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There are plenty of seemingly innocent products and services out there that are just elaborate ways of getting you to part with your money. They might not try to bamboozle you as obviously as some spammers and con artists, but underneath all the glitz and glamor, they’re still scams.

Redditors have been sharing their opinions about what things they consider to secretly be giant scams after redditor MelteyReddit asked them to share their thoughts on this. In a viral thread, these redditors touched on everything from baby products and printer ink cartridges to a variety of questionable ‘health’ products and multilevel marketing companies. You could argue one way or the other for some of these, but that’s half the fun.

Check out what these people think are total scams, meant to get you to hand over your hard-earned cash, and upvote the opinions that you agree with as well. Disagree with any of these opinions? Know of any other things that you think aren’t much better than actual scams? Share your thoughts in the comment section. Meanwhile, be sure to read Bored Panda’s in-depth interview with the author of the thread, MelteyReddit.

#1

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams This might be unpopular but here goes.... The Catholic church. Currently worth 30 billion, the Vatican has 8 billion in assets . In 2014, it was discovered they were hiding 1.1 billion off the books. Why aren't these funds going to the poor? In 2019 it was discovered the Vatican was heavily invested in unreported luxury apartments.

Then there's the ugly stuff all this money is financing; Until 2014, the age of consent in Vatican city was 12. Yes. Twelve - the lowest age of consent in the world. It was only changed after the pedophilia scandal took hold. Then there's the wide history of evils brought on by the church; the ivory trade, castration of young boys (castrada), the Spanish Inquisition, Holocaust denial, cutting funding for the poor with LGBQ ties and on and on....

The Catholic church provides a thin veneer of "good" for their followers, but for centuries they've been feeding corruption beneath the surface and continue to do so.

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#2

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Convincing every high school kid they NEED to go to university. In reality skilled Trades or another specialized school would be the best route for a lot of people, and the pay can be very good.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of the great mistakes of recent Western thinking was the decision to push so many of the young towards higher education (and in to degrees of limited use) and away from apprenticeships. This has resulted in heavily indebted graduates who are of no use to the job market and an extreme skill shortage.

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Redditor MelteyReddit’s question got quite a bit of attention on r/AskReddit. Their thread got 20.2k upvotes and 15.4k comments, while the original poster racked up a whopping 55 awards at the time of writing.

“When I first published my question, I didn't think it would get so much attention. I thought to get a few responses here and there but quickly realized my phone exploded with notifications,” the redditor shared with Bored Panda how they reacted to their post going viral.

“The reason why I think [the question] resonated so well is because it's a very open discussion that can be easily argued about,” they pointed out that there’s quite a bit of nuance in the thread and not everything is as black and white as it seems.

#4

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Any product that's made by Gwyneth Paltrow

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#5

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Anything that says it will detox your body. That's what your kidneys are for.

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#6

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams US healthcare system. I went to the ER a few weeks ago for an unknown pain in my chest and overall sh***y feeling. Got slapped with a 1500 bill with what turned out to be viral food poisoning. My brother, who is a doctor, said that was normal. Why the f**k is that normal?!

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because that's what a sad majority of the US-Americans wanted and still want, because the Orange tells them lies about how paying such ludicrous amounts (and $1500 is cheap) is better than having universal healthcare. I'm sorry for you folks.

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MelteyReddit personally believes that it’s vital to know where your money is going. “I always try to stay up to date with where my money is going. If you are unsure if something is a scam, you can try looking it up on the internet to see how other people feel about it,” they urged people to do their own background research before purchasing something. What’s more, if your gut says that something’s off, chances are that something fishy is actually going on.

In MelteyReddit’s opinion, there are a few things that stand out and scream that something’s secretly just one big giant scam.

“I think the best way to recognize one is by a few factors, [for example,] if they are really pushy about a product that they wanna sell or if the website design/product design looks fake/rushed. Or if they ask an unreasonable amount of money for their product,” they shared their take on how to recognize hidden scams. “An answer posted a lot on my post was the lottery or casinos. Of course, we can't forget those.”

