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The savage art of the comeback is something that we should all take the time and dedication to master. There are very few things in life as satisfying as completely and utterly decimating someone with your wit, your snappiness, and your banter. And if you throw some good old-fashioned logic and common sense into the mix? Whew, you’re a legend.

The place that celebrates these “well-constructed put-downs, comebacks, and counter-arguments” is the legendary ‘Murdered By Words’ subreddit. Boasting a whopping 2.5 million members, r/MurderedByWords shares the best comebacks that we all wish we came up with ourselves. And, well, during the actual arguments, not days later while we’re shampooing our hair in the shower.

One of the moderators helping manage the vast r/MurderedByWords community answered some of my questions about the community. "The way we see it, a murder should (but doesn't always have to) be more than a quick response or retort. The best murders are well-constructed, thought-out responses that leave the opening argument completely without any ability to reply. In other words, their point has been totally demolished," the mod explained to Bored Panda.

"Now, obviously there's more than one way to murder with words, and sometimes a quick rapier thrust or stab to the heart (a short, swift reply) can be just as deadly as a drawn-out murder, and you'll frequently see both types in this sub," they added. Scroll down for the moderator's insights about how they and their colleagues tackle the challenges that come with managing such a large online community.

Check out the best online verbal put-downs, upvote the ones that impressed you the most, and be sure to give r/MurderedByWords a follow if you’re a fan of their stuff. When you’re done with this article, you’ll find some more inspiration for your future epic comebacks by checking out our previous features of the subreddit here, here, and here. Somebody call the police and the coroner because these ‘word-murders’ are out of control.

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Women Aren't People, Apparently

Women Aren't People, Apparently

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The moderator representing r/MurderedByWords shared with me that they have a very thorough vetting system in place for new mods. "We manage the community by being a tight-knit group of moderators who are all carefully vetted before being given the position, to ensure the stability of the subreddit and that good content gets through," they said. However, it's not just the mods who decide whether or not a comeback can be classified as a 'murder.' That honor is also given to the community members themselves.

"Overall, we believe in letting the subreddit determine what is or isn't a murder, and try to step in or remove posts only when the rules are broken or we see the same post for the gazillionth time," the mod explained.

According to the moderator, the community has its own challenges, just like any other large subreddit. "Every single post will always have someone who says, 'Not a murder,' 'This sub is dying/dead,' 'Mods suck,' etc. That comes with the territory of any subreddit, from smallest to largest," they told Bored Panda that these sorts of comments are completely unavoidable, no matter what the community might be. However, a bigger issue is... politics.

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Far Too Many People See The Answer To This As Being "Yes"

Far Too Many People See The Answer To This As Being "Yes"

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"Another challenge that came up was when we decided before the US Presidential Elections to ban politics from the sub (there is a sticky at the top of the subreddit outlining what is/isn't allowed). Somehow, we managed to have both sides of the political spectrum pissed off at us for that one. Democrats complaining we had caved to the Republicans who kept getting 'owned,' and Republicans complaining because this was one big left-wing [echo chamber] and now they couldn't even respond with their own posts. We then made the ban permanent, but we still have to remove plenty of posts which fit the criteria for the no-politics rule."

But at the core of it all are practical challenges like finding ways to keep the subreddit growing and full of fresh content that will keep redditors happy. "We're lucky in that we frequently create posts that reach the front page and receive tens of thousands of upvotes (many have even passed the 100k upvote mark), which in turn helps draw attention to the sub, which creates more content, etc."

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The Media Makes It To Be A Feel Good Story Over A Dystopian Nightmare

The Media Makes It To Be A Feel Good Story Over A Dystopian Nightmare

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You’re An Asstrovert

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Nearly two years ago, I had a friendly chat with redditor Xor50, who’d been one of the moderators helping run r/MurderedByWords. They told me a bit about the community that has been running since December 2016, the type of content the subreddit features (and how it differs from similar subreddits like r/clevercomebacks), and how to give your put-down more substance.

“A ‘real murder’ in terms of this subreddit would be [this]: A murder should be a response to something or someone that totally, for lack of a better word, destroys them. They are, of course, subjective, and should be more or less based on fact,” Xor50 told Bored Panda previously.

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Am I So Out Of Touch? No, It's The Children Who Are Wrong

Am I So Out Of Touch? No, It's The Children Who Are Wrong

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“What is the difference between a ‘murder’ and ‘burn’ anyway? The mod team and even the MBW community has struggled for over a year to try and define the difference. It’s quite subjective and nearly an ‘I know it when I see it!’ situation, however, there are some generalities,” the redditor explained that there have been debates about the details of what constitutes a ‘murder.’

