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With the wedding season in full swing, many of us are excited to witness how two people venture on a journey together through life. We're eager for elegant ceremonies and magical moments, and we expect to cherish these memories for years to come. But in the real world, weddings are far from the dazzling and perfect affairs many of us imagine. Because you see, some couples seem to go out of their way to show everyone that taste really is a matter of preference.

To prove that some celebrations of love look like anything but fairy tales, members of the 'Trashy' subreddit shared snaps of the wild and tasteless things they’ve ever spotted at a wedding. With the tagline, "All things Trashy!", this online community has set out on a mission to expose the low-class nuptial disasters.

From outrageous invitations to mothers-in-law who turn up in bridal gowns, we at Bored Panda wrapped up a compilation of photos that vividly illustrate how bad things can get. Continue scrolling, upvote the ones you loved hating the most and be sure to share your own stories with us in the comments! And if you think you can handle even more wedding horror stories, check out our earlier publications about nightmare wedding guests and the most shame-worthy wedding examples.

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Imagine Having Your Wedding In A National Forest, Then Vandalizing Said Forest

Imagine Having Your Wedding In A National Forest, Then Vandalizing Said Forest

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Bride Ties Her 1 Month Baby To The Back Of Her Wedding Dress

Bride Ties Her 1 Month Baby To The Back Of Her Wedding Dress

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Bride Cancels Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" $1500 Each To Fund Her Wedding

Bride Cancels Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" $1500 Each To Fund Her Wedding

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Ara
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This woman desperately needs a mental health intervention. She obviously has feelings of inadequacy which can only be soothed by constant attention.

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Since 2012, the 'Trashy' online group has amassed over 2.8 million members. A few thousand people scroll through the page at any given time and are always on the lookout for some juicy pictures to pop up at the top. The moderators stated that this is a humor subreddit where they forbid bullying or toxic behavior. Moreover, they don’t allow heated discussions about social and political topics, explaining that you’re not going to change the world by arguing in a place where people laugh at drunk people making fools of themselves in public.

According to the moderators, this is a perfect place for people to poke fun at "trashy stories, trashy glamour, all things fake, plastic, and downright trashy, low-class, no-class, white trash, bimbos, and damn proud." Those looking after the page also added that posts on the group need to be funny, and they need to be a celebration of trashiness. "If it makes you angry then it doesn’t belong here," the moderators added.

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I Don't Care What Your Political Views Are, This Is Stupid As Hell For A Wedding Cake

I Don't Care What Your Political Views Are, This Is Stupid As Hell For A Wedding Cake

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This Wedding Photo

This Wedding Photo

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This Wedding Invite

This Wedding Invite

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Turt_Le
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whoa, that's a lot of aggression in an invite to a purportedly happy occasion. The only point without an insult is where they're asking for $$$

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But this does beg the question, what does trashy actually mean? Well, the internet meme database Know Your Meme stated that the term trashy is used in a derogatory way to describe something extremely low-quality or inappropriate. "It is used as an antonym of 'classy' and typically refers to human behavior that is undesirable. Someone who is considered 'trashy' or behaving in such a manner typically exhibits selfish or grotesque actions with no remorse, especially when being inconsiderate," they explained.

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This Whole Situation

This Whole Situation

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She deserves to be dumped but you lost me at revenge porn. That makes you as bad as her, if not worse. Don’t do that.

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Weddings Are Fun

Weddings Are Fun

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm actually an officiant for weddings. After the first one had this issue, I always make an announcement before the ceremony starts that "the couple has paid good money for a professional photographer. Please keep your phones down"

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Irish Lad
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I made it clear to the couple when they hired me. I told them to tell their friends not to take photos. It, of course, was not always successful, but it helped.

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Mika N
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should photographers carry around a water pistol to take out electronics that get in their way? 🙃

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MCathenaE
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yea. No. I asked for a phone free ceremony at the request of the photographer. The audio didn't come out on the professional video, but the person who ignored our request got video of our vows with audio. I love every single picture I got from the photog, but the phones got some great pictures too. One uncle ignored the request & wound up getting some photos that the photog used. One uncle, who brought his camera, followed our request & missed some shots he really wanted to get. My point is, as a photographer you should be able to maneuver around the amateurs or be able to politely tell them they are in your shot.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like. Yes, don't move in the way of the photographer. No, don't ban other photos. There are more photos to be had than the photographer can take. And they're free. I don't like the idea that the photographer has a monopoly on photos. And people have brought cameras to weddings long before there were phone cameras.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't photographers take a 1000 photos at these weddings? And tbh these photos are often displayed for a short time and most are stored away. Or tossed after a divorce.

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It's Me
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thousands. And we don’t actually charge by the photograph. We charge for our time. Our time is spent mulling over those thousands we took, batch editing, then creating the absolute pile of projects our CLIENTS paid for.

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It's Me
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same. And if I hear one more a*****e talk about how photoshop works, I’m going to scream.