The author of the post added that they’re thrilled and thankful to everyone who engaged with their thread on r/AskReddit. “I want to thank everyone for answering my post, it means a lot to me!”

#7

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Funeral services, preying on the grief of loved ones.

I understand that its really for the living to celebrate their lost loved ones, but when I'm done I just want my family to bury my dead ass in the backyard and throw a bash at the house in my honor. Doubt I'll mind considering I'm dead.

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Lytha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the prices are crazy. You just lost someone you love and you literally have to wonder how you're going to pay for their funeral.

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#8

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams That humans are here to just work and die. No way humans evolved so we can work 5 of 7 days of the week, trying to jam fun in on weekends

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't really afford it, but I now only do 2 hours on Wednesday morning instead of a full day. I use the rest of the day for appointments and relaxation. Been a godsend for my mental health.

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#9

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Emails and messages from corporates and celebrities that "We are in this together" during the pandemic.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All sent from their villas to several million while we "essential workers" continued to go to work to be paid trifles.

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For an earlier article, I’d spoken with one of the mods helping run the r/Scams subreddit, a community that helps support the victims of scams and help inform them about the various ways criminals might try to bamboozle them.

One of the mods told Bored Panda that rudimentary research, education, and preparation all make a huge difference when trying to recognize scams for what they are. Nobody is ever 100% foolproof, no matter how insightful and perceptive they might be, but it’s always better to educate ourselves. Internet scams, in particular, can be more difficult to recognize in some cases because you’re no longer dealing face-to-face with a real-life person.

“When you have a real person in front of you, a typical person will feel shame or guilt at the thought of taking advantage of a person. With the internet, you aren't dealing with a person, but a username and avatar. It is much easier to act maliciously when you don't have a real victim directly in front of you," they explained.

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#10

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Planned obsolescence.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A bit lacking in elaboration here so: Planned obsolescence is the practice of artificially making a product's lifespan shorter so people will replace it more often. This leads to a massive waste of resources and towering amounts of hardware trash that most often isn't recycled. Poisoning the planet all in the name of profit. If you wonder why phones seem to generally break just in time for a new generation of phones that's why. Nokia bricks was never as profitable as today's iPhones which a lot of people replace semi-anually. Imagine building yourself a house but not making it as sturdy and long lasting as possible. Planned obsolescence is seriously a horrifyingly Earth-destructive strategy. Another good example is light bulbs, which early models could last many years or even decades but today's light bulbs are manufactured to last about a year. Check out "This is why we can't have nice things" by Veritasium on youtube!

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Organized religion.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Organized religion is now big business, especially in the USA.

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams The whole baby product industry is based on making parents feel worthless and irresponsible if they don’t shill out for things that will be outgrown or unnecessary in six months.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my son was born, as soon as I went out with him, even for an hour, I literally took EVERYTHING I could need. My bag weighed tons, but I was like "you never know". A few months later, I took a diaper or two, wipes and something to drink. And I had a lot of stress in less. It's difficult because indeed, as young parents, we take a lot of judgment in our teeth. "Ah, didn't you take (insert here the super crappy trendy thing that everyone considers essential)?" "You only took 12 diapers for an hour's outing ??? how are you going to do it?" "Do you use disposable wipes? I thought you were green?" "Is your stroller a second hand? You should have bought the (insert here a trendy stroller that costs a kidney)" ....

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“Online scams also use a lot of tricks to pressure buyers; low prices, pushes to buy now!, taking advantage of someone's kindness or naivete (re: advance check fraud, money mules, etc), or advertising one product and sending another (or nothing at all, by using a fake tracking number). Getting a person to make a decision via high-pressure tactics and preventing them from reflecting and making a sound decision is key," the mod from r/Scams told Bored Panda earlier.

"If a deal is too good to be true, it is. If you see a pair of brand new Apple AirPods advertised for $50, you are not getting an authentic product. There are many counterfeit items out there on the market, and you need to verify authenticity before hitting buy," they said.

