This Woman Had The Best Comeback Ever To A Man Who Said To Stay Away From Women With Dyed Hair
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Alexander J.A Cortes calls himself a “trainer,” “writer,” and “speaker,” and a life coach of all sorts but his recent tweets made a lot of women attribute quite a few nasty labels to him as well.
“Unnatural hair colors in [a] woman are a warning signal to stay away,” Cortes opened. “It’s an example [of] Aposematism – the phenomenon of poisonous animals in nature advertising their toxicity and lethality.”
He then went on to explain why men should stay away from women who use hair dyes. “You gentlemen want an obvious example of a red flag?” Cortes asked. “It doesn’t get more obvious than that.”
Immediately, people started replying to Cortes. And while some actually agreed with him, after Julie Grundy dropped the best comeback, many started expressing a different opinion.
One day later, Cortes gave men contradictory dating advice. “Don’t date women who are picky eaters,” he said. According to him, “How you do one thing is how you do everything,” and all the female picky eaters that he has encountered were “hesitant,” “not curious,” and had “fixed mindsets.” On the other hand, women he knew who loved new foods were “fun,” “adventurous,” and “always curious.”
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Why do these types always pull the "this isn't attractive to men" card? Tell you a secret, they're not doing it for men. And men are not a hivemind, people happen to have different preferences.
I don't get what is going through the minds of guys who make arguments like "that is not attractive to men, ladies" as if everything a woman does is somehow with a purpose of attracting a male and often times that male in particular. Surprise, the world doesn't revolve around you. Same goes for women who make the same argument about men.
Exactly! Not everything that a woman does is for men! And also ... Harley Quinn is a fictional super villain. She's not real.
Which is the reason why it's stupid to respond to stuff like this, I mean has any doctor ever put forward an argument linking mental health with hair colour? Also man are pretty easy, you could probably rub dog shit in your hair and still get a boyfriend. All they've done by "shuting this guy down" with selfies looking up at a 45 degree angle, is raised this guy's online profile, great we now have another Milo Yalopo-whatever.
I have to agree. By responding to every idiot with a half baked idea you are demonstrating that they have some sort of influence. ALSO, it's hair color, not your right to vote or your discrimination against your sexual orientation or a health concern.... holy who cares what this guy thinks.
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Anyone with intelligence can figure out that spending an inordinate amount of time on superficial self attention is not healthy.
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OOO Hivemind I like this description
So... He picks a fictional comic character... to prove his point? Okay, then, let me counter that with... say, Sailor Mercury! Blue hair, kind heart, her sense of responsibility is just right and she's so smart and clever. Game on, people! Let's prove that guy wrong with our favourite comics characters! ♥
Denethor had long dark hair, nearly got everyone in Gondor killed and tried to burn his son alive. From this, I say stay away from men with long, dark hair and stubble.
@Dorothy: But Momoa is good looking. This guy is just trying to be.
No! You just described Jason Momoa.
I was obviously joking... no one should be judged on their looks. I was just using his argument against him to prove its fallacy.
Fair play.
My Little Pony - rainbow hair and totally innocuous, exept maybe to him - playthings of the young "She Devils"
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I don't think adults who want to emulate a cartoon aimed at 4 year olds are exactly healthy.. Another sign of the growing problem of infantilization for young adults afraid of reality.
Nimona had pink hair and she was awesome and great... and a monster... shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit.
And the tradicional Harley does not dye her hair, she have natural blonde pigtails....
Nikki D, to put it simple. There are 2 main universes within the Batman franchise - the older and classic one, and a latter and more modern one. Suicide Squad, just like all other Batman related films after Nolan's trilogy, follows the latter one. In this one, Harley has a dyed bicolour hair. In the classic, she's just blonde, but her hair doesn't show when she's in full costume.
So they just did that dye job for the movie? Genuinely asking.
Right? With his logic, has he ever heard of Patrick Bateman? Because those are the vibes I'm getting.
Utena! The ultimate prince!
I think he got rejected recently by a woman with "unnatural hair color" and tries to get his revenge. Taking the whole female population as his target. Another "nice guy" :)
He had a crazy girlfriend with an unnatural hair color & now he's triggered by unnatural hair colors.
Colored hair = creativity, individuality, independence, style
That's why it can frighten some stupid dude
These ''men'' don't want a creative, individual, independent, stylish woman. They want a 50's housewife to cook and clean the house and take care of 10 kids while they go to the bar every night
Jay Holmes- I think you mean "everyone is crazy"
Jay Holmes...you lost me at 'every woman is crazy'
Jay Holmes As long as you respect the rights of employers to not want to hire them. If they rebel against social norms, they are likely to rebel against any authority, including employers.
