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“I Didn’t React The Right Way To My Husband’s Cheating Prank And Now Our Marriage Is Not The Same”
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“I Didn’t React The Right Way To My Husband’s Cheating Prank And Now Our Marriage Is Not The Same”

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There are some things that just should not be joked about. Whether they are offensive to certain groups of people or just too sensitive of a topic to ever be funny, it’s best to avoid these things in your comedy. There are a million jokes and pranks that can be done without hurting anyone’s feelings, so why resort to a punchline that will feel like a kick in the gut?

Recently, one husband had no gauge of where the line is when it comes to pranks and crossed it without any hesitation. His wife then shared the story of his ‘prank’ (if you can even call it that…) on the True Off My Chest subreddit, so below, you can read the full story and decide how you would have responded in this situation. Let us know what you think of this husband’s ‘sense of humor’, and if you are planning any pranks for your loved ones, please don’t make the same mistake he did. Then if you’re looking for a more lighthearted Bored Panda article to read next, check out this story featuring pranks that are actually harmless and don’t result in anyone crying.  

Recently, one wife shared the story of a ‘prank’ her husband pulled on her that has had lasting effects

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I’m not sure how this husband considered the idea of having an affair and betraying his wife funny in the first place, but I would guess that he would not find it as hilarious if she was the one “having an affair”. For a prank to be funny, it has to be harmless and/or ridiculous enough that it could not possibly be true. But unfortunately, infidelity is a common issue that tears marriages apart every day. Letting your partner even think for a moment, let alone hours that they have been cheated on is sick. And according to the Institute for Family Studies, men are more likely to cheat than women, so it’s no surprise that this wife believed what she had seen. 

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The wife continued to elaborate on the situation in the comments


 

 

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Rates of infidelity are staggering, with 20% of married men saying they have slept with someone other than their spouse and 13% of married women saying the same. Realizing your partner is cheating is also a nightmare for many individuals, as it makes a couple over twice as likely to get divorced. Even if they agree to stay married, after someone’s trust has been broken, it can be incredibly hard to repair the bond between a couple. A funny prank would be putting googly eyes on the fruit in the fridge or hiding a fake spider in the cupboard. Causing emotional distress and leading your partner to believe that your marriage is ruined is not cute or funny.

Sadly, even though the affair was a joke, this couple now has to face the consequences of this husband’s immature actions. Hopefully, the wife will be able to convince her husband to attend therapy or work through this issue, or she needs to figure out what the best course of action is for the wellbeing of herself and her children. We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation below and how you would respond in the wife’s shoes. Has your partner ever crossed the line with a prank? If you have ever been in a similar situation, feel free to share with your fellow pandas how you were able to either move past it or move on.   

Many readers have reassured the wife that her reaction was not the problem, and that this ‘prank’ was way more than just a joke

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KombatBunni
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Prank” him by leaving divorce papers out where he can see them..see how he likes that. What an a$$hole

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Kathryn Baylis
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You nailed the perfect thing for her to do to him. She should have him served with papers that include a legal eviction time limit to it, like pack your bags and be out of the house by midnight or something, plus have plenty of friends and family at her house that day, just to be safe. See how HE feels about it. Except, in this case, it should be legit, and the number should actually be for her lawyer’s office.

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Dirk Daring
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's not just gaslighting, it's setting the entire oil field on fire and telling you to be grateful for the warmth it provides.

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my lord. This man is definitely not mature enough to be a husband and father. What a truly twisted, cruel thing to do and then to gaslight her over her reaction as well? I would be seeing a lawyer.

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Florence Gift
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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The Other Guest
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the commenter who said the guy was playing "the pick me dance" has it spot-on. Hubby says he didn't know how he expected her to react, which is a lie. He just doesn't want to admit he was expecting her to weep, beg him to stay, ask what she did wrong "to drive him into another woman's arms" sort of thing. Now he's angry because he didn't get the ego-stroking attention he believed this cruel "prank" would produce.

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Fight Hypocrites
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got 50 bucks that says he expected more sex, kinkier sex and possibly permission to keep screwing "Eve".

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Keith O
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't even know what to say to this one. A man with two children with this woman acting this way, and he's certainly not a kid himself. I know she doesn't want a divorce, but a marriage can't last and be one sided like this. She should divorce him, especially to protect herself and the children, since he has no desire to apologize or seek therapy. What a fu@king wanker.

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Lizzy Crit
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He won't go because he knows the therapist will say this is all HIS fault

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Emmydearest
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kind of prank is incredibly dangerous. Let's say that the "cheated" person went completely the opposite way, went mad and violent, and accidentally hurt (or worse) the partner... Or, in a moment of desperation, decided to kill themselves... It wouldn't be the first time that happened... Same as those pranks where you scare the other person to death; what if they get so scared they get a heart attack?

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E B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or she could have gone mad and killed her children and herself.

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Hphizzle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t jump on the divorce train very quickly, but his need for her to be more something (he doesn’t even know what), and apologize for not being or doing the thing he can’t explain screams emotional abuse. Run, sweetheart, run.

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Jojo Armani
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was an utterly cruel & immature prank that was totally uncalled for! The worst is, he still doesn’t get how much hurt he has caused his wife. Idiot!

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Charlie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. This makes my heart ache for OP and it also reminds me of the time my husband locked me out, intentionally, and only opened the door when I started screaming, yelling and crying. It was also a “prank”. A prank to me is MAYBE putting toothpaste in the mayo, not this BS!

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it causes your partner or someone you claim you love distress, it's not a prank. It's abuse.

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Lori w
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Heartbreaking and cruel. If you've been cheated on before, this can send a person into a panic attack. When you've built a life together for years, and see it crumbling down, it's devastating. This is behavior people do so they can say "it's a joke, it's a joke." And then go on to cheat. If he's being defensive instead of sorry, I don't think I would be able to continue a marriage with someone who gets enjoyment out of my suffering. Stand up for yourself. Also, I would bet that he's done other behaviors that are red flags, too.

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Beth L
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get rid of him while the kids are still young, otherwise he will pull this c**p on them, too.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ding ding ding! Is he going to think it's funny to claim one of the kids is pregnant/got someone pregnant, got arrested, is someplace they shouldn't be? Is he going to pull pranks like this on the kids, and make them question reality and their own experiences? He's a lousy husband and father.

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Leo Domitrix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is not a prank. That's a need for counseling. And a lawyer, b/c if he can't cope that she's upset, then he's an immature twit, IMHO.

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Notyomama
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This dude is a sociopath. I would straight up divorce him. I hope this woman figures out her worth.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also Team Divorce. In recent threads about ignoring red flags and having shitty friends, I mentioned the abusive ex I was with for way too long, and the red flags I ignored. Some of the first were these kinds of "jokes" and "pranks," where he'd tell me he had another girlfriend, or a kid with an ex, or was dating ___ at his old school, too, because he wanted to see my reaction. He wanted to see if I'd be jealous or hurt. He enjoyed my hurt confusion. And at the time, I'd fall for the "it was just a joke!" gaslighting and feel bad that I made HIM feel bad about his oh-so-hilarious pranks.. What it let me know long-term is that he'd happily manipulate me and my feelings, and would without compunction build on the abuse I'd already experienced, to feed his own pathetic ego. Unless her husband apologizes and commits to at least six months of therapy, there's nothing here to salvage. He doesn't love nor respect her, and his actions made it clear. Get out now, because it ain't getting better.

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Nunya Business
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with the person who said this is abuse. That man-child doesn't deserve a wife. What a complete a-hole!

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deanna woods
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy sounds way too immature to be married. His reaction to her reaction makes absolutely no sense. First of all, it was a very cruel prank to play on someone you claim to love. Secondly, it is ridiculous to be angry because her reaction was to consider being separated and how this might affect the children. Thirdly, it is ridiculous that he is expecting her to apologize for his sick joke. She needs to divorce him immediately and make sure that she gets the children. What he did was not a prank, it was just plain mean.

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Lara Verne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Divorce him. This is vile behaviour, not a prank. And he has the audacity to act butthurt when it backfired.

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Libstak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Making a joke out of another person's feeling about love is blatant psychological bullying level manipulation. It treats her like her feelings are worthy of the boys having a good laugh about over a beer. Beyond disrespectful and so humiliating for her.

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Pumpkin Spice
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your kids will be way happier without him! I hope you ind someone who actually appreciates you and your kids.

