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What made you feel loved as a kid? Think about it. Maybe you remember rollerblading with your parents on holiday? Being helped with homework? Or just telling them what you thought was a really big secret? There certainly is a time and place for big presents and gestures but very often, it is the small things that count.

Turns out, quite a few of them end up on the Internet, too. And we at Bored Panda did our best to collect them. Below you will find a wholesome series of posts where kids celebrate their parents' signs of affection. Whether we're talking baking cookies or 3D-printing a little anti-stress elephant, these moms and dads went the extra mile for their kids, and even if some of them weren't executed to a tee, it's the intention that matters.

Continue scrolling to enjoy the entries and check out our interview with Vicki Broadbent, a writer, director, broadcaster, and founder of an awesome parenting blog called Honest Mum.

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Every Parent Should Be So Cool; The World Would Be A Better Place

Every Parent Should Be So Cool; The World Would Be A Better Place

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nate, I overheard your phone conversation with Mike last night about your plans to come out to me. The only thing I need you to plan is to bring home OJ and bread after class. We are out, like you now. I’ve known you were gay since you were six, I’ve loved you since you were born. -Dad. P.S. Your mom and I think you and Mike make a cute couple.

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Colin L
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My friend just told her dad that she's getting married to her girlfriend... and he was cruel. It's good to know there are good people out there.

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Dark Pearl
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please send my condolences to your friend. I hope she and her wife are very happy together! <3

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Dorothy Parker
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really nice. That it's something he can read over and over is the best. Great parents, and funny. OJ and bread!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Removing the stress of 'coming out' without making him talk about it before he was ready to tell them. Thoughtful, caring, loving..

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Faith Curtis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish my parents were like this! They'd yell at me, judge me, and maybe kick me out.

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Viviane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do you have friends or relatives who are supportive? In case your situation gets too difficult or you do need a place to stay?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved this. I wish it was always so easy for people to come out. If I come out, my entire family might get kicked out of our church.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard of families leaving a church or telling judgmental relatives where to go. This should not be on your shoulders. It's not right. However, I understand why some people pick the stress of being closeted over the stress of dealing with bad reactions to coming out. I hope you're financially independent soon or have a supportive network.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is very beautiful. I do often wonder what the best reaction would be to a kid mustering up the courage to finally come out. It's a big deal for them. So, is it better to downplay it with "Yeah I already knew" or should you elevate your reaction to let the kid have their moment? Either way, you'd better still love your kid and tell him/her as much.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My friend and her husband kept a folder buried on their computer "NATE MIGHT BE GAY." When Nate was four, he wanted to make his own Halloween costume. He and his mom cut out shapes in oranges and yellows and glued them onto a shirt and pants. Mom asked, "Who are you?" He declared, "I'm FLAME BOY, I make everyone feel warmer inside." The next year he was RAINBOW BOY. This year he was Anna from FROZEN.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is cute but I think kids should have the chance to tell their parents in their own way-I cannot imagine the amount of panic this kid must've felt.

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Kai the guy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

maybe, but it would have been easier for me if they had figured it out. everyone has different preferences though!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ooooohhhh... Nate & Miiiiike, sitting in a tree! K-I-S-S-I-N-G!!!

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Valerie Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All parents should be this way... greet their child coming out with unconditional love and acceptance

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so wholesome!! I like how the father knew all along and still accepted the son. <3<3<3

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Sharon Hyatt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A beautiful example for all parents to follow; this is truly remarkable ! ! !

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Personally, I would be mortified to find such a note.

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By no means do these posts mean that children are content with just short bursts of affection. Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. "Children want your time and attention, plain and simple," Vicki Broadbent, the author of Mumboss: The Honest Mum's Guide to Surviving and Thriving at Work and at Home, told Bored Panda. "While every child undoubtedly loves a treat, a present, or a party, what they consistently crave is quality time with their parents and carers. They want you to listen to them (however long and convoluted their stories are) and when they request you play with them, they want you to do just that and not just once."

Children want you to commit to them and they can tell the difference when you are consistently showing care by devoting your time and energy. "Even if you can only spare 10 minutes of your time a day (because the parenting juggle is real), please try to do so," Broadbent advises. "Having children allows you to relive your own childhood, to feel free and see the world through your children's precious eyes so don't miss the opportunity."

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On Mother's Day In Thailand, Dad Put On A Dress For His Son, Because Everyone Was With Their Mothers, And His Mother Died

On Mother's Day In Thailand, Dad Put On A Dress For His Son, Because Everyone Was With Their Mothers, And His Mother Died

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Those 10 minutes don't have to be anything glossy. Simply, genuine. Broadbent, for example, said her mom would tell her stories of her own childhood, and they were her personal favorites. According to the mother, board games, sports, and other activities that encourage imaginative play and the family can enjoy together are also great ideas for those precious moments. "I love sharing the programs and films I loved as a child with my own kids (we're currently watching Sister, Sister on Netflix) and we often bake the biscuits I'd make with my Dad and the crumble that got me through every exam I've ever taken. Let yourself go and enjoy parenting."

