennyLaRue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate gender reveals. To all intents and purposes it's celebrating genitals (unless you're maintaining that you maintain gender stereotypes and get really excited by one over the other)

    Sergio Bicerra
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More than genitals, I guess is yet ANOTHER way to recieve attention. A couple of yeara from now people would be celebrating the first poop.

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    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our gender reveal if you could call it that was people asking us if we knew what we were having. "Yes, a boy". Mainly done over the phone.

    WildHoneyPie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We've been to two of these in my family. Both times were truly excruciating to witness. Both were for couples who already had two girls. When the gender reveal revealed, surprise!, a girl, both dads were crushed and acted so disappointed in front of family and friends. One went into a spare bedroom to lie down. The poor moms! If you are going to have a gender reveal why on earth shouldn't the parents find out in private beforehand?

    Sergio Bicerra
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought gebder reveals were for the extended families. You tell me now some parents find out just then?? Omg this is crazy. Enormous facepalm.

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    Lily Mac
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's even more heartbreaking when there are children of the same gender present. There was one in particular where the father actually screamed and went outside afyer finding out it was a girl whilst his daughters sat around the table looking so depressed and disheartened. The mother just tried to laugh it off too. So many kids deserve better.

    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't see the point of gender reveal parties. When did it go from an intimate thing between the parents to...let's invite everyone and make a spectacle? Maybe I'm just too old to understand.

    Alyssa
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stupidest trend ever. So cringey. 🤣🤣🤣

    Chris Hardtke
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one gives a damn what you push out of your crotch. You’re not special because of it.

    Aliquid A
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You aren't even revealing the gender, you are revealing the sex. A child is pretty much incapable of expressing gender before 3 years old.

    Notorious DBT
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THANK YOU. They drive me nuts. You're simply finding out whether you can see a penis on an ultrasound or not.

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    #5

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) People recording themselves doing “charitable acts” like buying a meal or giving money to a homeless person. I can assure you that person does NOT want their face all over social media so you can get clout for being a “good charitable person”. Sure do a good thing like helping the less fortunate but you don’t need to record it and have their face all over social media.

    aeb630 , Tom Parsons Report

    Monic Krugell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Charitable act: A charitable organization or activity helps and supports people who are ill, disabled, or very poor. ADJ n. ...charitable work for the handicapped. 2 adj Someone who is charitable to people is kind or understanding towards them. -- What they are doing is self public relations and not a charitable act at all.

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. It's the worst form of "Look at me, look at what a good person I am"

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    Iggy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not being charitable at all. It's arrogant, undignified vanity. It sickens me when I see people do it. Charity should be kept between the giver and recipient. The recipients deserve to be treated with proper respect,

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you a doing it to publish it, it's not charity. It's exploitation.

    WhoAreYouToSayPandasAreBored
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do get annoyed seeing all the charitable videos for attention BUT most of these people are literally recording every second of everything anymore anyways. I am glad they are spreading positivity and a semi-good influence on the younger viewers. Hopefully they inspire someone along the way to also pay it forward. Better than flipping through twerking wap videos lol (obviously my opinion)

    Shelli Aderman
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maimonides defines eight levels in giving charity (tzedakah), each one higher than the preceding one. On an ascending level, they are as follows: 8. When donations are given grudgingly. 7. When one gives less than he should, but does so cheerfully. 6. When one gives directly to the poor upon being asked. 5. When one gives directly to the poor without being asked. 4. Donations when the recipient is aware of the donor's identity, but the donor still doesn't know the specific identity of the recipient. 3. Donations when the donor is aware to whom the charity is being given, but the recipient is unaware of the source. 2. Giving assistance in such a way that the giver and recipient are unknown to each other. Communal funds, administered by responsible people are also in this category. 1. The highest form of charity is to help sustain a person before they become impoverished by offering a substantial gift in a dignified manner, or by extending a suitable loan, or by helping them find

    Easily Excitable Panda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was raised Catholic, and I've got a lot of problems with the Church, but I learned two very important things: You do not get into Heaven without works as well as faith, and those works don't count if you do them publicly. You're not showing off.

    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can overlook these because the person still gets help, and sometimes I desperately need to see people doing good things, even if their motives are suspect.

    Lara Kristelle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Serious pet peeve actually. You can do charitable work without having to plaster it all over socmed. While I admire you doing that, I would admire you most if you do that not in front of the camera.

    UncleRussian
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only exception for this that I remember long time ago there was a video where a guy went around different fast food chains trying to see what he'd get if he tried to order Big Smoke's order from GTA San Andreas and at the end he was like "Welp, we ate a bit but there's still a lot of it left. I ma just drive around the block and give some to the homeless folk round here"

    Vihra Stancheva
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's now always bad. I mean... it is still good to see that there are people who help. Especially for kids and teenagers.

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    #6

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Worshipping billionaires.

    shartedmyjorts , Steve Jurvetson Report

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worshiping influencers,/actors.. I just don't get it. It's fine when somebody likes them, but idolizing them? Too far imo

    Flare
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only idolize the celebrities who have saved lives in their spare time, like Harrison Ford. I mean, he rescued stranded hikers with his helicopter not once, but at least THREE times. He inspires me not because of his filmography, but because of his selflessness in real life.

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    Vorknkx
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me, the way Steve Jobs was worshipped (and later mourned) like he was some kind of saint was the most disgusting example of this phenomenon.

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially as he was an utter twat in real life.

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    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think influencers is on the same level...or those who actually refer to themselves as influencers.

    Nadine
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like Kylie Jenner, who is a billionaire because she has fake boobs, bum, lips. I worship the aids who changed my mother's diapers in the nursing home.

    *me*
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, just because they rich don’t mean they gods. They selfish children

    Royer Potts
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Didn’t they used to be called ‘Robber Barrons’?

    dora sim
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not that you should idolize anything or anybody, in my opinion, but billionares sure are some of the worst people to choose as idols.

    Adriaan Verhelle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not really a modern trend. This has been happening throughout human history

    Pamela Blue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Industrialized countries, (USA especially) have always worshipped money, therefore they worship billionaires, because they're hoping some will rub off on them. LOL! Sad really.

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    The history expert noted that even if we’re smart enough to know that an image posted on social media is “highly manipulated,” this doesn’t mean that we can easily identify it with our own two eyes. “It’s difficult now to distinguish real people from the highly curated image presented on social media,” she said.

    #7

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) "Don't forget to like and subscribe" or "1 like = 1 prayer" just please f**k right off with that.

    AirForceWeirdo , cottonbro Report

    Andrew Gibb
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thoughts and prayers? How about something that will make a real difference?

    g90814
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    T&P may make you feel better, but does absolutely nothing otherwise.

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    Aryaman Malik
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about drop a like and sub or a spider will be in your bed tonight? Honestly that's so cringy and annoying.

    Tracey Hirt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or "95% will just scroll past this, but people who really care about (whatever) will repost!" As if posting a meme will do anything other than clutter up your friends' feed.

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    Zarin Jashim
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you like the vid , then like. If not, dislike. If you like the youtuber, subscribe. It depends on your taste. And those shitty comments like, "Like=girl, Comment=Boys" or "those who believe in god/pray give like to my comment" in a totally irrelevent vid is very annoying. These people need to go to jail.

    Marika Miettinen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "don't forget to press that notification bell!" why the f**k would I want notifications for all the videos from the dozens of youtubers I watch? that'd be madness! I just open youtube and see what's new, sometimes I take a few weeks off and then have some nice binge nights while gaming.

    Michael Maurice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's because many people are subscribed to many channels. And based on our watching habits the Youtube algorithm determines what we like and what we don't which might be not the case so some of the new uploads don't show up in the subscriptions feed. So it's good to press that bell icon in order to know if your favorite Youtuber uploaded something new. It's not very important if you know you'll get back to him/her again anyway but it really does help a lot people who are still trying to establish a viewership.

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    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooh yes, I hate it when they do that. Seriously, Youtubers, don't beg for likes or subscribes! If I enjoy your stuff, I will like and subscribe without being specifically told to ;)

    Dl B
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please like and subscribe because I quit my day job to do this and if it fails I am screwed,

    Laura
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    when you have to get the feel good fuzzies while doing the absolute least amount of word

    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, "type amen or...." give me a break.

    Royer Potts
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And “1 like = 1 respect”, how does one quantify respect into a unit of measurement?

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    #8

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Making young children into social media stars. It’s fine to share pictures of your kids with friends, but aggressively documenting and marketing your family life for the public at large is... creepy.

    Hermit_Krab , Julia M Cameron Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awful. These posts and pictures are there forever. The child isn't old enough to consent. Protect their identity, they have rights too! Some sick buggers just use or even adopt children in order to make the videos.

    Ian Koch
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    under the same category, family channels on youtube!

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    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! And all the tv shows where parents exploit their children for profit. Most TLC shows are sickening. Those kids are so exploited and they're too young to understand the life-long implications of their parents decision to use them to make money.

    David Martin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had a problem with those TLC shows for a long time...my mother and sister were both heavily into John & Kate Plus 8, and it bothered me. The ultimate was when Kate happened to mention one of the children was going to taking piano lessons, they received a free piano, and she was mildly upset it wasn't a better model. Frankly, any of those shows on TLC though; If you stared at a family in public because "OH, look at all those kids! OH, there's a family of little people! OH, those people are [insert race]!" it would be offensive, but it's okay if you put it on television?

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    Vicky Zar
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Photos of your children on the internet are in general not advisable. Germany is very private on that front.

    J. Zingler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Greedy, the word you are looking for is greedy.

    Nika
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister-in-law is an "influencer". I rarelly have to call my brother nowadays, as I can see all the juicy updates about them ... like everything ... on social media 24/7.

    natie marie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there will be many future children taking their parents to court for this one day. your kiddo is not your accessory!

    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ryan's Toy Review needs to die

    Kevin Donegan
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Kardashians is the beginning of the end for American entertainment. (I've never watched one show.)

    Lola
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we stop using the word “Star” when talking about them? There is nothing “Star” like about them.

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    #9

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Treating depression like a quirky personality type.

    SuperTriniGamer , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or even worse - pretending to be depressed, in order to get sympathy or likes on social media...

    Conceptual&Colorful
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People fake all sorts of mental illnesses online, and it’s absolutely disgusting. Being a “psycho” is not hot, nor is it a synonym for energetic/impulsive. Depression and anxiety shouldn’t be used to make you “cooler.” It’s incredibly disrespectful to those who are really struggling.

    RandomBeing
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. I have ADHD. Like my disorder isn't a quirk idiots.

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    RoseTheMad
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have Schizo and DID, because of this, I also suffer bouts of depression and anxiety/paranoia. The amount of people who glamourize a mental illness as being something "cool and quirky/edgy" to have pisses me off. It's not "cool" or "quirky" or whatever. It's f*****g torture.

    Anonymousplease
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. Like my friends once said she wished she had an anxiety disorder when i told her I had an anxiety disorder. I was getting terrible stomachache, headaches and depression, nobody wants that!

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm depressed lol :)" CAN WE PLEASE STOP DOING THIS! SOME PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY DEPRESSED AND NOT JUST DOING IT FOR ATTENTION

    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, when you have suicide attempt scars going back to the 1980s, it's kinda obvs it's not a 'lol' situation

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    Emilycookie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah. depression isn't a personality, it's a sinking, dark, indescribable feeling that you can't get rid of.

    Bow, I’m a Slytherin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ‘My favourite TV show ended, I’m so depressed’ NO. Depression is not being sad some stupid TV show has ended.

    Something
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. Not all depression is clinical. The clinical usage was actually taken from an existing word that people still have the right to use.

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    Nathan Pogorzala
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world has turned into a giant game of One Upping. Sad.

    Myrkur
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who is autistic, it's so annoying when someone is like "oh I always put specific thing there! So autistic!". Or even worse, when it is used as another word for stupid.

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being autistic sounds like freaking torture. Glad I just have ADHD. It's annoying but it's not as bad as autism in terms of how people treat you.

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    Anonymousplease
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretending to have mental health issues is just terrible, so is completely over reacting to everything and having all your posts be about your fake mental health. New flash, lots of people with mental health issues hide it, not post jt everywhere.

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    Dr. Nicholas believes that our inability to distinguish between real and highly curated images on social media “reflects something of our true selves now,” implying that things are here to stay. At least for the time being.

    But for those of you lamenting that modern society is a nightmare, wishing to go back to the good old days, ask yourselves this: which days exactly are the so-called good old days? Dr. Nicholas told Bored Panda that we’ve all lived with various images of beauty since at least the 1920s, and “these have become parts of ourselves.”

    Our modern focus on social media is merely an extension of a long historic fascination with beauty. Similarly, other trends could be seen as continuations or reactions to previous trends once you dig a little deeper. That’s why having a solid foundation in history is vital if you want to make more accurate guesses about the future.

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    #10

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) How quickly misinformation spreads through social media. It’s seriously a dangerous thing in society and it’s pretty terrifying

    bvsshevd , Ivan Samkov Report

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "A lie will get half way round the world before the truth gets its boots on"

    N G
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At this point, Truth had better just pick a pair and start kicking.

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    JennyLaRue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm still trying to work out how people arrived at the conclusion that there were dead babies in the covid vaccine - yet that theory has really taken root in some places.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know about the covid vaccine, but there are some vaccines that shouldn't be taken by pregnant ladies. (Covid, probably not)

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    Truth Monster
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of this I blame on what I call the Drive-by Media. They ask no questions and they take whatever the Associated Press is publishing as their source and template. Its a tainted and incestuous well. Public opinion is being shaped by people who can't be bothered to do 5 seconds research or to ask 3 questions. Social media only amplifies this, as many people read articles uncritically and never consider that what they have been told has been cut and curated to try to preach propaganda.

    CatWoman312
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The media in general is guilty of this.

    Melissa Wong
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People should and must unite. But a divided people are far easier to control.

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    Vicky Z
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    However there is also positive side of spreading news through internet ! In my country it helped a lot with "metoo" and people that were accused, are now facing prison because of the expose! And recently a man, sexually assaulting women in the streets was recently identified cause of the social!

    Foxxy (The Original)
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a friend on Facebook that posts a lot of misinformation, especially from the daily mail. I show her proof that it's fake and she always acts like she knew it was fake the whole time.

    Jan Smith
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's also frightening just how quickly people will believe the false stuff over proven facts

    Bored Birgit
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misinformation about Covid19 had me lose trust in human common sense.

    N G
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Common sense is neither sensible, nor all that common, sadly

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    UncleRussian
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we just throw away Twitter and Facebook? Just yeet both sites into the garbage cauz nowday both are really toxic...

    Alyssa
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Facebook especially should be rolled off a high hill into a valley of burning hot lava.

    Esca Sav
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Facebook is absolutely terrifying. I went on my mom's Facebook and only saw Covid and Trump propaganda even though she never goes on it. I'm not surprised there is so much misinformation around when sh*t like that is being thrown in your face 24/7.

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    #11

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Toxic positivity “Just be positive!” Yeah thanks Carol I didn’t realize just staying positive would cure my chemical imbalance

    NoStateOfGrace , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    Zarin Jashim
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeh ,annoying really.

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you are at your lowest point, when the black pit you are in is so deep you can’t see the light any longer, the last thing you need to hear is some git telling you to just be positive. Push off, moron.

    Misstaken138
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously. If it was that easy wouldn't we have done that already? My other favorite is when people tell you to count your blessings. I get that they're trying to be helpful, but when you're in a deep depression your brain isn't exactly functioning in a normal way so it's a little hard to think of anything positive.

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    Fixin'Ta
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a person with chronic mental and physical illnesses, I can unequivocally say there is no more invalidating thing than hitting a suffering person with your toxic positivity. Learn what empathy is, learn how to "be with" someone in their suffering without being Mary Sunshine or trying to fix it with platitudes and cheerful sayings. If you literally CAN fix their problem or otherwise make it better, by all means do. But tossing toxically positive sh*t their way is NOT being a friend.

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That isn't really new. Excessively perky people have been saying things like "Smile! You can choose to be happy!" since forever.

    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people mean well but don't realize their positivity is toxic. I give those people a gentle talking-to first, 9/10 times they've understood.