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Cody
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP posted an update just today. Apparently the husband can't believe how "cold and uncaring" she was by acting like a mature adult and putting her kids first and has moved out to live with his parents. She also received a 2 am text from him saying that he wanted a divorce and all she replied was "OK". She's going to head over to the in-laws in the morning and tell them all about what happened, and give husband one last chance for therapy and counseling, and if he refuses it's over for good.

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She shouldn't even be giving him a chance, just take his offer of divorce. I think this is still him trying to manipulate her. I hope she stays strong.

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Ladytron
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huh? Obviously she thought of the kids first. That's the normal thing to do. I wouldn't want to stay in the relationship either if that happened so obviously I would make a plan for the future. Seems very reasonable. I mean, if the damage is done what else can you do? If you know you won't forgive that there's really nothing else to say except figure out what to do with the kids. What did he want? A big cry party? Her apologies for not meeting all of his demands that "forced" him to cheat (I've heard that one before...)? Let him feel "hurt" all he wants. He was in the wrong here, don't put the blame on her(And he seems more like a teenager.)

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Ashley Schriber
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It just pisses me off to see how many women blame themselves and their reactions when their a*****e boyfriend or husband is being obviously shitty. These stupid guys had some cruel pissing contest over whose wife would get the most obviously angry to earn bragging rights (what, whoever screams the loudest proves she loves her husband the most?), he's been punishing her for A MONTH because she didn't put on a good enough show. And she's actually questioning whether she is the problem here? She's apologizing to him? Christ. As for "counselling," I remember the words of Dan Savage in one column of another disastrous relationship: "There's only so much a shrink can do to change a person. Many a flaming a*****e has gone into therapy and come out a smoldering a*****e." Whatever happens, good luck to those kids with such a manipulative and self-absorbed father.

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Which is why she and the kids need a family therapist NOW. Get the kids some much~needed stabilization.

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RowdieAngel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well good news is she's already prepared to divorce him. "nothing has changed. whether you cheated or not, your actions have definitively ended our marriage"

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Seedy Vine
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP's husband is a loser and so are his friends to put their loved ones through such cruel pranks. How could he yell at a woman whose entire life he just upended, while she's crying? I would divorce him for that reason alone.

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Casey McAlister
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's disgusting. He played with your feelings and also had the nerve to be mad at you for not putting up a satisfying show for his entertainment.

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Lesley Christie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loathe pranks or practical jokes. If you want to do one, go ahead but you must be 100% prepared to deal with the fallout regardless of whether it us what you intended or not.

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Bisces
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like he wanted her to be mad at "Eve". Tell her off through texts, tell her to leave his husband alone. Idk, like he wanted to see if the wife would always trust and believe no matter what he does? Show her devotion and loyalty towards him? And when the wife just accepted that he "cheated", he got mad that he didn't have a loyal, submissive wife. Idk, my writing may be a bit hard to understand but that's my thought.

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Tina Hugh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the worst yet. Boredpanda is getting to upsetting to read. I’ll take a break for a bit

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Marie-Pierre Adam
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nah man ! That wasn’t a prank at all. He was really cheating on her ! While she took her walk, he called his buddy, change de phone number on “Eve”’s contact and had his friend play into the whole thing. The guy now acts all insulted; the wife says his reaction makes no sens and she is right. He is trying to distract her with his “prank” thing by making her the bad one; but yeah, no he really is cheating. He wasn’t able to explain what he was expecting the “right” reaction would have been for his awful prank. That’s because it’s what he came up with to get out of being the bad cheating a****le… He gaslighting her.

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She did say that she talked to the girlfriends/wives of his friends who also were victims of this prank. So if your theory is true , then they are lying to her as well.

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Lee Angel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

speaking as a man, i would have taken that ipad, put it over his head, then put his a*s on the street. 'men' dont act like this, teenage boys do. my heart goes out to the op. his actions were stupid, juvenile, abusive, inconsiderate and the complete opposite of what a loving partner would do. real men support there partners, not try to tear them a new one. its tw*ats like this that give our sex a bad name. this was in no way a joke or even a prank, it was just cruel and nasty. OP, get a new life with someone who actually appreciates you.

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Penny Lost
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was trying to *apologize* to him??? Christ-on-the-stick, woman, have some self-respect! He'd probably treat a doormat better than he treats you at this point, honestly! I probably sound harsh, but this "I tried apologizing to him" business sent me through the roof!

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I screamed at my phone as well. I hope she puts that bastard through some real hell.

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Robin Roper
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His man is ashamed of his actions and is covering his shame up by gaslighting the OP and denying the impact of this cruel and sick "prank" on her and his children. Her reaction was within the normal range feelings - gutting pain, hurt, and shock, She pulled herself together to put the the needs of the children above her despair. He is horrible and I hope she and the other wife get a group discount from a divorce attorney. For me, there would be no return from this.

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think he feels the least bit ashamed. I think he lost a bet and is punishing her for it.

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Rick Hoppenbrouwer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need to kick his a*s to the curb and divorce him. What kind of man pulls this kind of prank on his wife. There is something really fu cking wrong in his head.

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Dude
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do psychos like this and his buddies find women to marry them????

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They fake it for a couple years until we're locked in and have kids. I know so many people in my family that follow this pattern: guy acts like a "nice/good guy" during a year of dating, and a year of engagement/wedding planning. Maybe a few things crop up re: the wedding, but everyone rationalizes it. You spent all that money and can't call it off for something silly, right? The first three years after, you move into a house and have a couple kids... and soon, the sweet, funny guy who did the grocery shopping and said he was pro-choice is spending all his time ignoring everyone to play video games, binge-watch telly, or listen to Conservative talk radio because he's "so stressed" about work/life. Drugs and/or alcohol and "guy trips" become part of life. By year 5-7, he's cheating or emotionally invested elsewhere (she may be, too), and by year 8, it's either divorce time, or they agree to stay together for the kids and have another baby. Either way, they're usually all miserable.

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Danish Susanne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I would have put a reciept for a gun and ammo, where he could find it, because I would have wanted to kill anyone, who did such a thing to me. Of course I wouldn't shoot him and spent years in jail away from the kids, but I would have liked him to think I would.

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Mine Truly
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP"s reaction was fine, and the fact she is trying to figure out what's wrong with her reaction instead of considering that her HUSBAND is wrong for blaming her reaction, is a big red flag of a codependent mindset. He's been abusing her before this, which is why she's blaming herself for her reaction instead of recognizing his toxic, horrible behavior. Furthermore, the husband is refusing couples therapy, and no decent partner would refuse that. I bet that if we heard more stories about their relationship, his abuse and lack of love would become clear. I hesitate to suggest ending marriages with kids, but the fact is, if this is how he treats his wife, he's not going to be a healthy parent to the kids, either. OP needs to be firm that it's counseling or divorce.

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PSimms
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The husband is a psychopath and she should leave him. He is immature and cruel and will "prank" her painfully again.

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Lene
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it was me I'd simply ignore all the "it's a prank -HAHA!" from him and his friends. I'd go on with separation and divorce. Call his parents and inform them that he's coming home for a while. All that. If someone played a fool on me like that I'd be so furious! I don't like any sort of "testing" in relationships. It's immature and completely unnecessary in an adult relationship.

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Trillian
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is emotional manipulation. And I just can't believe he came up with something like this out of the blue and had never tried anything before. So yeah, I think she should leave him.

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Tina Hugh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can’t believe this is real. I think I’d kill someone who did this.

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Marie McCann
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One very real possibility. . . ALL the guys were doing this as a test . . . Of their wives. Exactly how would their wives react when one of them gets caught really cheating. Some wives are more forgiving, might suggest therapy, working it through, others want to divorce or chop something off!! They were all testing the waters. Absolutely , at least one of the guys is already cheating and the others all know. More test than prank. Ladies make your decision before it happens and plan to follow through.

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Iguessthisreallyisathing
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With the women I know, the reaction would have been quite different. "Hey, honey! You're awake now!" "How long have I been sleep? And why does my head hurt?" "Oh, about 5 months; you hit your head a few times on my frying pan. Let me let the doctor know you woke up."

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April Caron
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am I the only one who thinks this might not be a “prank?” He could have easily added his buddy’s number under Eve’s name and deleted hers. The OP was out for a walk. Who knows what he did when she was gone?

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We all missed the point. This isn't a 'Prank'. This is a sadist getting jollies in the continued torture of his wife. Not agreeing to therapy or apologizing merely makes him happier. He needs to never see his 'family' again. That would be best for the babies, because he will always tell them that their mother was in the wrong. I hope she gets the meanest divorce lawyer she can find and teach that f****r a lesson he'll never forget.

