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This Mom’s Powerful Before-And-After Photos Will Change The Way You Look At Your Body
This Mom’s Powerful Before-And-After Photos Will Change The Way You Look At Your Body
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This Mom’s Powerful Before-And-After Photos Will Change The Way You Look At Your Body

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In a world where everybody seems to be striving to portray themselves in the most Instagram-worthy way possible, Laura Mazza decided to do the opposite and show the world how things really are by posting these honest before-and-after childbirth pictures on Facebook.

“On the left – This was my body before kids,” wrote the Melbourne-based blogger and mom of two on Facebook. “No stretch marks. A belly button that was high. A flat stomach. On the right is me now. People don’t want to see this photo. It’s not pleasing to the eye anymore. It’s not a body to be admired. But you know what? I have achieved more with this body, then I have with my old body. I’ve lived more, I’ve given more, I’ve enjoyed more. I’ve made life. This body, THIS body should be celebrated and admired. No matter what size you are, a size 6 or size 60. You deserve to celebrate it.” Well said Laura!

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    Hans
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    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While "you deserve to celebrate it" is absolutely true and "love myself" is the key here, "THIS body should be celebrated and admired" hints to the underlying problem: soecietal norms and expectations built around questionable ideals. We are told and educated what to admire, what to ignore, and what to disrespect. The approach should rather be more empathy when judging others, and much more optimism when judging yourself. The very same approach makes it hard for me to understand why you would refrain from healthy food for body ideals...

    Amber Ridgdill
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What bothers me is on "fat positive" posts, people go out of their way to degrade skinny people... which to me defeats the entire point.

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I won't pretend who knows what, I see why her previous body is considered as better looking, and if I could choose, I too would prefer that body over the "new" one. Having said that, I think she's still beautiful. Surely she got bigger, but she is beautiful either way. Yes, I mean visually.

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    Toni Tea
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for this honest post. It made me rethink my own attitude towards my body!

    Jonathan Eatsalot
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't celebrate obesity. You treat it. Size 60 is unhealthy no matter how accepting you are of it.

    Jo Murphy
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe so, but self hate and the feeling that you are not deserving tends to lead to eating packets of biscuits and crying, not exercise and vegetables. This seems hard for people to understand, somehow.

    Load More Replies...
    Carlotta Cerri
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First, I think she's beautiful in both pictures. She's not overweight and with a good nutrition (not diet) she would get back to be in shape—because it's mentally and phisically healthy to be in shape, not because it's aesthetically pleasing to the eye. That said. 18 months ago I had a baby. I kept eating healthy and going to my dance classes, and I went back to my flat stomach and protruding bones. Again, not because it's beautiful or to impress people, but because it's part of the healthy lifestyle I want to teach my children. Now I'm pregnant again, 24 weeks, and my body is again undergoing a transformation that will surely leave its signs. But I will go back to my flat stomach and protruding bones, not because I want more likes on Instagram or because I want people to like me and my body. But because a healthy body is the reflection of a healthy lifestyle and a healthy mind, and this is for me the ultimate sign of love and respect for the self.

    Steve O'Connor
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A little disturbed that you think a flat stomach and protruding bones are a sign of a healthy body. Apart from flat stomachs not being natural, different bodies can be different shapes and still be healthy. Your healthy is not everyone's healthy.

    Load More Replies...
    Matias Petroccello
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    New and interesting concept, the right is a body with history, a body that lived, a body with something to tell thats not only diets and gym routines. I never thought about that.

    Nathan Gee
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only thing I hate about articles like these is that they create an enemy that doesn't necessarily exist... It uses phrases like 'people' and 'they' didn't find it attractive... Who are 'people' and 'they'?? This is nothing, no one.. No real, tangible human being to place the blame on.. So now our enemy is software; we can't even identify it let alone defeat it. I'm a personal trainer (6 years) . I have conversations like these all the time... My (albeit incredibly small sample size) shows a huge shift towards those who aren't 'fat-shaming narcissists'... Now we have a primal trait in our instincts that believes that the rest of society feels the way we feel... So maybe if someone has convinced themselves that the whole world is jam-packed with fat-shamers it's actually because they are fat shamers themselves... They just haven't rustled up the willpower to drag themselves down to that unhealthy weight. Just cut that mean minority out of your life... Size 6 or 60

    Jennifer Duncan
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nathan, no offense but if you haven't seen the incredible degree to which women are routinely fat shamed and otherwise scrutinized and judged for the tiniest physical flaw, it's because you're a man and you're not paying any attention. (This isn't a comment against men. My husband is fully aware of the issue himself.) We use general terms like "they" and "people," because if we had to list each individual fat shamer we've encountered, we'd be here for a very long time. Try paying attention next time you encounter a publicly posted photo of any woman who is over size 6 or who has any sign of body fat. You will see fat shamers. They're in the comments here! I've even seen people fat-shaming freaking supermodels who dare to be something other than rail-thin.

