Things change. Whoa, that’s a real shocker, I know, but bear with me! The fact of the matter is that even the things, places, and people we love most in the world change over time. It’s inevitable. However, while some things improve and mature like good wine set down to age in your fancy castle cellar, others… well, others age like cheap milk, left out on a sunny windowsill for far, far too long.
Redditor Open-Outcome-660 went on r/AskReddit with an intriguing query, asking others to share the things that they think used to be great but have become incredibly bad since then. The question instantly hooked internet users and the thread got over 3.4k responses.
It all came flooding out, from people sharing that MTV has steadily gone downhill over the years to folks pointing out that the internet is no longer as great as it was in the good old days. Have a read through some of the best responses to the thread and upvote the opinions you agree with, dear Pandas. Do you have any of your own examples about things that have become really bad over time? Share your thoughts in the comment section.
Bored Panda had a friendly chat about nostalgia, change, and some of the things that actually went from bad to great with Open-Outcome-660, the original poster of the question. Be sure to scroll down for our in-depth interview with them!
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The history Channel. I used to watch it in the 2000s. Now it's all swamp people and aliens
According to redditor Open-Outcome-660, the reason why the question resonated with so many people was that it's a spin on an age-old statement. "I really didn’t expect my question to gain as much traction as it did, but, in retrospect, the reason for it is that it’s the age-old statement of 'things were better in the past' turned into a question," they told Bored Panda.
I wanted to find out more about the inspiration behind the question and the redditor was more than happy to talk about it. "The question started when I was browsing through YouTube one morning and got frustrated by how polluted the platform has become of ads," they mentioned something that many of us can relate to. "Most videos had multiple commercials. Most commercials were 20 seconds long. Even 5-second videos had at least 5 seconds of commercials before I could watch them. Naturally, my first thought was that this platform had gone from great to worse. My second thought was what went up on Reddit: 'Is there anything else that’s had this trajectory?'"
Appliances. Used to be made to last. Now they're just made to last the warranty.
I don't know, I'm in S. Korea, and the microwave we bought in 2011 is still showing no signs of dying. Each smartphone I had, except for one, I changed only because they started getting outdated, and, as the software becomes more and more demanding, you need better memory and storage. Same goes with computers and tablets. We changed our fridge in 2016 for a similar reason (simply needed a bigger one, the previous one was really tiny, but still fine and working), and it's still as good as new. Same goes for the freezer, and the laundry machine. Our TV, bought in 2017, still no signs of dying. Air conditioner, bought in 2016, still strong. So..... either you are unlucky with faulty products, either you live in an environment that's unfriendly to appliances, or you need to learn better maintenance.
Internet in general. I used to be able to search Google for a subject and then get a list of reliable websites to read from. Now it's 99% crap infomercials/ad ridden sites that all want to sell me things I don't need.
In Open-Outcome-660's opinion, nostalgia definitely plays a role in how we perceive how things were in the past. "If I could go back in time momentarily to compare things, I’m pretty sure I’d like many of today’s things more. I’d probably also discover things I really don’t like about the old experience. It’s probably easy to look back with nostalgia goggles since we probably have a very selective memory when we make comparisons," they shared. However, that's doesn't mean that some things weren't objectively better in the past.
"Nevertheless, I definitely think that there are truths in people’s thoughts of some things being better back in time. In my case, I definitely think that YouTube has become a worse experience in terms of its ads. In other cases, people might experience that their society has become worse in some aspects, and that may very well be true. It’s not the whole truth, but the factors may be sufficiently big to put on those nostalgia goggles and determine that the whole thing is worse now," the redditor mused.
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Patriotism. It used to feel like a good thing to be proud of my country, to be grateful for the blessings of living here, trusting that our government is at least trying to do the right thing. But now this has devolved into this nasty "My country first, best, and alone" crap, all others are bad, wrong, and are enemies. It doesn't have to be that way.
Cooking websites. Everyone knows the struggle of scrolling through 273 paragraphs of bulls**t before getting to the recipe, but now some actual antichrist websites are putting a 2nd page inside the first where after you get past the 273 paragraphs it’s like “now click here for the recipe”. Rage inducing.
While it can be a lot of fun to whine about how bad things have gotten, from time to time, it's best not to forget that there are plenty of positives in life, too. I wanted to get Open-Outcome-660's opinion about what things have gone from bad to great.
