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“Enough Is Enough”: People Cancel Gym Memberships Over “Disgusting” Incident Involving Trans Lady
People are calling for a boycott of Gold’s Gym after a lesbian woman accused another gym-goer, reportedly identifying as a transgender woman, of inappropriate behavior in the locker room.
LA singer Tish Hyman claimed that the gym revoked her membership on Sunday (November 2) “after the MAN was escorted out by police.”
The 42-year-old went viral after a heated confrontation with the gym-goer, which ultimately led to both of them being escorted out.
Highlights
- Singer Tish Hyman claims Gold’s Gym banned her after confronting a trans woman in the women’s locker room for inappropriate behavior.
- Tish described feeling "violated" when the gym-goer stared at her while she was undressed in the locker room.
- Gold’s Gym faced boycott calls and was flooded with negative reviews after revoking Tish’s membership.
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People are boycotting Gold’s Gym after a woman accused another gym-goer, who identifies as a trans woman, of inappropriate behavior
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Tish accused the gym-goer, who was wearing an all-black outfit and earrings, of staring at her in an inappropriate manner while she was changing in the women’s locker room.
“Today I was nak*d in the locker room. I turn around, and there’s a man there in boy clothes, lip gloss, standing there looking at me. I’m butt nak*d,” she said.
“I say the word ‘sir’ to say ‘sir, what are you doing in here.’ He goes, ‘Don’t f***ing talk to me. I’m a woman. I have a right to be in here.’”
Image credits: libsoftiktok
The Bronx native said the incident made her feel “violated” and insisted that she was not discriminating against the gym-goer.
“I’m a lesbian. I’ve been a lesbian my whole life. I treat people how I want to be treated regardless of whatever they [sic] s**ual orientation is or whatever they decide. So I’m not transphobic.”
Tish said her gym membership was revoked after complaining about the incident
💪💪🚨🚨🚨Breaking: I am canceling my membership permanently today at gold’s gym as the location where I used to go in Los Angeles banned a woman today for speaking out because a man was staring at her in the shower, which they allow‼️‼️‼️
And he did far worse than that. pic.twitter.com/Ll4ioDAmsU
— Erin Elizabeth Health Nut News🥜 (@unhealthytruth) November 3, 2025
Image credits: TAmprazis
Following the incident, many people took to social media to voice their support for Tish, with some announcing that they would be permanently canceling their Gold’s Gym memberships in solidarity with her.
“Gold’s always sides with these men who like to pretend to dress up as girls and go into our restrooms,” said a woman named Erin Elizabeth in a video that has received over half a million views.
“I will not stand for some disgusting place like that that bans the poor woman who’s n*ked in the shower and has some guy staring her down,” she added.
She claimed the individual stared at her while she was undressed
Today he saw me walk into the women’s room followed me in and called me a bitch. I ran out into the locker room crying and screaming. This is why we can’t be quiet because people need to know what’s happening. Thank you to the men who helped me today. pic.twitter.com/TlpCNCF8SW
— Tish Hyman (@listen2tish) November 3, 2025
Image credits: GymGold / wikimedia
“Because Gold’s allows these men to go in there and say, ‘I identify as a woman,’ this sh*t is going on. I would like you to boycott Gold’s Gym with me.”
“Good put them out of business,” another person said.
“Congrats on cancelling your entire franchise. The majority of your members don’t back this sh*t. Keep women’s spaces safe. Enough is enough,” wrote someone else.
One woman who described herself as a TERF (trans-exclusionary radical feminist) called the gym-goer’s alleged behavior “predatory” and argued that transgender people should have separate locker rooms.
Supporters have announced plans to cancel their memberships, accusing Gold’s Gym of failing to protect women’s safety
Image credits: listen2tish
After Tish shared that she had the “worst experience” at the gym, Gold’s became flooded with negative online reviews, with more than two dozen one-star Google ratings posted in 24 hours.
Others, however, argued that Tish’s reaction was misguided and that she should not assume that all transgender women adjust to the aesthetic associated with “femininity.”
“Just b/c a trans person doesn’t ‘look trans’ does not mean they are not and this woman should not be putting a broad stripe towards all trans girls,” one person said.
Image credits: highpriestesshealingla
Another user, who had the trans flag in their username, commented, “Terfs and transphobes can go buy all their own equipment for all i care.
“‘No judgement’ means exactly that. i know because i asked before i joined. and have had ZERO problems with any women or girls in the women’s locker room.”
“I don’t think there’s an easy answer to situations like this,” someone else added. “Everyone’s transness and transition looks different. So, we really don’t know what this person’s gender is beyond what they told us.”
