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37-Year-Old Guy Wrote A Nasty Message To This Woman So She Told His Mom
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37-Year-Old Guy Wrote A Nasty Message To This Woman So She Told His Mom

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What do you do when you read something that challenges your beliefs? Enter a healthy debate to re-evaluate your position? Maybe. But what if you’re a sexist middle-aged person who feels threatened by everyone who disagrees with you? Whatever it is, don’t abuse them with every swear word you know. Or else you might end up like this poor guy. Getting manhandled by your mom.

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Working in the video game industry, Kallie Plagge is used to getting harassed by men. However, one recent encounter was so over the line, the GameSpot.com writer went out looking for allies. And found one: the harasser’s mother.

Kallie sent her a screenshot of her son’s vulgar message and, to her surprise, received a response the next morning. The mom was so nice about it, Kallie celebrated their exchange by sharing it on her Twitter account. Her tweet has already received over 205K likes, and people are applauding the way Kallie took care of this situation.

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It all started when Plagge reviewed a popular game called Days Gone. “Most aspects of Days Gone lack purpose,” Plagge wrote. “Its many narrative threads flirt with being meaningful and interesting but never quite commit, with characters whose actions and motivations don’t make sense.” The verdict: 5 out of 10.

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Many disagreed with Kallie. The average player score, based on ratings from GameSpot users, was 8.4. In addition to over 950 comments her article has received, Plagge said she got more than two dozen personal Facebook messages and countless tweets from disappointed fans of the game. “It was very clear [from] very early on that it had nothing to do with the content of our review,” Plagge told The Daily Beast. “It was very much just that guys wanted to find an excuse to say sexist things to women.”

“I don’t know any women in the industry who haven’t experienced something like this,” she said. “It varies by how outspoken you are on Twitter, for example, but I think we all get demoralizing comments, whether it’s about our appearance or about the things we say.”

Plagge decided she wouldn’t reveal the identities of both the harasser and his mother. She believes that people should celebrate this case for raising awareness about harassment.

“There needs to be less of a rhetoric about, ‘Don’t feed the trolls,’ because they will come no matter what,” Kallie said. “And my philosophy on it is I’m not going to just lie down and be silent. I don’t want anyone to forget that this is what we have to do to do our jobs.”

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Bobert Robertson
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I ONE HUNDRED percent agree no man should talk to a woman like that (or a woman to a man) but this has to be the laziest and worst piece of garbage of a post I've seen here in a while, and there have been some lazy posts lately. Not to mention it's from May

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Iggy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister was getting threatening messages from a guy on Facebook (he, like the gobshite above, disagreed with her view). Sadly for him, he wasn't very security conscious on his account at the time. My sister took a guess at which one of his friends was his mother and contacted her. She never heard from him again.

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Alex Harris
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that's why you don't use your real name when you answer to strangers.

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Amo Led
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4 years ago

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Sounds like you have experience being a triggered turd.

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

37-y/o sh!t-for-brains sounds like an angry BASEMENT-DWELLING PORN-INFECTED INCEL -- here's hoping he doesn't have an arsenal of firearms to take out his misogynistic fury.

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Helen Haley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If only all men pulling this c**p had easily available mothers to contact.

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Marcellus the Third
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

37 can only remind you of Marianne Faithful. Yes, Ballad of Lucy Jordan.

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We'llSee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could've taken care of this myself he would've just needed "Mama" to cry to

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AzKhaleesi
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not only am I laughing at the comments IN the story. But I am laughing at the comments ABOUT the story. You guys are complaining about how "boring" this story is yet YOU clicked on it to READ it. Don't complain when you willingly read it. Not to mention the title told you exactly what was going to happen therefore you can't even pretend to act shocked. hahaha wow.

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Cathrine Simone
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Glad you went to the mom. Sadly, I'm not sure if it will matter, considering she raised a man who obviously didn't think twice about trying to rip the reviewer apart over her opinion. I don't agree with the review of Days Gone, but it's a freggin game. When are some people going to realize that when they lash out like that, they only serve to make themselves look like a butt-hurt buffoon.

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prov dawg
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd believe she put her morals before her attention seeking if she didn't post this to facebook for clout. She's no better than someone on youtube giving homeless people $20

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Berdarien Brown
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I straight love this. As a gamer I see the idiocy that invades the culture due to anonymity. Me being so far on the other side of it love posts like these. Love her, love her reaction, love the mom's response.

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Solrac
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, she talked to his mom but what happened afterwards?

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Camil Gagnon
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Maam, he said mean things to meh." Happens everyday in kindergarten... That said, guy does have issues.