I'm a woman and I don't approve of weird dyed hair either. It does not look professional and makes me think they are wild and impulsive.
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Every woman is crazy, but I prefer my crazy on the outside in vibrant colours as opposed to hidden away like a doormouse ready to snap. They are the real crazy dangerous ones lol That being said, I love people who feel the freedom to show their independence and die their hair the way they want it. I know they aren't doing it for me or anyone else, so why should it bother me or anyone else. My wife has purple hair, my 9yr old daughter has pink and purple streaks in her hair. I got called crazy for letting her have it done, I then explained that whilst she is at primary school she can show her independence and who she is, at high school they try and make you conform to a set standard, after high school she gets to be herself again. Why force her into a box she doesn't have to sit in yet! I have already said that if I have any hair left when I leave the Air Force, it's going luminous green or blue (maybe both, haven't decided). But after conforming in uniform for 22yrs, rebellion is mine
coloured hair means the opposite of those things
"Epic" and "Shutdown"... Well, Dear BP... 2mxf1v-5bf...946bb8.jpg
I see princess bride, I upvote : )
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Free hint, Alexander: A lot of women don't care about they look to men. And women don't exist to please men, so they can dye their hair/dress whatever THEY want.
Men who publicly state that their female preferences are the "right" one tend to be unadventurous, intolerant, controlling and hate independence in women.
But most women think men exist to please them.
What about male animals that are super colorfull to attract females? Does it mean I should get a new boyfriend with green hair???? My life was a lie!
1. women DON'T dye their hair for men, they dye it for themselves. 2. if a guy feels this way, hes not the guy for her ANYWAY.
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Doesn't matter what the reason is, it is still spending more time and money to create an unrealistic & delusional self-image that is a sign of an unhealthy psyche.
Douglas dude....are you just going to respond to every comment on here with the same thing? Because it is a sign of an unhealthy psyche.
This is beyond stupid. Let people do what they want as long as it isn't harming anyone. If it makes them happy, who the fuck cares?
This is not about hair colour. This guy clearly hates women, and he has people listening to him, which is the scary part. It might be better to ignore him, and forward his information to the CIA or FBI or whoever tracks and studies incels.
Oh good Lord, another idiot on Twitter. My internationally well known astrophysicist husband of 25+ years would beg to differ with this man's shortsighted statement. As would my National Honors Society overachieving teenage son. They love my colorful locks and creative personality.
@MBZ: Sounds like you have a great family. Kudos.
Yeah they're pretty wonderful. Blessed am I
Aaaahahahahahahahaha "why do they think it's attractive to men?" We don't do this shit for you, you egotistical asshole.
I *WISH* dyed hair made asshats stay away. I'd be budgeting for that every month!
HIS face is a warning sign for me. And there is no way you can dye that, dude.
To be honest, I used to dislike when people dyed their hair unnatural colors. But then I grew up, or something. As long as you are not hurting yourself or others, do what makes you happy. Anyway, the other week at work someone came through my line that I'm 99% certain was actually Psylocke of the X-Men. I never knew the lavender look could work in real life. She was absolutely stunning. I think she even had contacts in as well.
Guess what men, the world does not fucking revolve around you. When a woman dyes her hair, she's doing it for herself, not for you. That pretty much goes for any other type of fashion we may do. Maybe they do think they are hot. But they don't care what other people think, it's only how they think alone. Also I love how these men seem to think that women who do this are all attracted to men and doing it for them when many of these women could be gay, and therefore they only care about what other women think of them.
Wow, someone gave me a downvote for speaking the truth? Must have been a bitter guy that agrees with that dude's twitter posts.
Well, I don't want to hear women complain about how men should be tall, have good jobs and stay clean-shaven either. Also, there was just an article about women who demand expensive engagement rings from men. Women have far higher demands of men but men are not allowed to make any demands from women. What a double-standard.
I gave you an upvote. :-)
Uhh, as long as he 'allows' women to dye them n natural colours. What a gent. Anyway- apart from dilution- what makes him think women dye their hairs only so they can attract a man instead of just feeling good themselves and doing it for themselves.
So - he says women can dye their hair (how gracious of him) just so long as it is a colour he approves of.
I think it would be funny if everyone woman who dyes her hair sends him a tweet to ask if he approves. His inbox would be swamped! hahaha
@Jo The guy is an arsehole, but loads of women sending pictures of themselves is not going to break him(or any man for that matter), he would simply show them to his friends and post the worst pictures on social media with misogynistic comments about their looks. He's a troll and you guys are going to make him famous.
Yay another shut down post. Can we have more positive creative posts?
This is positive!
I kinda think that pointing out what a bellend somebody is, is quite positive.
what's a bellend??
