Mom Refuses To Give Up Her Disabled Baby With “Low Intelligence,” Nurtures Him All The Way To Harvard
When Zou Hongyan welcomed her only son to the world in 1988, terrible birth complications left him disabled for life with cerebral palsy. Doctors in her native Hubei province encouraged her to give him up, a view that even her own husband shared, as they believed the boy would lead a miserable, worthless life. Zou, however, rejected their claims, divorced her child’s father, and made it her life mission to treat and support her baby boy when no one else would.
Zou worked at least 3 jobs simultaneously to support her small family, including protocol training and insurance sales, and played brain-boosting games with her son to stimulate his senses and build the foundations of his intelligence. She even taught him how to use chopsticks when his stiff hands could barely grip them. “I didn’t want him to feel ashamed about these physical problems,” she told the South China Morning Post. “Because he had inferior abilities in many areas, I was quite strict on him to work hard to catch up where he had difficulties.”
29 years later, that same boy – Ding Ding – is a Peking University graduate with a bachelor’s degree in environmental sciences and engineering. As of recently, he’s also a Harvard Law student. We can only imagine how proud this hard-working mom is of her son’s incredible progress, and how grateful Ding Ding must be to his greatest supporter. (h/t)
Zou Hongyan welcomed her son in 1988, but birth complications left him disabled with cerebral palsy
The doctors advised giving up the baby and claimed that he would never be intelligent, but Zou did not listen
Moreover, her husband disowned the boy, so she decided to divorce him and raise their son, Ding Ding, all by herself
Zou worked at least 3 jobs to support and get treatment for her son, and her hard work has paid off – she’s now the proud mom of a 29-year-old Harvard student
Readers of Hongyan’s incredible story have since showered her with well-deserved praise

A mother’s love truly knows no bounds!
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Share on FacebookThis is such a strong story to read. She raised her kid to be someone of value and it must have have been hard doing it with everyone not sharing the same views as her. Good thing she didn't listen to the nay sayers.
A GODLY MOTHER'S DAY FOR YOUR FAITHFUL SACRIFICES. I WOULD LIKE TO WRITE YOUR STORY TO THE CHANNEL 2, MAALA-ALA MO KAYA
Load More Replies...what a wonderful mother... most people would get rid of their child, which is really sad
I don't think that's true... if it were, literally more than half of children with palsey or handicapped children in general would be in orphanages/foster care (which is not the case). (This does not diminish her being a wonderful mother)
Load More Replies...I knew somebody who divorced her husband when he began pressuring her to put her "silly daughter" into an institution. He accepted this child (from his wife's previous marriage) as if she were his own daughter. However, when he and his wife had a son of their own without disabilities, he saw the girl as being in the way. As in this case, he was the one who was sent packing. I know of another case where a baby boy was born blind, and his mother couldn't handle it, so she left. She never tried to pressure her husband to have him put away. She just wasn't emotionally-strong enough to handle having a blind son. As for the son, he grew up just great and went to law school -- but dropped out before he had finished his degree to pursue what he really wanted to do with his life: be a recording artist. His name? Ronnie Millsap I just got to watch a show I'd heard about before but hadn't gotten to watch before last night. It's called Born That Way, and it's about these friends (cont)
...who all have Down Syndrome and share a house. All of them are amazing! Such really nice people with a lot of abilities and confidence. Those people with that extra chromosome are something else!
Load More Replies...Ding Ding is probably a shortened name. Chinese names often have three characters (symbols). The last character is 'Ding' in his name. Parents, when they call for their children, often call them by their last character, and double it, thus it becomes 'Ding Ding'
Both of them are beautiful inside out ... And most importantly , their will power to do something which is assumed to be impossible is the greatest .Really inspiring !!
What a kick a*s, saintly mother. What a worthless, ignorant father. HEY DAD! Ever hear of R.J. Mitte, Josh Blue, Christy Brown, Abbey Curran, Zach Anner...ETC!?!?!?
Incredible mother and incredible kid. I wonder what the dad is thinking now.
What a mother! And shame on the father and the doctors who thought CP means low intelligence!
For anyone who doesn't understand how Cerebral Palsy works, I recommend that they read this book: http://www.benmikaelsen.com/petey It's a children's book, but still provides powerful insight into those whose intelligent minds are trapped within their bodies.
Load More Replies...This is such a strong story to read. She raised her kid to be someone of value and it must have have been hard doing it with everyone not sharing the same views as her. Good thing she didn't listen to the nay sayers.
A GODLY MOTHER'S DAY FOR YOUR FAITHFUL SACRIFICES. I WOULD LIKE TO WRITE YOUR STORY TO THE CHANNEL 2, MAALA-ALA MO KAYA
Load More Replies...what a wonderful mother... most people would get rid of their child, which is really sad
I don't think that's true... if it were, literally more than half of children with palsey or handicapped children in general would be in orphanages/foster care (which is not the case). (This does not diminish her being a wonderful mother)
Load More Replies...I knew somebody who divorced her husband when he began pressuring her to put her "silly daughter" into an institution. He accepted this child (from his wife's previous marriage) as if she were his own daughter. However, when he and his wife had a son of their own without disabilities, he saw the girl as being in the way. As in this case, he was the one who was sent packing. I know of another case where a baby boy was born blind, and his mother couldn't handle it, so she left. She never tried to pressure her husband to have him put away. She just wasn't emotionally-strong enough to handle having a blind son. As for the son, he grew up just great and went to law school -- but dropped out before he had finished his degree to pursue what he really wanted to do with his life: be a recording artist. His name? Ronnie Millsap I just got to watch a show I'd heard about before but hadn't gotten to watch before last night. It's called Born That Way, and it's about these friends (cont)
...who all have Down Syndrome and share a house. All of them are amazing! Such really nice people with a lot of abilities and confidence. Those people with that extra chromosome are something else!
Load More Replies...Ding Ding is probably a shortened name. Chinese names often have three characters (symbols). The last character is 'Ding' in his name. Parents, when they call for their children, often call them by their last character, and double it, thus it becomes 'Ding Ding'
Both of them are beautiful inside out ... And most importantly , their will power to do something which is assumed to be impossible is the greatest .Really inspiring !!
What a kick a*s, saintly mother. What a worthless, ignorant father. HEY DAD! Ever hear of R.J. Mitte, Josh Blue, Christy Brown, Abbey Curran, Zach Anner...ETC!?!?!?
Incredible mother and incredible kid. I wonder what the dad is thinking now.
What a mother! And shame on the father and the doctors who thought CP means low intelligence!
For anyone who doesn't understand how Cerebral Palsy works, I recommend that they read this book: http://www.benmikaelsen.com/petey It's a children's book, but still provides powerful insight into those whose intelligent minds are trapped within their bodies.
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