Society is an ever-shifting landscape of trends, traditions, rituals, and norms. Change is the name of the game, but for some people, change doesn’t happen fast enough. Redditor Jimjoe1 asked people what modern social trends anger them the most, and they couldn’t wait to share their real thoughts and feelings about what they feel is wrong with the world.
We’ve collected the best responses below, so have a read through them and tell us what you think, dear Pandas. Remember to upvote the ones you agree with and be sure to drop us a comment with how you’d personally answer Jimjoe1’s question.
Pssst, spoiler warning, plenty of these people think that social media and attention-seeking are some of the fundamental ills of the times that we live in. Read on for Bored Panda’s interview about our desire to be seen and adored on social media with an expert in history. If you think our fascination with wanting attention is something new, you’re in for a rough awakening.
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Treating opinion as fact and fact as opinion
Awesome court ruling here recently: judge deemed a mother's own 'googling and internet research' was not sufficient to deny her children vaccines, esp measles after a 2019 outbreak (NB this parent also rejected haircuts and dental care for kids until forced to[free of charge of course]). Judge basically said if I allow your (mum) opinion to be equivalent to that of a genuine specialist witness, then what is the point of these special experts? Anyone could start to claim to be an expert, too dangerous a precedent. Kids are getting vaccinated. Awful that it had to be done like this. She said they had natural immunity and didn't need vaccines, as her kids hadn't ever gotten the illnesses, and had been given 'holistic vaccines' whatever the hell those are 🤦♀️
She won't lose custody, they aren't stealing her kids or anythkng like that. There is just a minimum standard that children have the right to have, and serious risk outweighs the research she presented up until and during court
Load More Replies...Truth. Also, treating feelings as facts. Science is taking a real beating right now.
Just my opinion but this is going to be the defining entity of this age we are living. When people look back and learn a sizeable portion of internet enabled population believed and acted on woefully anti-science, anti-fact bs as though it was real they will find it hard to believe.
I might add information to the subject on masks and anti-VAXer’s. I was just googling to see whether or not anyone had thought to ask attorneys if they could sue somebody who refuse to wear a mask and refuse to get vaccinated. So I noticed that attorneys are actually advertising this now so if you get Covid from someone who has not worn a mask and has been all over social media spouting their “freedom” to not wear a mask and contact tracing Shows that that person has infected you you can sue them, I love it
Awww, the poor doggo is owned by an anti-masker fool. I feel bad for the dog :(
The whole instagram influencer thing. Why are we following these people??
Exactly, what made them experts to give healthy informed advise on how to live your life?
Gogi berries and gallons of apple cider vinegar!
Load More Replies...Or everyone has an onlyfans account and wants you to pay for their stupid pictures that aren't even worth paying for.
imo, some people that have followings on instagram deserve it (artists for example), but those who simply post random promotions or photos drive me crazy. redirect the fame to those who deserve it and work for it.
Playing music or watching videos in public without headphones. If I go to a park or the beach I want to be able to hear the wind and waves and birds singing, not whatever obnoxious s**t you feel you have the right to subject everyone to.
Yes. It’s a fine point most people don’t get. They have every right to listen to whatever music they want, but when their music leaves their personal space and invades someone else’s, that’s where their rights end and the other person’s begin. Therefore, keeping it contained in their own space through the use of headphones or earbuds keeps them firmly within their own rights without diminishing everyone else’s enjoyment of the place, or their quality of life, or even potentially affecting their health by stressing them out—-remember, there are some people who are legitimately adversely affected by loud noise (such as some on the autism spectrum), as well as those who just want a little peace and quiet.
that's when you join in on the conversation or start sings the words to the song - loudly and badly :)
I've also thought that FaceTiming on e.g. public transport should be considered as an open invitation for anyone in hearing range to join the conversation :D Haven't had yet possibility to try ;)
Load More Replies...This has become quite the problem with all the new hikers in national and state parks. Many go to these places to escape the everyday noise and racket and listen to nature instead.
Jimjoe1’s thread was incredibly popular on r/AskReddit, getting over 64.4k upvotes at the time of writing and being the top-awarded post on the site. Other redditors gifted the user more than 340 awards and we can definitely see that number getting higher as the thread continues to get more and more attention online.
Bored Panda spoke about social media, people’s desire to look beautiful and ‘perfect,’ and how this is commodified with historian Dr. Jane Nicholas from St. Jerome’s University at the University of Waterloo.
According to Dr. Nicholas, seeking perfection isn’t a new idea: it’s long been sold as an attainable ideal. Something that’s within our grasp and could be ours if we just tried harder (or… spent more).
Gender reveal.
Especially when people react badly. Imagine being a kid and coming across a video of one of your parents having a tantrum because you aren’t they gender they wanted you to be.
Imagine being the kid who’s parents started a wildfire or accidentally killed someone at your gender reveal. Some people are so narrow minded, selfish and just beyond stupid.
Imagine being the kid whose parents accidentally burned down half of California and then you turned out to be trans
Load More Replies...I don't understand why this "reveal" has to be a special occasion at all... I guess I'm too old-fashioned.
I hate gender reveals. To all intents and purposes it's celebrating genitals (unless you're maintaining that you maintain gender stereotypes and get really excited by one over the other)
More than genitals, I guess is yet ANOTHER way to recieve attention. A couple of yeara from now people would be celebrating the first poop.
Load More Replies...We've been to two of these in my family. Both times were truly excruciating to witness. Both were for couples who already had two girls. When the gender reveal revealed, surprise!, a girl, both dads were crushed and acted so disappointed in front of family and friends. One went into a spare bedroom to lie down. The poor moms! If you are going to have a gender reveal why on earth shouldn't the parents find out in private beforehand?
I thought gebder reveals were for the extended families. You tell me now some parents find out just then?? Omg this is crazy. Enormous facepalm.
Load More Replies...It's even more heartbreaking when there are children of the same gender present. There was one in particular where the father actually screamed and went outside afyer finding out it was a girl whilst his daughters sat around the table looking so depressed and disheartened. The mother just tried to laugh it off too. So many kids deserve better.
No one gives a damn what you push out of your crotch. You’re not special because of it.
You aren't even revealing the gender, you are revealing the sex. A child is pretty much incapable of expressing gender before 3 years old.
THANK YOU. They drive me nuts. You're simply finding out whether you can see a penis on an ultrasound or not.
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People recording themselves doing “charitable acts” like buying a meal or giving money to a homeless person. I can assure you that person does NOT want their face all over social media so you can get clout for being a “good charitable person”. Sure do a good thing like helping the less fortunate but you don’t need to record it and have their face all over social media.
Charitable act: A charitable organization or activity helps and supports people who are ill, disabled, or very poor. ADJ n. ...charitable work for the handicapped. 2 adj Someone who is charitable to people is kind or understanding towards them. -- What they are doing is self public relations and not a charitable act at all.
This. It's the worst form of "Look at me, look at what a good person I am"
Load More Replies...I do get annoyed seeing all the charitable videos for attention BUT most of these people are literally recording every second of everything anymore anyways. I am glad they are spreading positivity and a semi-good influence on the younger viewers. Hopefully they inspire someone along the way to also pay it forward. Better than flipping through twerking wap videos lol (obviously my opinion)
Maimonides defines eight levels in giving charity (tzedakah), each one higher than the preceding one. On an ascending level, they are as follows: 8. When donations are given grudgingly. 7. When one gives less than he should, but does so cheerfully. 6. When one gives directly to the poor upon being asked. 5. When one gives directly to the poor without being asked. 4. Donations when the recipient is aware of the donor's identity, but the donor still doesn't know the specific identity of the recipient. 3. Donations when the donor is aware to whom the charity is being given, but the recipient is unaware of the source. 2. Giving assistance in such a way that the giver and recipient are unknown to each other. Communal funds, administered by responsible people are also in this category. 1. The highest form of charity is to help sustain a person before they become impoverished by offering a substantial gift in a dignified manner, or by extending a suitable loan, or by helping them find
I was raised Catholic, and I've got a lot of problems with the Church, but I learned two very important things: You do not get into Heaven without works as well as faith, and those works don't count if you do them publicly. You're not showing off.
I can overlook these because the person still gets help, and sometimes I desperately need to see people doing good things, even if their motives are suspect.
Serious pet peeve actually. You can do charitable work without having to plaster it all over socmed. While I admire you doing that, I would admire you most if you do that not in front of the camera.
The only exception for this that I remember long time ago there was a video where a guy went around different fast food chains trying to see what he'd get if he tried to order Big Smoke's order from GTA San Andreas and at the end he was like "Welp, we ate a bit but there's still a lot of it left. I ma just drive around the block and give some to the homeless folk round here"
That's now always bad. I mean... it is still good to see that there are people who help. Especially for kids and teenagers.
Worshipping billionaires.
Worshiping influencers,/actors.. I just don't get it. It's fine when somebody likes them, but idolizing them? Too far imo
I only idolize the celebrities who have saved lives in their spare time, like Harrison Ford. I mean, he rescued stranded hikers with his helicopter not once, but at least THREE times. He inspires me not because of his filmography, but because of his selflessness in real life.
Load More Replies...To me, the way Steve Jobs was worshipped (and later mourned) like he was some kind of saint was the most disgusting example of this phenomenon.
Not really a modern trend. This has been happening throughout human history
Industrialized countries, (USA especially) have always worshipped money, therefore they worship billionaires, because they're hoping some will rub off on them. LOL! Sad really.
“Many cosmetics, for example, promise the ability to achieve a certain look with their use. Social media is driven by different, more individual forces than traditional media, but it is caught up in many of the same patterns, specifically selling goods,” she explained that there’s a (hidden) economic aspect to social media that drives it forward. So what we’re seeing with influencers and their fixation on making a profit shouldn’t surprise anybody.
The history expert noted that even if we’re smart enough to know that an image posted on social media is “highly manipulated,” this doesn’t mean that we can easily identify it with our own two eyes. “It’s difficult now to distinguish real people from the highly curated image presented on social media,” she said.
"Don't forget to like and subscribe" or "1 like = 1 prayer" just please f**k right off with that.
thoughts and prayers? How about something that will make a real difference?
T&P may make you feel better, but does absolutely nothing otherwise.
Load More Replies...What about drop a like and sub or a spider will be in your bed tonight? Honestly that's so cringy and annoying.
Or "95% will just scroll past this, but people who really care about (whatever) will repost!" As if posting a meme will do anything other than clutter up your friends' feed.
Load More Replies...If you like the vid , then like. If not, dislike. If you like the youtuber, subscribe. It depends on your taste. And those shitty comments like, "Like=girl, Comment=Boys" or "those who believe in god/pray give like to my comment" in a totally irrelevent vid is very annoying. These people need to go to jail.
"don't forget to press that notification bell!" why the f**k would I want notifications for all the videos from the dozens of youtubers I watch? that'd be madness! I just open youtube and see what's new, sometimes I take a few weeks off and then have some nice binge nights while gaming.
It's because many people are subscribed to many channels. And based on our watching habits the Youtube algorithm determines what we like and what we don't which might be not the case so some of the new uploads don't show up in the subscriptions feed. So it's good to press that bell icon in order to know if your favorite Youtuber uploaded something new. It's not very important if you know you'll get back to him/her again anyway but it really does help a lot people who are still trying to establish a viewership.
Load More Replies...And “1 like = 1 respect”, how does one quantify respect into a unit of measurement?
Making young children into social media stars. It’s fine to share pictures of your kids with friends, but aggressively documenting and marketing your family life for the public at large is... creepy.
Awful. These posts and pictures are there forever. The child isn't old enough to consent. Protect their identity, they have rights too! Some sick buggers just use or even adopt children in order to make the videos.
under the same category, family channels on youtube!
Load More Replies...This! And all the tv shows where parents exploit their children for profit. Most TLC shows are sickening. Those kids are so exploited and they're too young to understand the life-long implications of their parents decision to use them to make money.
I've had a problem with those TLC shows for a long time...my mother and sister were both heavily into John & Kate Plus 8, and it bothered me. The ultimate was when Kate happened to mention one of the children was going to taking piano lessons, they received a free piano, and she was mildly upset it wasn't a better model. Frankly, any of those shows on TLC though; If you stared at a family in public because "OH, look at all those kids! OH, there's a family of little people! OH, those people are [insert race]!" it would be offensive, but it's okay if you put it on television?
Load More Replies...there will be many future children taking their parents to court for this one day. your kiddo is not your accessory!
The Kardashians is the beginning of the end for American entertainment. (I've never watched one show.)
Treating depression like a quirky personality type.
Or even worse - pretending to be depressed, in order to get sympathy or likes on social media...
People fake all sorts of mental illnesses online, and it’s absolutely disgusting. Being a “psycho” is not hot, nor is it a synonym for energetic/impulsive. Depression and anxiety shouldn’t be used to make you “cooler.” It’s incredibly disrespectful to those who are really struggling.
Yeah. I have ADHD. Like my disorder isn't a quirk idiots.
Load More Replies...I have Schizo and DID, because of this, I also suffer bouts of depression and anxiety/paranoia. The amount of people who glamourize a mental illness as being something "cool and quirky/edgy" to have pisses me off. It's not "cool" or "quirky" or whatever. It's f*****g torture.
Exactly. Like my friends once said she wished she had an anxiety disorder when i told her I had an anxiety disorder. I was getting terrible stomachache, headaches and depression, nobody wants that!