At first, I didn't really think much ot these kind of post. But in fact, they are a good thing. Everyone is judgmental, but thanks to these exemples, we can try to cure ourselves. Because you can't say/type everything that comes to your mind and I'm sure it will come to a point, where people are going to watch their tongue and fingers. In a perfect world, this would be because we would learn to be empathic or because we apply my Grand-Ma's motto ("If you don't have anything nice to say about someone, shut up"). Yet, even if it's because we don't want to look stupid, some poeple are not going to receive our negativity, and this is nice.
They are not a good thing if 90% of the posts are like these. Then you create the opposite of what you want to achieve. Like a grandpa telling you the SAME story over and over again.
Maybe she is not trying to attract men ????
That rainbow hair looks awesome! The guy who thinks this is not attractive just has bad taste.
women.don't.dye.their.hair.for.men.not.everything.is.about.you. #ICantEyerollHardEnough!!!!
When I color my hair, I choose a color that makes ME happy. IDGAF what other people think, unless of course they like it because then they are awesome. If you don't like wild hair colors, by all means don't date people who do. Everyone is going to be happier when you stay inside your own boring little lines and roles.
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When you're in your teens & early twenties it's fun to manipulate your look. The problem is that this generation cannot seem to grow beyond a very childish, self-centered mindset & devote their lives to superficial self worship.
pardon my French, but what the fuck is wrong with you Douglas. have you ever met a single other person who exists in this universe? have you ever even talked to a teen, or are you just making assumptions on the few rumours you hear from the internet in your moms basement?
I'm waiting for the woman/women with fabulously colored hair who rejected him to come forward. What a egomaniac, who thinks he has discerned something just by hair color. He knows zip about this, and probably less about the rest of things he claims to know.
Poor bastard. Someone should have let him know that he doesn't have to suffer from blue hair envy. Boys can dye their hair unnatural colors, too!!
He definitely doesn't speak for all men. Personally, I like the dark blue or purple or red hair. That picture of the woman with rainbow hair looked really cool, in my opinion
Hopefully women of every hair color on the planet, "natural" or otherwise, now know to stay far, far away from this creep.
There are plenty examples of psycho women with natural hair colors. Like the girl who shot up her school because she hates Mondays, or the Prostitute serial killer that killed her Johns.
Women adjust their appearances for other reasons than attracting men, you arrogant twat.
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Yes, PEOPLE (not just women) do adjust their appearances for many reasons & that's OK. On the other hand, it can also be an indication of unhealthy tendencies.
Proof for your asinine assertions?
I'm glad to color my hair cuz it'll keep ppl like him away
OOO, this guy must be a hit with the ladies
I reckon he’s about as welcome as a dose of the clap, as the old saying goes. I’d dye my hair like a rainbow to keep dicks like him on the other side of the continent!
Some men are scared by HAIR.?! They live in a very small word . . .
I am not saying that this guy is right but... Why are most of these girls living on a ship that makes their selfies tilt?
The ones you really need to worry about are the ones who dye their armpit and/or pubic hair.
i agree, it does look stupid
Harley Quinn is a.....is a fictional character?? How is the "red flag" proving anything??
This tool who sports the Fabio hair...lol.
That guy looks like a creep and I bet he was a little boy who got crushes on comic book characters who had blue or pink hair. Just think of manga, and all of the MEN who are hot for manga characters! I've had every color of the rainbow for hair color, and it was FUN and liberating. I never had so many compliments when I had my natural boring brown hair, but the colors, wow, people were ALWAYS saying great things about it. This guy can KISS OFF!! Anyways, he looks like a GIRL with that long curly greasy hair. Definitely not my idea of a "man" I'd want to mate with!!
Y'know why some of us dye our hair blue or teal or whatever "unnatural color"? B/c we like the color. B/c we have self-confidence. Face it. "He is passive-aggressive. He hates women." ("Firething", Gudrun Gut)
I went with pink/purple hair to please myself. That seems to be a thing men like this have a problem with, because a woman is doing something to make herself happy regardless of whether men like it. Also, the plural of succubus is succubi, not "succubus's," you dumb ass.
LMAO! Right! because we have a zillion different shades of red of lipsticks and polish: to attract MEN. ROFL!
This is just some misogynistic, 'women don't seem to fancy me so I am going on the offensive' shit! PLUS the replies of 'women don't seem to understand what attracts men'? It is ALL about men- even when they are talking about women it is in reference to themselves. STFU!
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The fact that he doesn't find it attractive is not the point of the post. The point is that people who spend so much time on creating artificial & unsustainable images are unhealthy because of that reason. It's a sign of self-centeredness, delusion, & an unhealthy obsession with self image.
