Pride Month 2022 has kicked off, and the LGBTQ+ communities are celebrating the freedom to be themselves. Which, even though it's the 21st century, is still apparently threatening to some people.
I know it sounds absurd, but take the subreddit "Are the Straights OK?" for example. Its members regularly discover posts that discriminate against minorities, and often do so in a way that resembles all those toxic cliches from 25, 75, and even a few hundred years ago.
Continue scrolling to check out what statements have recently appeared on the subreddit and fire up Bored Panda's older publication on it for more similar jibberish if you want to go down the rabbit hole even deeper.
This post may include affiliate links.
What
Ugh. Just, Ugh
Given all the problems they have, you might be surprised that wealth creation, according to new research from Merrill Lynch, is actually happening at a faster pace among diverse communities, including the black, Latino, and specifically, the LGBTQ+.
The study focused on "affluent households," which, according to the three reports from Merrill Lynch, means US households earning more than $125,000. Affluent gay, lesbian, and transgender households saw their net worth skyrocket by a whopping 76% since 2015. (For comparison, the average "affluent" home saw its wealth grow by 53% during this time frame.)
Double Standards
Not All Heroes Wear Capes
Jesus Christ
"As a gay financial planner, I have seen the difference in family dynamics between my hetero clients and LGBTQ+ clients," David Rae wrote in Forbes. "About one-third of LGBTQ+ respondents said family members did not support them. While I believe acceptance is improving, it is not a given."
"LGBTQ+ Americans tend to get married later, and if they have children, they tend to have them later in life. Additionally, the cost of starting a family for LGBTQ+ individuals is usually much more expensive on average. That being said, for same-sex couples who don't have children, there is a lot more money to go around, which can make it easier to live a fabulous gay lifestyle while at the same time still building wealth."
Better To Be Silent And Assumed A Fool Than To Speak Up And Remove All Doubt
Swimsuits
*gasp* Women Have... Veins?! Impossible!!
Matt Walsh Is A Controlling A**hole And Jeffrey Combs Is An Absolute Gem
It's also important to point out that the LGBTQ+ community is still highly diverse, with members at the top and bottom of the income and wealth spectrums.
Merrill conducted an in-depth study to help understand the financial planning needs of the LGBTQ+ community. The study also explored the financial challenges that members of the LGBTQ+ community overcame. 'Diverse Viewpoints: Exploring Wealth in the LGBTQ+ Community' is just one in a series of studies that Merrill has commissioned.
Holy Cr*p
Hmmm
What Is Wrong With People
Nope, Definitely Not Ok, It's A Freaking Blanket!
Ouch that would have seriously hurt. That's a lovely blanket and beautiful colours. Sorry you went through that. :(
"There is fear throughout the LGBTQ+ community about growing old alone," Rae said. "I could easily make a joke here about the fear of looking old, but this is a serious issue for many in the LGBTQ+ community. As a group, we face many challenges as we age."
"One pertinent question is, 'Who will look after us as we age.' LGBTQ+ folks are a third more likely to be concerned about paying for long-term care costs when compared to the general public. For one thing, long-term care is extremely expensive. Also, there is pervasive discrimination within many elder care facilities, both from residents and staff. These issues can be even more problematic for the transgender community and those living with HIV. I've spoken with many gay and lesbian seniors who have essentially gone back into the closet in their retirement communities."
Why Can't Women Just Enjoy Their Boobies? Their Super Stuffed Up Milkies? Their Honker Wonker Doinky Bonkies?
Ask him to strap two pumpkins to his chest for a day and see what he thinks by 5pm.
Better yet, force him to have 2 pumpkins attached to his ribcage with self-tapping screws for a week. But use stainless steel screws, cuz, safety first.
Load More Replies...He also assumes you are either overweight or out of shape if you have back pain from large breasts. Are we sure he's ever seen a woman's breasts?
Exactly, I did bodybuilding and had a strong back. It wasn't the problem. Still had cuts from bra straps. Hard to run, etc. When he gets saggy balls it's because his butt is not strong enough.
