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‘USA vs. Italy Culture Shocks’: American Moves To Italy, Shares The Biggest Cultural Differences She’s Noticed
Interview With AuthorKacie Burns is an American actor and dancer from Canton, Michigan, who has been documenting her daily adventures in Italy. She moved to Florence, the birth city of Renaissance, which resembles a museum under the sky, after falling in love with her boyfriend Dario on her first solo trip two years ago. Their love blossomed and Kacie is now a proud Florentine, appreciating all the new cultural quirks that come at her.
Kacie is now busy making a series of fun and lighthearted cultural shock videos on her TikTok with each going viral and amassing her a whopping 9.6M likes in total. So let’s see what cultural differences she has spotted between America and Italy below that put living in these two countries in a whole different perspective.
Also, if you’re an American living the Italian dream, be sure to share your experience and hit us in the comment section below!
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Asking For The Check
Bringing a bill unprompted would be like saying you overstayed your welcome. And anyway, how do they know you won't want another glass of wine?
Free Healthcare
4 Weeks Of Paid Vacation
Wait until you learn that he can't get fired because his boss had an argument with his wife and he has a lot more paid sickdays than paid vacation.....
Bored Panda reached out to Kacie Burns, an American actress, dancer, and singer currently living in Florence, Italy who went viral for her fun and lighthearted TikTok videos on cultural quirks of the birthplace of Renaissance. Kacie grew up in Canton, Michigan and moved to NYC when she was 17 for college. In 2018, she decided to take a solo trip to Italy, where she fell in love with the food, the culture, and a boy.
“We were long distance for a year, and then he came to live in NYC on a year-long visa,” Kacie said and added: “I was a professional dancer/actress in NYC, and when COVID shut down my industry, I decided to pursue other big dreams of mine, which were living abroad and traveling—so Dario and I made the move to Italy in January 2021!”
Vouchers From The Government For Food Intolerances
Kids Choose Specialized Highschools To Attend At 13
This makes a lot of sense. There’s still some secondary school knowledge I am yet to use.
Drinking In Public
“I love that now I get to share travel tips, life in Italy, and all the fun and interesting things I learn as an American living here with so many people,” she told us.
When asked about whether she has grown accustomed to the initial culture shocks she experienced after moving to Florence, Kacie said that “other than the 'no-tipping' thing (it still feels very weird to not leave a tip!) I'd say for the most part I've gotten used to them—but I also find new things out everyday that shock me all over again.”
Getting Paid For Honeymoon Leave
Some Jobs Provide Lunch Tickets
Not Leaving A Tip At A Hair Salon
The social media star and actress assured us that “At the end of the day, though, I love them. Culture differences are so cool and so interesting to learn.”
But there are numerous American things that Kacie really misses. “I love Italian coffee but sometimes I miss walking around and sipping a large to-go American coffee. I used Apple Pay all the time in NYC, but here Apple Pay isn't a thing! 'One-stop shops' like Target and Walmart don't exist here, so I had to adjust to going to multiple stores to get the things I needed.”
Going Out Only If Fully Ready
Looking For A Job Right After School
That’s pretty cool. Not everyone does well in school, or even wants that path in life. My college years were a waste and I wish I didn’t have the pressure of having to go.
Adults Live With Their Parents Until Late Twenties
If you don't get married or don't have enough money (or simply your family and you like that way) you can even live with them forever. It's not a so rare event
That's usually the difference between latin countries and germanic countries... Youth prefer moving out as soon as they finish highschool in places like Denmark or Germany
Load More Replies...Normal in America too if you’re from an immigrant family lol. Kicking your own child out of the home at some age the government decides is so strange.
Live with parents until you've a permanent job and can afford your home
My husband (anche Guido, da Firenze) believes the same- however, the job market is very different here in the US verses Italia...( I'm assuming that you live in Italia)the concept of getting a permanent job in the US has become rare (very few people stay with the same company/industry for their entire careers anymore). And buying that first home is increasingly difficult. I write "first" home because it is also rare to stay in the same home for more than 8 years. Per esempio, While we (in our mid 50's) still own the home in Italy where my husband grew up, I have lived in 16+ over my lifetime. Splitting the difference between the two lifestyles We have raised our son (19)in the states, and he has only moved once, to a slightly larger house in the same neighborhood.
Load More Replies...In Serbia and all Balkan countries also, it is normal to live with your parents until you are set for life and have ability you move, and support your self in a healthy way or when you get married offcorse :)
I'm married to an Italian (Florentine) and he is having such a hard time accepting that our 19 year old son wants to move into a dorm for college (in town) and not just stay with us. (He's also astounded that my parents cut me off from any financial help the moment I graduated university. ) yes a cultural difference, but I'm grateful to have a husband who really believes in helping our son get a strong start in the world!
This is a reality more nowadays with the economic situation in many countries... if it works for the parents and adult child, then it's fine with me. I don't see the need for an 18 year old to be living on their own... those who attend school/college/university and live away from home will be in that situation from 18-21 or longer depending... Not everyone can afford to live on their own or wants to "house share" with strangers or their peers. And others are saving up to take on a mortgage...
Unfortunately, that's another think that has a sad reason. Young unemployment is very high. Also, you cannot get a loan or a mortgage unless you have a "fixed job", which in this age is almost impossible to get. So young people is forced to live with the parents. It's not a choice.
24 living with my parents and fiance, it's just cheaper that way, even tho my parents are hard to live with x.x
I mean ur not fully developed until ur like 25. Especially in the decision making brain department.
Well, with the US economy and the astronomical rents, more "kids" are having to stay home with their family.