Load More Replies..."I'm depressed lol :)" CAN WE PLEASE STOP DOING THIS! SOME PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY DEPRESSED AND NOT JUST DOING IT FOR ATTENTION
Yeah, when you have suicide attempt scars going back to the 1980s, it's kinda obvs it's not a 'lol' situation
Load More Replies...yeah. depression isn't a personality, it's a sinking, dark, indescribable feeling that you can't get rid of.
‘My favourite TV show ended, I’m so depressed’ NO. Depression is not being sad some stupid TV show has ended.
No. Not all depression is clinical. The clinical usage was actually taken from an existing word that people still have the right to use.
Load More Replies...As someone who is autistic, it's so annoying when someone is like "oh I always put specific thing there! So autistic!". Or even worse, when it is used as another word for stupid.
Being autistic sounds like freaking torture. Glad I just have ADHD. It's annoying but it's not as bad as autism in terms of how people treat you.
Load More Replies...Pretending to have mental health issues is just terrible, so is completely over reacting to everything and having all your posts be about your fake mental health. New flash, lots of people with mental health issues hide it, not post jt everywhere.
Dr. Nicholas believes that our inability to distinguish between real and highly curated images on social media “reflects something of our true selves now,” implying that things are here to stay. At least for the time being.
But for those of you lamenting that modern society is a nightmare, wishing to go back to the good old days, ask yourselves this: which days exactly are the so-called good old days? Dr. Nicholas told Bored Panda that we’ve all lived with various images of beauty since at least the 1920s, and “these have become parts of ourselves.”
Our modern focus on social media is merely an extension of a long historic fascination with beauty. Similarly, other trends could be seen as continuations or reactions to previous trends once you dig a little deeper. That’s why having a solid foundation in history is vital if you want to make more accurate guesses about the future.
How quickly misinformation spreads through social media. It’s seriously a dangerous thing in society and it’s pretty terrifying
"A lie will get half way round the world before the truth gets its boots on"
At this point, Truth had better just pick a pair and start kicking.
Load More Replies...I'm still trying to work out how people arrived at the conclusion that there were dead babies in the covid vaccine - yet that theory has really taken root in some places.
I don't know about the covid vaccine, but there are some vaccines that shouldn't be taken by pregnant ladies. (Covid, probably not)
Load More Replies...A lot of this I blame on what I call the Drive-by Media. They ask no questions and they take whatever the Associated Press is publishing as their source and template. Its a tainted and incestuous well. Public opinion is being shaped by people who can't be bothered to do 5 seconds research or to ask 3 questions. Social media only amplifies this, as many people read articles uncritically and never consider that what they have been told has been cut and curated to try to preach propaganda.
People should and must unite. But a divided people are far easier to control.
Load More Replies...However there is also positive side of spreading news through internet ! In my country it helped a lot with "metoo" and people that were accused, are now facing prison because of the expose! And recently a man, sexually assaulting women in the streets was recently identified cause of the social!
I have a friend on Facebook that posts a lot of misinformation, especially from the daily mail. I show her proof that it's fake and she always acts like she knew it was fake the whole time.
Misinformation about Covid19 had me lose trust in human common sense.
Common sense is neither sensible, nor all that common, sadly
Load More Replies...Can we just throw away Twitter and Facebook? Just yeet both sites into the garbage cauz nowday both are really toxic...
Facebook especially should be rolled off a high hill into a valley of burning hot lava.
Facebook is absolutely terrifying. I went on my mom's Facebook and only saw Covid and Trump propaganda even though she never goes on it. I'm not surprised there is so much misinformation around when sh*t like that is being thrown in your face 24/7.
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Toxic positivity
“Just be positive!”
Yeah thanks Carol I didn’t realize just staying positive would cure my chemical imbalance
When you are at your lowest point, when the black pit you are in is so deep you can’t see the light any longer, the last thing you need to hear is some git telling you to just be positive. Push off, moron.
Seriously. If it was that easy wouldn't we have done that already? My other favorite is when people tell you to count your blessings. I get that they're trying to be helpful, but when you're in a deep depression your brain isn't exactly functioning in a normal way so it's a little hard to think of anything positive.
Load More Replies...As a person with chronic mental and physical illnesses, I can unequivocally say there is no more invalidating thing than hitting a suffering person with your toxic positivity. Learn what empathy is, learn how to "be with" someone in their suffering without being Mary Sunshine or trying to fix it with platitudes and cheerful sayings. If you literally CAN fix their problem or otherwise make it better, by all means do. But tossing toxically positive sh*t their way is NOT being a friend.
Some people mean well but don't realize their positivity is toxic. I give those people a gentle talking-to first, 9/10 times they've understood.
True, I didn't realize it was a thing until maybe a couple of months ago. Now I find better to say "I'm here for you" than "everything is gonna be ok"
Load More Replies...What is annoying is that usually sane people waste time watching and reading those posts
anti-vaccination. When vaccines were first discovered or developed or however you want to say it, they were mostly seen as a scientific break through. A great success. The wonders of man kinds great power and ingenuity. Polio? What polio? But now, it is trendy for many to be now smarter than several years of research and hard work. To know more in 10 minutes on YouTube then someone who has dedicated years of their life to study what other people before then also studied for years of their life and so on and so on. Years of human evolution, growth, study, break-throughs, accomplishments, ground to a halt by some jack wagon with a social media account.
I had a stroke because I caught whooping cough in an area where there was an outbreak and anti-vax cluster. I can't express how angry I am, years later, at people who refuse to believe that vaccines work/help. I would not wish what happened to me on anyone...how can people take such a stupid chance on themselves/kids/family/friends/strangers? The mind boggles.
It's because people are incredibly selfish. Vaccines aren't there only to protect "you" they are there to protect other people from a danger that YOU might pose to THEM. My personal odds of contracting pertussis is quite low, but I am vaccinated against it to reduce the chances of contracting and spreading the bacterium to others without becoming sick myself.
Load More Replies...Antivaxxers are the most selfish antisocial and completely ignorant people on earth!!
If there is any justice at all, they will all get sick of diseases that can be prevented with vaccines. Anti-vaxx and COVID-deniers who die from COVID-19 deserve a group Darwin Award.
Load More Replies...Antivaxxers have to be some of the most entitled, ignorant, and dangerous people.
soni w: do you take any medications? Or do you feel it's too dangerous because of the side effects, even if the pills will prolong your life or keep you from chronic pain? It's the same with vaccines. If you didn't know before the shot, I feel sorry for you, still this doesn't give you the right to call anyone willing to vaccinate stupid or uninformed. Most people are aware of the risks and can do the maths: the risk of a complication from a vaccine is way smaller than the risk that measles have, for example.
Load More Replies...I hate it when people say vaccines cause autism like it's a f*****g disease
I hate when those people get their information from facebook
Load More Replies...I especially "love" the anti-vaxxers who believe the COVID vaccine injects microdevices into your body and then turns you into a "zombie for the state." Really?
Oh man I love that one too, saw a video from a guy in the army talking about how they cant locate each other with the best government GPS tech but somehow we microized it and got it working in a vaccine?
Load More Replies...Anti vaccine - yep this is crazy - the polio vaccine was the best thing in the world as was typhoid , measles , mumps , rabies, tetanus, and so on ......
One of my favorite things to say about anti-vaxxers is that there are two things that never get old: Dark humor and kids that aren't vaccinated.
And most ironically, most anti-vaxxers have been vaccinated as kids and don't have a clue what it was when Polio was still a thing or how awful it felt when 3 of your 4 kids died during a measles outbreak. They profited from vaccines and deny their kids the same protection.
Are the internet and social media to blame for what’s wrong with society? I like to think that they’re merely tools and aren’t inherently good or evil, but we make them so with how we use them. Or, to put it a tad more poetically, they’re funhouse mirrors that reflect and amplify our inner selves.
Social media can be a way to get in touch with long-lost friends and to give a platform for your art. Or it can be an excuse to post endless vapid selfies and to advertise products for monetary gain.
Food blogs for a simple recipe. I don’t give a f*** about reading a story before reading a recipe
Food blogs tend to follow a particular format. One of those features is the ability to print a 'recipe card' version of the recipe instead of the in-line version with the blog post. If you Ctrl+F for the word "print" it will take you past all the nonsense, directly to the content.
Load More Replies..."This recipe reminds me of my Grandma.... *several hours later* and that's how my great great great great great great great uncle Ernest discovered the cocoa bean."
I’m not sure it’s true, but I did read that they have to put text first in order for it to appear higher in search results. Probably there are recipes out there that have the recipe first, but those just don’t appear in your search.
This needs to be higher up for sure! I can't stand having to scroll through like 8 pages of crap before the recipe. Put the recipe at the top and the blog at the bottom, we will read that sh*t if we want (newsflash: we usually don't)...
Some of the good ones now have a "jump to recipe" button at the top. Love that
Omg that is why I only use the ones that have a recipe button, I prefer cookbooks, but my step mother said they where bad, and burned the good ones. One was literally Betty Crocker. My stepmother burns cupcakes so much they are a black rock. I bake pies, cream puffs meringue cookies, cheese cakes and more that she wouldn't be able to do. there fore I don't think her cook book opinion is valid.
Yeah when did this become the norm. Give me a picture of the finished meal, a list of ingredients, and the steps. That's all, I don't want to know how your aunt mary created this when living in a shed on a farm in Oregon.
Family vloggers horrify me. The concept of exploiting your children's lives for views is particularly awful. And because it's a relatively new concept there are no real laws around child labor or exploitation concerning it. There are youtubers out there right now who live in mansions worth millions of dollars that they got from shoving a camera in their toddler's face and demanding them to perform for strangers. I can't even imagine the psychological repercussions this will have on these kids in the future.
I read today about that awful YouTube couple who put their healthy dog down, they apparently backed out of a Thailand adoption because they were forbidden to discuss or show the baby on social media for 12 months. These type of people do not care about children, only chasing money.. https://amp.nine.com.au/article/c2ff7936-818b-47e6-9332-09361787befe
it's like the papparazzi... who,s the fault? the one who did that or all those who follow them?
Load More Replies...Plus, they’re encouraging their kids to pursue being an influencer as a career. They’re not encouraging them to go to college or otherwise train for a real skill that’s useful and always will be, like teaching, plumbing, and other real professions—-not frivolous, potentially damaging, and out of style in the blink of an eye, like influencing.
I don't see how the laws applying to children in movies and tv don't apply to the internet. A screen is a screen is a screen. If it's being produced by a company laws apply; if it's being produced by the parents almost anything goes!
The Duggar’s are an example of this, 19 kids and counting, being famous from a young age and look where their oldest boy is now...
I.HATE.FAMILY.VLOGGERS. they just show off how much money they have n stuff
I can understand this only if it is the only way you can pay for your children colleges or things like that. But in the majority of the cases these people are already rich, so no need for extra moneys exploiting your children. They will have the possibility to choose their career when they are mature enough to handle it. At least, this is my mentality, maybe I have a too old mentality for all of these social media things.
I hope all these people are saving some $$$ for the therapy their kids will need in the future. (probably aren't, tho.)
Justifying being an a-hole with “it’s just a prank”
It's been this way for decades, it was done in the playground before social media
The classic excuse of abusers since forever. Usually followed up with one or more of the victim-blaming phrases “What’s the matter with you”? “Can’t you take a joke?” “You have no sense of humor”. “Lighten up”. It’s a prank when you’re both into pranking, the pranks are harmless, and you’re both having fun doing it. It’s abuse when you’re the only one doing it, the pranks are humiliating and cruel, and you’re the only one having (perverse) “fun” doing it.
Sadly not everyone understands this. Not even otherwise good, decent people.
Load More Replies...People who ‘prank’ are just a-hwols there’s really not much more to it
there's such a thing as real and funny pranks this is not it
Load More Replies...Schrödinger's jokester: someone who says something rude or malicious and then decides afterwards whether or not he was "just joking"
It's the same thing as "Can't you take a joke?" when telling HR about sexual harassment. If it hurts someone, it's not a prank.
It's just a joke, right? But roughly half at least of what is said or done that is justified this way, is in actuality an attempt to show one's true, socially or morally unacceptable feelings, while trying to deflect any blowback with the whole "joke" rubbish
Similarly, the internet itself is both a vast repository of painstakingly verified knowledge and funny animal videos, as well as a seemingly endless archive of half-truths, rumors, fake news, and gossip. You can’t have the good without the bad. Though it’s always healthy to sit down and think about what you’d change about the world if you could. And then, perhaps, even go out and make those changes into reality.
How almost every article is a video rather than an article. I can get to the main point faster reading than it takes for the video to get there.
This! Especially when I'm looking for a video game walkthrough. I just want to know where this one chest is. Show me a picture, a few sentences about how to find it, and maybe a map. I don't want to scroll through a 20 minute video to find out where this one stupid chest is.
I wish I could upvote more than once because I could not possibly agree more.
Load More Replies...As a deaf person, this is particularly annoying as many of the videos don't have captions.
Or you see an article for a "see what she/he looks like now! you'll be AMAZED!" and you go through it and it's page after page after page until you've reached page 31.
Those are really annoying, especially if the format is messed up so you have to scroll a bit to get to the NEXT tab. They mainly do this multi-page thing to make it appear like they have more traffic than they actually do because each page is it's own thing instead of having everything on one page that you can scroll down on. They get more clicks with the multi-page thing.