"There’s a whole lot of things that have turned from really bad to great. One example is acquiring knowledge, where just a few decades ago, everything would have to be gained either through books or lectures; whereas now it’s at your fingertips. Another example is ease of living: fixing things such as buying things online, signing contracts, picking a movie to watch, or listening to music has become a lot easier, safer, and more accessible compared to a couple of decades ago. A third example would be ease of travel, where nowadays it’s quite easy to get by with English around the globe, flights are cheaper and things are waaay easier to book, find reviews on and look up at a moment’s notice if needed," the redditor shared what things have definitely improved with time.
Flying. From the incredible shrinking seat, crazy people, covid, no food, baggage fees, carry on fees to questions about planes safety.
I am old enough to remember when flying was a really elegant way to travel. We dressed up... we were polite to one another and to the cabin attendants.
MTV. It was so good back in the 90s. Actual music videos, shows that featured artists, MTV Unplugged, Daria, Beavis and Butthead, Aeon Flux, TRL, Celebrity Death Match... Then Pimp My Ride and Cribs were pretty fun though it was the start of reality tv style shows
Beavis and Butthead and Celebrity Death Match were brilliant. It's a shame, a damn shame I tells ya!
Streaming services online, Netflix was op back in the day, now you have to have 15 different services if you want to watch all your shows
"Thinking from this other perspective also made me realize that we often compare things in the past with the time they were in. It’s a bit hard for me to say that the internet was really bad a couple of decades ago because that was a part that society and those technological times. If we somehow got to swap the internet experience today with 20 years ago, I think it’s pretty safe to say that the experience would have been perceived as going from great to really bad."
There’s no shame about being nostalgic for the good old days. Most of us are guilty of it. (Some, like me, are a tad guiltier than others, but hey, I loved the ‘90s and early 2000s.) In fact, nostalgia can be incredibly comforting. However, there does come a point when reminiscing about the past can become problematic.
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Hollywood. They ran out of ideas.
They haven't, it's just that the executives of AAA movies prefer safe options.
Child and adolescent therapist and member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy, Kemi Omijeh, explained to me during an earlier interview that many psychologists believe that our childhoods are the foundation to who we are as adults.
“It explains why we frequently revisit our childhood as it influences our present," she told Bored Panda.
Therapist Kemi revealed that we’re nostalgic about our childhood if our experiences have been full of being loved and nurtured. On the flip side, it’s hard to feel nostalgic for a time in your life where you felt anxious, unloved, uncared for.
Entering the workforce and saving up. Never was great in my lifetime, but I've heard stories of people buying their first house after like 2 years of saving. That's just a fantasy these days.
First timers are practically unable to buy their first home, so they are forced to rent, which developers have Jumped on and are building hi-rise cubbyholes (250sf) for rent or tiny little houses (500sf) with zero lot line which they’re only able to afford with two or three roommates
Politics - it was never great, but there’s no room for two people with different views to actually talk. It’s not a sports team, why is everybody so entrenched and angry.
Because Americans have been taught it’s a taboo subject. Getting out of the habit of talking about it weaponized it so when it finally became all some people want to talk about their was too much pent up emotion. It should have stayed as part of mainstream conversation (as it is in most of Europe) so that healthy disagreements could be aired without rancor.
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This is because every issue is framed as a life or death kind of thing. If one side wins, it will mean a foundational change in your way of life. All issues become a personal attack on you and your family. I mean seriously, how the hell did we find a way to savagely hate each other over issues like masks and vaccines? Why is it that someone getting married means the end of your own marriage?
Yes, framing, identity labeling and a general lack of both critical thinking skills and a commonly shared reality.
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I used to have a healthy interest in politics - from all sides - and enjoyed a bit of debate and banter about it all. Now it's so hateful and divisive with no room for any sort of reasoned discussion, I find it easier just to avoid the subject completely. A real shame, as open debate and discussion is how new ideas are formed and information is gained. I feel we are slipping down a very dangerous slope...
Whatever happened to the politicians? Watching their debate is like watching 3-year olds arguing. Professionalism does not exist anymore. Insulting each other, sometimes even name calling and ensuring that there's a division between two parties (that, of course, affects the people) seems to be the norm. ay-yai-yai.
Because politicians and mass media have succeeded in dividing our country (the US).
They may have started that process, but we're doing a damn fine job perpetuating it all on our own. Accountability needs to be taken all around.
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politics it's a show now. in canada we have trudeau who's there only because he's cute and the media love him. he's not a leader. in US you had Trump who's there only for the show. both aren't leader!
We in Germany have women in positions they don't fit in simply because our government "needed more women". Ministry of Defense for example - yeah it was "groundbreaking and progressive", but also deavastating because the first (now on top of the EU) wasted all the money for advisors and the current one also has no clue about that resort.
