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It's easy to burn out, exhaust yourself, and end up unmotivated, thinking that there’s no good left on this planet. If that's the case, you’re in great need of some wholesomeness to show you that it’s not all bad.

Since the year is coming to an end, it’s the perfect time to reflect and remember how generous, selfless and thoughtful people can be. Enter the Wholesome Meets The Internet account, full of the most uplifting pics and stories to warm your heart.

We have collected some of the best posts to show you how lending a helping hand or doing a random good deed makes this world a little better. So get ready to regain your faith in humanity and be sure to upvote pics that made you smile the widest!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for legitimising me doing this for my daughters mother, and her for me. Despite both of us now being in long term relationships we continue to instil this.

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Liam Walsh
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's really cool Doug! Many in my family are divorce lawyers and the reality is that the majority of the time both parents are using the children to score points. Depressing as hell.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is an example for both parents... Show your kids love not hate

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Elli Rahim
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great philosophy! May we all succeed in these noble goals.

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Laura Watts
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Amazing father wish my parents had been like this after their divorce but they did not set a good example ( not really when they were married either)

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Kanga9ine
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish more men would step up and speak up it they have any friends or acquaintances that might not have had a stand up dad. Great example for daughters and what they should expect from men. Hats off to you dad.

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Jo Choto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kudos to this man for understanding the importance of his example.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish all parents who get divorced could be like this. Just able to do things and get along and not fight and argue all the time. While a marriage may not work out, being able to still be friends and raise their children together.

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Robin DJW
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I rarely vote for the top choice, but this one... had me in tears. Long sad backstory, but still... Wonderful to see this.

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Sweta S Mani
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bless you for this. What a wonderful wonderful attitude to teach your kids.

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh hell yes!! Someone who can see the bigger picture and act accordingly!! Bravo

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Lovin' Life
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is pure AWESOMENESS!!! What a great Father and ex. Just because you didnt have a good marriage doesn't mean you can't remain civil and be kind to one another.

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Alison John
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are wonderful. Hope this gives more divorced couples with children how to be great parents. Thanks for sharing.

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Mary Peace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like that, two little men. If this continues, they're going to be great men!

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Robin Pickering
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, despite the fact that she divorced you, you still have to buy her flowers and make her breakfast in bed? BS

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Lyone Fein
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG. This is making me cry. I wish more men would think about how they are raising sons. No matter what is going on between them and their sons' mothers. It is always supposed to be about your children. Thank you so much, sir. Whoever you are.

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Raena Celis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, that's awesome! We need more men like you. I wish I was that wholehearted about my ex. But, $&@! him

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Liz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow damn. Wish I had had good relationship models growing up. Love that he’s doing this.

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Pernille Dyre
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My x helps our daughter. If I get sick - She and my new boyfriend knows he will always help with out. Our love died. Our friendship didn't!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have tried so hard to work WITH my ex around how we parent our child. Unfortunately he doesn't see things the way I do. So I have to keep doing what I can at my end to show her that even if a relationship breaks down, things don't have to be terrible. You are doing an absolutely amazing job at showing your boys how to behave

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My SK mom hates me but I still make them do things like this for her. I do it for the kids to have a good relationship with her. She thinks they think of it but that's the intent; step parenting is pretty thankless.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you. Tired of men who was in my life who expects women to carry the relationship.

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Holly Stevens
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've seen this before and it does sound nice, but I also wonder if this is someone who is inserting himself into his wife's life and won't let go. Going into her home and making breakfast etc. Maybe they do have that relationship and I hope so, but I can also see it the other way

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Francc
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you knew how to treat their mom so nicely, why did you divorce her?

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Hubert Martin
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The kids are probably wondering why you're treating her like a wife and you two aren't together. Sometimes, doing stuff for the kids based on your perception makes the kids feel like they are the root or center of the problem. You aren't erasing the past by modeling good behavior toward your ex-wife now. People ask why you keep doing stuff for her because that chapter in your life has ended, yet you're still hanging on. Because it's your children's mother, though it sounds like she isn't around. Do you not date for the supposed sake of your children? Do you expect your ex-wife not to either? Maybe invest that time and energy in a new woman who wants to be more of a mother to them? And, a wife to you? We're all human. Being good can be heartbreaking too.

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Depends..what if its a toxic ex and the sons learn to please a woman who steps on men?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That goes both ways and parents should teach their kids accordingly.

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When we help others, we actually help ourselves. Showing kindness fills our lives with happiness, improves our well-being and can even lengthen the time we have on Earth. Many researchers have been looking into the “helper’s high” and the effects it has on our physical and emotional health. 

In one study, Dr. Stephen G. Post, a researcher, opinion leader, and best-selling author, wrote that “evidence for the benefits of giving is now extremely powerful, and suggests that healthcare professionals might wish to recommend such activities to patients.” 

