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Poverty isn’t something that you can understand just intellectually—to truly understand someone’s financial struggles, you have to have been where they are. And, frankly, not everyone gets what the grind to survive is like. But getting a glimpse into the everyday hustle can be eye-opening… even if it is but a glimpse.

Redditor 192335 created a viral thread on r/AskReddit and urged internet users to share the things that most people don’t understand about being poor. Have a read, upvote the answers that you agree with, and if you’re feeling up to it, share your own experiences with financial struggles (and how you overcame them) in the comment section. 

Financial expert Sam Dogen, the founder of the Financial Samurai blog, spoke to Bored Panda about financial freedom, the importance of consistency in our investments, as well as the things that you need in order to build wealth. You'll find our interview with him below.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Just how little money it would take to drastically help reduce the average person's stress by well over 50%. I see stories like Post Malone putting 1.5 mil in his mouth, or how much the Kardashians spend on a birthday party & it makes me puke with the sheer pointless extravagance. It's time we stop treating flaunting wealth & excess like anything other than sociopath behavior in light of the world right now.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) As a child in poverty, how little opportunity you have, so many extra curricular activities cost money that just isn't available, I grew up in a trailer park with a crack addict mum & an alcoholic dad. If I wanted to do something it had to be free & I usually had to forge my mums signature on permission forms. We never had food, I learned to shoplift by 2nd grade. Winters were cold. I still excelled at school, because it was my escape from a shitty home life. I got taken into the foster care system, but I never got adopted, I was in a sh*tty group home, the only way out was to get a job & prove that I could live independently, so I left school at the end of 8th grade & got 2 jobs, cause the wage for a 14y.o.is sh*t, I got signed out of the system, I loved & valued education, so I signed up to do my school certificate & higher school certificate through technical college via distance education. I worked hard & did well, I applied to medical school & smashed the UMAT test. When I got to the interviews, everyone else had all these stories about the community work they did, or learning trips overseas, they'd all had tutoring. It dawned on me that while I was working 60+ hours a week to make a living, these people had been doing things to get a leg up, cause they could, cause they had resources I never had. Being born into poverty is like starting the race 10m behind the block with a broken leg.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And people that say if you work hard you'll get rich. It may happen but to only a very very small few compared to millions of very hard workers.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Money is practically all you think about. Money does not buy happiness, but not having money certainly buys constant anxiety

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I have more in my account than i’m expecting when checking my balance, I panic thinking “what bill have I forgotten to pay”.

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Sam, the founder of the Financial Samurai blog, shared with Bored Panda that the key to financial freedom is building passive income streams so that we aren't "overly dependent" on the income from our day jobs. "The more passive investment income streams you have, the better. Starting with stocks or funds that generate dividends is the easiest for most investors because you can open up a brokerage account and buy just one share. Then you can invest in Real Estate Investment Trusts (REITs) and private REITs as well," he explained.

According to the expert, the key is consistency and building up your investments slowly, over time. Sam warned us that buying and selling cryptocurrencies won't generate any income because "it is more of a speculative play." Despite how lucrative it might all sound, it's still a risk. You'll find the expert's ranking of the best passive investments right over here.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) People who aren't poor don't understand how the expenses stack on top of one another all the time.

Your car breaks down, the cat needs to go to the vet, you find out that your financial aid DOESN'T fully cover your tuition now that you're at university and not community college... All of this, in a never ending barrage one after another, on top of regular bills.

That's why the people who go "jUsT sAvE mOnEy" piss me off. When you're at a certain level of poverty, you can't because you're always on the knife's edge between survival and not being able to pay bills. You need every dime you have and then some.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's an old saying: "It's very expensive to be poor". Because there's no big-box supersavers in your area so you buy too many groceries at the expensive corner convenience stores, local services are minimal and they raise prices because they have local monopolies, your used car costs 4x its sticker price in repairs but you can't afford to replace it, etc.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) "Poverty is not just bad decisions — poverty is an ENVIRONMENT. It's bad roads. It's poor city and county governance. It's a lack of generational wealth. It's a lack of access to a grocery store, a doctor, a bank lender, a dentist, plumbers or electricians, a lawyer, a school, a car lot, both financially and geophysically. It's despair in your landscape through forgotten and abandoned buildings that once housed businesses and families, now left to rot, while you're too poor to leave. It's watching others struggle while you yourself are unable to help, because you can’t keep your head above water either.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) I can't just 'quit my job' to 'find something better.' Interviews take time that I don't have. I can't just skip work to go for interviews

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Sam told Bored Panda that after doing an analysis of Credit Suisse's annual Global Wealth Report, he came to the conclusion that building wealth requires four things: belief, grit, time, and community. "Roughly 35% of Financial Samurai's readership are millionaires compared to only 6.5% of America's population. Therefore, learning as much about your personal finances as possible and interacting with a community are very important," he said that the information we absorb and the communities (both digital and real) that we surround ourselves with are vital to our long-term success.