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"Not only to avoid contributing to the counterfeit market, but because these knockoff products do not always go through the same safety standards of the real item; they may not be UL certified, they may use chemicals or ingredients that are not FDA approved and are unsafe for use on or in the human body, or could cause major harm to human life or property."

#13

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Any claim that a 'magic' drink will help you burn fat.

No, no drink or no food can burn that -- that is a pure fabrication.

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#14

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Ink cartridges for your printer are super cheap to manufacture but the retail price is really high

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why they can make printers super cheap. You will pay through the cartridges

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams The wedding industry in the U.S.

$20,000 - $30,000 for a single day, stressful-as-hell event. When I learned a photographer alone runs $5000 minimum I almost puked. And a lot of venues didn’t give a s**t about covid and hosted packed weddings, resulting in deaths because “wE gOtTa MaKe MoNeY sOmEhOw” Absolute slime balls.

Now before all the vendors dog pile me, let me be clear, I’m fully aware why you guys charge as much as you do. I also hope you understand why an average person like me looks at the price and says hell no.

And for those that want a conventional wedding: If you can swing it, do whatever you want. My wife and I did a Sandals all-inclusive vaca/wedding/honeymoon, which has its own pros and cons but still a no-brainer due to the cost and convenience.

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Lytha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A closed friend had a "dream" wedding, very expensive, very "conventional", very "not her". And when I found out the amounts allocated for this wedding, it hurt me a bit, because if I had such an amount, I could have finished paying off the house ... (spoiler alert, this was 15 years ago and the house is not yet reimbursed: D)

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Kathryn Baylis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was never one of those little girls who drooled over Brides magazine. I always liked the idea of eloping, because of the privacy. I worked hotel front desks for years, and can tell you with certainty that the bride and groom get zero privacy if they book a room in the same hotel where their reception is held. Drunk friends never just let them be. Well, I didn’t elope when I got married, but we did just gather a few friends and go to the courthouse. Then our friends took us to a really expensive dinner, and one of them handed us the keys to her beach house—-we were just going to stay home with the door locked and the phone off for a week. It was an entirely satisfying wedding and honeymoon. We just celebrated our 20th anniversary in May 2021.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We rented a cabana area at the local botanical garden, bought party trays from a taco shop and a friend made our cake. It was Halloween (yeah we're geeky) so we dressed in costume. Total cost was under $500. My philosophy is that the wedding isn't important. It's the marriage that counts. The wedding need not be huge or expensive.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was younger I had all these big plans for a wedding including releasing butterflies, an ice sculpture, flowers everywhere etc. But as I got older I realised I didn't want or need any of that fru fru. I organised my wedding in 3 months, had a budget of $5000 and it was an amazing day. The only thing I would change is hiring a professional photographer instead of using a family friend.

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QueenMiri
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It seems that a lot of couples only care about the look of the wedding and totally lost sight of what it is about in the first place. Love.

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ArmyDog07
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Got married in South Lake Tahoe, California at one of those side-of-the-road chapels in 1990 for $125 USD. Still married to this day.

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NsG
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They charge what they charge BECAUSE it has the "wedding" tag. Compare cake prices for birthday Vs wedding. Compare venue hire for a regular party Vs wedding reception. Suit hire. Flowers (only quantity comparison seems to be funerals, and at least one site was cheaper for funerals than weddings). Don't buy a wedding dress, get a prom dress and save hundreds of dollarpounds. Insert the W word and charge a fortune. For the record, I got married ten years ago for a total cost of less than £5000

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

exactly. As for the cake we actually bought 5 smaller cakes (saw it done on a different wedding and found it great that people could choose). We've got 2 different chocolate cakes, carrot cake, raspberry cheesecake and cream cheese cake and all in all they were like 150 usd. And we didn't mind they were not "decorated for a wedding", they were delicious! As for the flowers we've bought some from the florist and didn't tell them they were for a wedding and then we made the bouquets ourselves (it was a mix of dried flowers and sunflowers for an autumn wedding).