Load More Replies...Ikr? I read really fast, and I don’t like audiobooks or stuff like that because a 12 hour long audio book I could probably read in like 3 or 4 hours
YES!!!! I've come to the point of not even seeing the titles on the CNN homepage if there's a video arrow graphic. I don't want to wait thru your flipping ad, and then meaningless banter from your reporters. Just let me speed read, thanks!
This. Have skipped many useful info just for this. I can read faster than I watch.
At the very least provide a transcript so I don't have to watch the video. Sometimes I'm not in a good place to watch something (doc's office, etc.), and just want a summary or a transcript so I can READ what they're talking about rather than watching/listening.
Totally agree! Unfortunately, so many of these folks fell for the "you can get more likes/exposure with a video rather than text & screenshots" technique. So infuriating!
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The overgrowth of identity. There’s nothing wrong with being any race, gender or sexuality (or any other thing), but it doesn’t make you any more ‘legitimate’ or more of an authority on anything. I guess I’m just tired of all the deepening divisions. If you get too engrossed in your ‘tribe’ you’ll lose sight of all the other people out there.
If you indulge and are proud of your heritage, your culture, that's ok as long as you don't dub others and there culture as inferior.
This. Also, your rights end where mine begin, and your feelings do not trump my rights.
That's the point. Keep us separated and make sure we all know how to be compartmentalized into our own little factions. We will never Unite as a people for the few common causes that will keep humanity together.
Indeed. I am a mix of several nationalities by blood. However I am not going to amplify or emphasise any of these in the name of victimhood in the name of fashion or expediency when these characteristics have nothing to do with the situation.
This one is shortsighted. People of color and other marginalized groups aren't asking to be more legitimate than others, they want to be seen and given equitable opportunities. The fallacy of saying that something like Black Lives Matter means that POC are asking to get more is disingenuous, they're saying Black Lives Matter TOO, as in also. People are just mad because marginalized groups are allowed a platform in today's discourse, so therefore they want "more."
You are right about the initial purpose of many of these movements. The problem is that then some take it in a direction that ends up resegregating us. Unfortunately intention can lead to some unintended results.
Load More Replies...Yes, AND... The problem is when folks assume supremacy. And it's institutional. Since day one. So yeah. Not upvoting this one.
anyone ever see that Fairly Oddparents episode where timmy wishes for everyone to be the same? That's what i want, we all just gotta be one race, one color, one gender. Like some crazy amorphous blob thing
The instagram Kardashian body image crap. Those bodies are unachievable without surgery, money, trainers, chefs, etc. Cellulite and love handles exist. Eat healthy, exercise and love who you are with confidence.
The fact that an "unapproved" photo being released is devastating to them says a whole lot about how fake they are.
Load More Replies...Yeah, they literally edit all photos. That's why it was a big deal when a picture of an unedited kloe was leaked. The worst part is, she was so pretty in that one, like and actual human being
The Kardashians have more plastic in their body than Barbie.
I’ve noticed so many of the “influencers” on IG all look the same. The same fake big butt, small waist, plumped up lips, small nose. It seems like the kardashians started it and they all want to look exactly like her. They all look like clones. It’s creepy.
I'll never understand the plumped lips thing. why do people want that look? it's so unnatural!
Load More Replies...Do women actually want to look like bowling pins? I don’t think they do.
Basing your entire identity around political parties that don't even represent your interests.
what's actually worse is people exchanging their religious beliefs for political identity. yes, i'm looking at you conservative christians!
Truth, I can't stand people that judge with one hand and jerkoff with the other. If they really wanted to base their political affiliation off religion they would be Democrat's. Thou shall not kill, thou shall not bare false witness, clothes and feed the poor, my lands have no borders. Yet Republicans refuse to believe any of this.
Load More Replies...And liberals and conservatives being persecuted for not being democrat or republican enough. Since when is middle ground a bad thing. We ALL need to meet in the middle.
I'm right with you on this one. I'm so sick and tired of this divide.
Load More Replies...You can be,I even whatever you want to believe, worship however you want to worship, and vote however you choose. Just do not try to force other people to do the same, either legislatively or through shaming, guilt-tripping, or violence. You do you and let me do me.
Treating politicians like rock stars or your favorite sports team. They're public servants. You're not meant to worship them blindly, and you don't have to agree with every single thing they say just because they belong to your party.
The worse each side gets, the more repulsed the other side is, which drives them deeper into the worship of their own party.
There's no "each side" here, sweetie. The Repubs are evil. The Dems are not. The Repubs lie and promote lies and elected a liar.
Load More Replies...Or stating your interest and being cursed at for being one of that party. Geez, there are lots of interests, don't have to be all or none.
Influencers. I can't stand the term, it gives whatever dickhead thinks they are famous a feeling of superiority. Plus everyone seems to be an 'Influencer' and not actually engaging in proper life. Grrr
What I would really appreciate is if companies stopped giving ridiculous amounts of money to both influencers and celebrities. Pass those savings on to the consumer by lowering prices. I don't care what media whore is on the commercial for the skin care cream. I love Matthew McConaughey, but I'm never gonna be able to afford that Lincoln truck I want if they keep sending him checks.
Plus, they're always trying to get someone else's hard work for free. "Oh, I'll feature you on my insta. I have 514 followers!"
Pretty easy to ignore, though. Knowing they exist is depressing, but only because of the pathetic beings who make their existence possible.
Change the term to "Influenza" It's much more to the point and describes them better.
The idea that every one of your hobbies needs to be turned into a side hustle. No one is allowed to simply have hobbies that they love, you have to strive to be good enough to monetize it
"If you enjoy something, why not make it a stressful obligation upon which you're financially dependent? Suck all the joy out of your life today with Side Hustle "
That's why I'm studying to be a programmer. I love art, but forcing myself to do it and then ending up hating it breaks my heart
Load More Replies...I love commenting on BP posts, it's my hobby... Bored Panda you need to pay me!! lol
This. My mother keeps telling me I should start selling my knitting. I've been telling her for YEARS that I do it because I enjoy it, and selling only turns it into a job.
Same here. I crochet a lot of animals and dolls and my grandma always tells me I should sell them. I'm with you on not wanting it to become a job. So much time goes into each one and I do it because I care about the people I give them to. Seeing their face when I gift it to them is what motivates me to finish it. If I was doing it for money it just wouldn't be as enjoyable plus I would feel pressured to work faster since someone is paying me for it. Plus let's be honest, you would never make enough to compensate for how much time and love goes into each piece. I've read different formulas for figuring out how to charge for handmade items and I'd have to charge a ridiculous amount given the fact that each doll or animal takes me weeks to complete.
Load More Replies...I feel like our society teaches that an activity doesn't have value unless you're producing and making the best of the product, like drawing or painting. But you don't need to be good at something for it to be a stress relieving hobby.
This is more a symptom of our economy and the "gig culture" that has evolved around it. Most jobs don't pay enough, or they pay just enough, to afford rent. So people need to make more money to afford everything else.
Sorry nothing wrong with a side hustle as long as its legal. I have an Etsy shop but and dont get a lot of sales because I dont use all my energy on it. I dont want to hate the things I love to do but dont want an overwhelming amount of items I have made lying around because I dont know what to do with them. So I take lots of breaks and when I feel it I do it.
I don't know if you rich people are aware, but some of us need extra to survive.
They always tell you to find a job doing something you love, blind to the fact that if you turned something you love into the daily grind of work, you'll soon hate it. This inane philosophy is responsible for the death of more passions than anything else.
When people see someone in distress, instead of helping they whip their phones out and film. Social media and smart phones have absolutely messed this world up.
I'm torn on this. Depending on the source of the distress it may not be appropriate to interfere and filming it instead will be vital evidence. If it's clear that help can and should be provided, then yes, use your phone to call for help and not film.
How about this instead: If someone else (singular or plural) is already successfully helping, then you can be the one who records the potential evidence. But only if there’s a legitimate legal reason to do so. Otherwise, keep your phone in your pocket and mind your own damn business.
Load More Replies...Before phones they just would have walked away, it’s the people that mess the world up not the gadgets.
People filming accidents for instance is not just bad because they're not helping. They make things worse - they get in the way of ambulances or fire fighters for instance and sometimes they post images and videos of these injured strangers online (without permission, obviously). It's illegal here, but some idiots haven't realised that.
the world was messed up before, social media and smart phones are just helping people realize that.
On the news, I saw a very little girl in the ocean with at least 3 shark around her. She was terrified and running out of the water. Whoever stood there videoing this instead of helping her should be horsewhipped.
Good thing that young girl got video of Derek Chauvin! Probably wouldn't have been a great idea for her to have "interfered" with four police officers, though. Four men who should not be wearing the uniform.
Tbh, I’m a little torn on this, cell phones are in a way good because my friend moved away and now I can contact her. But yeah on the other hand it can get toxic sometimes.
That isn't what this post is about though. It's about filming someone who is upset or maybe even in danger when they could be helping them.
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Mommy wine culture. The normalization of needing to drink to tolerate your kids. As a mom who doesn't drink it seems like there is so much normalization of alcoholic behavior that it makes me sad.
Sad and frightened. Parents are the ones who drive their children wherever they need to go, and monitor their activities to ensure they’re safe. Mothers are also the ones who need to be careful about Fetal Alcohol Syndrome in any children born after they become alcoholics because they’re dependent on wine—-or whatever alcoholic beverage they move on to—-just to get through the day.
If a man was having a drink each day after work, would you be as concerned? No one is saying drinking to the point of intoxication here. And no one is suggesting drinking while pregnant. This is just more woman shaming.
Load More Replies...It's not just about how often and how much they're drinking. It's how they talk about it, joke about it, give gifts like wine glasses that say "Mommy's Sippy Cup" on the side, there are t-shirts etc. All with the message of how alcohol is the choice way of coping with kids. I've been in morning parent meetings full of women who joke "Is it too early to start drinking?" Or "We need morning cocktails!", "After last week we all need to go have few!" Sometimes kids are standing right there. Nothing wrong with drinking, the problem is when you give the message that your kids are driving you to drink.
Some of us just like WINE!!! It's not to tolerate our kids it's because it's yummy 😃
Yes, thank you. Alcoholism in general is becoming way too normalized, and this is a significant part of that.
This isn’t a new thing. My oldest is 20 and this was a thing back then. Don’t have kids if you need to drink to tolerate them. It’s not remotely cute or funny.
It goes with the victim parents syndrom. Those kids didn't appear out of nowhere to fall on you.
And yet mommy marijuana use is still taboo af, even in legal states. Like, let's normalize being a functioning alcoholic in order to tolerate your children/life, but shame you if you use a medicinal herb to help with anything at all. WTF
I hear you. It's funny how there's still a stigma even tho it's legal. I don't smoke, but my husband does and it's never once been a problem or made me feel concerned about his ability to watch our children. He keeps it where the kids have zero access to it, he doesn't do it in front of them, and he doesn't smoke so much that he's incoherent. He has severe knee and leg problems so his primary Dr suggested it to help him cope with the pain he feels on a daily basis. I'd much rather him smoke weed than be poppin pain pills. No judgement on people who take pain pills, they're just not my cup of tea after watching my sister get hooked on em. As long as you're able to function and care for your children, do what you gotta do to get thru the day. I mean, in the grand scheme of things, what's worse... Taking a couple hits off a joint to take the edge off, or being stressed out and taking it out on your kids? Whether it's weed or alcohol, as long as you are responsible about it, that's all that matters.
Load More Replies...Yup. You don't need to do anything about your kids' asshole behavior, like, PARENT them. Just hide from them and drink. Make them the world's problem instead.
Look---it helps. If a mother needs to take the edge off, then let her. Raising kids is no picnic, and moms usually get precious little support from their husbands when it comes to childcare. A glass of wine a day is a perfectly acceptable self-care ritual and not a symptom of alcoholism. Try not to shame other mothers. They are doing their best.
Having a glass of wine to decompress is okay, but being specifically dependent on it is not.
Load More Replies...As the daughter of an actual alcoholic, 'mommy wine culture' is a slap in the face every time I see it.
Letting little kids have social media (unsupervised). They are not equipped to handle any of it. So many conflicts spawn out of it.
Never ever. I check all apps for chat functions in any capacity, I know my kid isn't ready. But I know kids around his age (8-12) that use it 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
I completely agree! My kids can't use my phone or computer unsupervised, my tv does not, nor will it ever have, Youtube, and everything is password protected. I started easing restrictions with my oldest when she was 13 (she's 18 now) and I plan on doing the same with her younger sisters. I've also educated them repeatedly about the dangers of online people you don't know. Predators will use chat functions in games to target kids! I make sure my girls understand it's not them that I don't trust, it's the people I don't know.
Load More Replies...I even joined Twitter rt now when I am 18 and I found a 6 year old on there cursing trying to fight bts stans....imagine a kid was giving out death threats to grown people
Social media is really hard on your mental health. It doesn't matter what age you are but on impressionable young minds, it can do so much damage.
My 6 year old has an iPad but it is heavily restricted and it locks out at 6.30pm. The only websites he can reach are the BBC Bitesize pages and the Chrome Music Lab. There is no way he will be on the internet unsupervised any time soon. Not that he is aware of social media or anything like that
This. There have been some cases of kids suicides because of online bullying or even because of some stupid challenges ( at least in my country). People search to blame the social network ( sure, it could have some faults), but where do the parents were? Your kids, your responsability.
I am in high school, and the only reason i want social media , is so that i can have a private acc and keep in contact with friends i don't see as much + see what my friends are up to.
