Daughter Shows What Alzheimer’s Did To Her Mother Over 2 Years, And Her Last Works Will Break Your Heart
Alzheimer’s is a terrifying disease with devastating effects, but for someone who’s never witnessed it, it can be hard to imagine concrete examples of how it might change a person. A 34-year-old Reddit user from Camden, New Jersey, just posted a photo that illustrates her own mother’s battle with Alzheimer’s, and it’s absolutely heartbreaking to look at.
Using 14 crocheted squares made during the 2 years following her diagnosis, the woman shows the slow progression of her mother’s condition – and her fading abilities to complete the skill she once loved. “…She made squares for a while, then the circles, then the little pieces of crochet, until she got to the point where she just carried around the needles and yarn in her purse,” the user writes on Reddit. “It has been a few years since she was able to speak and several since she was able to identify who I am.”
Other users have rallied around her with support, and according to her responses to their comments, her mother is now 66, meaning she has survived 12 years of the disease. If you think someone you love may be showing signs of Alzheimer’s, or if you’re having trouble coping with a loved one already suffering, call the Alzheimer’s Association Helpline at 1-800-272-3900.
“The Progression of Alzheimer’s Through My Mom’s Crocheting”
People responded with their own harrowing experiences with the disease
If you think someone you love may be showing signs of Alzheimer’s, or if you’re having trouble coping with a loved one already suffering, call the Alzheimer’s Association Helpline at 1-800-272-3900
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Share on FacebookI shivered while looking at the photo. Somehow this simple set sully shows how disgusting and horrible dementia is. It takes everything that makes person unique and throws it in toilet and then nothing remains, just body without mind. No memories, no personality, nothing. I so wish they could find cure for such diseases.
I saw on tv once, there was a grandpa who kept returning to the police office to report a missing case every day. He's reporting his wife went missing. Turns out, she never went missing, she just died sooner than him, but he can't remember that. He can't remember the funeral and all that. His last memories of her is when she went outside. So he thinks she went missing. So sad.
My grandpa kyle had Alzheimer's and died of a stroke a few years ago. he couldn't remember that he was in his own house or that he was married to my grandma, but the most heartbreaking thing, to me at least, is that he never, ever forgot me. all you had to do was say my name and his whole face would light up. he loved me so much and remembered me till he died. he was often heard asking nurses and my grandma when I was going to come back and visit, just after i left the room. It really does a tool on a person and I have never seen anything as horrible as someone forgetting their whole life, and only remember one part.
l lost my father to Alzheimer's 4 years ago..l moved back to the family home to care for him from March 2009 till l finally put him in a nursing home one month before he passed, August 2013..l miss the dirty ditties he used to sing..l miss that he would call me by my first two names, 'Carol Elizabeth' and l would call him 'father dearest'..out of us six kids l think it was my disabled brother that he finally forgot last..in the end l was just the person who used to care for him..one of the things l was grateful for because of the disease was that when transferring him from chair to chair he gave me cuddles and one time a kiss..the importance of this is that he and his family were not affectionate people to us as we grew up..no kisses, no cuddles, no 'I love you's'..l cherish those moments, specially if l had followed everybody else advice of putting him in a nursing home sooner..
Load More Replies...My grandma lived with us my whole life, until the Alzheimer"s became so bad that we had to put her in a nursing home. She lived to be 93 years old, just a body with a mind that had been gone for a long long time. My brother and I were with her when she died, and it was such a blessing to let her go so that she was free. Being a single woman with no family left and being 50 years old, I will end my life if I'm ever diagnosed with dementia of any form. Those of us who have lost our loved ones are begging for a cure. Please help us!
I have worked with the elderly and Alzheimer’s is the most cruel disease to have to witness. Family would come to visit relatives and were crestfallen that their parents, aunts or uncles would have more of a "bond" with staff than themselves. I tried to explain that it's more of a familiarity, but it's hard for them to see that the person they have loved their whole lives are fading away, becoming a stranger. My own Gran was diagnosed and it took over rapidly, She had spent 3 months in a recliner and had to be fed, she wouldn't move or speak, just sleep and we thought this was how her last days would play out...... until one day she almost reawakened, talking, walking and laughing again. We know it won't last and it's just part of the progression but it was amazing to almost have her back
My mom has dementia and is now in a nursing home. She was so talented, she could sew, draw free hand, make flower arrangements and crochet. I think she knew something was going on mentally cause she started crocheting my granddaughters outfits for their barbies and crocheted a Barbie doll for her daughters for us to remember her by. I have so many things that my mom crochet and I won't part with them. When she lived with me I bought her yarn and she crochet doilies for different holidays and then I noticed the difference in their shapes and then it ended with starting to crochet then ripping it out and again and again till I finally got rid of it cause she was getting very agitated. Now she loves her stuffed animals and hums songs to them. She knows we are family but not our names or that my sister and I are her daughters. I pray they find a cure for this horrible disease because my little sister is having memory issues. My moms two aunts(they were sisters) died from this disease too.
