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Girls grow up thinking that pregnancy is going to be one of the biggest highpoints in their lives. The reality, however, can be quite different. Weird body changes. One Google search after another. Yes, bringing a baby into this world is really darn cool, but the experience is full of surprises too.

Earlier this month, Reddit user u/BonkBoi_TacoFace submitted a question to r/AskReddit: "Pregnant women of Reddit, what is something you wish you knew before you got pregnant?" And their call was heard. Women immediately started sending in their answers, and as of today, the post has over 14,700 comments, many of which provide eye-opening insights into gestation.

Bored Panda also spoke with Vicki Broadbent, a writer, director, broadcaster, and founder of the parenting blog Honest Mum, to learn more about pregnancy and the challenges that come with it.

"The pressures on pregnant women and mothers is utterly palpable so please be kind to yourself," Broadbent, who also shares parenting advice and candid family moments on her Instagram account, said.

Continue scrolling and check out the full interview in between the entries!

Image credits: Vicki Broadbent / Honest Mum

#1

Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Nobody talks enough about how difficult breastfeeding is. You’re told it’s the “best” for the baby but then people assume it’s always a choice when it doesn’t work out. It’s not as if baby or mother automatically know how to latch and it can cause so much stress, which affects milk supply as well. There are physiological things with baby and mom that can make it difficult... and it can be extremely painful. I bled and my first even gnawed off a piece of my nipple. It was more traumatic than childbirth for me but I felt guilty about quitting. Advice to my younger self or new moms: breast is not best, FED is best. Don’t beat yourself up and switch to formula if breastfeeding is too difficult.

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Irina Deneva-Slav
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what propaganda does to you, even if it's for something as positive as breastfeeding. A girl in my hospital room was so stressed out because her baby didn't latch immediately, she cried for hours and by the time they got to go home she was a nervous wreck. Nothing should be done at all costs, even if it's "best for the baby". Fed is indeed best, not breastfed.

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"I'd personally hoped for the best but planned for the worst with my pregnancies, as I needed an emergency section with my first baby which was a world apart from the water birth I'd dreamed of," the author of The Working Mom: Your Guide to Surviving and Thriving at Work and at Home told Bored Panda.

"Now that I practice meditation, I know I would have leaned on that throughout my pregnancies and beyond to help center and soothe me. Free apps such as Insight Timer are perfect as they have over 80,000 free meditation exercises available, some only a few minutes long."

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) That no matter how much you planned and wanted your baby, postpartum depression can happen to you and it is very, very real.
It is not something you can control. Hormones are liars. Partners of new moms, please pay close attention. Get help. Do not try to tough it out.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always wonder if women with mental health issue are more likely to experience postpartum depression (and whether it can get more intense). I have bipolar type 2 disorder but would love to have a child someday.

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A quick Google search would reveal there's plenty of information on pregnancy. Maybe too much. Not to some media 'filters', set in place to make this content appealing to a wider audience. Navigating such mazes can become really tricky. "I think parents and parents-to-be are discussing pregnancy more candidly than ever now thanks to social media but there are still barriers to information and education depending on where you live in the world and how much access you have to medical professionals," Broadbent said.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) You do not have to enjoy EVERY minute of parenthood. It's ok to have bad days and days when you think your kids are jerks. You're not f**king this up - it's just THAT hard.

Drumwife91 , neildodhia Report

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Do. Not. Join. An. On-line. Mom. Group.

No.

Impius_Operandi , Nenad Stojkovic Report

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am on two Facebook mum groups and they are actually very supportive. Rude and nasty comments are deleted and the person banned. They are quite regulated.

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The Honest Mum, for example, had suffered from a pregnancy liver condition called ICP in 2010 which some studies have shown can result in stillbirth, and struggled to find enough information about it at the time. "Research was limited and I received opposing information from health professionals. Very few were openly discussing PND and birth trauma a decade ago, (I suffered from the latter) either in parenting groups or online (for fear of failure as a parent and perhaps fear their baby might be taken from them)."

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Miscarriage is ridiculously common.