Douglas. I didn't say it was the point of the post, that is why I added it on as a plus. I was referring to the comments that followed. I dyed my hair flamingo pink as a teenager (it took me 45 minutes) and I was and still am as stable as they come. Do you feel the same way about tattoos? Dreadlocks? Bright clothes? Do we all have to look the same to be considered stable in your opinion? I have a friend who is covered in tattoos, has purple hair and is a happily married woman with three kids and a masters in behaviour theory. Is she unhealthy and delusional?
Douglas you are not a psychologist, so in fact your posts seem to be a reflection opon yourself instead. Who are you to decide what people do with their hair? Does God whisper these rules into your ear at night and expect you to utter them unto the lesser peons of the internet? Good grief, man.
Plenty of non fictional examples of the opposite... haha
So, who the hell is this guy and why should anyone follow his advice?
I think that these women look beautiful with, and without, these colors...
Well honestly I feel that women dying their hair is attractive if it fits with the person who does it. There is no generalization for this type of stuff
I do not agree with this guy. He's an asshole and he looks like what Jason Mamoa would look like if he never got his big break. But personally I prefer women with natural hair colours. It's not about hate or fear. It's just a simple preference for me. I hope no one gets offended by this.
I prefer men who don't think the internet to let everyone know what their 'type' is.
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I prefer PEOPLE who don't feel anyone who with an opinion is a threat.
I understand that you may not 'prefer' coloured hair, that doesn't meant that anyone should have to change to fit your ideal, and you don't need to broadcast that.
I wasn't saying that women with unnatural hair colours are unattractive. I don't find them repulsive. I don't hate them. I was just saying I'm more attracted to the ones with natural hair colours. No need to attack me for having a preference just like everyone in this world does. You have your preferences too, I bet. I wasn't trying to offend anyone. I was just saying. And the comment section is for people to express their thoughts about the post above so I don't think I did anything outrageous here
I've never done anything about my appearance to attract men lmfao. Plenty of girls would keep putting their makeup on and getting their hair done even if every last man on Earth died. I made my hair crazy colors as a tween, it was just fun! Anyone who looks into it more than that has other serious issues of their own.
we didn't do it for men or to attract a mate, we did it to express our selves. IMG_201907...79ef39.jpg
Just FYI...he also did a list for men. Standards and preferences are NOT WRONG.
One thing though... Almost every single one of these ladies had crazy eyes, are we just going to ignore that? 😂
I'm an old man (over 70) and I honestly think that some of the odd hair colors look good. The first time I saw a girl with blue hair, in Seattle about 20 years ago, I told her it looked good and she seemed a bit surprised to hear that from an old men. My granddaughter has had pink, green and blue hair and they all looked good. I think this guy is nuts to try to speak for all men.
I was thinking he seemed like a douche just from his photo, but I tried to keep an open mind. Then he started talking about SJWs and thots and it became clear that yes, he was in fact just a big ol' douchewaffle. I think colored hair is usually for the person with the colored hair, and not for much of anyone else, but I don't know. When I've done it it's always been for me and my happiness when I saw it it in the mirror, not to attract or repel anyone in particular.
The warning is stay away from AJA_Cortes.
I love women with Dyed Hair, its symbolic of free spirit and like, if you don't like the way my hair colour is, than F@ck up, never forget that every colour have a vibration, blue, pink or green are strong one, and bright white is all together.
I'm sure there are plenty of men who like coloured hair but it doesn't really matter either way. I only ever did it for myself because it actually made me feel happier. Colour can do wonders for your mental health, the world would be pretty boring without them. Someone who doesn't like seeing wonderful colours on people must be very boring and unimaginative and close minded themselves, I personally would hate to be around someone like that. I think people with that hair always look interesting bright and beautiful. Why in the world should any of us care what some strangers thinks of our life choices, That's the best funniest part about this he thinks his opinion is the only one that counts, It's laughable.
Sounds as though Cortes has reasons to avoid all kinds of women. Bit of luck for the ladies.
Watch out for guys with long hair and stubble beards... could be a sign of trouble ahead!
What does that guy know about mental illness and appearance ? I have schizophrenia and white hair, not dyed, and my symptoms are controlled by medication. It's the people whose symptoms are NOT controlled by medication you should worry about, you fool.
the replies of the women shows, that he got under their skin with his moronic thoughts. morons replying to morons, thank god we have social media
I love that different hair colors exist (and yes I love the rainbow hair) and that people can feel free to have some fun.
When I saw the words, "manhater blue", "Ihaveamentaldisease pink", and the term "young Kings" I knew all I needed to know about this pompous shitheel. The long and the short of it ladies, this is the guy your mom always warned you about. You would also have to think that by using the term SJW in the manner he did that he has less functioning in his big head than his little head. This guy is a self proclaimed trainer, writer, and speaker. That's rich. I have socks that have more wisdom than this purveyor of douchebaggery could ever dream to muster. If by "trainer" he means a personal trainer, well the only thing I can say there is that it doesn't matter how beautiful you may make yourself on the outside, it isn't worth a dime if you're ugly on the inside.
