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With the wedding season in full swing, many of us are excited to witness how two people venture on a journey together through life. We're eager for elegant ceremonies and magical moments, and we expect to cherish these memories for years to come. But in the real world, weddings are far from the dazzling and perfect affairs many of us imagine. Because you see, some couples seem to go out of their way to show everyone that taste really is a matter of preference.

To prove that some celebrations of love look like anything but fairy tales, members of the 'Trashy' subreddit shared snaps of the wild and tasteless things they’ve ever spotted at a wedding. With the tagline, "All things Trashy!", this online community has set out on a mission to expose the low-class nuptial disasters.

From outrageous invitations to mothers-in-law who turn up in bridal gowns, we at Bored Panda wrapped up a compilation of photos that vividly illustrate how bad things can get. Continue scrolling, upvote the ones you loved hating the most and be sure to share your own stories with us in the comments! And if you think you can handle even more wedding horror stories, check out our earlier publications about nightmare wedding guests and the most shame-worthy wedding examples.

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Imagine Having Your Wedding In A National Forest, Then Vandalizing Said Forest

Imagine Having Your Wedding In A National Forest, Then Vandalizing Said Forest

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Bride Ties Her 1 Month Baby To The Back Of Her Wedding Dress

Bride Ties Her 1 Month Baby To The Back Of Her Wedding Dress

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#3

Bride Cancels Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" $1500 Each To Fund Her Wedding

Bride Cancels Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" $1500 Each To Fund Her Wedding

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Ara
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This woman desperately needs a mental health intervention. She obviously has feelings of inadequacy which can only be soothed by constant attention.

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Since 2012, the 'Trashy' online group has amassed over 2.8 million members. A few thousand people scroll through the page at any given time and are always on the lookout for some juicy pictures to pop up at the top. The moderators stated that this is a humor subreddit where they forbid bullying or toxic behavior. Moreover, they don’t allow heated discussions about social and political topics, explaining that you’re not going to change the world by arguing in a place where people laugh at drunk people making fools of themselves in public.

According to the moderators, this is a perfect place for people to poke fun at "trashy stories, trashy glamour, all things fake, plastic, and downright trashy, low-class, no-class, white trash, bimbos, and damn proud." Those looking after the page also added that posts on the group need to be funny, and they need to be a celebration of trashiness. "If it makes you angry then it doesn’t belong here," the moderators added.

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I Don't Care What Your Political Views Are, This Is Stupid As Hell For A Wedding Cake

I Don't Care What Your Political Views Are, This Is Stupid As Hell For A Wedding Cake

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#5

This Wedding Photo

This Wedding Photo

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#6

This Wedding Invite

This Wedding Invite

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Turt_Le
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whoa, that's a lot of aggression in an invite to a purportedly happy occasion. The only point without an insult is where they're asking for $$$

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But this does beg the question, what does trashy actually mean? Well, the internet meme database Know Your Meme stated that the term trashy is used in a derogatory way to describe something extremely low-quality or inappropriate. "It is used as an antonym of 'classy' and typically refers to human behavior that is undesirable. Someone who is considered 'trashy' or behaving in such a manner typically exhibits selfish or grotesque actions with no remorse, especially when being inconsiderate," they explained.

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This Whole Situation

This Whole Situation

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She deserves to be dumped but you lost me at revenge porn. That makes you as bad as her, if not worse. Don’t do that.

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Since the wedding season is here to provide members of this online community with plenty of content, they don’t waste a second and share their hilarious snaps online. Although it’s important to note that taste is subjective — what is trashy to one person may be stylish to another! Moreover, we’re well aware that there is no such thing as a flawless wedding. You may have spent hours meticulously planning your big day, hoping everything to be perfect with a capital P. But the truth is, some things are simply out of your control. Whether it’s the caterer that canceled at the last minute or the ignorant plus ones who drink the open bar dry, some minor mishaps are simply unavoidable.

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#10

From A Bridal Facebook Group: Praying With All The Single Women Find A Man

From A Bridal Facebook Group: Praying With All The Single Women Find A Man

"At our nephews wedding today. The bride offered a special gesture... Instead of throwing a bouquet toall the single girls, she took apart her bouquet and handed each girl a flower and prayed with each girl, to wait on the man that God has for them"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the idea of handing out parts of the bouquet to everyone but nah you keep your prayers and Jesus to yourself there lady.