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Jill Tremblay
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't blame the photographer for being upset. Yes, put away the damn phones!!!!!!!!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister in law is a 'Sister' (nun) and tends to use that to her advantage. She did this not at one, but two of my children's weddings. At the first, my daughter, it was a very small 'Covid' wedding in the backyard but we did have a prof photographer. Sister was constantly getting IN BETWEEN the photographer and the subject of the photo. Not candid shots- posed shots of bride, groom, etc. She would walk right in front of the photographer with her iPad! Fast fwd 6 months to my son's much larger wedding. Inside cathedral. Priest had to literally remove the iPad from her hands. It was so embarrassing and she just laughed it off. This is a 67 year old "woman" who has zero clue on life. Then she got drunk at the reception. Just

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Ambry Petersen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not even the same picture on the phone. Looks like someone just wanted to ruin the shot. Besides there are far more discreet ways of taking a picture than getting in the way of the photographer. I have a few cute photos of my little bros wedding that I took from the sidelines out of the way of the photographers.

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Mickie Shea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Been to hundreds of weddings and a no phones policy is always best.

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Riley Quinn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm confused. Is this photoshopped? Guest's phone has different image.

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Adrienne Kushner
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A relative brought her IPad to my daugher's wedding and held the big, whomping thing up in the air to record stuff. It was blocking the view of people standing behind her and no one ever saw the video she was recording.

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Lisa Valen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At my age, I should no longer be stunned when I see people who truly seem oblivious to the fact that they are not in a bubble. She seems SO focused on her task, not only is the photographer not considered, but neither the bride and groom are either.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drew the same conclusion at school events, all these nimmies videotaping something they should be watching live and likely might watch once on video - in the meantime a pro videographer is inconspicuously filming the whole thing for free distribution.

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Marilyn Russell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m sure the bride is happy with this guest ruining these shots too.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do people need to do that? Just request for the prints from the couple if you want them.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wouldn't a photographer take multiple shots. Looks like they still have a long walk down the aisle and all.

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Sander
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Erm, walk to the left to get a clear shot? It's your job to work around these issues. Also, this looks photoshopped.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, it is not your job to work around idiots. A professional photographer sets up angles and backgrounds. Using this fake post as an example, the background is great. If the photographer has to take steps to the left, the background changes and that takes away the value of the shot. I went to rehearsals to set up angles, lighting and more to make sure the value received by the couple was the best. Some shots are split second. Aunt B*tch standing in front of me with her iphone is not going to print out a 10x12 photo with the head partially chopped off and her thumb showing.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am very confused? Is this just what……what r they saying, is it the groom or the father?

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Turt_Le
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the photographer is annoyed they couldn't get a clear shot of the bride being walked up the aisle by her father to the groom because of the obstruction, which also blocked the groom at the other end

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John Lun
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did this person photoshop someone's arm and phone into an image to have a rant. Clearly this didn't happen, just look at the picture on the phone the lady is holding.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why can't you just take another photo.? It's all digital photography now anyway. It's not like years ago when you only knew a photo was rubbish when you developed it. And the guest may well be wanting to keep their photo for a special reason. Like a picture they can frame or put into a family album. It's not just the bride and groom that want to have momentos of the wedding day but friends, and relatives too.

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BlueApple
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The photo was badly composed either way. It want that good. You shutter can take hundreds of photos in seconds by the way.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe it was just the photographer making a point without calling out any customers in specific.

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Since the wedding season is here to provide members of this online community with plenty of content, they don’t waste a second and share their hilarious snaps online. Although it’s important to note that taste is subjective — what is trashy to one person may be stylish to another! Moreover, we’re well aware that there is no such thing as a flawless wedding. You may have spent hours meticulously planning your big day, hoping everything to be perfect with a capital P. But the truth is, some things are simply out of your control. Whether it’s the caterer that canceled at the last minute or the ignorant plus ones who drink the open bar dry, some minor mishaps are simply unavoidable.

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#10

From A Bridal Facebook Group: Praying With All The Single Women Find A Man

From A Bridal Facebook Group: Praying With All The Single Women Find A Man

"At our nephews wedding today. The bride offered a special gesture... Instead of throwing a bouquet toall the single girls, she took apart her bouquet and handed each girl a flower and prayed with each girl, to wait on the man that God has for them"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the idea of handing out parts of the bouquet to everyone but nah you keep your prayers and Jesus to yourself there lady.

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#11

The Groom Took His Laptop To His Wedding To Play A Game On His Computer

The Groom Took His Laptop To His Wedding To Play A Game On His Computer

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#12

We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can’t come to the wedding because we actually hate you. Now give us your money.

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Wedding Photoshoot Idea: The Groom And The Bridesmaids…

Wedding Photoshoot Idea: The Groom And The Bridesmaids…

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These Bizarre Wedding Vowels ...

These Bizarre Wedding Vowels ...

