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Growing up can be incredibly awkward. Our bodies are still developing. We’re covered in spots. And our fashion sense might just match our bad posture. Sometimes, looking awkward doesn’t automatically stop with our teenage years (my collection of baggy sweaters says ‘hi’) and can continue into our twenties and thirties, too.

However, some people have changed incredibly over the years, starting out as ‘ugly ducklings’ and turning into beautiful swans that barely anyone can recognize anymore. One of the places where they share their inspirational before-and-afters is the ‘Ugly Duckling’ subreddit. As you’re checking out these awesome transformations, remember to upvote your favorite ones, dear Pandas. When you’re done, have a look through Bored Panda’s earlier lists about the subreddit right here and here.

We all know that being a good person is more important than having the perfect looks. However, if given the chance, a lot of people would choose both. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting to look how you feel inside.

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From About 11ish(?) To 25. My Skin Cleared Up, I Got Braces, Learned How To Make Up And Fill In My Eyebrows. I Was Made Fun Of/Very Lonely Growing Up, And I Feel The Way That I Looked Had A Big Impact On Why I Am The Way That I Am Now. “Be Kind”

From About 11ish(?) To 25. My Skin Cleared Up, I Got Braces, Learned How To Make Up And Fill In My Eyebrows. I Was Made Fun Of/Very Lonely Growing Up, And I Feel The Way That I Looked Had A Big Impact On Why I Am The Way That I Am Now. “Be Kind”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I completely empathize. I was covered in pimples too, including a giant one on my cheek bone for the graduation photo in my yearbook. Luckily I too cleared up and learned to take care of my skin, my face. Very happy for her.

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Ivana
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn acne. S**t sucks and it hurts and everyone just assumes you don't wash your face when it has absolutely nothing to do with that.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So did you get the classic tv moment where some jerk who made you miserable before asked you out and you got to tell him when pigs fly? You and pupper are both adorable.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had this exact experience. It was one of the greatest moments of my life. He didn't ask me out, but he was so flabbergasted when he saw me and realized who I was that he literally lost the ability to speak, flubbed his speech, turned beet red then snort-laughed. I almost felt sorry for him. Almost.

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True Blue
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look very beautiful also I love your hair colour and ear shape (like elf ears!)

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juice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(those are fake ears, you can see her real ones in another picture) but otherwise i totally agree!

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Tina Bobina
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would think this is what Anna from Frozen would look like in real life

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Brandi VanSteenwyk
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awesome that you see the big picture and the contribution of cruelty benefitting you and others in the end. Many of us are in that same boat: Bullied and teased as children/youth. It's caused me to immediately empathize with those less fortunate or being harassed. In turn, I am a kinder, gentler soul to others. And I have since taught my children and grandchildren (none have struggled in similar fashion) to do the same. We heed THE GOLDEN RULE every day!

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Larry Dahle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are lovely. Nobody can take your beauty and stringth from you. You Own it!

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Tom Susala
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I empathize too, I'm almost 70 and I'm still ugly and quite lonely. I'm happy for you, tho

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Julie Med
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wish you all the happiness in the world, you shine so bright!

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sharron lynn parsons
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sad that too many years, you were unhappy, you look fabulous, perhaps you can help others !!!

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Billy the kid
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about a school reunion now. Show them what a pretty face you are now.

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rachel carter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Feel for this girl as I get what it's like to be made fun of for not being the pretty girl when was growing up..due to health complications I was always having issues with my weight and it affected everything so feel for you hun

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Sue Fletcher
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bless her. So glad her skin cleared, her true beauty shows through.

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Lolly
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m sorry you had to go through pain growing up and I’m glad it made you “better, not bitter”. You came out on top. You are beautiful.

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Jane W.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a natural beauty without over-doing any makeup. Good for you and stay kind.

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June Dominguez
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This lady is a real beauty and I believe she is an actress or looks like one I’ve seen! Wow! I also was bullied throughout partial high school every day until I quit and took a GED test and passed with flying colors ! Gorgeous lady! And ☘️ too!