Do you guys (the ones who agree with OP) think that maybe the girls/women who dye their hair a different color are doing it for themselves and NOT for you? Just because you don't like it and it's a turn off doesn't mean all men are like that. So girls/women, keep dying away til your heart's content. If I was younger and my hair wasn't so badly damaged I would do it myself.
I love how he thinks he speaks for all men! I think colours are fun and playful! As an artist I love extra colour in my hair.
the guy is right. Green hair = I need your attention, please. Plus, usually leftist (and chubby)
That dude belong in a jungle far away from intelligent expressive women.
Says the male with long hair...
I literaly found this post just few minutes after dyeing my hair green :D Yeah I might have depression but I dyed my hair just for fun. I always kind of experiment with my hairstyles. And really I know quite alot of people who like when person dyes his/hers hair. And it really doesn't work as a warning sing, actually it's a great conversation starter :D
to the poster and all commetners: OMG WHO THE FUCK CARES, what has boredpanda become, a place where you get to see how butthurt people "have the best response" to useless opinions of worthless retards, where is the good stuff
oh my god, WHO THE FUCK CARES, the poster and all commenters, get a life, boredpanda, what piece of crap this has become
Haha what an absolute chump, inadequate piece of crap. I bet he has the most thrilling conversations, he seems very intellectual, great spelling and all that. My wife dyes her hair all colours of the rainbow, she has bright, leafy green at the moment and she is a child counselor who spends hours patiently listening and talking to traumatised children who have been through physical and sexual abuse but yeah because she dyes her hair she is toxic and mental, not an absolutey caring woman who is amazing. He mentions that animals use this defence, yes snakes frogs and birds, things that are nothing like a a mammal, you twat.
Dude, I have maroon dyed hair - This is like me saying that dudes with dreadlocks are unattractive (personally I like it). They don't do it to impress me or get me to like them. They do it for them, to show they are colorful people. I just dyed my hair because I like Maroon 5, not because I'm "poisonous". It shouldn't matter what color her hair, eyes are, how much she weighs. She is beautiful.
I suddenly want to colour my hair in manhater-blue :)
This man may be a genius.
I had blue hair a while ago and I miss it! People treated me differently. Strangers were more open and friendly to me. If any of the above kind of assholes were lurking around scowling about it to themselves, well, I didn't see it thankfully.
I love colourful hair and wish I had the currage (and a good hairdresser around) to do them myself! Now I just dye my hair chocolate black. I'm boring then, but hey, according to that jerk I'm attractive to men! Just somehow don't see them streaming through doors and windows... Hm.
This guy is an idiot, and I love the backlash he got. Whatever our style, rest assured, we don't give damn what you think of it.
What did I find unattractive when I was young..big men with brown hair and hairy chests. What did I marry? A big man with brown hair and a hairy chest. This idiot has no idea what he is really attracted to, but if he lives with the mindset that any woman with colored hair is crazy and, therefore, not worth dating..he may miss out on the girl of his dreams. I only got lucky because I ignored my "standards" for one night, and it was the best decision ever! I realized it wasn't appearance I was attracted to...it was how I was treated that was attractive. And this guy sounds like he had a bad experience with a girl that dyed her hair. I got news for ya buddy! Hair dye doesn't affect crazy..they're born with it or learn it from mom. And their hair could be blonde, brunette, red head, or purple with green polka dots..you'll never see it coming. But keeping yourself out of a section of the dating pool because you are afraid of what may happen...well..good luck with being lonely.
Douglas, I think you are the one with the mental deficiency. People are opening your hidden comments just so they can downvote them. Run along now.........
So what is this guy, a drug store psychologist? BTW Dude, you need a shave. That's a pathetic attempt at a beard.
'Stay away young kings'?! You utter cock.
I'm in the middle here. On the one hand, he's got the right to not find women with green/purple/orange/whatever hair unattractive. On the other, its just hair color, for crying out loud and he's making too much out of it. (Personally, I don't find neon-colored hair all that attractive, either, but hey, if that's what floats your boat, you do you, sweetheart.) Either way, her implying that he's a predator for having physical preferences when it comes to women is sexist bullshit. Utterly, completely unacceptable sexist bullshit and she should not be celebrated because of her sexist bullshit. Quite the contrary. And for the record, none of the women who responded with pictures of their circus-colored hair refuted him at all. Quite the contrary, a lot of them proved his point quite succinctly.
He needs a hot steaming cup of SHUT THE FUCK UP!
What he's saying is true. Yeah, I'd bang, but I'd also run afterwards for fear of a crazy F'k.
