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Recently, Reddit user u/0_7_0 decided to find out what are the prime examples of common sense.

On July 13, they made a post on r/AskReddit, asking people "What is one 'unwritten rule' that you believe everyone should know and follow?" And it blew up.

As of this article, u/0_7_0's question has received over 3,400 comments, many of which are valuable tidbits we all should listen to. Here are some of the most upvoted ones.

#1

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If I show you a picture on my phone, don't go swiping sideways.

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#2

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If someone is wearing headphones and is clearly keeping to themselves, leave them alone!

Thetiredregular , Dollar Gill Report

#3

Don't litter. It's really not hard to just not litter

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#4

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't watch loud videos on your phone at a restaurant. Can't believe this isn't common courtesy anymore

penguinmanbat , Austin Distel Report

#5

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you borrow something, return it in the same condition

Ryastor , Alexas_Fotos Report

#6

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If someone is giving you a ride, you should be ready at the door before they get there. It’s so rude to have someone waiting on you when they are doing you a favor by picking you up

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went to pick up a friend on a night out. Called him when we arrived, said he'd be down in a moment. 15 mins later still nothing. Called him again and he said he was going to come down after watching Buffy. Told him he'd have to get the train and drove off.

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#7

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) The 'wave' of thank you when someone lets you in while driving in traffic. It's just polite

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#8

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Put the shopping cart back where it GOES!

brock0124 , PIRO4D Report

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#9

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Just because you know someone who does something for a living, that doesn't automatically mean they owe you a discount if you ask for their services.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't do art for a living but I do take commissions sometimes and this bothers me so heckin much...

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#10

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you want to go for a hike and listen to music, come with earphones or headphones. Don't blast loud music.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uh huh it's so annoying especially if you are listening to music yourself and you can hear their crappy radio over your peaceful tunes

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Dan Buczynski
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YES. Some people go hiking to get away from people and sound.

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Martha Meyer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The same goes for public parks imo. I'd like to listen to the wind in the leaves and the birds, not your horrible taste in music.

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SCamp
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same goes for the train. If I can clearly hear your music, your frickin earphones ain’t working

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Seabeast
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or do without and pay attention to your surroundings. I tried to pass a young woman in headphones who was jogging on an isolated stretch of pathway one day. She didn't hear me call out "On your left", she didn't seem to hear me ring my fairly loud bike bell twice, then she was startled when I passed by. I could have been anyone, coming up behind her.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people who do this think that they have great music taste and everyone around them will like the music they listen to as well.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most of them think they have great music taste, but everyone around them hates them. It's unsolicited and you can't just "listen the other direction", so it's a nuisance to most.

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TheGirlWhoWoreGlasses
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't completely agree with this - people (women especially) need to be aware of what is going on around them. I don't blast music, but I often listen to a podcast or something loud enough for me to hear but not so loud I am not aware of my surroundings.

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Liz the Wanderer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This seems so freaking obvious! What is wrong with these boombox people??

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Kimberley Gayle Thomas
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Speaking of boomboxes. One of my pet peeves is the boombox doucebags are using precious Bluetooth to play and bombard their taste unsolicited with speakers ranging in size from 1inch to 2ft as if its the 1980s. I didn't like then, I despise it now.

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Ela S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in North Western Ontario and always use the trails for my walks/runs. I defiantly need to have my phone playing instead of headphones this time of year to let the bears know i'm coming through lol. Its common to see people biking around the community/highway with wireless speakers to let wildlife know they are there. I could see how annoying it would be in a safer hiking/walking area when you are just trying to enjoy the sounds of nature.

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Kristen Bagan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was thinking the same thing: excellent bear deterrent, especially if you're moving with speed

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Karen Scheltema
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, if you're in an area of high car/pedestrian traffic, make sure you can hear what's going around you.

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Giles Gallie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about not talking so loud and non-stop in a tranquil trail.

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ilikeplants
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same for sitting on the beach. I am appalled by how many tourists bring a giant Bluetooth speaker to sit next to their chairs and blast music. This is not your backyard pool!!!

