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Growing up can be incredibly awkward. Our bodies are still developing. We’re covered in spots. And our fashion sense might just match our bad posture. Sometimes, looking awkward doesn’t automatically stop with our teenage years (my collection of baggy sweaters says ‘hi’) and can continue into our twenties and thirties, too.

However, some people have changed incredibly over the years, starting out as ‘ugly ducklings’ and turning into beautiful swans that barely anyone can recognize anymore. One of the places where they share their inspirational before-and-afters is the ‘Ugly Duckling’ subreddit. As you’re checking out these awesome transformations, remember to upvote your favorite ones, dear Pandas. When you’re done, have a look through Bored Panda’s earlier lists about the subreddit right here and here.

We all know that being a good person is more important than having the perfect looks. However, if given the chance, a lot of people would choose both. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting to look how you feel inside.

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From About 11ish(?) To 25. My Skin Cleared Up, I Got Braces, Learned How To Make Up And Fill In My Eyebrows. I Was Made Fun Of/Very Lonely Growing Up, And I Feel The Way That I Looked Had A Big Impact On Why I Am The Way That I Am Now. “Be Kind”

From About 11ish(?) To 25. My Skin Cleared Up, I Got Braces, Learned How To Make Up And Fill In My Eyebrows. I Was Made Fun Of/Very Lonely Growing Up, And I Feel The Way That I Looked Had A Big Impact On Why I Am The Way That I Am Now. “Be Kind”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I completely empathize. I was covered in pimples too, including a giant one on my cheek bone for the graduation photo in my yearbook. Luckily I too cleared up and learned to take care of my skin, my face. Very happy for her.

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16-19 Or: How I Learned To Start Shaving And Escape The Neckbeard

16-19 Or: How I Learned To Start Shaving And Escape The Neckbeard

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Raine Soo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not have realized that this was the same person. He now also has a haircut that suits him.

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Age 14 To 19. Lost Some Weight And Gained Some Confidence Along The Way

Age 14 To 19. Lost Some Weight And Gained Some Confidence Along The Way

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The ‘Ugly Duckling’ subreddit is a community of over 116k ‘enthusiasts’ who “turned into butterflies” over the years. The subreddit celebrates late bloomers, positive personal changes, and motivational transformations.

Being a late bloomer is nothing to be ashamed of. It can happen at any time. And the process can be drawn out or happen nearly overnight, just like with Neville Longbottom’s actor Matthew Lewis who ‘Longbottomed’ and caught a lot of us unaware of what just happened.

Scott Barry Kaufman writes on Psychology Today that a lot of human traits (including physical attractiveness) are under genetic control and can take “decades” to emerge. 

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16-20. Does This Count?

16-20. Does This Count?

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12 - 24 Even My Family Doesn't Recognize Me These Days, It's Nice

12 - 24 Even My Family Doesn't Recognize Me These Days, It's Nice

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Life Begins At 40! 25 --> 40

Life Begins At 40! 25 --> 40

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“There is one way of becoming an early bloomer, but there are an infinite number of ways of being a late bloomer. Also, the more complex a trait, the more ways that a child can become a late bloomer for that trait. This means that the most appreciated abilities in society, such as creativity and leadership will rarely fully present itself at a young age, all at once,” Kaufman explains.

He adds that even though society tends to celebrate child prodigies, being an early bloomer is no guarantee that you will continue to be successful. Dedication, hard work, and moving towards your goals step by step are just as (if not even more) important as talent.

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#9

Age 17-24, Was Bullied A Lot Growing Up

Age 17-24, Was Bullied A Lot Growing Up

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Janine B.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel you. Gladly it made me a better person. Be kind everybody.

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#10

12 And 29. Still With The Short Hair And Glasses, Some Things Never Change

12 And 29. Still With The Short Hair And Glasses, Some Things Never Change

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11 vs. 28, Lost That Baby Fat And Learned How To Smile

11 vs. 28, Lost That Baby Fat And Learned How To Smile

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#13

2015 - 2019. Basically, I Cleaned Myself Up And Started Over!

2015 - 2019. Basically, I Cleaned Myself Up And Started Over!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look younger, did you age backwards. Glad you're doing so well now.