For more than 20 years, he has been promoting the idea of “give and live better” and studying altruism, generosity and kindness. Acting in good conscience appears to be an important factor for us to lead meaningful and satisfying lives because when we engage in kind acts, we reduce our own stress. Altruistic emotions—the “helper’s high”—seem to gain dominance over the stress response, Post told WebMD

“Studies of telomeres—the end-caps of our genes—show that long-term stress can shorten those end-caps, and shortened end-caps are linked with early death,” he explained. 

“These studies indicate that we’re dealing with something that’s extremely powerful. Ultimately, the process of cultivating a positive emotional state through pro-social behaviors—being generous—may lengthen your life.”

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The need to do good comes from a simple fact that we humans are a social species. Our ability to be altruistic derived from the bonds we create with others: since people benefit from social support they receive, it’s no surprise that evolution would provide us with the capacity to give social support.

“Humans have evolved to be caring and helpful to those around us, largely to ensure our survival,” Post said. “In Darwin’s Descent of Man, he mentions survival of the fittest only twice. He mentions benevolence 99 times.”

When you see your friends and family assisting and helping out their loved ones or sometimes even complete strangers, you can’t help but feel the urge to do good too. According to research, simply watching someone else do the honorable thing inspires us as well. 

There’s a study showing that when we witness kindness, we experience an uplifting feeling and become encouraged to act more altruistic ourselves. Psychological scientists Simone Schnall, Jean Roper and Daniel M.T. Fessler performed two experiments trying to find out whether feelings of elevation, evoked by observing another person perform a good deed, motivate us to help others.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stealthy, premeditated acts of kindness. Thank you for doing this.

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In the first experiment, 59 participants were recruited and asked to watch two short videos. One group looked at a clip from The Oprah Winfrey Show while the other watched a neutral nature documentary. After the viewing, they received a receipt asking if they would be willing to take part in an additional, unpaid, study. 

The results showed that people who experienced “elevation were more likely to volunteer for a subsequent unpaid study than were participants in a neutral state.” 

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36 students participated in the second experiment where they not only looked at a short clip but were also asked to do a 30-minute task. However, the experimenter “couldn’t” open the needed file and told the students that they were free to leave. When people got up, she asked whether they would be willing to complete another, unrelated task. 

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She “noted that the questionnaire was, unfortunately, rather boring, emphasizing that the participant was under no obligation” and could stop whenever they wanted, but that completing any number of the items would greatly assist the experimenter. People in the elevation condition spent roughly twice as much time on the questionnaire as participants in the other groups. 

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is an awesome story that proves life is not that movie stereotype. More of these stories help the world feel that much gentler.

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Both experiments provided convincing evidence that elevation, awakened by learning of another person’s good deeds, leads to selfless behavior. A kind gesture, no matter how small, creates something positive in this world. Looking at wholesome stories people share not only gives us a warm and fuzzy feeling inside but inspires us to be better as well.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thanks, sobbing now. My poor husband was so alarmed and confused, but now he's just shushing me and petting my hair.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's an old Buddhist thing too. How the Dalai Lama is chosen..they usually lay out a blanket with objects on it and wait to see what is chosen. Amongst the items is usually a beloved item of the previous Dalai Lama. If the person chooses that item, then they may become the next Dalai Lama.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The police in Bristol, UK did the same. The lady they "arrested" was so happy.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

James Fridman is a well-known p-shop prankster whose hilarious work has been shown on BP numerous times. It's really nice to see this side of him. @fjami013gmail.com

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Congrats on nailing the recipe! She knows and I'm sure she loved it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They remind me so much of my pet rats! They look just the same when they're asleep. <3

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cat pissed all his best spots are taken. Also oh lordy I want that sofa.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry for your loss and congrats on having been raised by such a loving and caring Dad!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awwww, I can imagine the outburst of happiness of dogs hearing they will go to the park instead of waiting for their favourite hooman to FIIIIIINALLY come back after a long long day <3

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could have made this post. My son has said this more than once in his life. He's 19 and still holds my hand in public, hugs and kisses me. He's never once not told me he loves me when he gets out of the car...even in high school. I love him so.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our futures are not defined by what the naysayers think of us. Power to you!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Christmas Magic never dies but changes state. When you are young you are the recipient and the magic is the receiving of Christmas wonder. As you get older and learn certain truths, you get indoctrinated and become involved in the conspiracy of Christmas and feel the excitement of invoking the Christmas magic as you are trained for the next stage... The creator of Christmas magic where you have your own kids, and you get to enjoy the excitement on your kids faces over Christmas and then there is the final stage. The grand chronicler of Christmas magic where you pass onto your grandkids the mysteries of Christmas and enjoy the awe in their eyes, setting the stage for the parents and older kids to make the magic grow

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Self-awareness is rare even in people who don't have any mental disability that makes it harder for them. Let's strive to be like this man.

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