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Plus-Size Woman Quits Job After Being Told To ‘Cover Her Stomach’ Despite All Of Her Petite Coworkers Wearing Similar Clothes
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Plus-Size Woman Quits Job After Being Told To ‘Cover Her Stomach’ Despite All Of Her Petite Coworkers Wearing Similar Clothes

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When starting a new job, it can be hard to know what exactly to wear unless you’re given a strict dress code. It might be unclear how casual you’re allowed to dress, so the safest way to choose your outfits is to base them off what your co-workers are wearing. If sneakers and jeans are the unspoken uniform of the office, you might as well follow suit, at least in the beginning. And if everyone else is wearing a crop top that reveals their stomach, it is safe to assume that you can wear that too. Unless, of course, your manager has a ridiculous double standard for plus size people.

One woman, Abigayle Canterbury, recently shared on TikTok that she quit her new job after dealing with a fatphobic manager. Her videos have sparked a conversation online about discrimination in the workplace, so below, you can read her whole explanation, as well as an interview between Abigayle and Bored Panda and some of the replies her videos have received. Let us know how you feel about this situation in the comments, and then if you are looking for another piece bringing fatphobia to light, we’ve got the perfect one to read next right here

TikToker Abigayle Canterbury recently quit her job after realizing that only thin employees don’t have to abide by a dress code

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Despite her peers wearing crop tops at work, Abigayle was told by her manager that she needed to cover up

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You can hear Abigayle tell the full story right here

@abigaylecanterbury Why i quit my job at a smoke shop last night .part one. #fatphobia #discrimination #mobilealabama #plusssize #fatshaming #dresschallenge ♬ original sound – AbigayleCanterbury

It’s no secret that being thin is valued in society, as the media has always shown a blatant preference for smaller bodies. But it’s disheartening to know that even in the workplace, having a larger body can lead to discrimination. In fact, one study published in Science Direct even found that 45% of employers were less likely to recruit obese candidates. This same study also found that “obese people are less likely to be regarded as able leaders and had lower starting salaries”. Why do we allow arbitrary factors like the size of our bodies determine what jobs we qualify for? Weight has absolutely no impact on someone’s intelligence, capability and leadership qualities, yet employers maintain prejudices to the detriment of plus size workers.

In one of Abigayle’s follow-up videos, she showed viewers the “controversial” outfit she had been dress coded for

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We reached out to Abigayle on Instagram to hear whether or not any of her co-workers ever acknowledged that she had been treated poorly. Apparently, they were not too concerned, as all they told Abigayle was, “That’s so crazy.” We also asked what the most important thing she’ll look for in her next job is. “Fairness first of all,” Abigayle said. “And either a strict dress code or a dress code with no double standards.”

We then asked if she thinks fatphobia is common in the workplace. “[It is] definitely a very prominent thing in the workplace,” Abigayle says. “It happens so much, and until we start talking about it, nothing will change.” To anyone else who has dealt with similar discrimination, Abigayle says, “Don’t ever settle for a job that can’t give you basic respect. They need employees to run their business, and if they can’t give basic respect to them, why would they hire them in the first place?”

Abigayle even noted what she had been wearing when she was hired

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Lastly, Abigayle added, “I really want to thank every single journalist that took the time to listen to what I had to say. Until we start talking about these social issues, they’re never going to be taken seriously. Nobody deserves to feel bad about THEIR body.”

It is important to bring this issue to light to minimize the power of fatphobia. In the United States, Michigan is the only state out of 50, as well as a handful of cities around the nation, that has outlawed discrimination based on weight. Anywhere else in the country, employees can still be fired for being fat. There are activists fighting to increase civil rights protections for overweight individuals, but it’s unfortunately been a slow process. “My body is not a failure, nor does it need to be fixed,” says Janet Conroy-Quirk, an advocate for a bill in Massachusetts that would make weight-based discrimination illegal in the state. “The systemic flaws and fatphobic mentality that allow weight discrimination are the problem.” 

