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The savage art of the comeback is something that we should all take the time and dedication to master. There are very few things in life as satisfying as completely and utterly decimating someone with your wit, your snappiness, and your banter. And if you throw some good old-fashioned logic and common sense into the mix? Whew, you’re a legend.

The place that celebrates these “well-constructed put-downs, comebacks, and counter-arguments” is the legendary ‘Murdered By Words’ subreddit. Boasting a whopping 2.5 million members, r/MurderedByWords shares the best comebacks that we all wish we came up with ourselves. And, well, during the actual arguments, not days later while we’re shampooing our hair in the shower.

One of the moderators helping manage the vast r/MurderedByWords community answered some of my questions about the community. "The way we see it, a murder should (but doesn't always have to) be more than a quick response or retort. The best murders are well-constructed, thought-out responses that leave the opening argument completely without any ability to reply. In other words, their point has been totally demolished," the mod explained to Bored Panda.

"Now, obviously there's more than one way to murder with words, and sometimes a quick rapier thrust or stab to the heart (a short, swift reply) can be just as deadly as a drawn-out murder, and you'll frequently see both types in this sub," they added. Scroll down for the moderator's insights about how they and their colleagues tackle the challenges that come with managing such a large online community.

Check out the best online verbal put-downs, upvote the ones that impressed you the most, and be sure to give r/MurderedByWords a follow if you’re a fan of their stuff. When you’re done with this article, you’ll find some more inspiration for your future epic comebacks by checking out our previous features of the subreddit here, here, and here. Somebody call the police and the coroner because these ‘word-murders’ are out of control.

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Women Aren't People, Apparently

Women Aren't People, Apparently

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The moderator representing r/MurderedByWords shared with me that they have a very thorough vetting system in place for new mods. "We manage the community by being a tight-knit group of moderators who are all carefully vetted before being given the position, to ensure the stability of the subreddit and that good content gets through," they said. However, it's not just the mods who decide whether or not a comeback can be classified as a 'murder.' That honor is also given to the community members themselves.

"Overall, we believe in letting the subreddit determine what is or isn't a murder, and try to step in or remove posts only when the rules are broken or we see the same post for the gazillionth time," the mod explained.

According to the moderator, the community has its own challenges, just like any other large subreddit. "Every single post will always have someone who says, 'Not a murder,' 'This sub is dying/dead,' 'Mods suck,' etc. That comes with the territory of any subreddit, from smallest to largest," they told Bored Panda that these sorts of comments are completely unavoidable, no matter what the community might be. However, a bigger issue is... politics.

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Far Too Many People See The Answer To This As Being "Yes"

Far Too Many People See The Answer To This As Being "Yes"

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"Another challenge that came up was when we decided before the US Presidential Elections to ban politics from the sub (there is a sticky at the top of the subreddit outlining what is/isn't allowed). Somehow, we managed to have both sides of the political spectrum pissed off at us for that one. Democrats complaining we had caved to the Republicans who kept getting 'owned,' and Republicans complaining because this was one big left-wing [echo chamber] and now they couldn't even respond with their own posts. We then made the ban permanent, but we still have to remove plenty of posts which fit the criteria for the no-politics rule."

But at the core of it all are practical challenges like finding ways to keep the subreddit growing and full of fresh content that will keep redditors happy. "We're lucky in that we frequently create posts that reach the front page and receive tens of thousands of upvotes (many have even passed the 100k upvote mark), which in turn helps draw attention to the sub, which creates more content, etc."

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The Media Makes It To Be A Feel Good Story Over A Dystopian Nightmare

The Media Makes It To Be A Feel Good Story Over A Dystopian Nightmare

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You’re An Asstrovert

You’re An Asstrovert

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Heidi Anoni
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is my choice as well. What is wrong with that? I still function well in public.

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Neil Bidle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Extroverts have lots of friends, introverts have a couple of very good friends. Quality over quantity.

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Hafida
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am an extrovert, my hole life i had and have 1 friend (by choice). Extrovert do know a lot of people but doesn’t make them a friend.

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QueenMiri
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Amen. Extrovert is not the default setting. It really annoys me.

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Butternut DerpFarts
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m introvert. I HAVE FRIENDS. wow big shocker tell the news an introvert has friends!

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BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gee, thanks fo making me feel like garbage over something about myself I can't really control.

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Pumpkin Spice
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm an ambivert, I switch back and forth. Hate people but need them to survive.

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UncleRussian
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't listen to this asstrovert, there are nice extroverts out there who can help introverts feel more comfortable with people

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deathrose
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here's what you don't understand, I'm fine being around people I just don't want to. I don't want people invading my personal space, walking in my home unannounced, pressuring me into social gatherings because "I need to get out more." Me being introverted is does NOT mean I have social anxiety because I don't. I can public speak just fine, converse with new people without an intermediary, decide on appropriate clothes for myself. What I need are friends that understand that I just don't want to. You are perpetrating the same "extrovertion is the only way to live narrative." by saying that you "help introverts feel more comfortable with people" Just accept that introverts for who they are. A lot of them are easily pressured into social situations just to please their friends. Introversion ≠ social anxiety.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Extroverts recharge by being around others, introverts recuperate through solitude, and asstroverts dump out their mean, stanky opinions on Twitter, I guess?

