Let’s face it—some people have no idea what our jobs are all about. Sometimes, we might enjoy explaining the basics with a few polite sentences but when they ask the same questions over and over again, it can start to feel slightly annoying. Luckily, there are plenty of people on the internet ready to enlighten the masses about the realities of what they do for a living.
One Reddit user posed a question on the r/AskReddit forum, "What is something that people in your profession understand, but the general public can’t seem to grasp?" From lifeguards to teachers, hundreds of people rushed to share insider knowledge and debunk the myths surrounding their jobs.
Take a look at some of the illuminating observations commenters revealed in this thread and make sure to upvote the ones that you might not have known about. And if you can relate to any of them, don’t be shy and share your insights in the comments below!
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I work in healthcare. People are dumb and I’m just going to leave it at that.
Pencils are expensive. Prints are expensive. Proper paper is expensive. It takes a lot of time to do a painting. So, no, I can't give it to you for free or 'exposure.'
Mental health is real health.
It's all tied together. Your mental health WILL affect your physical health - and vice versa!! Pain management is mental health care too.
We managed to get in touch with one of the Redditors who had enough of people misunderstanding their profession. User Substantially-Ranged left an illuminating comment under this thread, explaining the common misconceptions they face as a teacher.
"Teaching children takes more than subject knowledge," they wrote. "Many people think that their experience as a student qualifies them to be teachers. It's called the apprenticeship of observation. There are strategies for both classroom management and teaching that you don't learn from being a student."
Substantially-Ranged was kind enough to have a little chat and share some thoughts about the topic. They started by mentioning that, sadly, teachers in the US feel unappreciated.
I work on super yachts. We understand that the rich and famous can get away with ordering drugs, hookers and whatever else they want to their yachts. I've been stopped by police with drugs, but when I tell them it's for the owner of the yacht I work on they let me go. Rules and laws do not apply to the rich and famous. Oh,....... And yacht owners are rich and rarely famous. The really rich don't want to be known.
Public libraries are not safe places to drop off your kids. It's not the books that are unsafe; it’s the other patrons, and the fact that librarians are not babysitters.
In most places, we don't set the prices for anything. Your surgeon is not making $50,000 on your grandma's hip because the hospital charged that much. He or she is probably getting $1,500, and the institution gets the rest. Insurances and institutions are the problem.
"When classes went online due to COVID-19, the public attacked teachers as being lazy and suggested that they should be paid less because they were not actually in the classroom," they told Bored Panda. "It starts to feel like your education, your commitment, and your effort aren't appreciated."
The user believes that the general public does not value and respect "the amount of education and experience it takes to be a skilled teacher." One of the reasons behind this could be that "the apprenticeship of observation makes people think that because they've seen teachers, that they can teach."
Your children are generally [jerks] and we don't find them nearly as charming as you find them
The thing with this is, you ALWAYS notice the naughty kids, running amok in the restaurant. I would hazard a guess that because the other kids are well-behaved you NEVER notice them. It's always a minority spoiling it for the majority. Note: You can apply this to adults too.
Military spending.
The U.S. spends the most by far, but it doesn't mean that money goes towards making sure Soldiers, Airmen, Sailors, and Marines have the best training, facilities, education, and equipment.
The vast majority of that money goes to private companies for programs that never produce anything or contribute in any way to the effectiveness of the fighting forces.
There is no concrete evidence that the U.S. has "The Best" military in the world.
A lot of "tough" parenting stances don't work.
I work with teenagers who have committed minor offenses and are not required to do jail time, but seeing a youth worker and working on anger management/social skills/life skills is required of them. There is not one single teen that has been sent to me who has come from a background of "gentle parenting". Not one. Every singe one of them without fail as long as I have been doing this will tell stories of all the times they were hit as punishment, and it becomes their logic when faced with conflict, "He disrespected me so I bashed his face in", "He called me a wanker so a smashed his car with my baseball bat", "I didn't do anything wrong, he stole the girl I like so I kicked him and his knee just broke, it's not really my fault".
This whole "Back in my day we got hit and we grew up right!" is just silly. Back in "your day" hitting was more prevalent so it's safe to say that most, if not all, violent crimes were committed by those who were hit. Most of the more shocking serial killers and so on have very well documented back stories of abuse.
Not every child who is hit will resort to physical violence when things don't go their way, of course, but children who are taught proper coping mechanisms for anger other than hitting people or things are very less likely to resort to that themselves, because they've been given conflict resolution skills that they can carry on into young adulthood.
And yeah, here's the point that a lot do understand in regards to this- if you are saying that you were hit and you grew up okay and you are using that to defend physical violence against children who most of the time actually don't know any better (and it's even worse when it's "Oh well they're too young to understand why they shouldn't touch the stove, so I hit them so they understand"- if they can't understand why they can't touch the stove they won't understand why you hit them either), you didn't grow up okay, you grew up with violent tendencies.
General rule, don't hit people.
If you hit children, they will learn to hit.
When children grow up and hit other grown ups, that's a criminal offense and they will go to jail.