Load More Replies...My hubby had no issue with me getting a breast reduction. If he did then too bad, so sad. They are mine, not his.
My wife wants this done. We're documenting every incident of back pain, going to the doctor for each of these issues. In hopes of getting the insurance to pay. Otherwise it's considered cosmetic, and minimum cost in our area is $10000. Well over our current price point. It really sucks that she has to go through all of this s**t.
My poor mother-in-law literally had deep grooves in her shoulders from the weight of her breasts pulling her bra straps. Wanted breast reduction surgery, but back then, even with medical records showing the impact on her health, insurance wouldn't pay for it. Personally, I've been glad I don't have large breasts.
Load More Replies...My mom has had three breast reduction surgeries in her life. I want one too. If they could take ALL the tissue out safely and make me flat as a board, I wouldn’t complain. Also lelz at “exercises” that women could do… son, plz show me which exercise strengthens the muscle(?) where my bra straps create permanent divots in my shoulders because my honker wonkers are too heavy?
One of my had a breast reduction, and no regrets at all, never complained about back pain ever again.
Fun fact, most women undergo breast reduction surgery for their own benefit. My sister did so because the "top heaviness" was killing her back and quality of life plus the ability to work in her chosen profession of equine surgery. Sadly she had to fight her insurance company for coverage and prove it was non cosmetic surgery which isn't covered under her plan. As her brother I'm very happy to know she is now able to live her life and do her work without any undue pain. Needless to say, my sister did NOT enjoy her boobies. Maybe this guy should attach a cinderblock to his s*****m and see how much he would enjoy it.
Hey BP is the American Family Association running your censorbots? I was just naming a biologically accurate name of male body parts. Let's not "unalive" free discussion here.
Load More Replies...WOW. Yeah I had a breast reduction here - I was a J cup. A J CUP. Went down to a small C. Reasons: I would get yeast between them from sweat. It smelled. Back pain. Bras are outrageously expensive. Usually not very pretty either. We get Beige, White and Black. Clothes fit better. Also big boobs tend to be droopy. My nipples used to point to the floor. Now they're perky and I don't even need to wear a bra if I don't want to. What would you rather look at?
AND - IT DOESN"T MATTER! WE DON'T LIVE TO BE A MAN'S EYE CANDY! IT'S OUR BODIES! Amazingly, my husband, who loves huge tits, is still around. Must like me for my personality. Who would have thought.
Load More Replies...OR nurse here. I've seen women with half inch grooves in their shoulders from their bra straps. When I saw them, they were in for reduction surgery.
The title is usually taken straight from Reddit, with just a grammar touch-up. I believe I've seen this post with the same title before.
Load More Replies...Well I can definitely say for myself that when I lost weight and worked out they actually grew. Gained back weight then lost weight. Same size basically; no cup change just band size change. So no. And then see below comments for other reasons and great suggestions for you to definitely try so you realize how much of an a*s you are
My oldest daughter has oversized breast (DDD) at 17. I have discussed reduction surgery for her. (I have secretly been putting away $ to help her out) The surgery would help reduce her back strain and also seriously boost her confidence!
I had reduction surgery at 19. I'd do it again. My life is completely different in a hugely positive way. I could FINALLY shop for age appropriate clothing. I could buy matching bra and panty sets like all teenage girls want to do whereas before I was relegated to bras that old ladies wear because that's all that would fit. It was humiliating and I had some real trauma over the things I was subjected to beginning at age 13. It wasn't fun and it wasn't cute or funny. Any man who has had the nerve to ask why I had the reduction has been suitably embarrassed enough to hopefully think twice before making such idiotic "jokes" or inquisitions. I support any girl or woman wanting a reduction.
I genuinely think it's a break through moment for some men to understand that women don't do *everything* to gain sexual attention from men, and have other reasons. I'm not even being sarcastic.