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Neill Powell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our wedding will be setting us back $2500. Includes the clothes, the rings the venue and the food. Easy-peasy when you label it as a "Festive Gathering"...

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Lev Pertsov
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That and the whole engagement ring racket. Good luck explaining that to your fiancé though :)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Specially if they don’t have money. A colleague of mine lives in his FIL home (upper floor so not together but still) and both had low salaries and no savings. They still spent thousands of euros in a extremely big and fancy traditional wedding. Absurd.

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CincyReds
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to work catering for weddings. One wedding I worked just the budget on flowers alone was $25,000.00 I about lost my mind. The thinkgs I could have done with that money

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Joyce Berman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My son's fiancee is planning a wedding that's ridiculously expensive, and he'd be happy with a ceremony on a beach with home-baked food. But happy wife, happy life. At least I hope this ridiculous ceremony will create a lasting marriage. (I'm keeping my mouth shut, btw)

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Phil Vaive
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Creative professionals don't mind people who say "I can't afford that, thanks but no thanks". What they do mind is "I can't afford that, but I want it so you should give it to me anyway".

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a party. Prob the biggest one you'll ever throw. All of your favorite prime will be there. Go cheap if you want go big of you want. Just never ever have s cash bar

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Angelica Schuyler
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For just one weekend of happiness you stay in debt for years.

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Ember
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My whole wedding cost less than £200 including rings and outfits. We’re still happily together after 26 years. Why people spend such ridiculous amounts of money for one day are beyond me.

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Paul Z.
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get wed 💒 if you want to. Keep it small, fun and intimate. Not too expensive... if you want ridiculous luxury, tigers, planes, a 10 story cake, a band, light, fireworks, camerapeople, a race car, and Beyoncé on your wedding, wel... yeah. Expensive.

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Liz-ard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s crazy! But Im really fascinated by those Bridezillas it create! 😳

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Sherri Mantooth Bagwell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter got married last November. We truly made it a family affair. My husband (stepdad) officiated. I made the cake and cookie favors. Her sister is a photo & handled the pictures. I bartered hair services for a wedding cake with our stylist. Her brother handled taking pics at our photo booth. She paid for dress, her flowers, venue & reception food (pop up trailer...delicious dinner). People can have beautiful, fun weddings and not spend $20K. My daughter also kept cost down by only inviting close friends, and close family members. We had around 50 people.

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Lindsay Morrison
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We got married at city hall. A few close friends. Saturday morning at 10:30 a long time ago. My mother-in-law said "what will we do after the wedding". I suggested going to a movie. She didn't find that funny. We had about 15 people over to our apartment. It was fine.

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Donald Holder
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not just weddings in America. I was in the Air Force and lived overseas for years. Italians, French and even Spanish spend thousands of dollars for a wedding. Especially Italy. I was invited to two when I lived there. 1st. Gorgeous young lady. Semi wealthy family. Her dress alone cost 7,000 US dollars.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The wedding industry in most countries is like this.

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Billy Maguire
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Last I heard, These people DO NOT force ANYONE to deal with them.

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Peter Kovak
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not only in the US. Wedding is a booming industry all over the world.

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Thomas Turnbull
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wedding cost £100 and the reception was arranged by my sister and the photographer was a friend who did it for free. (1995 date)

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Kelly Hartle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I had a great wedding—we sent out party invitations, everyone was required to wear jeans or shorts, we made salads, bought a sheet cake, and got married on a friend’s pontoon boat that had a grill for hamburgers and hotdogs. That was 22 years ago and we’re still going strong!

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Donna Dufty
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Friends of mine saved for ages for their fabulous wedding. They booked the venue, paid the caterers and florists etc then realised that they had saved enough to make a good deposit on a unit. They cancelled everything, did the wedding at a registry office, and bought the unit, rented it out as they took a working holiday around Europe for a year. The smartest thing they ever did I, and most of the family and friends, think.

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Euni Hinojosa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wanted to get married in jeans and a peasant shirt. I was outvoted. Happily divorced for 35 yrs. Yeeeeee haaaaa.

