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Dating and relationships are difficult even on a good day. And good days are pretty rare. Unfortunately, that is the reality everyone lives in when navigating the romantic world. Especially women. But at least they have a place to vent.

The subreddit r/FemaleDatingStrategy has 175K members (or as it calls them, queens), constantly discussing their love lives, and that includes all the nonsense that arises too. Continue scrolling and check out what they have to say.

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Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

Men Only Bringing The Audacity, Yet Again, To The Table!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Took me a sec to realize it, but good going. You have to consider yourself first.

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"Instead men and women often face equal and opposite problems to one another," Quinn said. "Guys might struggle to think of how to approach a woman, and women (who traditionally and maybe wrongly) have been told they can't make the first move and so panic over where they can find all the guys that want to approach them."

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Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

Say It Louder For The People In The Back!!

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denzoren
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never understood this...if you lose control over what a woman wears then you need some serious help. The problem definitely isn't the clothes.

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SBW71
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh yeah it's the clothes alright, the guys pants and what's in them to be exact! That's the problem. They always think with the wrong head!

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I said the same thing to a guy tomorrow but he keeps ranting about How our culture does not teach wearing shorts and revealing clothes🤦🏽‍♀️ they always got ridiculous reason to blame you

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SydneyP
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a lesbian I will say this: I have witnessed lesbians who wouldn't take no for an answer however I have never personally witnessed a lesbian sexually assault someone. Not saying it hasn't happened. I just haven't witnessed it personally. It's never okay to harass, cat call, touch, photograph, etc a woman OR a man without their consent. I understand in most public places you can photograph people but it doesn't mean you should and it definitely doesn't mean it's ethical!

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I dont know about other countries but here you are legally allowed to take pictures of people in public for artistic, documentary or journalist purposes even without their consent... do you really wanna call it unethical?

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BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

EXACTLY. It's not our fault that our clothes apparently """distract""" boys or men, so stop punishing us for it and punish the creeps who find a sliver of our skin distracting.

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Mimi777
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Especially telling a little girl that she can’t wear something because it’s revealing because of a creepy uncle.

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Marnie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Think of societies where clothing is very minimal or even non-existent. They don't go around raping every scantily-clad woman they see, which would be all of them.

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Disha Nath
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Louder for the all the victim-blamers in the back 🙌🙌🙌

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IlovemydogShilo
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most men love an expensive car or the latest i phone but would NEVER go into a store and steal one because it's "on display" and they want it. Same with women. Just because a man sees a woman and wants her does not mean she's his for the taking with out consent. If men can behave themselves around things that ARE objects then they should be able to control themselves around what is not.

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Daria B
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Im my opinion, if the assumption is that males can't control themselves (which, btw is derogatory to men and boys, and we all know you guys are better than that in real life), a better comparison would be "if gays can control themselves when boys are walking around with their naked torso, maybe the problem isn't the clothes".

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Solidhog
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in a gay nightclub for a while and the biggest problem we had was gay women constantly hitting on straight women even when told they were not interested. The men stopped as soon as they found out the other nam was not gay.

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Miss Cris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, women don't need to rape sexy males, even when they take off their shirt or show their hairy ass in those low pants.

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GayBeanCake
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

DANG!!! Well said :D I'm lesbian and I've been told I can't be in the women's locker room-

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Heather G
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In boot camp we all had to shower together. There was one bisexual girl who had a hard time keeping her eyes to herself. That being said, she was very young and the other lesbian women had a very awkward time but they were fine. Other than that we had no problems. I'm just saying it does happen even with women. But they didn't blame the other women.

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Miss Cris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One thing is to feel attraction and another very different thing is to give aprovation loudly, harass or rape.

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Sur Mer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You still learn this in school today: people react to key stimuli. Some more and some less. How one reacts to these is, of course, a matter of education.

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Debrina Blackmoon
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right?! I can't even keep track of how many times I was verbally and physically assaulted-incl. inappropriate hugs, shoulder, leg, back, and arm touching-just wearing "normal" things(reg. shirts/jeans)... DEF NOT the CLOTHES! No, I wasn't being suggestive in any way/flirting either!