I was hit as a child and I did NOT turn out ok. There are better options.
It can be quite hard to figure out why the public has so many misconceptions about other professions. Whether it’s seeing librarians as babysitters or assuming that the IT guys can do it all, there seems to be a general lack of common sense when it comes to appreciating what others do for a living. "It can be difficult to have empathy for others and realize that they have to work hard," Substantially-Ranged added.
The user continued by saying that it’s necessary to talk about such issues. "The beauty of Reddit is that it creates an environment where positive and open discourse can occur. A simple subreddit like r/AskReddit has the power to educate people and enlighten them about things just by scrolling," they concluded.
'Switching it off and on again' in I.T. usually resets the device to the state before you pissed about with it — this quite often solves the problem.
Just because I "play" in a band, doesn't mean it isn't work! For every hour you see me on stage, I spent probably 100 hours practicing and rehearsing, so you would enjoy listening to me.
In Chinese there's an expression, One minute on stage comes from ten years' practice.
Veterinary- just because you can’t afford care for your pet, doesn’t mean I have to give said care for free. Nor does it it mean I’m heartless and cruel and killing your pet. It just means you can’t afford it.
I have bills to pay too. I have a right to make a living wage. I need to get paid. We get no government funding, we exist solely because people they their bills.
Well this goes for healthcare as a whole. I don't think it's the fact people have to pay that is the problem, it's the ammount of money that needs to be payed that is the issue. Sometimes a vet just looks at my cat, gives a short diagnose 'give it some rest' and I walk out fo the door with a € 80,- Bill. I know they deserve a good salary (studied long, have a big responsibility), but this I find ridiculous. I take care of kids in my profession, a big responsibility, but the pay is lousy. Just to compare.
When I do not pay the hospital bill, does the CEO still make 6 figures? Vet clinics in general are small independent businesses.... Very very different.
Load More Replies...But, if a person had a medical emergency, accomodations would be made. I think that's all we're asking. I'll gladly pay monthly payments for the rest of my life to help my boy, it's unreasonable to think I'll have thousands I can plunk down all at once. I'm not asking for free, I'm just asking that you work with me.
Many clinics used to do this, everyone's says that, maybe 25-50% actually do come back to pay some or all the rest we never saw again, yall ruined office payment plans for yourselves, there's scratchpay/carecredit now instead
Load More Replies...Was at the vet the other day, receptionist rang a client and told them it would cost £1500 for a CT scan then another £1500 for blood tests etc. this is insane. How can a vet justify those prices?
I do not know about the veterinarian industry, but high prices are usually a result of outside intervention in the economy.
Load More Replies...It would be good if vets did reasonable payment plans where I live though. My dog still needs his second surgery but can't pay $3,500 in one lump sum, so he has to wait until we have saved enough. 😔
Have you tried WeRateDogs? Idk how often they respond but it's worth a shot.
Load More Replies...I appreciate that if I express money concerns, my vet will not do anything not absolutely necessary and will look for ways to reduce costs for things my pet needs. I think that's a fair way to handle it. Kinda wish human doctors/hospitals would work more like my vet's office hah
About a year ago my cat began to really struggle to breath. I was in between jobs at the time, as I worked for an agency that placed me regularly but sometimes there would be a gap where I'd be out of work for a short time until paper work was completed then I'd be back in a place and get backpay for what I'd missed. So at this point I was very tight for ready cash. I took the cat to the vet. The vet took one 3 second glance at my struggling pet and told me, "Unless you pay X amount right now, all I can offer you is euthanization" I begged the woman to please let me pay a deposit now and I would pay the rest next week. No good. This is a RURAL vet, I KNOW for a fact that she has payment plans available for the MANY farmers that live around me, but she would rather KILL my pet than offer any form of compromise to someone with a clearly suffering animal. I took my cat to a charity vet who diagnosed him with aggressive asthma, gave him a steroid injection and saved his life.
Exactly, a lot of veterinarians don't give a s**t. Do something else than! Sorry that happened to you.
Load More Replies...I can't imagine people approach vets like this! I just don't understand one needs a license for almost everything, except for owning a pet. If you can't afford healthcare, proper food and the right environment, people shouldn't "own" a pet. A vet is a primary need. And basic animal care should be taught in school. Some people don't seem to understand, animals are not accessoiries
You have a point. Same goes for having kids, I think.😬
Load More Replies...Also more expensive then the Dentist, and the Dentist is so expensive the Canadian govt had to step in and tell them to stop f*****g around
Could you have your government call my government in south of you to teach my government how to tell these price gougers to stop f*****g around. Thank you and have a nice day.
Load More Replies...Why don't people understand that pets are expensive. They're not toys, but living, feeling, creatures. If you can't afford to give your pets the best money can buy, then you should focus on other things until you can. Not everyday is fantasy playtime.