    Sergio Bicerra
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, I didn't realize it was a thing until maybe a couple of months ago. Now I find better to say "I'm here for you" than "everything is gonna be ok"

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    Suzanne Haigh
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is annoying is that usually sane people waste time watching and reading those posts

    Nimue47
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right after I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and my medications where not yet in balance, I got the remark that I "just needed to buy some running shoes and go run it off". Yeah right, like that alone would have helped me.

    Laura
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or - take this pill my mlm/pyramid scheme is shilling - it will cure your depression forever !!!!!!!

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't blame me!!!! LOL! I'm on anti-anxiety meds...

    Vicky Z
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you worried? Don't worry! Jeez thanks

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    #12

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) anti-vaccination. When vaccines were first discovered or developed or however you want to say it, they were mostly seen as a scientific break through. A great success. The wonders of man kinds great power and ingenuity. Polio? What polio? But now, it is trendy for many to be now smarter than several years of research and hard work. To know more in 10 minutes on YouTube then someone who has dedicated years of their life to study what other people before then also studied for years of their life and so on and so on. Years of human evolution, growth, study, break-throughs, accomplishments, ground to a halt by some jack wagon with a social media account.

    Gharrrrrr , Gustavo Fring Report

    Angela Brisebois
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a stroke because I caught whooping cough in an area where there was an outbreak and anti-vax cluster. I can't express how angry I am, years later, at people who refuse to believe that vaccines work/help. I would not wish what happened to me on anyone...how can people take such a stupid chance on themselves/kids/family/friends/strangers? The mind boggles.

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's because people are incredibly selfish. Vaccines aren't there only to protect "you" they are there to protect other people from a danger that YOU might pose to THEM. My personal odds of contracting pertussis is quite low, but I am vaccinated against it to reduce the chances of contracting and spreading the bacterium to others without becoming sick myself.

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    Vicky Z
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Antivaxxers are the most selfish antisocial and completely ignorant people on earth!!

    Freya the Wanderer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If there is any justice at all, they will all get sick of diseases that can be prevented with vaccines. Anti-vaxx and COVID-deniers who die from COVID-19 deserve a group Darwin Award.

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Antivaxxers have to be some of the most entitled, ignorant, and dangerous people.

    niki.bordeaux
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    soni w: do you take any medications? Or do you feel it's too dangerous because of the side effects, even if the pills will prolong your life or keep you from chronic pain? It's the same with vaccines. If you didn't know before the shot, I feel sorry for you, still this doesn't give you the right to call anyone willing to vaccinate stupid or uninformed. Most people are aware of the risks and can do the maths: the risk of a complication from a vaccine is way smaller than the risk that measles have, for example.

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    Priscilla Reshell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when people say vaccines cause autism like it's a f*****g disease

    ivan bolitekurac
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when those people get their information from facebook

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    Rider
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it only affected the anti-vaxxers I'd be more than willing to volunteer at their Darwin Award ceremony.

    N G
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not new to social media. It's been around since the 70s and earlier (can't confirm exactly how far back, I'm going off what my mum told me *she* got told when I was a baby - I'm fully vaccinated by the way, apart from C19 coz I've not had my second dose yet)

    grafxgal60073
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I especially "love" the anti-vaxxers who believe the COVID vaccine injects microdevices into your body and then turns you into a "zombie for the state." Really?

    Brett Layton
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh man I love that one too, saw a video from a guy in the army talking about how they cant locate each other with the best government GPS tech but somehow we microized it and got it working in a vaccine?

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    Katie Morris
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anti vaccine - yep this is crazy - the polio vaccine was the best thing in the world as was typhoid , measles , mumps , rabies, tetanus, and so on ......

    Doc Thissen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my favorite things to say about anti-vaxxers is that there are two things that never get old: Dark humor and kids that aren't vaccinated.

    niki.bordeaux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And most ironically, most anti-vaxxers have been vaccinated as kids and don't have a clue what it was when Polio was still a thing or how awful it felt when 3 of your 4 kids died during a measles outbreak. They profited from vaccines and deny their kids the same protection.

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    Are the internet and social media to blame for what’s wrong with society? I like to think that they’re merely tools and aren’t inherently good or evil, but we make them so with how we use them. Or, to put it a tad more poetically, they’re funhouse mirrors that reflect and amplify our inner selves.

    Social media can be a way to get in touch with long-lost friends and to give a platform for your art. Or it can be an excuse to post endless vapid selfies and to advertise products for monetary gain.

    #13

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Food blogs for a simple recipe. I don’t give a f*** about reading a story before reading a recipe

    guiltycitizen , Klaus Nielsen Report

    Commander OwO
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. It takes eternity to scroll down to the recipe

    M O'Connell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Food blogs tend to follow a particular format. One of those features is the ability to print a 'recipe card' version of the recipe instead of the in-line version with the blog post. If you Ctrl+F for the word "print" it will take you past all the nonsense, directly to the content.

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    RoseTheMad
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "This recipe reminds me of my Grandma.... *several hours later* and that's how my great great great great great great great uncle Ernest discovered the cocoa bean."

    Kristal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And all the pop-up ads! Arg.

    A Cat Named Dragon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not sure it’s true, but I did read that they have to put text first in order for it to appear higher in search results. Probably there are recipes out there that have the recipe first, but those just don’t appear in your search.

    Jessica Nametz
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needs to be higher up for sure! I can't stand having to scroll through like 8 pages of crap before the recipe. Put the recipe at the top and the blog at the bottom, we will read that sh*t if we want (newsflash: we usually don't)...

    Dawn Bodtke
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of the good ones now have a "jump to recipe" button at the top. Love that

    Punkie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so happy when they put the jump to recipe button in there.

    tuzdayschild
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I must agree that this trend sucks like a black hole.

    Jazzy Mc. Jaz
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg that is why I only use the ones that have a recipe button, I prefer cookbooks, but my step mother said they where bad, and burned the good ones. One was literally Betty Crocker. My stepmother burns cupcakes so much they are a black rock. I bake pies, cream puffs meringue cookies, cheese cakes and more that she wouldn't be able to do. there fore I don't think her cook book opinion is valid.

    Bobert Robertson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah when did this become the norm. Give me a picture of the finished meal, a list of ingredients, and the steps. That's all, I don't want to know how your aunt mary created this when living in a shed on a farm in Oregon.

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    #14

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Family vloggers horrify me. The concept of exploiting your children's lives for views is particularly awful. And because it's a relatively new concept there are no real laws around child labor or exploitation concerning it. There are youtubers out there right now who live in mansions worth millions of dollars that they got from shoving a camera in their toddler's face and demanding them to perform for strangers. I can't even imagine the psychological repercussions this will have on these kids in the future.

    AggieChristie , Gage Skidmore Report

    Friday
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read today about that awful YouTube couple who put their healthy dog down, they apparently backed out of a Thailand adoption because they were forbidden to discuss or show the baby on social media for 12 months. These type of people do not care about children, only chasing money.. https://amp.nine.com.au/article/c2ff7936-818b-47e6-9332-09361787befe

    kjorn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's like the papparazzi... who,s the fault? the one who did that or all those who follow them?

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus, they’re encouraging their kids to pursue being an influencer as a career. They’re not encouraging them to go to college or otherwise train for a real skill that’s useful and always will be, like teaching, plumbing, and other real professions—-not frivolous, potentially damaging, and out of style in the blink of an eye, like influencing.

    Jessica Shookhoff
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't see how the laws applying to children in movies and tv don't apply to the internet. A screen is a screen is a screen. If it's being produced by a company laws apply; if it's being produced by the parents almost anything goes!

    LeighAnne Brown-Pedersen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Duggar’s are an example of this, 19 kids and counting, being famous from a young age and look where their oldest boy is now...

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who makes them? Stop subscribing or clicking their videos

    POLARBEARLUVER
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I.HATE.FAMILY.VLOGGERS. they just show off how much money they have n stuff

    Thenatural
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're looking at you Exploding f*****g Unicorn!

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm looking at Goo goo Gaga. The only one I have ever seen.

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    Fixin'Ta
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you watch How to Dad on YouTube, you might be willing to make the occasional exception. Kiwi dad who makes funny "dad videos", straight-up stuff, no exploitation of children involved.

    Pervinca
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can understand this only if it is the only way you can pay for your children colleges or things like that. But in the majority of the cases these people are already rich, so no need for extra moneys exploiting your children. They will have the possibility to choose their career when they are mature enough to handle it. At least, this is my mentality, maybe I have a too old mentality for all of these social media things.

    Janelle Collard
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope all these people are saving some $$$ for the therapy their kids will need in the future. (probably aren't, tho.)

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    #15

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Justifying being an a-hole with “it’s just a prank”

    brch01 , Polina Zimmerman Report

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's been this way for decades, it was done in the playground before social media

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The classic excuse of abusers since forever. Usually followed up with one or more of the victim-blaming phrases “What’s the matter with you”? “Can’t you take a joke?” “You have no sense of humor”. “Lighten up”. It’s a prank when you’re both into pranking, the pranks are harmless, and you’re both having fun doing it. It’s abuse when you’re the only one doing it, the pranks are humiliating and cruel, and you’re the only one having (perverse) “fun” doing it.

    Vicky Zar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly not everyone understands this. Not even otherwise good, decent people.

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    Ick Villiams
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who ‘prank’ are just a-hwols there’s really not much more to it

    Catherine Kane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there's such a thing as real and funny pranks this is not it

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    Soulstice
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gosh I hate this so much. It's not "JUST a joke" it's literally making fun of someone.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate pranks! Not funny to see someone shocked

    Daniel O'Neal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Schrödinger's jokester: someone who says something rude or malicious and then decides afterwards whether or not he was "just joking"

    Easily Excitable Panda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the same thing as "Can't you take a joke?" when telling HR about sexual harassment. If it hurts someone, it's not a prank.

    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sets the person on fire, *person visibly angry*, "It's just a prank bro".

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just a joke, right? But roughly half at least of what is said or done that is justified this way, is in actuality an attempt to show one's true, socially or morally unacceptable feelings, while trying to deflect any blowback with the whole "joke" rubbish

    Kelly Countryman
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or defending other a-holes by saying "That's just how they are,"

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    Similarly, the internet itself is both a vast repository of painstakingly verified knowledge and funny animal videos, as well as a seemingly endless archive of half-truths, rumors, fake news, and gossip. You can’t have the good without the bad. Though it’s always healthy to sit down and think about what you’d change about the world if you could. And then, perhaps, even go out and make those changes into reality.

    #16

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) How almost every article is a video rather than an article. I can get to the main point faster reading than it takes for the video to get there.

    tekka97 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    Andrea Purzycki
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! Especially when I'm looking for a video game walkthrough. I just want to know where this one chest is. Show me a picture, a few sentences about how to find it, and maybe a map. I don't want to scroll through a 20 minute video to find out where this one stupid chest is.

    Jayne Kyra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could upvote more than once because I could not possibly agree more.

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    Jenny Pugh
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a deaf person, this is particularly annoying as many of the videos don't have captions.

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ohmygawd I ABSOLUTELY HATE it when I am supposed to "watch a video" JUST TELL ME. Or those damned one sentence, one page stories. I usually just google the main topic and read it somewhere else.

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or you see an article for a "see what she/he looks like now! you'll be AMAZED!" and you go through it and it's page after page after page until you've reached page 31.

    Cory Tollman
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are really annoying, especially if the format is messed up so you have to scroll a bit to get to the NEXT tab. They mainly do this multi-page thing to make it appear like they have more traffic than they actually do because each page is it's own thing instead of having everything on one page that you can scroll down on. They get more clicks with the multi-page thing.

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    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or how every article is turning into a tiktok.

    VeninTheNonBinaryRogue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ikr? I read really fast, and I don’t like audiobooks or stuff like that because a 12 hour long audio book I could probably read in like 3 or 4 hours

    Kristin Ingersoll
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES!!!! I've come to the point of not even seeing the titles on the CNN homepage if there's a video arrow graphic. I don't want to wait thru your flipping ad, and then meaningless banter from your reporters. Just let me speed read, thanks!

    Manjula Sridhar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Have skipped many useful info just for this. I can read faster than I watch.

    Fixin'Ta
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the very least provide a transcript so I don't have to watch the video. Sometimes I'm not in a good place to watch something (doc's office, etc.), and just want a summary or a transcript so I can READ what they're talking about rather than watching/listening.

    KC Lancaster
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally agree! Unfortunately, so many of these folks fell for the "you can get more likes/exposure with a video rather than text & screenshots" technique. So infuriating!

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    Pamela Blue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES! I miss out on quite a bit of online news because I want to read about it - NOT watch a video. So I simply back out and carry on. There's plenty of other stuff to read out there, and my life doesn't depend upon seeing someone's video

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    #17

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) The overgrowth of identity. There’s nothing wrong with being any race, gender or sexuality (or any other thing), but it doesn’t make you any more ‘legitimate’ or more of an authority on anything. I guess I’m just tired of all the deepening divisions. If you get too engrossed in your ‘tribe’ you’ll lose sight of all the other people out there.

    cewumu , Kaique Rocha Report

    blugeagua
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But..... if your identity is constantly threatened with violence and hatred, simply for being who you are, then that IS the reason why many marginalized groups take immense pride in their identity.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you indulge and are proud of your heritage, your culture, that's ok as long as you don't dub others and there culture as inferior.

    LAWLAWLAW
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't bother me, I'm a teapot

    StrawberryParfait
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Also, your rights end where mine begin, and your feelings do not trump my rights.

    soni w
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the point. Keep us separated and make sure we all know how to be compartmentalized into our own little factions. We will never Unite as a people for the few common causes that will keep humanity together.

    Karl Baxter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indeed. I am a mix of several nationalities by blood. However I am not going to amplify or emphasise any of these in the name of victimhood in the name of fashion or expediency when these characteristics have nothing to do with the situation.

    Eric Schultz Saindon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is shortsighted. People of color and other marginalized groups aren't asking to be more legitimate than others, they want to be seen and given equitable opportunities. The fallacy of saying that something like Black Lives Matter means that POC are asking to get more is disingenuous, they're saying Black Lives Matter TOO, as in also. People are just mad because marginalized groups are allowed a platform in today's discourse, so therefore they want "more."

    Michael Sanders
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are right about the initial purpose of many of these movements. The problem is that then some take it in a direction that ends up resegregating us. Unfortunately intention can lead to some unintended results.

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    Shelli Aderman
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, AND... The problem is when folks assume supremacy. And it's institutional. Since day one. So yeah. Not upvoting this one.

    Paul Aguilera
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    anyone ever see that Fairly Oddparents episode where timmy wishes for everyone to be the same? That's what i want, we all just gotta be one race, one color, one gender. Like some crazy amorphous blob thing

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    #18

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) The instagram Kardashian body image crap. Those bodies are unachievable without surgery, money, trainers, chefs, etc. Cellulite and love handles exist. Eat healthy, exercise and love who you are with confidence.

    Sydneyfire , Eva Rinaldi Report

    Friday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot filters and photoshop 🙃

    Nic Dudley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact that an "unapproved" photo being released is devastating to them says a whole lot about how fake they are.

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    Demon Child
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, they literally edit all photos. That's why it was a big deal when a picture of an unedited kloe was leaked. The worst part is, she was so pretty in that one, like and actual human being

    HiddenGenZ
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I never understood about their fame and stuff like wth

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Kardashians have more plastic in their body than Barbie.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And face! Everywhere same make up, same eyebrows, same hair!

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve noticed so many of the “influencers” on IG all look the same. The same fake big butt, small waist, plumped up lips, small nose. It seems like the kardashians started it and they all want to look exactly like her. They all look like clones. It’s creepy.

    Janus Sanders
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll never understand the plumped lips thing. why do people want that look? it's so unnatural!

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    Royer Potts
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do women actually want to look like bowling pins? I don’t think they do.

    Barbara Vandewalle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There will come a time when aging will win.

    Sylia
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Still Kylie Jenner has almost 250million followers on Instagram makes you understand there’s something wrong in this world !

    C.S. E.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone ever heard of Body Dysmorphia? It's a real problem.