Talk to your local politicians and religious leaders for more women controlling laws !! (Srcsm)
Annnnd that's one reason I opted for reduction; the breast exam I had at age 10 while I was having a physical by my male pediatrician. This was before parents went into the room with their kid.
Damn. I'm so sorry you went through that! Sexual abuse at a young age from an authority figure who was supposed to be there to keep you healthy and safe. Wish I could make the memory go away for you!
Load More Replies...I have a big chest. It has physically changed my body. I have permanently indented shoulders, I have shortness of breath, my lower back can’t be touched at all, and so much more. But it’s not only physical problems, there is a lot of mental problems with having a big chest. I was bullied so bad in school, my own family would make fun of me, I was sexualized go at a young age, my self confidence is low, etc. The list is never ending. Sometimes the only thing to do is get a breast reduction.
So If you're walking around with a big booger hanging out your nose... Wear it like a man!
Ah Yes, Misogynistic Christmas Cards For All!
Ladies…?
The US Department of the Treasury says that gay married couples make more money than lesbian couples, and both gay and lesbian couples make more than opposite-sex married couples.
"It is pretty easy to explain how gay and lesbian married couples can make more money per year and at the same time be paid less for equal work," Rae said. "The proportion of dual-income households among gay and lesbian couples is higher than that of opposite-sex couples. You may have two lesbians earning less both because they are female and lesbian, but if both work full-time, they, on average, make more than the so-called nuclear family where the husband works and the wife stays home (don't shoot the messenger, I'm just pointing this out)."
Cait Doesn't Get It, And Neither Do I Mate...
The Delusions Of Some Of These Guys
This Does Not Seem Okay
…
However, in many places around the world people from the LGBTQ+ community still have to hide and even flee persecution for simply being who they are.
"Among 84 million people who are currently forcibly displaced worldwide, LGBTQ+ persons are particularly vulnerable and marginalized," the UN said in a statement in May. "Fleeing persecution and socio-economic exclusion, they often reside in countries that do not provide strong human rights protections or actively discriminate based on sexual orientation and gender identity."
Pretty Much
Hmmmm
Found On An Article
I Genuinely Find This Hilarious Especially Knowing The Original Creator Was Being 100% Serious
"The structural vulnerabilities that LGBTQ+ persons face are intensified by their situation as migrants, asylum seekers, refugees, or internally displaced persons," the statement continued.
"Persecution from State and non-State actors, as well as socio-economic exclusion fueled by stigma, discrimination, armed conflict, natural disasters, and climate change force many persons of diverse sexual orientation and gender identity (SOGI) to flee their homes in search of a safe environment, where they can live authentically and fully exercise their rights."
Women Are Such Mysterious Creatures, They Never Say What They Want
This happened several months ago so I blocked him after he kept trying to get me to date him. Now he somehow reached out to me on Skype and offline school will start in 2 days so now I have no choice but to see him in person
That- That's Not What Loyal Is-
About Ice Cream
This Is Just Creepy
When You Think It Can’t Get Worse You Notice The Glove…
Both clearly having a laugh. Probably work on/own the farm and this is how they handle pregnant livestock so they're making a joke of it while letting family & friends know they are expecting. I think it a-moo-sing anyway.
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things
Oh... My God
I am not often lost for words but.... . . ..but what a cockwomble, twatbadger of a person I cannot call him a man
At Least He End It There
Yes, please end it! Good riddance. My God, I'm getting more disgusted by the minute reading this list 🤬🤬🤬
Found Some Vintage Anti-Suffrage Posters That Show How Afraid People Were Of Women Voting
Not Only Did People Get Mad About The Trailer, This Post Got Reported A Lot
Ah, Poor Babies…
How Do You Even... What
Yeah, Don't Have Sex Before Marriage
This Sign Above A Children's Toilet
What Poor Woman Made This?
Are They Serious?
Definitely Not Ok
I've Lost So Much Respect For This Elon Musk Guy
Honey,that Sounds Like A You Problem
... What
Racist and Sexist all in one! And Homophobic! That has to be a new record!