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"Instead of just reading a book, I'd subscribe to your favorite personal finance site for free that's continuously writing about new ways to build wealth. Get involved with people who are continuously taking action to build more wealth," he suggested how we can all further our education in the world of finance.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Being poor is exhausting. It's draining, mentally and physically, and everyone needs a win sometimes. Sometimes that win is finding a way to just afford a meal out or a movie. Yeah, you do have bills to pay, but everyone needs a breath of fresh air sometimes. A struggle needs a break every so often

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My family and I saw a homeless man waiting outside the restaurant we were dining at, just hoping to score someone’s leftovers. 10 minutes after my family and I were seated the homeless man follows in two ladies to a table. The two ladies invited this homeless man to dine with them. He looked like he just won the jackpot. This memory will stay with me forever.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Good, healthy food is expensive after bills, and cheap food makes you feel like sh*t

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup. And healthy food that is cheap takes FOREVER to cook. With public transit, multiple jobs, etc., you don't have as much time when you're poor.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) We can’t be fad minimalists. We don’t let go of most of our stuff because, yes, we might need them in the future, and we’d rather not buy them again

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True. And then, if you happen to be lucky enough to get elevated onto a higher economical level, hoarding becomes a problem too. Because you have it in your bones from your background of poverty. I don't complain, though.

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Meanwhile, in my previous interview with Sam, he explained that the lack of financial education is the biggest barrier for people to rise out of poverty and become rich. And if you are stuck financially, your priorities always have to be food and then shelter.

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“We learn things like chemistry, geology, and English in high school and college, but there are no mandatory courses on personal finance. For example, if more people thoroughly understood their mortgage contracts before signing, the housing crisis between 2008 – 2010 may not have been as deep,” he told Bored Panda earlier.

“In another example, if more people knew they could negotiate a severance instead of quit with nothing, more people would have a more comfortable financial runway to take their time and find a new job or start a new business that is truly meaningful to them. The more people are empowered with financial knowledge, the better financial decisions they can make to ultimately live the lives they desire.”

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) The fear. Fear of something unexpected you haven't budgeted for. Fear of a knock at the door from a debt collector. Fear of having to choose which of your children can eat more than once today. Fear of having to choose which days you go hungry so your children can eat at all

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We are all in that boat, wife and i have agreed to always pay rent on time. That way if we have to skip a meal or two at least we are warm and safe.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember once having real sliced cheese in the fridge for the first time and $10 in the bank. Nothing was broken, nothing was 'wrong' but I kept going around the house, checking things, turning knobs, watching the water run from the faucet for a minute. I was so unsettled because I was waiting for the other shoe to drop. I was afraid that I was missing something....That I had forgotten to pay a bill or something was going to break. And all I could think about was I had real sliced cheese and I wanted a grilled cheese sandwich but I couldn't settle down enough to make it, much less eat it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was me all through undergrad, self-funded, with no available financial aid except for student loans (because we were poor, but not poor enough. That's another thing they don't tell you about being poor). So every week included choices like "do I walk to campus and save on parking fees today?" or "Can I afford a copy of Bleak House at the used bookstore for class, or do I use that dollar for 2 cheeseburgers at McD's for dinner?" The tiniest problem: getting sick, car breaks down, low on gas, whatever, throws everything into chaos.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

we lived on the line of poor, but not poor enough as well. it's the worst. no help from social programs because you "make too much". when really, you make just enough to live paycheck to paycheck and any emergency throws your finances in chaos.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that fear haunts those who grow up poor every day, even if the poverty goes, the fear stays.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please if you are in a situation where you’re having to make this hard choices utilize social services that’s what they are there for. Don’t let stigma keep you from getting what you can to enhance the basics in your life

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i eat 4 days a week 2 meals a day , done this for years , don't really need to now but as iv'e been doing it since i was a teen i just can't get out of the routine , i try and i feel guilty if i do eat on a day i usually dont