“Murders tend to be longer. It’s nearly impossible to ‘murder’ someone inside of a tweet. It’s just not long enough. You can burn them pretty good yes but a ‘murder’ is far more complete,” they said.

“Basically, anything that you would think is a witticism, one-liner, snappy comeback, or hot take is going to be a burn. Those may be a better fit for /r/clevercomebacks. Murders tend to be long-form, taking a minute or several to read, and thoroughly deconstruct an argument and/or the person making it.”

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Columbus Day

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I Like The Second Guy’s Energy

I Like The Second Guy’s Energy

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Context and Consent - two very important words that start with a C

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Roxy Eastland
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude, any type of domination has to be discussed before hand so everyone involved knows what's okay and what isn't. The rule is *always* that the submissive is the one in charge. I don't believe for a moment that you both discussed how she'd like you to make her feel terrible about herself, unsafe, and demeaned.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And if you don't know the difference you shouldn't be interacting with women until you do.

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tw 72
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What this says to me is that Carlos isn't participating in sexual dominance for her pleasure - he just likes beating her.

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Jo Choto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Consensual versus non-consensual. Shame you haven't figured out the difference.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sexual domination is about trust. don't betray that trust by yelling at them.

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New Prometheus
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again I am amazed for the dialogue some people actually have publicly. The first post - what's the point? Even if you think that, why would you say that? God, people really need to shut the f**k up.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Learn it b*tch! argh people like this, didnt you study general knowledge in the school of every f*ck*n day life? its so easy, you live it everyday, take a pen and notebook and start taking notes because you're failing hard now at what you live everyday! #commonSenseisNotCommon

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Eric S.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm just terrified someone like Carlos who seems to have choked enough girls to be able to make statistics, is roaming the streets freely right now.

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Yort
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also the sex thing involves their consent, whereas verbal abuse does not.

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Quinn Alexander
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The difference is this little thing called Consent. It doesn't effing matter what she does or doesn't like and how arbitrary it is, maybe she has eclectic tastes, point is if she doesn't consent, its not your effing problem.

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DotC
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah, that was a weird take. I don't like either situation but they are not related.

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Lisa Chambers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first: What a strange thing to post at all. Then: Okay place and time. Now: This conversation feels like a discussion board for rapists.

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TimesNewLogan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The key difference, is CONSENT. If they tell you to call them a "dirty whore" in bed, it's different from calling them a "dirty whore" elsewhere.

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elfin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is someone like you, who chokes, kits and yells at girls and seems to be proud of himself for it?

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Linn Shonta
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What rock did this stupid person crawl out from under?? He needs to find his way back and crawl under it again!!😳🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, any man who confuses sex play with anger and abuse, needs to be avoided for sure!

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Katinka Min
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am a bit shocked, that the guy doesn't know the difference between playtime in the bedroom and how you treat a person in real life.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Note to guys: Some of us gals like a little smack on the butt and to be tied up, but yelling at us for no good reason is down right abusive. The smack we will consent to, the yelling NO.

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Tanima Anand
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A perfect example of the difference between education and literacy !!

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Susan Bosse
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lord. That's a friend's son's name. I had to go double check this wasnt him. Whew!! It's not. Omg I was about to die.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

is it so difficult for someone to understand the difference?

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Xor50 added that your personal passion for a topic can help inspire you to find a clever way to put down someone’s bad arguments. “Think about a topic you’re really passionate about and imagine you’re talking to an idiot who just doesn’t get it. That’s how I imagine it,” they said.

The art of the comeback isn’t out of reach for us, no matter how epic and unreachable some of these slap-backs and roasts might seem. 

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Classic Karen

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a good response, that I went and made popcorn and sat in my comfy chair.

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British comedy writer and stand-up comedian Ariane Sherine explained to me during an earlier interview what the most important parts of a comeback are. “I think the most important thing with comebacks is speed. Even if the joke isn't a total zinger, people will be impressed by your quickfire response," she told Bored Panda.

According to Ariane, most stand-up comics actually have a “repertoire of comebacks” that they rely on while on the stage. This way, they can be prepared for hecklers and (at least some) unexpected situations. There’s a lot of prep that goes into being a good comedian!