I say this as someone currently carrying a dead baby waiting for the NHS to give me a surgical removal.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Having a baby CAN destroy your body for many women. Forget the “women have been doing this for generations” bulls**t, which I think can dismiss the very real toll that pregnancy/childbirth can have on a body. Many women suffer long term incontinence after birth, much of the time this can be improved with therapy but maybe never fully healed—and some women it never heals for. Your stomach will never look the same. I had a small waist and flat stomach before kids and now I have an unbelievable fat sack on my stomach and so many deep red stretch marks that haven’t faded. I gained a lot of weight despite not eating much due to bad food aversions. I’m leaking poop after giving birth due to a third degree tear and pelvic floor issues, and I’m told that there’s a high chance that future pregnancies and births will only exacerbate my issue, especially if it doesn’t improve soon. And I’m a first time mom and only 27!! WTF!! I don’t hate my new baby, but I certainly don’t know if I would say it’s “worth it,” considering my body feels ravaged and will never be the same. I basically lost 9 months of my life due to being very sick most of my pregnancy, and now will lose many more months due to a difficult recovery.

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Broadbent is happy that when blogging and social media really exploded, many writers such as herself found the courage to share their own experiences. "My piece on birth trauma has helped many women and many other similar pieces online are helping parents to feel less alone, and vitally able to reach the help they need to heal," she said.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Miscarriages are not spoken about enough. No-one tells you how much it's going to hurt nor how long your hormones will take ages to go back to 'normal' and how much it affects your mental health.

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#8

Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) How difficult it is to raise a teenager.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So not looking forward to this, I remember me as a teen. My parents are saints, honestly it's a miracle I'm still here.

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One study confirmed that pregnant women and those with young children place a high value on the information and support they receive from using online sources and apps. "They are accustomed to ready and immediate access to information using digital technologies and want better access to that offered by professionals," professor Deborah Lupton, the author of the research, concluded, adding that recognizing and finding ways to meet these needs should be included in planning healthcare provision and support for soon-to-be-parents.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) You stop being able to sleep way before the baby gets here.
Everyone loves to tell me to 'sleep now while I can' but pregnancy leads to unexplained insomnia and I’m a total wreck already.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had difficulties sleeping due to my huge belly. On the side it was just uncomfortable, on the back impossible - I would have suffocated!

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) No one ever told me about the 'third delivery,' aka your first poop.
The first delivery is the baby, second is the placenta, and the third is the poop. I was struggling for so long to poop.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anything to do with post birth is “suspiciously” never talked about because it’s the third circle of hell

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does the first poop hurt or are you just constipated or what? Sorry if TMI I’m just curious about what happens.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never heard it called the "third delivery" before. However, I do remember being told I had to have a BM before I could go home. Having delivered almost 9 pounds of a baby this became a monumental task. BEST ADVICE FOR NEW MOMS: ask for prune juice and lots of fruit.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The dreaded first poop. I felt the same about the first pee also, that stung.

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Lila Launehase
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was afraid of it, too. Hint: If you wait until you really have to go, you barely have to push. Just relax and let go.

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TinaSomewhere
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, but that is not true for every woman. I never had trouble pooping postpartum.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For baby showers I always get my friends Sitz Baths (basically a portable bidet). Every single one has thanked me profusely after they have the kid.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not true. First delivery has often been the poop, I remember my Dr calling out to the nurses, "Not my shoes." as my delivery splattered all over them.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is true. I agree. Or, like me, I pooped so much I was afraid to go out!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was traumatized as a child when I heard my cousin scream in the bathroom after she came home from the hospital two days after the baby. It was that day that I learned about tearing up down there when giving birth, and apparently her stitches ripped open in the bathroom. I will never forget that experience. I was about 10.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in the hospital for 10 days post birth because my bladder would not work. I also didn't have a bowel movement until I went home.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I keep hearing about the dreading first pop, but it really wasn't an issue for me. Now, pooping during pregnancy.... that was horrendous. Pregnancy constipation on top of my normal IBS constipation on top of anti-nausea med constipation. There was one time with my second that I thought I was going to have to go to the hospital for an impaction - I was laying on the floor sweating and trembling and too weak to push anymore. Labor was more enjoyable.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! And my hospital wouldn‘t let me go without successfully pooping. I tried so hard, believe me

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Make sure to eat higher finer foods in the lead up to delivery and right after. Beetroot is amazing for laxation as well as porridge etc. that way it will be easier.

