Someone Called This Girl’s Japanese Tea Party Racist, But Then This Japanese User Stepped In
A Utah mom inadvertently sparked a fire when she threw a Japanese-themed birthday party for her daughter, Caitlyn, and posted about it on her blog. Tumblr somehow got a hold of it, and some users started dragging the mom for encouraging racism. One commentator, who happened to be Japanese, however, came in to set the record straight, and it was pretty much the mic drop of the century.
The mom in question, who runs a party planning blog called The Gala Gals, is just one of the latest people to enter the fierce modern debate on cultural appropriation, and when it is and isn’t okay. Do you dress up as people from other countries in order to make fun of them? You’re probably a racist. Do you like wearing a kimono because you appreciate its beauty and historical significance to Japan? Go right ahead. A strong argument can be made, after all, that stigmatizing the sharing of cultural elements only creates more distance between us.
Read how this latest Tumblr spat played out below, and let us know what your take on the issue is at the end!
What do you think? Offensive or overblown? Tell us below!
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My thoughts exactly. It seems to me that sometimes people are just trying to pick a fight, with their claws out and ready to draw blood. :(
Load More Replies...Ahahaha! Great answer from that Japanese commenter! Good to read some common sense smashing in to destroy all the self-righteous fools. His/her words totally speak my mind. Also, to point out double standards, nobody complaints about the whole world appropriating Scotch skirts. Guess it's because Scotland's in Europe.
What, in the name of all that's holy, is a "Scotch skirt"? Something that ladies wear when they are drinking whisky? Would you, by any chance be referring to my countries Male National dress, the Scottish Kilt?
Load More Replies...How unfortunate that instead of using internet to research useful things, people use to vomit their stupidity everywhere. Nowadays, everyone is so butthurt out of nothing. You cant say colour "black" without some over-sensitive b***h getting all worked up about it. I had a similar experience when I once posted a photo of myself wearing a long colourful "gypsy" skirt...I was called racist despite trying to explain that i didnt mean it in a bad way. I mean if I am a racist, that mean i hate the gypsy culture, then why the f**k would I wear a "gypsy skirt" and call it beautiful and pose in it. People need to learn to differentiate the tone of voice & the context before they open their bloody mouth!
Yes ! I once wore a gypsy skirt for halloween when I was around 10 years old, and when I got to one house the woman gasped, and exclaimed in joy in a foreign language. She was Roma, and just loved my costume! She gave me like five handfuls of candy, versus one piece for my friends, and I got a huge wonderful hug too.
Load More Replies...Little girls like to dress up. Are we really gonna tell them what to limit their fantasy world to? Theyll get enuf of that in adulthood.
People really need to chill out on calling everything racist. It's so counterproductive - not only does it alienate people who would otherwise be allies, it detracts from ACTUAL, ill-intentioned, purposely committed acts of racism. Ever hear of the boy who cried wolf?
My thoughts, exactly. People who will call "offensive" at absolutely anything are making people who would otherwise be fighting the same fight actually get angry at and reject those ideas. It's really hard to take a serious issue seriously when it comes from a group that will make a fuss over every little thing.
Load More Replies...I just do not get it. The same people who talk about diversity and multiculturalism are also freaking out about people taking an interest in other cultures. Sigh.
Well I guess I should throw out my hello kitty & my love for sushi-god forbid we appreciate other cultures and want to incorporate them
I'll take your HK off your hands!!! haha, I'm 49 and STILL love Hello Kitty! lol
Load More Replies...This reminds me of Buzzfeed, where most people still think only white people can be racist. -.-
Maybe it is my local experience BUT - I am assuming a lot of the ones who jumped in on this whole thing were indeed white. I currently live in Oregon where a lot of people think that they are responsible and are the authority of teaching cultural appropriation. I am also an Oakland California native - and I would like to say ... these types have it ALL WRONG.
Load More Replies...What do I think? I think it is harmless and educational. It isn't like she colored her skin - she was just following traditional geisha makeup. Part of the costume. I think that, hiding behind a computer screen, people in general have become too bitter, and quick to insult anyone they can, because they can't fathom the thought of taking any responsibility for their own issues. It is deflection, and an excuse to not keep their negative thoughts in-check. It is a cop-out, at the expense of others, which makes it 1000% worse. Wussies!
Wow, people getting triggered by a little girl trying to embrace a different culture, what is happening to the world...
My thoughts exactly. It seems to me that sometimes people are just trying to pick a fight, with their claws out and ready to draw blood. :(
Load More Replies...Ahahaha! Great answer from that Japanese commenter! Good to read some common sense smashing in to destroy all the self-righteous fools. His/her words totally speak my mind. Also, to point out double standards, nobody complaints about the whole world appropriating Scotch skirts. Guess it's because Scotland's in Europe.
What, in the name of all that's holy, is a "Scotch skirt"? Something that ladies wear when they are drinking whisky? Would you, by any chance be referring to my countries Male National dress, the Scottish Kilt?
Load More Replies...How unfortunate that instead of using internet to research useful things, people use to vomit their stupidity everywhere. Nowadays, everyone is so butthurt out of nothing. You cant say colour "black" without some over-sensitive b***h getting all worked up about it. I had a similar experience when I once posted a photo of myself wearing a long colourful "gypsy" skirt...I was called racist despite trying to explain that i didnt mean it in a bad way. I mean if I am a racist, that mean i hate the gypsy culture, then why the f**k would I wear a "gypsy skirt" and call it beautiful and pose in it. People need to learn to differentiate the tone of voice & the context before they open their bloody mouth!
Yes ! I once wore a gypsy skirt for halloween when I was around 10 years old, and when I got to one house the woman gasped, and exclaimed in joy in a foreign language. She was Roma, and just loved my costume! She gave me like five handfuls of candy, versus one piece for my friends, and I got a huge wonderful hug too.
Load More Replies...Little girls like to dress up. Are we really gonna tell them what to limit their fantasy world to? Theyll get enuf of that in adulthood.
People really need to chill out on calling everything racist. It's so counterproductive - not only does it alienate people who would otherwise be allies, it detracts from ACTUAL, ill-intentioned, purposely committed acts of racism. Ever hear of the boy who cried wolf?
My thoughts, exactly. People who will call "offensive" at absolutely anything are making people who would otherwise be fighting the same fight actually get angry at and reject those ideas. It's really hard to take a serious issue seriously when it comes from a group that will make a fuss over every little thing.
Load More Replies...I just do not get it. The same people who talk about diversity and multiculturalism are also freaking out about people taking an interest in other cultures. Sigh.
Well I guess I should throw out my hello kitty & my love for sushi-god forbid we appreciate other cultures and want to incorporate them
I'll take your HK off your hands!!! haha, I'm 49 and STILL love Hello Kitty! lol
Load More Replies...This reminds me of Buzzfeed, where most people still think only white people can be racist. -.-
Maybe it is my local experience BUT - I am assuming a lot of the ones who jumped in on this whole thing were indeed white. I currently live in Oregon where a lot of people think that they are responsible and are the authority of teaching cultural appropriation. I am also an Oakland California native - and I would like to say ... these types have it ALL WRONG.
Load More Replies...What do I think? I think it is harmless and educational. It isn't like she colored her skin - she was just following traditional geisha makeup. Part of the costume. I think that, hiding behind a computer screen, people in general have become too bitter, and quick to insult anyone they can, because they can't fathom the thought of taking any responsibility for their own issues. It is deflection, and an excuse to not keep their negative thoughts in-check. It is a cop-out, at the expense of others, which makes it 1000% worse. Wussies!














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