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Ralph Scholl
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time to file for divorce. Your husband is mentally ill. Thats not a prank that you EVER pull on a woman. He is SICK! Get out while you can.

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Tree P
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It seems to me like he wanted to see her reaction so he really COULD cheat. If he hasn't already.

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Jus
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How could he even think of doing something so cruel and ugly to his wife?? What a loser, what a diiick!

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Miocha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He pulled a cruel prank and gaslighted her. Hmm, what a fine specimen of a**hole he is!

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Y D
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your husband is human garbage. Can't imagine what about him was ever worthy of a second look let alone a wedding. What a loser. Good news is you get full custody and alimony out the yang after that fully intentional emotional torture. Take every iPad, copy every word, the pics, his stupid friends' involvement. Then take every dime, express clearly your very real fears what any continued contact of this psycho and your children could cause. And get a restraining order. Who's laughing now, m***** f*****.

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Wuttf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YES! She is divorcing him! Now to find a real ADULT to be a fully involved partner in her life...if she still wants to go that route. I wish her and her children the best!

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Samantha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like him and his buddies were setting up the "It'S a PrAnK!" alibi so one (or more) of them could get away with cheating for realsies.

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Mary Rinehart
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, your husband’s immaturity and carelessness is mind numbing. He & his other immature baby friends are showing no respect for their wives or their marriages. Marriage is tough enough without stupid tricks like this. Of course he doesn’t want to see a counselor-any one with half a brain would tell him he’s an idiot. He doesn’t like the fact that you’re a more mature and caring person than him. I’d be interested in his response if this prank had been played on him; but wait, he’s so immature that he would’ve had a dramatic meltdown. It sucks to be him as he realizes his wife has the strength and confidence, after her initial shock, tears & vomiting, that she can’t fall apart because someone has to protect the kids and it’s not going to be their dad. He’s gaslighting you, please don’t fall for it. And don’t keep this hurt to yourself. Let friends & family know as I’m sure some will notice things aren’t right between you two. You’ve done nothing to apologize for but he sure has.

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Poet Lion
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop apologizing for doing nothing wrong. Immature, gaslighting behavior. He needs to grow the hell up but at his age, it doesn't seem like he ever will.

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Mrs. Zel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This wouldn't be a "ridiculous" thing at all to leave him over. Letting you believe for hours that he's been cheating is one of the most cruel things I've ever heard someone doing to their partner. You should't be apologizing to him. He should be on his knees begging for your forgiveness.

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Agent 8433599
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is the most horrid thing. HOW COULD A PERSON DO THIS AND THINK IT WAS OK, AND TRY TO JUDGE YOU FOR BEING "COLD"????!!!!!!

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Angela Jester
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh,my God. I'm speechless 🙊 I hope she can leave. He certainly broke the marriage.

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Marta Kęska
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My only reaction is WTF. A grown-a*s man with wife and kids does pranks that'd be embarrassing and stupid even for a teen?

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Anne Johnson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Divorce his a$$. That is not a person you want to waste the rest of your life on. He’s shown you who he really is - believe him.

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Barbara Gibson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A prank is toothpaste in your oreos. Or unscrewing the salt shaker cap. This is abuse. The wrong person is apologizing here.

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Claire Trautmann
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is emotional and psychological abuse. Stick with plan to divorce him.

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Sara Valdez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there an update on this situation? Just wondering if the husband has ever stopped being a jacka$s?

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Andrea Zin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wtf??? How is "Found you cheating, was hurt, created some space for myself to deal with it and figure out a way to protect the children" a cold and calculating attitude while "hurting my wife in the worst possible way as a prank" is not??? This is adult behaviour on the wife's side versus completely irresponsible d**k move on the husband's side. I feel so sorry for the wife who did everything right and responsible in a hugely difficult situation not only being given sh** for that but feeling like the one who reacted in a wrong way on top of it all. I' m not a violent person but the husband needs his nose broken at the very least. Sincerely hope that OP reaches out to some psychological support.

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GPZ
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not that OP thought he was capable of cheating- he left clear evidence of it (yes even though it was fabricated), it's not like there were vague inuendos or a few words overheard that may have left a suspicion of infidelity. OP should definitely dump this absolute POS

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Diane Knight
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If someone were to mess up the car, you'd go to the repair shop and have it fixed back to being useable, same with going to a counselor, the gal needs to have a place to go sort this out if he sees the financial fallout of the cost this is for them. There is more than one cost he's going to pay for this. He deserves to feel each one of them. But get counseling first, if it just her to begin with, that's ok. But he needs to put his own butt in a chair too. Maybe a non-partial person can get him to see the wrong. For the 'perfect storm' of events, this can end badly. what does that look like? She ignores the IPad, he leaves and then returns to her being out of sorts and lets her leave before he reveals the hoax. while out, he did text her to see if she was 'ok' but didn't yet give up the prank on her or even get someone to take over the care of the children to go look for her and let her know ' I messed up' please let me explain. Then come off as the victim?

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Ounooi Roos
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A prank you say? I firmly believe if he is trying to "prank" you he is up to something. Stop entertaining his foolishness and think about yourself. What the heart is full off, the mouth runneth over. He wanted you beg and kiss a*s and you were acting grown up. If he and his so called friend are not cheating they are thinking about ir! Do NOT tolerate this behaviour. Stop apologizing and set an altimatum. You come with me to therapy or this is over. Don't stand for this abuse. It IS abuse.

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Luanne Fliss
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he wanted to see you vomit and cry, he should have timed it when he was home. It sounds like "the right reaction" he wanted. And why would he want that? The only answer is that he is cruel and values his friends above you. He needs to go to therapy with you or get the eff out of the house while divorce proceedings take place.

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Tammy Sheppard
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One time I saw similar stuff on my exes phone. And as soon as he realized I had seen it he told a similar story. That it was a joke. Bro had a new phone number and was messing w him by sending the pics and txts. His brother backed his story. I knew they were lying. It wasn’t long before I caught him again. Then his brother came clean and apologized for not telling me. And people wonder why I have trust issues. Lol

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millac
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's honestly lucky she didn't decide to hide that she knew until she had made all of the divorce arrangements to surprise him with and it was far, far, far too late for him to take it back as a "joke".

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Nina
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your kids are young and your marriage is basically nothing. Leave the bastard and don't look back. What a disgusting thing to do. She deserves so much better.

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Bella V
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why the hell are you with this guy and feeling guilty???? You had the wrong reaction? Wonder what he would've said if he had been stabbed or shot by you? What if THAT was your reaction? Would you have been "good enough" then?? Come on. Open your eyes, this is not funny or cute. There's a tik tok video of this couple that hides confetti cannons around the house and pops them on each other when they aren't expecting it. The kids even get involved. THAT is funny. THAT is cute. This is disgusting. Divorce and find a man that will cherish you and know better than to do this to you.

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Nikki Sevven
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not a prank. It's cruel and manipulative. I'd file for divorce.

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Mil
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is also disturbing is that his "friend" did this same s**t to other couples in their circle!! What the hell is wrong with these petulant boys to do this disturbing behavior to their wives?? I would consider getting together with the other wives for a group divorce of all of them!

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Donna Cheung
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm thinking of 2 possibilities: 1. It's not a prank. OP really caught him cheating, then he changed the contact on the iPad and got his friend to pretend it was a prank. Which makes him a gaslighter, when he's in the wrong. 2. It's a prank. Which makes him a sick man and an a**hole.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything you are feeling is valid and none of excuses are acceptable. What this man did is gross and traumatizing. If this is how he treats you, then divorce may infact be the best outcome for you. Good luck and stay strong!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with all the 'divorce this immature a*****e' comments.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That they had two entire kids well before ever getting married tells me she got a shut up ring. He likes the power and wants her to be wailing and begging to stay with him despite any bad behavior. That she has spent weeks apologizing tells me that's her normal state. She needs to pull on her big girl pants, call the other wives, and arrange to have their own "prank" where they leave divorce papers "hidden" somewhere.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

DON'T LEAVE THE CHILDREN ALONE WITH HIM. He is cruel and gets off on other's suffering!! Address this in court and he has to pay for supervised visitation.

