The savage art of the comeback is something that we should all take the time and dedication to master. There are very few things in life as satisfying as completely and utterly decimating someone with your wit, your snappiness, and your banter. And if you throw some good old-fashioned logic and common sense into the mix? Whew, you’re a legend.
The place that celebrates these “well-constructed put-downs, comebacks, and counter-arguments” is the legendary ‘Murdered By Words’ subreddit. Boasting a whopping 2.5 million members, r/MurderedByWords shares the best comebacks that we all wish we came up with ourselves. And, well, during the actual arguments, not days later while we’re shampooing our hair in the shower.
One of the moderators helping manage the vast r/MurderedByWords community answered some of my questions about the community. "The way we see it, a murder should (but doesn't always have to) be more than a quick response or retort. The best murders are well-constructed, thought-out responses that leave the opening argument completely without any ability to reply. In other words, their point has been totally demolished," the mod explained to Bored Panda.
"Now, obviously there's more than one way to murder with words, and sometimes a quick rapier thrust or stab to the heart (a short, swift reply) can be just as deadly as a drawn-out murder, and you'll frequently see both types in this sub," they added. Scroll down for the moderator's insights about how they and their colleagues tackle the challenges that come with managing such a large online community.
Check out the best online verbal put-downs, upvote the ones that impressed you the most, and be sure to give r/MurderedByWords a follow if you’re a fan of their stuff. When you’re done with this article, you’ll find some more inspiration for your future epic comebacks by checking out our previous features of the subreddit here, here, and here. Somebody call the police and the coroner because these ‘word-murders’ are out of control.
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Red Shirts Everywhere...
I Think This Belongs Here Too
Women Aren't People, Apparently
The moderator representing r/MurderedByWords shared with me that they have a very thorough vetting system in place for new mods. "We manage the community by being a tight-knit group of moderators who are all carefully vetted before being given the position, to ensure the stability of the subreddit and that good content gets through," they said. However, it's not just the mods who decide whether or not a comeback can be classified as a 'murder.' That honor is also given to the community members themselves.
"Overall, we believe in letting the subreddit determine what is or isn't a murder, and try to step in or remove posts only when the rules are broken or we see the same post for the gazillionth time," the mod explained.
According to the moderator, the community has its own challenges, just like any other large subreddit. "Every single post will always have someone who says, 'Not a murder,' 'This sub is dying/dead,' 'Mods suck,' etc. That comes with the territory of any subreddit, from smallest to largest," they told Bored Panda that these sorts of comments are completely unavoidable, no matter what the community might be. However, a bigger issue is... politics.
Yes, The Answer Is Yes
Who Doesn't Love Irony?
Far Too Many People See The Answer To This As Being "Yes"
"Another challenge that came up was when we decided before the US Presidential Elections to ban politics from the sub (there is a sticky at the top of the subreddit outlining what is/isn't allowed). Somehow, we managed to have both sides of the political spectrum pissed off at us for that one. Democrats complaining we had caved to the Republicans who kept getting 'owned,' and Republicans complaining because this was one big left-wing [echo chamber] and now they couldn't even respond with their own posts. We then made the ban permanent, but we still have to remove plenty of posts which fit the criteria for the no-politics rule."
But at the core of it all are practical challenges like finding ways to keep the subreddit growing and full of fresh content that will keep redditors happy. "We're lucky in that we frequently create posts that reach the front page and receive tens of thousands of upvotes (many have even passed the 100k upvote mark), which in turn helps draw attention to the sub, which creates more content, etc."
The Media Makes It To Be A Feel Good Story Over A Dystopian Nightmare
You’re An Asstrovert
Let’s All Make A Pledge
Nearly two years ago, I had a friendly chat with redditor Xor50, who’d been one of the moderators helping run r/MurderedByWords. They told me a bit about the community that has been running since December 2016, the type of content the subreddit features (and how it differs from similar subreddits like r/clevercomebacks), and how to give your put-down more substance.
“A ‘real murder’ in terms of this subreddit would be [this]: A murder should be a response to something or someone that totally, for lack of a better word, destroys them. They are, of course, subjective, and should be more or less based on fact,” Xor50 told Bored Panda previously.
Don't B Confused
In the U.S., there's a government service that can help low-income people get cell phones, as phones are such an essential part of the modern world (being accessible for emergencies, getting a job, doing the record keeping required for many types of government benefits, letting the kid access the internet for schoolwork, etc.). Even so, there are still ignorant people who made snide comments about folks using food banks and having cell phones. You can definitely be poor and have a cell phone.