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And because angry is the only way things change. It took a Revolution for citizens to get any voice in their own governing. It took the Civil War to end slavery, and millions more marching in the streets to win civil rights. It took suffragettes picketing for women to be allowed to vote. It took massive strikes by unionized laborers just to be guaranteed fair wage for work. When people kneel for the National Anthem to protest racial inequality, nobody wants to hear it. When that inequity leads t riots in the streets, suddenly everyone wonders why peaceful protests aren't happening.
It has all gone rotten. It has all gone Black and White. Not racial but you have to be one party or the other. So bad, so bad.
And god help you if someone who identifies with *either* side doesn't think you're in lockstep with *their* ideology. This is where BSAB. (Watch me get ignored or downvoted for saying so)
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Have you seen Hamilton? Cuz our founding fathers literally murdered each other to steal ideas and credit for ideas.
Conflicting interests. Mainly personal gain versus what's beneficial for the voters.
Exactly, it's not a sports team; politics have real-world consequences. Being able to talk about politics because you're unaffected by them is the height of privilege and ignorance.
Two parties leads to extremism. On both sides, sure, but rarely as much towards the side that makes life better/safer/longer for people with less power. You can't compromise with extremism. "I want rape you every day, you don't want it at all. How about just on Tuesdays and Thursdays?" "We promise not to slaughter anyone of your ethnicity if they stay in their neighborhood." "I'll pay you minimum wage but no overtime. Now work 96-hrs a week without breaks or you're fired and blackballed."
This is why we need to get away from a 2 party system. Debates should always have candidates from at least the Democrats, Republicans, Libertarian, Green Party and anyone else with at least 1M voters.
We no longer seem to be a civilized society. Makes me sad, mad, angry, upset, frustrated and unhappy on a daily basis.
It indeed seems like there are only two sides without anything in between. People seem to think that if they follow one ideal of a side they also have to follow everything else said side promotes. As example: I support pro-LGBQT marriage laws, that doesn't mean I have to agree with expropriation like the left side does.
And because politics aren't just 'who gets taxed and how much' or 'government is too big.' It's 'how many soldiers die for this' and 'how many people don't eat today' and 'does my skin color or religion or sex change how or even IF the people who attacked me are held accountable?'
Because framing everything as either/or leads to removing any nuance and pushes any debate to extremes. In many cases those extremes can lead the already marginalized into literal life or death positions. And even it the extremists don't get everything they want, giving them half or a quarter or a tenth still moves the goalposts farther from any sort of true balance.
Because it's become life or death. Abortion bans are politics. Struggling to live on minimum wage is politics. Megacorps are politics. Climate change is politics Cops murdering innocent black people in the streets is politics. Housing crisis etc.When the oppositions stance is infiltrated by people who are actively seeking to oppress you or snuff you out of existence with extreme prejudice and steal your god damn future the it's kinda hard to be all smiles and nods.
I think there's a silent and growing majority that wants to discuss ideas. I have to hope in that. I can't be alone in this :(
Bashing other parties prevents them from having to have an actual agenda for their own party. Germany will vote this September and whenever you ask certain politicans about the climate, right wing extremists, bike lanes, digitization, education...they come up with "But the others are BAD! SOOOO BAD! A shift to the left is dangerous and will destroy it all!!!"
Politics. from the Greek politikí. noun: citizens. That's the oversimplified translation, but actually it's the most fundamental, the most important aspect. We the people make every issue political. It's time we learned that what democracy really means is we have a say in all of this.
Have yiu actually researches facts in the USA recently? The dumbing of America started in the 60s. Its a Marxist plan and it is progressing. Just look for information on your own and don' t believe politicians at all. Everyone who voted for Biden now has blood on their hands. #BIDENKILLSAMERICANS
Most of rep policies lead to death or oppression for some segment of the population. I won't apologize for disliking people who champion that.
Popular opinion is "if you disagree with me you must hate me." This isn't correct. Whatever happened to having a conversation? You tell me your side, I'll tell you my side, and we discuss it? I miss those days. We can disagree on something and still have an honest respect for one another. Many people seem so addicted to outrage anymore.
Newspeak. Read 1984 by Orwell. Politicians use it as a user manual, not a warning.
Because one side is trying to expand human rights, while the other side is determined to take away as many rights as it can.
Why is the Right so intent on proving themselves stupid and the Left so intent on proving themselves crazy?