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These things help parents become attentive on a daily basis. "It is your job as a parent and carer to make your child feel emotionally secure and loved. If you were denied this as a child yourself and require help on how to connect with your child and become more demonstrative, please consider therapy so your children won't miss out on that crucial love and support every child needs and has a human right to."

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This Dad Is Doing Parenting The Right Way!

This Dad Is Doing Parenting The Right Way!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think his son got the message. When my son came out, I handled it well (I already knew) but his dad had a little trouble. My son actually asked if we still loved him. 😥 ❤️ ❤️

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One of the most bonding times Broadbent experiences with her own kids is when she reads to them at bedtime, a tradition which started when they were babies and has continued to this day, even though the fellas are already 10 and 8. "I relish in playing the different characters' voices and making the stories come alive for my kids," she said. "It's a time we are able to enjoy one another's company without distractions. I cuddle and kiss my kids a lot but I'm mindful that now that my son is 10, he doesn't want PDAs when I drop him off at school, for example, so I'm always respectful. It makes the odd hand holding extra special. Both of my sons know that they are enough and they are loved as I tell them every day, and in return, they are able to show love and care back."

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Don't stress yourself with expensive gifts, Broadbent highlighted, those are not the things children will remember. "Consider the values you want your children to garner, not of materialism but connectivity, shared experiences, charity and empathy."

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Dad And Daughter Time

Dad And Daughter Time

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Wholesome Graduation

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It's Really Beautiful

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A Year Ago I Sent My Dad A Meme. Little Did I Know He Printed It, Dated It, Hand Laminated It, And Put It In His Office

A Year Ago I Sent My Dad A Meme. Little Did I Know He Printed It, Dated It, Hand Laminated It, And Put It In His Office

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I Saw This Japanese Mom’s Amazing Cooking And Sent It To My Mom, Asked Her If She Could Make One For Me. I Was Just Joking Since I’m No Longer A Kid And Living In Another Continent Now. Two Hours Later She Replied With This Pic And Told Me She Will Be Practicing And Cook For Me When I Go Back Home

I Saw This Japanese Mom’s Amazing Cooking And Sent It To My Mom, Asked Her If She Could Make One For Me. I Was Just Joking Since I’m No Longer A Kid And Living In Another Continent Now. Two Hours Later She Replied With This Pic And Told Me She Will Be Practicing And Cook For Me When I Go Back Home

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And This Dad Who Has Been Proud Of His Son's Work At Every Age

And This Dad Who Has Been Proud Of His Son's Work At Every Age

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And This Dad Who Sent A Hilariously Embarrassing Voice-Recorded Card To His Daughter

And This Dad Who Sent A Hilariously Embarrassing Voice-Recorded Card To His Daughter

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These Parents Who Made A Legit At-Home Blockbuster For Their Son

These Parents Who Made A Legit At-Home Blockbuster For Their Son

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Wholesome Dad

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A Wholesome Dad

A Wholesome Dad

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I’ve Been Having A Hard Time Bonding With And Getting My Daughter To Smile Lately. So I Finally Agreed To Let Her Give Me A Makeover And Her Smile Says It All

I’ve Been Having A Hard Time Bonding With And Getting My Daughter To Smile Lately. So I Finally Agreed To Let Her Give Me A Makeover And Her Smile Says It All

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

she got a great smile. and damn she got some make-up skills there too :D

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Wholesome Dad

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I can't finish my homework...there's an elephant lying on my page."

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My Dad Is Adorable And His Bad Jokes Always Make Me Happy

My Dad Is Adorable And His Bad Jokes Always Make Me Happy

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This Mom Who Belted Out A Classic Song In Public Just To Cheer Up Her Kid

This Mom Who Belted Out A Classic Song In Public Just To Cheer Up Her Kid

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This Dad Who Overnighted Mangos To His Daughter Because She Forgot To Pack Them

This Dad Who Overnighted Mangos To His Daughter Because She Forgot To Pack Them

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This Is Amazing. A Mother's Love Is Truly Great

This Is Amazing. A Mother's Love Is Truly Great

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This Dad, Who Took What He Learned And Ran With It

This Dad, Who Took What He Learned And Ran With It

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My Dad Has Been Peeling Oranges For My Lunch Since Kindergarten & On My Last Day Of High School I Got This Instead

My Dad Has Been Peeling Oranges For My Lunch Since Kindergarten & On My Last Day Of High School I Got This Instead

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A Dad Who Firmly Believes In Solidarity

A Dad Who Firmly Believes In Solidarity

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My Mom Found My Book In Her Local Library And I Can’t Get Over How Proud She Looks

My Mom Found My Book In Her Local Library And I Can’t Get Over How Proud She Looks

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My Mom Sent Me This Picture Of Her And Our Family Dog Showing Their Pride. It Made Me Smile To Know They Support And Love Me And The Lgbt Community!

