Man Sends This Woman An Unsolicited Pic, She Responds By Saying An App Sent It To The Police
The internet is a strange place and there is always a thing or two that can go wrong. This is especially true when texting with strangers out there. There are plenty of nice guys and you might get lucky enough to find one in the wavy sea of online dating, but a part of it belongs to the creeps with self-confidence issues. This cocktail of personality traits is always toxic, and it explains why you are receiving an unsolicited dick pic in no time.
Wired recently announced that “dick pics are everywhere, and nobody knows what to do about them.” But Mariclare Michelle from Seattle, Washington, has proven them wrong. There’s always a good response to turn that creep into a mere shadow of himself. “Don’t send me dick pics or I’ll f*kin’ blast you.” And she did.
Scroll down for Bored Panda’s interview with Mariclare below to see what she had to say about unsolicited pictures.
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The woman shared her hilarious response to an unsolicited dick pic
Bored Panda asked Mariclare Michelle how millennial women like her deal with unsolicited nudes. She said that “from the ages of like, 13-21, I would get them all the time, mostly out of the blue or unasked for. So I feel like it was really normalized or expected when talking with men. Sometimes in middle school or high school, girls would bond over the same gross dude sending stuff to a bunch of us.”
This is what happened to the man in the screenshots. “That, unfortunately, happened with this guy”, Michelle continued, “because I had four out of five women reach out to me with their own screenshots and/or stories of this same guy who sent me pics after I made my post.”
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Apparently, there were more women who had the same experience
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The Seattle-based woman suggests to always keep your answers light-hearted and funny when chatting to strangers. “Talk some sense into people. If they come on really strong and gross, my next move is to make them uncomfortable by any means. Take the power back in a sense.”
Mariclare believes that instead of sending their unsolicited pics, men need to look for genuine connection and consent. “It will almost always guarantee a 50/50 chance of a yes. And if there isn’t a yes, move on. We won’t have situations like this if they always guarantee the person is wanting what they’re sending.”
This guy turns out to be a serial reoffender!
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The red flags about the creep were always there
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Almost half of millennial women in the United Kingdom have received at least one unwanted penis picture. To be precise, YouGov released a survey showing that 41 percent of women from age 18 to 36 had received one. That’s where it gets interesting. According to that same survey, only 22 percent of men admit to having sent a dick pic. Even fewer—only 5 percent of millennial men—confessed that their dick pic was unsolicited.
There might be two reasons why the numbers don’t add up. First, it might be the case that millennial women receive penis photos from men older than millennial age. Secondly, some men just can’t admit to having sent their dick pics, especially if they were unsolicited. There’s an obvious level of shame that comes to admitting their contribution to cyberflashing.
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Even more women stood up to say they know the guy and he’s really ‘weird’
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Other people chimed in to share their opinions about the case
I'll never get why some people think sending un asked for pics of your junk is a valid courtship ritual. Do these guys think women will just go "Ohhh that's a nice member, whatever is attached must be prime boyfriend material!"
It isn't a courtship ritual, it's a power play. Basically, it's a way to make someone look at your junk without permission, a digital flasher, of sorts.
Load More Replies...I once sent the d**k pic a guy sent me, unsolicited, to his mother and grandmother, letting them know that he was very proud of his anatomy and I was wondering if they were proud as well. They forced him to apologize to me. Some people just don't realize how not anonymous they are online, especially to a web developer that can sometimes access source code.
This is not about getting nude pictures. You can get nude picture on the internet anytime. This guy gets his jollies from stalking and intimidated women. He kept mentioning her freckles so she would know he was watching her.
I agree with most of this, but regarding "stalking": But there is no evidence of stalking happening here. It has a specific meaning, and is a very serious crime. Please don't make stalking seem less serious by misusing it this way.
Load More Replies...Exactly, it should be treated the same as if he walked up to someone in public and exposed himself.
Load More Replies...Sooo... why has no one actually developed a porn blocking app that really does this?
probably because it's hard to get approval from police department for making it (since they really need to do overhaul on police system and make a new police unit if they want to make it) , though i heard that in India (where the rate of a rape happening is high) there's an app that succeed in making a one click police report for emergency if you're going to be raped
Load More Replies...A third reason the numbers might not "add up" is that 5% of men are legitimately the ones sending out pics to 41% of women. ie it's a few bad eggs just throwing out d**k pics to every woman they possibly can. I mean, maybe the other two options are probably a piece of it but I'm pretty sure it's mostly just this.
Doesn't matter. He got scared a bit and that's great. He also doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in a shed so hopefully he'll keep being scared.
Load More Replies...I have a FILE full of d**k pictures with names. How ambitious are you? Will this picture help along the way? Never bother to say it. Just block them and file the photo. The size of the file is disgusting.
