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Have you ever found yourself in that position where you're just going about your day and then suddenly remember something embarrassing you did years ago that no one knows about, or get struck by some very important secret that just won’t let you sleep peacefully at night? It’s always interesting to hear what kind of secrets or weird confessions another person has and whether those are worse than what we’re hiding. But what if there is a way to find this out? A Twitter account called @Fesshole was created with the intention that here, people can share things that bother them anonymously. If you’re curious to find out more about what things users online tend to keep a secret and read an interview with the creator of the account, you can do it by clicking here

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I go for treatment every week at a cancer center infusion clinic. A nurse arranged for myself and three other patients to sit in the same area. She knew we would start talking to one another as we were there for at least 3-4 hours. We all have similar diseases. And we all became great friends. One was my age and her name was Jackie. She became my best friend. After 3 years, I at her bedside when Jackie took her last breath and have become part of her family. My other friend, Dan, passed away and his widow is like a mom to me. I treasure these relationships and the nurse that helped to facilitate them ❤️

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a woman who was literally told that my chronic pain was just because I'm "emotional", I don't find this cute. Women's health issues are too often disregarded by the medical community. Just get her a man, and that'll fix her right up!

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Rannveig Ess
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't find it at all amusing, either. I almost died from a rare immune disease because many doctors (especially when I was younger and could push through being sick) assumed or suggested I was imagining it. My brother, who is a twin, has the same illness. He had constant care, constant medicines and support to keep working, always taken seriously. I was told having severe heart arrythmia was "panic attacks" I have helped a lot of persons who I met find out and research what was wrong with them after yes..meeting them at doctor's offices and us bonding over how much we were being dismissed and minimized. I have never met someone who was faking, or "lonely" or a drama queen. Yes, chonic illness is isolating and yes you get lonely. Because you're being shunned by the people who ought to help you. I'd like to kick the OP's butt

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Note for foreigners: the last line refers to the late Cilla Black, (dreadful) singer and TV presenter, who hosted Blind Date.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am now on year three of dealing with a severe health problem that (according to doctors) is all in my mind. I finally tried a pulmonologist, who found that I am constantly in a state of hypoxia. My blood oxygen hovers around 75 %, which qualifies as a medical emergency. If the other doctors hadn't blown off my low scores on oximeters, I would have had supplemental oxygen years ago. I'm sorry, but too many physicians disregard health problems in their female patients. This guy needs to take a reality check.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah. Even if you are diagnosed they still dont believe you. I got my disabilities status rejected despite having endometriosis and cfs and severe mobility issues because my GP doesnt believe in CFS so she said in her report that i dont have any issue walking. I need a scooter to f*****g walk!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure glad you aren't MY doctor! For a medical professional to state that their patients' health problems are all hypochondria is beyond the pale. What happens if you don't take my health complaints seriously, and I have a very, very serious illness? Are you going to feel at all bad about it? You've forgotten your oath, "doctor" - first, do no harm.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this is true, this person needs their license to practice revoked. I'm an MD, you don't do this. you don't assume they're lonely, and if that is a possibility, you arrange for them to have information on how to integrate into a social group, e.g., volunteering, support groups for the lonely, etc. --- an MD

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, they never said that they just "assume" their patients are lonely, without examining them first. If anything, it seems like this person is only "matching" the patients whom they know well (they says "people who I think will get on" so they likely knows the patients fairly well), so possibly long-time patients

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can you imagine going to the doctor, having them think you're faking what's wrong with you and that all you need is a romantic partner? And don't forget they're also leaving these patients intentionally waiting in their waiting room. Wow. As someone with an invisible disability, this is my nightmare doctor. I wonder how many serious conditions they've missed because they had a 'lonely patient' they wanted to set them up with.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is horrible!!! How can anyone think this is an ok thing for a doctor to do?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're the reason it took me a decade to get my endo diagnosed. Fark off.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For a post that’s called “confess your sins” … this is hardly a sin. This is lovely! Thank you kind Dr for bringing love to these people!

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Denise Lewis
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

typical doctor mentality it's all in there head you are TAH. im happy im not your patient.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So 6 couples formed in 20 years. If the basis of a relationship is complaining about how this doctor sucks for making you wait, how many are still couples, still your patients? Even if you only did this once a year a 70% failure rate isn't something you should flex over.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the mind doesn't mean they're not diseases that cannot or should not be treated. Some doctor you are.