I Don’t Think They Are
This Is At A Kid’s Stationary Shop
A Friend Sent This Screenshot To Me On Instagram…
I May Be A Sex Repulsed Ace But Once A Week Seems A Bit Much When Your Partner Dosn't Feel Sexual Attraction
Instagram Explore Page Memes = Misogynist Memes
Note: this post originally had 136 images. It’s been shortened to the top 50 images based on user votes.
At least it provides us with a form of entertainment...and I always feel super sane and marginally more intelligent after reading some of this garbage.
Load More Replies...Why is this something that only the LGBTQ+ community would find offensive??
To anybody confused by the comments: They’ve now edited the title to include “homophobia and sexism”. It was originally a title referring to homophobia and nothing to do with sexism in case you’re wondering what all the “how is this homophobic??” comments mean.
Load More Replies...I apologize to everyone for how often I commented, I just got so angry with every new item on the list 🤬🙄
I commented way too much on this. I'm angry now, so going to look at the rescue pets posts.
Never have so many BP posts in one article made my stomach drop and leave a feeling of hollowness in my chest. I fail to fathom the minds that could conceive of such antipathy for fellow humans.
I was eating oranges while reading through these. I accidentally rubbed orange peel juice in my eye. That was still less painful then reading through some of these. It really isn't difficult to respect the autonomy of others, to recognize that other people can be very different from yourself and understand that this is okay and not a threat to your life or well being. And yet, people still manage to fail to grasp any of these life lessons.
I think it's important we are able to differentiate those that are clearly maliciously toxic and those of people struggling to come to terms with things. If people lash out at anyone with an opinion that differs just a little and started going "us vs them" then this movement is no different than the intolerance they are opposing.
What I get often is “You’re gay … I know a gay guy, you should totally get together”
Sometimes it's a helpful to have a reminder that I purposefully surround myself with loving and supportive people. I wish everyone had the luxury.
This entire article would be 70% shorter or only 40 entries, since only about 30% are about homophobia, while the rest are misogynistic which is another kettle of fish. No pun intended. But here's one: why isn't hobophobia a thing? I see class bigots shy away from hobos all the time and even yell at them and call the cops. Hobophobia is a real problem in our class bigoted society.
At least it provides us with a form of entertainment...and I always feel super sane and marginally more intelligent after reading some of this garbage.
Load More Replies...Why is this something that only the LGBTQ+ community would find offensive??
To anybody confused by the comments: They’ve now edited the title to include “homophobia and sexism”. It was originally a title referring to homophobia and nothing to do with sexism in case you’re wondering what all the “how is this homophobic??” comments mean.
Load More Replies...I apologize to everyone for how often I commented, I just got so angry with every new item on the list 🤬🙄
I commented way too much on this. I'm angry now, so going to look at the rescue pets posts.
Never have so many BP posts in one article made my stomach drop and leave a feeling of hollowness in my chest. I fail to fathom the minds that could conceive of such antipathy for fellow humans.
I was eating oranges while reading through these. I accidentally rubbed orange peel juice in my eye. That was still less painful then reading through some of these. It really isn't difficult to respect the autonomy of others, to recognize that other people can be very different from yourself and understand that this is okay and not a threat to your life or well being. And yet, people still manage to fail to grasp any of these life lessons.
I think it's important we are able to differentiate those that are clearly maliciously toxic and those of people struggling to come to terms with things. If people lash out at anyone with an opinion that differs just a little and started going "us vs them" then this movement is no different than the intolerance they are opposing.
What I get often is “You’re gay … I know a gay guy, you should totally get together”
Sometimes it's a helpful to have a reminder that I purposefully surround myself with loving and supportive people. I wish everyone had the luxury.
This entire article would be 70% shorter or only 40 entries, since only about 30% are about homophobia, while the rest are misogynistic which is another kettle of fish. No pun intended. But here's one: why isn't hobophobia a thing? I see class bigots shy away from hobos all the time and even yell at them and call the cops. Hobophobia is a real problem in our class bigoted society.