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“Worst Flight In My Life”: Internet Reacts To This Guy’s Experience Sitting Next To A Kid
Man on a frequent traveler flight holding a cup while a kid kicks him, captioned worst flight in my life.

“Worst Flight In My Life”: Internet Reacts To This Guy’s Experience Sitting Next To A Kid

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When you’re traveling by plane, you never really know who’ll end up sitting next to you. And in a packed cabin with nowhere to escape, that can be a real lottery—one that can either make or break your trip.

Travel influencer Paul Lee definitely drew the short straw when he recently posted a TikTok of what he called the worst flight of his life. In the clip, a screaming child sitting nearby can be seen repeatedly kicking his seat, while the parents appeared to do nothing to calm them down.

The video quickly went viral, leaving viewers stunned. Watch it below.

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    What should have been a simple, uneventful flight ended up being anything but for one passenger

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    The child next to him started screaming and kicking his seat, turning the trip into pure chaos

    Frequent traveler experiences worst flight as a child kicks him on an airplane while he drinks from a small cup.

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    @iampaulleeWorst possible seat ever next to a crying baby 😭♬ original sound – Paul Lee

    When kids start crying on planes, solutions are limited

    It never gets old: young children and enclosed spaces, especially those high up in the air. They’re the perfect combination for a tantrum, and being nearby can be exhausting when all you want is to get from point A to point B. For parents, it’s usually not easy either. The panic, the stress, and the worry about upsetting other passengers all pile on.

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    But it’s life, and it happens. Of course, if you find yourself in a situation like travel influencer Paul Lee did, when the child isn’t just screaming but also kicking your seat, that’s a whole different ordeal. And when the parents don’t do much to address it, it can be even more frustrating.

    That said, it’s worth remembering that babies don’t cry on planes because their goal is to annoy everyone. There are plenty of reasons behind their behavior.

    “Babies do not cry on aeroplanes for the fun of it,” explained paediatrician Dr Perri Klass.

    “They cry because their ears hurt and they’re being made to stay in a certain position when they don’t want to or the air smells strange and the noises are loud, or their stomachs feel upset or the day has been too long and they still aren’t there yet or they’re just plain cranky.”

    Because children can’t regulate their emotions or reactions the way adults do, it often builds up into a tantrum. That’s simply how they express discomfort. Honestly, sometimes I wish I could do that too when I’m stuck in a busy supermarket. But for everyone else, that restlessness can be incredibly irritating, and in the moment, it’s easy to forget that kids really can’t help it.

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    Image credits: joaquincorbalan / Envato (not the actual photo)

    Unfortunately, there’s only so much that can be done in situations like this, according to flight crews. As they told Business Insider:

    “Airlines can’t handle disruptive children. Besides advising the parent that the kids need to talk quieter, sit down, or not kick the seat in front of them, there’s really nothing we can do.”

    Sometimes flight attendants try to help nearby passengers by offering alternatives, like changing seats, but that’s not always possible, especially if the flight is full. They might also hand out earplugs or offer free drinks to make the situation a bit more bearable.

    For frustrated passengers, flight attendants recommend being prepared and accepting that there might be a crying child somewhere on board. Listening to music or watching a movie can help tune out the noise.

    “This is why you should always bring earplugs and an eye mask!” said one flight attendant. “There’s not a whole lot flight attendants can do besides politely tell the parent that their child needs to sit down or lower their voice. Parents have it hard flying with kids, especially on long flights.”

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    For parents, there are a few ways to help prevent mid-air meltdowns. Dr. Klass recommends feeding small children during takeoff and landing to ease the pressure on their ears—just not overfeeding them. She also suggests talking to nearby passengers beforehand and, if possible, asking a flight attendant to move to a more spacious area to help calm the child.

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    In the end, situations like these call for empathy. We’re all human, all stressed, and no one enjoys being part of this kind of chaos. But a little kindness can go a long way, because sometimes, these moments are simply unavoidable.

    Commenters blamed the parents for not stepping in and praised the man for staying patient through it all

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    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is NOT gentle parenting. This is overly permissive NON-parenting. Gentle parenting has boundaries which are enforced. The deal with gentle parenting is not to beat, yell at, or humiliate your kids.

    Trillian
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lady if you don't parent your kid, I will.

    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "And in a way you aren't going to like, I promise."

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooops, there goes my drink all over him.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't have put up with that at all, the parents should have made him behave and switch seats with him. There's no excuse for stupid lazy parents. Either you make your kid stop or will!

