Real life is more like the plot of a novel or the screenplay of a movie than you think. We’ve got awesome protagonists (that’s you, dear Pandas!), intrigue, mystery, and… unexpected twists. After all, what’s a good story without a proper twist? A story that makes the audience gasp, and brings a smile to their faces.
Well, our team here at Bored Panda has traveled over the hills and far away, across the far reaches of social media, to find some of the best real-life stories with twists you likely won’t see coming.
So make yourself a big mug of tea or coffee, grab some biscuits, get comfy, and scroll down to have a good time. Remember to upvote the stories you enjoyed the most, Pandas. And if you’ve got any real-life plot twists to share with us, the comment section is waiting for you with open arms. (Or it would if it had any.)
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While some people thrive when dealing with unforeseen circumstances and easily adapt to the unexpected, others have a harder time. Far from everyone has a good and easy time dealing with surprises. And some real-life plot twists can be quite shocking, in the worst possible sense. Not everything is as light-hearted and fluffy as on social media.
Plot twists, while great in books and movies, might not lead to the same enthusiasm and adoration when they happen to these people in real life. Unpredictability isn’t for everyone; however, life is unpredictable, so we have to learn to deal with it.
During an earlier in-depth interview, Bored Panda spoke about how to live with the fact that life can be unpredictable at times, whether for good or for ill, with psychologist and wellbeing consultant Lee Chambers. He went into detail about building emotional and mental resilience so we’re able to weather any surprises or plot twists that life throws at us.
"As human beings, we have a desire for certainty and routine that keeps us feeling safe and able to plan what lies ahead in an organized manner. When unpredictable situations or accidents impact us, it can be traumatic, and we will likely feel a sense of disappointment, frustration, and loss," the psychologist told Bored Panda.
Grandma was alive when women weren't allowed to have their own bank accounts or credit cards unless their husband signed for them. It only became legal in the US for women to have their own money in the 1970s so I understand why she felt this way. My grandma used to hide cash all over her house. In books under the carpet sewn into her coats. It was good she did
My best friend who just passed away, her husband discovered she had 2, at 2 different banks. She was always excellent at keeping secrets. I didn't even know.
How about a prenup or just openly having a seperate bank account but just letting the other party know of the existance, but not the numbers ? I really do not see how keeping secrets in a relationship is good advice.
We have to see it from the perspective of someone who lived her adult life in a period when women couldn't have their own bank account.
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Ive never understood joint accounts. I know people use them to pay mutual/household bills etc, and I'm not sure how it works in other countries, but in mine if two people rent/have a mortgage they can just each send 50% of the sum from their respective bank accounts. Come to think of it, I'm not even sure joint accounts even exist here anymore. We haven't used checks since the 80's.
If you have a healthy marriage of course you don't need these secrets but if you don't then this secret is needed and if you know you're going to divorce you close that account and hide the cash before you have to claim anything.
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Yeah my boss got f****d over by his wife who did that, he was homeless in his car while going to for awhile. She was just a C**t who f****d him over,
Be careful talking like this on this page. The misandrists don't like it. I lost half my retirement , the house, and the kids to my ex who was having sex with men in the house while I was working to support her through college. One of the kids, I adopted from her former relationship that I still have to pay child support on for at least the next 6 years until she turns 18. So much for gender equality.
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"It is important, however, that we embrace the fact that the world can be unpredictable and uncertain, and become more tolerant of this being a reality,” the expert noted that unpredictability might not be what many of us like. But we still have to learn to accept that it exists as a phenomenon.
“Understanding that things are sometimes out of our control helps us to accept that not everything goes to plan, and accept when things happen to us that are negative. This acceptance allows us to embrace the change and difference, and manage our expectations so we can become more resilient to the ups and downs that all our lives lead,” he said.
In the psychologist’s view, in the case of negative, even traumatic, unpredictable experiences, it isn’t always easy or straightforward to see if the individual will turn everything into greater resilience. In other words, some bad experiences don’t always lead to growth in some individuals. In other cases, however, it can have a galvanizing effect.
"Post-traumatic growth isn't always simple to explain or utilize, but often the adversity we face can create a precedent for what we can overcome, help us to see what we need to be grateful for, and give us an understanding of the support we do have,” psychologist Lee explained to Bored Panda.
“A big part of opening the door to grow from our struggles is finding acceptance and taking ownership over what you can control and finding healthy ways to express the negative emotion that comes with challenges that test us," he said.
Lee also revealed to Bored Panda what strategies helped him when he had to learn to walk again. "Using journaling and talking about how I felt played a significant part in my recovery when I had to learn to walk again, and gave me the space to grow to become mentally stronger as a result,” he opened up.