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CatWoman312
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would just ask one of my friends or family who likes photography to do it before I’d pay $5k! That’s insanity

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Mazer
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

90% of all weddings I have attended have ended in divorce within 5-10 years. I prefer to send a card and go on a hike

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Effseven Six
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is no BS. I compared in the bay area of California. The SAME flower arrangements for a birthday were hundreds less than for a wedding. The same thing happened with the cake. Both were slated to be pretty, feed 70 people, and have pretty flowers cascading down in a spiral. The "birthday " version was hundreds less, simply because I said it was for a birthday.

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K. Anderson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never understood the allure. I think it’s a lot of narcissists or people who have something they are trying to prove to girls that were mean to them in HS. All that money, stress & effort for one day is dumb. I’d rather take the money & go on a 2-3 week honeymoon/vacation. Unless you have family who is paying for it the gifts are not worth it as you are lucky if you break even in costs not to mention all the time you put on. Oh & the added expense on other people to be in the wedding or travel to participate

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Got married in the backyard in a wedding dress from Salvation Army ($100). It was a pot luck but As a waitress, my boss got us meats and fish at cost as well as several cakes. I put three flourless torts on top of each other to make a beautiful tiered chocolate cake. Easy peasy. My brother was a bartender so he set up the bar ($500 for liquor). We got wholesale flowers, paid a friend to decorate with the flowers, which was beautiful and added so much. Had a fiddle and cello for the wedding portion ($100), and a mix tape for the reception. 2 photographer friends took photos. It was so much fun and people said it was one of the most loving weddings they’d been to. <$3,000. But that was 30 years ago.

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Vivian Ingram
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Literally plan the event without ever saying the word "wedding" and it's less than half the money. Vendors see "wedding" and jacks of the price because they can. Go get a big cake for a graduation or something, same cake, and it's a fraction of the cost for a wedding cake.

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Mark Melton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife and I eloped several decades ago. We never regretted that decision. We encourage our children to do the same.

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KT
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did a backyard wedding and it still coat $10,000 total

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Jessica Aubé
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you can afford it do what you want .. don’t put people down for having a dream and a desire for their wedding day .. however , don’t put yourself into huge debt and cause drama and heart ache for it either

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Miss Cris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And don't make your guests (mostly family and friends) pay your party.

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Gabby M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get why expensive weddings like that are such a big deal. It takes away from the true meaning of being united in an institutionalized way.

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Dale-Harriet Rogovich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My OTHER pet peeve. The wedding is short ritual, the BEGINNING of a life together. Save that money for cans of tuna, for diapers (if needed). Wedding gowns? No, your daughter won't wear it, it's unfashionable. Your granddaughter might ("vintage") but maybe not. You're going to store it for 30 years? Fantastic feast for 200? Do you know how delicious potlucks are? Seriously....as a loving Officiant (who charges NOTHING) I tend to see marvelous weddings where the beloved friends provide the fare, the decorations, &c. The community into which the "new family" is recognized, provides. Newlyweds are not served by starting out with a debt.

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Rachel Fresquez
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel the same way about engagement rings. I told my husband I didn't want one when we were dating and rather put that money towards a honeymoon. It was still romantic and memorable as hell when he proposed in our favorite camp spot, no ring needed! We got married on our local beach with a small group of family and friends. Had a party at our place after and had a great time. With all the money we saved we honeymooned in Costa Rica for 2 weeks having adventures and staying at the best hotels. Also bought some dirt bikes and took a bunch of camping trips and tickets to see our favorite comedians and I'm sure plenty more cuz big weddings are stupid expensive. Eight years later and we're so happy we made those choices. Especially when we see other couples going through hell the weeks before their weddings, stressing out and questioning even having the one. No thanks.