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Amanda Trent
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eddie Vedder wrote the song "Black" in part from this very thing. I believe that's the song anyways. I know he went on a hike to a beach in Washington and was so aggravated by people listening to loud radios and littering, he had to write about it. I'm almost certain it was "Black", but I could be wrong. It was either that or "YellowLedbetter".

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In any public space one should not play music without earphones /headphones. Not everyone is in mood of listening to music or that particular song. And it is unbelievable that people still do that.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, I wouldn't be listening to music when I'm hiking. The sound of nature is way better.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, don't blast music from your bicycle. If you need music, listen quietly. Don't use headphones, though, as you need to hear your surroundings for safety!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this is about noise pollution, but this is the frustration I feel with smokers... they seemingly love to have a smoke out in nature, especially when it's raining - thereby ruining the fresh air.

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Marlowe Fitzpatrik
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the heck goes on a HIKE while listening to music? Jogging, I can understand. Sports of any kind - sure. But hiking?? My personal opinion: if your hiking includes your music to be on, you're doing it wrong!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd give this one 500 upvotes. And if you play loud music in the car when driving in heavy traffic in the city - keep the windows closed.

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denzoren
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really don't need to know your reptilian friend's dietary requirements. (A+ if you get the reference Lol)

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William Teach
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not hiking, but, I was at our little community gym blasting metal in my BT headphones, dude came in played music from his speakers. There's a sign on wall saying to use headphones. I politely asked him to stop. He didn't, so I switched to Rush Limbaugh and put it on speaker. Made my point.

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#11

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Quit pissing on public toilet seats. And if you do, at least have the decency to wipe it up

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or leaving little drops on the seat. Even if it's by accident, no one else wants to wipe it off so they can sit.

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#12

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Chew with your mouth closed.

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#13

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't just show up randomly at someone's house. Call, text, or otherwise reach out and positivity confirm that it's okay before heading to someone else's home.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have some really close friends that we're comfortable enough to just rock up to each others houses, but don't do that unless it's someone you know won't have a problem with it.

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#14

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When you have a complaint with a retail store or business, please remember that the person you are speaking too (or yelling at sadly) is just the one that happened to pick up the phone or is standing at the till. they likely have nothing to do with what went wrong and have little sway in what can be done to help. They dont need to be yelled and screamed at for something they did not do or is under the control of a corporate office/higher up.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always talk in a polite and friendly manner when making complaints. I have found they are more likely to go above and beyond to help. And always thank them afterwards and compliment their ability to help as it makes their day.

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#15

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don’t touch pregnant people’s bellies.

What is it about being pregnant that suddenly makes other people feel entitled to touch you without asking.

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You shouldn’t be touching other people anywhere, not their hair, not there butt not their stomach, nothing… not unless you ask first

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#16

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) PERSONAL SPACE (even when not in a pandemic)

keri112493 , Austin Distel Report

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Don't leave perishable items in random aisles or at the checkout. You're wasting food and driving prices up.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe we've fallen so far that this even happens. It saddens me.

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#18

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Stand back before boarding a bus, subway, metro, or elevator so that those on can get off quickly without having to wait for you to back up first

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This goes for doors, elevators and escalators and everything else where people should be allowed to get off of a moving thing before you get on.

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#19

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) On an escalator, stand on the right so people can walk on the left.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless in a left-side driving country. In those countries, it tends to be the opposite.

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#20

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If u borrow even a damn dollar and promise to bring it back, bring it back

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Michelle M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People, pls don't lend money you can't give. Meaning that you shouldn't go out of your way to lend what you can't afford to give. That way, if the person doesn't return it, you won't be broke. Thank you

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#21

Double flush if you must. Nobody wants to see your poop crumbs.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poop Crumbs lol! Just honked and spat my tea out. Getting funny looks now. Agreed, it is mank

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#22

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never comment a person's weight, if they lost it, if they gained some. It's just very rude either way.