Abigayle should have never been made to feel uncomfortable about her body, but I’m glad that she can now find a more positive environment to work in. By starting this conversation, she has taken a small step towards ending fatphobia in the workplace, and hopefully soon enough, no one will have to deal with it. Let us know in the comments how you would have responded to her unprofessional manager, and if you have ever been in a similar situation, we’d love to hear how you reacted.  

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Many viewers shared Abigayle’s outrage for the situation, agreeing that she had done nothing wrong

And for the people who felt the need to leave negative comments, Abigail had the perfect reply

@abigaylecanterbury Reply to @deadpool_of_texas ♬ original sound – AbigayleCanterbury

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NsG
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I categorically refuse to ever actually watch a Tiktok, but unfortunately that means I got no sense of tone. Unless the girls she spoke to were affecting sarcasm, there's nothing in their words to suggest they were full of BS. Its possible they were being genuinely empathetic, especially the one who was "sort of dress coded once". How they treated OP during the rest of her time there should also be taken into consideration. I'm not saying she is wrong for feeling hurt, hell no, she's been treated terribly *by her boss*. It just feels a little projection-y to say the entire company was full of BS based only on what has been presented in the text here.

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Eric Mac Fadden
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TikTok is killing my business - A/V productions in general - but I'm obliged to edit these abominations because clients think it will work for them. First Instagram, now this... people are getting dumb. Really dumb.

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Boris Long-Johnson
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the business genuinely doesn’t have a dress code rather than one that isn’t strictly enforced (most businesses in my experience have loads of stuff buried in handbooks etc) then it would seem fair enough. However I would say a crop top may not be appropriate for an office environment but it really depends. I work in an office setting and we’re the scruffiest bunch ever but the line would certainly be drawn with crop tops as well as football tops etc. The key is the business should be consistent - I only skimmed but didn’t see here say others were wearing crop tops.

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I'mNotARoboat
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She said the thinner girls wear this kind of thing all the time and have basically never been "dress coded".

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James G. Currie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While I feel sorry for the lady that posted the article (and honestly have zero issues with how she was dressed), I can honestly state I wish more places would enforce their dress code EVENLY... Can't tell you how many times I've gone into a bank and the female tellers are occasionally dressed as if they are at the bar after work, and the male tellers are wearing dress slacks, dress shirt, tie, and vest.

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Lisa Brown
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've seen just the opposite- women wearing professional and or modest clothing while men walk around in shorts and TShirts and backwards hats. Dude, nobody in the office wNts to see your nasty hairy legs.

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Magda P
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a relatively thin, tall woman and I still wouldn't wear a tight white tank top and tie-dye pants to work, ever. It looks like she was trying to start a fight and making it all about weight when it was really about the ridiculous outfit that no one should be wearing anyway, because hello - ugly!

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Megzymonsta
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately body shape does affect what a person looks like in clothing. I have always been a bigger person and found that some outfits just don't suit all body shapes e.g leggings and a strap top can look nice on some girls but it just makes me look really trashy and I'd never even think about going out to work wearing anything like that although most of my colleagues do. I have to try harder to look presentable which is probably the same for this lady. Her manager should have been more professional about the way he/she approached the situation so this woman definitely has a right to be angry, but I do understand why an outfit like that would look appropriate on a smaller individual but not necessarily for this woman in particular. As I said I'm actually bigger than this woman so I'm not body shaming her, but sometimes being bigger does mean you have to try harder to look presentable and wearing tie dye jeans with a crop top just isn't appropriate for most workplaces

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Lokitti
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Presentable" is subjective - you're trying to police someone's body here. The standards should be the same for anyone, that's the point. Strappy tops only look "trashy" on you because you have internalised fatphobia and that's really sad tbh - I know because I do this to myself. I don't know who told you that we can't wear the same as slimmer girls, but we absolutely can. Just be sure that you're wearing something because you want to and not because someone else wants you to or you're worried what others will think. If that outfit would be acceptable on a slimmer girl, it should be acceptable on her, end of story. If it isn't - that's fatphobia.