Vet of 25 years here. We are NOT overcharging you. People who ask for "payment plans" usually don't keep up the payments. Anything other than payment at the time of service leads to many unpaid bills, which makes us have to raise fees for everyone so that those who pay on time get penalized. You can have cheap medicine or good medicine, but not both. Our overhead is very high. Licensing, employees, the building, lots of insurance, and most have 100,000 plus debt from school to the tune of a payment the size of a mortgage for 10 plus years. Work weeks are typically 55 to 60 hrs at least. Our average salary after 8 plus years of education and all of that debt we have to pay off is 100,000 a year. We feel terrible when we have to euthanize your pet! But we have financial obligations just like you do. My suggestion is to create a budget with a special account for your pet that you contribute to each month. I suggest 75.00 a month for a cat and 75 to 175.00 a month for a dog.
If you can't afford to give your pet the care it needs, don't get a pet
Former veterinary practice manager here. The costs of keeping a clinic open to be there for your pets is huge. Salaries, rent/mortgage, insurance, expensive equipment rental or purchase, drugs, food, supplies, continuing education to maintain licenses, taxes... If people don't pay, those expenses don't get paid, that clinic is gone.
Consider pet insurance from companies like Nationwide, Trupanion and ASPCA. Insurance is commonly used in the UK. It's reasonably priced and has good coverage. Slinkman, you were charged an office and exam fee for a set amount of time. Your bill was more than reasonable for an office visit. Vets are keeping up their end of the bargain, and are heavily underpaid compared to our counterparts in human medicine. If you didn't have health insurance you would not be able to afford a doctor either.
If you can't afford a pet don't get one. Goes for children, too. These are your responsibilities.
I work in the veterinary industry. The sad assumption is that ALL veterinarians make TONS of money. This is not true. We have insurance that covers a lot of what we do not see (for people). If you really cared about your "furry family member" get pet insurance. The other option is to raise hell as to why these 'beings' that we feed, house, and love are still considered PROPERTY like your car. You can't pay to get your car fixed, the mechanic WILL NOT fix your car. It's that simple. The amount of energy it takes ton save something without a voice is hard enough. There are government programs for people that keep having babies and can't feed them. If you can't afford the many possible outcomes of a pet, do not have one. Let alone dealing with all of the people that FINANCE a living thing or that drop $2,000 dollars on a pet and then realize it costs money to take care of them...geez the people are the problem. Shut down the puppy mills. Make people take classes before getting a pet.
I just said this to someone at work today who by the way lives in a hotel and was considering getting a dog. I said do not do it if you cannot afford to take it to the vet!!! Pets deserve their healthcare too and vets deserve to be paid for their time like anyone else who works so if you can't afford it don't get one,!!!
Pet insurance nowadays is actually quite affordable I only pay $15 a month for my cat and the co-pay is amazing and her prescriptions when she needs them are very affordable I understand not being able to have Premium Insurance on an animal but you can have basic insurance just like you can your car
I work at a vet's office. Let them know at check-in if you have money restraints. Like if you have only $150 the vet will work under that price for you. Also always ask for an estimate before services.
1. How long has he had it? 2. Did he buy it used? 3. Does his spouse make more? 4. Did he have other streams of income? And 5. Why does his financial planning mean that he is obligated to work for you for free?
Load More Replies...Sometimes I feel like pet insurance should be mandatory. Then again... the average American can't afford a $300 emergency. If this sounds like you, maybe don't acquire something that will, with absolute certainty, incur more costs down the road. Providing an animal with a sub-par life, complete with crappy food and no ability to cover basic medical care isn't doing anyone any favors!
Things that sadly make vet care cost more is when they take labs, those samples are sent out to a separate company to process and they charge a lot because they have to support their facility and staff as well. So that money that is on your vet bill is going for them to pay for the labs to be processed. Also x-rays still apparently need to be checked out by a radiologist just like for people. So another charge that seems ridiculous, but they are having to pay an outside business so that is reflected on your fee.
To add: There is no such thing as a "free" pet. Just because you found them as a stray or they were gifted to you doesn't mean you won't need to pay anything to care for it. Even Basic supplies cost money and they can be expensive. We, as veterinary professionals don't do this for the money, we do it because we CARE about your pets. Most people in this field end up having to work multiple jobs just to survive. Yes pets are expensive, if you can't afford to care for them you should reconsider having one. Also, many hospitals now are owned by corporate companies so guess what? We have no say in the prices that are being charged, we are just trying to do our jobs and while the prices you see may be a lot, it is not directly related to how much we make....
Emergency care for my cat 6 years ago who needed to be put down in the end: grand total of examinations, medical care, medicines, one Emergency trip, one overnight stay, one trip back to the Emergency vet where it was discovered her infection spread to her lungs and was told our options and we decided to put her down: 5 thousand dollars. One visit to the vet when my new puppy got into garbage and ate coffee grounds: 80 bucks. Get pet insurance. Please.