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12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Raindeers
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Chills everyone. All of you only can suggest her to divorce. While the probability of her to find a better man 50:50, aside of she would need some time to get her a*s to got a cheap paying job while also raise her children like all single mother do. Ask yourself, should she be more suffer, while its also only a prank, not a real cheat. I must admint that she is kind like me, a drawback person, overthinking, and not trying to hold into anything we dear other than ourself. Thats what we introvert do, and something need to change. She need to change. And probably all commenters here who'se getting too serious and always ready to become victim over everything happened.

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Kaylee Brock
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OH and the fact that the friend laughed is what got me the most

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Kaylee Brock
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if i were you i would divorce him immediatly because hes a freakinggg jerk

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weatherwitch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She needs to leave him. Her reaction in staying and trying to work it out is wrong. She was incredibly mature and put the children first so as not to cause them upset. He is an immature Stupid prick who doesn't deserve her. People do Not react the same way and it's very worrying that he thinks she should and is judging her on her reaction, instead of his stupidity. She sounds like a little like me, react strongly physically to such a horrible thing (ie, sickness, fear, panic) then the working out counselling of what must be done. He broke all her trust and when that's gone it never comes back. She needs a divorce lawyer and on grounds of cruelty 😊

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Lorna Ackerman
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was so cruel, not a prank definitely abuse. Never ever joke about infidelity. If my husband did that to me, then treated me like that because I didn’t react like he thought I should I’d divorce him on the grounds of mental cruelty.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Kimberly Ledig
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, cheat on him to fullfil his ego but then divorce that insensitive prik. Do not you ever feel bad about yourself... But go to counseling first

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jdtimid123
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any "prank" that hurts someone, physically OR emotionally, isn't a prank. It's bullying at best, flat out abuse at worst.

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Stay Off My Lawn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Two things I can guarantee: 1) If he thought she was cheating on him, he would feel humiliated and likely become violent with her; 2) If he found out her “infidelity” was a prank, he’d be angry, probably become violent with her, and definitely be out for revenge. But *her* reaction was the “wrong” one???

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Sami-Jo Ross
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A prank would be something harmless like temporary hair dye in a shampoo bottle. Not pretending to cheat on your spouse. The hell is wrong with people?

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Linda Sullivan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a horrible guy. He's lucky you didn't leave and take the kids. You could have gotten in a car accident. I agree with other posters that this is cruel and controlling behavior. You didn't react right? Did he expect suicide?? I'm thinking clean the bank accounts and then ask where all the money went? Oh, we must have been robbed. Reconsider staying with such an a hole. Is he willing to put your children through mind games as well? Ha ha mom and dad are dying. This is sick. Maybe counciling would help, but stop apologizing you did nothing wrong.

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Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uhm yeah. If this is a "prank", you need him out of your life. For your own sanity and for the kids. What an AH

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Kim Lorton
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dump his asp. Use psychological and manipulative emotional abuse. Can he e plain why he did it? Knowing it might just undo you and your entire life? He is very lucky you were not the violent type! He could be dead.. bet he never thought of that! If he can do this, get out now, because he and his buddies could do something else worse. It isn’t a prank, and it’s not. Laughable situation. He is a full blooded As*ho**. It is also not how you l treat the person who loves you, had your kids, a home with you. He could care less, so, let him have his prank and take him to the cleaners.

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Marion Kelly
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA: 'Prank' definitely abusive. Regarding your reaction, u were in the stages of grief over the loss of your relationship. The stages do not always come to people in the same order. U went to anger and planning bc u knew u had to resolve the situation in the best way possible For Your Children. U put your children ahead of him and ahead of yourself. Excellent parenting. He didn't even think abt the consequences to his children. He wanted u to fall apart even if your children were home. Selfish p%$@k. Giving him the choice of therapy or divorce, is a realistic choice, not an ultimatum. I would advise u to protect your children from their father, but u are already r doing that very well. Don't let this narcissist gaslight u any further. This mess is no joke. Best wishes for happiness in your future.

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Liz Dawson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he did this to you, what will he do with your kids for a 'prank'? He needs help.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ow hell naw. He gaslight you after this? That man should be begging OP for mercy, kissing her feet, buying her flowers, doing all the house chores and sending her on an all paid vacation so she forgive him. I can't believe she's the one apologizing. So f up and immature git.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Clara Stallworth
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there's anyone who should be apologizing, it's HIM!!! Anyone who've been cheated on knows how soul-crushing this is, and that this sort of thing shatters trust to the point of being beyond repair. Yet, HE'S the one getting all upset because of a so-called "harmless" prank??? Rather than OP apologizing for her "failure" to respond "appropriately" to said prank, she should move out with the kids while he's away, then tell both her parents and her in-laws what had happened. He may at first think, "Oh, I get it, this is a revenge prank", but soon enough, he'll realize it wasn't a joke, she's dead serious! Eventually, he'll be the one changing HIS attitude and begging her to come back!

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Melanie McMahan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hubby didn't get his batshit crazy ego stroked to his satisfaction because she didn't beg & cry. A woman had the audacity to exhibit some feelings of self-respect & stood up for herself. To his mind, she was supposed to fall utterly apart at the notion of losing him & grovel for him to not leave. This is not about her being "cold or apathetic", he got his bitty widdle feewings hurt...poor baby. I have absolutely zero patience for this sort of c**p. Infidelity isn't a prank.

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Margaret Weaver
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have fed him his own liver. Not even kidding. Cheating is one thing, inebriated people make mistakes, s**t happens. Doing this as a joke, however, is a level of cruelty akin to turning humans into lampshades.

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William Smith
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's amazing that, for so-called 30-somethings, both parties have the maturity of a thirteen year old...

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Dean Turner
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) that's not a prank you ever pull on someone you love and I'd possibly leave them just for that. 2) Everyone reacts to cheating differently, but her reaction was 100% normal and understandable. If it was real, and if he didn't care enough about her to be faithful, then he was no longer worth her time or emotions, warranting the reaction he received. 3) SHE'S tried apologizing to HIM? HE'S the one being cold? It should be the other way around. This woman doesn't owe him a dam thing!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Pranking" your spouse this way is emotionally abusive, if youre doing this youre probably an attention wh*re

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Lorna Lay
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a sociopath this husband is! Not just the cruel and unnecessary nature of the ruse itself, but to then be clearly JEALOUS of the fact that your first thoughts after the initial shock wore off were of your preschool age children!? One guess who does all of the parenting in this household. Poor OP needs to RUN, as fast as she can.

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Jan Gardner
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is the behavior of a sadist. I wouldn't allow him near my kids. As a mother you have a duty to keep your children safe. You have a right to be happy. Talk with an attorney and get yourself ready to leave him. Document everything. This psychological abuse will only escalate. You and your children deserve better. He is a monster - get out now.

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Gorgeous Cari Thawn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like a narcissist. If I’m right, he’ll do shxxxies to the kids, if he hasn’t already & they won’t understand, they’ll just get insecure with no way to describe it to you. RUN!!!

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Shereé Knight
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He probably IS or HAS cheated and wanted to know if it would break y'alls relationship or if you'd stay. He probably bet that you'd do anything for him and would definitely stay with him. Now he's hurt that he knows you'd drop his b***h a*s if found out. Don't apologize to him. Tell him to kiss your a*s.

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Gizmo TeknoDekkeR
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean wow... 😮 I value body parts I wouldn't have anymore too much, as well as the roof over my head to consider a prank that I'm cheating. Wtaf?!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her husband must have deeply rooted insecurities to feel he is warranted in this kind of behavior. Seems like classic narcissistic behavior, needing “validation” that he is desirable. He DEFINITELY NEEDS PSYCHIATRIC HELP!! He’s manipulative & then, when she reacted rationally, he began gaslighting her! I was married to a man (2 actually) who treated me in the exact same manner, until I finally turned the tables. This is a HUGE red flag for this woman. If he’s this childish, he WILL, inevitably, pull this c**p again!! What kind of example is he setting for his children? I say, separate, tell him to learn to wipe his own a*s, then make him PROVE he knows how…and INSIST he get professional help dealing with why he feels this behavior is “normal & acceptable”. Then, you can reassess the situation once he can display more mature thought & behavior. Otherwise, it’s over & he can find someone else to project his “jackass mentality” on!! From here on out, everything needs to be on her terms!

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope. He lost his 'get out of jail free card' when he put her and the kids through an additional month of Hell. He doesn't deserve contact with anyone in that home again.