My Mom Sent Me This Picture Of Her And Our Family Dog Showing Their Pride. It Made Me Smile To Know They Support And Love Me And The Lgbt Community!

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Guys, My Mum Wants You All To Cheer Up And Look At Cute Babies

Guys, My Mum Wants You All To Cheer Up And Look At Cute Babies

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No Matter How Old, You're Always A Kid To Your Father.

No Matter How Old, You're Always A Kid To Your Father.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ll be telling my mom I dress like The Schwarzenegger. So she can stop harassing me for choosing comfort lately.

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This Mom And Gma Who Make Sure To Never Miss A Game

This Mom And Gma Who Make Sure To Never Miss A Game

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Dad Builds A Stage Right On His Driveway To Host College Graduation For His Daughter

Dad Builds A Stage Right On His Driveway To Host College Graduation For His Daughter

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Heart Exploded

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

what evil person wouldn't drop the candy in her basket?? :') great idea

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This Dad Who Praised His Daughter's Makeup Look

This Dad Who Praised His Daughter's Makeup Look

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My Mother-In-Law Set Up A Sweetheart Table For My Fiancée And I On What Was Supposed To Be Our Wedding Day

My Mother-In-Law Set Up A Sweetheart Table For My Fiancée And I On What Was Supposed To Be Our Wedding Day

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Wholesome 100!! Dad Made Custom Controller For Her Specialy Abled Daughter So She Could Play Zelda: Breath Of The Wild

Wholesome 100!! Dad Made Custom Controller For Her Specialy Abled Daughter So She Could Play Zelda: Breath Of The Wild

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This Dad Who Was So Proud To Walk His Son To School No Matter His Son's Age

This Dad Who Was So Proud To Walk His Son To School No Matter His Son's Age

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My Mom Recently Moved In With Me. She Spent 30 Years Working In A Jewelry Store. I Needed A New Battery In My iPhone. She Immediately Looked Me In The Eye And Said “I Got This”. Welcome Home Mom. I Love You.

My Mom Recently Moved In With Me. She Spent 30 Years Working In A Jewelry Store. I Needed A New Battery In My iPhone. She Immediately Looked Me In The Eye And Said “I Got This”. Welcome Home Mom. I Love You.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crikey, what kind of battery does an iphone have? The one in my Samsung, anyone could replace - although I wouldn't expect it to ever need replacing.

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My Daughter’s Entire 1st Grade Class Had A Virtual “Fort Night” Together To Celebrate The End Of The Year And Boy, Did Her Dad Deliver On The Fort Making

My Daughter’s Entire 1st Grade Class Had A Virtual “Fort Night” Together To Celebrate The End Of The Year And Boy, Did Her Dad Deliver On The Fort Making

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the idea to celebrate the end of school year like this is so great. and her dad made a great fort

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Ever Since I Came Out My Mom Has Sent Me Rainbow Hearts

Ever Since I Came Out My Mom Has Sent Me Rainbow Hearts

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I Asked My Bar Guest What She Was Writing. Turns Out She Has 3 Daughters And She Writes 5 Lines A Day To Each Of Them. These Will Be Gifts When They Get Married One Day. Mom Of The Year

I Asked My Bar Guest What She Was Writing. Turns Out She Has 3 Daughters And She Writes 5 Lines A Day To Each Of Them. These Will Be Gifts When They Get Married One Day. Mom Of The Year

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if they never get married? I feel we should stop using that as a mile marker of achievement in a woman's life.

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She’s Got Great Chat, An Eye For Colour & This Only Cost Me £1.

She’s Got Great Chat, An Eye For Colour & This Only Cost Me £1.

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My Son Broke His Wrist And It Extra Sucks Since We Are Stuck At Home For At Least Another Month. I Decorated His Cast And Now He Loves It And Is Super Happy To Finally Have A "Tattoo"

My Son Broke His Wrist And It Extra Sucks Since We Are Stuck At Home For At Least Another Month. I Decorated His Cast And Now He Loves It And Is Super Happy To Finally Have A "Tattoo"

I'm not an artist but am really proud of this.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you have to wear a cast, why not have fun with it? When I broke my foot, I asked for a pink one for Valentines Day. When they had to put on a second one, I asked for green for St. Patrick's.

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And This Dad Who Sat In On His Daughter's Grad School Class Just To Embarrass Her

And This Dad Who Sat In On His Daughter's Grad School Class Just To Embarrass Her

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This Dad Who Took The Family Dog To A Motorcycle Event

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doggo looks like he's having the time of his life. Wearing his Doggles.

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Middle School Lunch Period Is Hard So My Mom Wrote Me Encouraging Notes To Read At Lunch

Middle School Lunch Period Is Hard So My Mom Wrote Me Encouraging Notes To Read At Lunch

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