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JewelLapoole
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If people say that introverts are the problem, then those people don't deserve hundreds of friends,,

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Faith Hurst
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How many "friends" does this introvert have? How many people know the real you? Your hopes? Your dreams? Your weaknesses? You have people to party with. You can buy that. You can go to a club and pretend to have that. You don't have friends.

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Angeline Shalyn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have zero friends and I have a great personality, but the reason I have no friends is due to extreme social anxiety

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Oliver
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This now lives rent free in my head. And I’m an ambivert

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DotC
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never bashed introverts for not having friends. I used to be one in school. Most of my friends are shy, socially anxious, socially awkward or social but get exhausted by social interaction. Unfortunately, I am an extrovert going through a divorce, pandemic and job search. I needed my support system but they all leaned into the lockdown like it was a gift and I am stuck on my own. I miss my friends. I am starved for social interaction.

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Jenn Pinnau
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We do have friends... Very few... Thouroughly selected... And we don't need to see them every day, week, month... If you're not one of them, that's no reason to bash out. You just didn't meet the requirements

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Lisa Chambers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think far too many people use those words as labels when they are clearly do not understand the true meaning of them. Also see Swagma. ew

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TimesNewLogan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So far, I've never murdered anybody, robbed anybody, raped anybody, beat anybody, or lost a single job. Where does the problem come in, Swagma?

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Geri Taran
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ASSTROVERT, Hmmm, what a great new vocabulary word for the dregs of our society.

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Chris Maddock
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or as I say, an egotist. Asstrovert does sound better though. LOL

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Shelley DuVal
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have many friends because I don't want to have many friends. I prefer a few close friends and the rest can send me texts.

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Mike Rodrick
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People will always need someone to bash. It makes them feel better about themselves. Think trump.

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Fencat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I might have missed something, that's got nothing to do about being an introvert. being an introvert does not mean not having friends. That's how I read Swagma Male's post.

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Cortland Richmond
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? So autism means all of us who are is a "PROBLEM?" That sounds unfriendly enough for this one.

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Mark Johansen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a strange comment. Why am I a "problem" because I don't have many friends? What if I just like to be by myself? How does it hurt you that I don't particular care about having a lot of friends? If you desperately want to be my friend, call me.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That word just introduced us to the secrets of the personality decription words ending with '...vert'...

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Unnamed Hooman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I WAS and extrovert, but now I am an ambivert (in between the two), because I discovered these things called ‘Personal space’ (and how much I want people out of it), and ‘Tiredness’.

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Casey B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As an introvert with no friends, sometimes its done by subconscious design. I lost my two closest friends this year, one to covid and the other, my best friend, to colon cancer. I don't intend to let anyone get that close again.

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Craig Reynolds
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Asstrovert has been permanently assigned to unallocated memory...

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Kay Lee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've seen ppl calling others introverts just because they don't wanna be with that person lol

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But he didn't bash introverts. He bashed people who don't have friends. Still wrong, but the reply isn't accurate.

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Nearly two years ago, I had a friendly chat with redditor Xor50, who’d been one of the moderators helping run r/MurderedByWords. They told me a bit about the community that has been running since December 2016, the type of content the subreddit features (and how it differs from similar subreddits like r/clevercomebacks), and how to give your put-down more substance.

“A ‘real murder’ in terms of this subreddit would be [this]: A murder should be a response to something or someone that totally, for lack of a better word, destroys them. They are, of course, subjective, and should be more or less based on fact,” Xor50 told Bored Panda previously.

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Am I So Out Of Touch? No, It's The Children Who Are Wrong

Am I So Out Of Touch? No, It's The Children Who Are Wrong

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“What is the difference between a ‘murder’ and ‘burn’ anyway? The mod team and even the MBW community has struggled for over a year to try and define the difference. It’s quite subjective and nearly an ‘I know it when I see it!’ situation, however, there are some generalities,” the redditor explained that there have been debates about the details of what constitutes a ‘murder.’

“Murders tend to be longer. It’s nearly impossible to ‘murder’ someone inside of a tweet. It’s just not long enough. You can burn them pretty good yes but a ‘murder’ is far more complete,” they said.

“Basically, anything that you would think is a witticism, one-liner, snappy comeback, or hot take is going to be a burn. Those may be a better fit for /r/clevercomebacks. Murders tend to be long-form, taking a minute or several to read, and thoroughly deconstruct an argument and/or the person making it.”

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Xor50 added that your personal passion for a topic can help inspire you to find a clever way to put down someone’s bad arguments. “Think about a topic you’re really passionate about and imagine you’re talking to an idiot who just doesn’t get it. That’s how I imagine it,” they said.

The art of the comeback isn’t out of reach for us, no matter how epic and unreachable some of these slap-backs and roasts might seem. 