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Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have gone absolutely ballistic at him and his friend and left with the kids. That's emotional abuse and not funny at all.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What in the hell did he think he would gain out of this? I could understand if an 18 year old would do this. But someone in his 30s with 2 children should either know better or seek professional help.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. Wow. I don't get this at all. He.. basically.. cheated(in a way, prank or no), and when she decided immediately what was best for their children, he gets pissed? Absolutely not, guy. Abso-f*****g-lutely not. I would have ended it right then and there, honestly. F**k your prank.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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I could be wrong but I am not getting the vibe that he is conditioning you for future manipulation. He’s wrong to treat the subject so lightly. I would say IF his ‘friends’ try to cover for any future bad behavior then now, at least, you won’t be caught off guard. If you want to give your relationship another go you’re going to have to date and build trust again. Try to do some fun couple things. It seems like he sorta wanted to be Cinderella so do your share of pursuing and smiling. You said you love him.

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1 year ago

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You must have known he was an a*s hat before you married him. Now you've got two kids and you're stuck with him in your life for at least 20 years. Divorce the dumb a*s. And don't settle for jerks like this next time.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah, yes, blame the victim. After all, we should have KNOWN, so it's totally on us. /s

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I half way think this is a fake because of her responses.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even if it is, too many people have experienced similar cruelty, and will find the advice and empathy helpful.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Prank” him by leaving divorce papers out where he can see them..see how he likes that. What an a$$hole

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You nailed the perfect thing for her to do to him. She should have him served with papers that include a legal eviction time limit to it, like pack your bags and be out of the house by midnight or something, plus have plenty of friends and family at her house that day, just to be safe. See how HE feels about it. Except, in this case, it should be legit, and the number should actually be for her lawyer’s office.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's not just gaslighting, it's setting the entire oil field on fire and telling you to be grateful for the warmth it provides.

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my lord. This man is definitely not mature enough to be a husband and father. What a truly twisted, cruel thing to do and then to gaslight her over her reaction as well? I would be seeing a lawyer.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the commenter who said the guy was playing "the pick me dance" has it spot-on. Hubby says he didn't know how he expected her to react, which is a lie. He just doesn't want to admit he was expecting her to weep, beg him to stay, ask what she did wrong "to drive him into another woman's arms" sort of thing. Now he's angry because he didn't get the ego-stroking attention he believed this cruel "prank" would produce.

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Fight Hypocrites
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got 50 bucks that says he expected more sex, kinkier sex and possibly permission to keep screwing "Eve".

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Keith O
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't even know what to say to this one. A man with two children with this woman acting this way, and he's certainly not a kid himself. I know she doesn't want a divorce, but a marriage can't last and be one sided like this. She should divorce him, especially to protect herself and the children, since he has no desire to apologize or seek therapy. What a fu@king wanker.

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Lizzy Crit
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He won't go because he knows the therapist will say this is all HIS fault

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Emmydearest
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kind of prank is incredibly dangerous. Let's say that the "cheated" person went completely the opposite way, went mad and violent, and accidentally hurt (or worse) the partner... Or, in a moment of desperation, decided to kill themselves... It wouldn't be the first time that happened... Same as those pranks where you scare the other person to death; what if they get so scared they get a heart attack?

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E B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or she could have gone mad and killed her children and herself.

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Hphizzle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t jump on the divorce train very quickly, but his need for her to be more something (he doesn’t even know what), and apologize for not being or doing the thing he can’t explain screams emotional abuse. Run, sweetheart, run.

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Jojo Armani
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was an utterly cruel & immature prank that was totally uncalled for! The worst is, he still doesn’t get how much hurt he has caused his wife. Idiot!

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Charlie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. This makes my heart ache for OP and it also reminds me of the time my husband locked me out, intentionally, and only opened the door when I started screaming, yelling and crying. It was also a “prank”. A prank to me is MAYBE putting toothpaste in the mayo, not this BS!

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it causes your partner or someone you claim you love distress, it's not a prank. It's abuse.

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Lori w
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Heartbreaking and cruel. If you've been cheated on before, this can send a person into a panic attack. When you've built a life together for years, and see it crumbling down, it's devastating. This is behavior people do so they can say "it's a joke, it's a joke." And then go on to cheat. If he's being defensive instead of sorry, I don't think I would be able to continue a marriage with someone who gets enjoyment out of my suffering. Stand up for yourself. Also, I would bet that he's done other behaviors that are red flags, too.

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Beth L
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get rid of him while the kids are still young, otherwise he will pull this c**p on them, too.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ding ding ding! Is he going to think it's funny to claim one of the kids is pregnant/got someone pregnant, got arrested, is someplace they shouldn't be? Is he going to pull pranks like this on the kids, and make them question reality and their own experiences? He's a lousy husband and father.

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Leo Domitrix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is not a prank. That's a need for counseling. And a lawyer, b/c if he can't cope that she's upset, then he's an immature twit, IMHO.

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Notyomama
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This dude is a sociopath. I would straight up divorce him. I hope this woman figures out her worth.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also Team Divorce. In recent threads about ignoring red flags and having shitty friends, I mentioned the abusive ex I was with for way too long, and the red flags I ignored. Some of the first were these kinds of "jokes" and "pranks," where he'd tell me he had another girlfriend, or a kid with an ex, or was dating ___ at his old school, too, because he wanted to see my reaction. He wanted to see if I'd be jealous or hurt. He enjoyed my hurt confusion. And at the time, I'd fall for the "it was just a joke!" gaslighting and feel bad that I made HIM feel bad about his oh-so-hilarious pranks.. What it let me know long-term is that he'd happily manipulate me and my feelings, and would without compunction build on the abuse I'd already experienced, to feed his own pathetic ego. Unless her husband apologizes and commits to at least six months of therapy, there's nothing here to salvage. He doesn't love nor respect her, and his actions made it clear. Get out now, because it ain't getting better.

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Nunya Business
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with the person who said this is abuse. That man-child doesn't deserve a wife. What a complete a-hole!

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deanna woods
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy sounds way too immature to be married. His reaction to her reaction makes absolutely no sense. First of all, it was a very cruel prank to play on someone you claim to love. Secondly, it is ridiculous to be angry because her reaction was to consider being separated and how this might affect the children. Thirdly, it is ridiculous that he is expecting her to apologize for his sick joke. She needs to divorce him immediately and make sure that she gets the children. What he did was not a prank, it was just plain mean.

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Lara Verne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Divorce him. This is vile behaviour, not a prank. And he has the audacity to act butthurt when it backfired.

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Libstak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Making a joke out of another person's feeling about love is blatant psychological bullying level manipulation. It treats her like her feelings are worthy of the boys having a good laugh about over a beer. Beyond disrespectful and so humiliating for her.

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Pumpkin Spice
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your kids will be way happier without him! I hope you ind someone who actually appreciates you and your kids.

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Cody
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP posted an update just today. Apparently the husband can't believe how "cold and uncaring" she was by acting like a mature adult and putting her kids first and has moved out to live with his parents. She also received a 2 am text from him saying that he wanted a divorce and all she replied was "OK". She's going to head over to the in-laws in the morning and tell them all about what happened, and give husband one last chance for therapy and counseling, and if he refuses it's over for good.

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She shouldn't even be giving him a chance, just take his offer of divorce. I think this is still him trying to manipulate her. I hope she stays strong.

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Ladytron
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huh? Obviously she thought of the kids first. That's the normal thing to do. I wouldn't want to stay in the relationship either if that happened so obviously I would make a plan for the future. Seems very reasonable. I mean, if the damage is done what else can you do? If you know you won't forgive that there's really nothing else to say except figure out what to do with the kids. What did he want? A big cry party? Her apologies for not meeting all of his demands that "forced" him to cheat (I've heard that one before...)? Let him feel "hurt" all he wants. He was in the wrong here, don't put the blame on her(And he seems more like a teenager.)

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Ashley Schriber
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It just pisses me off to see how many women blame themselves and their reactions when their a*****e boyfriend or husband is being obviously shitty. These stupid guys had some cruel pissing contest over whose wife would get the most obviously angry to earn bragging rights (what, whoever screams the loudest proves she loves her husband the most?), he's been punishing her for A MONTH because she didn't put on a good enough show. And she's actually questioning whether she is the problem here? She's apologizing to him? Christ. As for "counselling," I remember the words of Dan Savage in one column of another disastrous relationship: "There's only so much a shrink can do to change a person. Many a flaming a*****e has gone into therapy and come out a smoldering a*****e." Whatever happens, good luck to those kids with such a manipulative and self-absorbed father.

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Which is why she and the kids need a family therapist NOW. Get the kids some much~needed stabilization.