You should really with a random pic from that file and then block
Load More Replies...Situations like this are so sad all around. Sad that these guys have to feel they have to stoop to these levels and terrifyingly sad that these poor girls are being unnecessarily exposed to it. Glad this girl found a way to keep her and her friends away from at least this guy.
Inform the creep that you occasionally share your phone with a child, so you put the blocker on, due to pedophiles ... talk about freaking him out.
@jeff Requier how f****d up are you that you assume everyone has nude pictures in their phone...seriously, that’s not normal. Sort your life out.
Load More Replies...Maybe they want pictures in return. Perhaps another penis picture with owner's name.
Never got what d**k pics are for anyway ... you'll see it in reality, or not see it at all, and that will either be the right time, or not happen at all. Any guy ever had a success with this? I mean ... ever got a message saying "Well, I'm really into that size and shape, come over!"? Dumb as it gets...
I promised my now fiancée that I would send a D**k Pic. Sent her a picture of me smiling. Nothing sinister or creepy. My name... Richard
XD lol this boards so full of anger then I read that, lol I needed that!
Load More Replies...This app really needs to be made real. I'd love to hear stories of so many guys in a cold sweat once they find out what's happened.
Never in my life sent such a picture to anyone, never heard of anyone I know who did. And I *certainly*'would never send such a picture to a stranger. Who are these creeps?!
Trust me, no one wants to see my scale covered elbow. Lol
Load More Replies...This is the only unsolicited "D**k" pic I have ever sent... D**k-tracy...f596a4.jpg
When people are being jerks and acting like a slob then I think it's totally acceptable to f**k with them for a bit then block their sorry a*s and go on with your life. Some people are just too triggered by this behavior; it's not personal so chill out and move on.
Its nasty after that. The other girls reaction that he was ‘weird at school’. Seems to me they weren’t nice to him back then. Xx
Load More Replies...Why in the ever living f*k does anyone think this s**t is okay to do? O_o don't f*king send unsolicited pics. Of ANY kind.
He should be charged with a crime and given some kind of sentence, not prison time necessarily, that will cause him a massive amount of public scrutiny and shame. For example, he could be made to wear a sandwich board saying "I send unsolicited d**k pics" and stand on a street with a lot of pedestrian and car traffic
IMO Shame is what drives this kind of behavior. More shame just perpetuates the cycle. Still should be prosecuted though just different sentence, focused on restitution.
Load More Replies...Ok I'm a bit weirded out nowxD I met a guy recently on POF who sent me a d**k pick and then after I told him off the next morning he messaged me "I'm sorry, I was drunk. I'm so embarrassed right now wtf".
why isn't there an app for this c,mon all you computer savvy girls you could be rich and help each other out . I always thought Call Kaboom would be a good idea kinda like star 69 but more explody and boomy
Maybe some kind of registry where you can register the creeps user name and any woman on a dating site can check to see if the guy messaging her has sent unsolicited dpics to anyone before.
Load More Replies...Not sure, but I think unless it is sent to a child, it is not a crime.
Load More Replies...it took me long to understand why women are so extremey carefully - it felt mad - nowadays I know how very primitive many men are - well women are as primitive - just differently - we should not emphasize how mad the other sex is but start to see that there are many good people, too
Send him back a picture of a transsexual's d**k as he's wearing women's underwear. Tell him you thought you're swapping d**k pics, so you're showing him yours. Or just tell him his d**k's too small and puny. "My boyfriend's slicker / and thickier and quicker / and longer and stronger than you", as the old dirty limmerick has it.
If it's a transgender woman, use she/her pronouns. & there's nothing wrong or disgusting about being trans! Honestly as a trans person I'm insulted. Nobody considers us potential sexual partners anyway & using us as a shock factor is dehumanizing. Get a life.
Load More Replies...I'll never get why some people think sending un asked for pics of your junk is a valid courtship ritual. Do these guys think women will just go "Ohhh that's a nice member, whatever is attached must be prime boyfriend material!"
It isn't a courtship ritual, it's a power play. Basically, it's a way to make someone look at your junk without permission, a digital flasher, of sorts.
Load More Replies...I once sent the d**k pic a guy sent me, unsolicited, to his mother and grandmother, letting them know that he was very proud of his anatomy and I was wondering if they were proud as well. They forced him to apologize to me. Some people just don't realize how not anonymous they are online, especially to a web developer that can sometimes access source code.
This is not about getting nude pictures. You can get nude picture on the internet anytime. This guy gets his jollies from stalking and intimidated women. He kept mentioning her freckles so she would know he was watching her.
I agree with most of this, but regarding "stalking": But there is no evidence of stalking happening here. It has a specific meaning, and is a very serious crime. Please don't make stalking seem less serious by misusing it this way.