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Amo Led
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please name the kindergartens your child attends where 5 year old boys are calling little girls "sjw c**t bitches". Do us a solid and share the names/locations so we can avoid those parenting deserts.

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suckmyloli f
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It never fails to amaze me how now a days people get such joy from strangers getting in s**t?

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Waqitos
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, thanks mom for common sense you added in me to treat living beings with kindness and love.

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Dirk Daring
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm just here to see all the angry comments written by angry men about the article about angry men writing angry comments about an article about somebody else's opinion of a video game. Don't forget to downvote and write angry replies. It nourishes me.

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Terd Fergison
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The incels are sure riled up by this post. This comments section is so cringe inducing. Why are people trying to defend this guy? And put down this woman for standing up to a bully? It seems like they are all scared someone is gonna tell their mommies too.

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Tahani
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And she was wrong on Days Gone, it's a brilliant game....

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Aliquid
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An opinion can't be wrong... people who think otherwise are quite self absorbed.

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Victoria Swift
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh. She is just as bad as he is. "Your being mean to me I'm telling!" I thought this was beat out of us as children by the second grade.

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Jeff Requier
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

https://www.facebook.com/176270319137347/posts/2434153590015664/?sfnsn=mo&d=n&vh=e

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Jeff Requier
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4 years ago

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Kjorn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ok… someone can tell me what's the problem with girl who likes to game? because i try to find one and i can't

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Nomadus Aureus
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not a gamer, but sadly I can't count how many times I've been called a fake, because I like LOTR but don't know every minute detail of the entire Tolkien universe. And for some reason it's always coming from men.

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Ben Smith
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Basically someone said something mean to you and you told their mommy on them?

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elfin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It might also be useful to forward a copy of that vile message to his father and his boss.

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Bill
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she reacts in anyway he feels validated and he's getting attention. So he wins in his mind. She should have ignored him, maybe block him

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Bill
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you are in your late 30s and living in mom's basement there are no insults that can match that

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Jeff Requier
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only thing the guy did wrong was having his privacy settings so s****y that this girl was able to message his mom.

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Geoffrey Holland
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No Jeff, what he did wrong was to be a misogynist a*****e who said horrible things to a woman. I'm sure you are one of those as well so perhaps you should reconsider your life decisions. Being an incel isn't a good decision but I'm sure you are one.

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WilvanderHeijden
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A 37 years old guy that uses "Southpark speech" to express his misogynistic opinion qualifies for the title of Incel of this century.

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Ben Smith
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like others in this post, you don’t seem to understand what misogyny is.

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Cindy Snow
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4 years ago

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I've threatened to tell my mother in law stuff he's said. He was worried lol.

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iblowsheep
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4 years ago

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so a string of stupid curse words is now sexism? Holy s**t these feminist c***s are so f*****g out of whack.

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Shull GaRett
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4 years ago

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Id like to see the review just to see what triggered this guy... Or if that review was really that bad?

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Si
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4 years ago

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I doubt his mother did much. Boys don’t get to 37 as misogynists without a whole lot of enabling.

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4 years ago

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Article should be renamed, "Adult Male Has Obvious Mental Health Issues, So I Tattled to His Mommy... BTW, I'm an Adult". Eg: She has issues, too.

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Bobert Robertson
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I ONE HUNDRED percent agree no man should talk to a woman like that (or a woman to a man) but this has to be the laziest and worst piece of garbage of a post I've seen here in a while, and there have been some lazy posts lately. Not to mention it's from May

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Iggy
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister was getting threatening messages from a guy on Facebook (he, like the gobshite above, disagreed with her view). Sadly for him, he wasn't very security conscious on his account at the time. My sister took a guess at which one of his friends was his mother and contacted her. She never heard from him again.

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Alex Harris
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that's why you don't use your real name when you answer to strangers.

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Amo Led
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4 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Sounds like you have experience being a triggered turd.

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Steve Cruz
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

37-y/o sh!t-for-brains sounds like an angry BASEMENT-DWELLING PORN-INFECTED INCEL -- here's hoping he doesn't have an arsenal of firearms to take out his misogynistic fury.

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Helen Haley
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If only all men pulling this c**p had easily available mothers to contact.

michel_2 avatar
Marcellus the Third
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

37 can only remind you of Marianne Faithful. Yes, Ballad of Lucy Jordan.

wellsea7 avatar
We'llSee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could've taken care of this myself he would've just needed "Mama" to cry to

heathervance avatar
AzKhaleesi
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not only am I laughing at the comments IN the story. But I am laughing at the comments ABOUT the story. You guys are complaining about how "boring" this story is yet YOU clicked on it to READ it. Don't complain when you willingly read it. Not to mention the title told you exactly what was going to happen therefore you can't even pretend to act shocked. hahaha wow.