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RowdieAngel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well good news is she's already prepared to divorce him. "nothing has changed. whether you cheated or not, your actions have definitively ended our marriage"

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Seedy Vine
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP's husband is a loser and so are his friends to put their loved ones through such cruel pranks. How could he yell at a woman whose entire life he just upended, while she's crying? I would divorce him for that reason alone.

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Casey McAlister
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's disgusting. He played with your feelings and also had the nerve to be mad at you for not putting up a satisfying show for his entertainment.

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Lesley Christie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loathe pranks or practical jokes. If you want to do one, go ahead but you must be 100% prepared to deal with the fallout regardless of whether it us what you intended or not.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like he wanted her to be mad at "Eve". Tell her off through texts, tell her to leave his husband alone. Idk, like he wanted to see if the wife would always trust and believe no matter what he does? Show her devotion and loyalty towards him? And when the wife just accepted that he "cheated", he got mad that he didn't have a loyal, submissive wife. Idk, my writing may be a bit hard to understand but that's my thought.

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Tina Hugh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the worst yet. Boredpanda is getting to upsetting to read. I’ll take a break for a bit

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Marie-Pierre Adam
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nah man ! That wasn’t a prank at all. He was really cheating on her ! While she took her walk, he called his buddy, change de phone number on “Eve”’s contact and had his friend play into the whole thing. The guy now acts all insulted; the wife says his reaction makes no sens and she is right. He is trying to distract her with his “prank” thing by making her the bad one; but yeah, no he really is cheating. He wasn’t able to explain what he was expecting the “right” reaction would have been for his awful prank. That’s because it’s what he came up with to get out of being the bad cheating a****le… He gaslighting her.

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She did say that she talked to the girlfriends/wives of his friends who also were victims of this prank. So if your theory is true , then they are lying to her as well.

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Lee Angel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

speaking as a man, i would have taken that ipad, put it over his head, then put his a*s on the street. 'men' dont act like this, teenage boys do. my heart goes out to the op. his actions were stupid, juvenile, abusive, inconsiderate and the complete opposite of what a loving partner would do. real men support there partners, not try to tear them a new one. its tw*ats like this that give our sex a bad name. this was in no way a joke or even a prank, it was just cruel and nasty. OP, get a new life with someone who actually appreciates you.

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Penny Lost
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was trying to *apologize* to him??? Christ-on-the-stick, woman, have some self-respect! He'd probably treat a doormat better than he treats you at this point, honestly! I probably sound harsh, but this "I tried apologizing to him" business sent me through the roof!

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I screamed at my phone as well. I hope she puts that bastard through some real hell.

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Robin Roper
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His man is ashamed of his actions and is covering his shame up by gaslighting the OP and denying the impact of this cruel and sick "prank" on her and his children. Her reaction was within the normal range feelings - gutting pain, hurt, and shock, She pulled herself together to put the the needs of the children above her despair. He is horrible and I hope she and the other wife get a group discount from a divorce attorney. For me, there would be no return from this.

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think he feels the least bit ashamed. I think he lost a bet and is punishing her for it.

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Rick Hoppenbrouwer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need to kick his a*s to the curb and divorce him. What kind of man pulls this kind of prank on his wife. There is something really fu cking wrong in his head.

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Dude
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do psychos like this and his buddies find women to marry them????

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They fake it for a couple years until we're locked in and have kids. I know so many people in my family that follow this pattern: guy acts like a "nice/good guy" during a year of dating, and a year of engagement/wedding planning. Maybe a few things crop up re: the wedding, but everyone rationalizes it. You spent all that money and can't call it off for something silly, right? The first three years after, you move into a house and have a couple kids... and soon, the sweet, funny guy who did the grocery shopping and said he was pro-choice is spending all his time ignoring everyone to play video games, binge-watch telly, or listen to Conservative talk radio because he's "so stressed" about work/life. Drugs and/or alcohol and "guy trips" become part of life. By year 5-7, he's cheating or emotionally invested elsewhere (she may be, too), and by year 8, it's either divorce time, or they agree to stay together for the kids and have another baby. Either way, they're usually all miserable.

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Danish Susanne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I would have put a reciept for a gun and ammo, where he could find it, because I would have wanted to kill anyone, who did such a thing to me. Of course I wouldn't shoot him and spent years in jail away from the kids, but I would have liked him to think I would.

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Mine Truly
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP"s reaction was fine, and the fact she is trying to figure out what's wrong with her reaction instead of considering that her HUSBAND is wrong for blaming her reaction, is a big red flag of a codependent mindset. He's been abusing her before this, which is why she's blaming herself for her reaction instead of recognizing his toxic, horrible behavior. Furthermore, the husband is refusing couples therapy, and no decent partner would refuse that. I bet that if we heard more stories about their relationship, his abuse and lack of love would become clear. I hesitate to suggest ending marriages with kids, but the fact is, if this is how he treats his wife, he's not going to be a healthy parent to the kids, either. OP needs to be firm that it's counseling or divorce.

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PSimms
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The husband is a psychopath and she should leave him. He is immature and cruel and will "prank" her painfully again.

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Lene
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it was me I'd simply ignore all the "it's a prank -HAHA!" from him and his friends. I'd go on with separation and divorce. Call his parents and inform them that he's coming home for a while. All that. If someone played a fool on me like that I'd be so furious! I don't like any sort of "testing" in relationships. It's immature and completely unnecessary in an adult relationship.

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Trillian
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is emotional manipulation. And I just can't believe he came up with something like this out of the blue and had never tried anything before. So yeah, I think she should leave him.

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Tina Hugh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can’t believe this is real. I think I’d kill someone who did this.

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Marie McCann
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One very real possibility. . . ALL the guys were doing this as a test . . . Of their wives. Exactly how would their wives react when one of them gets caught really cheating. Some wives are more forgiving, might suggest therapy, working it through, others want to divorce or chop something off!! They were all testing the waters. Absolutely , at least one of the guys is already cheating and the others all know. More test than prank. Ladies make your decision before it happens and plan to follow through.

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Iguessthisreallyisathing
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With the women I know, the reaction would have been quite different. "Hey, honey! You're awake now!" "How long have I been sleep? And why does my head hurt?" "Oh, about 5 months; you hit your head a few times on my frying pan. Let me let the doctor know you woke up."

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April Caron
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am I the only one who thinks this might not be a “prank?” He could have easily added his buddy’s number under Eve’s name and deleted hers. The OP was out for a walk. Who knows what he did when she was gone?

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We all missed the point. This isn't a 'Prank'. This is a sadist getting jollies in the continued torture of his wife. Not agreeing to therapy or apologizing merely makes him happier. He needs to never see his 'family' again. That would be best for the babies, because he will always tell them that their mother was in the wrong. I hope she gets the meanest divorce lawyer she can find and teach that f****r a lesson he'll never forget.

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Ralph Scholl
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time to file for divorce. Your husband is mentally ill. Thats not a prank that you EVER pull on a woman. He is SICK! Get out while you can.

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Tree P
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It seems to me like he wanted to see her reaction so he really COULD cheat. If he hasn't already.

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Jus
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How could he even think of doing something so cruel and ugly to his wife?? What a loser, what a diiick!

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Miocha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He pulled a cruel prank and gaslighted her. Hmm, what a fine specimen of a**hole he is!

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Y D
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your husband is human garbage. Can't imagine what about him was ever worthy of a second look let alone a wedding. What a loser. Good news is you get full custody and alimony out the yang after that fully intentional emotional torture. Take every iPad, copy every word, the pics, his stupid friends' involvement. Then take every dime, express clearly your very real fears what any continued contact of this psycho and your children could cause. And get a restraining order. Who's laughing now, m***** f*****.

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Wuttf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YES! She is divorcing him! Now to find a real ADULT to be a fully involved partner in her life...if she still wants to go that route. I wish her and her children the best!

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Samantha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like him and his buddies were setting up the "It'S a PrAnK!" alibi so one (or more) of them could get away with cheating for realsies.

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Mary Rinehart
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, your husband’s immaturity and carelessness is mind numbing. He & his other immature baby friends are showing no respect for their wives or their marriages. Marriage is tough enough without stupid tricks like this. Of course he doesn’t want to see a counselor-any one with half a brain would tell him he’s an idiot. He doesn’t like the fact that you’re a more mature and caring person than him. I’d be interested in his response if this prank had been played on him; but wait, he’s so immature that he would’ve had a dramatic meltdown. It sucks to be him as he realizes his wife has the strength and confidence, after her initial shock, tears & vomiting, that she can’t fall apart because someone has to protect the kids and it’s not going to be their dad. He’s gaslighting you, please don’t fall for it. And don’t keep this hurt to yourself. Let friends & family know as I’m sure some will notice things aren’t right between you two. You’ve done nothing to apologize for but he sure has.