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Classic Karen

Classic Karen

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a good response, that I went and made popcorn and sat in my comfy chair.

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British comedy writer and stand-up comedian Ariane Sherine explained to me during an earlier interview what the most important parts of a comeback are. “I think the most important thing with comebacks is speed. Even if the joke isn't a total zinger, people will be impressed by your quickfire response," she told Bored Panda.

According to Ariane, most stand-up comics actually have a “repertoire of comebacks” that they rely on while on the stage. This way, they can be prepared for hecklers and (at least some) unexpected situations. There’s a lot of prep that goes into being a good comedian!

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“We're not all as fast and talented as it seems! But if we're doing stand-up, our own routines will be original—it's just heckle putdowns that might not be," she said.

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How Dare We Give You The Correct Amount Of Changes

How Dare We Give You The Correct Amount Of Changes

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Bit Of A Stretch

Bit Of A Stretch

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Michelle M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's with people and body hair? If you like body hair, good for you. If you don't, also good for you. No need to body shame someone for something that occurs naturally. It's like insulting someone for having legs. I'm looking at you, female beauty standards

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Seriously What Is Wrong With You

Seriously What Is Wrong With You

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Ariane revealed to Bored Panda that comedy professionals build up emotional resilience with time and experience.

“Heckle putdowns are generally shared among comics so there's no code of honor when it comes to using them (but you mustn't nick original stand-up material!),” Ariane told me where we can find some inspiration for clever comebacks.

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Good Luck To The Women In Your Future

Good Luck To The Women In Your Future

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dear men who consider this a good advice: I agree, please stay the f**k away from us.

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Entitled Karen Getting Stabbed By Words

Entitled Karen Getting Stabbed By Words

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People think they have the right to people because they see them on TV

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The comedy writer also pointed out that comebacks can either be spontaneous or more planned out (if you’ve got the time), depending on the actual comic. 

"It [the comeback] needs to be very fast, well-timed, and take people by surprise as well as being clever, witty, and immediately understandable,” she said, adding that it’s relatively rare in her experience to have spontaneous eruptions of genius all the time. “That's relatively rare in my experience. I'm sure many other comics are more natural than I am!"

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Research Before You Sprouts Anything On Social Media

Research Before You Sprouts Anything On Social Media

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Better Check Those Facts

Better Check Those Facts

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Handle With Care

Handle With Care

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'As a man, the only emotion you should show is forest hack-saw domination', said, a conservative.

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Why Go Out Of Your Way To Be An As**ole?

Why Go Out Of Your Way To Be An As**ole?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admit, I have a pretty good life ... but I've suffered chronic depression since I was a kid. There's no logic to depression.

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This Doubles As A Til About The Spanish Anthem

This Doubles As A Til About The Spanish Anthem

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#30

Once Wasn't Enough, He Came Back For More

Once Wasn't Enough, He Came Back For More

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Rip Sportsball Fan

Rip Sportsball Fan

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I completely support LGBTQ rights because LGBTQ people are the same as us heterosexuals, they just have different romantic preferences. They don't deserve to be treated as less than us...

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God vs. Humanity

God vs. Humanity

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not just that, his first 2 people were cancelled for eating a fruit he made

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Trying To Gatekeep Conversations

Trying To Gatekeep Conversations

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the actual f*ck is the original poster thinking? This must be one of the stupidest things I have ever read.

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I've Had A 32" TV For Longer Than I'd Like To Admit

I've Had A 32" TV For Longer Than I'd Like To Admit

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a difference between “old rich” and “new rich” here. Old rich (families that are wealthy for many generations) don’t usually show off.

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Oh, No! Anything But That!

Oh, No! Anything But That!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

US heath insurance is a scam... And textbooks are a scam... And minimum wage is a scam... Basically everything is a scam

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The Ol' Switcheroo

The Ol' Switcheroo

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still dont get it, why some people think that vaccination is evil, and but mumbo-jumbo things offered on the internet will work to cure cancer.

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But How Will They Make Money If They Can't Take Advantage Of People?!??

But How Will They Make Money If They Can't Take Advantage Of People?!??

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What Are Crab Cakes?

What Are Crab Cakes?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"anyone who isn't within walking distance of a school shooting"...

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Doctor Of Reading?

Doctor Of Reading?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like the symptoms of covid...so people without vaccination tend to get covid symptoms ... Who'd ave guessed?

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I Don’t Really Know If This Counts But..

I Don’t Really Know If This Counts But..

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) why would you be this pretentious in the first place 2) why would you be so pretentious on a god damn memes page...

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Just So We’re Clear

Just So We’re Clear

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It's Almost As If

It's Almost As If

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am in favor of unions, but... They need to protect the integrity of a profession and not just the workers. Police unions shouldn't protect dirty cops. Teacher/education unions shouldn't protect abusive staff.

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You Can't Justify Her Actions No Matter What

You Can't Justify Her Actions No Matter What

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was trying to create a new line of skin care products...to sell in baskets....

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I Once Knew A Peacock

I Once Knew A Peacock

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