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Anne Mitchell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our vows are just as valid after a $300 fee Registry Office wedding. I found no reason to spend a fortune on a dress or for bridesmaids or any of the rest of the paraphernalia. It wouldn't have made the marriage any more valid nor memorable, We then took 12 of our closest friends to dinner.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly, $20-$30K is a very inexpensive wedding. I rented a cabin in a public park for my reception, bought all my own wine/booze, had a family-style dinner, had one friend DJ, one make our rings, and another make desserts, and my wedding still cost $32K. Our budget was $5k.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My little hometown church wedding and reception at my grandmother's home cost $500.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very overrated indeed, throw in the bridezillas, now you’re set, I remember back in the day, people would go get their marriage certificate from the court house, rent out a hall, hired a band, pot lock type things from family, lots of money left over for the bride and groom, every one had a great time

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Megan O'Neill
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got married in a courthouse! It was cheap and our immediate families were there (outside). I was 7 months pregnant and had my 2 year old in my arms. I'd do it again :)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

10 years ago my husband and I eloped by getting married just outside of Zion NP. We went to a beautiful cliff with our officiant and photographer said our vows, had a nice dinner and spent the next week exploring and adventuring. It was as stress free as they come and cheap. I would recommend eloping to anyone if they are considering it.

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Danielle Renee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i got married on a cruse ship in port, so friends could come to just the wedding. then went on 14day cruise in a balcony room. less than $10k. included food and flowers, chapel on the top of the ship. super easy

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Always heard that when you're pricing cakes, flowers, photographers etc to never mention they are for a wedding. The prices are inflated once the word wedding gets involved. Keep in mind that I have no idea if this is the overall reality. I just know that's what my photographer friend attributes for being able to do her second wedding so low cost.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wedding was 3k. Was the happiest day of my life. Maybe stop wanting so much extravagance!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a small wedding that came to less than £5k all-in including the night in the hotel. People don't NEED to spend tens of thousands, they just THINK they do

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep, a beautiful Vegas wedding can be done for under $1000. Courthouse wedding for far less lol.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So weird. We had an amazing small wedding (30 people). The venue was $920, the catering together with the cake was $1040, the dress and suit were $690, the rings were $550. As for the decoration we did most of that ourselves (dried flowers, pinecones, wood, printed out pictures, fairy lights we already had, invitations..), we've bought just a few things for like $150 and then we paid the legal fee which was like $90. The photographer was our friend and we have him $230. Also we paid accomodation for our parents. So all in all around 4000 USD. I would NEVER pay 10,000 USD for one day, I would much rather spend it on honeymoon (which unfortunately we didn't have because of covid).

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

SMH. My husband and I got married at the courthouse & then threw a party at our apartment. Cheap, effective, and my memories of that day are golden.

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Hugh Willie Mungous
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our parents and grandparents didn't do the big wedding thing - so why do we fall for it?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess that it depends on the country. My grandparents and parents had huge weddings. Probably much cheaper but the number of visitors was huge.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad gave me fifty bucks to get married on. I bought a dress, cake, bouquet and hat and had money left over for the preacher. Chapel was free because I was a member.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most wedding photographers do not make $5000, most are lucky to get 2k.

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Bottled water, looking at you Nestlé

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've only ever bought bottled water when I was in a jam - whenever I needed water and couldn't get tap water easily. I've never understood why anybody would waste their money on bottled water.

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Instagram fitness model meal plans. I cant believe people still pay them a lot of money for cookie cut meal plans and fitness advice. They are literally just pulling s**t off of google, copy paste your name, and make you think its personalized for you. Taking advantage of dumb people who are desperate to lose weight. Its pitiful on both sides.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not call them dumb or pitifull, I would say "Hopefull" or "Desperate"

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#18

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Any online course promising to teach you how to make money

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I basically make 80000-1000000000000 per day>>>>>>>omg so life changing>>>>>>>work online>>>>>>>*insert sketchy link*

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Two-party political systems. They seem to be in opposition to each other but in reality take "donations" from the same entities to further their agendas, so the sense of choice is mostly false in reality.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only know of the US that does this (Though I guess the UK comes close?) and from the outside it seems that that whole system needs to be scrapped and started over. It looks broken beyond repair.

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All multi-level marketing companies.

