Photographer Documents Husband’s Depression In Intimate Photo Series
‘The Sea That Surrounds Us’ is a photo series by professional photographer Maureen Drennan that documents her husband’s battle with depression and her own battle to understand his mental problems.
The name of the art project is taken from a line from a love poem by Pablo Neruda called Night on the Island, a title that reflects the photographer’s decision to intersperse pictures of her husband Paul with pictures from Block Island, Rhode Island, which is where she spent time as a child. The barrenness and isolation of the island work as both a physical embodiment of the distance she felt from her husband who has been living with depression as well as a tangible manifestation of her husband’s own interior state during his mental health deterioration. They’ve since put those difficult times of fighting depression time behind them, but her beautiful photo series serves as a reminder of how fragile we are as humans, and how difficult it is to truly understand the experiences of another person, no matter how close they may seem to us.
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Oh dear husband...you don't feel well? Let me take picture of you (by the way, half have nothing to do with him) and make it an "art" project...
Imagine this: Youre healthy, got a job, wife. Everything looks normal and perfect. But inside youre broken, you can't feel anything, you feel like there is something wrong with you but can't find out what. People start judging you that youre lazy, sad, selfish. Depression is a disease. Don't judge people by their illnes. His wife is photographer. So she used her best tools to deal with her reality. Probably she needed to do this more than he. You might like it or not but don't judge.
Load More Replies...Not all depressed people look the same way. There is such a thing as smiling depression or putting a brave face on it. And somebody with facial expressions like in those photos might not be depressed but just having a bad day or concealing anger.
Load More Replies...Don't give the wife such a hard time! She has everyone here discussing this illness. I'm sure hubby is on board. Sometimes all you can do is watch someone spiral.
Not when she takes a selfie of herself topless though in the first photo.
Load More Replies...I suffer from Depression. I can understand why she shared her photos. And if she reached out and helped even just one person, then at least she has done something good. Why are so many people so....critical? Do you need a hug? Seriously.
People who make fun of thse pics dont understand depression. It is something I would not wish on anyone. it is like living a life that seems somehow separate from oneself, an entity that one has no control over.. that hurts constantly and you always feel so hurt and body aches with pain and sorrow constantly. And sometimes, you have no idea why you are feeling so down.
When you're depressed one of the hardest things is that you know your illness hurts people closest to you. Nobody at first know what's going on and how to deal with it. The depressed feels guilty for making family suffer in any shape or form and at worst case scenario him letting her publish this made him happy because it made her maybe a little bit happy (or very happy, we'll never know). Maybe he is the one who wanted them published to show others that they're not alone in this kind of mess. Doesn't matter if you've been depressed, seen someone close battling it or didn't have it in your life, it's none of our business how they deal with it. Maybe going public is just a coping mechanism. TL;DR: Leave them be. They've been through enough without your b******t.
I don't mind her sharing the photos or making a project about depression because this can be cathartic. But these photos are not a series, I don't see depression anywhere, I just see a bunch of unrelated pictures: a couple on the bathroom, he doesn't loom depressed, just really clean because he's brushing his teeth, and it looks like an intimate moment given the lack of clothes. The rest are just portraits of a person, could be depressed or just sad or tired. And the other photos of landscapes or buildings are just so disconnected. So... nice photos, nothing major, but if the title doesn't mentioned depression I wouldn't have guessed the concept.
I would of hated someone photographing me when I went on disability for depression. But, maybe it works for them.
When have we as humans become so cruel to others? A little compassion, understanding and support goes much further than a jab with the tongue. Isn't that what we all want sometimes?
Oh dear husband...you don't feel well? Let me take picture of you (by the way, half have nothing to do with him) and make it an "art" project...
Imagine this: Youre healthy, got a job, wife. Everything looks normal and perfect. But inside youre broken, you can't feel anything, you feel like there is something wrong with you but can't find out what. People start judging you that youre lazy, sad, selfish. Depression is a disease. Don't judge people by their illnes. His wife is photographer. So she used her best tools to deal with her reality. Probably she needed to do this more than he. You might like it or not but don't judge.
Load More Replies...Not all depressed people look the same way. There is such a thing as smiling depression or putting a brave face on it. And somebody with facial expressions like in those photos might not be depressed but just having a bad day or concealing anger.
Load More Replies...Don't give the wife such a hard time! She has everyone here discussing this illness. I'm sure hubby is on board. Sometimes all you can do is watch someone spiral.
Not when she takes a selfie of herself topless though in the first photo.
Load More Replies...I suffer from Depression. I can understand why she shared her photos. And if she reached out and helped even just one person, then at least she has done something good. Why are so many people so....critical? Do you need a hug? Seriously.
People who make fun of thse pics dont understand depression. It is something I would not wish on anyone. it is like living a life that seems somehow separate from oneself, an entity that one has no control over.. that hurts constantly and you always feel so hurt and body aches with pain and sorrow constantly. And sometimes, you have no idea why you are feeling so down.
When you're depressed one of the hardest things is that you know your illness hurts people closest to you. Nobody at first know what's going on and how to deal with it. The depressed feels guilty for making family suffer in any shape or form and at worst case scenario him letting her publish this made him happy because it made her maybe a little bit happy (or very happy, we'll never know). Maybe he is the one who wanted them published to show others that they're not alone in this kind of mess. Doesn't matter if you've been depressed, seen someone close battling it or didn't have it in your life, it's none of our business how they deal with it. Maybe going public is just a coping mechanism. TL;DR: Leave them be. They've been through enough without your b******t.
I don't mind her sharing the photos or making a project about depression because this can be cathartic. But these photos are not a series, I don't see depression anywhere, I just see a bunch of unrelated pictures: a couple on the bathroom, he doesn't loom depressed, just really clean because he's brushing his teeth, and it looks like an intimate moment given the lack of clothes. The rest are just portraits of a person, could be depressed or just sad or tired. And the other photos of landscapes or buildings are just so disconnected. So... nice photos, nothing major, but if the title doesn't mentioned depression I wouldn't have guessed the concept.
I would of hated someone photographing me when I went on disability for depression. But, maybe it works for them.
When have we as humans become so cruel to others? A little compassion, understanding and support goes much further than a jab with the tongue. Isn't that what we all want sometimes?













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