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    Cassandra Kemara
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No matter what kind of body u have u shouldn't rely on others admiring your body to feel good about yourself thats not mentally healthy

    The Doom Hammer
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you are f*****g hot in the second picture just look at the legs and boobs

    Vanessa
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having kids change everything in your life for the best, including your body ^^ you're both beautiful

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    Hans
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While "you deserve to celebrate it" is absolutely true and "love myself" is the key here, "THIS body should be celebrated and admired" hints to the underlying problem: soecietal norms and expectations built around questionable ideals. We are told and educated what to admire, what to ignore, and what to disrespect. The approach should rather be more empathy when judging others, and much more optimism when judging yourself. The very same approach makes it hard for me to understand why you would refrain from healthy food for body ideals...

    Amber Ridgdill
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What bothers me is on "fat positive" posts, people go out of their way to degrade skinny people... which to me defeats the entire point.

    Load More Replies...
    Daria B
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I won't pretend who knows what, I see why her previous body is considered as better looking, and if I could choose, I too would prefer that body over the "new" one. Having said that, I think she's still beautiful. Surely she got bigger, but she is beautiful either way. Yes, I mean visually.

    ADVERTISEMENT
    Toni Tea
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for this honest post. It made me rethink my own attitude towards my body!

    Jonathan Eatsalot
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't celebrate obesity. You treat it. Size 60 is unhealthy no matter how accepting you are of it.

    Jo Murphy
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe so, but self hate and the feeling that you are not deserving tends to lead to eating packets of biscuits and crying, not exercise and vegetables. This seems hard for people to understand, somehow.

    Load More Replies...
    Carlotta Cerri
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First, I think she's beautiful in both pictures. She's not overweight and with a good nutrition (not diet) she would get back to be in shape—because it's mentally and phisically healthy to be in shape, not because it's aesthetically pleasing to the eye. That said. 18 months ago I had a baby. I kept eating healthy and going to my dance classes, and I went back to my flat stomach and protruding bones. Again, not because it's beautiful or to impress people, but because it's part of the healthy lifestyle I want to teach my children. Now I'm pregnant again, 24 weeks, and my body is again undergoing a transformation that will surely leave its signs. But I will go back to my flat stomach and protruding bones, not because I want more likes on Instagram or because I want people to like me and my body. But because a healthy body is the reflection of a healthy lifestyle and a healthy mind, and this is for me the ultimate sign of love and respect for the self.

    Steve O'Connor
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A little disturbed that you think a flat stomach and protruding bones are a sign of a healthy body. Apart from flat stomachs not being natural, different bodies can be different shapes and still be healthy. Your healthy is not everyone's healthy.

    Load More Replies...
    Matias Petroccello
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    New and interesting concept, the right is a body with history, a body that lived, a body with something to tell thats not only diets and gym routines. I never thought about that.

    Nathan Gee
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only thing I hate about articles like these is that they create an enemy that doesn't necessarily exist... It uses phrases like 'people' and 'they' didn't find it attractive... Who are 'people' and 'they'?? This is nothing, no one.. No real, tangible human being to place the blame on.. So now our enemy is software; we can't even identify it let alone defeat it. I'm a personal trainer (6 years) . I have conversations like these all the time... My (albeit incredibly small sample size) shows a huge shift towards those who aren't 'fat-shaming narcissists'... Now we have a primal trait in our instincts that believes that the rest of society feels the way we feel... So maybe if someone has convinced themselves that the whole world is jam-packed with fat-shamers it's actually because they are fat shamers themselves... They just haven't rustled up the willpower to drag themselves down to that unhealthy weight. Just cut that mean minority out of your life... Size 6 or 60

    Jennifer Duncan
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nathan, no offense but if you haven't seen the incredible degree to which women are routinely fat shamed and otherwise scrutinized and judged for the tiniest physical flaw, it's because you're a man and you're not paying any attention. (This isn't a comment against men. My husband is fully aware of the issue himself.) We use general terms like "they" and "people," because if we had to list each individual fat shamer we've encountered, we'd be here for a very long time. Try paying attention next time you encounter a publicly posted photo of any woman who is over size 6 or who has any sign of body fat. You will see fat shamers. They're in the comments here! I've even seen people fat-shaming freaking supermodels who dare to be something other than rail-thin.

    Load More Replies...
    Cassandra Kemara
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No matter what kind of body u have u shouldn't rely on others admiring your body to feel good about yourself thats not mentally healthy

    The Doom Hammer
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you are f*****g hot in the second picture just look at the legs and boobs

    Vanessa
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having kids change everything in your life for the best, including your body ^^ you're both beautiful

    Load More Comments
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