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    #19

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Basing your entire identity around political parties that don't even represent your interests.

    DeathSpiral321 , Benjamin Claverie Report

    Thorfin Wolfsbane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what's actually worse is people exchanging their religious beliefs for political identity. yes, i'm looking at you conservative christians!

    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truth, I can't stand people that judge with one hand and jerkoff with the other. If they really wanted to base their political affiliation off religion they would be Democrat's. Thou shall not kill, thou shall not bare false witness, clothes and feed the poor, my lands have no borders. Yet Republicans refuse to believe any of this.

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    Nadine
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never will understand why some of our citizens with the least income idolize the man who thinks they are losers and would step over their dying bodies on the street.

    LeighAnne Brown-Pedersen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And liberals and conservatives being persecuted for not being democrat or republican enough. Since when is middle ground a bad thing. We ALL need to meet in the middle.

    Joe Dad
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm right with you on this one. I'm so sick and tired of this divide.

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can be,I even whatever you want to believe, worship however you want to worship, and vote however you choose. Just do not try to force other people to do the same, either legislatively or through shaming, guilt-tripping, or violence. You do you and let me do me.

    WhatEvenIsLife
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Treating politicians like rock stars or your favorite sports team. They're public servants. You're not meant to worship them blindly, and you don't have to agree with every single thing they say just because they belong to your party.

    Dl B
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Politics in the USA has become some people's religion.

    Something
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worse each side gets, the more repulsed the other side is, which drives them deeper into the worship of their own party.

    Gin Marie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's no "each side" here, sweetie. The Repubs are evil. The Dems are not. The Repubs lie and promote lies and elected a liar.

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    Dawn Bodtke
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or stating your interest and being cursed at for being one of that party. Geez, there are lots of interests, don't have to be all or none.

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    #20

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Influencers. I can't stand the term, it gives whatever dickhead thinks they are famous a feeling of superiority. Plus everyone seems to be an 'Influencer' and not actually engaging in proper life. Grrr

    theundeadworlock , Mateus Campos Felipe Report

    Nica Van
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've said it before and I'll say it again: I think the only people influencers influence are other influencers. Like a big influencer circle jerk.

    Valley Girl
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I would really appreciate is if companies stopped giving ridiculous amounts of money to both influencers and celebrities. Pass those savings on to the consumer by lowering prices. I don't care what media whore is on the commercial for the skin care cream. I love Matthew McConaughey, but I'm never gonna be able to afford that Lincoln truck I want if they keep sending him checks.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus, they're always trying to get someone else's hard work for free. "Oh, I'll feature you on my insta. I have 514 followers!"

    kjorn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the only social media i'm on is facebook because i'm a history geek and love all that kind of stuff i can find on it... snapchat, instagram, tiktok i avoid it like the plague

    Hollysmom
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand why anyone cares what someone ate that day, wore, did, etc... I have my own life, there's isn't more important than mine and they only influence me to prefer animals over people.

    Sandra Llewelyn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They can only do it because of the followers

    Mark Morey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty easy to ignore, though. Knowing they exist is depressing, but only because of the pathetic beings who make their existence possible.

    Sylia
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally agree ! The thing is that People give those dickheads the confidence by following them by tens of thousands !

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Change the term to "Influenza" It's much more to the point and describes them better.

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    #21

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) The idea that every one of your hobbies needs to be turned into a side hustle. No one is allowed to simply have hobbies that they love, you have to strive to be good enough to monetize it

    snoort , Caroline Feelgood Report

    Nat Hedley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If you enjoy something, why not make it a stressful obligation upon which you're financially dependent? Suck all the joy out of your life today with Side Hustle "

    Dest
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why I'm studying to be a programmer. I love art, but forcing myself to do it and then ending up hating it breaks my heart

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    troufaki13
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love commenting on BP posts, it's my hobby... Bored Panda you need to pay me!! lol

    DramaDoc
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. My mother keeps telling me I should start selling my knitting. I've been telling her for YEARS that I do it because I enjoy it, and selling only turns it into a job.

    Misstaken138
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. I crochet a lot of animals and dolls and my grandma always tells me I should sell them. I'm with you on not wanting it to become a job. So much time goes into each one and I do it because I care about the people I give them to. Seeing their face when I gift it to them is what motivates me to finish it. If I was doing it for money it just wouldn't be as enjoyable plus I would feel pressured to work faster since someone is paying me for it. Plus let's be honest, you would never make enough to compensate for how much time and love goes into each piece. I've read different formulas for figuring out how to charge for handmade items and I'd have to charge a ridiculous amount given the fact that each doll or animal takes me weeks to complete.

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    Vorknkx
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you monetize it, it's no longer a hobby - it's a job.

    Word Weaver
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like our society teaches that an activity doesn't have value unless you're producing and making the best of the product, like drawing or painting. But you don't need to be good at something for it to be a stress relieving hobby.

    Sean Harrison
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is more a symptom of our economy and the "gig culture" that has evolved around it. Most jobs don't pay enough, or they pay just enough, to afford rent. So people need to make more money to afford everything else.

    Dio
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The amount of absolute garbage people glued together with a glue stick that they're trying to sell is absolutely terrifying.

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry nothing wrong with a side hustle as long as its legal. I have an Etsy shop but and dont get a lot of sales because I dont use all my energy on it. I dont want to hate the things I love to do but dont want an overwhelming amount of items I have made lying around because I dont know what to do with them. So I take lots of breaks and when I feel it I do it.

    tuzdayschild
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know if you rich people are aware, but some of us need extra to survive.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They always tell you to find a job doing something you love, blind to the fact that if you turned something you love into the daily grind of work, you'll soon hate it. This inane philosophy is responsible for the death of more passions than anything else.

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    #22

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) When people see someone in distress, instead of helping they whip their phones out and film. Social media and smart phones have absolutely messed this world up.

    TankRCDC , Dario Fernandez Ruz Report

    N G
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm torn on this. Depending on the source of the distress it may not be appropriate to interfere and filming it instead will be vital evidence. If it's clear that help can and should be provided, then yes, use your phone to call for help and not film.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about this instead: If someone else (singular or plural) is already successfully helping, then you can be the one who records the potential evidence. But only if there’s a legitimate legal reason to do so. Otherwise, keep your phone in your pocket and mind your own damn business.

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    Jo Choto
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Often this is a horrible practice, but there are many instances where those recordings have led to justice that would have otherwise been impossible to achieve, such as the George Floyd recordings.

    Ellie Rosser
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before phones they just would have walked away, it’s the people that mess the world up not the gadgets.

    Charlotte A.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People filming accidents for instance is not just bad because they're not helping. They make things worse - they get in the way of ambulances or fire fighters for instance and sometimes they post images and videos of these injured strangers online (without permission, obviously). It's illegal here, but some idiots haven't realised that.

    Annik
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree somewhat but if that brave young woman hadn't recorded George Floyd being murdered by a cop....

    Emilycookie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the world was messed up before, social media and smart phones are just helping people realize that.

    tuzdayschild
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the news, I saw a very little girl in the ocean with at least 3 shark around her. She was terrified and running out of the water. Whoever stood there videoing this instead of helping her should be horsewhipped.

    Martha Higgins
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good thing that young girl got video of Derek Chauvin! Probably wouldn't have been a great idea for her to have "interfered" with four police officers, though. Four men who should not be wearing the uniform.

    Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tbh, I’m a little torn on this, cell phones are in a way good because my friend moved away and now I can contact her. But yeah on the other hand it can get toxic sometimes.

    Dilly Millandry
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That isn't what this post is about though. It's about filming someone who is upset or maybe even in danger when they could be helping them.

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    Jods
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry, I can’t call the emergency services because I’m busy filming the person as he dies.

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    #23

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Mommy wine culture. The normalization of needing to drink to tolerate your kids. As a mom who doesn't drink it seems like there is so much normalization of alcoholic behavior that it makes me sad.

    bootsandspurs , Elly Fairytale Report

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sad and frightened. Parents are the ones who drive their children wherever they need to go, and monitor their activities to ensure they’re safe. Mothers are also the ones who need to be careful about Fetal Alcohol Syndrome in any children born after they become alcoholics because they’re dependent on wine—-or whatever alcoholic beverage they move on to—-just to get through the day.

    StrawberryParfait
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a man was having a drink each day after work, would you be as concerned? No one is saying drinking to the point of intoxication here. And no one is suggesting drinking while pregnant. This is just more woman shaming.

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    Hoppinger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not just about how often and how much they're drinking. It's how they talk about it, joke about it, give gifts like wine glasses that say "Mommy's Sippy Cup" on the side, there are t-shirts etc. All with the message of how alcohol is the choice way of coping with kids. I've been in morning parent meetings full of women who joke "Is it too early to start drinking?" Or "We need morning cocktails!", "After last week we all need to go have few!" Sometimes kids are standing right there. Nothing wrong with drinking, the problem is when you give the message that your kids are driving you to drink.

    Joanna Blake
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us just like WINE!!! It's not to tolerate our kids it's because it's yummy 😃

    Logic and Reason
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, thank you. Alcoholism in general is becoming way too normalized, and this is a significant part of that.

    StrawberryParfait
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    4 years ago

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    A glass of wine a day is not alcoholism. You do know that in cultures other than North American, this is perfectly acceptable, yes?

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    Julie Mattise
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn’t a new thing. My oldest is 20 and this was a thing back then. Don’t have kids if you need to drink to tolerate them. It’s not remotely cute or funny.

    Helene Cvfgrt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It goes with the victim parents syndrom. Those kids didn't appear out of nowhere to fall on you.

    BatMom
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet mommy marijuana use is still taboo af, even in legal states. Like, let's normalize being a functioning alcoholic in order to tolerate your children/life, but shame you if you use a medicinal herb to help with anything at all. WTF

    Misstaken138
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear you. It's funny how there's still a stigma even tho it's legal. I don't smoke, but my husband does and it's never once been a problem or made me feel concerned about his ability to watch our children. He keeps it where the kids have zero access to it, he doesn't do it in front of them, and he doesn't smoke so much that he's incoherent. He has severe knee and leg problems so his primary Dr suggested it to help him cope with the pain he feels on a daily basis. I'd much rather him smoke weed than be poppin pain pills. No judgement on people who take pain pills, they're just not my cup of tea after watching my sister get hooked on em. As long as you're able to function and care for your children, do what you gotta do to get thru the day. I mean, in the grand scheme of things, what's worse... Taking a couple hits off a joint to take the edge off, or being stressed out and taking it out on your kids? Whether it's weed or alcohol, as long as you are responsible about it, that's all that matters.

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    alwaysMispelled
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. You don't need to do anything about your kids' asshole behavior, like, PARENT them. Just hide from them and drink. Make them the world's problem instead.

    StrawberryParfait
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look---it helps. If a mother needs to take the edge off, then let her. Raising kids is no picnic, and moms usually get precious little support from their husbands when it comes to childcare. A glass of wine a day is a perfectly acceptable self-care ritual and not a symptom of alcoholism. Try not to shame other mothers. They are doing their best.

    Something
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having a glass of wine to decompress is okay, but being specifically dependent on it is not.

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    Tracy Wallick
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As the daughter of an actual alcoholic, 'mommy wine culture' is a slap in the face every time I see it.

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    #24

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Letting little kids have social media (unsupervised). They are not equipped to handle any of it. So many conflicts spawn out of it.

    Teddylina , Katerina Holmes Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never ever. I check all apps for chat functions in any capacity, I know my kid isn't ready. But I know kids around his age (8-12) that use it 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    Jessica Shookhoff
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I completely agree! My kids can't use my phone or computer unsupervised, my tv does not, nor will it ever have, Youtube, and everything is password protected. I started easing restrictions with my oldest when she was 13 (she's 18 now) and I plan on doing the same with her younger sisters. I've also educated them repeatedly about the dangers of online people you don't know. Predators will use chat functions in games to target kids! I make sure my girls understand it's not them that I don't trust, it's the people I don't know.

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    Confused Flamingo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I even joined Twitter rt now when I am 18 and I found a 6 year old on there cursing trying to fight bts stans....imagine a kid was giving out death threats to grown people

    Word Weaver
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social media is really hard on your mental health. It doesn't matter what age you are but on impressionable young minds, it can do so much damage.

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My 6 year old has an iPad but it is heavily restricted and it locks out at 6.30pm. The only websites he can reach are the BBC Bitesize pages and the Chrome Music Lab. There is no way he will be on the internet unsupervised any time soon. Not that he is aware of social media or anything like that

    Pervinca
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. There have been some cases of kids suicides because of online bullying or even because of some stupid challenges ( at least in my country). People search to blame the social network ( sure, it could have some faults), but where do the parents were? Your kids, your responsability.

    RiaDeCaterpillar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am in high school, and the only reason i want social media , is so that i can have a private acc and keep in contact with friends i don't see as much + see what my friends are up to.

    Mark Howell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter wanted FB when she was 12 to chat to friends. I createdher account and linked it to mine, so all her posts I saw. I know this sounds creepy but she actually thought it a good idea; especially when she got bullied at school and we got it sorted fast.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell that to Zuckerberg who wants to make instagram for kids!!

    ~hUmMuS vIbEs~
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i mean, sure kids should have phones (from like 12 or something idk), having a phone isn't the same as having social media

    Jazzy Mc. Jaz
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm almost 16 and my step-mother has my phone (witch I got for Easter this year )heavily filtered. I cant do anything past 9 or before 7 and I Don't have safari or google or social media (I have tic tock but its my stepmothers account and KID'S messenger) and I have one game and can't download any more. kids my age have it all and my phone number is not of value because no one talks that way. my bf can do whatever whenever so he ignores me its not like I can do anything on my phone because after I use apps after a certain time they lock. This is rough and I feel everybody's gonna have it so why not give it to them and if you don't trust you kids for no reason than get some therapy.(Also my step mother lets her kid do whatever and he's 10)

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    #25

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Without a doubt, I can't stand cancel culture, gaslighting and the insane oversensitivity shown in social media. I'm going to write it clearly........"If you don't like something, don't watch it, interact with it or have anything to do with it." Just because you don't appreciate what someone has created, it doesn't mean it's your right to remove them and their art entirely. John Cleese said it perfectly "From the point of creativity, if you have to keep thinking which words you can use and which you can't, then that will stifle creativity"

    Boomage79 , Clem Onojeghuo Report

    Isabella
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can not upvote this enough!

    Gin Marie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? Funny how people never admit that canceling is what Repubs do. They want to cancel voting rights, womens' rights, facts, elections, democracy, truth, reality, and any time they don't get their way. And they're all supporting a petulant orange toddler who lies and has constant tantrums.

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    linda derosett
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Far too often standing up against racism, misogyny and xenophobia amus being defined by the buzzwords of cancel culture, which then places those who are speaking out in a position of defending their stance of advocating for decent behavior. I wish I didn't have to see hatred for anything that goes against any progress in the way we treat those who have historically been treated as less than, but I see it every day. It isn't cancel culture, it is consequence culture and for many, long overdue.

    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as it isn't harming someone, yes. However, bigoted behavior, misinformation and discrimination need to be called out.

    Kim Stucky
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can people stop to consider that some things DO need to change? Some things DO need to be called out, and our stagnant thoughts on a topic really should be challenged. No one likes change, but it is inevitable. No one is “cancelling” anything. We are figuring out there is no need for certain words, phrases, books, statues, etc. in our modern culture. They can’t be erased from the past, but they shouldn’t be used going forward.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't agree with cancel culture either!! We need to learn some staff and be educated otherwise there is no way to see progress! Watching mistakes of the past will prevent making the same in the future! Also we cannot judge something according today's standards! It's crazy

    Gin Marie
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    4 years ago

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    Really? You better hate the Repubs, then.

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    Jo Firth
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ricky Gervais said, "Just because you're offended doesn't mean you're right" ...

    Logic and Reason
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, no. Ignorance may be bliss, but not interacting with something does not mean it isn’t causing harm.

    Reagan Maher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because you don't like someone's opinion, it doesn't give you or anyone else the right to bash that

    Anna Won
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because you have an opinion, that doesn't make it fact.