The worst ones are the "animal lovers" that rescue random animals and then expect the vet to give them attention for free because they did something good! Come on! YOU chose to pick the animal up, if you didn't want to pay a vet for a checkup then don't pick it up in the first place! You don't earn free attention for being a good person! And these people just feel entitled to it, which is the most infuriating part. My dad is a vet and he often cuts down the prices if the person clearly is tight on money or is an old person, but if you ask him to leave his f*****g work for cheaper just because you don't want to spend that much on your pet, THEN DON'T HAVE ONE, don't have 20+ dogs all crammed up in your house if you don't have space for them! You are not doing them a favor if you don't invest in their wellbeing! You are just trying to make yourself feel a better person, and the vet has no motive to reward you for that, you took that responsibility yourself
You're paying for the veterinarian's time, education, and expertise. They have astronomical debts for their licenses, and they don't earn half what you think they do. I'm a veterinary technician, and you couldn't bribe me to do my boss's job - they put up with some of the most disgusting conditions and almost daily verbal abuse from clients ("if you CARED you'd do it for free!" "it's YOUR fault Missy didn't pull through!" "you're only in this for the money!"). Veterinarian is the top career for suicides. We DO care. But we can't be the only ones in this equation!
I thought there might be an element of: "I'm a vet because I like animals"? Not:" you can't pay so I won't treat this animal". I do know that there is quite a bit of flexibility possible with payments.
If you can’t afford a pet, don’t have one. It’s not the vet’s fault. Applies to everything, really. Can’t afford a car? Not the dealership’s problem.
But at the same time emergency care should be be withheld. Some people can't have kids, their pets are their kids. No one should have to choose to kill their fur baby because they can't afford life saving care.
Imo :) It's not the employees, it's the system. Refer to the saying "I don't make the rules I just work here"
And yet last time I went to a vet because my cat was gaging every time she tried to drink, I'm given some BS excuse pulled out of their ass and told to keep an eye on her. I HAVE BEEN ITS WHY IM HERE!. I had to actually ask them to see if she's dehydrated, she was. They gave her two syringes of water and charged me 300$...let's just say you ALL don't necessarily DESERVE a living wage, at least not with that kind of service
i've seen more veterinarians who had this "you don't have a choice" gobshite attitude then doctors. it just means poor folks can't afford you eh you overpriced whore? f**k. you.
You must not have had the pleasure of talking to many human surgeons 🤣
Load More Replies...My veterinary asked if I wanted her to feel my cat's stomach. I just thought it was a casual question but she billed me 600 KR for it, that's 60 euros and about 50 dollars 😅 I paid it off course but man.. 600 for something that took 4 or 5 seconds? Isn't it better to pay for the time an exam takes instead of what the exam consists of? If I would have thought about it for 8 seconds she would have lost big money on it.
So what happens if people can't pay? Do the animals get rehomed or put to sleep? I understand vets obviously have to be paid but was just wondering
Usually, the vet gives options of what needs to happen to determine a diagnosis. If a person can't afford it, the vet can give them low income options. If that is not an option, and the pet is suffering, euthanasia is the kindest way, Surrender, or 'wait to see what happens' (which is awful).
Load More Replies...Where I live, we only had one vet clinic for the entire region, and the nearest other option was over 1000km away. Literally. It was an 18-hour drive. This guy fought the government like hell to prevent anyone else from being allowed to break up his monopoly, and succeeded in that for about 30 years. And he was still overcharging by 300% the whole time. But please, tell me more about how this a*****e was struggling to pay his bills.
The sad part is, there is no such thing as pet insurance, but there is people insurance. Had an experience very recently where we thought we were gonna have to shoot our dog to end his suffering, but after 5 days of vomiting without eating or drinking anything, he found a "will to live" somewhere. Called around vet clinics to see if they accepted payments, because even in human healthcare, you can make monthly payments if you can't afford a one time payment of $1,000 for that ER visit due to an asthma attack for which you had no rescue inhaler. Vets don't do payment plans. But there is something called CareCredit if you can figure out how to get through the "red tape". CareCredit requires the diagnosis before approving your credit, but you must apply before being billed. Credit isn't guaranteed, so good luck.
I do not know where you live but there is pet insurance in the US. The problem is that you must get it prior to any severe illness of your pet. You have deductibles lime human insurance and will get reimbursed depending on type of policy and what it covers. Many human insurance companies now offer insurance for your pets which is AMAZING since 20 years ago, it was almost unheard of. Until we can no longer view pets as property, we will continue to struggle with this issue.
Load More Replies...Yes but I'm old enough to remember when vet's used to charge sensible prices for their services not the thousands expected to be paid now for those same services. The costs have gone up 100s of times faster than inflation etc. There is real greed and callousness dialling the system now.
Inflation sucks!! The cost of gas has gone up, oh...and a carton of eggs!!! Supplies have gone up tremendously since COVID. Vets can't get the supplies because it's going to human medicine. The cost of gloves, masks, syringes, and medications has sky rocketed.
Load More Replies...Emergency Rooms are NOT first-come, first-serve businesses! We triage you for a reason, and you CANNOT cut the line in front of somebody with a more serious complaint just because you got here first!
Sorry, Jenny's non-Covid sniffles have to wait behind that guy's bone sticking out of his arm.