And he made you think it was a coincidence! He has dozens of drawings made, sold to people that he followed for years to select those he liked, and then found a way to approach them in a non-suspect way. After a period of time they got used to his "style" after looking at the portrait everyday, so they felt a familiarity when seeing him that makes them think that they were vibing with him. The rest is compatibility! :p
“It is also important to reflect on all the hurdles you've overcome, so you can see what skills and lessons you've learned to apply in the future, and adversity often helps us to see what really matters, and gets us closer to knowing our values and purpose."
Ooh! I did that! All because I honestly was walking to the direction where I thought I parked my car, then realized I had to save face by acting like a friend was parked waiting for me then left, so I had to walk back to my car.
My next door neighbor who is a friends with the neighbor in the apartment right blow mine was ringing at my door and impatiently so! I wondered what the emergency was. But I still opened the door with an open mind, and she hurries inside my apartment with some takeout... Realizing mid-step that she has her friends door but with her own floor and that isn't how it works! I never seen someone leave so quickly leaving her apologizing words floating in the air behind her. No need to say I laughed but still tried to make it an "It's-OK-we-all-make-mistakes" laugh to not embarrass her even more! :)
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So many badass grannies! If I ever make it to old age, I hope I'm one, just like Betty White!
My now husband took me to meet his gran almost as soon as we started dating. She instantly started giving me instructions about how to feed him and was very clear I should take all his wages and leave him just enough to have a little fun, but not enough to get into trouble until I had trained him well. She told him to marry me as quickly as possible before I realized he was getting the better deal. I didn't take her advice - 20 years on, we manage food and finances better together - he did though. I really loved his gran though her advice seemed for an other age, she made me feel cared for instantly.
Load More Replies... Years ago my friends and I went to see the Rolling Stones on their Steel Wheels tour. One of us was extremely "frugal" and wanted to get last minute tickets being sold from posts in the newspaper. When we got to the Cotton Bowl are seats were w a a ay back from the stage behind a large concrete pillar. My other friend thought I was going to push this woman down the stairs. (I never liked her in the first place). We saw this guy walking around talking to the few other people there. He was wearing a lanyard. He was looking at tickets, taking them and giving them new tickets. When he got to us, he looked at them and said "You really don't want to sit here, do you? Here. I think you'd rather sit here." Gave us new tickets. 8 rows from the stage!!! Turned out so much better than we thought and I didn't go to prison for murder. All in all a great evening.
when i was small i told my mom i wanted to see my grandma she took me to the car with my brother who covered my eyes, when i was put in front of her i was so excited because it was the first time i ever see her ,then when my brother removed his hands it was a grave with my grandma's name on it.....was the worst day ever
While everybody is celebrating these smart grannies, I am just sad abotu the amount of opression they lived under - and many women still do, today. Yes, they coped with it, but, Jeez, what a life where you are totally dependend on one man :(
So many badass grannies! If I ever make it to old age, I hope I'm one, just like Betty White!
My now husband took me to meet his gran almost as soon as we started dating. She instantly started giving me instructions about how to feed him and was very clear I should take all his wages and leave him just enough to have a little fun, but not enough to get into trouble until I had trained him well. She told him to marry me as quickly as possible before I realized he was getting the better deal. I didn't take her advice - 20 years on, we manage food and finances better together - he did though. I really loved his gran though her advice seemed for an other age, she made me feel cared for instantly.
Load More Replies... Years ago my friends and I went to see the Rolling Stones on their Steel Wheels tour. One of us was extremely "frugal" and wanted to get last minute tickets being sold from posts in the newspaper. When we got to the Cotton Bowl are seats were w a a ay back from the stage behind a large concrete pillar. My other friend thought I was going to push this woman down the stairs. (I never liked her in the first place). We saw this guy walking around talking to the few other people there. He was wearing a lanyard. He was looking at tickets, taking them and giving them new tickets. When he got to us, he looked at them and said "You really don't want to sit here, do you? Here. I think you'd rather sit here." Gave us new tickets. 8 rows from the stage!!! Turned out so much better than we thought and I didn't go to prison for murder. All in all a great evening.
when i was small i told my mom i wanted to see my grandma she took me to the car with my brother who covered my eyes, when i was put in front of her i was so excited because it was the first time i ever see her ,then when my brother removed his hands it was a grave with my grandma's name on it.....was the worst day ever
While everybody is celebrating these smart grannies, I am just sad abotu the amount of opression they lived under - and many women still do, today. Yes, they coped with it, but, Jeez, what a life where you are totally dependend on one man :(