My grandmother suffers from dementia,and j gave to confess something..she was always self centred,always talked about how great she us,how she helps everyone,she use to laugh at my other grandma for worrying about me and my brother as we grew up in harsh conditions and so because if her terrible personality I always felt like she will end up with dementia....and so these days I can't deal with her insanity because I never formed a loving bond with her.she was never a nice person and j feel like thus us her punishment for being a b***h yo everyone for no reason.and now she is in the beginning stages where she us depressed and all about nobody loves me,why am I not the centre if everyone's world,and the whole family us just fed up with her bull*rap..sj there I said it-i can't deal with my monster grandma,even though gave in mind,we are doing everything for her that she needs.she just doesn't see it and lives in her own world of sorrow.i always said she will die in tears feeling abandoned
I know i’m very late to this post, but i wanted to say that i’m sorry your grandmother wasn’t a great person, and i’m sorry your family has to deal with a loss and to care for her as she is. Good luck to you all. ❤️
Load More Replies...Personally I have symptoms that I'm afraid might be dementia/alzheimers. I'm scared to death, but don't want to burden my daughter with such an awful possibility. I'm sort of ignoring it hoping it'll go away. The crocheted pieces are heart wrenching. She was reaching as high as she could to hang onto a little memory and her life. Such a poor, dear woman.
Statin drugs can cause those symptoms (cholesterol meds).
Load More Replies...I shivered while looking at the photo. Somehow this simple set sully shows how disgusting and horrible dementia is. It takes everything that makes person unique and throws it in toilet and then nothing remains, just body without mind. No memories, no personality, nothing. I so wish they could find cure for such diseases.
I saw on tv once, there was a grandpa who kept returning to the police office to report a missing case every day. He's reporting his wife went missing. Turns out, she never went missing, she just died sooner than him, but he can't remember that. He can't remember the funeral and all that. His last memories of her is when she went outside. So he thinks she went missing. So sad.
My grandpa kyle had Alzheimer's and died of a stroke a few years ago. he couldn't remember that he was in his own house or that he was married to my grandma, but the most heartbreaking thing, to me at least, is that he never, ever forgot me. all you had to do was say my name and his whole face would light up. he loved me so much and remembered me till he died. he was often heard asking nurses and my grandma when I was going to come back and visit, just after i left the room. It really does a tool on a person and I have never seen anything as horrible as someone forgetting their whole life, and only remember one part.
l lost my father to Alzheimer's 4 years ago..l moved back to the family home to care for him from March 2009 till l finally put him in a nursing home one month before he passed, August 2013..l miss the dirty ditties he used to sing..l miss that he would call me by my first two names, 'Carol Elizabeth' and l would call him 'father dearest'..out of us six kids l think it was my disabled brother that he finally forgot last..in the end l was just the person who used to care for him..one of the things l was grateful for because of the disease was that when transferring him from chair to chair he gave me cuddles and one time a kiss..the importance of this is that he and his family were not affectionate people to us as we grew up..no kisses, no cuddles, no 'I love you's'..l cherish those moments, specially if l had followed everybody else advice of putting him in a nursing home sooner..
Load More Replies...My grandma lived with us my whole life, until the Alzheimer"s became so bad that we had to put her in a nursing home. She lived to be 93 years old, just a body with a mind that had been gone for a long long time. My brother and I were with her when she died, and it was such a blessing to let her go so that she was free. Being a single woman with no family left and being 50 years old, I will end my life if I'm ever diagnosed with dementia of any form. Those of us who have lost our loved ones are begging for a cure. Please help us!
I have worked with the elderly and Alzheimer’s is the most cruel disease to have to witness. Family would come to visit relatives and were crestfallen that their parents, aunts or uncles would have more of a "bond" with staff than themselves. I tried to explain that it's more of a familiarity, but it's hard for them to see that the person they have loved their whole lives are fading away, becoming a stranger. My own Gran was diagnosed and it took over rapidly, She had spent 3 months in a recliner and had to be fed, she wouldn't move or speak, just sleep and we thought this was how her last days would play out...... until one day she almost reawakened, talking, walking and laughing again. We know it won't last and it's just part of the progression but it was amazing to almost have her back
My mom has dementia and is now in a nursing home. She was so talented, she could sew, draw free hand, make flower arrangements and crochet. I think she knew something was going on mentally cause she started crocheting my granddaughters outfits for their barbies and crocheted a Barbie doll for her daughters for us to remember her by. I have so many things that my mom crochet and I won't part with them. When she lived with me I bought her yarn and she crochet doilies for different holidays and then I noticed the difference in their shapes and then it ended with starting to crochet then ripping it out and again and again till I finally got rid of it cause she was getting very agitated. Now she loves her stuffed animals and hums songs to them. She knows we are family but not our names or that my sister and I are her daughters. I pray they find a cure for this horrible disease because my little sister is having memory issues. My moms two aunts(they were sisters) died from this disease too.
My grandmother suffers from dementia,and j gave to confess something..she was always self centred,always talked about how great she us,how she helps everyone,she use to laugh at my other grandma for worrying about me and my brother as we grew up in harsh conditions and so because if her terrible personality I always felt like she will end up with dementia....and so these days I can't deal with her insanity because I never formed a loving bond with her.she was never a nice person and j feel like thus us her punishment for being a b***h yo everyone for no reason.and now she is in the beginning stages where she us depressed and all about nobody loves me,why am I not the centre if everyone's world,and the whole family us just fed up with her bull*rap..sj there I said it-i can't deal with my monster grandma,even though gave in mind,we are doing everything for her that she needs.she just doesn't see it and lives in her own world of sorrow.i always said she will die in tears feeling abandoned
I know i’m very late to this post, but i wanted to say that i’m sorry your grandmother wasn’t a great person, and i’m sorry your family has to deal with a loss and to care for her as she is. Good luck to you all. ❤️
Load More Replies...Personally I have symptoms that I'm afraid might be dementia/alzheimers. I'm scared to death, but don't want to burden my daughter with such an awful possibility. I'm sort of ignoring it hoping it'll go away. The crocheted pieces are heart wrenching. She was reaching as high as she could to hang onto a little memory and her life. Such a poor, dear woman.
Statin drugs can cause those symptoms (cholesterol meds).
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