He's being sarcastic, I can't believe none of you guys have figured this out yet...
Usually wanting attention.
Ohhh nooo, how am I going to break it to my husband of four years that I'm a manhater??? Also, women don't do things specifically to attract men, you insufferable twat.
What. the fuck. is going on through these men's heads. "I can't get a girl to love me/I dated a girl who was 'crazy' and she happened to have blue hair" not only is this INCREDIBLY misogynistic and sexist, the "you have a mental illness if you have brightly colored hair" is just bigotry and ableist, and as a person with an ACTUAL mental illness, I fucking can't stand BRIGHTLY COLORED HAIR being compared to suicidal thoughts and having panic attacks every day. So shut the FuCK up.
Coming from someone who needs a razor, scissors and a bar of soap.
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Ha! Very true!
Boredpanda: on a quest to ruin every word to lose it's meaining! This week epic and shutdown.
someone just hate bright colored life
Except they didn't shut him down, he's still talking the same shit....
My husband wishes I could go back to crayon red hair! And I got so many complements from men and women with my rainbow hair.
That man is the crazy one, he don´t know the hello he talkin´ about. Just because we die our hair any color, doesn´t mean that we´re crazy! We do it for ourselves, to be so brave and show that we are stronger than our inner us. One more thing. ¨How many times have you watched suicide squad, Alexander?¨
Dargnit! Due to this man's misogynist words my emotions changed!! I have to get back to the hairdresser and spend "an inordinate amount of time on superficial self attention" again!! And I just came back yesterday from the hairdresser with a nice new 'Today-I-encountered-no-female-hate-van dyke brown-and-little-happy-trees-purple! Sigh!! What colour would fit my "complexion"?
Are we going to address the fact that he wears his hair long in a feminine way? Is it to attract males? Because in his mind all we women do is to attract males .... Perhaps is just his own subconscious way of warning women to stay away from a male who's grooming needs exceed those of his female counterparts?
Okay,okay caveman you don't have to color your life, lay back and scratch your chest fur!,
I love it how he got the term wrong, burn dude ... Burn.
Wow that's harsh just plain harsh everyone has the right to live as they want.
My brain cells hurts while reading this.
I'm thinking that I need to add a touch of color to my hair. After 26 years of marriage, I think my husband is already well acquainted with and use to my particular brand of crazy. He'll look at me and say "oh, you did a thing". He likes tie-dye anyway.
If it bothers you, stay away, no big deal. There are far more women around then there are men so if you want one who doesn't do this, it shouldn't be a problem. If no one is attracted to them, they will change it.
What person, female or male, wouldn't want to follow the sage "life advice" of a 29 year old whose world revolves around health, fitness, and (apparently) Twitter (always a font of clearly thought out sentiments!). Gosh, I bet he has lots of time to ponder his own brand of wisdom while working out, being a self-proclaimed "writer" (I guess Tweeting is now considered 'writing'), "speaker" (pontificating to all the other bros at the gym, as well as all those fortunate females oh-so-lucky enough to have him sidle up to them at the club or juice bar), and conditioning those long, flowing locks and maintaining just the right amount of stubble. I bet this D-bag probably knows "I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell" by heart.
I would not hire someone with green hair. Or pierced faces, or face tattoos. Do whatever style you like but remember there are consequences to your choices.
Colored hair not attractive to men? Bullshit! It's fucking arousing as all get-out.
Of course the argument of the original poster is rididuclous. However, most of the aggresive replies full of swearing and insults seem to prove him right. We should stand up against hate posted on social media, but against random opinions? Ignoring them is the best choice.
I don't know where you're getting the idea that the responding people are being aggressive when they most certainly are not. They are simply making the correct point that whatever we women do, it does NOT revolve around men. And don't do things for men. We do them for ourselves.
Where's the fun in that?
Another man who thinks his way is the right way for all. A lot of people ignored Nazis for a long time.
Mistaking appeasement with ignoring vocal farts is a bit far-fetched.
I did not even bother reading this.
Great, Thanks Chris. we will keep this noted in the bottom of the trash can next time we want to know if you read this or not
This dude is on to something. Barring a few exceptions, he is not wrong. I find those colors very hot, but more often than not they are a flag. You have to think of those women like, I dunno, a giraffe. Nice to look at, but you wouldn't want to take one home :D
Some chick with different colored hair hurt is little feels and so now, he's taking it out one ever woman with different colored hair. Also, you can't speak for all men. Plus this has nothing to do with women who color their hair differently, it has something to do with the women this man is picking. I promise you, this is not the first woman with rainbow hair to have fucked him over, he's drawn to theses type of women. They just happen to have rainbow hair.
'Lethality'? Dick.