    Jesse
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's when I'd say "Stop kicking. It's rude." If the brat won't listen, I'll start poshing it off of me.

    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Gentle parenting" is code for "I'm too stupid and lazy to parent my child". If I'd been sitting next to this kid, I'd have yelled at him at the top of my lungs (you have to get their attention), "PUT YOUR FEET ON ME AGAIN AND I'LL CUT THEM OFF AND THROW THEM OUT OF THE PLANE!" Skip the useless mother and go straight to the source. Of course, then you get the, "Are you yelling at my child?" and I reply, "I sure am and I will continue to do so until you get him under control." That works.

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I simply do not allow children to behave in such a manner. Very few people impose standards, but I am not fearful of my own. No child kicks me twice.

    Susan M.
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time that kid touched me, I would notify the mother that was not to happen again. The next time, I would smack that kid so they would know not to do it again. Period

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Catnip tea before flight. Worked for my mom.

    jasper
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, no. I would tell the kid in no uncertain terms to stop or I'll remove his feet. Then make the mother move him.

    Twidder Sux
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll give BP credit on this one. Unlike the MANY fiction stories that BP steals from Reddit, this one is from TikTok and came with actual photos (not stock images).

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eugh ,I’m dam glad I’ve never flown !, hell I do t even like public transport , but I have once or twice used a bus from Tewksbury to Cheltenham,( uk ) when my kids where little , n.being like you know THEIR MOTHER !! I taught them manners n respect ,and they were very well behaved the few times we used it , mostly drove but husband needed the car those days , NOW THIS PARENT is vile , so is that little brat !, awful parenting ,if this is what gentle parenting means we are screwed royally !! basically that was NO PARENTING WHAT SO EVER ,parents like this GROW UP N DO BETTER !, Hats off to that man mind dam he has patience,which is a virtue,one I was not born with , belive me ,I’d have lost my shite lol

    liam newton-harding
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's actually interesting watching you have a stroke in realtime...it's like a train hitting a car at a railroad crossing...you know someone is in pain, but you just can't look away.

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    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is NOT gentle parenting. This is overly permissive NON-parenting. Gentle parenting has boundaries which are enforced. The deal with gentle parenting is not to beat, yell at, or humiliate your kids.

    Trillian
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lady if you don't parent your kid, I will.

    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "And in a way you aren't going to like, I promise."

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooops, there goes my drink all over him.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't have put up with that at all, the parents should have made him behave and switch seats with him. There's no excuse for stupid lazy parents. Either you make your kid stop or will!

    Jesse
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's when I'd say "Stop kicking. It's rude." If the brat won't listen, I'll start poshing it off of me.

    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Gentle parenting" is code for "I'm too stupid and lazy to parent my child". If I'd been sitting next to this kid, I'd have yelled at him at the top of my lungs (you have to get their attention), "PUT YOUR FEET ON ME AGAIN AND I'LL CUT THEM OFF AND THROW THEM OUT OF THE PLANE!" Skip the useless mother and go straight to the source. Of course, then you get the, "Are you yelling at my child?" and I reply, "I sure am and I will continue to do so until you get him under control." That works.

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I simply do not allow children to behave in such a manner. Very few people impose standards, but I am not fearful of my own. No child kicks me twice.

    Susan M.
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time that kid touched me, I would notify the mother that was not to happen again. The next time, I would smack that kid so they would know not to do it again. Period

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Catnip tea before flight. Worked for my mom.

    jasper
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, no. I would tell the kid in no uncertain terms to stop or I'll remove his feet. Then make the mother move him.

    Twidder Sux
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll give BP credit on this one. Unlike the MANY fiction stories that BP steals from Reddit, this one is from TikTok and came with actual photos (not stock images).

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eugh ,I’m dam glad I’ve never flown !, hell I do t even like public transport , but I have once or twice used a bus from Tewksbury to Cheltenham,( uk ) when my kids where little , n.being like you know THEIR MOTHER !! I taught them manners n respect ,and they were very well behaved the few times we used it , mostly drove but husband needed the car those days , NOW THIS PARENT is vile , so is that little brat !, awful parenting ,if this is what gentle parenting means we are screwed royally !! basically that was NO PARENTING WHAT SO EVER ,parents like this GROW UP N DO BETTER !, Hats off to that man mind dam he has patience,which is a virtue,one I was not born with , belive me ,I’d have lost my shite lol

    liam newton-harding
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's actually interesting watching you have a stroke in realtime...it's like a train hitting a car at a railroad crossing...you know someone is in pain, but you just can't look away.

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