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#11

The Groom Took His Laptop To His Wedding To Play A Game On His Computer

The Groom Took His Laptop To His Wedding To Play A Game On His Computer

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#12

We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can’t come to the wedding because we actually hate you. Now give us your money.

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#13

Wedding Photoshoot Idea: The Groom And The Bridesmaids…

Wedding Photoshoot Idea: The Groom And The Bridesmaids…

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I' Gomez & Morticia's kid
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's rather a joke in South Asia where the phrase "Sali, adhi Ghar-wali" comes from. Which means once you got married now your SIL (wife's sister ) is your half partner too.

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Allison B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A bit trashy, but compared to some others on this list it's not TOO bad.

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XRaine
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i think that a lot of these come down to the dynamic between the bride and groom/guests. if they joke around like this and are both ok with it, i think it's fun

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VeninTheNonBinaryRogue
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yea, a decent amount of them seem like it’s an inside joke or that’s just the sense of humor for their friend group

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Random Anon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eh why is this trashy. I think this is done for laughs and giggles. There is nothing inappropriate going on.

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Run
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They probably are related to one of them, but their skintone looks closer to his.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This feels like it could be a cultural thing, so I'm not going to make any judgements. I will, however, say they all look gorgeous!

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Lucky2BAlive
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve seen these as set ups. Shows a sense of humor. I had to talk my way through the entire shoot with our photographer.

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Rosanna Jackson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's the joke? Is it that the friends of the bride are so overcome with the groom they try to pork him in front of their excellent friend. Or that the groom, marrying his love decides it's a good idea to pork the bridesmaids, who are his wife's excellent friends, thinking he can pick back up after? On the day of their wedding? It's stupid. Really stupid

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Samia Guled
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the look on the bride means what r you doing we just got married

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Sarah Bell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could see this being a prank on the bride lol if they have that kind of relationship then it would be funny. I have friends who are married and are constantly trying to one up each other's pranks and jokes . It would be classic to catch her reaction with the photographer lol

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LSR
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

See why all these f u c k i n g browns arein such high quantities in the world?

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Jean Thompson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this was set up for the photographer ... at least, I HOPE it was set up for the photographer ...

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elfin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bride should walk away and find herself a boy toy or two.

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Mickie Shea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her best friends know what is best for the boy. After all it is now one big family.

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Nicole Tomme
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am guessing the bridesmaids are her sisters. The groom is laughing so awkwardly.

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April Pickett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's got a serious grip on those bridesmaids. Watch out for him, seems like fooling around is high on his agenda.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

holy, how can so many commenters here be so stuck up.. he is hugging the brides maids, nothing wrong with that, nothing indecent, and the bride is clearly in on this and pretending to be shocked. How is this gross or disgusting?

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Taki Takanashi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do I think their idea was innocent but didn't turned out how it was expected?

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Trillian
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny but only if the bride gets a photo with two of the groom's men

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Jill Tremblay
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yea that's a little weird. However, I love her wedding dress and choice of colors for the bridesmaids!!!

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Joy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe we all got it wrong, it's 2 brides and 1 bridesmaid

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Scipio Africanus
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the bride was in on this I’ll support the humor. If not that’s trashy af

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Seanette Blaylock
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why? For all we know, they're his sisters/cousins, and the bride's playing it up for humor.

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#14

These Bizarre Wedding Vowels ...

These Bizarre Wedding Vowels ...

"The grooms vowels from the wedding of a family friend. We are genuinely concerned for her safety"

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#15

Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A quick call to say the invite is rescinded in its entirety will sort that out

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Allison Jackson, the owner of the Pineapple Productions, mentioned that it’s important to remember that your celebration speaks directly to your heart. "A wedding should be personal and reflective of the couple — their stories, shared interests, family backgrounds, personal styles and travels — versus something built on recycled ideas from other weddings," she explained. "I encourage couples to draw inspiration from the stories of how they met, what they did on their first date, and how they became engaged. It’s easy to find a few details from those stories that naturally translate into fun and unique elements on the wedding day."

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#16

Did Bud Light Sponsor The Wedding?

Did Bud Light Sponsor The Wedding?