My daughter wanted FB when she was 12 to chat to friends. I createdher account and linked it to mine, so all her posts I saw. I know this sounds creepy but she actually thought it a good idea; especially when she got bullied at school and we got it sorted fast.
i mean, sure kids should have phones (from like 12 or something idk), having a phone isn't the same as having social media
I'm almost 16 and my step-mother has my phone (witch I got for Easter this year )heavily filtered. I cant do anything past 9 or before 7 and I Don't have safari or google or social media (I have tic tock but its my stepmothers account and KID'S messenger) and I have one game and can't download any more. kids my age have it all and my phone number is not of value because no one talks that way. my bf can do whatever whenever so he ignores me its not like I can do anything on my phone because after I use apps after a certain time they lock. This is rough and I feel everybody's gonna have it so why not give it to them and if you don't trust you kids for no reason than get some therapy.(Also my step mother lets her kid do whatever and he's 10)
Without a doubt, I can't stand cancel culture, gaslighting and the insane oversensitivity shown in social media. I'm going to write it clearly........"If you don't like something, don't watch it, interact with it or have anything to do with it." Just because you don't appreciate what someone has created, it doesn't mean it's your right to remove them and their art entirely. John Cleese said it perfectly "From the point of creativity, if you have to keep thinking which words you can use and which you can't, then that will stifle creativity"
Really? Funny how people never admit that canceling is what Repubs do. They want to cancel voting rights, womens' rights, facts, elections, democracy, truth, reality, and any time they don't get their way. And they're all supporting a petulant orange toddler who lies and has constant tantrums.
Load More Replies...Far too often standing up against racism, misogyny and xenophobia amus being defined by the buzzwords of cancel culture, which then places those who are speaking out in a position of defending their stance of advocating for decent behavior. I wish I didn't have to see hatred for anything that goes against any progress in the way we treat those who have historically been treated as less than, but I see it every day. It isn't cancel culture, it is consequence culture and for many, long overdue.
As long as it isn't harming someone, yes. However, bigoted behavior, misinformation and discrimination need to be called out.
Can people stop to consider that some things DO need to change? Some things DO need to be called out, and our stagnant thoughts on a topic really should be challenged. No one likes change, but it is inevitable. No one is “cancelling” anything. We are figuring out there is no need for certain words, phrases, books, statues, etc. in our modern culture. They can’t be erased from the past, but they shouldn’t be used going forward.
I don't agree with cancel culture either!! We need to learn some staff and be educated otherwise there is no way to see progress! Watching mistakes of the past will prevent making the same in the future! Also we cannot judge something according today's standards! It's crazy
Uh, no. Ignorance may be bliss, but not interacting with something does not mean it isn’t causing harm.
Just because you don't like someone's opinion, it doesn't give you or anyone else the right to bash that
Just because you have an opinion, that doesn't make it fact.
Load More Replies...Not interacting with it is not going to solve the issue at the root - people being not considerate. Some people act oversensitive and gaslight on everything, but then some so-called artists/influencers are completely insensitive. These insensitive creatives, get more encouragement when they are not held responsible for their creations. What should happen to a song/video/post where the creator is racist/stereotyping? It should be reported and taken down. I can not attack someone or some community, and get away with it under the banner of "Creative Freedom". With freedom, comes responsibility.
Public shaming. Terrifying how the blind rage of an anonymous crowd can ruin your life in hours.
They used to call these lynch mobs. They used to let you die with some dignity by hanging you and be done with it. Now they ruin your life and salt the earth. In some cases, death might have been a mercy.
Lynch mobs didn’t “let you die with dignity by hanging you”. Read up on them. They did some pretty sick and gruesome things to the people they lynched before they hanged them.
Load More Replies...Cancel Culture can go f**k itself. I get some people need to be canceled, but there are cases where people cancel people over things that happened near enough a decade previously, and it is clear they have changed a lot. Jenna Marbles, for example. Yet people like James Charles, who are creepy ass pedo's, don't get cancelled? ex f*****g scuse me?
What's worse is that people get canceled pure on allegations. Just tell some story about someone and before you know it that person's life is destroyed. No evidence needed.
Load More Replies...Depends on the reason for the shaming, like abuse of child, animal, wife, husband, or somebody driving so badly that they could cause an accident. I have no pity for these fools.
Yes, but we shame so many people so violently for relatively small offenses that it reduces the effect of shaming people for real, terrible offenses.
Load More Replies...This is the one thing I dislike about BP. You have one controversial opinion and then people hate you. They insult you. It hurts. (This is true for most other sites too tho.)
Load More Replies...I agree with this, but there are some instances where the a**holes just need to be called out. Like the white military guy and his wife harassing a long time black resident because he was just walking down their street. Or the woman that brow beat a pregnant black soldier in a restaurant because she was offered a table first. If you publicly make yourself out to be an a**hole, then the world deserves the right to call you out on it.
I think that’s different. Those things should be called out and many of them are on video. But real shaming is done constantly by people who don’t even know the person they are shaming, have no context, no facts or even proof what was done is 100% true. Many are already put to death before facts actually come out.
Load More Replies...This was typical for the communist regimes in SE Europe. It was sometimes called "The Comrade Court".
Now they call it cancel culture, but it's still just a mob of people with torches and pitchforks, except hiding in anonymity with fake nicknames on Twitter, etc.
Load More Replies...ONLY when the person actually deserves it. Like a racist, misogynist, homophobic, transphobic etc type of person.
How do you decide that someone deserves it? Misogyny,homophobia yes...racism absolutely..but transphobia? People are being labelled transphobic just for having a different opinion...I don't believe that trans women should be allowed to compete in women's sports for example,does that make me transphobic? Because if it does then that makes Caitlin Jenner transphobic.....
Load More Replies...Agree. We are losing focus on the serious problems by shaming and cancelling left, right and centre. What has happend to common sense and ‘choose your battles’?
Exactly. She did and said nothing wrong, but apparently standing up for the rights of women and girls is considered a crime these days.
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Words like "victim" and "survivor" being thrown around so much to the point where they are losing their meaning.
Don't forget the "struggle" too. One more "everyday life struggles of a girl" and I'm ready to throw said girl off the roof 🤦♀️
Especially when they confuse being a "hero" with being what should be an average human meeting the requirements of basic decency.
Load More Replies...But if you go through a very violent encounter and/or were sexually assaulted and you lived to tell about it then you ARE a victim and a survivor. How the hell does it "lose meaning"?
They are talking about them being thrown around too much, so that it becomes meaningless for what you are talking about - real victims. I know a woman who talks about her "abuser" on occasion. Her abuser was a guy she was playing D&D with. He had his character flirt with hers. She didn't like it, but went along with it because she "didn't want to be murdered" (playing D&D with friends!) She literally refers to that guy as her "abuser". In her mind, she is the "victim" of abuse and has "survived" it (by not being murdered while playing D&D with friends). My son knows several (several!) other young women with similar stories and outlooks. That's why it's a problem.
Load More Replies...I hate the fact that once you're labelled as a "victim" or "survivor" in that context, it's a label you never escape, not because you don't want to, but because it's all people will sometimes see you as. :/
Thank you for silencing those of us who truly are survivors, and those who struggle, and those who are trying to speak up against bad stuff... I agree the attention-grabbers diminish the reality, but htat's been true without internet.
Are you speaking to the poster of this, or to the people who overuse "victim" and "survivor"? Because wanting people to use those words correctly are an attempt to NOT silence actual victims and survivors.
Load More Replies...I once took a trip alone through Ireland, staying in hostels, traveling by public transit. I was called "brave" by my coworkers. I was 35. Brave, for taking a vacation alone. Still shaking my head.
Load More Replies...And hero. It great that someone helped another person out, but they're not a hero. People are supposed to help others, it's called being a good person.
Recording strangers to see their reactions.
If you do that to me, don't be surprised by me flipping it out of your hand and making you fish it out of a duck pond.
No. I don't want any of those creepos near the precious ducks.
Load More Replies...In switzerland it's forbidden, thank god. You need consent of the other person/s to record
Same in Germany - if it gets published we can demand to take it down
Load More Replies...I hate this so much. The last thing I want/need is some stranger videoing me or taking photos and then posting them online. Should be illegal.
Social media influencers asking for free items unsolicited, then when of course they decline they threaten to (and in some cases do) leave bad reviews forcing the company to have to respond to false allegations for no reason.
It’s almost like Bored Panda have done a posting about this very issue
i was hopeful the pandemic would have given them a dose of reality having nothing to influence...but they're back in full force unfortunately.
The pandemic just gave them more free time and a larger audience.
Load More Replies...BP has discussed this in many articles, but it's still worth saying again. As someone who's been approached time and again by these entitled folks (aka scammers) I belive these warnings should continue since not everyone is aware of their ridiculous demands in exchange for your "exposure".
Glorifying celebrities and treating them like gods. Like, I understand being a fan of someone, but you don't have to create an entire livelihood around them or try to emulate them. This is also how people get into positions of power when they shouldn't be.
This has been a thing since the first celebrity, the worship and emulation is not new. What's new is information access; many celebs have social media accounts for more access to them.
True. It’s the very thing that allows me to rely to you…and so much more which I find quite frightening. I’m new to all this and still have no social media presence, by choice.
Load More Replies...I’ve never understood why the Kardashians are famous. It’s like they just popped out of nowhere!
Kim got filmed giving someone a blow job. Then she got more plastic than a Tupperware party. That's their whole story.
Load More Replies...I'll add to this that legitimate artists, actors, writers, musicians, etc. who actually have talent can be interesting but I don't need to know everything about them. Unfortunately, "Celebrity" is now bestowed on people who are famous not for having any talent, per se, but because they exploited and monetized themselves. Kim K became famous because she was Paris Hilton's friend and when Paris' sex tape was released and made $$, Kim's Momager saw an opportunity and f**king released Kim's sex tape. What mother DOES that?!?!?
This! Celebrities are just humans, they have faults It always seems like a shock when it is learned that someone is a bad person or has mental illness or has a medical condition. They s**t and die, just like everyone else - fame and money does not change that.
As has been said a hundred times... "we gotta stop making stupid people famous."
so f**King ridiculous what qualifies as 'celebrity' these days. remember when people used to have to pay their dues to achieve fame? apparently now all you have to do is act like you can't believe that photo or video got leaked to the internet. give me a @~!%! break. #icanhearthemsayokayboomer #eyeroll
Too true. I like celebrities like Dove Cameron, Taylor Swift, Dua Lipa and I think they’re really talented. But I don’t glorify them. They are human beings just like me, so they shouldn’t be treated very different.
Modern people (including most the people I've dated) getting pissed that I don't reply to them immediately. "Why were you ignoring me bro?!" I wasn't. I'm just not addicted to my phone. People will b***h and moan about how I don't reply to them immediately, but if you put them all in a room, they can't look up from their phones to have a real conversation. Why did they ever invent active statuses?!?! It's so goddamn annoying to have people get mad at me because I used the calculator on my phone at work, and then people look to see that you were on your phone, and immediately think you're ignoring them. I'm at work. I didn't even notice your STUPID. BUBBLE.
I remember a time when friends and family respected business hours, meaning you only called if something was important, and if you had to leave a message you expected to wait until end of work.
And that was back when you had to wait by the phone for them to return your call.
Load More Replies...I don't have my cellphone with me everywhere I go, mostly it stays at home - some people can't understand that.
I only use a cellphone on vacation. Yes I'm one of those dinosaurs that still has a landline. I can't see where my life has been negatively affected.
Load More Replies...Not gonna lie, I do get annoyed when people don’t reply within 30 minutes. I’m not like texting them saying “BRO ANSWER YOUR PHONE” but yeah, you get the point. I’m just not a patient person lol.
Ah, for my youth! You returned a phone call the same day, and you were a *star*!
Because of social media. The normality of feeling included is necessity. I've committed my fair share of "thinking I'm ignored."
I’m terrible at not responding to people and the people who are still my friends deal with that part of me and plan accordingly and when I text them if they reply straight away or it takes hours doesn’t matter as I know people have lives to live
Doing a stupid "challenge" that will end with one or more people injured, imprisoned, or worse.
one word: Tiktok. Why? The (pretty sure it’s called)skull breaker challenge and many more
No way! We need MORE dangerous challenges! The more dumb people that get themselves killed or imprisoned for trying to get attention the less society has to deal with.
Like the coronavirus challenge on TikTok. It’s the stupidest challenge I know, so it belongs in the comments.
I can't stand people that film other humans or animals and continue filming them when they are injured.
And don't forget the moron challenges on social media: "99% of the people reading this can't think of a word that starts and ends with the letter T," etc. The only people for whom they're challenging are small children still learning to read.
Just think--if we'd called it a "mask challenge" in the beginning, we'd be over Covid by now.
Woke culture. It doesn't allow for people getting better. If you have to dig 7 years to find something bad someone said on twitter they maybe a improved person now. I care about how people are now not 7-10 years ago or that they say something stupid in high school.
It takes a special someone to spend time trawling through twitter to see if someone made a dumb tweet when they were essentially a child or very young adult.
A bachelor in "Gender Studoes" is not a jbo guarantee, you know?
Load More Replies...Yes! I felt bad when a Flash actor got fired, for a tweet he made at 17. It was over 10 years ago, at the time he was in school and was quite sheltered. You also have to bear in mind some people are taught things by their family or community, like in small towns where everyone looks the same. Since then, they have left home, met new people, have different friends, have a different lifestyle, changed their attitude and beliefs etc. It seems wrong to judge someone on a silly comment they made as a teenager when they are no longer that person.