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All you have to do is say you look good you don’t have to specify what part looks good or why

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Don't talk loudly on the phone while you're in public transportation, it's super uncomfortable for everyone

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or at least be aware that some people regard your loud conversation as as free entertainment.

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#24

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Wear deodorant if you are out in public

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people have medical conditions where they either can not wear deodorant or the deodorant won’t help. I would rather smell a human than a sickening perfume all day

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#25

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Give up your seat to the pregnant lady on the bus/train (or to anyone else who needs it. Don't take up two seats because you like to put your feet/bag up).

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember seeing a lady with a walker give up a handicapped spot for a man in an electric wheelchair. If she can do it, everyone else can do it.

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#26

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never ask a person if they're pregnant. It's just rude and you never know their medical history.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Similarly, never ask when they plan to have a child, or why they don't have children already. It's not your business and you don't know what trauma you may unveil. Maybe they had a miscarriage, maybe they did have a child who died at birth, or maybe they have been struggling to get pregnant.

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#27

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you borrow a friends car or truck, always return it with a full tank of gas.

nraasch19 , SnapwireSnaps Report

#28

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) The last one to go to bed has to turn all the lights off

Rebeca2277 , Emma Fabbri Report

#29

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When someone else is paying the bill, you shouldn't order something very pricey. (It's understandable if something expensive is the only thing you are able to eat.)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're sharing the bill and you clearly spent more than everyone else.. . Make sure you insist on paying the difference.

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#30

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When you are shopping/looking for clothes and suddenly decide you don't want it anymore, put it back where you found it. Don't just dump it somewhere — it makes life hard for both workers who are cleaning up and the customers looking for something to buy.

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Adi A.
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually not, in a lot of stores you have a designated area near the cabins where you should leave them. Especially during the pandeminc it is not so smart to put your clothes back with the others after you have tried them on, they could carry nasty things.

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#31

If you make an appointment and can’t keep it, cancel or let someone know. I manage sales for a car dealership and we thrive on appointments. We understand things come up, just let us know. That simple gesture goes a long way.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Car salesmen can be very pushy though! My mum ended up making an appointment because the person talking to her wouldn't take no for an answer but she had no intention of buying the car and didn't attend. I understand what you're saying but she didn't want to have to ring and engage with him again, having been intimidated into making the initial appointment.

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#32

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If your advice or opinion wasn’t asked for, don’t give it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe it's called a conversation. People have been having them for a very VERY long time. People need to stop making everything about them.

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People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) If you are going to talk with someone about your problems/issues, do a quick check-in first. Like, 'Are you in a good space for me to talk this out with you?' I’ve used it a few times, and I think just the basic courtesy of asking is such a relief to people!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know about other cultures but in the UK this is pointless advice. There is NO Way anyone would respond to this by saying "actually no I'm in a s**t mood" we'd just grin and bear it either way.

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#34

The last of any food/drink is reserved for whoever bought said food/drink

Always leave stuff cleaner than it was when you got to it (campsites, AirBnBs, anything shared with people really)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With the ridiculous cleaning fees that Airbnb's often charge, I'm not certain why I should be doing the cleaning for them.

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#35

If someone can't fix an aspect of their appearance in five minutes or less, don't mention it.

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#36

If you’re about to turn the light on in a dark room and someone is there, you have to announce what you’re about to do so the person doesn’t get a surprise. I feel like it’s really disrespectful to turn the light on without announcing it

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife and I do this when it gets dark so that we can prepare our eyes.

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#37

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) When walking through a store, treat the aisles like lanes on a road. Keep to the right.

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#38

Don't bombard people with a ton of taking when they obviously feel tired and overwhelmed, they are having enough trouble with their own stuff, to deal with all of your stuff.

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need to speak up if you’re tired. Not put it on others, you may think it’s obvious to other people and they may not be seeing what you think they’re seeing

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#39

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Never drink the last beer if you didn't buy them.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone on a budget wrote this. If you're offered the last beer, you get the last beer.

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#40

People Are Sharing "Unwritten Rules" Of Life That Everyone Should Be Aware Of (40 Answers) Always space out by one urinal in the restroom.

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