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But this topic is relevant nowadays too. "Being pregnant during this crisis, however, has meant women are experiencing scans, losses, labor, and early parenthood in scenarios they would never have imagined. It has been an isolating, difficult time for most," Broadbent said.

So what to do? Broadbent suggests that parents trust their gut. According to her, no one knows a mother's body or her baby as well as she does, so if you have any concerns, act on those. "I've never been wrong about any cause for concern with my own kids, now aged 8 and 11. I feel I have a special connection/maternal superpower when it comes to my children and many other mums say the same," she explained.

"I've been known to wake from a deep sleep with the urge to check on my sleeping child in the other room, only to discover he is unwell or has a fever. Learn to trust yourself."

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Lochia, it’s basically the biggest “period” ever as your body expels the leftovers from carrying a baby, and it can go on for weeks. I will never forget being told that I might pass clots as big as a tennis ball and that was normal. So gross.

Also, babies in the womb can have hiccups. Hiccups are weird enough when they’re your own, it’s bizarre to feel someone else’s.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least you got told about the clots. I didn’t and when I produced a golf ball sized one, I freaked out and immediately called the hospital.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) For some people, labor doesn't start with water breaking and 30 minutes later there's a baby. My water broke and 29 hours later the baby decided to show up.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That was me too, my labour started at 9.30 am, waters broke at around 10pm, my baby eventually cut out at 11:30 pm the next day. Sounds horrible but I would do again it twice over for my baby.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) That everyone has an opinion on what you do whilst pregnant and how you want to raise your child.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This!!! Why is seemingly everyone suddenly so entitled when it comes to kids? It's horrible!

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) You can mess with them in utero.

When I was close to the end of both of my pregnancies one of my favorite things to do was, when he would push up against my rib cage I would pound back a glass of ice water or eat a bowl of ice cream and as soon as that coldness hit my stomach he would back down. Also, my first liked to push his butt up against the front wall of my stomach pretty hard, so that there was a tiny little bump that you couldn't see but I could feel, so I could sort of grab it and shake it around a little bit.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

haha my son would push so hard I could see his toes, so I'd tickle them.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Baby kicks don’t feel like butterflies. They feel like something crawled across your skin quickly but from the inside.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) How hard it can be to get and stay pregnant. Everyone imagines it will happen easily and quickly and, unfortunately, it's not the case for so many women.
And for women who've dealt with infertility or loss, how much anxiety you'll have throughout the pregnancy.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And it's always assumed the issue lies with the woman's body, not the man's sperm

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) From my mom: I paralyzed her from the waist down for a few hours because I decided to take a nap on her spinal cord in the third trimester. The doctor's response was "yeah you'll be able to move again once they wake up." Pregnancy is pure body horror.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oof I can’t imagine being paralyzed and knowing it’s was because of my baby I would will for it to wake up Asap

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) That not all gynecologists are competent. And if you have a feeling yours isn't, find a new one.

Mine was very personable, did my d&c for my miscarriage before my first born, didn't really give me any red flags until after I was pregnant again.

Long story short, he forgot (I guess?) to have me tested for gestational diabetes, and I had it. There were OBVIOUS signs that he didn't catch, that I didn't even know were signs until my new doctor told me. My son ended up having to be in NICU for 3 days after he was born because he couldn't regulate his own blood sugar.

Every doctor and nurse I talked to along the way was appalled I hadn't gotten tested. He also didn't catch that I was anemic the whole pregnancy either.