My family and I were talking a few months ago about whether or not someone should be "cancelled" for doing something that was acceptable in the past that isn't in the present. Like the Dr. Seuss books that got yeeted for some reason even though it was fine at the time. Food for thought.
Woke/Cancel culture isn't about activism or making real change, it's about winning. They just want to feel good about themselves and that they won, regardless of the damage they did to other people's lives.
Also, if someone does believe something objectionable, alienating them is not going to get them or anyone else to change for the better. It will only reinforce their belief.
Exactly. A lot of people with good intentions (anti racism, anti homophobia etc) get so rabid and intolerant that at the end they are damaging their cause instead of helping it.
Load More Replies...Who the hell can possibly live up to the standard? People are (& always have been) complex and contradictory. The truly “woke” person does not (& never has) existed
Sometimes they’re still the same but it can only be found in writing 7-10 years ago. Like anything, this should be handled on a case-by-case basis.
That people think their lives need to be viewed to be lived- it’s like privacy and being private are considered repressive. People are always online, posting about their lives, and everyone wants validation about every aspect of their lives. Just f*****g live ‘em!
Oh so much this. I got people having a go at me because I didn't have any photos of my brother's wedding to show them but they had a professional photographer there and I'd promised myself I wasn't going to put a lense between me and my brother's wedding! It's like people want to view their life at one step removed.
I’ve came across a few people over the years who thought it was so strange that someone my age (28) didn’t have social media (unless you count bored panda.) they thought I was hiding something or that I wasn’t who I said I was. I just never felt the need to post my life online for the world to see. My boyfriend and parents are the same way. My boyfriend’s mom is obsessed with FB and posts every little thing. When our baby was born we asked her to not post her online. Thankfully she has respected our decision.
I only really use bored panda as my social media too, I'm in my early 30s now but I've never seen the appeal. I had to ask my son's father to stop the stupid Facebook account he made when our kid was born, posting stupid stuff like our kid had said it, even tho he was a baby 😡🤦♀️ what a stupid stupid thing to do (he closed it pretty quick after this was brought up, can't believe I had to tell him tho). I'm glad your bfs mum has respected your decision! I think ppl in our age bracket grew up on the cusp of this tech change; some of us stuck with our more familiar wats we learned growing up, others enjoyed and adapted to the MySpace era and onwards
Load More Replies...It's fun to share and it can be enjoyable for some people, but if you record everything just because you feel the need to, that's not a healthy state.
Over sharing on an internet that’s written in indelible ink, not eraseable pencil. Once you put your private life out there, it’s there forever, no matter what “scrubbers” may say. And available for viewing by everyone, including potential employers, pervs, stalkers, criminals, and other people you really don’t want knowing everything about your life. Something people generally don’t think about before uploading their pictures and videos.
I like to live my life according to the French adage "pour vivre heureux, vivons cachés"...
I don’t. I have friends and family with whom I keep in touch with by phone, text and the Pub and don’t crave on line recognition. I cannot agree more with your statement “just f*****g live ‘em!”
I feel bad for them, unless they are truly interesting folk their following will vanish over time. You wont be young and pretty forever im sorry to say. And I do hope when you get to that point you have something else to motivate you besides how many followers you have.
Narcissism. Everyone has to livestream their trip to the grocery store, or sits in front of a beautiful natural site and never turn around and look at it, because they’re obsessed with themselves and creating this false narrative about their life. Everything is all about “living their best life”(usually at the expense of others) or “living their truth”(complete BS not remotely based on reality). It’s all about them, and only them. F*** I hate these people...
on the flip side... i want to film everything i do for me, because Alzheimer's runs in my family, and i am scared of forgetting all my small mundane things i take for granted =(
but that's different, because you're doing it for a deep personal reason. this post is talking about people who just film everything for attention. also, I hope you're able to film as many amazing moments as possible to look back on :)
Load More Replies...Don't hate them. And they're not narcissists. The issue is that they either haven't learned or have forgotten that one's self-esteem comes from one's own accomplishments. Instead, they've based their view of themselves on other people's reactions, so they have to MAKE their lives look amazing in order to get the positive feedback. (Man, I wish this site allowed paragraphs in comments!!!)
When you have to tell the world how awesome your life is, it usually isn't.
If you're busy showing other people how you live, you're not really living, are you? Experience things for yourself, not for them.
You can't just buy something now. Everything is a subscription. First it was just Netflix, then it was dollar shave club. Now every TV channel is a separate subscription, every household item wants to send it to you over and over again. Nothing is released physically, so the only way to watch a movie or check out a new album is to pay someone monthly. Services that were offered for free or one-time purchase are rescinded and now offered as subscriptions. It's so obvious that everyone and everything just wants to milk you as long and for as much as possible. And people just buy into it willingly. I know people who spend like $200 a month on stuff that was free like, 10 years ago. People are even offering themselves on a subscription base now. I can't believe how cool everyone is with watching all their money disappear all the time.
CDs and DVDs are still available for music and film. Some of this is an exaggeration.
It's a definite trend though, you can't deny it. Same for software (SaaS). Heck, same for coffee (Nescafe doses are a form of subscription, you are stuck with a single expensive option once you've bought the machine)
Load More Replies...Adobe products as well. I miss the days when you owned something when you paid for it.
Yes! I still keep my old macbook and cannot get it upgraded because I have a downloaded copy of Adobe on it. I'm afraid that if I update the OS, Adobe would stop working and I'd have to get a subscription .
Load More Replies...the ones that makes me the angriest are the software companies like Microsoft Office & Adobe Acrobat. You used to be able to buy a cd with the stand alone software and use it for years until you felt like upgrading. now you have to buy a subscription services for $x /month and you suffer all their stupid updates and broken fixes ad infinitum.
Support the things that still work the right way - go to that local book shop, make a date with the shops to browse for a couple of hours every month. Disconnect your purchasing from the Internet giants before your choice disappears forever.
I detest the subscription model. Whoever invented it should be cast into the Ninth Circle, along with the inventor of Autotune, whoever got rid of butterfly windows on cars, and the cretin who came up with the concept of health insurance.
I wanna kill Discovery. Yeah Discovery +! I get it! You have an obnoxious banner in the upper right corner that turns into something blocking the whole bottom of the screen for 20 seconds then back to the top all though the entire show! Oh and the three commercials for it every 10 minutes between 7 other commercials. And they're taking a lot of stuff off the channels (that we pay for in our cable) and make them exclusive to the stream. Even if I wanted to, I can't stream on my TV because they just can't access it. I can now pay $XXX for a Roku or Firestick (more money) so I can pay for a subscription for something that I used to get with my standard cable that I pay for! Holy S**t!
People aren't cool with it. People don't have much of a choice. I hate Comcast but it is the only high-speed internet service and I live in Houston, TX. The 5th largest city in the USA and I don't even have a choice for ISP. How is that allowed!
Libraries is where i get all my books, video games, movies and tv shows from. But a lot of tv shows aren't on dvd anymore.
Use to you would, in the states, watch tv with commercials, generally no more than six minutes and hour. So, you were basically paying to watch tv, no biggie. Then it was cable, more channels but still commercials, so you were "paying" twice: commercials and cable. Now, on cable, "reruns" [shows that were on this morning and you didn't get to see but you could watch them "on demand] you now have to pay for through "all access" and let's not mention HBO, Showtime, etc., you pay for them separately and now you are paying for tv through commercials, cable, on demand, "all access", Amazon, Netflix etc. We no longer watch tv.
Ooops, sorry, I misunderstood your comment! I totally agree with you!
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Plain articles of clothing like a t-shirt where the only thing on them is a large graphic of the logo of the brand that made it. See it a lot with “Gucci”. People are literally paying hundreds of their own money to be a walking advertisement for a company.
"Oooh, I don't have a personality, perhaps wearing a famous brand can substitute for that."
I've felt this way ever since I was a kid. I didn't understand why all my classmates were wearing shirts and sweaters with OLD NAVY written across it in giant letters. Are they paying you to wear that?
It's been going on a lot longer than that! It was first commercialized in the late 19th century, and it's only gotten worse since then.
Load More Replies...People literally out there buying white t-shirts with the word “Supreme” on it for thousands of dollars, it’s incredibly stupid.
Just let it go. Why do you care what someone else is wearing or how much they paid for it. If they didn't use my money to do it, then I sure don't care.
I'm exhausted with how vapid and fake social media is.
Jip, when everyone I studies with now on social media "looks younger" than what they did when we studied 14 years ago!!!
Recording people in need for clout.
Never. And dont force it on them, or act like they owe you in any way (ie for clout etc) i know ppl say beggars can't be choosers but that's dehumanising esp when in literal examples of beggars like this, rather than a metaphor
When someone records themselves doing something kind or thoughtful, just to get likes, more followers on social media etc.
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Public grieving. And berating those who don’t grieve publicly. When Chadwick Boseman passed away, people were hounding his co-stars regarding their responses. When Malik B of The Roots passed away, Questlove actually found out by being spammed on Twitter by a bunch of strangers. Imagine finding out one of your closest friends died, because random strangers wanted an immediate response from you.
I hate public grieving too. I mean... how do you even have the strength to think about your social media when you grieve??
I got downvoted like hell on a post about a man revealing on twitter his wife had a miscarriage. I don't care if it got downvoted, displaying that kind of s**t on social media for the attention of fake grieving "followers" is f****d up. It wasn't even meant for family but his "audience". Is there any privacy anymore? Did this guys wife want everyone knowing her tragic business. Leave some things alone.
I hate these shrines (?) erected when someone has died. They are never cleared and weeks later are just piles of dangerous trash, full of plastic and wire
No one should be forced to grieve privately, some people feel better by talking about it with others. It also makes others feel less alone.
Load More Replies...... um, funerals/wakes are a form of public grieving. Grieving with others is part of being human. Some reach out via social, some don't. Perhaps this OP really is more upset with people forcing their idea of how to grieve on other people? That's definitely not okay.
That's not it. As people said in the other comments, it's performance grieving. These people are treating the celebrities' death as a type fo entertainment, chasing after their coworkers and family and friends for "statements" on their deaths and then getting wildly upset when they either don't say what they want to hear or don't say anything at all
Load More Replies...Before social media - When Princess Diana died the public demanded The Queen come back to London and grieve with them; they didn't give a damn about William and Harry's feelings. They wanted her to baby them.
Too true. The documentary "Diana: The Mourning After" really showed how questionable public mourning can be.
Load More Replies...THIS!! Isn't that what cemetaries are for? These "shrines" for people - whether celebs or not. So tired of seeing faded plastic flowers on the side of the road etc...
What annoys me most about these is when huge piles of flowers are left at these sad sites yet no one will go back in a couple of months to clear them. Metal, plastic etc is harmful to nature, but NO, we have to leave this mess to remember
The fact that if you don't have Instagram and don't document your whole entire existence you're a nobody and don't have a life and live under a rock??? Excuse me but since I deleted social media accounts my life seems way more fulfilling and enjoyable than having to worry about how many people views my story and liked my photo of what dirt i ate for breakfast.
I agree with this one!! "Have you not seen this trend? You live under a rock!!" No, I just have different interests, that's all.
Exactly! I often wonder about the mental state of these people.
Load More Replies...I don't have an insta account. And when someone asks me i just tell them i don't want it hence i won't have it. People don't understand and i get comments like how I'm a 24yo missing out on all the fun, and not being in touch with the world. As if only instagram lets me know about the world. Hell yeah, lets me know how stupid a few ppl are.
It really is the other way round isn't it? Less time in the internet more time to actually live a life
I have Instagram, and use it to keep up with family members who are across the country, as well as show my non-selfie photos. I don't believe in documenting my entire life online, and I can't stand influencers.
I've cast off social media as well. The only downside is greater difficulty in meeting new people.
I once had this with a teller in the Royal Bank of Scotland, she told me "to get a life" (my passport had run out and I had no photo on my driving license), I immediately closed my account and started a new one at a more respectable Bank.
Couples recording pranks on each other that are so painfully staged. It’s the same super popular trends that are reproduced. Like do you really need to act so shocked the tenth time your girlfriend pretends to strip in front of the camera but actually has clothes underneath her towel? Are you really THAT shocked? At this point I just block but I just can’t imagine people have that much time
The giant fake open mouth grin smile faces, oh god it's second hand cringe, just so fake
Every cover of Oprah magazine she has the big open mouth smile. I think it’s to make her face look slimmer
Load More Replies...OMG BABE! DID YOU SEE THAT?!?! There's a CLOWN outside our window! What was that? its a prank?... OMG HAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I WAS GONNA PASS OUUUT OMGGGGGGGGG UR SO FUNNY. But on that note guys make sure SMASH that like button and subscribe in 5...4...3...2...1...0! Ok guys Demon boi out- See ya next time! *do something more cringe, like lick the camera*
The latest one is wives and girlfriends playing a soundtrack for Sunday night football just to see the guy wondering in and then being “confused” about it not being on the tv it’s sad
Or the fake videos of revenge pranks or catching someone doing something horrible. Never seen such bad acting in my life.
How people try to destroy you or simply frown upon when you don’t join whatever bandwagon they’re on.
Well, they TRY to destroy you. If you don't give a rat's a$$ what they think, then you just ignore them and carry on with your life. Too many people make social media/the internet the total sum of their lives, which is very VERY sad. If someone tries to be pushy with me, they're blocked - simple as that.