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    Sandeep Pandita
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not interacting with it is not going to solve the issue at the root - people being not considerate. Some people act oversensitive and gaslight on everything, but then some so-called artists/influencers are completely insensitive. These insensitive creatives, get more encouragement when they are not held responsible for their creations. What should happen to a song/video/post where the creator is racist/stereotyping? It should be reported and taken down. I can not attack someone or some community, and get away with it under the banner of "Creative Freedom". With freedom, comes responsibility.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do I add more than one upvote?

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    #26

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Public shaming. Terrifying how the blind rage of an anonymous crowd can ruin your life in hours.

    Boborbot , Inzmam Khan Report

    Truth Monster
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They used to call these lynch mobs. They used to let you die with some dignity by hanging you and be done with it. Now they ruin your life and salt the earth. In some cases, death might have been a mercy.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lynch mobs didn’t “let you die with dignity by hanging you”. Read up on them. They did some pretty sick and gruesome things to the people they lynched before they hanged them.

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    RoseTheMad
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cancel Culture can go f**k itself. I get some people need to be canceled, but there are cases where people cancel people over things that happened near enough a decade previously, and it is clear they have changed a lot. Jenna Marbles, for example. Yet people like James Charles, who are creepy ass pedo's, don't get cancelled? ex f*****g scuse me?

    WilvanderHeijden
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's worse is that people get canceled pure on allegations. Just tell some story about someone and before you know it that person's life is destroyed. No evidence needed.

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    Viv Hart
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the reason for the shaming, like abuse of child, animal, wife, husband, or somebody driving so badly that they could cause an accident. I have no pity for these fools.

    A Cat Named Dragon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but we shame so many people so violently for relatively small offenses that it reduces the effect of shaming people for real, terrible offenses.

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    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have you been to Bored Panda lately?

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the one thing I dislike about BP. You have one controversial opinion and then people hate you. They insult you. It hurts. (This is true for most other sites too tho.)

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    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with this, but there are some instances where the a**holes just need to be called out. Like the white military guy and his wife harassing a long time black resident because he was just walking down their street. Or the woman that brow beat a pregnant black soldier in a restaurant because she was offered a table first. If you publicly make yourself out to be an a**hole, then the world deserves the right to call you out on it.

    Michael Sanders
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that’s different. Those things should be called out and many of them are on video. But real shaming is done constantly by people who don’t even know the person they are shaming, have no context, no facts or even proof what was done is 100% true. Many are already put to death before facts actually come out.

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    Vorknkx
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was typical for the communist regimes in SE Europe. It was sometimes called "The Comrade Court".

    s. vitkovitsky
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now they call it cancel culture, but it's still just a mob of people with torches and pitchforks, except hiding in anonymity with fake nicknames on Twitter, etc.

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    blugeagua
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ONLY when the person actually deserves it. Like a racist, misogynist, homophobic, transphobic etc type of person.

    Thenatural
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you decide that someone deserves it? Misogyny,homophobia yes...racism absolutely..but transphobia? People are being labelled transphobic just for having a different opinion...I don't believe that trans women should be allowed to compete in women's sports for example,does that make me transphobic? Because if it does then that makes Caitlin Jenner transphobic.....

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    madeleine f
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree. We are losing focus on the serious problems by shaming and cancelling left, right and centre. What has happend to common sense and ‘choose your battles’?

    StrawberryParfait
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. She did and said nothing wrong, but apparently standing up for the rights of women and girls is considered a crime these days.

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    #27

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Words like "victim" and "survivor" being thrown around so much to the point where they are losing their meaning.

    Allenrw3 , Andres Ayrton Report

    Aga S
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget the "struggle" too. One more "everyday life struggles of a girl" and I'm ready to throw said girl off the roof 🤦‍♀️

    Iggy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The word 'hero' has also been thrown around far too much.

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially when they confuse being a "hero" with being what should be an average human meeting the requirements of basic decency.

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    Something
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually think the stigmatization of the word "victim" is a problem. People want to replace it with "survivor," but not all victims survive, and that's not their fault. If someone is or was a victim of something, it doesn't reflect on them or define them at all.

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And hero. That word no longer means what it is.

    blugeagua
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if you go through a very violent encounter and/or were sexually assaulted and you lived to tell about it then you ARE a victim and a survivor. How the hell does it "lose meaning"?

    Marnie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are talking about them being thrown around too much, so that it becomes meaningless for what you are talking about - real victims. I know a woman who talks about her "abuser" on occasion. Her abuser was a guy she was playing D&D with. He had his character flirt with hers. She didn't like it, but went along with it because she "didn't want to be murdered" (playing D&D with friends!) She literally refers to that guy as her "abuser". In her mind, she is the "victim" of abuse and has "survived" it (by not being murdered while playing D&D with friends). My son knows several (several!) other young women with similar stories and outlooks. That's why it's a problem.

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    RoseTheMad
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate the fact that once you're labelled as a "victim" or "survivor" in that context, it's a label you never escape, not because you don't want to, but because it's all people will sometimes see you as. :/

    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for silencing those of us who truly are survivors, and those who struggle, and those who are trying to speak up against bad stuff... I agree the attention-grabbers diminish the reality, but htat's been true without internet.

    Marnie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you speaking to the poster of this, or to the people who overuse "victim" and "survivor"? Because wanting people to use those words correctly are an attempt to NOT silence actual victims and survivors.

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    CincyReds
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I so get this The one I absolutely hate the most is all Hero's don't wear capes, I can't stand this one

    Sue User
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once took a trip alone through Ireland, staying in hostels, traveling by public transit. I was called "brave" by my coworkers. I was 35. Brave, for taking a vacation alone. Still shaking my head.

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    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And hero. It great that someone helped another person out, but they're not a hero. People are supposed to help others, it's called being a good person.

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    #28

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Recording strangers to see their reactions.

    VoluptuousPorsche , Rebecca Harris Report

    Iapetos
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you do that to me, don't be surprised by me flipping it out of your hand and making you fish it out of a duck pond.

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. I don't want any of those creepos near the precious ducks.

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    magnadar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In switzerland it's forbidden, thank god. You need consent of the other person/s to record

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same in Germany - if it gets published we can demand to take it down

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    Lola
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, this is a thing? You will never see your phone again if you do that to me.

    Friday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so intrusive and disrespectful. It should be frowned upon, never glorified.

    PandaMonium
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did not know this was a thing. That's some serious assholery

    denzoren
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100$ bill taped to the street with a huge DSLR and tripod next to it..."let's see how hey react"

    Foxxy (The Original)
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this so much. The last thing I want/need is some stranger videoing me or taking photos and then posting them online. Should be illegal.

    Iggy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely. It's a massive intrusion.

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    #29

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Social media influencers asking for free items unsolicited, then when of course they decline they threaten to (and in some cases do) leave bad reviews forcing the company to have to respond to false allegations for no reason.

    llcucf80 , carringtondurham Report

    Ick Villiams
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s almost like Bored Panda have done a posting about this very issue

    Nica Van
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aka, people without real jobs extorting legitimate, hard-working business owners - and wasting their valuable time - to get free stuff.

    ThePracticalSarcastic
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i was hopeful the pandemic would have given them a dose of reality having nothing to influence...but they're back in full force unfortunately.

    Hollysmom
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The pandemic just gave them more free time and a larger audience.

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    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get request to collaborate with "influencers" a lot. They boil down to give me something for free, and I may or may not give you a shout out on my page. But really I just want free s**t.

    bill marsano
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about plain "Social media influencers, " period?

    KC Lancaster
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BP has discussed this in many articles, but it's still worth saying again. As someone who's been approached time and again by these entitled folks (aka scammers) I belive these warnings should continue since not everyone is aware of their ridiculous demands in exchange for your "exposure".

    Deb Dedon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another word for this behavior is 'extortion'.

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    #30

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Glorifying celebrities and treating them like gods. Like, I understand being a fan of someone, but you don't have to create an entire livelihood around them or try to emulate them. This is also how people get into positions of power when they shouldn't be.

    A_Wild_Striker , Eva Rinaldi Report

    Kristal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has been a thing since the first celebrity, the worship and emulation is not new. What's new is information access; many celebs have social media accounts for more access to them.

    Nigel Paul
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. It’s the very thing that allows me to rely to you…and so much more which I find quite frightening. I’m new to all this and still have no social media presence, by choice.

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    Love unicorns
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve never understood why the Kardashians are famous. It’s like they just popped out of nowhere!

    Aunt Messy
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    Premium
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kim got filmed giving someone a blow job. Then she got more plastic than a Tupperware party. That's their whole story.

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    Nica Van
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll add to this that legitimate artists, actors, writers, musicians, etc. who actually have talent can be interesting but I don't need to know everything about them. Unfortunately, "Celebrity" is now bestowed on people who are famous not for having any talent, per se, but because they exploited and monetized themselves. Kim K became famous because she was Paris Hilton's friend and when Paris' sex tape was released and made $$, Kim's Momager saw an opportunity and f**king released Kim's sex tape. What mother DOES that?!?!?

    Nic Dudley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! Celebrities are just humans, they have faults It always seems like a shock when it is learned that someone is a bad person or has mental illness or has a medical condition. They s**t and die, just like everyone else - fame and money does not change that.

    Philly Bob Squires
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As has been said a hundred times... "we gotta stop making stupid people famous."

    KellyO
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so f**King ridiculous what qualifies as 'celebrity' these days. remember when people used to have to pay their dues to achieve fame? apparently now all you have to do is act like you can't believe that photo or video got leaked to the internet. give me a @~!%! break. #icanhearthemsayokayboomer #eyeroll

    Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too true. I like celebrities like Dove Cameron, Taylor Swift, Dua Lipa and I think they’re really talented. But I don’t glorify them. They are human beings just like me, so they shouldn’t be treated very different.

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Celebrities have replaced hereditary monarchies as royalty to be worshipped.

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeh, just like greedy, selfish Megan Markle

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    #31

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Modern people (including most the people I've dated) getting pissed that I don't reply to them immediately. "Why were you ignoring me bro?!" I wasn't. I'm just not addicted to my phone. People will b***h and moan about how I don't reply to them immediately, but if you put them all in a room, they can't look up from their phones to have a real conversation. Why did they ever invent active statuses?!?! It's so goddamn annoying to have people get mad at me because I used the calculator on my phone at work, and then people look to see that you were on your phone, and immediately think you're ignoring them. I'm at work. I didn't even notice your STUPID. BUBBLE.

    Notthesharkfromjaws , Ketut Subiyanto Report

    Sasy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember a time when friends and family respected business hours, meaning you only called if something was important, and if you had to leave a message you expected to wait until end of work.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that was back when you had to wait by the phone for them to return your call.

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    Bored Birgit
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have my cellphone with me everywhere I go, mostly it stays at home - some people can't understand that.

    Kenny Kulbiski
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only use a cellphone on vacation. Yes I'm one of those dinosaurs that still has a landline. I can't see where my life has been negatively affected.

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    Candy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was LIVING with my mom, she would post stuff on FB and then ask me if I saw it and why didn't I like/comment on it? Because you can straight up talk to me about it instead of making FB the middle man :/

    Hollysmom
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Young people consider it "normal" to use their phones during a date. Concerning

    Ozacoter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never understood why WhatsApp or other chat apps don’t have a “offline” function, like the old msn had. I might want to have my internet on (for google maps for example) without receiving messages.

    Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not gonna lie, I do get annoyed when people don’t reply within 30 minutes. I’m not like texting them saying “BRO ANSWER YOUR PHONE” but yeah, you get the point. I’m just not a patient person lol.

    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, for my youth! You returned a phone call the same day, and you were a *star*!

    Casey Burns
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because of social media. The normality of feeling included is necessity. I've committed my fair share of "thinking I'm ignored."

    Jackie Nettleton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m terrible at not responding to people and the people who are still my friends deal with that part of me and plan accordingly and when I text them if they reply straight away or it takes hours doesn’t matter as I know people have lives to live

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    #32

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Doing a stupid "challenge" that will end with one or more people injured, imprisoned, or worse.

    alpaca1yps , viviandnguyen_ Report

    Esther (she/her)
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    one word: Tiktok. Why? The (pretty sure it’s called)skull breaker challenge and many more

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They'll be up for a Darwin Award...

    Paul Aguilera
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No way! We need MORE dangerous challenges! The more dumb people that get themselves killed or imprisoned for trying to get attention the less society has to deal with.

    Bella, Your Kitty-Loving Queen
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like the coronavirus challenge on TikTok. It’s the stupidest challenge I know, so it belongs in the comments.

    Jo Chrisco
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't stand people that film other humans or animals and continue filming them when they are injured.

    Nigel Paul
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can’ be doing with it. It wouldn’t be a craze if it was ignored!

    Eliyahu Rooff
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And don't forget the moron challenges on social media: "99% of the people reading this can't think of a word that starts and ends with the letter T," etc. The only people for whom they're challenging are small children still learning to read.

    Kelly Hartle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just think--if we'd called it a "mask challenge" in the beginning, we'd be over Covid by now.

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    #33

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Woke culture. It doesn't allow for people getting better. If you have to dig 7 years to find something bad someone said on twitter they maybe a improved person now. I care about how people are now not 7-10 years ago or that they say something stupid in high school.

    deephair , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It takes a special someone to spend time trawling through twitter to see if someone made a dumb tweet when they were essentially a child or very young adult.

    J. Zingler
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A bachelor in "Gender Studoes" is not a jbo guarantee, you know?

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    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well said. People change, sometimes over the course of a month, let alone 7 years. I am not the person that I was 5, 10 or 15 years ago. In fact, looking at some stuff I've said and done years ago usually makes me cringe - I realize how stupid and pointless it was.

    Ileana Sky Aviles
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Woke and cancel culture are new monsters of this generation.

    𝖊𝖆
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I felt bad when a Flash actor got fired, for a tweet he made at 17. It was over 10 years ago, at the time he was in school and was quite sheltered. You also have to bear in mind some people are taught things by their family or community, like in small towns where everyone looks the same. Since then, they have left home, met new people, have different friends, have a different lifestyle, changed their attitude and beliefs etc. It seems wrong to judge someone on a silly comment they made as a teenager when they are no longer that person.

    Joseph OReilly
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My family and I were talking a few months ago about whether or not someone should be "cancelled" for doing something that was acceptable in the past that isn't in the present. Like the Dr. Seuss books that got yeeted for some reason even though it was fine at the time. Food for thought.

    Scagsy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is everyone so offended by everything? Get on with your life, don't be a social justice warrior.

    Sean Harrison
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Woke/Cancel culture isn't about activism or making real change, it's about winning. They just want to feel good about themselves and that they won, regardless of the damage they did to other people's lives.

    Something
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, if someone does believe something objectionable, alienating them is not going to get them or anyone else to change for the better. It will only reinforce their belief.

    Ozacoter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. A lot of people with good intentions (anti racism, anti homophobia etc) get so rabid and intolerant that at the end they are damaging their cause instead of helping it.

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    Karl Baxter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the hell can possibly live up to the standard? People are (& always have been) complex and contradictory. The truly “woke” person does not (& never has) existed

    Logic and Reason
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes they’re still the same but it can only be found in writing 7-10 years ago. Like anything, this should be handled on a case-by-case basis.

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    #34

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) That people think their lives need to be viewed to be lived- it’s like privacy and being private are considered repressive. People are always online, posting about their lives, and everyone wants validation about every aspect of their lives. Just f*****g live ‘em!

    AntiqueGreen , Kampus Production Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Truman show, but with a wider cast, and willing participants

    Nat Hedley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh so much this. I got people having a go at me because I didn't have any photos of my brother's wedding to show them but they had a professional photographer there and I'd promised myself I wasn't going to put a lense between me and my brother's wedding! It's like people want to view their life at one step removed.

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve came across a few people over the years who thought it was so strange that someone my age (28) didn’t have social media (unless you count bored panda.) they thought I was hiding something or that I wasn’t who I said I was. I just never felt the need to post my life online for the world to see. My boyfriend and parents are the same way. My boyfriend’s mom is obsessed with FB and posts every little thing. When our baby was born we asked her to not post her online. Thankfully she has respected our decision.