Many churches and missions provide homeless with working cell phones so they can call emergency service if necessary. Being on the street with drug addicts and mentally unstable people has it's dangers. One homeless man I know was attacked by a pit bull one week and then stabbed the next week trying to defend a homeless woman that was being assaulted.
I had to use food stamps after my son was born. No shame there. A friend posted on FB about how she didn't understand someone needing food stamps while having an iPhone. We lived in different cities so it wasn't me to whom she was referring. Um. Hello. Needing food stamps didn't mean I needed to sell a paid for iPhone and break my contract with Sprint and buy a cheap phone and pay month-by-month. I replied to her comment with the above. Then the backtracking started. Especially when I replied that I was currently on food stamps and had no intention of going out and buying a different phone or changing my cell phone plan that I'd had for a number of years. I have also worked since I was 16 and paid into the system for 17 years at that point. I have no shame in receiving assistance temporarily. She ended up deleting her post and called me...on said iphone...to apologize. This was way before "woke" was a thing. Lol
You taught her something really important that day. I'm glad she apologized, she was clearly open to learning.
Load More Replies...You know homeless people can have relatives too. Relatives who may not have the resources to do much more than pay for a cellphone so their homeless relatives can call if they need help, and so they can hopefully locate them if they go missing.
Homeless people can get pre-paid cellphones from shelters or the local welfare dept in the USA. That way they can use the cell phone for emergencies, or even look for a job.
There are programs for low income/no income people to get free cell phones from the government. They're pretty basic, but it's still a phone.
Many homeless people make more per hour than you do at your minimum wage job
Obama gave out millions of free cell phones to the homeless and needy in 2012.
These feckers with their BS attacks on the poor ! Like Bill O'Reily saying "they have refrigerators !" like what are they supposed to do bury their food in the yard ?
My phone cost like $140 new and at minimum costs like $10 for service every month (it’s technically a cheaper monthly fee to buy larger packages). I use Tracfone and their cheapest phones are like $10. My rent is $1200. Math.
Those people don't know math and don't care to learn. They're just out to look down on others. Alos about your rent: ouchie!
Load More Replies...You need to know of all people that phones have become a need in the modern era, I mean cause of your reply, probably someone can notice and buy this individual a house and now you have something good coming out of your jerkness lol hate fools like you Alan.
If I were homeless, after food the first thing I'd get is a phone. Is dangerous on the streets! Next I'd try to save up for a car. Even if it didn't run at all at least it could provide some sort of shelter and locking doors.
People in the US who have little or no income can qualify for LifeLine, a program that will give you discounted home phone service or free mobile service that comes with a free basic model smartphone. If they have no address they can go to a social service agency for help. Phones ARE essential!
Um free phone programs exist. Not necessarily to help the person, but to give the government more coverage to access what people are doing and saying.
My county gives away free cell phones so people can contact their loved ones. I think it has pretty limited options.
In two words: "OBAMA PHONE." *(It's FREE- providing you can show you are on/ have id and some 'assistance.' i.e., Medi-Cal, etc.)
In the UK you cannot apply for jobs, homes, welfare benefits etc unless it's online most of the time
Plus, do some governments not give them out to homeless people so they can be contacted for doctors appointments and access information they might need?
A mobile phone is probably his only link/means of contacting the outside world.
totally ignores the fact that people own things before becoming homeless... when someone becomes homeless, there isn't a TSA style security line to pass through were you have to turn in your belongings.
People with low and no income can often get a basic cellphone for about $15 or free through service agencies.
How did he get a cell phone without an address? There are agencies that allow people experiencing homelessness to use the agencies address. This allows them to then get lost/stolen ID back, to have a phone number to get an apartment, or a job to get government mail like rebate cheques or welfare so they can then get an apartment.
Here’s the link to the whole thread… https://twitter.com/antoeknee407/status/1391940595418021890?s=21
Given how many business have chargers available it's not really that difficult to find a place to charge it.
Load More Replies...And you think the whole $25 you spend a month on a pre-paid burner phone will help you get a "roof" faster? In what universe?
Load More Replies...More C-19 Experts..
Am I So Out Of Touch? No, It's The Children Who Are Wrong
“What is the difference between a ‘murder’ and ‘burn’ anyway? The mod team and even the MBW community has struggled for over a year to try and define the difference. It’s quite subjective and nearly an ‘I know it when I see it!’ situation, however, there are some generalities,” the redditor explained that there have been debates about the details of what constitutes a ‘murder.’
“Murders tend to be longer. It’s nearly impossible to ‘murder’ someone inside of a tweet. It’s just not long enough. You can burn them pretty good yes but a ‘murder’ is far more complete,” they said.