Seen this happen so often on even BP, where most are factual opinions hopefully
I was not on the Obama bandwagon here.Can't wait to count the downvotes and eventual insults
I just ignore them or on Social Media I block them if they annoy me enough.
I had an ex friend who now sharing love in other peoples posts (not on bored panda) But sharing hate on mine and telling people who DID share love on mine to stop
Everyone acting like experts on crazily complex topics because they either read a headline or one article that agrees with what they already believed.
Ah yes, all the Ph.Ds in Google Search. It's a wonder this world knows anything without them.
And, all the articles that are only a headline... you check it out and it's void of any real content
I'm just so glad the "licking things at the store" trend is over. It is over, right? Please tell me that's finally done.
Yeah. There was this trend on TikTok where people would go and lick ice cream. It got so far that Bluebell and other ice cream brands made their tops of the tubs unopenable. I hope it's gone.
Load More Replies...Yeah that girl got jail time. She should have know better than to lick Blue Bell ice cream and put it back in Texas. Blue Bell is like the f*****g Alamo of ice cream in Texas.
People doing this should to be forced to lick the floor of the subway clean
that's disgusting! i don't know a lot about trends because I simply don't pay attention to them, and it seems that every time I learn about one it's either disgusting or just flat out stupid
What happened to Ariana Grande licking a donut and putting it back? Was it nothing because "oh, she was just joking"?
I'm a pacifist but these creatures make me wanna go on a murdering spree
In general, just the fact that people aren't allowed to be private anymore.
All your devices hook up to the Internet. Your smartphone tracks you in God only knows how many different ways. Every business wants you to sign up for a rewards account, so they can harvest your contact details. Hell, even my PC and game consoles will rearrange my desktop just to show me advertisements.
And if that wasn't enough, people give you strange looks when you tell them you have almost no social media presence: no Twitter, no Instagram, no Snapchat, no Facebook. Not to mention how people just get this confused look on their face whenever I get mad at them because they took a photo/video of me without my knowledge or consent and put it on their social media.
Honestly, it shocks me to see how little people care that privacy is disappearing.
"Hell, even my PC and game consoles will rearrange my desktop just to show me advertisements" In over 20 years of working in IT, I have never seen a PC re-arrange a desktop to show adverts. Either in a home or work environment. I agree with the rest. One of my wife's brothers posted a photo of our son on Facebook. I insisted that he removed immediately, which he did.
I don't have facebook, or any other social media. Ad-block on my phone and script blocking on Chrome (1691 events blocked on this very page).... My MIL keeps posting pictures of my kids on fecabook, and doesn't seem to grasp the notion that I don't want people I don't know looking at pics of my children. It's creepy and wierd, and I want no part of it.
Load More Replies...I don’t hang out much anymore with one of my close friends so I guess we aren’t that close anymore but anytime we hung out she would take pics or videos of me or us and post them online. I absolutely hated it. I didn’t want to be online and whenever I asked her to please post she would tease me about it and still do it.
I feel this too. My parents never allowed me to have social media and so I don’t, and sometimes I wish I could, but the point is that people are shocked when I tell them I don’t. Like “oh man, that must suck” like no, not really. I still have amazing relationships with people, and I’m more free to grow as a person without having my life being publicized
We should be able to just delete and also not be judged for anything done on internet before age 25
This was a few years ago. I went to the local shopping centre and when I had a sit down and a coffee I checked my phone. Every shop I’d been in that afternoon had sent me an email. How did they know? It was only after asking my nephew that I turned off location services and Bluetooth.
when people romanticize mental illness and disorders. i’ll see people say “oh I wish I had tourette’s, it seems fun,” or “i wish i had depression so i could have an excuse to be sad.” tics aren’t fun. depression sucks. you don’t want these things. also when people self-diagnose without really, really intense research. people will just say “oh I have ocd” just cause they like to line up their pencils. that’s not what ocd is
“i wish i had depression so i could have an excuse to be sad.” This just makes me wonder if they actually DO have depression and just think they’re “not sad enough” to get treatment. I’ve had social anxiety for decades but have only just gone on meds because all this time I didn’t think I had it bad enough to qualify. It sucks and I hope those people try therapy.
Depression also isn't just "being sad". Depression can have a ton of symptoms and a wide range of impacts, and is always something that is very consistent with time. Just because you felt down for one day means you're depressed. Just because you're disappointed by something doesn't mean that you're depressed. If everybody says that they have depression, it takes away the perceived severity and legitimacy of people who actually have it.
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I hate it when people self diagnose, but I'm always afraid of being a hypocrite, because I've speculated that I might have adhd for a while now, and I'm always afraid to tell people because I don't want them to think I'm just self diagnosing. I'm not just saying "oh well I can't sit still so I probably have adhd!" I'm talking about the really specific symptoms that no one really mentions, and that I relate so heavily when people talk about it. But I don't officially have adhd, I'm just thinking I might. Is that self diagnosing?
Nope. Self diagnosing is saying you definitely have it. Getting an official diagnosis if you are able is very important if you are able to do so. For now there is nothing wrong when you say that you think you might have it (love to hear that cuz it's just so respectful). Just do research and get information on how to live with ADHD. ADDitude, CHADD, Understood, JohnHopkins, the youtube channel How to ADHD, and NIH are good resources I can think of off the top of my head. Even if you can't get a diagnosis or the psychologist says you don't have it (btw not all psychologists actually have good expertise on ADHD so i would do your research) there is nothing wrong with reading articles and stuff on how to live with it if they help you.
Load More Replies...OCD is traumatic brain torture. Consumes your waking life. Yet people will say it bothers their OCD if something is askew. No.
I actually met a woman who felt left out because she was not molested as a young girl. SMH
"Self diagnose without really, really intense research:" like going to med school or do you mean just reading a lot of crap on the internet?
Reading a load of crap on the internet, probably.
Load More Replies...I've heard tooo many times to count, "I have to be clean, I'm OCD."
I wouldn't be surprised if some of these people say they wish they had Tourette's just so they could get away with swearing/saying offensive things whenever they wanted. Coprolalia isn't even present in most people with Tourette's.
The implication that you have to be in a relationship to have worth or to be happy. I've spent my happiest days single.
Add to this the constant fearmongering that "you will soon be old and no one will want you" - usually women get this, but guys do as well.
I have also spent my life happy single, I don't need a relationship to be happy! all I need is food, sleep, sitcoms, waterparks, air, family, friends and music that is it
Same! I've never been in a relationship and I'm not planning to be in one.
Been single for 5 years now. I'm still on a dating app, but no luck. I'd like to have a boyfriend, but I'm cool without one.
I don't, and there are tons of people who are happy being single. Just because you can't deal with not being in a relationship doesn't mean everyone else can't too.
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Using your real names/images/locations on social media. Gen-Xers were told over and over again to never do this under any circumstances, and it made a lot of sense. Todays kids just post "here is a video of me: what i look like, where i live, and all of my stuff" and thats just asking for trouble.
Parents think they're doing the right thing by having thier childrens phone and apps on GPS visibility. Parents need educating on exactly how dangerous that is. Especially pretty young girls on snapchat, it's a paedophiles dream come true and every parents nightmare.
Paedophiles go after whichever kid is most available - looks rarely come into it. Also, when kids who are molested it's most often a relative or family friend doing it. It's very rarely a stranger.
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I was scrolling on some questions site the other day, and someone was asking for some new music suggestions. Some girl answered with a list of songs/bands and then? "if you have any questions or whatever, call or text me at *phone number*" WHAT THE ACTUAL F**K!? I would never DREAM of leaving my phone number anywhere on the internet for the public to see. That's just ASKING for some kind of s**t to go down.
Most Gen-Zers (zoomers if you will) that I know get told this and don't post their faces/locations/ages/names
I mean, if I wanted to, I could pull someone's IP in thirty seconds and have their name, address, ISP, and the name of their goddamn dog for free because that's the internet. If someone cares enough to get your info it doesn't matter if you post it. Still can't do anything with it, except maybe screw up their WiFi for a bit, but that information is all out there
Requiring that everything be positive and not allowing anything negative. It is like a child sticking their fingers in their ears and pretending they can't hear something the don't like.
Jrizzy Jay, toxic positivity is very real and really harmful. Having experienced it first-hand and knowing the stories of others who have to deal with it, it really really sucks. It invalidates a person’s wellbeing and emotions, and gaslights those who have actual disorders. People may never get help because toxic positive people around them make them feel like they aren’t really suffering the way they are
one negative comment, on the topic of not allowing anything negative, receiving a negative rating... the irony is real!
Load More Replies...This might not be modern but I hate the normalization of s***ty mental health. Especially in men. So many times people are just told to suck it up and deal with it when that's the worst advice you could possibly give. S**cide rates are way higher than they should be and access to mental health treatment is so poor at least where I live. And I really feel like a lot of this is due to a lack of understanding of how depression affects people.
WTF Why in the world is the word 'suicide' censored here? I really do wish this sort of thing would stop. And don't get me started on things like Assh**e SERIOUSLY you leave the ass and censor the hole? D**k is a name ffs not D**k. Grow the funk up! Other than that, yes to the above post.
Nobody is allowed to have hobbies anymore. If it's not a "hustle" you should be doing something else according to society. It's infinitely frustrating. When I get off work I'm going to play some damn videogames and relax. I'm not going to worry about my "side hustle"
I do a very subdued and private hobby and i am constantly pushed to try to make money off of it from acquaintances and even family. My reward is personal happiness, not money. You are right, society is toxic if it makes people feel like a waste of time if they perform a task that does not better them financially.
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Advertising slowly taking over every single aspect of our lives. I'm not really exaggerating when I say over 90% of the mail and phone calls I get are junk or scams. Data we generate simply by being online being sold to the highest bidder without any real way of stopping it, which in turn fuels more ads. Went shopping more than once at a larger grocery store? Congrats, you now get suspiciously tailored coupons mailed and emailed to you even though you don't remember ever giving them your addresses, meaning it's probably linked to your credit card and banking info.
The internet is great for knowledge if you look in the right places and allows discovery of fascinating things, but it does sometimes feel like we sold our souls to somebody for it.
Right or those damn pop ups to sign up when you visit a site. 90% sites bug u to sign up. i hate when they bug u to turn off ur adblocker. like thats the reason why i put it on in the first place to not see ur millions of ads.
If a website asks me to turn off my ad blocker I just exit the site. I can get the info I'm looking for on another site.
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How everything needs to be on social media. I have to explicitly say to family members, please don’t put this on social media at family events etc... as an example trying to post that I had gotten engaged on Facebook before I’d even got to tell close family and friends who weren’t actually there. Then getting defensive when you say can you not post that please
yes yes yes! when I just wanna eat I cant eat right away cuz my mom just wants to take a photo... when u are gonna take photos of special occasions yes that's fine but not EVERY.SIGNLE.SECOND OF YOUR LIFE!!!
Definitely this! My mother in law tagged myself and my husband in a post congratulating us on the birth of our son. So all the people who we wanted to tell personally had to hear it third hand. I was devastated!
Same exact thing happened to us. I’m guessing she also sent people pictures because I had family/friends of hers that were tagging me in a post with a pic of my newborn congratulating us. People I had never even met. I was so uncomfortable with it. I had no idea she was even going to post anything. She didn’t even ask permission. Anyways we have asked her to not post our child online anymore and she has respected our decision.
Load More Replies...it's called life. if people have information they are free to share and will if they want. This has happened before social media on things called telephones where you made a phone call to spread gossip.
The lack of basic etiquette around invitations or even just making plans. People feel absolutely free to not respond until the last minute while waiting for something better to come along, and they don't think it's rude to cancel last minute or just not show up without letting you know.
I kind of disagree. I have social anxiety, so someone coming over is a BIG deal for me. Once, I had a friend coming over and they got here an hour late. I was in tears because I thought they had bailed. So in my opinion, please don't do this.
Yup. You're just something to do when they're bored. I have a terrible friend that only talked to me because she wanted something and was listening to me when I'd talk but as soon as she got whatever it is she wanted, she no longer cared and just moved on.
Here's the opposite situation...people over-reacting that you can't come to their kids birthday party, baby-shower, wedding, etc.... Contrary to popular belief, I do not have all the time in the world to do as I please. I have a limited amount of time between my work and taking care of my family to spend some alone time taking care of myself. And if I do have free time, I'd rather be spending it re-enforcing my relationship with my spouse and son...not spending 5-6 hours at a formal party where I don't know half the people and I'm dressed in uncomfortable clothes. Send me the video's/pictures. I'll post a congrats on Fb.
I hate this. My mom sometimes receives some nice order, asks a question, and then gets responded to the day before the cake is due at 9 am on a busy day. She then says she cannot do it and sometimes gets hammered for it. It's so stupid.
I totally agree with this! I think people often lack the knowledge of what is courteous or not...
heavy social media presence by ordinary people. I can’t for the life of me understand why I’d follow some random person I’ve never met. I have actual people in my life, and I’m interested in them. A couple of days ago, I first heard the term “momfluencers.” F*****g really? Why would I base my children’s upbringing on the opinions of some twit whose main attribute is the fact that she has time to do this s**t?
Non-stop consumption. Everything is designed to be consumed and then discarded. Nothing is well made and people act like you're insane for having a phone that is over three years old. On top of that, the modern attention span has been decimated and information goes into one ear and out the other, with nothing actually learned.