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Hans Averdung
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

S**t, s**t, s**t. That must have hurt like hell! I had the opposite config (the whole jawline, chin and nose) and it got so bad one of the biggest actually got to the bone. I always had to explain that the worst thing about acne was the pain. ***Hugs***

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Berlinda Dunbar-Nye
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bella!!!! I had thin blond very straight hair, got it cut in an awful close to the head shag (not the lovely gypsy shag they showed in comic book ads) started oiling out. Hair needing washed twice per day, we lived in log cabin with no running water, when we got it, it was only cold. I topped it all off with choosing pink cateye glasses with gold sparkles on the edges. It took me a lot of years to like myself. I ended up not so bad to look at, but also in between discovered my brain, creativity, humor, sparkling wit and charm. It looks like you found it all at a young enough age to enjoy it. You go girl!!!!!

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16-19 Or: How I Learned To Start Shaving And Escape The Neckbeard

16-19 Or: How I Learned To Start Shaving And Escape The Neckbeard

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not have realized that this was the same person. He now also has a haircut that suits him.

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Age 14 To 19. Lost Some Weight And Gained Some Confidence Along The Way

Age 14 To 19. Lost Some Weight And Gained Some Confidence Along The Way

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The ‘Ugly Duckling’ subreddit is a community of over 116k ‘enthusiasts’ who “turned into butterflies” over the years. The subreddit celebrates late bloomers, positive personal changes, and motivational transformations.

Being a late bloomer is nothing to be ashamed of. It can happen at any time. And the process can be drawn out or happen nearly overnight, just like with Neville Longbottom’s actor Matthew Lewis who ‘Longbottomed’ and caught a lot of us unaware of what just happened.

Scott Barry Kaufman writes on Psychology Today that a lot of human traits (including physical attractiveness) are under genetic control and can take “decades” to emerge. 

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16-20. Does This Count?

16-20. Does This Count?

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12 - 24 Even My Family Doesn't Recognize Me These Days, It's Nice

12 - 24 Even My Family Doesn't Recognize Me These Days, It's Nice

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Life Begins At 40! 25 --> 40

Life Begins At 40! 25 --> 40

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“There is one way of becoming an early bloomer, but there are an infinite number of ways of being a late bloomer. Also, the more complex a trait, the more ways that a child can become a late bloomer for that trait. This means that the most appreciated abilities in society, such as creativity and leadership will rarely fully present itself at a young age, all at once,” Kaufman explains.

He adds that even though society tends to celebrate child prodigies, being an early bloomer is no guarantee that you will continue to be successful. Dedication, hard work, and moving towards your goals step by step are just as (if not even more) important as talent.

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Age 17-24, Was Bullied A Lot Growing Up

Age 17-24, Was Bullied A Lot Growing Up

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel you. Gladly it made me a better person. Be kind everybody.

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12 And 29. Still With The Short Hair And Glasses, Some Things Never Change

12 And 29. Still With The Short Hair And Glasses, Some Things Never Change

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11 vs. 28, Lost That Baby Fat And Learned How To Smile

11 vs. 28, Lost That Baby Fat And Learned How To Smile

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2015 - 2019. Basically, I Cleaned Myself Up And Started Over!

2015 - 2019. Basically, I Cleaned Myself Up And Started Over!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look younger, did you age backwards. Glad you're doing so well now.

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Then: 320 Lbs, Face Always Red, Angry At Dad, Ready To Die For Punk Rock. Now: 250 Lbs, Skin Healthier, Love My Dad, Punk Rock Is Pretty Ok But Being An Adult Is Pretty Ok Too

Then: 320 Lbs, Face Always Red, Angry At Dad, Ready To Die For Punk Rock. Now: 250 Lbs, Skin Healthier, Love My Dad, Punk Rock Is Pretty Ok But Being An Adult Is Pretty Ok Too

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13, 15, 20 And 27 Years Old

13, 15, 20 And 27 Years Old

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks interesting and happy in all pics. It's beautiful to see how style is changing, too.

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Age 12 To Age 26... Still Feel A Lot Like The Kid On The Left

Age 12 To Age 26... Still Feel A Lot Like The Kid On The Left

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11—>30 Braces Were Good To Me

11—>30 Braces Were Good To Me

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19 To 20. I Would Like To Thank My Dermatologist

19 To 20. I Would Like To Thank My Dermatologist

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17-24, Went Through Horrible Cystic Acne, Lost 50 Lbs, Got Braces, And Dropped An Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend

17-24, Went Through Horrible Cystic Acne, Lost 50 Lbs, Got Braces, And Dropped An Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, she says she was with someone who made her feel badly about her self worth. And she believed him. Sometimes it happens slowly and you don't know you're being abused until its too late. She got self confidence once she was out of the relationship and then worked on herself. Total respect.