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Miss Cris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They'll search another excuse to make you guilty instead of a victim/survivor: where you alone? Did you look at him? Did you scream? ...?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This remark assumes woman-on-woman unwanted attention, assault, etc. is nonexistent.

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Eslamala
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It exists. Just as men being abused by women. But it's really uncommon. Certainly more uncommon than women being harassed by random guys.

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Rainy Day Wolf
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

women wearing burkas are r*ped, we all know it's never the clothes

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Christopher Cole
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The easiest way to teach consent is to take your child to a dog park.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men have been taught this. Especially in certain cultures. When I was in school teachers used to measure the length of our shorts.

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Jocelyn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

honestly, it's not about the clothes either. it's about controlling women and their bodies by devaluing them and sabotaging their self-worth.

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E Menendez
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually, I had problems with both men and women equally getting handsy when I was a cocktail waitress (and not wearing revealing clothes either).

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And also, if women can control themselves when we see a man in a tight T-shirt, maybe the clothes are the problem?

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Kat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This should be at the top of every similar list and taught to every boy by their parents.

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Pascal Schläpfer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the problem runs deeper. We do have certain standards. We do not allow ppl, especially men, to run around town naked. Even if they don't touch anything. Now think of tge reaction of ppl if an adult person with a penis were to show off an errection. How many would be in shock? And why? I think ppl claiming that clothing is never the problem in a girls case don't realize that they have just different rules than ppl that ask to cover up. But they still have rules when to hide, and what to show.

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Miss Cris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They wouldn't be raped. They show their tits and they aren't raped. Any woman is showing their vulva, as an analogy of your example but, even in this case, anybody would be allowed to rape her.

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Once on a clubbing night, long long time ago, I met a bi girl who didn't give up before she had kissed me. Kinda weird, kinda offencive, little invasive, I said I admit that's she's super hot but I'm straight as a ruler, she insisted I don't know if I haven't kissed a girl. She kissed me, I'm still straight, she accepts that and we become friends.

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Who says they can? Also, check the rates of domestic violence between women. Shockingly high.

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That is because a lot of guys don't understand what is sexy. Answer; your brain. Obviously.

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Miss Cris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. That's because of patriarchy some bodies are rapable but not others. Women, children, trans and gay men are while straigh white men aren't.

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Woman wears just a thong bodysuit to a rave... "why are all these men looking at me? I feel victimized!!"

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My ex's new wife went to the beach with the kids also, in a thong and everybody stared or took pics, cause it looked so absurd. She felt flattered. He told her to put on something normal.

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Straight white chick: hit on by countless of lesbians because I have a rainbow tattoo from 25 years ago ( BEFORE) the rainbow was hijacked by the lgbqt community. I had short blonded and coloured hair. Amazing how much lesbians assume right? In my very long experience lesbians have a very hard time controlling themselves, same as straight men.

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I think this ignores the biological fact that straight men are hard wired evolutionarily to want to impregnate as many women as possible, in the same way that straight women are hard wired to fend off all but the best examples of masculinity, as it's us who carry the result and feed it our precious resources for 9 months and then the rest. The difference between us and other animals though is that we have developed civilisation and the concept of self control. We need to appreciate maybe a bit more the men who are in control of their natural urges, it can't be easy.

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actually sexual assault among lesbians is very high according the best available data, some estimates place it higher than hetero males. Gay men tend to be the lower for sexual assault though. Similar numbers with Domestic abuse rates

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please cite your sources. I’ve worked with LGBTQ+ survivors of sexual assault for 30+ years and am very familiar with the statistics of female on female violence from legitimate studies. I’d love to see what you consider to be the “best available data,” particularly because your claim flatly contradicts everything I’ve learned and experienced in the last 3 decades. I’m with you Jessica, this reeks of bullshit.