And they all blame the boomers for the ruination of the planet. Not one sees that overconsumption means Alot more factories, pollution, power plants, mining and cargo shipping. Water bottles, disposable coffee cups plastic bags. The list is endless. Boomers have still got the same dinner set from when they got married, and the same coffee cups!
young people got bored of everything. the table is 5 yo, still good but... i'm tired of how it look... let's get another one. this is the overconsumption.
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My grandson always talks about how much his Pokemon cards are worth. To whom? I ask him. Something is only worth what someone is willing to pay for it. When tens of millions of anything is mass produced, nothing is rare or valuable any more.
This! I hate when you buy a iphone and then another one comes out. They charge way too much money because it's known and popular. Things are only popular because we make them to be by continuing to worship them and buy them.
Going on vacation for the evidence, not the experience. Social media has exposed every cool place of interest and hidden gem out there... which is cool in theory, but it just means that everything is now more crowded than it used to be, and instead of actually enjoying the experience, people are just interested in snapping their shots and moving on to the next target. I saw the Mona Lisa pre-covid and expected it to be a crowded mess—shuffling through a line for an hour to have 30 seconds to look at the painting—no surprise there. But it was depressing to see most people get to the painting, turn around and take a selfie, and move on without another glance. They only saw the painting through their phone screen.
Last few years I have stopped taking a camera on holiday, because I realised I was worrying too much about getting photos and not enjoying the thing I was there to see. It’s liberating!
Same here. I enjoy my time and the experience so much more without it. Plus, many of the sites I see are already photographed by more talented people. If I want to show it to someone, I can just google it. I never been one for selfies, anyway, but I really don't understand taking pictures of interesting sites with me in front of them. My friends already know what I look like. If something's interesting enough for me to take a picture of, it's more interesting than a picture of me.
Load More Replies...Stop. Recording. Concerts. If you want, take a few seconds of video and a few photos and then put the phone down! Your never going to watch that hour long, shaky video.
I enjoy fly fishing and luckily it is common practice in the sport that if you find a productive/beautiful/unique body of water, you keep your mouth shut about it.
I understand their point about the people who just take a photo and don't enjoy the experience, but I actually really enjoy taking photos on vacation, and when I go to the beach, etc. For me, it helps me enjoy it more.
I saw the Mona Lisa pre-Covid as well, in 2011. The set-up to view the painting pretty much only allows a quick photo and maybe a few seconds of appreciation before the next person needs to do the same. Probably a poor example using the Mona Lisa. Also, MANY people, prior to social media, would take photos to show-off they were there. The difference now is that a lot more people are sharing.
I have been all over Europe for work, I love going out at night after work and just walking round the towns I am staying in. No camera, just me and my eyes enjoying the 'joie de vie' of the place. ))
I would usually only take a pic of an image if I forgot my glasses and want to see detail.
To be honest, it was always like that when it comes to Mona Lisa. I went to Paris in 1998 - huge crowd in front of it, everyone snapping a photo with a camera, I didn't even get the chance to look at the painting more than a couple of seconds as people were pushing to see it.
why do you care what others are doing. what's sad is traveling that far and not enjoying it yourself because you're too worried about what makes other people happy.
Entertainment has eaten everything. Politics, personal relationships, sexual intimacy... the yardstick has become not “How good are you at something?” but “How good of a show are you putting on?”
OR not how good you are at doing at your job, but how good you are at talking it up in a meeting and doing very little or passing it on
Weddings have turned into expensive choreographed social media productions worthy of Busby Berkeley. These s**t shows empty pocketbooks and ruin friendships. It’s gotten to the point where bridesmaids and groomsmen are expected to shell out thousands of dollars and use up their vacation time for multiple trips, while regular guests are told what color to wear.
My parents gave me the choice - a grand wedding or downpayment for a home. We took the downpayment. Mama didn't raise a fool.
Also my boyfriend has a close friend who got married last year (yes middle of pandemic) the bride didn’t hesitate telling us how they spent close to 10k on everything for ONE day. But she was always complaining about her crappy car and how she needed a couple things fixed on it and was worried it would stop working soon. I don’t understand the logic.
When I married my husband, it was a last minute ceremony with the priest, me, my husband, his best friend, my aunt and my sister. Done, dusted, mega cheap and no fuss. All we had to deal with is the fall out of everyone in our families saying "Why weren't we invited?!?" "Uhm..because nobody was..."
Weddings are special, but you DON'T need to spend that much money.
The ‘always available’ mentality. If I don’t text back or if I ignore your call whether it’s personal or professional. It’s probably because I’m doing something or do not have the mental energy to make decisions at that EXACT point in time. I will always get back to you but it may not be immediate. I’m really really worn out of the speed of decisions causing whirlwind effects downstream. Unless it’s a straight up emergency / crisis. It can wait.
So much this! Stop! Do nothing! Think, plan, strategise! Seriously people since when did every decision become life and death?
I work for a pharmaceutical company who is trying to get a vaccine out for Covid. We all have to be available right now, 24/7.
Being shamed for everything you ever do, no matter who you are or what the thing is. Shamed for diet choices, shamed for being wealthy/poor/middle class, shamed for wanting a nice thing, shamed for believing something radical, shamed for not believing something radical, shamed for doing this or that as a parent, shamed for doing this or that as a pet owner, shamed for not caring about or knowing enough about a certain social issue to have an opinion, shamed for having a strong opinion, shamed for not having a strong enough opinion, shamed for enjoying something you have that others might not have, shamed for not having a thing everyone has, you get the idea. Just let people be people. We're all different. Yeah, there are some real lowlifes among us, but most people are just trying their best.
Spoken like someone who knows nothing about the Salem trials.
Load More Replies...I feel this. I get scared telling others that my family is pretty high on the social scale. Not rich, but not that far. I get scared that people will think I'm a stupid brat that only cares about her stuff.
Well, easy fix for this one - go offline! Get off the grid, disappear, throw away that phone! The less they know about your personal life, the more exclusive and wonderful the experience will be.
Everyone has a right to have a voice on the internet but not everyone deserves a following / authority / influence. Just because you paid off your car doesn’t mean you’re qualified to become a financial coach.
See me here with my unnaturally smooth face from botox and surgery? Well it's from this random chalk pill, and it's been keeping me youthful for decades even though it was invented last year!....Hey want a buff body like me, guy from modelling agency/tv/movie? Well, i use this random contraption you've seen at garage sales. Its kept me in shape for years, despite being invented recently. How much would you pay? DON'T ANSWER, there's more...
Has anyone ever actually used an ab roller? I see them everywhere and none of them look to have ever been used.
Load More Replies...people follow who they want to follow. if they gained a follower then it was earned. it's based off the market not your jealous opinion of whether they are deserving or not.
That and the unrealistic belief that if you say something that you have the right to be heard. Sounds nice, but just isn't true.
The celebration of bad attitudes, habits and toxic traits. People would rather be praised for being a villain than to be obscure. People would rather give praise to a villain than to spend a moment not entertained.
i would rather be king and humble but unnoticed then rude, selfish but famous
I used to be a bully, and be seen as a ‘villain’. I’m so ashamed of it now.
You can't do a good deed unless you're recording it for social media.
If people know you have done a good deed, it is neither a "good" nor is it a "deed" it is a "look at me" and not worth anything.
When I was a kid and went to elementary school they had this banner that said "Good Character is doing the right thing, when no one is watching."
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I see a lot of doctors on tiktok/Instagram doing do’s/don’ts of patient standards and I don’t feel comfortable with that. It almost makes me uncomfortable and vary of seeing a physician bc I’m afraid they will judge me.
Educating the public is one thing. Ridiculing patient experience because of something they are unaware of is another and should not be allowed by employers.
I no longer read "medical advice" on line. Haven't listened to "medical advice" since I was told that sodium cyclamate caused cancer in rats. So they banned. Then I found out that to get cancer from sodium cyclamate by drinking diet cokes I would have to DRINK THE EQUIVALENT OF 4000 CANS OF DIET COKE IN 24 HOURS.
Hi it's meeeeeeee, the faaaaaact ghooooost... If you eat 40,000 bananas in one sitting the potassium will kill you from radiation poisoning... Goodbyyeeeeeeeee...
Load More Replies...One of the reasons I dislike (OK, hate) my diabetic nurse - she preaches the whole healthy eating, no fizzy drinks, less alcohol thing to me. She’s massively overweight. How about practice what you preach? And yes, I do eat healthily, don’t touch sugary things. My downfall is the alcohol!
THIS!!! I see sooo many items on the news feeds claiming "I'm a Doctor, you should/shouldn't be eating/drinking/doing 'such & such'. Yeah, right, I'm just supposed to put 100% trust in everything any yahoo out there is going to write up & post....NOT! The only medical website I rely on is the Mayo Clinic, and even then I'll talk to medical professionals I personally know.
I don't know how I feel about the reasoning on this one. I have worked for years in the medical field and have friends that are nurses, PAs, MAs, and doctors. And coming from personal experience some patients don't know how to act and were being judged wayyy before TikTok. At least someone is taking the time to explain some sort etiquette so you can avoid possible judgement. Remember some things don't exist unless the seed created by it wasn't given what it needed to grow. In my time I've seen patients throw stuff at staff, chased doctors out in the parking lot, smear poo on walls, poor hygiene, I got cussed out at least once a day, and certain patients have referred to me as the colored one even though I've introduced myself every visit and wearing a larger than life name tag. So please keep making videos on this...also doctor making these vid are usually in private practice and have no employer and it doesn't violate HIPAA laws.
The "I'm going to disrespect my way to the top of the world" thing that Jake Paul is doing.
TikTok/Youtube beauty challenges, whether it's about normalizing something or "accepting yourself", I feel like the majority of creators make those videos to show off how attractive they are.
Seriously, so that’s the only monochromatic and superficial lens that should be used to view the world? Artificially created physical beauty that will (and should) fade with time? How about character and intelligence, the will to learn and explore, the yearning to try to leave the planet a little better for the coming generations? How about scientific breakthrough and artistic pursuits, the capacity and need to take humanity forward? But no, the number of followers far outweigh in importance that level of higher thinking for a lot of people today. Sad really, considering how badly we need people who actually make a difference and leave an indelible mark.
Load More Replies...I can't get onboard with those fail compilation things where someone is clearly crippled for life. Did anyone see that video where the guy skateboards down the banister along a flight of cement stairs, makes it to the bottom, hits the grass and you figure--well, at least it's just grass--and then he crushes his head and neck along a cement pole? Man, I hope that guy isn't paralysed.
Yeah we saw a “lol driving fails! 🤣” video recently where... those people clearly would have died. It actually gave me nightmares.
I saw some of those videos and I went out and I bought a dash cam, There are some seriously bad drivers out there. 😳
Load More Replies...I have never liked those kind of videos. Like the ones where children hurt themselves? Why is that hilarious?
I’d really rather not hear about how much money everyone either has or pretends to have. It’s just depressing even though I know I should ignore it and focus on myself.
No, then it just turns into a “I’m poorer than you so you can’t be sad about it” thing.
Load More Replies...Social Media is now for bragging about how great your life is, and trying to make people jealous. Even though most of it is fake, and it doesn’t show the day to day struggles. Influencers (so-called) didn’t work hard for those things, they were gifted them, or are borrowing the pieces for posts. It’s not real life! I got really disillusioned and quite depressed from being on social media all the time, comparing my life with others. until I realised the hypocrisy of it all. Feel a lot happier in myself now I don’t have insta or fb or Twitter etc.
Most modern makeup/beauty trends. My main problem with them is that they all seem to age people. The big lips, the contouring and heavy makeup, the huge eyebrows and fake butts. Big lips, eyebrows and butts look great when they're natural and fit your face. But the problem with making facial features "trends" is people with bone structures never made to have these things get them surgically pasted on, and it looks awful. Same with makeup, there's one style of doing makeup that is trendy, but it doesn't fit every face. So many people end up looking awful when they try them. And the IG makeup look is just cakey looking and unnatural. I prefer the makeup looks of 10+ years ago. We sometimes laugh at the questionable eyeshadow choices and all the bronzer but at least people still looked like humans, albeit with way too much lower lid eyeliner.
The makeup trends! They only look good on 1% of faces and even then it's because they've been edited to heck and back. "I woke up like this"? More like "I spent five hours putting on 2,000€ worth of makeup, two hours taking 300 photos, another 2 hours in Photoshop/Facetune, and now I'm going to lie to the internet so my followers can feed my crippling narcissism so I can finally feel good about myself for 20 seconds".... SMH.
Botox impacts not only the facial muscles but also the mental state of the users. When their expressions no longer reflect their feelings, those feeling may actually be numbed. Example, when you smile it may elevate your mood. Can't express care and concern with your expression, the start of becoming a psychopath. Watch The Real Housewives for proof!
I hate when people put darker foundation than their skin tone, they look like a halloween prop.
"Big lips, eyebrows and butts look good when they're natural and fit your face." I'm trying to picture where on the face the butt belongs.
One of the girls at my school has used way too much fake tan... she must really like gingers, cause she seems to want her face to be the same colour as my ginger friends hair...
Driving while on a cell phone.
Driving has always been a little frustrating but now it’s gotten insane. My girlfriend and I can call out with at least 90% accuracy who is on their phone.
Abrupt Lane changes, 20mph under the speed limit, swerving, looking at phone and missing a green light for 5+ seconds, and - my personal pet peeve - stopping 50’ short of a light in a busy intersection during rush hour.