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only really use bored panda as my social media too, I'm in my early 30s now but I've never seen the appeal. I had to ask my son's father to stop the stupid Facebook account he made when our kid was born, posting stupid stuff like our kid had said it, even tho he was a baby 😡🤦‍♀️ what a stupid stupid thing to do (he closed it pretty quick after this was brought up, can't believe I had to tell him tho). I'm glad your bfs mum has respected your decision! I think ppl in our age bracket grew up on the cusp of this tech change; some of us stuck with our more familiar wats we learned growing up, others enjoyed and adapted to the MySpace era and onwards

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    Justin Seagull
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's fun to share and it can be enjoyable for some people, but if you record everything just because you feel the need to, that's not a healthy state.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Over sharing on an internet that’s written in indelible ink, not eraseable pencil. Once you put your private life out there, it’s there forever, no matter what “scrubbers” may say. And available for viewing by everyone, including potential employers, pervs, stalkers, criminals, and other people you really don’t want knowing everything about your life. Something people generally don’t think about before uploading their pictures and videos.

    Ludwig Michiel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to live my life according to the French adage "pour vivre heureux, vivons cachés"...

    Thorfin Wolfsbane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    pretty sure the official diagnosis for this is narcissist.

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who wants to see a livestream of me falling asleep on the sofa? Or my expression when I have to put on The Peanuts Movie for the 5th time this week.

    Nigel Paul
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t. I have friends and family with whom I keep in touch with by phone, text and the Pub and don’t crave on line recognition. I cannot agree more with your statement “just f*****g live ‘em!”

    Brett Layton
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel bad for them, unless they are truly interesting folk their following will vanish over time. You wont be young and pretty forever im sorry to say. And I do hope when you get to that point you have something else to motivate you besides how many followers you have.

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    #35

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Narcissism. Everyone has to livestream their trip to the grocery store, or sits in front of a beautiful natural site and never turn around and look at it, because they’re obsessed with themselves and creating this false narrative about their life. Everything is all about “living their best life”(usually at the expense of others) or “living their truth”(complete BS not remotely based on reality). It’s all about them, and only them. F*** I hate these people...

    SexyWampa , cottonbro Report

    Friday
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These people do not know how to truly live in the moment, so it’s really their loss.

    Sammi Unni
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    on the flip side... i want to film everything i do for me, because Alzheimer's runs in my family, and i am scared of forgetting all my small mundane things i take for granted =(

    Janus Sanders
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    but that's different, because you're doing it for a deep personal reason. this post is talking about people who just film everything for attention. also, I hope you're able to film as many amazing moments as possible to look back on :)

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    Franc Esca
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Narcissm is not a trend. Newsflash, people were always this way!

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't hate them. And they're not narcissists. The issue is that they either haven't learned or have forgotten that one's self-esteem comes from one's own accomplishments. Instead, they've based their view of themselves on other people's reactions, so they have to MAKE their lives look amazing in order to get the positive feedback. (Man, I wish this site allowed paragraphs in comments!!!)

    Marina van Dijck
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This much hate is also lame,control your anger,dude.

    Marnie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not "everyone" fortunately, but too many.

    Sue User
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a Facebook account, but rarely post because most of what I do is mundane.

    HammerzToe
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you have to tell the world how awesome your life is, it usually isn't.

    Kelly Hartle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're busy showing other people how you live, you're not really living, are you? Experience things for yourself, not for them.

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    #36

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) You can't just buy something now. Everything is a subscription. First it was just Netflix, then it was dollar shave club. Now every TV channel is a separate subscription, every household item wants to send it to you over and over again. Nothing is released physically, so the only way to watch a movie or check out a new album is to pay someone monthly. Services that were offered for free or one-time purchase are rescinded and now offered as subscriptions. It's so obvious that everyone and everything just wants to milk you as long and for as much as possible. And people just buy into it willingly. I know people who spend like $200 a month on stuff that was free like, 10 years ago. People are even offering themselves on a subscription base now. I can't believe how cool everyone is with watching all their money disappear all the time.

    thejazzace , Mollie Sivaram Report

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    CDs and DVDs are still available for music and film. Some of this is an exaggeration.

    Roland Gosselin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a definite trend though, you can't deny it. Same for software (SaaS). Heck, same for coffee (Nescafe doses are a form of subscription, you are stuck with a single expensive option once you've bought the machine)

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    Logic and Reason
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adobe products as well. I miss the days when you owned something when you paid for it.

    Anna Repp
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I still keep my old macbook and cannot get it upgraded because I have a downloaded copy of Adobe on it. I'm afraid that if I update the OS, Adobe would stop working and I'd have to get a subscription .

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    Shelby P
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the ones that makes me the angriest are the software companies like Microsoft Office & Adobe Acrobat. You used to be able to buy a cd with the stand alone software and use it for years until you felt like upgrading. now you have to buy a subscription services for $x /month and you suffer all their stupid updates and broken fixes ad infinitum.

    Nat Hedley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Support the things that still work the right way - go to that local book shop, make a date with the shops to browse for a couple of hours every month. Disconnect your purchasing from the Internet giants before your choice disappears forever.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I detest the subscription model. Whoever invented it should be cast into the Ninth Circle, along with the inventor of Autotune, whoever got rid of butterfly windows on cars, and the cretin who came up with the concept of health insurance.

    Philly Bob Squires
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanna kill Discovery. Yeah Discovery +! I get it! You have an obnoxious banner in the upper right corner that turns into something blocking the whole bottom of the screen for 20 seconds then back to the top all though the entire show! Oh and the three commercials for it every 10 minutes between 7 other commercials. And they're taking a lot of stuff off the channels (that we pay for in our cable) and make them exclusive to the stream. Even if I wanted to, I can't stream on my TV because they just can't access it. I can now pay $XXX for a Roku or Firestick (more money) so I can pay for a subscription for something that I used to get with my standard cable that I pay for! Holy S**t!

    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People aren't cool with it. People don't have much of a choice. I hate Comcast but it is the only high-speed internet service and I live in Houston, TX. The 5th largest city in the USA and I don't even have a choice for ISP. How is that allowed!

    RiaDeCaterpillar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Libraries is where i get all my books, video games, movies and tv shows from. But a lot of tv shows aren't on dvd anymore.

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use to you would, in the states, watch tv with commercials, generally no more than six minutes and hour. So, you were basically paying to watch tv, no biggie. Then it was cable, more channels but still commercials, so you were "paying" twice: commercials and cable. Now, on cable, "reruns" [shows that were on this morning and you didn't get to see but you could watch them "on demand] you now have to pay for through "all access" and let's not mention HBO, Showtime, etc., you pay for them separately and now you are paying for tv through commercials, cable, on demand, "all access", Amazon, Netflix etc. We no longer watch tv.

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooops, sorry, I misunderstood your comment! I totally agree with you!

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    #37

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Plain articles of clothing like a t-shirt where the only thing on them is a large graphic of the logo of the brand that made it. See it a lot with “Gucci”. People are literally paying hundreds of their own money to be a walking advertisement for a company.

    jimjoe1 , Frank Schwichtenberg Report

    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Oooh, I don't have a personality, perhaps wearing a famous brand can substitute for that."

    Andrea Purzycki
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've felt this way ever since I was a kid. I didn't understand why all my classmates were wearing shirts and sweaters with OLD NAVY written across it in giant letters. Are they paying you to wear that?

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not new. "Designer" crap first appeared in the 70s.

    Easily Excitable Panda
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's been going on a lot longer than that! It was first commercialized in the late 19th century, and it's only gotten worse since then.

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    ForgetfulSoldier
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People literally out there buying white t-shirts with the word “Supreme” on it for thousands of dollars, it’s incredibly stupid.

    Laura
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has always made me laugh. I've walked up to people and asked them how much the company paid them to advertise, and they look at you like your an idiot.

    Ash Trash
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have HATED this for years, just stop please

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not me, I dont own one piece of brand name clothing. I could of been voted most likely to never have style. My daughter has been asking me for air jordans for years (too many to count) and unless she has a 90% off coupon she will never get them from me.

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well this is not a new thing. Levis, Doc Martens, Adidas...

    tuzdayschild
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just let it go. Why do you care what someone else is wearing or how much they paid for it. If they didn't use my money to do it, then I sure don't care.

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    #38

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) I'm exhausted with how vapid and fake social media is.

    cogitoergopwn , Ivan Samkov Report

    Monic Krugell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jip, when everyone I studies with now on social media "looks younger" than what they did when we studied 14 years ago!!!

    Kevin Wilcoxon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like social media wins again!

    #39

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Recording people in need for clout.

    overthinkingdreamerx , JoshPalerLin Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never. And dont force it on them, or act like they owe you in any way (ie for clout etc) i know ppl say beggars can't be choosers but that's dehumanising esp when in literal examples of beggars like this, rather than a metaphor

    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even the Bible (for all its countless flaws) says thay bragging about being charitable is a very crappy thing to do.

    Kat Hoth
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Makes me sick! If you want to help someone, you don't need to record it.

    Michael Timme
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doing the right thing when no one is watching is more impressive

    Monic Krugell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just ignorant and self-serving....

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you really want to help people in need, Go volunteer at a food bank a soup kitchen or homeless shelter

    Alyssa Sweat
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone records themselves doing something kind or thoughtful, just to get likes, more followers on social media etc.

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    #40

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Public grieving. And berating those who don’t grieve publicly. When Chadwick Boseman passed away, people were hounding his co-stars regarding their responses. When Malik B of The Roots passed away, Questlove actually found out by being spammed on Twitter by a bunch of strangers. Imagine finding out one of your closest friends died, because random strangers wanted an immediate response from you.

    Wookie301 , fibonacciblue Report

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate public grieving too. I mean... how do you even have the strength to think about your social media when you grieve??

    N G
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When it's Performance Grief

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    Nathan Pogorzala
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got downvoted like hell on a post about a man revealing on twitter his wife had a miscarriage. I don't care if it got downvoted, displaying that kind of s**t on social media for the attention of fake grieving "followers" is f****d up. It wasn't even meant for family but his "audience". Is there any privacy anymore? Did this guys wife want everyone knowing her tragic business. Leave some things alone.

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While we're at it, can we get rid of those stupid roadside memorials for traffic accidents with the rain-soaked moldy teddy bears and fake flowers?

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate these shrines (?) erected when someone has died. They are never cleared and weeks later are just piles of dangerous trash, full of plastic and wire

    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grieving is a very private thing. And it should stay that way.

    Foxxy (The Original)
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one should be forced to grieve privately, some people feel better by talking about it with others. It also makes others feel less alone.

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    Kristal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... um, funerals/wakes are a form of public grieving. Grieving with others is part of being human. Some reach out via social, some don't. Perhaps this OP really is more upset with people forcing their idea of how to grieve on other people? That's definitely not okay.

    jtrisn1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not it. As people said in the other comments, it's performance grieving. These people are treating the celebrities' death as a type fo entertainment, chasing after their coworkers and family and friends for "statements" on their deaths and then getting wildly upset when they either don't say what they want to hear or don't say anything at all

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    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before social media - When Princess Diana died the public demanded The Queen come back to London and grieve with them; they didn't give a damn about William and Harry's feelings. They wanted her to baby them.

    Karl Baxter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Princess Diana - the gold standard...

    Ara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too true. The documentary "Diana: The Mourning After" really showed how questionable public mourning can be.

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    Veronica Elizabeth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS!! Isn't that what cemetaries are for? These "shrines" for people - whether celebs or not. So tired of seeing faded plastic flowers on the side of the road etc...

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What annoys me most about these is when huge piles of flowers are left at these sad sites yet no one will go back in a couple of months to clear them. Metal, plastic etc is harmful to nature, but NO, we have to leave this mess to remember

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    #41

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) The fact that if you don't have Instagram and don't document your whole entire existence you're a nobody and don't have a life and live under a rock??? Excuse me but since I deleted social media accounts my life seems way more fulfilling and enjoyable than having to worry about how many people views my story and liked my photo of what dirt i ate for breakfast.

    whatdoyoumeanwork , Amy Humphries Report

    Kateryna
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with this one!! "Have you not seen this trend? You live under a rock!!" No, I just have different interests, that's all.

    Pamela Blue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! I often wonder about the mental state of these people.

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    Manu
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social media is the cancer of mankind

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. Same. I feel like social media made my depression worse.

    MeGhana NagaraJan
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have an insta account. And when someone asks me i just tell them i don't want it hence i won't have it. People don't understand and i get comments like how I'm a 24yo missing out on all the fun, and not being in touch with the world. As if only instagram lets me know about the world. Hell yeah, lets me know how stupid a few ppl are.

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It really is the other way round isn't it? Less time in the internet more time to actually live a life

    Toujin C'Thlu
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have Instagram, and use it to keep up with family members who are across the country, as well as show my non-selfie photos. I don't believe in documenting my entire life online, and I can't stand influencers.

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've cast off social media as well. The only downside is greater difficulty in meeting new people.

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had this with a teller in the Royal Bank of Scotland, she told me "to get a life" (my passport had run out and I had no photo on my driving license), I immediately closed my account and started a new one at a more respectable Bank.

    Lynn Morello
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never have had or want Instagram.

    Sue User
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Applying for a job ( in tech ) and it was mandatory to give a Linkin profile. Sorry.

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    #42

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Couples recording pranks on each other that are so painfully staged. It’s the same super popular trends that are reproduced. Like do you really need to act so shocked the tenth time your girlfriend pretends to strip in front of the camera but actually has clothes underneath her towel? Are you really THAT shocked? At this point I just block but I just can’t imagine people have that much time

    overthinkingdreamerx , RODNAE Productions Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The giant fake open mouth grin smile faces, oh god it's second hand cringe, just so fake

    Magpie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every cover of Oprah magazine she has the big open mouth smile. I think it’s to make her face look slimmer

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    Demon Child
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG BABE! DID YOU SEE THAT?!?! There's a CLOWN outside our window! What was that? its a prank?... OMG HAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I WAS GONNA PASS OUUUT OMGGGGGGGGG UR SO FUNNY. But on that note guys make sure SMASH that like button and subscribe in 5...4...3...2...1...0! Ok guys Demon boi out- See ya next time! *do something more cringe, like lick the camera*

    magnadar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do you even click and watch them. Do it like the capitalist citizen does it with things he doesn't like. Don't buy it

    Jackie Nettleton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The latest one is wives and girlfriends playing a soundtrack for Sunday night football just to see the guy wondering in and then being “confused” about it not being on the tv it’s sad

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or the fake videos of revenge pranks or catching someone doing something horrible. Never seen such bad acting in my life.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pranks in general staged or not are horrible

    Avery S Alberico
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *ahem* 5 Minute Crafts and Troom Troom

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    #43

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) How people try to destroy you or simply frown upon when you don’t join whatever bandwagon they’re on.

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    Pamela Blue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, they TRY to destroy you. If you don't give a rat's a$$ what they think, then you just ignore them and carry on with your life. Too many people make social media/the internet the total sum of their lives, which is very VERY sad. If someone tries to be pushy with me, they're blocked - simple as that.

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seen this happen so often on even BP, where most are factual opinions hopefully

    Reagan Maher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People have their own opinions, let them

    ivan bolitekurac
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was not on the Obama bandwagon here.Can't wait to count the downvotes and eventual insults

    Magpie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially when it’s the people who call themselves open minded but bash everyone who doesn’t agree with them.

    Stephen Foley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just ignore them or on Social Media I block them if they annoy me enough.

    Gogubaci
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is why I have 5 friends in total lol

    QUINCY—PLUTO
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an ex friend who now sharing love in other peoples posts (not on bored panda) But sharing hate on mine and telling people who DID share love on mine to stop

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    #44

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Everyone acting like experts on crazily complex topics because they either read a headline or one article that agrees with what they already believed.

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    Casey Burns
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misinformation is why the world seems so lost.

    Serbob
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had a coworker like that. He would read one article and define it as truth. I'd find a dozen other articles that contradict it, but they didn't share his opinion so they were wrong.

