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Lady Wonders If She Was Wrong For Blowing Up BF’s “Perfect” Family By Exposing His Cheating To Wife
Cheaters never prosper, or at least that’s what we’d like to believe. The problem is that sometimes people are sly enough to get away with having an affair, unless they meet their match with a person who is willing to go to any lengths to expose them.
This is exactly what a woman did after she found out that the guy she had been seeing for a few weeks was married and had six children. Instead of confronting him, she sent every single sordid detail to his wife, but later worried if she had done the wrong thing.
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It might feel scary to expose someone’s infidelity, especially if doing so might have a strong negative impact on other people
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The poster had just gotten out of a 10-year relationship and was looking to date again, so she was pleasantly surprised when she connected with someone nice
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Things began to seem suspicious when, even after a few weeks, the guy didn’t let her come over to his house, so she decided to investigate with her friends
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The poster was shocked when she got to know that her date had a wife and six kids, so she decided to expose his infidelity to his spouse
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With the help of her friends, the poster crafted a message to send to the man’s wife, and also included screenshots of his dating profile
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The news of the affair must have ruined the couple’s marriage and family life, which made the poster feel guilty about her actions
The OP was definitely not looking for drama when she reentered the dating scene, as she had just gotten out of a long-term relationship. Finding herself suddenly single in her thirties must have been hard, and that’s why she was willing to take things slow and really get to know her dating matches.
According to psychologists, dating again after a breakup is often very difficult because the person might still be dealing with grief over the loss of their relationship. That’s why it’s definitely important to take things slow and resist getting too caught up in the excitement of dating someone else, as that could also lead to some bad decisions.
The OP definitely took the new relationship at her own pace, but after a few weeks of hanging out with the guy, she questioned why she had never been to his house. When he gave her a vague answer about it, that’s when she realized that something was wrong and that she needed to investigate.
It’s incredibly important for a new relationship to have honesty and trust as the foundation, and it seemed to be clearly missing here. That’s why experts state that if you’re keeping a secret or you suspect your partner might have one, it’s important to confront that early on and get everything into the open.
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Luckily, the poster had her friends to help her uncover the man’s secrets, and they got to know that he was actually married and had six kids. The guy had purposely not created any social media so that he could maintain his lies, but his wife had posted many photos of him and their family online.
All of this left the poster shocked, and she decided to take action against the man by revealing everything to his wife. She even included screenshots of his Tinder profile and receipts so that the other woman would have no doubt about the authenticity of the information.
It might feel satisfying to expose a cheater and make them face justice, but relationship advisors state that you should only do that if you know the victim well enough. Otherwise, it could have the potential of causing problems, especially if the cheater is violent. In case you still want to go ahead and tell the victim, you should have rock-solid proof to back up your claims.
Luckily, the OP had all the receipts needed to share with the man’s wife, or else he would have probably gotten away with his bad behavior. It must have definitely been a tough decision to make, especially considering the guy’s entire family would be turned upside down as a result of such news.
Do you think it’s right to expose a cheater, and how do you think someone should go about it? We’d love to hear your thoughts on this story.
Everyone felt that the woman had done the right thing by revealing the man’s infidelity and that he deserved the fallout from it
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Ellinor she/they/elle 3 weeks ago
If you tell someone they're being cheated on, you're never responsible for "ruining a family", the cheater is. If they didn't wanted their family to blow up, they should have remained faithful. If you tell someone that their partner is cheating, you're giving them a chance to decide what they want for their lives, instead of living in a lie and betrayal.
Binky Melnik 3 weeks ago (edited)
Of course, but sooo many women blow up at YOU for telling them! In the old days, we didn’t have much in the way of “receipts,” so they’d scream at you that you’re just trying to tear up a happy family, you b***h! when of course we know that HE’S the one wrecking it by sticking his peen in every available hole. 😕
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Janelle Collard 3 weeks ago
OP did the right thing, telling cheater's wife. Hope the wife divorced him + got child support - 6 kids are hard to support on only one income.
Miss Ann Thrope 3 weeks ago
It wasn't the first time he cheated. Probably will not be the last. He brought it on himself.
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 weeks ago
If you tell someone they're being cheated on, you're never responsible for "ruining a family", the cheater is. If they didn't wanted their family to blow up, they should have remained faithful. If you tell someone that their partner is cheating, you're giving them a chance to decide what they want for their lives, instead of living in a lie and betrayal.
Binky Melnik 3 weeks ago (edited)
Of course, but sooo many women blow up at YOU for telling them! In the old days, we didn’t have much in the way of “receipts,” so they’d scream at you that you’re just trying to tear up a happy family, you b***h! when of course we know that HE’S the one wrecking it by sticking his peen in every available hole. 😕
Load More Replies... Janelle Collard 3 weeks ago
OP did the right thing, telling cheater's wife. Hope the wife divorced him + got child support - 6 kids are hard to support on only one income.
Miss Ann Thrope 3 weeks ago
It wasn't the first time he cheated. Probably will not be the last. He brought it on himself.
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