They tell you that all you have to do Is get 5 people to sign up and they each get 5 people to sign up, etc. Except these are not mathematical geniuses running these companies. By the time you get about 12 levels deep, you’ve surpassed the entire population of the Earth. It’s a good lesson in exponents.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just look at who falls for them, in huge numbers, and you’ll see why they don’t want the best and brightest. They don’t intend for anybody to do anything but spend money buying stock to sell.

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Companies saying their employees are valuable to them and they care about their employees.

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#22

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Casinos.

All of the casinos in my state are video poker and video slot machines. There are barely any table games left.

No one is happy, no one is having fun. It's just a room full of zombies feeding the machines and losing money. Every person I talk to is convinced that they know the secret formula to win. You cannot win.

It might sound trivial but the old slots were just a spinning reel. These new machines are extremely addictive. The way the lights flash and the sounds go off like: Bing Bing BING. WINNER of 40 cents. The entire thing is a psychology hack to give people the impression that they're winning when they're not.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have a new Casino near where I live. I stopped in because they were offering a free buffet. I walked around and saw one person sit down and start to win hand over fist on a video slot. People crowded around the person. This person made thousands in minutes. Then got up and disappeared into the crowd but I followed and saw this "Winner" sneak into an employee only door. This person was paid to pretend to win.

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams College tuition. I graduated with a B.S. Information Technology and Computer Science. Working at a job and earning just as much as my coworkers who didn’t go to college and earned certifications. They have zero debt, while I’m $40k in the hole.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude I'll be getting into uni next month and my fees are about $300/yr for a STEM/CS deg that includes tuition and lodging along with food coz it's sponsored by government. For places that aren't sponsored you may have to shell out $4000-5000/yr and that's pretty reasonable

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Trying to look good for men by reading women's magazine articles! Throw those magazines away, take good care of yourself, make the best of what you've got and don't be defined by someone else's expectations of what you should be.

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#25

People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Recycling plastics.

Less than 10% of plastic waste is actually recycled.

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Hugh Willie Mungous
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why not just ban the use of single use plastics? It is easy - and quite a few countries have taken major steps in this direction. We can (and have in the past) relied on glass bottles, paper bags, paper straws, card burger containers, card ear bud shafts etc. etc.. Profits need not be affected (heaven forbid!) and most/many consumers would tolerate the tiny increase in prices.

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Apple cables

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ben woskje
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The apple eco-system - all of it. Intentionally created to be product specific, always technically behind the current technology standards - creates an obscene amount of waste... all to lock people in.

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams In the US, doing my own taxes. The government literally has all my info and can do it for me, but their excuse is that "but Americans like doing their own taxes!". No. I especially don't like being forced to pay for a service like TurboTax either.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my country taxes are done on a government's website, where most of the info is already inserted and I just have to check it or can add some extra expenses (such as giving back education/housing loan). It takes no more than 15 minutes once a year

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Essential Oils being marketed as having these major health benefits/as treatment for illnesses. The only exception being clearing your sinuses. Some essential oils actually do pretty good work in that regard (at least for me personally... mileage will vary I'm sure).

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seems when people don't have access to affordable health care, they'll try any alternative - no matter how far fetched

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#30

The entire working economy is a scam. You bust your ass for half of your waking hours, at least, then get told that your work is worthless and you don't deserve basic needs... even though your rich owners are making millions in profit off of your "worthless" labor?

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I don't pay good wages because I have a lot of money; I have a lot of money because I pay good wages." - Robert Bosch, sadly something that was forgotten over the last 30 years

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The "All natural" market/label. Means nothing.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gluten free. Most people are not gluten intolerant, it's just a fad they need to follow.

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Adobe’s subscription based monopoly

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude, just search on Google and you'll find so many alternatives. Maybe try watching Linus Tech Tips video on how they made videos without using any Adobe product

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non-GMO food

GMOs are safe, we have been unknowingly doing this for thousands of years. Now we just have a more reliable,safe and fast way to do it.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This. People need to understand that selective farming, e.g. taking only the seeds of the most productive plants for next year, is selection based on genetic mutations and therefore LITERALLY IS genetic modification, just on a slow term and based on observation rather than design.