Thank God we're all healthy and happy now but looking back I should've changed doctors

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that guy should've been fired, if he's that incompetent who knows what will happen next time

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Your body does not magically go back to normal once the baby is out. You have weeks of healing.
You either had your vagina rip or your stomach cut open, your boobs are still on baby mode, and you have a whole new set of problems now. Pooping will be terrifying and depression risks are higher.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) If you lose 10% or more of your body weight due to nausea and vomiting, it is a BIG deal and could put you and the baby's life in danger. If your OB acts like it isn't, find another doctor!

written by a two time Hyperemesis Gravidarium survivor. Lost 42 lbs during one pregnancy and 35 with the other. And that was WITH constant zofran and IV's and a PIC line and hospital bed rest.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was in hospital there was a woman in my room that was vomiting (mostly dry) ALL bloody day/night. She could barely walk coz she was so weak, couldn’t sleep, couldn’t keep any food or fluids down and in constant pain. You could hear it. Couldn’t imagine having to deal with that.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) You’re going to need to pee ALL the time. And only a drop will come out. Then you need to pee again 15 mins later. The most annoying time is during the night when you should be sleeping, but instead you’re just getting up to pee every few hours.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) That cravings aren't just food. I craved dirt, particularly beach sand. The smell of the beach was excruciating, I just wanted to shovel handfuls into my mouth. I never ate dirt or sand and the craving went away when baby was born.

A friend of a friend told me she craved freshly poured asphalt so in a way I'm glad my craving was just dirt.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Currently pregnant and due to have my first kid in about a month. Wish I’d known I would end up doing everything by myself. And I wish I’d known how difficult the 3rd trimester would be without a partner to help me. Or that the baby’s father would show up at the ninth hour with a new girlfriend demanding shared custody. I’ve always been a believer of “everything happens for a reason” but it’s getting very difficult to see the good in all of this.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, sounds like you got rid of bad rubbish. And yes you can do it. Just don't be a die hard mum, ask for help and take everything offered. There are people there to help you xxx No one will think worse of you, quite the opposite, they will think you are strong and being the best mum you can be.

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Seeing a pregnant woman makes strangers:

Want to touch her and touch her belly. Which they often do without even asking.

Makes them tell their worst pregnancy and delivery stories. If they had a hard delivery, they'll tell instead the story of their friend who was even worse. It makes childbirth into a one-upmanship contest of horror stories, which is probably about the last thing any pregnant woman wants to hear, let alone hear it every time she's out in public.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I slapped a woman's hand once and she looked so confused! Like she wasn't about to touch a stranger without saying a damn word let alone ask permission. Being pregnant is wild

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Stuff stays with your body afterwards. I developed allergies after I had my second child, and my feet definitely got bigger. Hormones are no joke.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Randomly my big toe on my right foot is always cold and numb. It's been 8 years now.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Everyone talks about pregnancy cravings.... no one tells you that the opposite can happen. During this pregnancy, my 2nd, I had aversions to most food until about 22/23 weeks. I’m 27.5 weeks now and finally starting to feel better about eating, but certainly don’t have cravings.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's wierd isnt it. I went totally off chocolate during my first pregnancy - in fact it was my first pregnancy symptom. I went to a chocolate tasting event with a girlfriend and litterally could not stand to eat anything there. Bought pg test on the way home.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Pregnancy brain is REAL. It's not a joke. It's not exaggerated.
When you start forgetting, misplacing, and outright losing things, you can start feeling like you're also losing your mind.

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) How I'd get loads of random skin changes.

Skin tags, so many skin tags!

Moles growing into skin tags then dropping off, like WTF body

Sandpaper dry skin, which I still get from time to time, just this one patch on the back of my right hand

My facial skin changing from t-zone oily to t-zone flaky and never going back

My psoriasis on my scalp going away, this did come back but not as bad

Hair - so you stop shedding hair whilst pregnant and you get really thick lovely hair. A few weeks after birth you start to lose all that extra hair. Literally handfuls will come out in the shower and it's really freaky

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Women Are Sharing Things They Wish They Knew Before They Got Pregnant (30 Comments) Each pregnancy is different, even with the same person.
I have three kids. The first pregnancy was very typical and followed the normal timeline. The second pregnancy was awful. I was miserable and sick the entire time. The third pregnancy was easy peasy and I finally understood why some women liked being pregnant.

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