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Most men can control themselves, maybe a lot of women are just associating with the wrong type of men.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So the wrong type of man must exist in sufficient numbers for a 'lot of women' to associate with them then.

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First, there is nothing wrong with woman wearing whatever they want. They can wear dinosaurs suits, bikinis, or even dinos wearing bikinis (PLEASE try this, I am too scared to do it myself.) That said, this argument is a joke, not reasonable. It would be like asking why lesbian dogs are not turned on the scent of a female dog in heat.

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It's true, we're oddly different at a chemical level

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lesbians also aren't men. They aren't wired the same. Apples are not oranges. The problem isn't the clothes. Its sexual offenders. (sidebar: can anyone find a perpetrator who used this as an excuse anyway?)

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Differences in neurology - Lesbians are still women. Not only do men have more testosterone, it has also a stronger affect on the sex drive within them. Not an excuse for a**hole behaviour, but something to consider when making claims. Women indeed can generally control themselves better in that regard by nature

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In the world of online dating, Quinn also sees noticeable disparities. "Guys may feel like they're having to move heaven and earth to get one lousy response from a woman, whilst women can feel overwhelmed and harassed by unsuitable suitors," she explained. "Men could usually learn from women that they need to have higher standards for the women they interact with, and women could take a leaf out of men's dating and learn how they too can be proactive."

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Some Men Need To Learn This

Some Men Need To Learn This

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This goes for everybody. Treat others the way you want to be treated

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In 2020, the Pew Research Center surveyed Americans to find out more about their love life. While single-and-looking men and women reported equal levels of dissatisfaction with their dating lives and the ease of finding people to date, women were more likely to say they have had some particularly negative experiences.

Most women who were single and looking to date (65%) said they have experienced at least one of six harassing behaviors asked about in the survey from someone they were dating or had been on a date with, such as being touched in a way that made them uncomfortable or rumors being spread about their sexual history.

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"Though men might think women have guys queuing up to date them (which sounds great right?) in reality women face plenty of dating challenges," Quinn said. "They may feel emotionally drained by dating, as they push through dates where they don't feel a connection. If they're seeking a relationship they may struggle to tell which guy's going to be in for the long haul, and who will disappear at the first inkling of commitment. They may even not know how to get offline and actually meet men in real life; and get stuck in the belief that all the 'good men' have run out, and it's impossible to meet someone."

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The dating coach added that women also face significantly more judgement around things like their age, which can be a challenge on dating apps; and more scrutiny for expressing their sexuality. "So don't think that just because she's got a queue of potential suitors that she's not having a hard time dating."

We all can be douches to one another. Let's not.

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That Really Puts It In Perspective

That Really Puts It In Perspective

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And it's always on us, don't dress that way, don't walk there, don't provoke. When it happens we didn't fight enough, fought too hard, didn't say no, didn't mean it when we said it. If we report it we get blamed, re traumatized by questions and rape kits that are then left untouched, called liars.

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100% True For Me

100% True For Me

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel a drop off interest on men (thanks a lot) when I say my husband is a police officer or a jujitsu master.

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#14

They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

They Will Always Make “Single Mothers” The Villains To Shift Blame From Male Predators Or Male Parental Child Neglect

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Speaks For Itself

Speaks For Itself

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm still thinking about the time women had to use hat pins to defend themselves from handsy men. They were covered in fabric from head to tow. It's never about the way you dress, it's about being decent.

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Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

Perfect Way To Deal With Their “Jokes”

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Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

Be A Hvm In All Aspects Of Life

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always support the allies, reminding them how much I value them.

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#18

How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

How Many Of You “Developed” Issues While In A Relationship? I’ll Go First: Depression And Anxiety. Cured As Soon As We Broke Up

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom was convinced she was just a miserable person. She eloped w my dad when she was 15 he was 19. She was 25 when she got divorced she then realized she was a very outgoing extrovert that loved to smile and be herself

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Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

Hvm Right There. Take Note Scrotes

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Nothing But Truth

Nothing But Truth

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i'm just going to assume that most here are Americans, being from denmark myself i have been to parties (in denmark) sitting or standing next to a few women and they end up talking sex good and bad experiances partners and so on and never have i thought anything shaming about them but good for them that they have been curious and learned a few things like one i remember very clearly when trying a**l ALWAYS remember lube and lots of it and take time, most of this shaming comes from bad parenting and trying to be the cool/alpha male, bad boy, and for my part korrect if some guy i knew started to brag about rape i would not shame him he would (maybe) wake up in the hospital at some point.