In the US there is literally zero middle ground now. The right has gone so extremely far to the right that they've disappeared over the madness horizon and are literally drooling over the idea of having Trump as a lifetime dictator. They reject science, facts, and reality and their only policies are about controlling (to the point of punishment) anyone who isn't a white, cis, straight, conservative, nominally-Christian man.
Why are people angry? Because one side values human rights and diversity, and the other is all about "f you, I got mine, I don't care about you." Simple, really.
That’s been designed by politicians, and it will backfire on them sooner than later
That would be nice, but I for one am not holding my breath.
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In America now, if you try to disagree with conservatives, they will literally physically attack you. It is very dangerous. They are unhinged.
Not sure what you're smoking but it must have something powerful in it. Here's a pro tip. Watch original video footage instead of what is edited for mass effect. There are extremists on both sides.
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You are demonstrating the problem. You see them as "completely fuçking stupid and outrageous and obviously dumb", they see you as the same. No way for two people coming in with that belief can ever accomplish anything except increasing their animosity for one another.
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“If we’ve had a difficult childhood, it can be hard to feel nostalgic, instead it will feel like something we need to get over in order to move on," she said.
"Nostalgia can also be a good coping strategy for times of low mood and challenges," Kemi told Bored Panda, adding that this is only true up to a certain point. Once nostalgia starts interfering with our everyday lives and our ability to be present in the moment, it’s time to scale back.
Amazon. It’s slowly turning into Wish.
I use Amazon more as a search engine. Find what I want, then go to the company website and buy it from the company rather than off of Amazon. It is way easier to notice when something is a straight up scam. Never buy clothing from Amazon, it is all now just rip off Chinese manufactured crap. I use Amazon less and less all the time. They don't vet their sellers and I am just done with getting ripped off and returns now being a pain in the ass.
I used to love a good conspiracy theory - UFO cover ups and so forth - but now its just these redneck crazies crowding into the most outlandish shit ones like microchips and lizard people.
The air. Literally breathing in pollutants.
Depends on where you live, and at what point in time you start counting. In the US, for example, the amount on dangerous pollutants in the air is down by 75% from the 1990s.
"If we end up comparing it to our experiences today and feeling like nothing is as good as it was, then this will inevitably affect our mood and our ability to do what we need to do. We can become stuck in our nostalgia; in which case it might be best to seek help from a counseling professional to help you process your past in order to enjoy your present,” she said.
Something to keep in mind is that we see our past memories through a filter when we relive them, so all the tiny details might not be as accurate as we think. That doesn’t necessarily mean that MTV wasn’t amazing years and years ago, however, it might mean that things weren’t as overwhelmingly fantastic as we remember them.
Not being busy. Not constantly “hustling” or trying to do it all. Not “living for the weekend.” Down time can be a good thing.
The search to buy your first home used to be exciting and filled with choices. Now it’s “take it or leave it” overpriced homes you can’t afford, in a terrible neighborhood. Or continue paying your super high rent.
Being able to go outside. Maybe not so much in the cities, but in the suburbs there was all these open fields and forests to go into, you could stay out till the sun went down just riding your bike. Now those fields and forests are paved over and turned into a strip mall. Those big areas with playgrounds? Bulldozed for some shitty half-assed jungle gym.
Can't go out on the streets anymore. Kids get the cops called on them constantly. So much more private property too.
And if you wanna go somewhere that isn't outside, you better cough up some money. Every place charges you to be there now. And not for long.
I'd say this is dependent on where you live. I'm in a small town in Scotland, nothing but wide open spaces, trespassing isn't a thing as you can walk on peoples land within reason obviously - right by me there's a big country house that has peacocks and a pen of boar that we can walk up to to go see them. Loads of free parks, playgrounds etc - both in my town and Scotland as a whole
Youtube
TBH YT is decent if you constantly give the feedback so that it shows only the stuff you like
Living.
When I was young life was awesome. Friends, fun, adventure, meeting people, partying, sex, music.
Now it's all work until you can't work anymore, sleep, work some more.
Life had stayed the same, it is you who had changed and gotten older.
Etsy is all Chinese garbage now and you have to search forever to find something handmade.
Radio. Wth are they playing now?
If you're able to stream your music, do that! Way less ads (or none if you pay for a service) and you can tailor the music to your tastes!
To be honest, quality of work in professional settings.
Like fatty typos in legal settlements worth hundreds of thousands of dollars! Drives me INSANE. Quality is getting harder to find lately.
Cars. They used to be awesome. Affordable. And fixable. Now they're the cheapest pieces of crap and highly overcharged. They're faster than they used to be maybe but the cost isn't worth the parts. And they fail so easily.