"The grooms vowels from the wedding of a family friend. We are genuinely concerned for her safety"

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#15

Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A quick call to say the invite is rescinded in its entirety will sort that out

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Allison Jackson, the owner of the Pineapple Productions, mentioned that it’s important to remember that your celebration speaks directly to your heart. "A wedding should be personal and reflective of the couple — their stories, shared interests, family backgrounds, personal styles and travels — versus something built on recycled ideas from other weddings," she explained. "I encourage couples to draw inspiration from the stories of how they met, what they did on their first date, and how they became engaged. It’s easy to find a few details from those stories that naturally translate into fun and unique elements on the wedding day."

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#16

Did Bud Light Sponsor The Wedding?

Did Bud Light Sponsor The Wedding?

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Thought This Was The Bride And Groom At First - Nope. Father And Stepmother Of The Bride, Wearing A White-Ish, Beaded Gown With A Train

Thought This Was The Bride And Groom At First - Nope. Father And Stepmother Of The Bride, Wearing A White-Ish, Beaded Gown With A Train

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Ran Across This On A Wedding Shaming Site And It Belongs Here

Ran Across This On A Wedding Shaming Site And It Belongs Here

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree with shaming a lot of this, but if a woman doesn't want to wear a bra, no matter what size she is, she shouldn't have to.

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Another thing to keep in mind is the people you want to share these unique moments with. "Focus on the touch points that allow guests to be present throughout the weekend," Beth Helmstetter, a creative director at Beth Helmstetter Events advised. "For instance, if your ceremony has the possibility of being too hot or cold, make sure to address those issues with blankets, fans, and water. For the reception, always make sure you have enough servers and bartenders. If guests aren’t able to get a drink or wait too long for their meal, it doesn’t matter how beautiful or fun your wedding is. Guests will be focused on their needs not being met and they won’t be able to enjoy the celebration as you’ve intended them to."

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Well He Is Wearing White Head To Toe!

Well He Is Wearing White Head To Toe!

Jaden Smith wearing a Batman suit to Kanye’s wedding is still a top tier moment

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This Couple Thought The 20th Anniversary Of 9/11 Was A Great Theme For Their Wedding

This Couple Thought The 20th Anniversary Of 9/11 Was A Great Theme For Their Wedding

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Neither one could figure out how to be appropriate around humans. A match made in heaven.

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Being This Drunk At Your Own Wedding

Being This Drunk At Your Own Wedding

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Ara
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder how valid the vows are, if the groom is too drunk to repeat them, and does it affect the legitimacy of the wedding?

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Most importantly, make sure you enjoy the experience and try to have fun! After all, people sometimes see their big day as the final destination when, in reality, it’s only the beginning of a long and exciting journey together. But if some things don’t go as planned, remember there’s always humor to be found in even the most unfortunate situations. So if you have a weird and amusing story to tell, don’t be shy and share your adventures with us in the comments.

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When You Study Wedding Photography At Juuliard

When You Study Wedding Photography At Juuliard

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Bride Asks Mil Not To Wear A White Dress, Mil Does Anyways

Bride Asks Mil Not To Wear A White Dress, Mil Does Anyways

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I ever got married I would buy some paintball guns and tell the attending kids that everyone wearing white beside me is fair game.

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My Friend Went To A Wedding Where They Had A Guy Handing Out Martini Olives In A Bathtub Full Of Olives

My Friend Went To A Wedding Where They Had A Guy Handing Out Martini Olives In A Bathtub Full Of Olives

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#27

What’s More Trashy? The Wedding Or The Caption?

What’s More Trashy? The Wedding Or The Caption?

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This Wedding Dress

This Wedding Dress

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Ara
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Apparently, during the Depression American feed manufacturers printed designs on sacks so they could be made into dresses. Looks like it’s been revived.

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Her Dress Was The Only Thing Not White At This Wedding ‘Merica....

Her Dress Was The Only Thing Not White At This Wedding ‘Merica....

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#31

Sharing This Very Normal And Appropriate Groom Outfit I Came Across On Twitter

Sharing This Very Normal And Appropriate Groom Outfit I Came Across On Twitter

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Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding

Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At my sisters wedding she gave me 1 corn on the cob. That was it. That was all I had all day. I was not amused.

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White Trash Wedding

White Trash Wedding

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I Really Hope That This Is A Wind Up

I Really Hope That This Is A Wind Up

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Classy Wedding Cake

Classy Wedding Cake

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean it’s not good but if that skunk is a real cake it looks good, the baker has skills at least.

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Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold

Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least it has walls. It’s better than the hay bale toilet I saw on BP the other day.

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How On Earth Can Anyone Be This Tone Deaf...even If It Was A Joke, I'm Surprised There Wasn't Even A Small Part Of Their Thoughts That Went, "Oh, Maybe This Isn't A Great Idea!"

How On Earth Can Anyone Be This Tone Deaf...even If It Was A Joke, I'm Surprised There Wasn't Even A Small Part Of Their Thoughts That Went, "Oh, Maybe This Isn't A Great Idea!"

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I Can’t Imagine Seeing This At A Wedding

I Can’t Imagine Seeing This At A Wedding

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