    Pamela Blue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah yes, all the Ph.Ds in Google Search. It's a wonder this world knows anything without them.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people who correct things that don’t need to be corrected. It’s crazy, Especially if a link is provided to help educate them and they still insist upon putting out a comment that’s totally contrary to the actual information provided. WTF?? I guess ignorance is bliss

    Ian Collins
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And, all the articles that are only a headline... you check it out and it's void of any real content

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    #45

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) I'm just so glad the "licking things at the store" trend is over. It is over, right? Please tell me that's finally done.

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    Call Me Mars
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. There was this trend on TikTok where people would go and lick ice cream. It got so far that Bluebell and other ice cream brands made their tops of the tubs unopenable. I hope it's gone.

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    StrawberryParfait
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at this filthy creep. I hope he went to prison.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely disgusting and definitely a crime even before covid

    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that girl got jail time. She should have know better than to lick Blue Bell ice cream and put it back in Texas. Blue Bell is like the f*****g Alamo of ice cream in Texas.

    Tom Pepper
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People doing this should to be forced to lick the floor of the subway clean

    Janus Sanders
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's disgusting! i don't know a lot about trends because I simply don't pay attention to them, and it seems that every time I learn about one it's either disgusting or just flat out stupid

    Jayne Kyra
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What happened to Ariana Grande licking a donut and putting it back? Was it nothing because "oh, she was just joking"?

    N G
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WTF was that even about? Did these people get prosecuted? Please tell me they got prosecuted.

    Paul Aguilera
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a pacifist but these creatures make me wanna go on a murdering spree

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    #46

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) In general, just the fact that people aren't allowed to be private anymore. All your devices hook up to the Internet. Your smartphone tracks you in God only knows how many different ways. Every business wants you to sign up for a rewards account, so they can harvest your contact details. Hell, even my PC and game consoles will rearrange my desktop just to show me advertisements. And if that wasn't enough, people give you strange looks when you tell them you have almost no social media presence: no Twitter, no Instagram, no Snapchat, no Facebook. Not to mention how people just get this confused look on their face whenever I get mad at them because they took a photo/video of me without my knowledge or consent and put it on their social media. Honestly, it shocks me to see how little people care that privacy is disappearing.

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    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Hell, even my PC and game consoles will rearrange my desktop just to show me advertisements" In over 20 years of working in IT, I have never seen a PC re-arrange a desktop to show adverts. Either in a home or work environment. I agree with the rest. One of my wife's brothers posted a photo of our son on Facebook. I insisted that he removed immediately, which he did.

    Chris
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have facebook, or any other social media. Ad-block on my phone and script blocking on Chrome (1691 events blocked on this very page).... My MIL keeps posting pictures of my kids on fecabook, and doesn't seem to grasp the notion that I don't want people I don't know looking at pics of my children. It's creepy and wierd, and I want no part of it.

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    Mimi777
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t hang out much anymore with one of my close friends so I guess we aren’t that close anymore but anytime we hung out she would take pics or videos of me or us and post them online. I absolutely hated it. I didn’t want to be online and whenever I asked her to please post she would tease me about it and still do it.

    Chaotic-Pansexual-Gemini
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this too. My parents never allowed me to have social media and so I don’t, and sometimes I wish I could, but the point is that people are shocked when I tell them I don’t. Like “oh man, that must suck” like no, not really. I still have amazing relationships with people, and I’m more free to grow as a person without having my life being publicized

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should be able to just delete and also not be judged for anything done on internet before age 25

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was a few years ago. I went to the local shopping centre and when I had a sit down and a coffee I checked my phone. Every shop I’d been in that afternoon had sent me an email. How did they know? It was only after asking my nephew that I turned off location services and Bluetooth.

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The not having social media part is annoying when looking for a job - can't remeber how often I was asked if it's on "private" for a reason (with nicer sounding wording of course)

    Ambar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    also, not everyone actually understands what the term "what goes into cyberspace STAYS in cyberspace" means...yea try getting rid of a message it might LOOK like u got rid of it but trust me its still there on the other person device

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry but how often do people take pictures of you without your consent??

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    #47

    when people romanticize mental illness and disorders. i’ll see people say “oh I wish I had tourette’s, it seems fun,” or “i wish i had depression so i could have an excuse to be sad.” tics aren’t fun. depression sucks. you don’t want these things. also when people self-diagnose without really, really intense research. people will just say “oh I have ocd” just cause they like to line up their pencils. that’s not what ocd is

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    Julie C Rose
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “i wish i had depression so i could have an excuse to be sad.” This just makes me wonder if they actually DO have depression and just think they’re “not sad enough” to get treatment. I’ve had social anxiety for decades but have only just gone on meds because all this time I didn’t think I had it bad enough to qualify. It sucks and I hope those people try therapy.

    Will Ivansco
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depression also isn't just "being sad". Depression can have a ton of symptoms and a wide range of impacts, and is always something that is very consistent with time. Just because you felt down for one day means you're depressed. Just because you're disappointed by something doesn't mean that you're depressed. If everybody says that they have depression, it takes away the perceived severity and legitimacy of people who actually have it.

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    PjandBolt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when people self diagnose, but I'm always afraid of being a hypocrite, because I've speculated that I might have adhd for a while now, and I'm always afraid to tell people because I don't want them to think I'm just self diagnosing. I'm not just saying "oh well I can't sit still so I probably have adhd!" I'm talking about the really specific symptoms that no one really mentions, and that I relate so heavily when people talk about it. But I don't officially have adhd, I'm just thinking I might. Is that self diagnosing?

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. Self diagnosing is saying you definitely have it. Getting an official diagnosis if you are able is very important if you are able to do so. For now there is nothing wrong when you say that you think you might have it (love to hear that cuz it's just so respectful). Just do research and get information on how to live with ADHD. ADDitude, CHADD, Understood, JohnHopkins, the youtube channel How to ADHD, and NIH are good resources I can think of off the top of my head. Even if you can't get a diagnosis or the psychologist says you don't have it (btw not all psychologists actually have good expertise on ADHD so i would do your research) there is nothing wrong with reading articles and stuff on how to live with it if they help you.

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    Nathan Pogorzala
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OCD is traumatic brain torture. Consumes your waking life. Yet people will say it bothers their OCD if something is askew. No.

    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a friend who really has OCD, and I have witnessed how much it can mess up his life at times - even to the point of total despair and wanting to die. It's not a funny quirk, it's suffering.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually met a woman who felt left out because she was not molested as a young girl. SMH

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Self diagnose without really, really intense research:" like going to med school or do you mean just reading a lot of crap on the internet?

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've heard tooo many times to count, "I have to be clean, I'm OCD."

    Kristal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where are these people expressing they want mental illnesses? This is very much news to me.

    Tobias the Tiger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't be surprised if some of these people say they wish they had Tourette's just so they could get away with swearing/saying offensive things whenever they wanted. Coprolalia isn't even present in most people with Tourette's.

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    #48

    The implication that you have to be in a relationship to have worth or to be happy. I've spent my happiest days single.

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    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Add to this the constant fearmongering that "you will soon be old and no one will want you" - usually women get this, but guys do as well.

    Ambar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have also spent my life happy single, I don't need a relationship to be happy! all I need is food, sleep, sitcoms, waterparks, air, family, friends and music that is it

    Nica Van
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And pets! Don't forget the doggos and kittehs! 😁

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    Aroace tiger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! I've never been in a relationship and I'm not planning to be in one.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want a relationship, but I don't want it to be the only thing I thrive on.

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like and want to be on my own. I like being able to do what I want, when I want. Happy is what you want it to be, not what others think will be happier for you.

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something I always hear from my sister: "You will die alone" . Well, guess I die how I prefered to live then?

    Bettie-Jean Neal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been single for 5 years now. I'm still on a dating app, but no luck. I'd like to have a boyfriend, but I'm cool without one.

    Nica Van
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too. I'm at my best when I live my life solo, hence I have been happily solo for over a decade now.

    Jrizzy Jay
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    most people want to be in a relationship. If you're so happy you wouldn't need to come here to tell us how happy you are not to be able to find a partner.

    Aroace tiger
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't, and there are tons of people who are happy being single. Just because you can't deal with not being in a relationship doesn't mean everyone else can't too.

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    #49

    People thinking sass is a personality.

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    #50

    Using your real names/images/locations on social media. Gen-Xers were told over and over again to never do this under any circumstances, and it made a lot of sense. Todays kids just post "here is a video of me: what i look like, where i live, and all of my stuff" and thats just asking for trouble.

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    soni w
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parents think they're doing the right thing by having thier childrens phone and apps on GPS visibility. Parents need educating on exactly how dangerous that is. Especially pretty young girls on snapchat, it's a paedophiles dream come true and every parents nightmare.

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Paedophiles go after whichever kid is most available - looks rarely come into it. Also, when kids who are molested it's most often a relative or family friend doing it. It's very rarely a stranger.

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    RiaDeCaterpillar
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kids Profiles today: Hi! My name is Anne Jacobs, I am 13 years old, 5' 1", Caucasian with shoulder length brown hair and brown eyes. I live in Van Buren, Arkansas and go to Rena Elementry. I have 1 older brother and a golden retriever dog!

    RoseTheMad
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was scrolling on some questions site the other day, and someone was asking for some new music suggestions. Some girl answered with a list of songs/bands and then? "if you have any questions or whatever, call or text me at *phone number*" WHAT THE ACTUAL F**K!? I would never DREAM of leaving my phone number anywhere on the internet for the public to see. That's just ASKING for some kind of s**t to go down.

    BoldEarth
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...Wait, people aren't taught to be super-careful with that sort of thing? Wow. My parents made sure I understood the risks - Nobody online knows my real name or exact location. Only about three times have I shown my face, to people I'm close to online.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most Gen-Zers (zoomers if you will) that I know get told this and don't post their faces/locations/ages/names

    Nica Van
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally. I keep my Location turned off on my phone, and I clear my history every week. I don't use my real name on any social media, and I lock all location and contact information so no one can see it. If I can, I leave those blank.

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about the dummies who post that they are leaving on long vacations, they might as well have put a welcome robbers sign on the lawn. As far as anyone knows I am a hermit that hasnt left the house in years.

    Theo C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tell everything my name is bob mcbob (except boredpanda bc I signed up using google)

    Joseph OReilly
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, if I wanted to, I could pull someone's IP in thirty seconds and have their name, address, ISP, and the name of their goddamn dog for free because that's the internet. If someone cares enough to get your info it doesn't matter if you post it. Still can't do anything with it, except maybe screw up their WiFi for a bit, but that information is all out there

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    #51

    Requiring that everything be positive and not allowing anything negative. It is like a child sticking their fingers in their ears and pretending they can't hear something the don't like.

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    Chaotic-Pansexual-Gemini
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jrizzy Jay, toxic positivity is very real and really harmful. Having experienced it first-hand and knowing the stories of others who have to deal with it, it really really sucks. It invalidates a person’s wellbeing and emotions, and gaslights those who have actual disorders. People may never get help because toxic positive people around them make them feel like they aren’t really suffering the way they are

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Toxic positivty is actually harmeful

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or going full tantrum and seeing everything in the most negative light just for the outrage. Sucks, too

    Gin Marie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what Trump demands of the Repubs.

    Jrizzy Jay
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    what world does this happen? guess we are just making s**t up now.

    Ian Collins
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    one negative comment, on the topic of not allowing anything negative, receiving a negative rating... the irony is real!

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    #52

    This might not be modern but I hate the normalization of s***ty mental health. Especially in men. So many times people are just told to suck it up and deal with it when that's the worst advice you could possibly give. S**cide rates are way higher than they should be and access to mental health treatment is so poor at least where I live. And I really feel like a lot of this is due to a lack of understanding of how depression affects people.

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    Elaine Everett-Klimas
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WTF Why in the world is the word 'suicide' censored here? I really do wish this sort of thing would stop. And don't get me started on things like Assh**e SERIOUSLY you leave the ass and censor the hole? D**k is a name ffs not D**k. Grow the funk up! Other than that, yes to the above post.

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Destigmatize it but don't illegitimate it.

    #53

    Nobody is allowed to have hobbies anymore. If it's not a "hustle" you should be doing something else according to society. It's infinitely frustrating. When I get off work I'm going to play some damn videogames and relax. I'm not going to worry about my "side hustle"

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    Zarin Jashim
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the society now a days is toxic.

    Nathan Pogorzala
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do a very subdued and private hobby and i am constantly pushed to try to make money off of it from acquaintances and even family. My reward is personal happiness, not money. You are right, society is toxic if it makes people feel like a waste of time if they perform a task that does not better them financially.

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    Logic and Reason
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? I’ve never heard that.

    Jrizzy Jay
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nobody cares what you do in your free time. get over yourself.

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    #54

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Advertising slowly taking over every single aspect of our lives. I'm not really exaggerating when I say over 90% of the mail and phone calls I get are junk or scams. Data we generate simply by being online being sold to the highest bidder without any real way of stopping it, which in turn fuels more ads. Went shopping more than once at a larger grocery store? Congrats, you now get suspiciously tailored coupons mailed and emailed to you even though you don't remember ever giving them your addresses, meaning it's probably linked to your credit card and banking info. The internet is great for knowledge if you look in the right places and allows discovery of fascinating things, but it does sometimes feel like we sold our souls to somebody for it.

    RussianTardigrade , JJBers Report

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right or those damn pop ups to sign up when you visit a site. 90% sites bug u to sign up. i hate when they bug u to turn off ur adblocker. like thats the reason why i put it on in the first place to not see ur millions of ads.

    Spittnimage
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a website asks me to turn off my ad blocker I just exit the site. I can get the info I'm looking for on another site.

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    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cookies. You have to accept the bloody things before you can access a website.

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I no longer answer the phone if I don't recognize the number or the name.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend and I were just talking about how they were so many commercials on TV we forgot what movie we were watching

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    #55

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) How everything needs to be on social media. I have to explicitly say to family members, please don’t put this on social media at family events etc... as an example trying to post that I had gotten engaged on Facebook before I’d even got to tell close family and friends who weren’t actually there. Then getting defensive when you say can you not post that please

    Herps15 , Nicole Michalou Report

    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is plain disrespectful.

    Ambar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes yes yes! when I just wanna eat I cant eat right away cuz my mom just wants to take a photo... when u are gonna take photos of special occasions yes that's fine but not EVERY.SIGNLE.SECOND OF YOUR LIFE!!!

    Anna Wiltshire
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely this! My mother in law tagged myself and my husband in a post congratulating us on the birth of our son. So all the people who we wanted to tell personally had to hear it third hand. I was devastated!

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same exact thing happened to us. I’m guessing she also sent people pictures because I had family/friends of hers that were tagging me in a post with a pic of my newborn congratulating us. People I had never even met. I was so uncomfortable with it. I had no idea she was even going to post anything. She didn’t even ask permission. Anyways we have asked her to not post our child online anymore and she has respected our decision.

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    Jrizzy Jay
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's called life. if people have information they are free to share and will if they want. This has happened before social media on things called telephones where you made a phone call to spread gossip.

    kjorn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    people need like... people need appreciation from strangers

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I ever get a FB account, I'm gonna post only crappy stuff from my life. Photos when I look awful, family arguments, dustbunnies under my furniture, scruffy lawn, my pathetic wardrobe, etc. Think that could start a trend?

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What?? You are contradicting yourself.

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    #56

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) The lack of basic etiquette around invitations or even just making plans. People feel absolutely free to not respond until the last minute while waiting for something better to come along, and they don't think it's rude to cancel last minute or just not show up without letting you know.

    rutfilthygers , Liza Summer Report

    Call Me Mars
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kind of disagree. I have social anxiety, so someone coming over is a BIG deal for me. Once, I had a friend coming over and they got here an hour late. I was in tears because I thought they had bailed. So in my opinion, please don't do this.

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must have bad friends.

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. You're just something to do when they're bored. I have a terrible friend that only talked to me because she wanted something and was listening to me when I'd talk but as soon as she got whatever it is she wanted, she no longer cared and just moved on.

