Expectations are a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it’s fun to imagine all the wonderful scenarios that might play out in real life. On the other hand, if your expectations are a tad on the unrealistic side, they can completely wreck your emotional state when you step down from your daydreams and come face to face with reality.

But what about fairly realistic expectations? Surely, if somebody advertises a product or a service, the customer can expect to get exactly what they pay for… right? Spoiler alert: oh, dear Lord, no! TikTok users have been uploading videos showing the huge differences between what they (un)realistically wanted and what they got. From clothes to dog haircuts and more.

People have been adding TikTok user Keelyknight aka Madeline’s audio (where she’s crying because of the nails she got) to their own videos, and we’ve collected some of the best ones for you to watch, dear Pandas. Have a look, upvote your fave vids, and be sure to let us know which ones were your favorite, why, and if you’ve ever been in a similar situation yourselves.

@kneelyknightThis was the worst experience I’ve ever had. #nails #help #foryou #foryoupage♬ original sound - Madeline

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Marianne
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1 month ago

That one's really bad! They should sue the hairdresser.

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Amy Pattie
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1 month ago

That is atrocious. Amazing

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Friday
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1 month ago

Nightmare inducing

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When it comes to getting something we totally didn’t want, there are two aspects that you have to consider. The actual quality of the service and managing your own expectations so that you don’t end up being constantly disappointed.

The first aspect is fairly straightforward, even though it might not be easy to get around. If the product or service you’ve received doesn’t meet your standards of quality or what’s been advertised, then you’ve got to ask for a refund. Complain! Often and loudly.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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1 month ago

Damn, how does that even happen.

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Amy Pattie
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1 month ago

Oh no... it will look better once you bush it out but that ombré is atrocious

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Vic
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1 month ago

Right: before coffee, Left: after coffee

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Obviously, try to be as diplomatic as you can with your complaints—you’re dealing with other human beings after all. And it’s not always the person who’s registering your complaint who was responsible for what you got. So try not to make their life hell and they’ll be more likely to help you out.

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Amy Pattie
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1 month ago

Wow that is not good

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Alexandra Nara
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1 month ago

More Villain look even

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Alexandra Nara
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1 month ago

When family confound homescooling and homeoffice

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If a company has a genuine customer-first policy in play, they’ll take serious complaints, well, seriously. They’ll hear you out, offer you support, follow up on your complaint, and do whatever they can to make up for their mistake. But we all know that far from every company is willing to be so friendly and instead has a “profit comes first, collateral damage is all right” kind of mentality.

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Vic
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1 month ago

Oh dear.. poor puppy..

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Raine Soo
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1 month ago

The cake is blue. The element of surprise is gone.

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Raven Sheridan
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1 month ago

Looks like you're wearing a silk pillowcase.

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Consider seeking legal aid if the product was especially expensive or if you, your loved ones, or your pets suffered because of what happened. If somebody’s blatantly advertising something that’s clearly false as a way to make a quick buck, then you’ve got to do your part in putting an end to it.

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Friday
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1 month ago

But are you the same size as the model?

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Raine Soo
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1 month ago

Your hairdresser is not a good colourist.

Evil Little Thing
Community Member
1 month ago

Also she has a big bald spot in front.

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Scorpio Maurus
Community Member
1 month ago

Did the "hairdresser" burn her hair off? What is happening at the hairline? It looks like a child attacked her with an electric trimmer while she slept.

Monday
Community Member
1 month ago

Oh lordy I didn't even see that.

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Amy Begun Saab
Community Member
1 month ago

Ok-former hairdresser here-she did an all over bleach without a toner. She should've foiled it and bleach to light yellow, close to almost white, then add a toner. I'd go back or somewhere else and have them do brown lowlights, foiling some to protect from brown, and add purple toner to get rid of brass. God poor woman

JessG
Community Member
1 month ago

Hmm, yeah this is weird. Does she have extensions or a wig? What's up with that weird bald area? Why not show the whole head? The pic is oddly blocked. The color is terrible and not even close, so, I choose to believe that she didn't go to an actual salon, but had a non-professional do it

Floofy Husky Puppy
Community Member
1 month ago

They died your hair yellow

Esca Sav
Community Member
1 month ago

My hairdresser did the same thing because she said with my hair they can't do a natural ombre... So they did my whole head with yellow dye instead of the silver bronze-ish one I chose. I was livid. They wonder why I never came back...

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Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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1 month ago

Hmm, something seems fishy here. A professional hairdresser who surely know not to bleach your entire freaking head. Also, what in the world is up with the bald patch —- if you zoom in it looks like she is wearing a wig. Hmmm 🧐

Friday
Community Member
1 month ago

You wanted could foils and they gave you a block colour. Smh, that’s so bad!!

Vicky Z
Community Member
1 month ago

Some hairdressers should go out of business....

Whitney-Blair Beals
Community Member
1 month ago

What she really meant was "I went to Walmart and did it myself."

ShutUpsy
Community Member
1 month ago

Oh my gosh the hair line

Billy The Kid
Community Member
1 month ago

I would DYE in the chair if that happened to me

KAREN
Community Member
1 month ago

You would have done better with a home kit.🧐😳😲😯😮☹🙁😟😕😵

Natalia
Community Member
1 month ago

Did you pay for that? I wouldn't have.

tuzdayschild
Community Member
1 month ago

Looks like you got Kaleesied.

Id row
Community Member
1 month ago

I'd lose my mind.

Samantha Hurrell
Community Member
1 month ago

I would imagine most hairdressers wouldn't make that sort of mistake, there's no way to confuse a fullhead with the example.

bon bon (still purple boi)
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1 month ago

WHAT. THE ENTIRE. F C

Ronni Coppins
Community Member
1 month ago

You don't go to a hairdresser. You go to a colorist. That's their specialty.