The gym-goer has since been identified as Alexis Black
Image credits: Gold’s Gym
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Tish claimed that, following their argument, the gym-goer followed her into the women’s locker room and called her “a b*tch.”
She said she began crying and shouting before a man noticed the situation and confronted the gym-goer.
In a video circulated online, the singer-songwriter can be seen shouting inside the gym, warning other women that she had been kicked out for complaining about “being n*ked in front of a man without my permission.”
Gold’s Gym locations became flooded with negative online reviews
🚨Tish Hyman is calling for a boycott of Gold’s gym after being kicked out when she confronted a man in the woman’s locker room. I am TERF. Yesterday,today, and tomorrow. Men do not belong in women’s spaces. Period. pic.twitter.com/UcjixYx9JQ
— Iliftfordoughnuts (@AndriaDont99498) November 4, 2025
Absolutely unacceptable!! This lady got banned from Gold’s Gym for telling a man to leave the women’s locker room. Boycott Gold’s gym!! pic.twitter.com/rDPS0dRQoS
— Anna 🇺🇸 (@realAnn_29) November 4, 2025
“#goldsgym terminated my membership after the MAN was escorted out by police. Then had me escorted out by officers afterwards,” she wrote. “It was EMBARRASSING! I left but not before making sure everyone KNEW that they were allowing MEN in the locker room!!!!!”
On Instagram, the 42-year-old added that other women had previously filed several written reports about the individual, but that the gym staff “has done absolutely nothing.”
Gold’s Gym is a chain of fitness centers founded in California 60 years ago. The gym has hundreds of locations around the world, including in Austria, Italy, and Germany. As of writing, it has not commented publicly on the incident.
BOYcOTT @GoldsGym for ignoring a woman’s cry and scream for safety as a literal MAN finds “comfort” in being in the women’s locker room where young girls and women are getting dressed and in the sauna naked. This is disheartening on so many levels but I’m so glad a man stood by… pic.twitter.com/94RglWRn3F
— Frank (@CA_Xtian) November 3, 2025
Tish said she has filed a complaint against the gym-goer for using the women’s locker room.
On Instagram, an account that purportedly belongs to Alexis Black, the gym-goer at the center of the controversy, stated, “For me, being trans is everything. I didn’t just get a new body or a new way of thinking—I got myself back.
“Alexis Black is someone who finally cares about her future, who builds instead of just survives. Since beginning HRT, I stopped drifting. I began living. I didn’t become a woman, I remembered I always was.
This is horrific.
Imagine working out at the gym and going to bathroom only to find men invading the space.
This is not okay and must be denounced at every turn.
Gold’s Gym must fix this or face boycott.pic.twitter.com/jVFvFfvFgE
— Brigitte Gabriel (@ACTBrigitte) November 3, 2025
“To anyone still trapped by fear, by expectation, by your own reflection—there’s another way.”
The post soon became flooded with transphobic comments, with critics asking Alexis to “stop invading women’s spaces.”
People expressed a range of views on the incident, which reflects broader debates about locker room access based on gender identity
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CP 1 month ago (edited)
Most of these bigots would be appalled if a trans man was using the women's locker. So much passion over a subject they know little about. Only when it is noticeable do people cause unnecessary problems.
roddy 1 month ago
I'm confused, was the person genuinely transgender or just a man who liked to sneak in to be a peeping tom? And how can one avoid the latter, while still accommodating the former? It's a tough call. But ultimately the safety of the women using the locker room should be paramount.
Becky Samuel 1 month ago
The reality is that the number of incidents of people 'pretending' to be trans is so small as to be virtually zero. It's not like women's locker rooms have security guards preventing cis men from entering, nor are women protected from a*****t by other women - both of which scenarios happen much, much more frequently than a trans woman causing any problems. And yet it's trans women who get all the fuss made.
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meeeeeeeeeeee 1 month ago (edited)
If anyone has seen UK Big Brother this year...I wonder what these people would think if Zelah was in the women's changing room since he was born female. I feel like they'd still flip out.
Lee Gilliland 1 month ago
I have transferred friends and I am aware of these bozos and trust me they are very different critters.
Crystalwitch60 1 week ago
I used to train and work in a gym (instructor , ) no way in hell would we have tolerated this woman’s vile ranting !! Trans women have to use changing rooms to , n as a natural born woman , it honestly wouldn’t have bothered me , (n I’m a survivor of a b u s e from men ) I can look after myself now , jeez I’m bloody glad they banned her ! live n let live people ,yes trans people is a difficult topic but if they have trans to a woman , or a woman to a man ,while they will never be real women etc ie can’t get pregnant , they are still very HUMAN !! n to go thru all that is a hard ling difficult journey typical USA such an intolerant place !, also hypocritical to , won’t tolerate this kinda thing on one hand ,then voting in that orange misogynistic r a p I st crimal lunatic , GO FIGURE 🙄to Trish HUMAN UP GIRL , ,
otiose 1 month ago
So a cis woman's feelings don't matter here? The only important feelings are those of the trans woman? Cis women should sit down and shut up and do what the trans woman demand or be declared trans phobic? No.