When I was growing up you had to go to a circus to see the tattooed lady and clowns with green, blue, or purple hair. Now they're everywhere
As long as we're splitting hairs (no pun intended) how about how unattractive it is for men to wear their pants halfway down their ass. Here's a tip fellas..wearing your pants like that screams scrub..thug..degenerate. It says..I'm going to be in an out of jail, I'm never going to hold a steady job, and when the kids show up..I won't be found within a 100 yards of the mother. And if fellas that wear their pants in this fashion want to argue..tell me one good reason why wearing your pants halfway down your butt, exposing your undies..a task that makes it damn near impossible for you to walk unless one hand is grasping your waist constantly..is in anyway a fashion statement or attractive to the opposite sex.
Getting down voted yet still, no one is saying how wearing pants halfway down your ass is attractive to the opposite sex.
Was he joking...? Because it's so obnoxiously funny that it has to be a joke. haha! There are plenty of non -fictional examples of crazy people who have naturally colored hair. Like Aileen Wuoronos, the prostitute serial killer. Or Brenda Spencer, the school shooter who said she did it because she hates Mondays.
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Wow! I'm so lucky to have found my boyfriend despite this well-explained, scientific and therefore accurate tweet x'D Btw, I had him read this and he doesn't agree. I'm only crazy during the day ^^
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Secretly the guy has a thing for girls with funky hair colours and all these girls just tweeted him selfies for the wank bank
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But the crazy women are more fun
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True, but not to be in a relationship with.
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Seriously, I think he should just accept the fact that his "normal"hair is nothing but plain.
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Since this manbaby has long hair, is it safe to assume that he's a woman?
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The problem with this post is that it is focused on women only when there are plenty of other superficial clues to toxic personalities for both men & women.
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I mean this dude should just watch kpop more :b
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A person has an opinion and so other persons feel the need to "destroy" him on twitter/ tumblr/ buzzfeed? Why? Why are people not allowed to have an opinion anymore? I've always preferred natural hair and I don't get why so many women have to dye it, but it's their business and I've nothing against it.
It's fine to have an opinion, as long as you don't insult people for no reason (like OP). The problem with dudes like that is they think their opinion is everyone's business and how dare women not do everything to look attractive to random men?
It's not an opinion that's the problem, its the language he uses--he hates women (while being attracted to them). But people are also upset for the reason you point out--it's their business
He can have an opinion. And other people can have an opinion about his opinion. That's how this work, dude.
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Now, I know Harley Queen is homicidal... but as long as she doesn't kill me I'm not bothered. Plus, I bet she's one crazy shag haha (talking about the character played in Suicide Squad, not the actress herself, let's stay creative)
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I agree with Cortes & the toxic responses from the women with unnatural hair colors seem to support his argument for staying away from them. At the very least, the amount of time these people (men & women) spend on their appearance indicates a high level of superficiality, self centeredness, & prob. narcissism, all of which prove they are toxic.
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got to say, from my own personal experience he hit the nail on the head with this one. I've never met a women who dyed her hair unnaturally that wasn't bat shit crazy. it is an extreme choice to dye your hair unnaturally and for the most part (i said for the most part calm down sjw's) you have to have a job out of the norm to actually be able to dye your hair an unnatural color so naturally eccentric people will be the ones doing this. i think maybe he is right in saying that most women who dye their hair an unnatural colors are "crazy" but maybe he could have explained it a little better than comparing them to animals who do it for protection lol. Maybe that they are eccentric and creative and to some people that could be considered "crazy", but, again, in my personal opinion who the hell wants a plain jane girl? date the crazy ones they are more fun and keep ya guessing, just have to know how to reign them in, hell, i have to be reigned in sometimes too.
Or maybe both of your are just stupid and no women would want to be around you anyway.
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Agreed.
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Technically he is correct, our human instincts make us avoid brightly colored things, explains why SJWs are so ugly to us. Oh wait, it isn't the hair.
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This is not an epic shut down.. Not saying I agree with him 100% (he is clearly generalizing) but he is sort of right. A lot of aggressive, angry, feminist women color their hair blue or whatever these days. That doesn't mean everyone who colors their hair is like that. Anyone can do whatever they like with their looks, but a lot of the time it is some sort of political statement.
Why do these types always pull the "this isn't attractive to men" card? Tell you a secret, they're not doing it for men. And men are not a hivemind, people happen to have different preferences.
I don't get what is going through the minds of guys who make arguments like "that is not attractive to men, ladies" as if everything a woman does is somehow with a purpose of attracting a male and often times that male in particular. Surprise, the world doesn't revolve around you. Same goes for women who make the same argument about men.
Exactly! Not everything that a woman does is for men! And also ... Harley Quinn is a fictional super villain. She's not real.