    Carol Emory
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's the opposite situation...people over-reacting that you can't come to their kids birthday party, baby-shower, wedding, etc.... Contrary to popular belief, I do not have all the time in the world to do as I please. I have a limited amount of time between my work and taking care of my family to spend some alone time taking care of myself. And if I do have free time, I'd rather be spending it re-enforcing my relationship with my spouse and son...not spending 5-6 hours at a formal party where I don't know half the people and I'm dressed in uncomfortable clothes. Send me the video's/pictures. I'll post a congrats on Fb.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this. My mom sometimes receives some nice order, asks a question, and then gets responded to the day before the cake is due at 9 am on a busy day. She then says she cannot do it and sometimes gets hammered for it. It's so stupid.

    Jessica Nametz
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally agree with this! I think people often lack the knowledge of what is courteous or not...

    Nat Hedley
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    4 years ago

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    Stop having such sh1tty friends?

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    #57

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) heavy social media presence by ordinary people. I can’t for the life of me understand why I’d follow some random person I’ve never met. I have actual people in my life, and I’m interested in them. A couple of days ago, I first heard the term “momfluencers.” F*****g really? Why would I base my children’s upbringing on the opinions of some twit whose main attribute is the fact that she has time to do this s**t?

    Toadie9622 , cottonbro Report

    Nathan Pogorzala
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And probably no professional training.

    Theo C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's like how all my friends bug me to go back to playing animal crossing and i'm just like "I have real life, why do I need a fake version"

    Jrizzy Jay
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    4 years ago

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    then just don't. or did you come here to get validated for your superior position of not being an "ordinary person"

    #58

    Non-stop consumption. Everything is designed to be consumed and then discarded. Nothing is well made and people act like you're insane for having a phone that is over three years old. On top of that, the modern attention span has been decimated and information goes into one ear and out the other, with nothing actually learned.

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    soni w
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they all blame the boomers for the ruination of the planet. Not one sees that overconsumption means Alot more factories, pollution, power plants, mining and cargo shipping. Water bottles, disposable coffee cups plastic bags. The list is endless. Boomers have still got the same dinner set from when they got married, and the same coffee cups!

    kjorn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    young people got bored of everything. the table is 5 yo, still good but... i'm tired of how it look... let's get another one. this is the overconsumption.

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    Mimi777
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have tons of my toys from when I was a kid including my barbies, accessories, doll house, Etc I’ve noticed how much better made they were back then. I’ve noticed how cheap and thin they seem these days.

    Aileen Grist
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes - built in obsolescence - throw away culture insisted on by manufacturers

    Stephanie Did It
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandson always talks about how much his Pokemon cards are worth. To whom? I ask him. Something is only worth what someone is willing to pay for it. When tens of millions of anything is mass produced, nothing is rare or valuable any more.

    Tiny3000
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am currently reading this on an iPad Air which is 7-8 yrs old

    Sookie Stackhouse
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I hate when you buy a iphone and then another one comes out. They charge way too much money because it's known and popular. Things are only popular because we make them to be by continuing to worship them and buy them.

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one forces you to buy a new one.

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    #59

    Going on vacation for the evidence, not the experience. Social media has exposed every cool place of interest and hidden gem out there... which is cool in theory, but it just means that everything is now more crowded than it used to be, and instead of actually enjoying the experience, people are just interested in snapping their shots and moving on to the next target. I saw the Mona Lisa pre-covid and expected it to be a crowded mess—shuffling through a line for an hour to have 30 seconds to look at the painting—no surprise there. But it was depressing to see most people get to the painting, turn around and take a selfie, and move on without another glance. They only saw the painting through their phone screen.

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    kath morgan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last few years I have stopped taking a camera on holiday, because I realised I was worrying too much about getting photos and not enjoying the thing I was there to see. It’s liberating!

    Honu
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. I enjoy my time and the experience so much more without it. Plus, many of the sites I see are already photographed by more talented people. If I want to show it to someone, I can just google it. I never been one for selfies, anyway, but I really don't understand taking pictures of interesting sites with me in front of them. My friends already know what I look like. If something's interesting enough for me to take a picture of, it's more interesting than a picture of me.

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    Shane S
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop. Recording. Concerts. If you want, take a few seconds of video and a few photos and then put the phone down! Your never going to watch that hour long, shaky video.

    Nathan Pogorzala
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I enjoy fly fishing and luckily it is common practice in the sport that if you find a productive/beautiful/unique body of water, you keep your mouth shut about it.

    Hufflepuff
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand their point about the people who just take a photo and don't enjoy the experience, but I actually really enjoy taking photos on vacation, and when I go to the beach, etc. For me, it helps me enjoy it more.

    Kristal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw the Mona Lisa pre-Covid as well, in 2011. The set-up to view the painting pretty much only allows a quick photo and maybe a few seconds of appreciation before the next person needs to do the same. Probably a poor example using the Mona Lisa. Also, MANY people, prior to social media, would take photos to show-off they were there. The difference now is that a lot more people are sharing.

    Mark Howell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been all over Europe for work, I love going out at night after work and just walking round the towns I am staying in. No camera, just me and my eyes enjoying the 'joie de vie' of the place. ))

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would usually only take a pic of an image if I forgot my glasses and want to see detail.

    Bepina
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be honest, it was always like that when it comes to Mona Lisa. I went to Paris in 1998 - huge crowd in front of it, everyone snapping a photo with a camera, I didn't even get the chance to look at the painting more than a couple of seconds as people were pushing to see it.

    Jrizzy Jay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why do you care what others are doing. what's sad is traveling that far and not enjoying it yourself because you're too worried about what makes other people happy.

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    #60

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Entertainment has eaten everything. Politics, personal relationships, sexual intimacy... the yardstick has become not “How good are you at something?” but “How good of a show are you putting on?”

    ThePhantomCreep , cottonbro Report

    Mark Howell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OR not how good you are at doing at your job, but how good you are at talking it up in a meeting and doing very little or passing it on

    #61

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Weddings have turned into expensive choreographed social media productions worthy of Busby Berkeley. These s**t shows empty pocketbooks and ruin friendships. It’s gotten to the point where bridesmaids and groomsmen are expected to shell out thousands of dollars and use up their vacation time for multiple trips, while regular guests are told what color to wear.

    AMerrickanGirl , Jonathan Borba Report

    Andrew Gibb
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations- you've just spent the deposit on a decent home

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got married in a friends back yard, and cost next to nothing. Didnt get a photographer so no great pictures. But I dont think our marriage would of been any different if we had a big wedding, it saved from years of complaining about money we would of wasted.

    Bettie-Jean Neal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents gave me the choice - a grand wedding or downpayment for a home. We took the downpayment. Mama didn't raise a fool.

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also my boyfriend has a close friend who got married last year (yes middle of pandemic) the bride didn’t hesitate telling us how they spent close to 10k on everything for ONE day. But she was always complaining about her crappy car and how she needed a couple things fixed on it and was worried it would stop working soon. I don’t understand the logic.

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve been asked to be a bridesmaid twice in my life. I politely declined both times. I did not want to spend hundreds on a dress that I would only wear for a couple hours along with everything else I would have to contribute to financially. I got them a nice gift though.

    Jean-Daniel Mohier
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvoted just for the mention of Busby Berkeley :-)

    Kristal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, this is NOT new. It's been happening for quite a long time, people just have the means to easily share with a wider audience.

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I married my husband, it was a last minute ceremony with the priest, me, my husband, his best friend, my aunt and my sister. Done, dusted, mega cheap and no fuss. All we had to deal with is the fall out of everyone in our families saying "Why weren't we invited?!?" "Uhm..because nobody was..."

    RiaDeCaterpillar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Weddings are special, but you DON'T need to spend that much money.

    #62

    The ‘always available’ mentality. If I don’t text back or if I ignore your call whether it’s personal or professional. It’s probably because I’m doing something or do not have the mental energy to make decisions at that EXACT point in time. I will always get back to you but it may not be immediate. I’m really really worn out of the speed of decisions causing whirlwind effects downstream. Unless it’s a straight up emergency / crisis. It can wait.

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    Shalini Pabreja
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So much this! Stop! Do nothing! Think, plan, strategise! Seriously people since when did every decision become life and death?

    Bettie-Jean Neal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work for a pharmaceutical company who is trying to get a vaccine out for Covid. We all have to be available right now, 24/7.

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    #63

    Being shamed for everything you ever do, no matter who you are or what the thing is. Shamed for diet choices, shamed for being wealthy/poor/middle class, shamed for wanting a nice thing, shamed for believing something radical, shamed for not believing something radical, shamed for doing this or that as a parent, shamed for doing this or that as a pet owner, shamed for not caring about or knowing enough about a certain social issue to have an opinion, shamed for having a strong opinion, shamed for not having a strong enough opinion, shamed for enjoying something you have that others might not have, shamed for not having a thing everyone has, you get the idea. Just let people be people. We're all different. Yeah, there are some real lowlifes among us, but most people are just trying their best.

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    soni w
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the epoch of judgements. Worse now than the Salem witch trials

    Logic and Reason
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spoken like someone who knows nothing about the Salem trials.

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    Laura
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The word shame is my biggest pet peeve - it is thrown around whenever you don't believe exactly like someone wants you to

    Kristal
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't new. People have done this since humans have had opinions. The 'new' aspect is that we just have access to more people to judge us than before.

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this. I get scared telling others that my family is pretty high on the social scale. Not rich, but not that far. I get scared that people will think I'm a stupid brat that only cares about her stuff.

    Shalini Pabreja
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, easy fix for this one - go offline! Get off the grid, disappear, throw away that phone! The less they know about your personal life, the more exclusive and wonderful the experience will be.

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    #64

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Everyone has a right to have a voice on the internet but not everyone deserves a following / authority / influence. Just because you paid off your car doesn’t mean you’re qualified to become a financial coach.

    overthinkingdreamerx , Tye Doring Report

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See me here with my unnaturally smooth face from botox and surgery? Well it's from this random chalk pill, and it's been keeping me youthful for decades even though it was invented last year!....Hey want a buff body like me, guy from modelling agency/tv/movie? Well, i use this random contraption you've seen at garage sales. Its kept me in shape for years, despite being invented recently. How much would you pay? DON'T ANSWER, there's more...

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has anyone ever actually used an ab roller? I see them everywhere and none of them look to have ever been used.

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    Laura
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and just because you paid $99 to some mlm/pyramid scheme does not give you the authority to call yourself a -sexual health expert, nutrition expert, fitness coach or any of the other titles that should require years of real training at real schools

    Jrizzy Jay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    people follow who they want to follow. if they gained a follower then it was earned. it's based off the market not your jealous opinion of whether they are deserving or not.

    Nathan Pogorzala
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That and the unrealistic belief that if you say something that you have the right to be heard. Sounds nice, but just isn't true.

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    #65

    The celebration of bad attitudes, habits and toxic traits. People would rather be praised for being a villain than to be obscure. People would rather give praise to a villain than to spend a moment not entertained.

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    Ambar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i would rather be king and humble but unnoticed then rude, selfish but famous

    Bow, I’m a Slytherin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to be a bully, and be seen as a ‘villain’. I’m so ashamed of it now.

    #66

    You can't do a good deed unless you're recording it for social media.

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    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If people know you have done a good deed, it is neither a "good" nor is it a "deed" it is a "look at me" and not worth anything.

    Theo C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid and went to elementary school they had this banner that said "Good Character is doing the right thing, when no one is watching."

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    Jrizzy Jay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes you can, you should try it.

    #67

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) I see a lot of doctors on tiktok/Instagram doing do’s/don’ts of patient standards and I don’t feel comfortable with that. It almost makes me uncomfortable and vary of seeing a physician bc I’m afraid they will judge me. Educating the public is one thing. Ridiculing patient experience because of something they are unaware of is another and should not be allowed by employers.

    kerimakory , dr.hunterfinn Report

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I no longer read "medical advice" on line. Haven't listened to "medical advice" since I was told that sodium cyclamate caused cancer in rats. So they banned. Then I found out that to get cancer from sodium cyclamate by drinking diet cokes I would have to DRINK THE EQUIVALENT OF 4000 CANS OF DIET COKE IN 24 HOURS.

    Joseph OReilly
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi it's meeeeeeee, the faaaaaact ghooooost... If you eat 40,000 bananas in one sitting the potassium will kill you from radiation poisoning... Goodbyyeeeeeeeee...

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    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a great way to alienate people from getting the medical care they need.

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the reasons I dislike (OK, hate) my diabetic nurse - she preaches the whole healthy eating, no fizzy drinks, less alcohol thing to me. She’s massively overweight. How about practice what you preach? And yes, I do eat healthily, don’t touch sugary things. My downfall is the alcohol!

    Memere
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS!!! I see sooo many items on the news feeds claiming "I'm a Doctor, you should/shouldn't be eating/drinking/doing 'such & such'. Yeah, right, I'm just supposed to put 100% trust in everything any yahoo out there is going to write up & post....NOT! The only medical website I rely on is the Mayo Clinic, and even then I'll talk to medical professionals I personally know.

    Michelle C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how I feel about the reasoning on this one. I have worked for years in the medical field and have friends that are nurses, PAs, MAs, and doctors. And coming from personal experience some patients don't know how to act and were being judged wayyy before TikTok. At least someone is taking the time to explain some sort etiquette so you can avoid possible judgement. Remember some things don't exist unless the seed created by it wasn't given what it needed to grow. In my time I've seen patients throw stuff at staff, chased doctors out in the parking lot, smear poo on walls, poor hygiene, I got cussed out at least once a day, and certain patients have referred to me as the colored one even though I've introduced myself every visit and wearing a larger than life name tag. So please keep making videos on this...also doctor making these vid are usually in private practice and have no employer and it doesn't violate HIPAA laws.

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    #68

    The "I'm going to disrespect my way to the top of the world" thing that Jake Paul is doing.

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    #69

    TikTok/Youtube beauty challenges, whether it's about normalizing something or "accepting yourself", I feel like the majority of creators make those videos to show off how attractive they are.

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    Jrizzy Jay
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    4 years ago

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    and what would be wrong with that? does it make you feel ugly? don't watch

    Shalini Pabreja
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously, so that’s the only monochromatic and superficial lens that should be used to view the world? Artificially created physical beauty that will (and should) fade with time? How about character and intelligence, the will to learn and explore, the yearning to try to leave the planet a little better for the coming generations? How about scientific breakthrough and artistic pursuits, the capacity and need to take humanity forward? But no, the number of followers far outweigh in importance that level of higher thinking for a lot of people today. Sad really, considering how badly we need people who actually make a difference and leave an indelible mark.

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    #70

    I can't get onboard with those fail compilation things where someone is clearly crippled for life. Did anyone see that video where the guy skateboards down the banister along a flight of cement stairs, makes it to the bottom, hits the grass and you figure--well, at least it's just grass--and then he crushes his head and neck along a cement pole? Man, I hope that guy isn't paralysed.

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    kath morgan
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah we saw a “lol driving fails! 🤣” video recently where... those people clearly would have died. It actually gave me nightmares.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw some of those videos and I went out and I bought a dash cam, There are some seriously bad drivers out there. 😳

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    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never liked those kind of videos. Like the ones where children hurt themselves? Why is that hilarious?

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    #71

    I’d really rather not hear about how much money everyone either has or pretends to have. It’s just depressing even though I know I should ignore it and focus on myself.

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    Jods
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it OK to brag about how much money you don’t have?

    Jaime
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, then it just turns into a “I’m poorer than you so you can’t be sad about it” thing.

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    Ambar
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the amount of money u have does NOT affect how i live my life nor does it affects the world the only thing it affects is said person

    𝖊𝖆
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Social Media is now for bragging about how great your life is, and trying to make people jealous. Even though most of it is fake, and it doesn’t show the day to day struggles. Influencers (so-called) didn’t work hard for those things, they were gifted them, or are borrowing the pieces for posts. It’s not real life! I got really disillusioned and quite depressed from being on social media all the time, comparing my life with others. until I realised the hypocrisy of it all. Feel a lot happier in myself now I don’t have insta or fb or Twitter etc.