As a teacher, No! Your "babies" are not babies. They are delinquent teens with sociopathic behaviors that you allowed to go unchecked, and now we have to deal with it when they disrupt learning environments and harm others, while you throw a fit when we call home about it, even though we have video evidence of them brutally hitting others, including staff, and behaving like out of control animals. But your little "baby" would "never do that."
I am not a babysitter. It is your job as a parent to watch your kid when swimming and if they can't swim, you have to be in the water within five feet of them at all times.
YOU NEED TO SLOW DOWN IN BAD WEATHER!!!!!
(Two wheelers)If you ride faster in rain, the rain will pelt you like bullets. Driving slower makes it a bit bearable.
That the eighty thousand pound truck I’m driving can’t stop in a dime
Thiiiiiiissss! That extra car length in front of them isn't for your beemer to slide into! And if you can't see the driver's face, the driver can't see your CAR.
You actually don't want an exotic animal as a pet.
Not very exotic, but we(my wife) just "adopted" a mouse. Not a lil white mouse from a pet store, but a field mouse that we found almost dead in the toilet. I didnt want to put it out in the cold while half dead and wet, so I had it in a box to recover. Showed it to my wife...she deemed it🤩 "precious, with its little ears and feet"...so now we have a house for a mouse in our house. So far, it doesn't seem to have any diseases, but its still under observations. Hoo boy...
Marriage and Family Therapist
Your partner only wants your advice if they ask for it. They want you to listen and emphasize. Tell them what they're going through must (fill in appropriate adjective here- examples: suck, feel amazing, feel overwhelming, etc)
No, you haven't found your soulmate. You're brain is giving you a super boost in brain chemicals so you screw like bunnies and have babies. Tell me in 1.5-2 years if they're still your soulmate. That's how long it takes for that chemical boost to return to their "normal for you" state. And not feeling fireworks at the first kiss doesn't mean anything. Plenty of amazing long-term relationships started from friendship (which by the way is what you'll need to have a long-term, fulfilling relationship).
Also... be kind to each other. You will each f*** things up in your relationship. All is not lost because one of you talked to an ex, forgot a birthday, etc. Relationships go through seasons and I promise if you can work though the winter you'll have an amazing summer! Every relationship sucks sometimes (screw you social media and your highlight reels).
Lastly, though there are so many more- I can't stress this one enough, there is no such thing as my problem or yours. Though the work to get through it will look different for each of you, once you decide to become partners, everything becomes ours to work through together. Yes, even that thing that happened before you met but is getting in the way of your healthy relationship. And especially that thing you never want to talk about that is getting in the way of your relationship.
Your kids lie to you. If we said they didn’t do the homework and they said they did, it’s a 99.985% chance they are lying. If they say they weren’t doing xyz behavior in class and we say they were, it’s a 99.985% chance they were doing it. I have so many more demands on my time than to make up random c**p about your kid.
Flossing actually helps.
You can lie all you want about falling on or accidentally sitting on the stuff that gets lodged in your [butt], none of us HCWs believe you though!
Dear lord.. I'd probably die of embarrassment if I 'fell' onto anything.. But I'm pretty sure people make up stories to cover their own embarrassment in these situations,rather then think they'll ever be believed....
Teachers don't "give grades" - students earn them. The teachers just calculate them.
Sure, some teachers can be d**ks, and actually give grades, but that's not how it's supposed to work.
That office work is more than just making excel spreadsheets and chatting at the water cooler. A busy day in an office can be exhausting.
This. Mental exhaustion still counts as exhaustion. Just because I'm not in the middle of a forest chopping down trees all day it does not mean my job is less taxing than yours
My god, your chocolate will last the two weeks until Christmas. Buy it now and give it next Christmas. It has a shelf life measured in years. And stop putting it in the fridge. I made it three months ago and it's been sitting at room temperature in a box since then. If you put it in the fridge for a week it'll get condensation on it and turn sticky, or the cold will ruin the tempering.
I like my chocolate from the fridge. It's never in there for more than a day cos I'm a pig :P
Yes, the animal is in the exhibit. Sometimes you have to look for longer than eight seconds.
I would try to stay hidden too if I was forced to be stared at all day by hundreds of strange looking beings.
Bathroom renovations — things take time. Drying times are a factor. If I ask your budget, it’s not because I’m trying to empty your account. I just need to know your expectations so I can meet them.
Teaching children takes more than subject knowledge. Many people think that their experience as a student qualifies them to be teachers. It's called the apprenticeship of observation. There are strategies for both classroom management and teaching that you don't learn from being a student.
Absolutely! I had two kinds of science (phy) teachers- one who came in, stood like a robot, and puked out everything written in the textbook. And one who made us learn through real-life experiences, telling us topic related jokes, bringing all types of teaching aids, etc. The thing is, we still talk about the second teacher and miss him so damn much, whereas almost everyone has forgotten about the first.
Correlation is not causation.
I had 4 vaccines today, and one of them was the MMR. I wonder how long till I get Autism. lol
The Cloud is just someone else's computer.
See also: "Microsoft are reading all my emails, accessing all my files and examining all my data" - Trust me, no one's interested in your furry porn collection son...
Just because I'm an electrical engineer doesn't mean I can rewire your house. At least not legally.
