This Man Did A Sexism Experiment With A Female Co-Worker, And Was Completely Surprised By The Results
Some may say that sexism at work doesn’t exist or it’s exaggerated, but this man just experienced what it’s like to walk in a woman’s shoes.
Martin R. Schneider, a writer and editor at Front Row Central, accidentally sent emails to a client under his female co-worker’s name, and was completely surprised by the results.
He decided to post the whole story on twitter and it instantly went viral. Read the full story below. (h/t)
Martin R. Schneider accidentally sent emails to a client under his female co-worker’s name
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Nicole’s boss constantly complained that it took her too long to work with clients
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Martin assumed it was because she was less experienced than him
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However, one day he accidentaly emailed a client under Nicole’s name…
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The client was very rude and only later Martin noticed the email signature
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When he switched back to his own email signature the client’s response improved immediately
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This is why they decided to do a little experiment, which Martin later said “f*cking sucked”
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Nicole, on the other hand, had “the most productive week of her career”
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The boss? He didn’t buy it!
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While Marting was completely shocked, Nicole said she was “USED to it”
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Someone later pointed out that it would have been even worse with black-sounding female names
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Have you experienced sexism at work? Share your story below!
I work on boats and women driving as captain have some problems to find respect from the clients :( the worse is that i have already heard some women entering the boat when a woman is driving " maybe we should wait for the next one..."...so sad... and talking about my job I can tell that all women driving boats are more serious and professional than a lot of male captains...
My wife is a boat captain and has worked on the seas for 17 years. She's driven in every kind of evil the North Atlantic can throw at her and done it better than most could dream of and yet getting respect from so many of her male coworkers will simply never happen. It both breaks my heart and makes me mad as hell.
Load More Replies...I used to work as senior sales associate/technical support in big chain computer stores. All my coworkers were male, but support was done by me&one other guy since we had the technical knowledge. A client came in when I was the only one on the floor and my manager was in the backoffice doing paperwork. He asked to have a tech consult so I said I'd be happy to help him. He glanced at me and said that he'd rather talk to "one of the tech guys", so I replied that I'm the tech "guy" at this store and how can I help. He explained his minor issue with transferring files, but he also said how he felt like wasting time explaining it to me just to have to tell it again when I "get a guy on the floor" to help him. I tried to explain that there's no one else coming and how to fix the issue. He didn't believe me and pushed for manager. When I got my mg there he deliberately pretended to not know the fix and loudly asked for my help. I explained again and sexist client left happily without apology.
I am not the tech "guy" anywhere, just having somewhat deeper knowledge of IT than people around me. Yet men just simply push me off when it comes to computers. "Let me help you", "Let me do it for you" and I shouldn't be offended. So many times then I watch them struggly with something that I could have solved easily...
Load More Replies...What about the boss?? He/She sucks by not believing without checking. F#ck that!!
So why don't you guys just all use a "support@mycompany.com" email address and sign everything "Support Team"? I have always thought that removing names and addresses from job applications and resumes might give companies an upper hand in hiring because it would remove a great deal of unrecognized prejudices and would just let their work and experience speak for them. Of course, you still have the face to face interviews - but hopefully by then those doing the interviewing would be able to recognize their own prejudices and could make a real effort not to allow those prejudices keep their company from hiring the best person for the job. We can dream, can't we?
Agreed. Or sign it with your initials, or first initial and last name.
Load More Replies...Try being deaf. Immediately you get judged for whether you're intelligent enough or not. Most people would assume our IQ is below average...
I'm with you! I'm hard of hearing! I can commendate with others.
Load More Replies...I'm a retired female cop and was actually asked, "Do you carry a gun like the MEN?", all the time.
Sounds familiar... I'm a female skydiving instructor w/close to 2.5k jumps. Once, when walking back to the van with parachutes over our shoulder I was the last one . Older guy in the public: Did YOU just jump out of an airplane too????? LOL Also a female skydiving instructor does not always go over well with guys, especially military groups. Mostly it's OK though, and some female students go like 'Well, if she can do it, maybe I can too' :-)
Load More Replies...I'm a medical student and whenever I tell people I'm applying to General Surgery for residency, I'm always asked how I'll balance work and children. Do they ever ask my male classmates this? Of course not....
I used to work at a hardware store and would occasionally get dismissed by customers because of my sex. The worst offenders? Elderly women and professionally dressed men in their 30's. The most open minded? Blue collar men. Contractors could recognize knowledge very quickly but those with no hands on experience wanted a man. I heard one lady ask a male co-worker the same question she asked of me 5 minutes previous. I chuckled when he gave her the same answer -she still wasn't happy.
I feel you Karen! It's ridiculous how similar my experiences are with yours. I work at an auto collision center. I do the estimating and some of the time, I would get questioned because of my gender. It used to bother me more when I was younger and inexperienced. However, I've learned to show those ppl the door quite quickly haha
Load More Replies...I've been an engineer for 27 years in the aerospace industry and in the consumer electronics industry. In my younger days, I was the 'cute' voice around the table. In my later days, I have influence but my voice is still a lone voice representing the female population in product designs. It's sad that products are often designed neglecting 50+% of the population.