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Then: 320 Lbs, Face Always Red, Angry At Dad, Ready To Die For Punk Rock. Now: 250 Lbs, Skin Healthier, Love My Dad, Punk Rock Is Pretty Ok But Being An Adult Is Pretty Ok Too

Then: 320 Lbs, Face Always Red, Angry At Dad, Ready To Die For Punk Rock. Now: 250 Lbs, Skin Healthier, Love My Dad, Punk Rock Is Pretty Ok But Being An Adult Is Pretty Ok Too

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#15

13, 15, 20 And 27 Years Old

13, 15, 20 And 27 Years Old

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Miss Cris
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks interesting and happy in all pics. It's beautiful to see how style is changing, too.

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#17

Age 12 To Age 26... Still Feel A Lot Like The Kid On The Left

Age 12 To Age 26... Still Feel A Lot Like The Kid On The Left

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#18

11—>30 Braces Were Good To Me

11—>30 Braces Were Good To Me

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#19

19 To 20. I Would Like To Thank My Dermatologist

19 To 20. I Would Like To Thank My Dermatologist

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17-24, Went Through Horrible Cystic Acne, Lost 50 Lbs, Got Braces, And Dropped An Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend

17-24, Went Through Horrible Cystic Acne, Lost 50 Lbs, Got Braces, And Dropped An Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend

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Boopie Dew
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, she says she was with someone who made her feel badly about her self worth. And she believed him. Sometimes it happens slowly and you don't know you're being abused until its too late. She got self confidence once she was out of the relationship and then worked on herself. Total respect.

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#23

Age 15 To 21. Lost Some Weight, It Sucks My Eyes Didn't Get Bigger

Age 15 To 21. Lost Some Weight, It Sucks My Eyes Didn't Get Bigger

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12-27. Lost A Chin, But Gained A Smile

12-27. Lost A Chin, But Gained A Smile

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Age ~11 To 20 - I Owe A Lot To Contacts, Braces, Filling In My Eyebrows, And My Hairline Somehow Growing Forward

Age ~11 To 20 - I Owe A Lot To Contacts, Braces, Filling In My Eyebrows, And My Hairline Somehow Growing Forward

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't you wish when you were younger that you had a clue how you'd turn out? Beautiful.

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10 Year Different. Ages 13 & 23

10 Year Different. Ages 13 & 23

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Always Felt So Geeky In High School. I Even Went Through A Period Where I Wanted To End My Life In Middle School Because Of My Weight And Look. Now I’m In My 30’s And Feeling The Most Confident I’ve Been In My Life. Big Thanks For Braces And Lasik

Always Felt So Geeky In High School. I Even Went Through A Period Where I Wanted To End My Life In Middle School Because Of My Weight And Look. Now I’m In My 30’s And Feeling The Most Confident I’ve Been In My Life. Big Thanks For Braces And Lasik

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Louloubelle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a daughter who had the same issue in middle school, mostly because she is transgender. We spent a lot of time with me saying "I PROMISE, it will get better. Hang in there with me". I lived (and still do, sometimes) in fear that she'd kill herself. She's better now that she's out. I just wish she had done it sooner.

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Amanda Cox
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You’re are gorgeous with your light radiant from within. I bet you brighten the days of many, frequently

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Nick McPherran
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad you are still with us, and the world! What a beautiful smile as well. Lites up a room!

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Annie Fullmer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You have the warmest eyes and the best smile. You look like someone I'd like to have in my life.

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Mimi M
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That second pic just radiates confidence - and what perfect teeth!

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WildBerry
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do you know how to use your search engine to look up s**t? And don't give me that "I'm autistic' excuse / lie. If you think everyone in life will give you an answer you like, you're mistaken so practice not getting riled when asked a question that doesn't even insult you. You're welcome douchie.

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Diana Williamson
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You were just a kid, and not a bad looking One! I wish I would have met you , I can see the twinkle in your eyes then and now. You are an exceptional young man! God Bless

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Heather Reynolds Atwood
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish everyone who felt that way about themselves had a magic mirror to show them the future! It would help so many desperate teens!