Well, you CAN, but it will cost 5 figures, a few permits, and a couple of inspections, plus a crew.
I work in long term mental health care with special need adults.
I see al kinds of s**t, trust me. Most people get that. I get the 'ah you are such a hero for doing what you do, I could never do that' quite often.
What most people don't grasp is that the good moments are equally amazing as the bad things are horrible.
My residents are capable of such great things. Or they become so happy in our care it's just amazing to witness.
I could tell amazing or terrible things about my job, depending on the mood you're in to hear about.
Having spent some significant time as a patient on Psych Wards (not special needs, just adults) I feel quite well placed to comment on my experience. The ward staff were always ready to offer an ear, a hug or to nip to the shops. If it was in their power, they would do it for you in a heartbeat. Whilst the modesty of this chap is admirable, I have to disagree, these doctors and nurses ARE heroes, do a wonderful job and deserve praise.
No, I can't grab your iPhone and take a picture to match my best studio works, even if it's the most recent model of an iPhone. Also, yes, I do charge money 'just to take a picture.
Lots of ppl are willing to pay lawyers $$$ per hour for advice on the law "because they had to study long and hard" but somehow think artists just somehow "know" how to paint/take photos etc. beautifully and therefore don't deserve to charge much. Like..it's just drawing sth with a pencil, or "push a button" etc. Sure, you also know how to read but you still pay lawyers so what gives?
Unpleasant feelings are healthy and needed for us to function properly
Yes, but if I feel my depression signs building on top of grief and stress, I should be able to get requested relief from my MH team during a time of additional mental stress.
That everyone is entitled to due process and to be presumed innocent until proven guilty no matter how sleazy or guilty they are.
Complaining to my manager isn't going to get me fired. If anything he's going to be even more blunt with you about how much of a power tripping c**t you're being because he knows for a fact that you can't get him fired either. Retail workers, especially during a labor shortage and especially when they've got a few years experience, aren't so replacable that you can get one axed just by complaining to management. Most of the time your complaints won't even reach anyone with the authority to fire someone. Even if they do, they get so many complaints from unreasonable people that the management is far more likely to side with an employee that's in good standing with the store than with some random weirdo that didn't get what they wanted.
Teaching English in Japan does not elevate you to godlike status among the locals and Japanese kids can be as ill mannered and unruly as kids in the West.
The only certainty in medicine is that everyone dies eventually.
I am a material scientist.
America will never go to war with Russia. We buy too much Titanium and Helium from them.
Yes, this is a weirdly false assertion. We produce many times more Helium than Russia and we could easily skimp if we needed to. (How about stop wasting it in balloons?)
If you want to fit a portrait image into a landscape canvas, you either have to crop it, leave a black or white border or empty space left and right, or distort it (which is almost always a bad idea). On a regular occurrence, clients are unhappy with either of these options, they just want me to somehow make it fit.
Please turn your phone sideways when taking pictures of scenery or large groups!
Note: this post originally had 78 images. It’s been shortened to the top 40 images based on user votes.
From medicine: No, we are not all just googling things when we look at the laptop or blackberry. We're often looking at the PDR, and it's much faster than the physical PDR. (The Physicians Desk Reference, a pharma guide that's about 2,000 pages of tiny print.) We may be reviewing your medical history, if it's available. We may even be checking to see if a specialist is in the hospital at the time. Do not assume we're going on Web MD. Please. Thank you.
Most people don't understand that before they get a med prescribed you have to first make sure there won't be any reactions
Load More Replies...Every person that doesn't want socialized medicine because they won't want their taxes to pay for someone else's healthcare....they already are. The tons upon tons of people that treat the ER like a walk in/minor care clinic because it's "free"...how do you think the hospital recoups that loss?
Exactly! ... And now you can explain the idiocy of medical costs in the US to some extent. (They also just like big profits. Patients second, the ba*tards.)
Load More Replies...I think what's most annoying is when people constantly complain about their job and have to go on and on about how exhausting it is. My job is hard, your job is hard, most jobs have some negative aspects, working sucks. I mean it's one thing to vent about a bad day but some people just need to either switch their careers or at least switch their attitudes.
"Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so? There's a support group for that. It's called everybody and they meet at the bar" - Drew Carey
Load More Replies...When you see errors in films and shows, like camera crew reflections or background things from the wrong time, it's very likely the production knew about them but let them stay in. Fixing things in post costs _a lot_, and you are on tight deadlines to air the show. Quality control will catch a lot of errors, and most will be fixed, but some there won't be the time or budget for so the flaws are knowingly left in.
IT architect and tech.... yes, if we are competent - we do have periods where we don't do much..... that's the result of designing and implementing something well.... and we were doing 80-100 hour weeks during implementation.... that's the life-cycle - get used to it. If you see someone who is busy all the time, they are an average (at best) tech.
When IT are busy fixing an emergency: Why did this happen, what do we pay you for? When IT are not busy: What do we pay you for?