    Jrizzy Jay
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    4 years ago

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    or go make more money and stop being jealous

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    #72

    Most modern makeup/beauty trends. My main problem with them is that they all seem to age people. The big lips, the contouring and heavy makeup, the huge eyebrows and fake butts. Big lips, eyebrows and butts look great when they're natural and fit your face. But the problem with making facial features "trends" is people with bone structures never made to have these things get them surgically pasted on, and it looks awful. Same with makeup, there's one style of doing makeup that is trendy, but it doesn't fit every face. So many people end up looking awful when they try them. And the IG makeup look is just cakey looking and unnatural. I prefer the makeup looks of 10+ years ago. We sometimes laugh at the questionable eyeshadow choices and all the bronzer but at least people still looked like humans, albeit with way too much lower lid eyeliner.

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    ejfs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The makeup trends! They only look good on 1% of faces and even then it's because they've been edited to heck and back. "I woke up like this"? More like "I spent five hours putting on 2,000€ worth of makeup, two hours taking 300 photos, another 2 hours in Photoshop/Facetune, and now I'm going to lie to the internet so my followers can feed my crippling narcissism so I can finally feel good about myself for 20 seconds".... SMH.

    Dorothy Parker
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Botox impacts not only the facial muscles but also the mental state of the users. When their expressions no longer reflect their feelings, those feeling may actually be numbed. Example, when you smile it may elevate your mood. Can't express care and concern with your expression, the start of becoming a psychopath. Watch The Real Housewives for proof!

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The trout pout. Take Botox for example. Widely used cosmetically yet there are only a few areas in the UK that allow Botox to be used medically to alleviate bladder problems.

    Mimi777
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an acquaintance who did the IG makeup look on me once. It was SOOO much makeup. Multiple layers. My skin felt heavy. Idk how some people can wear that much makeup every single day. And it took forever to wipe off. And it took so long.

    𝖊𝖆
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only beauty trend from the 2000s that needs to stay in the past is sperm brows!

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when people put darker foundation than their skin tone, they look like a halloween prop.

    Dorothy Parker
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Big lips, eyebrows and butts look good when they're natural and fit your face." I'm trying to picture where on the face the butt belongs.

    Jaime
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah! Put makeup on because you like it, not because it’s “trendy”

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trends come and go. You don't have to like it but other people do. Stop complaining about how other people look, it's their choice.

    Bow, I’m a Slytherin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the girls at my school has used way too much fake tan... she must really like gingers, cause she seems to want her face to be the same colour as my ginger friends hair...

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    #73

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Driving while on a cell phone. Driving has always been a little frustrating but now it’s gotten insane. My girlfriend and I can call out with at least 90% accuracy who is on their phone. Abrupt Lane changes, 20mph under the speed limit, swerving, looking at phone and missing a green light for 5+ seconds, and - my personal pet peeve - stopping 50’ short of a light in a busy intersection during rush hour.

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    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't drive but have seen this and hate it too.

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smashing into the back of a line of standing traffic with your massive lorry because you were so engrossed with your phone you didn’t see the traffic had come to a halt. Leaving the little car at the back of the queue unrecognisable, crumpled to a third of its original size and the occupants so mangled that identification had to be done via dental records.

    #74

    Entitled social media influencers who contact businesses and practically demand free goods or services in exchange for exposure.

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    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exposure is not legal tender

    Laura
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they have 500 followers and want you to give them $200 in product - for free - that they will review to these people and you are going to make so much money from the exposure. Sure - contact me when you have 500K follower then we'll talk. (yup had this happen to me)

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do you even care? Just don't follow them.

    Jrizzy Jay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they aren't contacting you why do you give a damn

    #75

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) This is more work related, but it pisses me off how there is now a work culture of always being reachable by email or text for whatever happens. A lot of places expect you to be pretty much on call even when you're not at the office anymore. I worked at an ad agency where days off sometimes didn't even feel like that, because I would still be getting emails about things and was expected to be checking them. There should be some level of balance between work and personal life and I feel like that is fading because it's becoming more and more socially acceptable to adopt this type of culture.

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    troufaki13
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not everywhere. When I'm off the clock, I'm off the clock.

    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have a smartphone. When I'm not at the office (or at home), I am not reachable by email, period. Also, I never open my work email on weekends and on holidays. Not for any reason.

    Serbob
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see this way too often in my profession. Especially now that more people are working from home. Just because someone decides to start work at 6 am doesn't mean my day starts at the same time. I constantly open up my laptop at my usual 9 am and have emails from people complaining because they've been trying to get in touch with me for hours. Nothing is that important to me that I ignore my family and stress out just to tell you to "turn it off and on again".

    Memere
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's one of the very few things I loved about my last job - I was an hourly employee, required to clock in/out, and if anyone from the company contacted me during my off hours, I would report it to HR, & the company paid me for however much of my personal time was spent!

    Nica Van
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1000x YES to this!

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    #76

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) Making depression and anxiety as an aesthetic one needs to have.

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    soni w
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's become fashionable and an unnecessary and critical drain on mental health services. Too many who genuinely suffer have to go without to pander to influenced children. Tiktok is full of banners with pointing fingers describing everyday normal emotions as anxiety depression and personality disorders.

    Bill cipher girl
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a friend who is always like “ i so depressed “giggle” I want to kill myself “giggle” “ and I have actual depression so it makes me uncomfortable.

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like that girl Trisha who one minute says she's bi, then trans, says she has this or that disorder.

    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes it so awful and annoying for the people who actually struggle because then nobody believes them and thinks they are doing it for attention.

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    RandomBeing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See some people talk and maybe joke about it to cope. Others talk about it to be interesting. THERES A DIFFERENCE.

    #77

    Corporations thinking their entitled to your time. Everything you buy, service you use, place you go, it's "Rate your experience!", "Please leave feedback!", "How was your visit?", etc. If you're not paying me, then I'm not devoting any time or energy helping you improve your business. Seems pretty obvious, but somehow this is no longer the norm.

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    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think this is a bad thing. My company gets customers to rate their experience so that if there are failings, they can correct them and make sure they don't happen again. I've rated places I've visited. In particular, in one restaurant, the food was way too salty so I told them when they asked how the food was and they said they would pass it on to the kitchen. Asking for feedback is not companies demanding your time.

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would rate companies if I believed that they actually take any notice of what an individual has to say. As you say, they said they would pass your comment about the food on to the kitchen. But did they? I’m with the original poster on this. Plus the fact that there are too many people giving false reviews just for the hell of it.

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    Pat Salzer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. I paid for the product/service, etc. That's the end of the transaction most of the time, as far as I'm concerned.

    Michelle C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disagree...They don't think they're entitled to it, you have a choice. They ask these questions so they can improve on themselves and provide YOU with a better experience on your next visit. Wish my dates did that...lol

    Shelby P
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or adding you to their marketing list simply because you purchased ONE of their products, forcing you to unsubscribe from all the lists and then they ask you why you're leaving.... "I NEVER F*ING SUBCRIBED IN THE FIRST PLACE"

    Serbob
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Generally I respond to surveys more when the service, etc was bad. I recently filled one out for a really, really bad experience for the company I bought my car from. A friend who works at another dealership told me that I likely ruined someone's Christmas bonus.

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm willing to do this, but on my terms, Not through my Google account, and not through Facebook.

    Jrizzy Jay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no it doesn't seem obvious. You actually sound ridiculous.

    ravn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm OK with a solicitation for my experience, but I'm not OK with working for free. IKEA, self-checkout (dear me, does IKEA have self-checkout?) Hire some people FFS.

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    #78

    Social media posting = life. This drives me bonkers! Why do people feel compelled to share every single detail about there life, or every thought that comes into their brain with the rest of their "friends/followers"? It comes off a desperate and sad IMO

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    Nathan Pogorzala
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just like people have said for years, the drive for likes is to valid a very fragile ego.

    𝖊𝖆
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh. FB statuses used to drive me up the frilling wall. So and so is “in the bath, yay bubbles”. So and so is “dropping the kids off at school, waiting for the house to be quiet”. It’s just so mundane and boring! If you have nothing to post, how about you just... don’t post!!

    Sookie Stackhouse
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People they need the attention they crave. Some people will do things to get positive or negative attention.

    Jrizzy Jay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why do people feel compelled to share their complaints online to the world about people who share their lives online? it comes off as envious and lame.

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    #79

    People making up false information they just decided on, doing no research, posting it somewhere, and it getting so heavily circulated, no one checks if its true, and just assume it to be reality and base their whole personality and decisions off of it.

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    Carrot Stick
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karens, Anti-Maskers, Anti-Vaxxers, etc.

    Douglas Mock
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "making up false information" is called 'lying', 'slander', or 'libel'.

    Tuna Fish
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the internet, It doesn't have to be factual, it just has to sound factual!

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    #80

    Over-the-top pranks that involve staged violence or scaring passersby. Seems like a surefire way to traumatize someone. I have PTSD and it's not fun.

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    ButterScot
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also a good way to get punched

    #81

    Jokingly saying you’re “OCD” or “ADD” just because you like tidying up or get distracted. If you actually have those ailments, they control most of how you live your life.

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    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or how perfectionism is considered a good thing... but in truth it can really mess up your work, e.g. by making you discard completed things and starting over for no apparent reason, or never finishing tasks for fear of making a mistake.

    ejfs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or never even starting something because of the fear of it not being perfect when you've finished it. :(

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    #82

    How much we glorify being a workaholic. It seems like everyone is expected to be insanely passionate about their job, as if that's what they've always wanted to be and they're so driven they always want to talk about how busy it makes them/how much they hustle, etc. It's to the point where it spawned that terrible "life hack" trend that just seems to be about freeing up time to... work more. Like, must everything be so goddamn efficient?? Sometimes I just enjoy staring out the window on my commute, or waking up slowly on a weekend morning or whatever. And it's perfectly okay to work a job you're just fine with in order to put food on the table and have access to health insurance, etc.

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    Celeste Grant
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that attitude is actually becoming less in my country, but it appears that in the USA people are pushed to work much harder, encouraged not to take annual leave and feel like their job defines them. I don't think it's healthy, and creates problems within families and relationships. We work to live, not live to work!

    Nathan Pogorzala
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes Ma'am. It is damn near a cultural norm that if you are not making or trying to make money, you are an unambitious moocher. I work 9 hours to better my 15, not the other way around.

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    #83

    I hate the way social media has dominated everyday conversations. I have distanced myself from certain people because they'll actually reference their social media like it's a news posting. Me: "Hey, how have things been?" Them: "I got a new job, but it's been rough! I have been talking about it constantly on Facebook; you should look." Me: Yeah, I'm done here.

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    Memere
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A couple of years ago, I drove to my sister's house, 1-1/2 hours from my house, for a holiday family dinner. Walked in, and she's in the kitchen preparing the meal, and the 8 other family members were all sitting on their as-s-es, staring at their phones. I made a loud comment about it, something like "I drove 100 miles just to watch y'all staring at your phones - it's great to know your social media/texts/games are more important than being together & helping Sis get the food on the table". It kinda shocked them, but it helped a bit!

    Y T
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just tell your friend that you don't have FB etc. If THEN they complain you can ditch them. Otherwise I think you are over sensitive.

    Memere
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is it oversensitive to want to hear the friend's news face to face, with the friend standing right there?

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    #84

    How being jealous and controlling is so normalized in relationships. It should not be a problem to have friends of the same gender or like someone's selfie on instagram, but I see so many people acting like their partner committed a crime for doing so.

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    Jrizzy Jay
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    4 years ago

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    who are you to say what should or shouldn't be a problem in someones relationship. having opposite sex "friends" and liking their pics could be seen as very disrespectful.

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only by someone who is naturally insecure and suspicious of everything. That's not exactly a healthy perspective.

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    #85

    People who "hang out" but just spend the whole time together on their phone browsing social media, checking their messages, whatever. I didn't plan a get together with you to watch you stare at your phone. Save it for the toilet.

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    Tuna Fish
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvote a thousand times!!!!!!

    Memere
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or speak up about it, in a "hey, friend, I'd really like to put the phones down and enjoy some time with you and actually talk to each other" way. But yeah, sometimes you have to walk away & find other friends who value the personal, face-to-face time.

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    #86

    Spontaneous facetime calls. I’m in my goddamn undies stop shoving cameras in my face.

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    James016
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't accept them then.

    Punkie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't either. I refuse to facetime.

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    Chaotic-Pansexual-Gemini
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually like FaceTime and phone calls but people need to text first. Unless it’s something urgent, you can message first. If there’s something you need to call immediately for and there’s no time to call, do a regular voice call, not a FaceTime.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t even have face time. I don’t need to see who I’m talking to in order to have a conversation. It seems people need to use some thing just because it’s available and others use it. Be yourself

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the only way my grandkids call me, and I hate facetiming. I feel bad about not answering but will hang up and tell them to call me the correct way.

    Rider
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I refuse them then call/text. Hate when someone pans a video call to a group, I don't do video calls get that sh*t out of my face. If they wanted to be at (insert event here) then BE THERE. And if I couldn't be there, don't call/video call me-I'm occupied, hence why I'm not there.

    Jrizzy Jay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is this answer and and ignore feature that these phones have.

    Conceptual&Colorful
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always text to ask people if they’re okay for a call unless it’s actually important. I like FaceTime because to me, facial cues are important, and especially during the pandemic, I want to see people. However, it’s really rude to straight-up randomly FaceTime someone.

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    #87

    Blowing things up without doing any research. So many people have been cancelled off of completely false 'evidence' and struggled because of it. And their reputations are just permanently affected because people refuse to listen to both sides of the argument the second an accusation is made

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    #88

    Taking insta pictures and snapchat stories of EVERYTHING. Sure your online persona will look like the cool kid, but people at a party who just lift up their phone to record everytime something happens look hella dumb in my opinion, just live in the moment

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    #89

    I'm honestly tired of the short videos that have the Siri voice with text on the screen. It sounds so off and so weird. Just use your own voice, what the hell? It's like The uncanny valley but for voice. Such cringe.

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    Jaime
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh gosh, I hate hearing my own voice, I don’t think I’d be able to use my own voice if I made videos

    Carrot Stick
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think its because they don't want to share their actual voice to the public so they us an AI tool instead. Its their choice. I know a YouTuber who does this cause he isn't comfortable with sharing his voice.

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    #90

    The politicalization of EVERYTHING and people doing certain things solely to display which political ideology they subscribe to

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    #91

    Working 5 days a week and only having 2 days off (if you're lucky).

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    Nerida D. Ortega
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I second this I wouldn't mind working extra two hours a day to work four days a week prefer T-F

    Memere
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read an article recently about the increase in productivity in a country where they worked 4 days/week, think it may have been Japan. It could be easily done, half the employees work 4 ten hour days Mon-Thu, the other half work 4 ten hour days Tues-Fri. Company is still operating 5 business days/week, and employees are more rested & happier = increased productivity!

    Jods
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The UK once had a three day week in the 70s. Mind you, the miners were on strike at the time so electricity was getting a little scare and blackouts had to be enforced.

    FABULOUS1
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am lucky to work only Monday through Friday but would love to work 10 hour days with 3 days off.

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Standard work time in Germany

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    #92

    not having a physical community. i think we would all benefit from doing community activities but because a large part of us live in apartments and in cities, it’s not common.

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    Logic and Reason
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah it’s apartment’s fault, not the global pandemic.

    Jaime
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We probably shouldn’t start doing that now haha

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can change that. Why people are afraid to know their neighbors is beyond me. There is nothing better than knowing who you can trust and who you really need to avoid by actually interacting with them

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    #93

    People Are Sharing Modern Trends That They Can't Stand (45 Answers) The reaction that provokes on me is more cringe than pissing me off but I am SICK of the "XXXX reacts to YYYY" videos. It´s just so embarrassing to see these people acting out a reaction just to satisfy the actual consumers of the product that is being reacted upon.

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    Vorknkx
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How long until we get "X reacts to video of Y reacting to Z" videos? :D

    Serbob
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or how about the "Try not to laugh..." videos? It's all click-bait and I refuse to fall for it.

    Aroace tiger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking of elements reacting with each other for a sec there 😂

    J. F.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's see what happens when we mix H2O with Li... 🧨

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    Y T
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't look at them then. Problem solved.

    #94

    Posting infographics regarding certain topics to try and prove you’re “educated” on the topic

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