“Like a true American, I put ranch dressing on everything, and you can't find ranch here (But actually one of my amazing followers sent me an entire box of it! So sweet). And Cheetos... I miss Cheetos so much,” Kacie said.
When asked about the American expat community in Florence, Kacie said that it’s indeed “a great little community here of American expats, which definitely helped make the transition living away from home easier.”
Some Stores Close From 12:30-3:30 Everyday
Drinking A Lot Of Coffee
Americans Order Water With Ice
It’s no secret that Florence is a cultural playground for the international rich and has been since the 17th and 18th centuries when it was a highlight on the European Grand Tour. Today, the city that’s often called an open-air museum under the sky is loved by international expats, especially fellow Americans.
According to Celeste Oliphant, a luxury property consultant, “Florence has everything that the foreigner wants from Italy: art, culture, food, and the beautiful countryside of Tuscany on its doorstep.” Plus, she says it’s “less intimidating than southern Italy: it’s clean and there is less chaos.”
Having Sick Days
Actually, you have as many sick days as you need. Just call in sick and that's it.
Charging For Water
Drinking A Glass Of Wine In Middle Of The Day
Why wouldn't it be acceptable to drink wine on a Tuesday at 1:00 PM? Next you'll be telling me I can't drink wine on Wednesday at 8:00 AM. I have worked for over 40 years to earn that right.
Many Americans come to the idyllic city to study and there are more English-speaking education institutions that you could imagine. But due to the covid pandemic, the future of the American students is now unclear as many left and flew back to their home countries for quarantine, where they completed their courses online. The question is whether they will ever return to Florence for studies.
It turns out that the sizable population of American students in the Florence and Tuscany area has a much bigger impact on the region's economy than you could think. According to Fabrizio Ricciardelli, a secretary-treasurer of the Association of American College and University Programs in Italy (AACUPI), “An average of 15,000 students are hosted by North American and Australian study abroad programs in the Florence and Prato areas, creating an added value of 200 million euro in expenditures that benefit the region, along with 5,000 jobs.”
It's Ok For Kids To Drink A Small Glass Of Wine
14 Year Old Kids Can Drive Small-Engine Motorcycles And Scooters
Not Leaving A Tip At A Restaurant
Try combining losing this all value and putting tourism on hold due to the pandemic, causing economic uncertainties far greater than the region could afford. After all, the number of tourist overnight stays in the city of Florence has been growing over the last years, from 12.2 million in 2012 to roughly 15.8 million in 2019. But according to the recent data, tourist arrivals, including both international and domestic tourists, decreased by roughly 71.5 percent in this city in 2020.
Average Gas Price Is 1.51 Euro Per Liter
It's Normal To Have Dinner Later In The Evening
8 isn’t that late in the evening to me. 8pm is like peak dinner hour in my book.
It's Common To Eat Every Part Of The Animal
Bidet In The Bathroom
Don't Go Out If Not Fully Ready
I've seen this in the UK as well! As someone from a warm country, I was practically suffering from hypothermia for three years. It was amazing seeing people walking around with wet hair, blue skin, shorts in November and yet somehow manage not to die.
For food ? South. For wine ? North. Fish ? NorthWest coast. Beer ? NortEast inland. People ? Spain. 🤣
Load More Replies...As a spanish person it was great to see the differences and similarities between both countries. I would love to see more of these comparison but between european countries.
I saw more similarities than differences, it's practically the same
Load More Replies...As an expat living in Italy for several years every single one of these rings so true. My favourite is how the boyfriend will ALWAYS carry the girlfriend's purse. Usually because he puts his stuff in it and then feels badly. Oh and mothers carrying their kid's backpacks to and from school.
Love! I don’t like cities but I could live in Florence the rest of my life.
As italian, that’s not the most comfy place I can think of, but it’s up to personal taste.
Load More Replies...There'd be even more money available for Italians if the government started taxing the Catholic Church and took Rome back from the Church.
Wine. Motorcycles. Oh holy f**k I'm coming *packs water with no ice bcz i hate cold water*
Do the one where your taxes are 3 times what you would pay on the same income in the US. You may not get a bill at the doctors office, but you are paying for it
Source? Quick google shows top tax rates are similar in US and Italy
Load More Replies...Tbf some of these things are news to me as well and I'm European. Government aid for food allergies? Ha!
Load More Replies...Yes, you have to be reminded of it every day, in hopes you will change something. But every other time you guys have an election, you vote the republicans back in.
Load More Replies...For food ? South. For wine ? North. Fish ? NorthWest coast. Beer ? NortEast inland. People ? Spain. 🤣
Load More Replies...As a spanish person it was great to see the differences and similarities between both countries. I would love to see more of these comparison but between european countries.
I saw more similarities than differences, it's practically the same
Load More Replies...As an expat living in Italy for several years every single one of these rings so true. My favourite is how the boyfriend will ALWAYS carry the girlfriend's purse. Usually because he puts his stuff in it and then feels badly. Oh and mothers carrying their kid's backpacks to and from school.
Love! I don’t like cities but I could live in Florence the rest of my life.
As italian, that’s not the most comfy place I can think of, but it’s up to personal taste.
Load More Replies...There'd be even more money available for Italians if the government started taxing the Catholic Church and took Rome back from the Church.
Wine. Motorcycles. Oh holy f**k I'm coming *packs water with no ice bcz i hate cold water*
Do the one where your taxes are 3 times what you would pay on the same income in the US. You may not get a bill at the doctors office, but you are paying for it
Source? Quick google shows top tax rates are similar in US and Italy
Load More Replies...Tbf some of these things are news to me as well and I'm European. Government aid for food allergies? Ha!
Load More Replies...Yes, you have to be reminded of it every day, in hopes you will change something. But every other time you guys have an election, you vote the republicans back in.
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