Load More Replies...Digital artist: I don't just draw a couple lines and a finished piece appears lol. Digital art is basically just as much hard work as traditional art, though having some specific advantages (the ability to resize, separate layers, THE UNDO BUTTON) and disadvantages (different colors on different screens, less leeway for brush and blending techniques, you can't see all of your canvas at once sometimes). Art is art and it all takes time and skill.
I don't even have a child and I know that's something you don't wanna skimp on
Load More Replies...That who you vote for makes no difference because the elections only replace ministers ("secretaries of" in USA). Elections do not replace any other officials. Especially not the ones in charge of fixing potholes in your suburb's streets. Therefore, if you really want a change in your country, e.g. you want free healthcare, you have to actually change your entire system of government, because as it is presently structured, it is designed to keep things as they are.
lol... what? You have a gross misunderstanding of how the system works
Load More Replies...Market Research: When you give one company providing a service your contact info and they have sign a contract or application for anything, read the fine print before you go off at a research interviewer because you didn't realize part of the fine print included possibly being contacted for customary feedback or market research.
Behavioral health worker here. No, we don’t “do this job for the money.” The vast majority of us are underpaid and overworked. We subject ourselves to hearing some of the most awful things a person can do to themselves, or someone else, because we want to help you get better.
Honest question, every bmh worker I have dealt with mostly tells the patient "you are not trying hard enough" would you also say that to a cancer patient? (Btw, meditation, journaling, crafts, eating right (not eating when I can not afford good food). Still not good enough?)
Load More Replies...The only reason you survive break checking a tractor trailer is because the driver needs to keep their job. Even with a dash cam it's not a given that we won't be found at fault. Your vehicle (yes even your jacked up obnoxious pick up "truck") may as well be made of tin foil. You've no idea the self control and reflexes it takes to not just drive over you for being an idiot putting the lives of everyone around you at risk.
from someone who works by taking art commissions: please be specific about what you want—no it's not rude to show us the exact pose you'd like! that's actually a major help! art isn't magic, it needs instructions—if you're unhappy with the sketch you're shown, say something before I pour hours of work into lines and coloring! don't complain once I'm done with it because there's nothing I can really do at that point
Here's one for ya: Digital and traditional artists don't make a lot of money unless they put in a few years of good, solid practice, and being with the right audience. I cannot tell you how many people don't realize that just because You draw well and have a few fans it means nothing without a presence and a firm grasp of the craft. Even if your art is considered bad, you're still rooted in those years of trying, you may just not be in the right place, forum, or site.
CGI artist (student still): No, we cannot just magically turn a bad shot into a good one. If the scene looks good, it means that both the VFX artists and the camera crew did a good job, because a terrible shot will still look bad even with ungodly amounts of visual effects thrown on top of it. Appreciate the camera crew!
The so called material scientist confused me. The US has the world's largest helium reserves and has been selling them off at cut rate prices to avoid the cost of storage. So who is this person?
We don't just put your pcr in a magical machine and get results, we don't just look at random stuff in a microscope and show the doctor, we don't just draw your blood, put it in a bag, and just transfer it to someone else. We are also healthcare professionals know perfectly and diagnose based on your samples, we don't just pick up some fancy machine and use it, even through years of working with centrifuges, if I get a new one, I have to read the entire manual because medical equipment is delicate and all manufacturers are different, pcr is a much more complex process, no machine does the work, machines are just tools for us to analyze the samples, separate, calculate and everything our works needs to be able to do something so delicate, we are not just there to control the machines, they serve us, not the other way around
In animal rescue: adoption costs are small potatoes compared to the amount of money rescues spend in animals before they can be adopted out. Rescues don't charge that fee to screw over adopters. Most rescues focus on donations to keep running. Complaining about a $500 adoption fee when you just got a fully better animal is ridiculous. Also, a good rescue will work hard to make sure you're adopting an animal will fit in your home. If the fosters rejects you, it doesn't mean your bad. It just means they it wasn't the best fit.
This was mostly ill written garbage. I think I'm done with this garbage site??!!!!!
No not on the computer playing games I'm usually charting. Looking at test results, your medical history, the meds you are using etc.
From medicine: No, we are not all just googling things when we look at the laptop or blackberry. We're often looking at the PDR, and it's much faster than the physical PDR. (The Physicians Desk Reference, a pharma guide that's about 2,000 pages of tiny print.) We may be reviewing your medical history, if it's available. We may even be checking to see if a specialist is in the hospital at the time. Do not assume we're going on Web MD. Please. Thank you.
Most people don't understand that before they get a med prescribed you have to first make sure there won't be any reactions
Load More Replies...Every person that doesn't want socialized medicine because they won't want their taxes to pay for someone else's healthcare....they already are. The tons upon tons of people that treat the ER like a walk in/minor care clinic because it's "free"...how do you think the hospital recoups that loss?
Exactly! ... And now you can explain the idiocy of medical costs in the US to some extent. (They also just like big profits. Patients second, the ba*tards.)
Load More Replies...I think what's most annoying is when people constantly complain about their job and have to go on and on about how exhausting it is. My job is hard, your job is hard, most jobs have some negative aspects, working sucks. I mean it's one thing to vent about a bad day but some people just need to either switch their careers or at least switch their attitudes.
"Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so? There's a support group for that. It's called everybody and they meet at the bar" - Drew Carey
Load More Replies...When you see errors in films and shows, like camera crew reflections or background things from the wrong time, it's very likely the production knew about them but let them stay in. Fixing things in post costs _a lot_, and you are on tight deadlines to air the show. Quality control will catch a lot of errors, and most will be fixed, but some there won't be the time or budget for so the flaws are knowingly left in.
IT architect and tech.... yes, if we are competent - we do have periods where we don't do much..... that's the result of designing and implementing something well.... and we were doing 80-100 hour weeks during implementation.... that's the life-cycle - get used to it. If you see someone who is busy all the time, they are an average (at best) tech.
When IT are busy fixing an emergency: Why did this happen, what do we pay you for? When IT are not busy: What do we pay you for?
Load More Replies...Digital artist: I don't just draw a couple lines and a finished piece appears lol. Digital art is basically just as much hard work as traditional art, though having some specific advantages (the ability to resize, separate layers, THE UNDO BUTTON) and disadvantages (different colors on different screens, less leeway for brush and blending techniques, you can't see all of your canvas at once sometimes). Art is art and it all takes time and skill.
I don't even have a child and I know that's something you don't wanna skimp on
Load More Replies...That who you vote for makes no difference because the elections only replace ministers ("secretaries of" in USA). Elections do not replace any other officials. Especially not the ones in charge of fixing potholes in your suburb's streets. Therefore, if you really want a change in your country, e.g. you want free healthcare, you have to actually change your entire system of government, because as it is presently structured, it is designed to keep things as they are.
lol... what? You have a gross misunderstanding of how the system works
Load More Replies...Market Research: When you give one company providing a service your contact info and they have sign a contract or application for anything, read the fine print before you go off at a research interviewer because you didn't realize part of the fine print included possibly being contacted for customary feedback or market research.
Behavioral health worker here. No, we don’t “do this job for the money.” The vast majority of us are underpaid and overworked. We subject ourselves to hearing some of the most awful things a person can do to themselves, or someone else, because we want to help you get better.
Honest question, every bmh worker I have dealt with mostly tells the patient "you are not trying hard enough" would you also say that to a cancer patient? (Btw, meditation, journaling, crafts, eating right (not eating when I can not afford good food). Still not good enough?)
Load More Replies...The only reason you survive break checking a tractor trailer is because the driver needs to keep their job. Even with a dash cam it's not a given that we won't be found at fault. Your vehicle (yes even your jacked up obnoxious pick up "truck") may as well be made of tin foil. You've no idea the self control and reflexes it takes to not just drive over you for being an idiot putting the lives of everyone around you at risk.
from someone who works by taking art commissions: please be specific about what you want—no it's not rude to show us the exact pose you'd like! that's actually a major help! art isn't magic, it needs instructions—if you're unhappy with the sketch you're shown, say something before I pour hours of work into lines and coloring! don't complain once I'm done with it because there's nothing I can really do at that point
Here's one for ya: Digital and traditional artists don't make a lot of money unless they put in a few years of good, solid practice, and being with the right audience. I cannot tell you how many people don't realize that just because You draw well and have a few fans it means nothing without a presence and a firm grasp of the craft. Even if your art is considered bad, you're still rooted in those years of trying, you may just not be in the right place, forum, or site.
CGI artist (student still): No, we cannot just magically turn a bad shot into a good one. If the scene looks good, it means that both the VFX artists and the camera crew did a good job, because a terrible shot will still look bad even with ungodly amounts of visual effects thrown on top of it. Appreciate the camera crew!
The so called material scientist confused me. The US has the world's largest helium reserves and has been selling them off at cut rate prices to avoid the cost of storage. So who is this person?
We don't just put your pcr in a magical machine and get results, we don't just look at random stuff in a microscope and show the doctor, we don't just draw your blood, put it in a bag, and just transfer it to someone else. We are also healthcare professionals know perfectly and diagnose based on your samples, we don't just pick up some fancy machine and use it, even through years of working with centrifuges, if I get a new one, I have to read the entire manual because medical equipment is delicate and all manufacturers are different, pcr is a much more complex process, no machine does the work, machines are just tools for us to analyze the samples, separate, calculate and everything our works needs to be able to do something so delicate, we are not just there to control the machines, they serve us, not the other way around
In animal rescue: adoption costs are small potatoes compared to the amount of money rescues spend in animals before they can be adopted out. Rescues don't charge that fee to screw over adopters. Most rescues focus on donations to keep running. Complaining about a $500 adoption fee when you just got a fully better animal is ridiculous. Also, a good rescue will work hard to make sure you're adopting an animal will fit in your home. If the fosters rejects you, it doesn't mean your bad. It just means they it wasn't the best fit.
This was mostly ill written garbage. I think I'm done with this garbage site??!!!!!
No not on the computer playing games I'm usually charting. Looking at test results, your medical history, the meds you are using etc.