Yahoo answers lol it's dead now but it used to be fun kind of like reddit but then later on karens took over... couldn't even ask a simple question about cooking or anything innocent without getting a lecture
That reference picture though... I don't want to know what happened in that interaction...
Disney I always loved dark gothic disney cartoons Now its just rubbery overproduced cheesy stuffs only.
News media, not saying "great" but it used to function
Totally agree that the news media has died. It is ALL opinion, telling people what to think, sprinkled liberally with emotional blackmail. Now I have to read various sites and piece together common threads to find the truth
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So many of these are simply misdirected gripes about the OP reaching middle age.
Rock music. It has become so corporate and safe. Blandness with no bold innovation anymore. Perhaps we have reached the limit of music. There are only so many notes out there. And whatever happened to protest songs? We sure could use some now!
I'm not a boomer and even I agree. Rock is dead.
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BP puts out surveys to create posts like this. So if there are more American specific topics in the post it's probably because more Americans responded to the survey.
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I take a little bit of issue with the title of this article... (properly) aged milk = cheese, and cheese is awesome!
Not related --- but several times, I clicked to upvote, and was taken to an ad. What's up with that?
Dunno. I just updated you and no issues here. Good luck!
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My son and I just talked about this. Looney Tunes. They're just not in the old styles anymore and aren't funny anymore. It seems the industry is bent on making more "educational" cartoons. Can't you just make some that help us laugh every once in a while. Even cartoons from a few years ago like Rugrats, Dexter's Laboratory or The Kid's Next Door aren't around anymore. Let's bring back more of the fun 2D cartoons.
Yes, they were great, and actually meant for adults.
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Saturday Night Live has never been the same or anywhere near as good as in the beginning
Some of the things just seem odder than odd ... when was airport security great? When were conspiracy theories great? When was amazon great? It's just short of stating that being unable to read was great, unable to do math, or daily bedwetting. Of which all three suck, although. Reading is understanding. Ability to math helps a great deal in avoiding being screwed, and not needing diapers, not needing or wanting to hide you wear them whenever you sleep elsewhere reduces stress by a lot. All of these always sucked!
People. I can't even count anymore the number of people I've met who say "Jeff Bezos has too much money!" and yet, they have an Amazon box in their house somewhere, fully knowing they could most likely get the product from somewhere else. This is how I hear those statements. "I could do my part to make the world a better place, as long as it doesn't mildly inconvenience me.” People.
Human nature doesn't change, just how it is expressed.
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ESPN. It's a political talk show masquerading as a sports network.
So many of these are simply misdirected gripes about the OP reaching middle age.
Rock music. It has become so corporate and safe. Blandness with no bold innovation anymore. Perhaps we have reached the limit of music. There are only so many notes out there. And whatever happened to protest songs? We sure could use some now!
I'm not a boomer and even I agree. Rock is dead.
Load More Replies... BP puts out surveys to create posts like this. So if there are more American specific topics in the post it's probably because more Americans responded to the survey.
Load More Replies... I take a little bit of issue with the title of this article... (properly) aged milk = cheese, and cheese is awesome!
Not related --- but several times, I clicked to upvote, and was taken to an ad. What's up with that?
Dunno. I just updated you and no issues here. Good luck!
Load More Replies... My son and I just talked about this. Looney Tunes. They're just not in the old styles anymore and aren't funny anymore. It seems the industry is bent on making more "educational" cartoons. Can't you just make some that help us laugh every once in a while. Even cartoons from a few years ago like Rugrats, Dexter's Laboratory or The Kid's Next Door aren't around anymore. Let's bring back more of the fun 2D cartoons.
Yes, they were great, and actually meant for adults.
Load More Replies... Saturday Night Live has never been the same or anywhere near as good as in the beginning
Some of the things just seem odder than odd ... when was airport security great? When were conspiracy theories great? When was amazon great? It's just short of stating that being unable to read was great, unable to do math, or daily bedwetting. Of which all three suck, although. Reading is understanding. Ability to math helps a great deal in avoiding being screwed, and not needing diapers, not needing or wanting to hide you wear them whenever you sleep elsewhere reduces stress by a lot. All of these always sucked!
People. I can't even count anymore the number of people I've met who say "Jeff Bezos has too much money!" and yet, they have an Amazon box in their house somewhere, fully knowing they could most likely get the product from somewhere else. This is how I hear those statements. "I could do my part to make the world a better place, as long as it doesn't mildly inconvenience me.” People.
Human nature doesn't change, just how it is expressed.
Load More Replies... ESPN. It's a political talk show masquerading as a sports network.