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This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

This Almost Makes Me Want To Redownload Dating Apps To Do The Same!

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Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

Even A 35 Yo Man Has These Same Meltdowns But They're The Logical Sex!!!

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#28

Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To

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The Message

The Message

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Choose to empower your kids by considering them now and in the future. Spot on

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Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

Mom Praising Son-In-Law For The Bare Minimum

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband stayed with our kids as infants while I worked. Everyone went on and on about how amazing he was (and he was) but then we switched roles this past year and I hear how “lucky I am to GET to stay home” and how bad they feel he works long hours. B****! I pumped breast milk on the floor of a unisex bathroom while still taking phone calls.

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Why Are Males?

Why Are Males?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would call him out, get management and then call the cops! Effing dirty slob.

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Leave Him In The Dust

Leave Him In The Dust

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

some time it bothers me, some women think they don't have a choice because they are in love.

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#33

This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

This Is Why We Can’t Even Trust The “Good” Guys

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#34

Keep Your Friends Safe!

Keep Your Friends Safe!

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Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

Used Or New, We Will Run You Over

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Thoughts?

Thoughts?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I ever actually find somebody I'd want to marry I would never propose with anybody around. I would want to eliminate any peer pressure and create an intimate environment

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Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

Instead Of Holding Rapists/Harassers Accountable, He Mocks Women For Trying To Protect Themselves. A True Pos

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not about locating the witness. It's about scaring the bad guy by becoming a potential witness. Some women even resort to making fake calls on their way home. I'd say it stops at least some horrible people so that's an improvement.

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Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

Henry Viii's Wives If They'd Never Met Him

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Ana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still think Anne of Cleves got the best deal. She didn't have to remain married to Henry VIII and even got a sweet castle and money to boot and she never ever had to get married again.

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Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

Thought This Belongs Here. (From Selfawarewolves... Men Are So Close, I Can't Decide If They're Ignorant On Purpose Or Genuinely Can't Grasp Basic Concepts)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like the guy who yells "hey pretty lady" and approaches a woman they don't know, and when she "walks fast" to get away or tells him to stop, she has a "bad attitude"

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Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

Being In You 20’s Should Be About Self Development, Your Eduction And To Lay The Foundation For Financial Independence

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#41

Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

Most Stay-At-Moms Do Not Get The Luxury Of Building A Career, Or Even The Luxury Of A Personal Life This Is How Women End Up In A Financial Trap With No Support

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ummmm... my wife and I support our family. I work long hours. My wife takes care of 90% of the household stuff. I clean the kitchen every night and get home by dinner time every night to have family time with her and our kids. I don't support her and she doesn't support me. We support each other.

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Tea

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women who could tell stories about crazy ex boyfriends rarely make it out alive. That's why you only hear about crazy ex girlfriends.

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Seriously

Seriously

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Guido Pisano
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

helping your wife means that most of the job is on her shoulder. I prefer say that I do my part...

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Reminder

Reminder

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J. F.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a misanthrope- I actually enjoy to not have to deal with somebody on a daily basis. I must be a quite rare man according to this article

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We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

We Used To Think We Were Always At Fault

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True if you date a self centered douche who doesn't care about your pleasure...

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Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

Women Protect Women From Harm. Men Protect Other Men's Ability To Lie, Cheat, And Knowingly Harm Women

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know about any 'bro code'. But any friend of mine cheating on his SO (also probably a friend of mine by association) and expecting me to keep it a secret isn't really my friend.

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*internal Screaming, Forever*

*internal Screaming, Forever*

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