“Basically, anything that you would think is a witticism, one-liner, snappy comeback, or hot take is going to be a burn. Those may be a better fit for /r/clevercomebacks. Murders tend to be long-form, taking a minute or several to read, and thoroughly deconstruct an argument and/or the person making it.”
Columbus Day
🤣 That reply has some zing to it, anyone know where I can find that spcie?
Murdered By Wit
I Like The Second Guy’s Energy
Xor50 added that your personal passion for a topic can help inspire you to find a clever way to put down someone’s bad arguments. “Think about a topic you’re really passionate about and imagine you’re talking to an idiot who just doesn’t get it. That’s how I imagine it,” they said.
The art of the comeback isn’t out of reach for us, no matter how epic and unreachable some of these slap-backs and roasts might seem.
Classic Karen
Yeah, That'll Work
That’s Got To Hurt
British comedy writer and stand-up comedian Ariane Sherine explained to me during an earlier interview what the most important parts of a comeback are. “I think the most important thing with comebacks is speed. Even if the joke isn't a total zinger, people will be impressed by your quickfire response," she told Bored Panda.
According to Ariane, most stand-up comics actually have a “repertoire of comebacks” that they rely on while on the stage. This way, they can be prepared for hecklers and (at least some) unexpected situations. There’s a lot of prep that goes into being a good comedian!
“We're not all as fast and talented as it seems! But if we're doing stand-up, our own routines will be original—it's just heckle putdowns that might not be," she said.
How Dare We Give You The Correct Amount Of Changes
Bit Of A Stretch
What's with people and body hair? If you like body hair, good for you. If you don't, also good for you. No need to body shame someone for something that occurs naturally. It's like insulting someone for having legs. I'm looking at you, female beauty standards
Seriously What Is Wrong With You
Ariane revealed to Bored Panda that comedy professionals build up emotional resilience with time and experience.
“Heckle putdowns are generally shared among comics so there's no code of honor when it comes to using them (but you mustn't nick original stand-up material!),” Ariane told me where we can find some inspiration for clever comebacks.
Good Luck To The Women In Your Future
Entitled Karen Getting Stabbed By Words
Get Wrecked...
The comedy writer also pointed out that comebacks can either be spontaneous or more planned out (if you’ve got the time), depending on the actual comic.
"It [the comeback] needs to be very fast, well-timed, and take people by surprise as well as being clever, witty, and immediately understandable,” she said, adding that it’s relatively rare in her experience to have spontaneous eruptions of genius all the time. “That's relatively rare in my experience. I'm sure many other comics are more natural than I am!"
Research Before You Sprouts Anything On Social Media
Better Check Those Facts
Handle With Care
'As a man, the only emotion you should show is forest hack-saw domination', said, a conservative.
Why Go Out Of Your Way To Be An As**ole?
This Doubles As A Til About The Spanish Anthem
Once Wasn't Enough, He Came Back For More
Rip Sportsball Fan
I completely support LGBTQ rights because LGBTQ people are the same as us heterosexuals, they just have different romantic preferences. They don't deserve to be treated as less than us...
God vs. Humanity
Trying To Gatekeep Conversations
What the actual f*ck is the original poster thinking? This must be one of the stupidest things I have ever read.
I've Had A 32" TV For Longer Than I'd Like To Admit
Oh, No! Anything But That!
US heath insurance is a scam... And textbooks are a scam... And minimum wage is a scam... Basically everything is a scam
The Ol' Switcheroo
Who Ever Will Fight A Wolf ?
But How Will They Make Money If They Can't Take Advantage Of People?!??
What Are Crab Cakes?
Doctor Of Reading?
Sounds like the symptoms of covid...so people without vaccination tend to get covid symptoms ... Who'd ave guessed?
I Don’t Really Know If This Counts But..
1) why would you be this pretentious in the first place 2) why would you be so pretentious on a god damn memes page...
Just So We’re Clear
It's Almost As If
You Can't Justify Her Actions No Matter What
He was trying to create a new line of skin care products...to sell in baskets....
I Once Knew A Peacock
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Sometimes I actually forget that so many people are so completely stupid. Thank you for reminding me because it's important to remember.
Idiots being like "BP users are just looking to get offended" while being a BP user
I had to quit reading. I've never read so many stupid, uncaring remarks in all my life!
I keep hearing Only Fans on the internet lately, but I have a feeling I shouldn't bother Googling it.
Sometimes I actually forget that so many people are so completely stupid. Thank you for reminding me because it's important to remember.
Idiots being like "BP users are just looking to get offended" while being a BP user
I had to quit reading. I've never read so many stupid, uncaring remarks in all my life!
I keep hearing Only Fans on the internet lately, but I have a feeling I shouldn't bother Googling it.