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Jasmine O
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP is probabaly telling the truth but as someone who had to see 3 doctors before and was told the pain was in my mind when I mentioned I had anxiety and was sure I had scoliosis (which I have now been x rayed and diagnosed with) this rubs me the wrong way a little lol.

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Lynn Morello
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now I know why I am treated like a Moron whose ailments are all in my mind.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doctor gaslight patients and forces them into relationships. Hmmm.

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Jane Cortez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s a bit alarming to hear that ‘a lot of patient’s ailments are in the mind.’ Every single person that I know has genuine health issues. Minimizing is the reason that often health conditions go untreated, eg. ‘It’s all in your head,’ for: gallstones, migraines, fibromyalgia, cancer, IBS, Lupus, kidney stones, anorexia, asthma, congestive heart failure, MS.’

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Jane Cortez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Correction: Meant to say every person I know with a serious health condition.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So having a date cures cancer, heart disease, asthma, scoliosis, muscular dystrophy, chicken pox, migraines, anorexia? What? Which diseases are imaginary?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

weird as this was just on the radio this am as the "masked speaker" and she called herself doctor Rebekkah.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really like this. Being in support I can also tell when someone is just lonely and wants to talk. I wish I could introduce some of these to each other. (That being said, some of the people I get, I pray never meet each other to team up on people working in support or the service industry.)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an amazing person you are! I wish someone would do that for me. 😢

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the dr I need. I'm effed right up and alot of it would be solved if I had someone in my life that could understand.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg dats so cute, an amazing doctor that not only cares about ur health but also cares about ppl being lonely 😍 do you send them off on all expensive hol 2 DR.Cilla

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s not so much a sin in as much as you are the Secret Santa of relationships. You are a blessing.

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The account that now has almost 630K followers and even published a book, The Very Best of Fesshole: Britain confesses anonymously, shares confessions that range from funny and even embarrassing ones to those that might be considered more serious ones. A lot of those who decided to share their confessions talk about small and perhaps embarrassing things that they don’t want others to know about, such as hiding food from other family members, not wanting to go out, staying at home instead, stealing some trifle, etc. Some also reveal “heavier” things such as wanting to move out of their country or cheating on their spouse.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope he is a real prick because if that happened to me, I would turn absolutely monstrous

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get really annoyed when a guy says to someone that the wife won't let him do it, when it's HIS choice. This can lead the 'friends' thinking less of the wife (she's soooo controlling) rather than less of the manly man who can't bear to take his own responsibility.

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Is it okay to keep secrets and what does that do to our mental health? A lot of people like to keep things to themselves as they are afraid that once someone they care about finds things out, they might react badly, change their mind about the person, or break off the relationship. However, according to Dr. Alison Block, a psychologist and the Director of the Health Psychology Center, keeping a secret can make you feel even worse than actually admitting things as they are. 

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How can you help yourself in this case? Most of us are familiar with the feeling of having something weighing us down, but once we talk about it, it feels as if that weight has been lifted off our shoulders. The specialist stated that the best way is to think about our secret: why don’t we want to talk about it? Once we know our whats and whys, it’s important to think of ways we want to present the information to the person in question. Dr. Block revealed some useful tips to prepare yourself for it better, which include: writing down the confession or saying it to yourself, this way making yourself feel a bit better, choosing a place where you want to share your secret, having an explanation for why you decided to keep certain things a secret, etc.

Do you have some tips and tricks of your own? Don’t forget to leave them in the comments section down below!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad the poor kitty stayed, I can't help imagining the wife throwing him out every night in the beginning though 😟

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love this. Been in IT for over 15 years and started without any experience and have done pretty well for myself. But I had extremely good teachers, mentors, and supporters (including my family from a personal level for all of those late nights and screwed up holidays). All of that said, if you called me right now for support I'd still tell you to reboot

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Makes sense, although i dont use self checkouts cos i conscientiously object to providing my free labour to them on top of paying the profit gouging prices for basic essentials.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if that was the funniest cr*p you would have seen all your life, tho.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I found out the queen was dead, I ran around looking for people wearing black to ask them if they were in mourning. Wait... nope. nobody did that.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Will check that out next weekend. And then go to the zoo (they have dinosaurs at the moment :D )

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those are some of my favourite friendships too. We show love with increasingly crass insults.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg how dare those people hold on to little sparks of joy and excitement into their adult life? How dare they enjoy special days together in a way they all like? /s

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did he do anything to deserve that? Or is OP just petty because one is supposed to harm one's partner (For non-Scots: this is about football colours, and the two teams in question - let's say the animosity between the fans can get very serious)

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