Which is the reason why it's stupid to respond to stuff like this, I mean has any doctor ever put forward an argument linking mental health with hair colour? Also man are pretty easy, you could probably rub dog shit in your hair and still get a boyfriend. All they've done by "shuting this guy down" with selfies looking up at a 45 degree angle, is raised this guy's online profile, great we now have another Milo Yalopo-whatever.
I have to agree. By responding to every idiot with a half baked idea you are demonstrating that they have some sort of influence. ALSO, it's hair color, not your right to vote or your discrimination against your sexual orientation or a health concern.... holy who cares what this guy thinks.
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Anyone with intelligence can figure out that spending an inordinate amount of time on superficial self attention is not healthy.
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OOO Hivemind I like this description
So... He picks a fictional comic character... to prove his point? Okay, then, let me counter that with... say, Sailor Mercury! Blue hair, kind heart, her sense of responsibility is just right and she's so smart and clever. Game on, people! Let's prove that guy wrong with our favourite comics characters! ♥
Denethor had long dark hair, nearly got everyone in Gondor killed and tried to burn his son alive. From this, I say stay away from men with long, dark hair and stubble.
@Dorothy: But Momoa is good looking. This guy is just trying to be.
No! You just described Jason Momoa.
I was obviously joking... no one should be judged on their looks. I was just using his argument against him to prove its fallacy.
Fair play.
My Little Pony - rainbow hair and totally innocuous, exept maybe to him - playthings of the young "She Devils"
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I don't think adults who want to emulate a cartoon aimed at 4 year olds are exactly healthy.. Another sign of the growing problem of infantilization for young adults afraid of reality.
Nimona had pink hair and she was awesome and great... and a monster... shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit.
And the tradicional Harley does not dye her hair, she have natural blonde pigtails....
Nikki D, to put it simple. There are 2 main universes within the Batman franchise - the older and classic one, and a latter and more modern one. Suicide Squad, just like all other Batman related films after Nolan's trilogy, follows the latter one. In this one, Harley has a dyed bicolour hair. In the classic, she's just blonde, but her hair doesn't show when she's in full costume.
So they just did that dye job for the movie? Genuinely asking.
Right? With his logic, has he ever heard of Patrick Bateman? Because those are the vibes I'm getting.
Utena! The ultimate prince!
I think he got rejected recently by a woman with "unnatural hair color" and tries to get his revenge. Taking the whole female population as his target. Another "nice guy" :)
He had a crazy girlfriend with an unnatural hair color & now he's triggered by unnatural hair colors.
Colored hair = creativity, individuality, independence, style
That's why it can frighten some stupid dude
These ''men'' don't want a creative, individual, independent, stylish woman. They want a 50's housewife to cook and clean the house and take care of 10 kids while they go to the bar every night
Jay Holmes- I think you mean "everyone is crazy"
Jay Holmes...you lost me at 'every woman is crazy'
Jay Holmes As long as you respect the rights of employers to not want to hire them. If they rebel against social norms, they are likely to rebel against any authority, including employers.
I'm a woman and I don't approve of weird dyed hair either. It does not look professional and makes me think they are wild and impulsive.
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Every woman is crazy, but I prefer my crazy on the outside in vibrant colours as opposed to hidden away like a doormouse ready to snap. They are the real crazy dangerous ones lol That being said, I love people who feel the freedom to show their independence and die their hair the way they want it. I know they aren't doing it for me or anyone else, so why should it bother me or anyone else. My wife has purple hair, my 9yr old daughter has pink and purple streaks in her hair. I got called crazy for letting her have it done, I then explained that whilst she is at primary school she can show her independence and who she is, at high school they try and make you conform to a set standard, after high school she gets to be herself again. Why force her into a box she doesn't have to sit in yet! I have already said that if I have any hair left when I leave the Air Force, it's going luminous green or blue (maybe both, haven't decided). But after conforming in uniform for 22yrs, rebellion is mine
coloured hair means the opposite of those things
"Epic" and "Shutdown"... Well, Dear BP... 2mxf1v-5bf...946bb8.jpg
I see princess bride, I upvote : )
Thing?
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Free hint, Alexander: A lot of women don't care about they look to men. And women don't exist to please men, so they can dye their hair/dress whatever THEY want.
Men who publicly state that their female preferences are the "right" one tend to be unadventurous, intolerant, controlling and hate independence in women.
But most women think men exist to please them.
What about male animals that are super colorfull to attract females? Does it mean I should get a new boyfriend with green hair???? My life was a lie!
1. women DON'T dye their hair for men, they dye it for themselves. 2. if a guy feels this way, hes not the guy for her ANYWAY.
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Doesn't matter what the reason is, it is still spending more time and money to create an unrealistic & delusional self-image that is a sign of an unhealthy psyche.