So dumbasses are screwing themselves out of profit? smh
Load More Replies...At the age of 20 I landed a place at a high profile networking event at the Edinburgh Film Festival. The event was attended by representatives from all the leading media corporations...your TV household names. I practised my pitch all day, determined to make the best possible impression. I shouldn't have bothered. They were all young men in suits who literally smirked and winked at each other. They looked through me with condescending smiles while I tried to secure a work placement and then simply asked me out to dinner. It was my first experience of sexism in the workplace and it was heartbreaking.
I work on boats and women driving as captain have some problems to find respect from the clients :( the worse is that i have already heard some women entering the boat when a woman is driving " maybe we should wait for the next one..."...so sad... and talking about my job I can tell that all women driving boats are more serious and professional than a lot of male captains...
My wife is a boat captain and has worked on the seas for 17 years. She's driven in every kind of evil the North Atlantic can throw at her and done it better than most could dream of and yet getting respect from so many of her male coworkers will simply never happen. It both breaks my heart and makes me mad as hell.
Load More Replies...I used to work as senior sales associate/technical support in big chain computer stores. All my coworkers were male, but support was done by me&one other guy since we had the technical knowledge. A client came in when I was the only one on the floor and my manager was in the backoffice doing paperwork. He asked to have a tech consult so I said I'd be happy to help him. He glanced at me and said that he'd rather talk to "one of the tech guys", so I replied that I'm the tech "guy" at this store and how can I help. He explained his minor issue with transferring files, but he also said how he felt like wasting time explaining it to me just to have to tell it again when I "get a guy on the floor" to help him. I tried to explain that there's no one else coming and how to fix the issue. He didn't believe me and pushed for manager. When I got my mg there he deliberately pretended to not know the fix and loudly asked for my help. I explained again and sexist client left happily without apology.
I am not the tech "guy" anywhere, just having somewhat deeper knowledge of IT than people around me. Yet men just simply push me off when it comes to computers. "Let me help you", "Let me do it for you" and I shouldn't be offended. So many times then I watch them struggly with something that I could have solved easily...
Load More Replies...What about the boss?? He/She sucks by not believing without checking. F#ck that!!
So why don't you guys just all use a "support@mycompany.com" email address and sign everything "Support Team"? I have always thought that removing names and addresses from job applications and resumes might give companies an upper hand in hiring because it would remove a great deal of unrecognized prejudices and would just let their work and experience speak for them. Of course, you still have the face to face interviews - but hopefully by then those doing the interviewing would be able to recognize their own prejudices and could make a real effort not to allow those prejudices keep their company from hiring the best person for the job. We can dream, can't we?
Agreed. Or sign it with your initials, or first initial and last name.
Load More Replies...Try being deaf. Immediately you get judged for whether you're intelligent enough or not. Most people would assume our IQ is below average...
I'm with you! I'm hard of hearing! I can commendate with others.
Load More Replies...I'm a retired female cop and was actually asked, "Do you carry a gun like the MEN?", all the time.
Sounds familiar... I'm a female skydiving instructor w/close to 2.5k jumps. Once, when walking back to the van with parachutes over our shoulder I was the last one . Older guy in the public: Did YOU just jump out of an airplane too????? LOL Also a female skydiving instructor does not always go over well with guys, especially military groups. Mostly it's OK though, and some female students go like 'Well, if she can do it, maybe I can too' :-)
Load More Replies...I'm a medical student and whenever I tell people I'm applying to General Surgery for residency, I'm always asked how I'll balance work and children. Do they ever ask my male classmates this? Of course not....
I used to work at a hardware store and would occasionally get dismissed by customers because of my sex. The worst offenders? Elderly women and professionally dressed men in their 30's. The most open minded? Blue collar men. Contractors could recognize knowledge very quickly but those with no hands on experience wanted a man. I heard one lady ask a male co-worker the same question she asked of me 5 minutes previous. I chuckled when he gave her the same answer -she still wasn't happy.
I feel you Karen! It's ridiculous how similar my experiences are with yours. I work at an auto collision center. I do the estimating and some of the time, I would get questioned because of my gender. It used to bother me more when I was younger and inexperienced. However, I've learned to show those ppl the door quite quickly haha
Load More Replies...I've been an engineer for 27 years in the aerospace industry and in the consumer electronics industry. In my younger days, I was the 'cute' voice around the table. In my later days, I have influence but my voice is still a lone voice representing the female population in product designs. It's sad that products are often designed neglecting 50+% of the population.
So dumbasses are screwing themselves out of profit? smh
Load More Replies...At the age of 20 I landed a place at a high profile networking event at the Edinburgh Film Festival. The event was attended by representatives from all the leading media corporations...your TV household names. I practised my pitch all day, determined to make the best possible impression. I shouldn't have bothered. They were all young men in suits who literally smirked and winked at each other. They looked through me with condescending smiles while I tried to secure a work placement and then simply asked me out to dinner. It was my first experience of sexism in the workplace and it was heartbreaking.


















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