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Jeannie Carle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd like to slap the person(s) who made you lose so much confidence! Never ugly by any stretch!

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Billy the kid
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This will make a good example to those that feel the same way now.

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Bunny
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great transformation, I just DO NOT get it with he big, huge beards though...

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rachel carter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally feel for the guy as went through similar things and actually did try to end my life on multiple occasions in public school and even as recent as up to within the last few years... Glad he found himself and learned he is good enough and amazing as he is not by others standards

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Brenda Johnson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand the ladies especially if you were really nearsighted. My glasses were like coke bottles.

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Teresa Groth
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a wonderful blessing to have this change in your life, very handsome!

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sabocat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks a bit like a doll now. (But good he's feeling better!)

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Sasy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Needs a beard wax product company to make him the face of brand, that beard growth is incredible

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Donna Price
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love his smile. It lights up his face. So happy he didn’t end his life.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not the most important part, but his beard is EXTREMLEY well kept. like, does he clip it hair by hair?

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Jack Nimble
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's barbered, I think. Based on the vest and tie, I'm guessing he was in a wedding and went for a cut and shave. It is one of the fullest/thickest beards I've seen though. Beard envy.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dunno... The 'before' looks human, the 'after' looks, um, kinda...

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Yeah but shave the beard off and then we’ll see!! Guys look better with beards.

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#30

16 vs. 46. Took Awhile To Get Here, Lol.

16 vs. 46. Took Awhile To Get Here, Lol.

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#31

13-21 Puberty Really Hit Me Hard And Shot Me Up To 6ft8

13-21 Puberty Really Hit Me Hard And Shot Me Up To 6ft8

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From 18 To 23. A Completely Different Person Now

From 18 To 23. A Completely Different Person Now

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#33

7 Years Can Make A Crazy Difference

7 Years Can Make A Crazy Difference

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He had to grow into his body. Nothing wrong with his teenage self.

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Found An Old School Photo (14/29)

Found An Old School Photo (14/29)

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful in the old photo! And very nice natural hair colour, if I had it, I'd keep it forever.

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12 vs. 20. Had To Stop Riding The Bus+change My Classes In Middle School Because I Was Bullied So Bad For "Being Ugly"

12 vs. 20. Had To Stop Riding The Bus+change My Classes In Middle School Because I Was Bullied So Bad For "Being Ugly"

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3 Years With A Lot Of Time In The Gym And Taking Care Of My Skin

3 Years With A Lot Of Time In The Gym And Taking Care Of My Skin

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Me, Early 20’s Looking Troll Man To More Normal Looking Dude In His 30’s

Me, Early 20’s Looking Troll Man To More Normal Looking Dude In His 30’s

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guy on the left looks like a young Andre the Giant. Inconceivable!

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#39

Nearly Two Years Of Hard Work And Dedication. I Won’t Ever Stop!

Nearly Two Years Of Hard Work And Dedication. I Won’t Ever Stop!

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My One Regret Is Losing The Hat

My One Regret Is Losing The Hat

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15 → 26, From Strange Genderbender To Recognizable As A Woman

15 → 26, From Strange Genderbender To Recognizable As A Woman

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's okay to be gender queer, you being more comfortable with your body and style now, that's the win here. 👍

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21 vs. 29.. Losing 100lbs Has Definitely Helped!

21 vs. 29.. Losing 100lbs Has Definitely Helped!

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One Year Transformation. 23 To 23 (Almost 24 Hahaha). What A Gym Membership, Self Love And A Skincare Routine Can Do For You

One Year Transformation. 23 To 23 (Almost 24 Hahaha). What A Gym Membership, Self Love And A Skincare Routine Can Do For You

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Before and after morning coffee :D You look great. Awesome smile!

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18 To 23. Puberty Hit Me Like A God Damn Freight Train.

18 To 23. Puberty Hit Me Like A God Damn Freight Train.

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Hannah M
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it just me or does he look a bit like Elijah Wood in the first one?

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14 To 20, Lost Weight, Took Care Of Myself And Stopped Cutting My Hair

14 To 20, Lost Weight, Took Care Of Myself And Stopped Cutting My Hair

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