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“We're not all as fast and talented as it seems! But if we're doing stand-up, our own routines will be original—it's just heckle putdowns that might not be," she said.

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How Dare We Give You The Correct Amount Of Changes

How Dare We Give You The Correct Amount Of Changes

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Bit Of A Stretch

Bit Of A Stretch

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's with people and body hair? If you like body hair, good for you. If you don't, also good for you. No need to body shame someone for something that occurs naturally. It's like insulting someone for having legs. I'm looking at you, female beauty standards

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Seriously What Is Wrong With You

Seriously What Is Wrong With You

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Ariane revealed to Bored Panda that comedy professionals build up emotional resilience with time and experience.

“Heckle putdowns are generally shared among comics so there's no code of honor when it comes to using them (but you mustn't nick original stand-up material!),” Ariane told me where we can find some inspiration for clever comebacks.

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Good Luck To The Women In Your Future

Good Luck To The Women In Your Future

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dear men who consider this a good advice: I agree, please stay the f**k away from us.

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Entitled Karen Getting Stabbed By Words

Entitled Karen Getting Stabbed By Words

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People think they have the right to people because they see them on TV

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The comedy writer also pointed out that comebacks can either be spontaneous or more planned out (if you’ve got the time), depending on the actual comic. 

"It [the comeback] needs to be very fast, well-timed, and take people by surprise as well as being clever, witty, and immediately understandable,” she said, adding that it’s relatively rare in her experience to have spontaneous eruptions of genius all the time. “That's relatively rare in my experience. I'm sure many other comics are more natural than I am!"

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Research Before You Sprouts Anything On Social Media

Research Before You Sprouts Anything On Social Media

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Better Check Those Facts

Better Check Those Facts

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Handle With Care

Handle With Care

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'As a man, the only emotion you should show is forest hack-saw domination', said, a conservative.

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Why Go Out Of Your Way To Be An As**ole?

Why Go Out Of Your Way To Be An As**ole?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admit, I have a pretty good life ... but I've suffered chronic depression since I was a kid. There's no logic to depression.

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This Doubles As A Til About The Spanish Anthem

This Doubles As A Til About The Spanish Anthem

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Once Wasn't Enough, He Came Back For More

Once Wasn't Enough, He Came Back For More

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Rip Sportsball Fan

Rip Sportsball Fan

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I completely support LGBTQ rights because LGBTQ people are the same as us heterosexuals, they just have different romantic preferences. They don't deserve to be treated as less than us...

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God vs. Humanity

God vs. Humanity

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not just that, his first 2 people were cancelled for eating a fruit he made

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Trying To Gatekeep Conversations

Trying To Gatekeep Conversations

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the actual f*ck is the original poster thinking? This must be one of the stupidest things I have ever read.

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I've Had A 32" TV For Longer Than I'd Like To Admit

I've Had A 32" TV For Longer Than I'd Like To Admit

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a difference between “old rich” and “new rich” here. Old rich (families that are wealthy for many generations) don’t usually show off.

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Oh, No! Anything But That!

Oh, No! Anything But That!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

US heath insurance is a scam... And textbooks are a scam... And minimum wage is a scam... Basically everything is a scam

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The Ol' Switcheroo

The Ol' Switcheroo

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still dont get it, why some people think that vaccination is evil, and but mumbo-jumbo things offered on the internet will work to cure cancer.

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But How Will They Make Money If They Can't Take Advantage Of People?!??

But How Will They Make Money If They Can't Take Advantage Of People?!??

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What Are Crab Cakes?

What Are Crab Cakes?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"anyone who isn't within walking distance of a school shooting"...

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Doctor Of Reading?

Doctor Of Reading?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like the symptoms of covid...so people without vaccination tend to get covid symptoms ... Who'd ave guessed?

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I Don’t Really Know If This Counts But..

I Don’t Really Know If This Counts But..

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) why would you be this pretentious in the first place 2) why would you be so pretentious on a god damn memes page...

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Just So We’re Clear

Just So We’re Clear

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It's Almost As If

It's Almost As If

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am in favor of unions, but... They need to protect the integrity of a profession and not just the workers. Police unions shouldn't protect dirty cops. Teacher/education unions shouldn't protect abusive staff.

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You Can't Justify Her Actions No Matter What

You Can't Justify Her Actions No Matter What

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was trying to create a new line of skin care products...to sell in baskets....

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I Once Knew A Peacock

I Once Knew A Peacock

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