Smashing into the back of a line of standing traffic with your massive lorry because you were so engrossed with your phone you didn’t see the traffic had come to a halt. Leaving the little car at the back of the queue unrecognisable, crumpled to a third of its original size and the occupants so mangled that identification had to be done via dental records.
Entitled social media influencers who contact businesses and practically demand free goods or services in exchange for exposure.
This is more work related, but it pisses me off how there is now a work culture of always being reachable by email or text for whatever happens.
A lot of places expect you to be pretty much on call even when you're not at the office anymore. I worked at an ad agency where days off sometimes didn't even feel like that, because I would still be getting emails about things and was expected to be checking them.
There should be some level of balance between work and personal life and I feel like that is fading because it's becoming more and more socially acceptable to adopt this type of culture.
I see this way too often in my profession. Especially now that more people are working from home. Just because someone decides to start work at 6 am doesn't mean my day starts at the same time. I constantly open up my laptop at my usual 9 am and have emails from people complaining because they've been trying to get in touch with me for hours. Nothing is that important to me that I ignore my family and stress out just to tell you to "turn it off and on again".
Making depression and anxiety as an aesthetic one needs to have.
It's become fashionable and an unnecessary and critical drain on mental health services. Too many who genuinely suffer have to go without to pander to influenced children. Tiktok is full of banners with pointing fingers describing everyday normal emotions as anxiety depression and personality disorders.
I have a friend who is always like “ i so depressed “giggle” I want to kill myself “giggle” “ and I have actual depression so it makes me uncomfortable.
Like that girl Trisha who one minute says she's bi, then trans, says she has this or that disorder.
It makes it so awful and annoying for the people who actually struggle because then nobody believes them and thinks they are doing it for attention.
Load More Replies...See some people talk and maybe joke about it to cope. Others talk about it to be interesting. THERES A DIFFERENCE.
Corporations thinking their entitled to your time. Everything you buy, service you use, place you go, it's "Rate your experience!", "Please leave feedback!", "How was your visit?", etc. If you're not paying me, then I'm not devoting any time or energy helping you improve your business. Seems pretty obvious, but somehow this is no longer the norm.
I don't think this is a bad thing. My company gets customers to rate their experience so that if there are failings, they can correct them and make sure they don't happen again. I've rated places I've visited. In particular, in one restaurant, the food was way too salty so I told them when they asked how the food was and they said they would pass it on to the kitchen. Asking for feedback is not companies demanding your time.
I would rate companies if I believed that they actually take any notice of what an individual has to say. As you say, they said they would pass your comment about the food on to the kitchen. But did they? I’m with the original poster on this. Plus the fact that there are too many people giving false reviews just for the hell of it.
Load More Replies...Yes. I paid for the product/service, etc. That's the end of the transaction most of the time, as far as I'm concerned.
Disagree...They don't think they're entitled to it, you have a choice. They ask these questions so they can improve on themselves and provide YOU with a better experience on your next visit. Wish my dates did that...lol
Social media posting = life. This drives me bonkers! Why do people feel compelled to share every single detail about there life, or every thought that comes into their brain with the rest of their "friends/followers"? It comes off a desperate and sad IMO
Just like people have said for years, the drive for likes is to valid a very fragile ego.
People they need the attention they crave. Some people will do things to get positive or negative attention.
why do people feel compelled to share their complaints online to the world about people who share their lives online? it comes off as envious and lame.
People making up false information they just decided on, doing no research, posting it somewhere, and it getting so heavily circulated, no one checks if its true, and just assume it to be reality and base their whole personality and decisions off of it.
"making up false information" is called 'lying', 'slander', or 'libel'.
Over-the-top pranks that involve staged violence or scaring passersby. Seems like a surefire way to traumatize someone. I have PTSD and it's not fun.
Jokingly saying you’re “OCD” or “ADD” just because you like tidying up or get distracted. If you actually have those ailments, they control most of how you live your life.
Or how perfectionism is considered a good thing... but in truth it can really mess up your work, e.g. by making you discard completed things and starting over for no apparent reason, or never finishing tasks for fear of making a mistake.
Or never even starting something because of the fear of it not being perfect when you've finished it. :(
Load More Replies...How much we glorify being a workaholic. It seems like everyone is expected to be insanely passionate about their job, as if that's what they've always wanted to be and they're so driven they always want to talk about how busy it makes them/how much they hustle, etc. It's to the point where it spawned that terrible "life hack" trend that just seems to be about freeing up time to... work more. Like, must everything be so goddamn efficient?? Sometimes I just enjoy staring out the window on my commute, or waking up slowly on a weekend morning or whatever. And it's perfectly okay to work a job you're just fine with in order to put food on the table and have access to health insurance, etc.
I think that attitude is actually becoming less in my country, but it appears that in the USA people are pushed to work much harder, encouraged not to take annual leave and feel like their job defines them. I don't think it's healthy, and creates problems within families and relationships. We work to live, not live to work!
Yes Ma'am. It is damn near a cultural norm that if you are not making or trying to make money, you are an unambitious moocher. I work 9 hours to better my 15, not the other way around.
Load More Replies...I hate the way social media has dominated everyday conversations. I have distanced myself from certain people because they'll actually reference their social media like it's a news posting. Me: "Hey, how have things been?" Them: "I got a new job, but it's been rough! I have been talking about it constantly on Facebook; you should look." Me: Yeah, I'm done here.
A couple of years ago, I drove to my sister's house, 1-1/2 hours from my house, for a holiday family dinner. Walked in, and she's in the kitchen preparing the meal, and the 8 other family members were all sitting on their as-s-es, staring at their phones. I made a loud comment about it, something like "I drove 100 miles just to watch y'all staring at your phones - it's great to know your social media/texts/games are more important than being together & helping Sis get the food on the table". It kinda shocked them, but it helped a bit!
Just tell your friend that you don't have FB etc. If THEN they complain you can ditch them. Otherwise I think you are over sensitive.
How is it oversensitive to want to hear the friend's news face to face, with the friend standing right there?
Load More Replies...How being jealous and controlling is so normalized in relationships. It should not be a problem to have friends of the same gender or like someone's selfie on instagram, but I see so many people acting like their partner committed a crime for doing so.
Only by someone who is naturally insecure and suspicious of everything. That's not exactly a healthy perspective.
Load More Replies...People who "hang out" but just spend the whole time together on their phone browsing social media, checking their messages, whatever. I didn't plan a get together with you to watch you stare at your phone. Save it for the toilet.
Or speak up about it, in a "hey, friend, I'd really like to put the phones down and enjoy some time with you and actually talk to each other" way. But yeah, sometimes you have to walk away & find other friends who value the personal, face-to-face time.
Load More Replies...Spontaneous facetime calls. I’m in my goddamn undies stop shoving cameras in my face.
I actually like FaceTime and phone calls but people need to text first. Unless it’s something urgent, you can message first. If there’s something you need to call immediately for and there’s no time to call, do a regular voice call, not a FaceTime.
I refuse them then call/text. Hate when someone pans a video call to a group, I don't do video calls get that sh*t out of my face. If they wanted to be at (insert event here) then BE THERE. And if I couldn't be there, don't call/video call me-I'm occupied, hence why I'm not there.
I always text to ask people if they’re okay for a call unless it’s actually important. I like FaceTime because to me, facial cues are important, and especially during the pandemic, I want to see people. However, it’s really rude to straight-up randomly FaceTime someone.
Blowing things up without doing any research. So many people have been cancelled off of completely false 'evidence' and struggled because of it. And their reputations are just permanently affected because people refuse to listen to both sides of the argument the second an accusation is made
Taking insta pictures and snapchat stories of EVERYTHING. Sure your online persona will look like the cool kid, but people at a party who just lift up their phone to record everytime something happens look hella dumb in my opinion, just live in the moment
I'm honestly tired of the short videos that have the Siri voice with text on the screen. It sounds so off and so weird. Just use your own voice, what the hell? It's like The uncanny valley but for voice. Such cringe.
I think its because they don't want to share their actual voice to the public so they us an AI tool instead. Its their choice. I know a YouTuber who does this cause he isn't comfortable with sharing his voice.
The politicalization of EVERYTHING and people doing certain things solely to display which political ideology they subscribe to
Working 5 days a week and only having 2 days off (if you're lucky).
I second this I wouldn't mind working extra two hours a day to work four days a week prefer T-F
I read an article recently about the increase in productivity in a country where they worked 4 days/week, think it may have been Japan. It could be easily done, half the employees work 4 ten hour days Mon-Thu, the other half work 4 ten hour days Tues-Fri. Company is still operating 5 business days/week, and employees are more rested & happier = increased productivity!
not having a physical community. i think we would all benefit from doing community activities but because a large part of us live in apartments and in cities, it’s not common.
The reaction that provokes on me is more cringe than pissing me off but I am SICK of the "XXXX reacts to YYYY" videos.
It´s just so embarrassing to see these people acting out a reaction just to satisfy the actual consumers of the product that is being reacted upon.
I was thinking of elements reacting with each other for a sec there 😂
Posting infographics regarding certain topics to try and prove you’re “educated” on the topic
Here's one that's missing and applies to a specific commenter in this post. Trolls. No forum or post exists without one or two people who intentionally post asinine comments for their own amusement. Like a pitiful child who cries for attention. The idiot who exists mainly to scoff at anything or anyone whether they believe it or not. Because even a downvote is confirmation that someone read their garbage.
My friends made an insta where they run around in dino costumes and goof of. It is SO MUCH better than watching Kim K whine about how hard her life is.
Blimey. This post just made me feel normal for hating such I crap. I feel validated! Thank you Bored Panda!
To be honest some of them are just whining about something you don't like on the internet- doesn't mean it's bad - it's just you who doesn't like it ;)
What irritates me is the way some people think everyone around them should be just like them. If anyone is original or goes against the grain, it's considered to be "disruptive." No Karen...it's them enjoying their life by living it on their own terms, not yours. Stop trying to control everyone. Go listen to Be Kind by Zak Abel...or Calm Down by Taylor Swift to get what I'm talking about.
Influencer culture is the freaking worst. It's not going to stop either because companies keep monetizing them for ads etc. Plus, even if you try negative feedback...they'll just get more views, more followers, more money. It's a never ending cycle of crap. (This does not apply to the few good content creators out there, they can make money, not a problem).
The value of everything is much likely gone. You don't have to wait 1 day to see the next episode of your favourite series. You just watch the whole season now.
What I find this does to me is that I don't identify or "bond" with any characters anymore. There are shows that I've binged where I never even bother to remember a character's name.
Load More Replies...For me, it's all of the above, plus the blatantly manipulative 'I love Jesus' social media posts that read "I'll bet not one of my so-called friends has the courage to say 'Amen' and share this post." A close second are posts like "Only people with a genius IQ can think of an animal name that starts with a 'T'." I mean, are people so desperate for attention that they have to generate a paltry few likes/responses with this kind of crap in order to feel validated?
This post is quite similar to another one of some months ago, so it's still interesting but repetitive. I'm still not sure how to feel for some of those. Surely when children are involved or when irrespectful and dangerous behaviours are praised we have to take actions. But for other parts I think that it really depends on the personality and the mentality of people. I don't like most of these things and I prefer to live a more reserved life, but this is my opinion, you can do whatever you like with your life. Certainly it's important to show the dangers of this lifestyle.
Here's one that's missing and applies to a specific commenter in this post. Trolls. No forum or post exists without one or two people who intentionally post asinine comments for their own amusement. Like a pitiful child who cries for attention. The idiot who exists mainly to scoff at anything or anyone whether they believe it or not. Because even a downvote is confirmation that someone read their garbage.
My friends made an insta where they run around in dino costumes and goof of. It is SO MUCH better than watching Kim K whine about how hard her life is.
Blimey. This post just made me feel normal for hating such I crap. I feel validated! Thank you Bored Panda!
To be honest some of them are just whining about something you don't like on the internet- doesn't mean it's bad - it's just you who doesn't like it ;)
What irritates me is the way some people think everyone around them should be just like them. If anyone is original or goes against the grain, it's considered to be "disruptive." No Karen...it's them enjoying their life by living it on their own terms, not yours. Stop trying to control everyone. Go listen to Be Kind by Zak Abel...or Calm Down by Taylor Swift to get what I'm talking about.
Influencer culture is the freaking worst. It's not going to stop either because companies keep monetizing them for ads etc. Plus, even if you try negative feedback...they'll just get more views, more followers, more money. It's a never ending cycle of crap. (This does not apply to the few good content creators out there, they can make money, not a problem).
The value of everything is much likely gone. You don't have to wait 1 day to see the next episode of your favourite series. You just watch the whole season now.
What I find this does to me is that I don't identify or "bond" with any characters anymore. There are shows that I've binged where I never even bother to remember a character's name.
Load More Replies...For me, it's all of the above, plus the blatantly manipulative 'I love Jesus' social media posts that read "I'll bet not one of my so-called friends has the courage to say 'Amen' and share this post." A close second are posts like "Only people with a genius IQ can think of an animal name that starts with a 'T'." I mean, are people so desperate for attention that they have to generate a paltry few likes/responses with this kind of crap in order to feel validated?
This post is quite similar to another one of some months ago, so it's still interesting but repetitive. I'm still not sure how to feel for some of those. Surely when children are involved or when irrespectful and dangerous behaviours are praised we have to take actions. But for other parts I think that it really depends on the personality and the mentality of people. I don't like most of these things and I prefer to live a more reserved life, but this is my opinion, you can do whatever you like with your life. Certainly it's important to show the dangers of this lifestyle.