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#17

Thought This Was The Bride And Groom At First - Nope. Father And Stepmother Of The Bride, Wearing A White-Ish, Beaded Gown With A Train

Thought This Was The Bride And Groom At First - Nope. Father And Stepmother Of The Bride, Wearing A White-Ish, Beaded Gown With A Train

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Ran Across This On A Wedding Shaming Site And It Belongs Here

Ran Across This On A Wedding Shaming Site And It Belongs Here

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree with shaming a lot of this, but if a woman doesn't want to wear a bra, no matter what size she is, she shouldn't have to.

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Another thing to keep in mind is the people you want to share these unique moments with. "Focus on the touch points that allow guests to be present throughout the weekend," Beth Helmstetter, a creative director at Beth Helmstetter Events advised. "For instance, if your ceremony has the possibility of being too hot or cold, make sure to address those issues with blankets, fans, and water. For the reception, always make sure you have enough servers and bartenders. If guests aren’t able to get a drink or wait too long for their meal, it doesn’t matter how beautiful or fun your wedding is. Guests will be focused on their needs not being met and they won’t be able to enjoy the celebration as you’ve intended them to."

#19

Well He Is Wearing White Head To Toe!

Well He Is Wearing White Head To Toe!

Jaden Smith wearing a Batman suit to Kanye’s wedding is still a top tier moment

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#20

This Couple Thought The 20th Anniversary Of 9/11 Was A Great Theme For Their Wedding

This Couple Thought The 20th Anniversary Of 9/11 Was A Great Theme For Their Wedding

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Neither one could figure out how to be appropriate around humans. A match made in heaven.

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Being This Drunk At Your Own Wedding

Being This Drunk At Your Own Wedding

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Ara
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder how valid the vows are, if the groom is too drunk to repeat them, and does it affect the legitimacy of the wedding?

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Most importantly, make sure you enjoy the experience and try to have fun! After all, people sometimes see their big day as the final destination when, in reality, it’s only the beginning of a long and exciting journey together. But if some things don’t go as planned, remember there’s always humor to be found in even the most unfortunate situations. So if you have a weird and amusing story to tell, don’t be shy and share your adventures with us in the comments.

#22

When You Study Wedding Photography At Juuliard

When You Study Wedding Photography At Juuliard

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Bride Asks Mil Not To Wear A White Dress, Mil Does Anyways

Bride Asks Mil Not To Wear A White Dress, Mil Does Anyways

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I ever got married I would buy some paintball guns and tell the attending kids that everyone wearing white beside me is fair game.

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#25

My Friend Went To A Wedding Where They Had A Guy Handing Out Martini Olives In A Bathtub Full Of Olives

My Friend Went To A Wedding Where They Had A Guy Handing Out Martini Olives In A Bathtub Full Of Olives

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#27

What’s More Trashy? The Wedding Or The Caption?

What’s More Trashy? The Wedding Or The Caption?

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This Wedding Dress

This Wedding Dress

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Ara
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Apparently, during the Depression American feed manufacturers printed designs on sacks so they could be made into dresses. Looks like it’s been revived.

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Her Dress Was The Only Thing Not White At This Wedding ‘Merica....

Her Dress Was The Only Thing Not White At This Wedding ‘Merica....

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#31

Sharing This Very Normal And Appropriate Groom Outfit I Came Across On Twitter

Sharing This Very Normal And Appropriate Groom Outfit I Came Across On Twitter

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Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding

Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At my sisters wedding she gave me 1 corn on the cob. That was it. That was all I had all day. I was not amused.

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White Trash Wedding

White Trash Wedding

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I Really Hope That This Is A Wind Up

I Really Hope That This Is A Wind Up

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Classy Wedding Cake

Classy Wedding Cake

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean it’s not good but if that skunk is a real cake it looks good, the baker has skills at least.

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#37

Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold

Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least it has walls. It’s better than the hay bale toilet I saw on BP the other day.

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How On Earth Can Anyone Be This Tone Deaf...even If It Was A Joke, I'm Surprised There Wasn't Even A Small Part Of Their Thoughts That Went, "Oh, Maybe This Isn't A Great Idea!"

How On Earth Can Anyone Be This Tone Deaf...even If It Was A Joke, I'm Surprised There Wasn't Even A Small Part Of Their Thoughts That Went, "Oh, Maybe This Isn't A Great Idea!"

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I Can’t Imagine Seeing This At A Wedding

I Can’t Imagine Seeing This At A Wedding

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