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Poet Lion
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop apologizing for doing nothing wrong. Immature, gaslighting behavior. He needs to grow the hell up but at his age, it doesn't seem like he ever will.

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Mrs. Zel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This wouldn't be a "ridiculous" thing at all to leave him over. Letting you believe for hours that he's been cheating is one of the most cruel things I've ever heard someone doing to their partner. You should't be apologizing to him. He should be on his knees begging for your forgiveness.

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Agent 8433599
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is the most horrid thing. HOW COULD A PERSON DO THIS AND THINK IT WAS OK, AND TRY TO JUDGE YOU FOR BEING "COLD"????!!!!!!

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Angela Jester
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh,my God. I'm speechless 🙊 I hope she can leave. He certainly broke the marriage.

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Marta Kęska
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My only reaction is WTF. A grown-a*s man with wife and kids does pranks that'd be embarrassing and stupid even for a teen?

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Anne Johnson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Divorce his a$$. That is not a person you want to waste the rest of your life on. He’s shown you who he really is - believe him.

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Barbara Gibson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A prank is toothpaste in your oreos. Or unscrewing the salt shaker cap. This is abuse. The wrong person is apologizing here.

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Claire Trautmann
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is emotional and psychological abuse. Stick with plan to divorce him.

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Sara Valdez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there an update on this situation? Just wondering if the husband has ever stopped being a jacka$s?

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Andrea Zin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wtf??? How is "Found you cheating, was hurt, created some space for myself to deal with it and figure out a way to protect the children" a cold and calculating attitude while "hurting my wife in the worst possible way as a prank" is not??? This is adult behaviour on the wife's side versus completely irresponsible d**k move on the husband's side. I feel so sorry for the wife who did everything right and responsible in a hugely difficult situation not only being given sh** for that but feeling like the one who reacted in a wrong way on top of it all. I' m not a violent person but the husband needs his nose broken at the very least. Sincerely hope that OP reaches out to some psychological support.

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GPZ
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not that OP thought he was capable of cheating- he left clear evidence of it (yes even though it was fabricated), it's not like there were vague inuendos or a few words overheard that may have left a suspicion of infidelity. OP should definitely dump this absolute POS

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Diane Knight
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If someone were to mess up the car, you'd go to the repair shop and have it fixed back to being useable, same with going to a counselor, the gal needs to have a place to go sort this out if he sees the financial fallout of the cost this is for them. There is more than one cost he's going to pay for this. He deserves to feel each one of them. But get counseling first, if it just her to begin with, that's ok. But he needs to put his own butt in a chair too. Maybe a non-partial person can get him to see the wrong. For the 'perfect storm' of events, this can end badly. what does that look like? She ignores the IPad, he leaves and then returns to her being out of sorts and lets her leave before he reveals the hoax. while out, he did text her to see if she was 'ok' but didn't yet give up the prank on her or even get someone to take over the care of the children to go look for her and let her know ' I messed up' please let me explain. Then come off as the victim?

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Ounooi Roos
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A prank you say? I firmly believe if he is trying to "prank" you he is up to something. Stop entertaining his foolishness and think about yourself. What the heart is full off, the mouth runneth over. He wanted you beg and kiss a*s and you were acting grown up. If he and his so called friend are not cheating they are thinking about ir! Do NOT tolerate this behaviour. Stop apologizing and set an altimatum. You come with me to therapy or this is over. Don't stand for this abuse. It IS abuse.

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Luanne Fliss
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he wanted to see you vomit and cry, he should have timed it when he was home. It sounds like "the right reaction" he wanted. And why would he want that? The only answer is that he is cruel and values his friends above you. He needs to go to therapy with you or get the eff out of the house while divorce proceedings take place.

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Tammy Sheppard
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One time I saw similar stuff on my exes phone. And as soon as he realized I had seen it he told a similar story. That it was a joke. Bro had a new phone number and was messing w him by sending the pics and txts. His brother backed his story. I knew they were lying. It wasn’t long before I caught him again. Then his brother came clean and apologized for not telling me. And people wonder why I have trust issues. Lol

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millac
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's honestly lucky she didn't decide to hide that she knew until she had made all of the divorce arrangements to surprise him with and it was far, far, far too late for him to take it back as a "joke".

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Nina
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your kids are young and your marriage is basically nothing. Leave the bastard and don't look back. What a disgusting thing to do. She deserves so much better.

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Bella V
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why the hell are you with this guy and feeling guilty???? You had the wrong reaction? Wonder what he would've said if he had been stabbed or shot by you? What if THAT was your reaction? Would you have been "good enough" then?? Come on. Open your eyes, this is not funny or cute. There's a tik tok video of this couple that hides confetti cannons around the house and pops them on each other when they aren't expecting it. The kids even get involved. THAT is funny. THAT is cute. This is disgusting. Divorce and find a man that will cherish you and know better than to do this to you.

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Nikki Sevven
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not a prank. It's cruel and manipulative. I'd file for divorce.

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Mil
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is also disturbing is that his "friend" did this same s**t to other couples in their circle!! What the hell is wrong with these petulant boys to do this disturbing behavior to their wives?? I would consider getting together with the other wives for a group divorce of all of them!

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Donna Cheung
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm thinking of 2 possibilities: 1. It's not a prank. OP really caught him cheating, then he changed the contact on the iPad and got his friend to pretend it was a prank. Which makes him a gaslighter, when he's in the wrong. 2. It's a prank. Which makes him a sick man and an a**hole.

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T1Oracle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything you are feeling is valid and none of excuses are acceptable. What this man did is gross and traumatizing. If this is how he treats you, then divorce may infact be the best outcome for you. Good luck and stay strong!

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kcanded
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with all the 'divorce this immature a*****e' comments.

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6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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blatherskitenoir
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That they had two entire kids well before ever getting married tells me she got a shut up ring. He likes the power and wants her to be wailing and begging to stay with him despite any bad behavior. That she has spent weeks apologizing tells me that's her normal state. She needs to pull on her big girl pants, call the other wives, and arrange to have their own "prank" where they leave divorce papers "hidden" somewhere.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Robin Svab
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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

DON'T LEAVE THE CHILDREN ALONE WITH HIM. He is cruel and gets off on other's suffering!! Address this in court and he has to pay for supervised visitation.

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12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Raindeers
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Chills everyone. All of you only can suggest her to divorce. While the probability of her to find a better man 50:50, aside of she would need some time to get her a*s to got a cheap paying job while also raise her children like all single mother do. Ask yourself, should she be more suffer, while its also only a prank, not a real cheat. I must admint that she is kind like me, a drawback person, overthinking, and not trying to hold into anything we dear other than ourself. Thats what we introvert do, and something need to change. She need to change. And probably all commenters here who'se getting too serious and always ready to become victim over everything happened.

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Kaylee Brock
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OH and the fact that the friend laughed is what got me the most

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Kaylee Brock
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if i were you i would divorce him immediatly because hes a freakinggg jerk

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weatherwitch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She needs to leave him. Her reaction in staying and trying to work it out is wrong. She was incredibly mature and put the children first so as not to cause them upset. He is an immature Stupid prick who doesn't deserve her. People do Not react the same way and it's very worrying that he thinks she should and is judging her on her reaction, instead of his stupidity. She sounds like a little like me, react strongly physically to such a horrible thing (ie, sickness, fear, panic) then the working out counselling of what must be done. He broke all her trust and when that's gone it never comes back. She needs a divorce lawyer and on grounds of cruelty 😊

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Lorna Ackerman
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was so cruel, not a prank definitely abuse. Never ever joke about infidelity. If my husband did that to me, then treated me like that because I didn’t react like he thought I should I’d divorce him on the grounds of mental cruelty.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Kimberly Ledig
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, cheat on him to fullfil his ego but then divorce that insensitive prik. Do not you ever feel bad about yourself... But go to counseling first

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jdtimid123
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any "prank" that hurts someone, physically OR emotionally, isn't a prank. It's bullying at best, flat out abuse at worst.

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Stay Off My Lawn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Two things I can guarantee: 1) If he thought she was cheating on him, he would feel humiliated and likely become violent with her; 2) If he found out her “infidelity” was a prank, he’d be angry, probably become violent with her, and definitely be out for revenge. But *her* reaction was the “wrong” one???