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. I still have that fear and all my children are grown. I have done without many things in order to maintain a roof over our heads.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fear of opening your mailbox or looking at your email on a weekend because if someone screwed up a charge or a bill, you have to stew about it until they are open and you can try and deal with it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are a lot of people out there living in fear of what might happen to upset the boat. And then there are a lot more people out there that are not even aware of how close they are to a disaster should something unexpected occur. As you age, when you feel it is more than enough, what choices you may have had disappear and the only choices left are continuing in the fear lifestyle knowing it will probably get worse, or hoping you can check out of this life easily.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will go with out food, electricity to pay my rent. I already gave up having a car.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is the rent that scares me the most. So far, i can do it. I know how to cook rice and beans. But if they evict me, i will have to cook my comida over a fire. That is illegal in this jurisdiction. Which is why i am happy that our latest flash flood targeted the city Offices. It's about time those bullies deal with some reality.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Theres no fear of debt collectors, you block their phone number and they dont come to your door.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They absolutely do come to your door. In the UK they have the right to seize goods too if they have the court paperwork.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or don’t have kids when you’re in a situation like that. And don’t start with the ‘you can lose your job’, because 90+% of these people are poor when they start with kids. People who have kids and then become this poor are extremely rare.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) It takes two to three times longer to get anywhere on the bus than in your own car. That means leaving for work earlier and coming home later. In many places, the buses don't run as often on the weekends. Grocery shopping on the bus means just getting what you can carry, which means going more often, which means more time wasted waiting

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Going home from my Saturday shift used to make me really anxious, because about half the time my bus would pull up just as my connecting bus was pulling away. It was an hour before the next bus. Wait for the first bus, ride for 20 minutes, miss the conbection and wait an hour, ride for 30 minutes, walk home for ten. Then when I got a car? 15-20 minute drive to work. I gained nearly two hours a day.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) You can have a job and still be poor. You can have a job where you earn $1,000 each month, but if your rent is $600–$700 each month, you spend $100+ on food (assuming you don't have to take medicine or something similar), your bills, car insurance (if you have a car), and gas for your car, what do you do with what's left after that? You can't do anything.

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According to financial expert Sam, saving money is a powerful tool at your disposal. But the amount you save has to be sufficient. “One of the key mantras I tell my readers is this: If the amount of money you’re saving each month doesn’t hurt, you’re not saving enough! Too many people go through life, paying no attention to their finances. Then they wake up 10, 15, 20 years from now and wonder where all their money went,” he said.

“Always pay yourself first. By paying yourself first after each paycheck, and making it hurt a little to change your spendy ways, only then will you know whether you are saving enough,” Sam urged others to look at saving seriously.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Having money isn't everything. NOT having money is

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) When your parents are lying to you saying they're full when they're not so you can have the last bite.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Just because you're poor, that doesn't mean you automatically get welfare. You can make just slightly over the line and still be poor. My mom only made $1,000 a month, but it was still too much to get welfare

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The government doesn't look at each case individually. Rules are rules. They have no heart, no compassion. They are a big part of the problem!

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Sam pointed out that large families have various strategies that help them save money, even though they have more mouths to feed. “Use hand-me-down clothing and shoes for all children with occasional aesthetic adjustments between boys and girls if desired. Buy food in bulk. Send kids to a preschool co-op where they require parental involvement usually once a week.”

The expert continued: “Send your kids to public school and forget about the ridiculous cost of private school tuition. Enjoy the free parks and libraries. Have kids share rooms to save on buying a larger house. But the two most important things are having one parent who works to help subsidize healthcare costs and avoiding private schools.”

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) That poor people can't take advantage of sales or bulk purchases. They literally spend whatever they earn on basic necessities. Being poor is a vicious cycle, and it takes many sacrifices to get out, if ever

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wrote a scathing email to some Lady Something or other who was spouting in the press about it being cheaper to buy in bulk. I pointed out that when you have £15 to buy food for a week, a £20 bag of pasta may well be cheaper than 6 x £5 bags but what else are you going to eat. I told her to read Jack Monroe's Bootstrap Cook but she just repeated her mantra at me.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) That being physically safe is a luxury, not a given. It can be dangerous to not be conscious for a couple of hours. When you're homeless and sleeping somewhere, you're not thinking about tomorrow; you're thinking, 'What if I get woken up, and there's a knife to my face?'

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You'll never know the full value of having a roof over your head and the security of four walls, until you have been homeless. I was in this position and the lesson I've learnt is that if you have a key in your hand and enough food to survive, you have everything you need. Homelessness can happen to any of us and for most, that's something we find ourselves nodding to, but never really accepting...

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Having sleep for dinner.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) If you have a bank account, you probably have to pay a monthly fee because your balance is too low. If you overdraft, they charge you another $35 even though they can see you've got nothing in there.