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Deidre Westover
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm hung up on the fact that she wore a crop top to an interview, and that they hired her. I wore a suit to my McDonald's interview when I was a teenager.

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Emerald Gal28
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand,if they have problems with plus sized people then why hire plus sizsd people?

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Marina Rocha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They probably don't. They just didn't like one outfit. And in my opinion that outfit is very unflattering. It is not a proper crop and the pants are too tight and not high enough to pull the crop top look. Not to mention the colors. It's just not at all ok. Would have flopped even in a skinny woman, IMO

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Kate Jones
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see anything wrong with what she was wearing if there is truly no dress code. I'm a fat girl... bigger than her... and I can sometimes understand there are certain things I don't think are appropriate for my size in relation to the type of job I have. I'm not going to wear daisy dukes and a bralette at my bank job because that's not appropriate and no one wants to see that. There are some common sense limitations to what that means in relation to how I dress at work. For instance not having a dress code doesn't mean you can show up in underwear. But if the thin girls wore this same outfit would they be penalized, too? That's where you get into discrimination territory. I'm curious as to the 'nicer clothes' comment more than even the fat issue. Is this some upscale clothing store? It sounds to me like the 'boss' was uncomfortable with her weight showing or that her clothes were not 'cool' enough and wanted to comment via her supervisor. Made him/her do the dirty work.

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Lisa Brown
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She looks cute. Really fairly modest by what I've seen other people wear. BUT I would never wear that to work. Yes, the company has a nasty double standard- I have run into that my whole life.

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Daria Z
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh.. that's unfair and clearly a discrimination. Nobody should have to "cover all their body" unless for the health and safety reasons!

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Juan Ghote
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there’s no documented dress code you’ve signed up to the business can’t enforce one. Surely the business has discriminated against this person and essentially forced them to resign through discrimination?

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Lisa Brown
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, but if it's not one of the legally defined groups there is nothing she can do about it.

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Ray Simpson
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1 year ago

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She is fat, I wouldn't want to see her wearing that either, kudos to the boss for telling it like it is

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mind yours
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is a bad comment. what exactly makes you entitled to decide what people should be allowed to wear based on whether you want to look at them? women don't exist to be eye candy for you and to be forced to cover up otherwise. i hope you learn to be kind instead of spreading nastiness for no reason except to make you feel (falsely) superior.

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NsG
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I categorically refuse to ever actually watch a Tiktok, but unfortunately that means I got no sense of tone. Unless the girls she spoke to were affecting sarcasm, there's nothing in their words to suggest they were full of BS. Its possible they were being genuinely empathetic, especially the one who was "sort of dress coded once". How they treated OP during the rest of her time there should also be taken into consideration. I'm not saying she is wrong for feeling hurt, hell no, she's been treated terribly *by her boss*. It just feels a little projection-y to say the entire company was full of BS based only on what has been presented in the text here.

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Eric Mac Fadden
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TikTok is killing my business - A/V productions in general - but I'm obliged to edit these abominations because clients think it will work for them. First Instagram, now this... people are getting dumb. Really dumb.

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Boris Long-Johnson
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the business genuinely doesn’t have a dress code rather than one that isn’t strictly enforced (most businesses in my experience have loads of stuff buried in handbooks etc) then it would seem fair enough. However I would say a crop top may not be appropriate for an office environment but it really depends. I work in an office setting and we’re the scruffiest bunch ever but the line would certainly be drawn with crop tops as well as football tops etc. The key is the business should be consistent - I only skimmed but didn’t see here say others were wearing crop tops.

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I'mNotARoboat
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She said the thinner girls wear this kind of thing all the time and have basically never been "dress coded".

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James G. Currie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While I feel sorry for the lady that posted the article (and honestly have zero issues with how she was dressed), I can honestly state I wish more places would enforce their dress code EVENLY... Can't tell you how many times I've gone into a bank and the female tellers are occasionally dressed as if they are at the bar after work, and the male tellers are wearing dress slacks, dress shirt, tie, and vest.

brwnntwn avatar
Lisa Brown
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've seen just the opposite- women wearing professional and or modest clothing while men walk around in shorts and TShirts and backwards hats. Dude, nobody in the office wNts to see your nasty hairy legs.