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#23

Age 15 To 21. Lost Some Weight, It Sucks My Eyes Didn't Get Bigger

Age 15 To 21. Lost Some Weight, It Sucks My Eyes Didn't Get Bigger

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12-27. Lost A Chin, But Gained A Smile

12-27. Lost A Chin, But Gained A Smile

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Age ~11 To 20 - I Owe A Lot To Contacts, Braces, Filling In My Eyebrows, And My Hairline Somehow Growing Forward

Age ~11 To 20 - I Owe A Lot To Contacts, Braces, Filling In My Eyebrows, And My Hairline Somehow Growing Forward

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't you wish when you were younger that you had a clue how you'd turn out? Beautiful.

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10 Year Different. Ages 13 & 23

10 Year Different. Ages 13 & 23

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Always Felt So Geeky In High School. I Even Went Through A Period Where I Wanted To End My Life In Middle School Because Of My Weight And Look. Now I’m In My 30’s And Feeling The Most Confident I’ve Been In My Life. Big Thanks For Braces And Lasik

Always Felt So Geeky In High School. I Even Went Through A Period Where I Wanted To End My Life In Middle School Because Of My Weight And Look. Now I’m In My 30’s And Feeling The Most Confident I’ve Been In My Life. Big Thanks For Braces And Lasik

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16 vs. 46. Took Awhile To Get Here, Lol.

16 vs. 46. Took Awhile To Get Here, Lol.

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#31

13-21 Puberty Really Hit Me Hard And Shot Me Up To 6ft8

13-21 Puberty Really Hit Me Hard And Shot Me Up To 6ft8

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From 18 To 23. A Completely Different Person Now

From 18 To 23. A Completely Different Person Now

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7 Years Can Make A Crazy Difference

7 Years Can Make A Crazy Difference

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He had to grow into his body. Nothing wrong with his teenage self.

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Found An Old School Photo (14/29)

Found An Old School Photo (14/29)

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful in the old photo! And very nice natural hair colour, if I had it, I'd keep it forever.

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12 vs. 20. Had To Stop Riding The Bus+change My Classes In Middle School Because I Was Bullied So Bad For "Being Ugly"

12 vs. 20. Had To Stop Riding The Bus+change My Classes In Middle School Because I Was Bullied So Bad For "Being Ugly"

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3 Years With A Lot Of Time In The Gym And Taking Care Of My Skin

3 Years With A Lot Of Time In The Gym And Taking Care Of My Skin

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Me, Early 20’s Looking Troll Man To More Normal Looking Dude In His 30’s

Me, Early 20’s Looking Troll Man To More Normal Looking Dude In His 30’s

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guy on the left looks like a young Andre the Giant. Inconceivable!

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Nearly Two Years Of Hard Work And Dedication. I Won’t Ever Stop!

Nearly Two Years Of Hard Work And Dedication. I Won’t Ever Stop!

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My One Regret Is Losing The Hat

My One Regret Is Losing The Hat

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15 → 26, From Strange Genderbender To Recognizable As A Woman

15 → 26, From Strange Genderbender To Recognizable As A Woman

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's okay to be gender queer, you being more comfortable with your body and style now, that's the win here. 👍

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21 vs. 29.. Losing 100lbs Has Definitely Helped!

21 vs. 29.. Losing 100lbs Has Definitely Helped!

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One Year Transformation. 23 To 23 (Almost 24 Hahaha). What A Gym Membership, Self Love And A Skincare Routine Can Do For You

One Year Transformation. 23 To 23 (Almost 24 Hahaha). What A Gym Membership, Self Love And A Skincare Routine Can Do For You

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Before and after morning coffee :D You look great. Awesome smile!

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18 To 23. Puberty Hit Me Like A God Damn Freight Train.

18 To 23. Puberty Hit Me Like A God Damn Freight Train.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it just me or does he look a bit like Elijah Wood in the first one?

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14 To 20, Lost Weight, Took Care Of Myself And Stopped Cutting My Hair

14 To 20, Lost Weight, Took Care Of Myself And Stopped Cutting My Hair

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