Shannon Reonas-Alma
Community Member
1 month ago

She did this at home, there's no way a hair dresser did that.

Shirley Heyn
Community Member
1 month ago

Forget crying over fingernails. . . I'd be crying over this hatchet job!

Mónica Elisabeth Sacco
Community Member
1 month ago

Your hairdresser is daltonic

Emma Love
Community Member
1 month ago

Oh heck no!

Liz
Community Member
1 month ago

why does it look like she's missing an entire chunk of hair? did the bleach burn it off?

Doris Bennett
Community Member
1 month ago

UG!

Molly A. Block
Community Member
1 month ago

Damn, you lose. Need to go back to school either way.

dev mehta
Community Member
1 month ago

Rinaldo the hairdresser says (with a French accent): "Madam look juss like ze pitchur"

Carmen Honacker
Community Member
1 month ago

Oh wow. She completely fried her hair :-(

Ileana Sky Aviles
Community Member
1 month ago

Balayage tutorials on youtube actually work! Well some.

Kelzbelz79
Community Member
1 month ago

You deffo win love.

Emerald
Community Member
1 month ago

SHE DYED YOU ORANGE

The Redhead
Community Member
1 month ago

I've been there. I told a hair dresser once I wanted a short stacked bob. I wound up getting a very short masculine haircut.

Clearly sunny
Community Member
1 month ago

This is why I'd rather dye my hair than spend $120 n get orange crap like that.

23AClark
Community Member
1 month ago

😔

Elsie
Community Member
1 month ago

She went to an unskilled hairdresser. The look takes a high qualification in skill

Jessica Shookhoff
Community Member
1 month ago

It straight up looks like a box job; which is why I gave up on going to the salon in my teens and just learned to do it myself. Realize not everyone can, but if so, your hair will look better and you'll spend WAY less over the years

Susan Widomski
Community Member
1 month ago

New hairdresser - eventually.

Piper McLean
Community Member
1 month ago

This is like the complete opposite!

Shelli Aderman
Community Member
1 month ago

Oh wow

Lisa Yario
Community Member
1 month ago

Local vs. professional again. They aren't going to turn away business, I think most of them try their best. For all you know the model could be wearing a wig. Things always look better on beautiful people too.

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Jody Brown
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1 month ago

Utterly terrifying

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However, there’s that pesky second aspect when it comes to not getting what we wanted. And that all comes down to our expectations. Sometimes, what we want is so perfect, requires so much skill and craftsmanship, that not everyone can fulfill our orders. In those cases, what we envision and what the local craftspeople can provide simply don’t sync up. Or, to put it more bluntly, you get what you pay for.

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Amy Pattie
Community Member
1 month ago

I can’t even fathom the thought process in thinking these were remotely similar. How to people get away with this?

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Amy Pattie
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1 month ago

I don’t even know how you mess up that bad

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Alexandra Nara
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1 month ago

Was the rug to fly with included?

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Don’t expect your nails to look like a model’s when you’re getting them done at a discount store at your local mall. Similarly, you can’t expect a newbie dog groomer to get the same results as a grandmaster with decades of experience: they’ll do their best but you simply can’t expect them to perform according to your imaginary expectations.

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James016
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1 month ago

It's presciousssssss

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Troux
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1 month ago

Mmmmm bacon!

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Amy Pattie
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1 month ago (edited)

Clearly the model was 9feet tall

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In life, it’s best to do your very best to get the result that you want and then relinquish any and all expectations. You did your best. Well done! Now sit back and don’t fret, find something else to do. If you get what you want, fantastic. If not, no big deal—you’ll try again later. Maybe with a different tactic in mind.

Having low expectations is a healthy mindset, similar to the one where you’re encouraged to do good things for people without expecting anything in return. Life has a pleasant way of surprising us when we’re not desperate, needy, and whiny.

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Raine Soo
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1 month ago

The groomer gave you a brand new, completely different dog.

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Raine Soo
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1 month ago

I like gingham, but that's a picnic table cloth.

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Vicky Zar
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1 month ago

Funny. We've got exactly the same. We chose the size we wanted though.

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PsychCentral explains that the first step in relinquishing unrealistic expectations is being able to spot them. Of course, that’s easier said than done because we may have had certain expectations for years and years. And a lot of it’s connected to our desire to maintain control over everything.

Some examples of completely unrealistic expectations include the beliefs that everyone should like you and that the world should be fair. We simply can’t have that kind of control over the world (well, unless we’re a superhero, the Emperor of the Universe, or a member of the Greek Pantheon).

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Eva the Egg
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1 month ago

All you would have to do to get that sort of hair is go to sleep and wake up

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Susan Green
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1 month ago

What kind of doofus came up with this?

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Kat
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1 month ago

At least there's still enough length to get it fixed. Must be awfully frustrating though.

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Similarly, if we’re constantly disappointed by results and not having our expectations met every step of the way, well, maybe it’s time to analyze them in detail. Spend the weekend looking at your belief structures.

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Sandra
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1 month ago

Besides the fact it is not what she wanted... Is it only me or the hair looks burnt?

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Raine Soo
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1 month ago

I guess real sunflowers weren't in season.

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Kat
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1 month ago

Well to be honest, it is difficult to get the same result if you have a totally different hair type...

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Note: this post originally had 40 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes.

Give yourself permission to not have everything go perfectly. Embrace flexibility. That doesn’t mean giving up your high standards (quality is good stuff, people), but you have to be relatively down to earth. Otherwise, you’ll spend the rest of your life making wanted vs. got TikTok videos.