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Magda P
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a relatively thin, tall woman and I still wouldn't wear a tight white tank top and tie-dye pants to work, ever. It looks like she was trying to start a fight and making it all about weight when it was really about the ridiculous outfit that no one should be wearing anyway, because hello - ugly!

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Megzymonsta
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately body shape does affect what a person looks like in clothing. I have always been a bigger person and found that some outfits just don't suit all body shapes e.g leggings and a strap top can look nice on some girls but it just makes me look really trashy and I'd never even think about going out to work wearing anything like that although most of my colleagues do. I have to try harder to look presentable which is probably the same for this lady. Her manager should have been more professional about the way he/she approached the situation so this woman definitely has a right to be angry, but I do understand why an outfit like that would look appropriate on a smaller individual but not necessarily for this woman in particular. As I said I'm actually bigger than this woman so I'm not body shaming her, but sometimes being bigger does mean you have to try harder to look presentable and wearing tie dye jeans with a crop top just isn't appropriate for most workplaces

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Lokitti
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Presentable" is subjective - you're trying to police someone's body here. The standards should be the same for anyone, that's the point. Strappy tops only look "trashy" on you because you have internalised fatphobia and that's really sad tbh - I know because I do this to myself. I don't know who told you that we can't wear the same as slimmer girls, but we absolutely can. Just be sure that you're wearing something because you want to and not because someone else wants you to or you're worried what others will think. If that outfit would be acceptable on a slimmer girl, it should be acceptable on her, end of story. If it isn't - that's fatphobia.

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Deidre Westover
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm hung up on the fact that she wore a crop top to an interview, and that they hired her. I wore a suit to my McDonald's interview when I was a teenager.

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Emerald Gal28
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand,if they have problems with plus sized people then why hire plus sizsd people?

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Marina Rocha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They probably don't. They just didn't like one outfit. And in my opinion that outfit is very unflattering. It is not a proper crop and the pants are too tight and not high enough to pull the crop top look. Not to mention the colors. It's just not at all ok. Would have flopped even in a skinny woman, IMO

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Kate Jones
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see anything wrong with what she was wearing if there is truly no dress code. I'm a fat girl... bigger than her... and I can sometimes understand there are certain things I don't think are appropriate for my size in relation to the type of job I have. I'm not going to wear daisy dukes and a bralette at my bank job because that's not appropriate and no one wants to see that. There are some common sense limitations to what that means in relation to how I dress at work. For instance not having a dress code doesn't mean you can show up in underwear. But if the thin girls wore this same outfit would they be penalized, too? That's where you get into discrimination territory. I'm curious as to the 'nicer clothes' comment more than even the fat issue. Is this some upscale clothing store? It sounds to me like the 'boss' was uncomfortable with her weight showing or that her clothes were not 'cool' enough and wanted to comment via her supervisor. Made him/her do the dirty work.

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Lisa Brown
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She looks cute. Really fairly modest by what I've seen other people wear. BUT I would never wear that to work. Yes, the company has a nasty double standard- I have run into that my whole life.

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Daria Z
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh.. that's unfair and clearly a discrimination. Nobody should have to "cover all their body" unless for the health and safety reasons!

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Juan Ghote
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there’s no documented dress code you’ve signed up to the business can’t enforce one. Surely the business has discriminated against this person and essentially forced them to resign through discrimination?

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Lisa Brown
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, but if it's not one of the legally defined groups there is nothing she can do about it.

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Ray Simpson
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1 year ago

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She is fat, I wouldn't want to see her wearing that either, kudos to the boss for telling it like it is

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mind yours
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is a bad comment. what exactly makes you entitled to decide what people should be allowed to wear based on whether you want to look at them? women don't exist to be eye candy for you and to be forced to cover up otherwise. i hope you learn to be kind instead of spreading nastiness for no reason except to make you feel (falsely) superior.

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