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#35

Adulthood because kids think it’s great but it’s not

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Adulthood rocks. I'm 43, my other half is 42. 13 years going strong. No kids = no stress, no drama, no school/government/etc hassle, a lot more money, travel when we want, sleep when we want etc. Basically 2 peeps in their 40's still living like we're 18. You get the life you make for yourself by good planning, and not letting the energy stealers, Karens and drama-people in. Again, adulthood is awesome :D

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#36

Pretty much anything that says it will enlarge your penis

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Getting a phone call about your cars extended warranty.

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#39

And survey says; Diamonds (but also most jewelry)

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Nicky
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree! Why is wearing a hard rock mined by exploited people in Africa considered an act of love?

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Eating/drinking raw eggs. The proteins found in eggs only become useful to your body after the structures are changed by applying heat aka cooking them.

There's not only no point choking back a raw egg. You're also absorbing less protein from it than if you were to cook it.

"Cooked eggs have a bioavailability of around 91% for protein, while protein from raw eggs only is 50% bioavailable (Evenepoel et al., 1998)."

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do people actually do this? I've only seen it in like movies from the 80s - but love the citation

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Insurance, health insurance in particular. The whole concept is pay into a pool on the off chance that something happens you can get some kind of reimbursement which sounds fair on the whole, but is so often bogged down with unfair terms and conditions that many get screwed over. This on top of predatory policies and greedy salespeople means a whole lot of people get [screwed] over.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That depends heavily on the country and honestly, I think it‘s a major reason why universal health care has such a bad reputation in the USA. I was in a bad car accident two years back and had no trouble at all with neither car nor health insurance, which I am very grateful for because I had enough to worry about at that time.

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#42

Tiktok. They now have an event where they pay you $40 if you refer a friend. It’s clearly selling your private information, but people ask their friends to be referred like crazy.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still don't get why we don't finally start boycotting this chinese surveillance bullshit, but apparently people just don't care.

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#43

Realtors, probably the most overpaid, under qualified profession. The commission based comp is crippling for some sellers, and if you try to sell on your own (FSBO), they will steer all their buyers away from you.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because FSBOs don't know what they are doing and dont get smoke inspections or final readings.

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#44

Having a royal family. It’s bonkers in this day and age that a country as grown up as Britain has a monarch that costs us all money, just for privilege of having her. A literal Queen, wearing a crown, who believes that she was sent by God to sit on a gold throne. And we have to sing a song asking for her longevity at football games. The royal family are a scam, cost us too much money and are currently harbouring a nonce to boot.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's image also brings in a lot of tourists, helps sell loads of souvenirs, and overall adds to the economy. It would be interesting to know not just the cost, but also the value of having a royal family. Also it seems that countries with royal families tend to be more stable during crises.

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#46

Corporate owned apartment complexes tacking on hundreds of extra dollars in monthly fees on top of rent. Mandatory cable TV packages, parking fees (on a flat surface lot, with no assigned parking), valet trash. All a scam and just a way for them to pocket incremental sales on top of rent.

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Jjiinnee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn't this only a high-end complex thing, ..for Luxury Apartments and Condos for people who make the top 1% of income? It is in Boston...I know many complexes on the waterfront do, but...who else but a top earner can afford 7k in rent a month, and why would they complain if they could? LOL.

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#48

NFTs.

There will be a market for these in some form, but we are hip-deep in the rowdy, scam-filled early days.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will never understand NFTs, no matter how many ways it's explained to me. They make no sense.

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People Are Revealing 50 Things That Are Scams Chiropractors. "The only way I can help is if you come see me 3 times a week for as long as you live."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel so much better after a visit to the chiropractor (once or twice a year) that I fail to understand the scam. I wanted my back to feel better and it does after I leave, service given, service paid for. Where was the scam?

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Fifa games

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this post was meant for the video games (I've checked the reddit post) but it could also apply to actual real football (or soccer for US) games.

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