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The embarrassment and ridicule of letting your teacher and class know that you cannot go to an expensive field trip because your parents do not have the money.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was lucky to go to a secondary school that had a fund for children whose parents couldn't afford school trips, or I would have missed most, if not all of them.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) When we save up money, something happens that forces us to use that money we had saved, which starts a hard-to-break cycle

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you get government assistance you're not allowed to save up, it will be taken off of what you get. Especially when you have a disability.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) What it's like to actually start to starve and be desperate enough to steal food, the longest I ever went without eating was 5 days and it was absolutely miserable

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never had to go a day without food, but I ate some awful stuff to get by. Once I had nothing but two cans of tuna per day for 11 days. A few months prior to that I did peanut butter, bread, and Rice Krispies for 5 days. I did not feel well at the end of those weeks.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) When you are a kid, the boredom. All of my friends had interests. BMX, hunting, ninja stuff, action figures, and video games. And their parents fostered their interests and provided funds to grow in their hobbies/sports. I had some stuff, too, but never had the sort of continual investment to pursue something like a hobby or interest. Everything was secondhand, bootlegged, pirated, half-working, etc

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And you can't even get to whatever free activities are available in your area, because you have no transport. There's no spare money for gas, your parents are working long hours and aren't available to drive, they can't afford to buy you a bike, you've got no extra money for the bus, and the streets aren't safe enough for you to walk.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) A lot of things that wealthy people have access too isn't as accessible or often as good. Its gotta be pretty friggin annoying for people who can barely afford food to be told that they should see a therapist. Like yeah, mental health is important but so is eating, and mental health is also going to take a hit when the money you used to talk to a therapist for an hour is going to eat into your food budget or bill money

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you’re really poor, a therapist wouldn’t even be a consideration. Nobody poor is paying just to talk to someone when they have bills to pay.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Growing up poor leaves scars that never heal.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need to learn to cope eventually. I still dread doing my monthly balances because of how it shoves reality in my face when I was young. I still do not live a lifestyle my peers can afford to for fear it would all go away. But then, you need to remind yourself, you're not who you were time and again. Otherwise, you wouldn't live at all.

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That you never sleep well at night, NEVER! Your mind is constantly in overdrive wondering which bill(s) will or not get paid this month. That the smallest unexpected expense can completely put you over the edge.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember hoping to make to the end of the month without another bill coming in the mail or a check bouncing, which would result in an overdraft charge. So stressful being poor, living paycheck to paycheck and being surrounded by friends and family who have it all. They don't understand why you can't go out to eat or go shopping like they do. It really hurts. 😪

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) When you’re really poor, everything you see is something you can’t have

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Ninety percent of the time, you cannot fail or make a bad/wrong decision. If you do, it will take years and years to recover from that.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Most of the time it’s out of their control, there’s usually a backstory. Also it’s harder to pull your self out of poverty than most expect.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only reason I’m not right now is because a random guy invited me to live for free out of my home town, and magically I got a decent paying job that treats me like a creature instead of a cog. It just took 15 YEARS. So I guess I got that going for me. I love you Bill Murray and shall weep when you leave this coil.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) It takes up all of your time. I remember not being able to stock up on necessities. So I would have to run to the store a lot more frequently. I couldn’t afford a car so I would either have to bus or walk. All of these little things eat up so much time

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Everything you buy has interest attached to it, because you’re NOT using that money to pay off debts that you definitely have.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHY IS THIS NOT HIGHER! You throw food on a credit card, it takes longer and costs more to pay it off cause of the interest. You stress if you can afford the minimum payment on either the credit cards OR the medical debt that's piled up cause your job doesn't offer you health insurance... Being poor is like almost drowning every single day.

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The lengths you'll go to so you can avoid falling back into poverty after you got out of it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have panic attacks every time we've got to throw out spoiled food because I've been in a position of having one meal per week and throwing out even dangerously spoiled food triggers me in a superstitious way of "now I won't ever have food because i threw out something". It's really hard to cope.

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People Who Have Experienced Poverty Share What Most People Don't Understand About Being Poor (34 Answers) Constantly having to move because your job demands it, or because rent got too high. One to two years is how long I’d stay in one house as a child. I never bothered with friends, because I knew I wasn’t going be around them for more than a year or so.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For a child, this is heartbreaking. Can you imagine never knowing when you're moving, where you're going, not seeing the point of making friends... I just wished countries would stop funding inconsequential things and start investing in their people.

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What is the true meaning of the term “priority”

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