Load More Replies...Exactly, it should be treated the same as if he walked up to someone in public and exposed himself.
Load More Replies...Sooo... why has no one actually developed a porn blocking app that really does this?
probably because it's hard to get approval from police department for making it (since they really need to do overhaul on police system and make a new police unit if they want to make it) , though i heard that in India (where the rate of a rape happening is high) there's an app that succeed in making a one click police report for emergency if you're going to be raped
Load More Replies...A third reason the numbers might not "add up" is that 5% of men are legitimately the ones sending out pics to 41% of women. ie it's a few bad eggs just throwing out d**k pics to every woman they possibly can. I mean, maybe the other two options are probably a piece of it but I'm pretty sure it's mostly just this.
Doesn't matter. He got scared a bit and that's great. He also doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in a shed so hopefully he'll keep being scared.
Load More Replies...I have a FILE full of d**k pictures with names. How ambitious are you? Will this picture help along the way? Never bother to say it. Just block them and file the photo. The size of the file is disgusting.
You should really with a random pic from that file and then block
Load More Replies...Situations like this are so sad all around. Sad that these guys have to feel they have to stoop to these levels and terrifyingly sad that these poor girls are being unnecessarily exposed to it. Glad this girl found a way to keep her and her friends away from at least this guy.
Inform the creep that you occasionally share your phone with a child, so you put the blocker on, due to pedophiles ... talk about freaking him out.
@jeff Requier how f****d up are you that you assume everyone has nude pictures in their phone...seriously, that’s not normal. Sort your life out.
Load More Replies...Maybe they want pictures in return. Perhaps another penis picture with owner's name.
Never got what d**k pics are for anyway ... you'll see it in reality, or not see it at all, and that will either be the right time, or not happen at all. Any guy ever had a success with this? I mean ... ever got a message saying "Well, I'm really into that size and shape, come over!"? Dumb as it gets...
I promised my now fiancée that I would send a D**k Pic. Sent her a picture of me smiling. Nothing sinister or creepy. My name... Richard
XD lol this boards so full of anger then I read that, lol I needed that!
Load More Replies...This app really needs to be made real. I'd love to hear stories of so many guys in a cold sweat once they find out what's happened.
Never in my life sent such a picture to anyone, never heard of anyone I know who did. And I *certainly*'would never send such a picture to a stranger. Who are these creeps?!
Trust me, no one wants to see my scale covered elbow. Lol
Load More Replies...This is the only unsolicited "D**k" pic I have ever sent... D**k-tracy...f596a4.jpg
When people are being jerks and acting like a slob then I think it's totally acceptable to f**k with them for a bit then block their sorry a*s and go on with your life. Some people are just too triggered by this behavior; it's not personal so chill out and move on.
Its nasty after that. The other girls reaction that he was ‘weird at school’. Seems to me they weren’t nice to him back then. Xx
Load More Replies...Why in the ever living f*k does anyone think this s**t is okay to do? O_o don't f*king send unsolicited pics. Of ANY kind.
He should be charged with a crime and given some kind of sentence, not prison time necessarily, that will cause him a massive amount of public scrutiny and shame. For example, he could be made to wear a sandwich board saying "I send unsolicited d**k pics" and stand on a street with a lot of pedestrian and car traffic
IMO Shame is what drives this kind of behavior. More shame just perpetuates the cycle. Still should be prosecuted though just different sentence, focused on restitution.
Load More Replies...Ok I'm a bit weirded out nowxD I met a guy recently on POF who sent me a d**k pick and then after I told him off the next morning he messaged me "I'm sorry, I was drunk. I'm so embarrassed right now wtf".
why isn't there an app for this c,mon all you computer savvy girls you could be rich and help each other out . I always thought Call Kaboom would be a good idea kinda like star 69 but more explody and boomy
Maybe some kind of registry where you can register the creeps user name and any woman on a dating site can check to see if the guy messaging her has sent unsolicited dpics to anyone before.
Load More Replies...Not sure, but I think unless it is sent to a child, it is not a crime.
Load More Replies...it took me long to understand why women are so extremey carefully - it felt mad - nowadays I know how very primitive many men are - well women are as primitive - just differently - we should not emphasize how mad the other sex is but start to see that there are many good people, too
Send him back a picture of a transsexual's d**k as he's wearing women's underwear. Tell him you thought you're swapping d**k pics, so you're showing him yours. Or just tell him his d**k's too small and puny. "My boyfriend's slicker / and thickier and quicker / and longer and stronger than you", as the old dirty limmerick has it.
If it's a transgender woman, use she/her pronouns. & there's nothing wrong or disgusting about being trans! Honestly as a trans person I'm insulted. Nobody considers us potential sexual partners anyway & using us as a shock factor is dehumanizing. Get a life.
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