CP 1 month ago
Everyone's feelings matter. It just all depends on if your feelings are rational and justified.
Load More Replies... James Twong 3 weeks ago
It would be helpful if we could have proper debate and discussion over this issue but the trans lobby don't want to hear any view that contradicts their ideology and always shut down any dialogue or counter viewpoint with their usual 'transphobe', 'bigot' etc. taunts.
Digital Fantasy 4 weeks ago
Excuse me, but I always imagine transwomen actually putting in effort to be the women they feel like. The person in the picture is straight up a man who put a sports bra on to slip through the cracks.
Beth Wheeler 1 month ago
He's a woman my a*s. That is definitely a MAN and the lady should have been mad and upset that a man was in the women's locker room with women. If it was me and I saw a man in the women's locker room I would scream especially if I was changing clothes. Instead of canceling her membership they should have canceled HIS. Hopefully she will file and win a lawsuit.
Becky Samuel 1 month ago
And yet by anti-trans logic a trans man has to use the women's locker room to conform to the gender they were assigned at birth.
Load More Replies... CP 1 month ago (edited)
Most of these bigots would be appalled if a trans man was using the women's locker. So much passion over a subject they know little about. Only when it is noticeable do people cause unnecessary problems.
roddy 1 month ago
I'm confused, was the person genuinely transgender or just a man who liked to sneak in to be a peeping tom? And how can one avoid the latter, while still accommodating the former? It's a tough call. But ultimately the safety of the women using the locker room should be paramount.
Becky Samuel 1 month ago
The reality is that the number of incidents of people 'pretending' to be trans is so small as to be virtually zero. It's not like women's locker rooms have security guards preventing cis men from entering, nor are women protected from a*****t by other women - both of which scenarios happen much, much more frequently than a trans woman causing any problems. And yet it's trans women who get all the fuss made.
Load More Replies... meeeeeeeeeeee 1 month ago (edited)
If anyone has seen UK Big Brother this year...I wonder what these people would think if Zelah was in the women's changing room since he was born female. I feel like they'd still flip out.
Lee Gilliland 1 month ago
I have transferred friends and I am aware of these bozos and trust me they are very different critters.
Crystalwitch60 1 week ago
I used to train and work in a gym (instructor , ) no way in hell would we have tolerated this woman’s vile ranting !! Trans women have to use changing rooms to , n as a natural born woman , it honestly wouldn’t have bothered me , (n I’m a survivor of a b u s e from men ) I can look after myself now , jeez I’m bloody glad they banned her ! live n let live people ,yes trans people is a difficult topic but if they have trans to a woman , or a woman to a man ,while they will never be real women etc ie can’t get pregnant , they are still very HUMAN !! n to go thru all that is a hard ling difficult journey typical USA such an intolerant place !, also hypocritical to , won’t tolerate this kinda thing on one hand ,then voting in that orange misogynistic r a p I st crimal lunatic , GO FIGURE 🙄to Trish HUMAN UP GIRL , ,
otiose 1 month ago
So a cis woman's feelings don't matter here? The only important feelings are those of the trans woman? Cis women should sit down and shut up and do what the trans woman demand or be declared trans phobic? No.
CP 1 month ago
Everyone's feelings matter. It just all depends on if your feelings are rational and justified.
Load More Replies... James Twong 3 weeks ago
It would be helpful if we could have proper debate and discussion over this issue but the trans lobby don't want to hear any view that contradicts their ideology and always shut down any dialogue or counter viewpoint with their usual 'transphobe', 'bigot' etc. taunts.
Digital Fantasy 4 weeks ago
Excuse me, but I always imagine transwomen actually putting in effort to be the women they feel like. The person in the picture is straight up a man who put a sports bra on to slip through the cracks.
Beth Wheeler 1 month ago
He's a woman my a*s. That is definitely a MAN and the lady should have been mad and upset that a man was in the women's locker room with women. If it was me and I saw a man in the women's locker room I would scream especially if I was changing clothes. Instead of canceling her membership they should have canceled HIS. Hopefully she will file and win a lawsuit.
Becky Samuel 1 month ago
And yet by anti-trans logic a trans man has to use the women's locker room to conform to the gender they were assigned at birth.
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