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Cathrine Simone
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Glad you went to the mom. Sadly, I'm not sure if it will matter, considering she raised a man who obviously didn't think twice about trying to rip the reviewer apart over her opinion. I don't agree with the review of Days Gone, but it's a freggin game. When are some people going to realize that when they lash out like that, they only serve to make themselves look like a butt-hurt buffoon.

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prov dawg
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd believe she put her morals before her attention seeking if she didn't post this to facebook for clout. She's no better than someone on youtube giving homeless people $20

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Berdarien Brown
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I straight love this. As a gamer I see the idiocy that invades the culture due to anonymity. Me being so far on the other side of it love posts like these. Love her, love her reaction, love the mom's response.

cebenspe avatar
Solrac
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, she talked to his mom but what happened afterwards?

krillin64 avatar
Camil Gagnon
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Maam, he said mean things to meh." Happens everyday in kindergarten... That said, guy does have issues.

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Amo Led
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please name the kindergartens your child attends where 5 year old boys are calling little girls "sjw c**t bitches". Do us a solid and share the names/locations so we can avoid those parenting deserts.

Load More Replies...
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suckmyloli f
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It never fails to amaze me how now a days people get such joy from strangers getting in s**t?

shwaqas avatar
Waqitos
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, thanks mom for common sense you added in me to treat living beings with kindness and love.

dirkdaring99 avatar
Dirk Daring
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm just here to see all the angry comments written by angry men about the article about angry men writing angry comments about an article about somebody else's opinion of a video game. Don't forget to downvote and write angry replies. It nourishes me.

lawrence_dillard avatar
Terd Fergison
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The incels are sure riled up by this post. This comments section is so cringe inducing. Why are people trying to defend this guy? And put down this woman for standing up to a bully? It seems like they are all scared someone is gonna tell their mommies too.

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Tahani
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And she was wrong on Days Gone, it's a brilliant game....

aliquida avatar
Aliquid
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An opinion can't be wrong... people who think otherwise are quite self absorbed.

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Victoria Swift
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh. She is just as bad as he is. "Your being mean to me I'm telling!" I thought this was beat out of us as children by the second grade.

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Jeff Requier
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

https://www.facebook.com/176270319137347/posts/2434153590015664/?sfnsn=mo&d=n&vh=e

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Jeff Requier
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4 years ago

This comment has been deleted.

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Kjorn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ok… someone can tell me what's the problem with girl who likes to game? because i try to find one and i can't

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Nomadus Aureus
Community Member
4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not a gamer, but sadly I can't count how many times I've been called a fake, because I like LOTR but don't know every minute detail of the entire Tolkien universe. And for some reason it's always coming from men.

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Ben Smith
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Basically someone said something mean to you and you told their mommy on them?

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elfin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It might also be useful to forward a copy of that vile message to his father and his boss.

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Bill
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she reacts in anyway he feels validated and he's getting attention. So he wins in his mind. She should have ignored him, maybe block him

dirigobill avatar
Bill
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you are in your late 30s and living in mom's basement there are no insults that can match that

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Jeff Requier
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only thing the guy did wrong was having his privacy settings so s****y that this girl was able to message his mom.

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Geoffrey Holland
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No Jeff, what he did wrong was to be a misogynist a*****e who said horrible things to a woman. I'm sure you are one of those as well so perhaps you should reconsider your life decisions. Being an incel isn't a good decision but I'm sure you are one.

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WilvanderHeijden
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A 37 years old guy that uses "Southpark speech" to express his misogynistic opinion qualifies for the title of Incel of this century.

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Ben Smith
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like others in this post, you don’t seem to understand what misogyny is.

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Cindy Snow
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4 years ago

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I've threatened to tell my mother in law stuff he's said. He was worried lol.

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iblowsheep
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4 years ago

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so a string of stupid curse words is now sexism? Holy s**t these feminist c***s are so f*****g out of whack.

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Shull GaRett
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4 years ago

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Id like to see the review just to see what triggered this guy... Or if that review was really that bad?

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Si
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4 years ago

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I doubt his mother did much. Boys don’t get to 37 as misogynists without a whole lot of enabling.

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Whatever...
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Article should be renamed, "Adult Male Has Obvious Mental Health Issues, So I Tattled to His Mommy... BTW, I'm an Adult". Eg: She has issues, too.

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