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Sami-Jo Ross
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A prank would be something harmless like temporary hair dye in a shampoo bottle. Not pretending to cheat on your spouse. The hell is wrong with people?

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Linda Sullivan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a horrible guy. He's lucky you didn't leave and take the kids. You could have gotten in a car accident. I agree with other posters that this is cruel and controlling behavior. You didn't react right? Did he expect suicide?? I'm thinking clean the bank accounts and then ask where all the money went? Oh, we must have been robbed. Reconsider staying with such an a hole. Is he willing to put your children through mind games as well? Ha ha mom and dad are dying. This is sick. Maybe counciling would help, but stop apologizing you did nothing wrong.

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Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uhm yeah. If this is a "prank", you need him out of your life. For your own sanity and for the kids. What an AH

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Kim Lorton
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dump his asp. Use psychological and manipulative emotional abuse. Can he e plain why he did it? Knowing it might just undo you and your entire life? He is very lucky you were not the violent type! He could be dead.. bet he never thought of that! If he can do this, get out now, because he and his buddies could do something else worse. It isn’t a prank, and it’s not. Laughable situation. He is a full blooded As*ho**. It is also not how you l treat the person who loves you, had your kids, a home with you. He could care less, so, let him have his prank and take him to the cleaners.

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Marion Kelly
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA: 'Prank' definitely abusive. Regarding your reaction, u were in the stages of grief over the loss of your relationship. The stages do not always come to people in the same order. U went to anger and planning bc u knew u had to resolve the situation in the best way possible For Your Children. U put your children ahead of him and ahead of yourself. Excellent parenting. He didn't even think abt the consequences to his children. He wanted u to fall apart even if your children were home. Selfish p%$@k. Giving him the choice of therapy or divorce, is a realistic choice, not an ultimatum. I would advise u to protect your children from their father, but u are already r doing that very well. Don't let this narcissist gaslight u any further. This mess is no joke. Best wishes for happiness in your future.

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Liz Dawson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he did this to you, what will he do with your kids for a 'prank'? He needs help.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ow hell naw. He gaslight you after this? That man should be begging OP for mercy, kissing her feet, buying her flowers, doing all the house chores and sending her on an all paid vacation so she forgive him. I can't believe she's the one apologizing. So f up and immature git.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there's anyone who should be apologizing, it's HIM!!! Anyone who've been cheated on knows how soul-crushing this is, and that this sort of thing shatters trust to the point of being beyond repair. Yet, HE'S the one getting all upset because of a so-called "harmless" prank??? Rather than OP apologizing for her "failure" to respond "appropriately" to said prank, she should move out with the kids while he's away, then tell both her parents and her in-laws what had happened. He may at first think, "Oh, I get it, this is a revenge prank", but soon enough, he'll realize it wasn't a joke, she's dead serious! Eventually, he'll be the one changing HIS attitude and begging her to come back!

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Melanie McMahan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hubby didn't get his batshit crazy ego stroked to his satisfaction because she didn't beg & cry. A woman had the audacity to exhibit some feelings of self-respect & stood up for herself. To his mind, she was supposed to fall utterly apart at the notion of losing him & grovel for him to not leave. This is not about her being "cold or apathetic", he got his bitty widdle feewings hurt...poor baby. I have absolutely zero patience for this sort of c**p. Infidelity isn't a prank.

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Margaret Weaver
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have fed him his own liver. Not even kidding. Cheating is one thing, inebriated people make mistakes, s**t happens. Doing this as a joke, however, is a level of cruelty akin to turning humans into lampshades.

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William Smith
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's amazing that, for so-called 30-somethings, both parties have the maturity of a thirteen year old...

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Dean Turner
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) that's not a prank you ever pull on someone you love and I'd possibly leave them just for that. 2) Everyone reacts to cheating differently, but her reaction was 100% normal and understandable. If it was real, and if he didn't care enough about her to be faithful, then he was no longer worth her time or emotions, warranting the reaction he received. 3) SHE'S tried apologizing to HIM? HE'S the one being cold? It should be the other way around. This woman doesn't owe him a dam thing!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Pranking" your spouse this way is emotionally abusive, if youre doing this youre probably an attention wh*re

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Lorna Lay
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a sociopath this husband is! Not just the cruel and unnecessary nature of the ruse itself, but to then be clearly JEALOUS of the fact that your first thoughts after the initial shock wore off were of your preschool age children!? One guess who does all of the parenting in this household. Poor OP needs to RUN, as fast as she can.

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Jan Gardner
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is the behavior of a sadist. I wouldn't allow him near my kids. As a mother you have a duty to keep your children safe. You have a right to be happy. Talk with an attorney and get yourself ready to leave him. Document everything. This psychological abuse will only escalate. You and your children deserve better. He is a monster - get out now.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like a narcissist. If I’m right, he’ll do shxxxies to the kids, if he hasn’t already & they won’t understand, they’ll just get insecure with no way to describe it to you. RUN!!!

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Shereé Knight
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He probably IS or HAS cheated and wanted to know if it would break y'alls relationship or if you'd stay. He probably bet that you'd do anything for him and would definitely stay with him. Now he's hurt that he knows you'd drop his b***h a*s if found out. Don't apologize to him. Tell him to kiss your a*s.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean wow... 😮 I value body parts I wouldn't have anymore too much, as well as the roof over my head to consider a prank that I'm cheating. Wtaf?!

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Donna Porter
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her husband must have deeply rooted insecurities to feel he is warranted in this kind of behavior. Seems like classic narcissistic behavior, needing “validation” that he is desirable. He DEFINITELY NEEDS PSYCHIATRIC HELP!! He’s manipulative & then, when she reacted rationally, he began gaslighting her! I was married to a man (2 actually) who treated me in the exact same manner, until I finally turned the tables. This is a HUGE red flag for this woman. If he’s this childish, he WILL, inevitably, pull this c**p again!! What kind of example is he setting for his children? I say, separate, tell him to learn to wipe his own a*s, then make him PROVE he knows how…and INSIST he get professional help dealing with why he feels this behavior is “normal & acceptable”. Then, you can reassess the situation once he can display more mature thought & behavior. Otherwise, it’s over & he can find someone else to project his “jackass mentality” on!! From here on out, everything needs to be on her terms!

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CL Rowan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope. He lost his 'get out of jail free card' when he put her and the kids through an additional month of Hell. He doesn't deserve contact with anyone in that home again.

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Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have gone absolutely ballistic at him and his friend and left with the kids. That's emotional abuse and not funny at all.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG THE UDATE - HE DID IT AGAIN! Hi! I decided to make an update after all, mostly out of respect for all the people reaching out asking for one. I will make it private (?) however because honestly, as much as I appreciated the enormous response, it became too overwhelming for me. I couldn’t read all the comments and the bad ones stuck with me more that I want to admit. I never considered myself weak or stupid or as easily manipulated as I was portrayed. This morning, before my husband dropped off the children at the daycare and the dogs with the dog-sitter I asked him to talk to me. I told him that his treatment of me for the last month wasn’t sustainable and that I have given him space long enough but now he has to do something, talk to me, try to fins a solution or set me free. He asked me to meet up for lunch because we both were running late for work. The rest: https://www.reddit.com/user/LLostInDespair/comments/wl52b7/update/

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What in the hell did he think he would gain out of this? I could understand if an 18 year old would do this. But someone in his 30s with 2 children should either know better or seek professional help.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. Wow. I don't get this at all. He.. basically.. cheated(in a way, prank or no), and when she decided immediately what was best for their children, he gets pissed? Absolutely not, guy. Abso-f*****g-lutely not. I would have ended it right then and there, honestly. F**k your prank.

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I could be wrong but I am not getting the vibe that he is conditioning you for future manipulation. He’s wrong to treat the subject so lightly. I would say IF his ‘friends’ try to cover for any future bad behavior then now, at least, you won’t be caught off guard. If you want to give your relationship another go you’re going to have to date and build trust again. Try to do some fun couple things. It seems like he sorta wanted to be Cinderella so do your share of pursuing and smiling. You said you love him.

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Gerry Higgins
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1 year ago

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You must have known he was an a*s hat before you married him. Now you've got two kids and you're stuck with him in your life for at least 20 years. Divorce the dumb a*s. And don't settle for jerks like this next time.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah, yes, blame the victim. After all, we should have KNOWN, so it's totally on us. /s

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I half way think this is a fake because of her responses.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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