“Not Everything Needs To Connect To The Internet”: 40 Young People Share What Things Boomers Might Be Right About
“Okay, Boomer.”
This phrase has become notorious on the internet over the past few years as a response to boomers who say condescending, politically incorrect or presumptuous things to younger generations. But perhaps today we can look at it in a new light. This article might just have you saying, “Okay Boomer. You have a good point there!”
Boomers often get a bad rap for being out of touch or behind the times, but no generation is a monolith. And recently, young Reddit users have been admitting some of the things they can get behind boomers on. From hating loud music in restaurants and shops to begging for actual buttons in their cars, rather than those frustrating touch screens, boomers aren’t the only ones who sometimes want things done the old fashioned way. Below, you'll also find interviews we were lucky enough to receive from Wendy Green, host of the Hey, Boomer! podcast, and Jean Mader and Laura Bettinger, hosts of the OK Boomer podcast.
So be sure to upvote the responses you agree with, and feel free to share anything else you think the boomers are right about in the comments (don’t worry, we won’t tell your fellow millennials/gen zers!). Then if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda piece that might make you realize how much you have in common with boomers, we recommend reading this article next!
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Googling recipes while cooking and having to read everyone’s life story and family history to get to the ingredients drives me bats**t insane.
I’ve gone back to cookbooks.
If there's not a "jump to recipe" button, I'm not even considering scrolling to the recipe.
I love technology as much as the next person, and I really am not sure how I would have functioned had I been born several decades earlier than I was. Traveling to foreign countries or taking road trips without having Google Maps and the option to text or call for help in the palm of my hand? Yeah, no thanks. But even I have to admit that the boomers are right about some things.
Menus do not need to be a QR code. Music in businesses should not be so loud that I have to shout across the table to my partner, and oh my god, no I will not get a smart watch. I don’t care how many steps you’ve walked today, Brenda. I look at my watch to see what time it is. We’re all going to be old one day, so there’s no need to judge our elders (aka the boomers) for not understanding or getting on board with certain technological advances. After all, some people might find it charming that they couldn’t meet their significant others on Tinder and that they might have no idea what a TikTok is.
I’m not downloading a f*****g app to use your menu
Not everything needs to connect to the internet or have an app attached to it. I just want my fridge to keep s**t cold, I don't understand why we have to bring WiFi into this situation.
To gain some insight on this topic, we reached out to Wendy Green, host of the Hey, Boomer! podcast. Wendy is a boomer herself, but she told Bored Panda, "I think we actually have a lot in common with the younger generation, particularly the Gen Z group who (at least from my perspective) seem to be more focused on activism."
She also shared that Hey, Boomer! was born 3-weeks after the pandemic shut everything down. "I knew that people in the Boomer generation were going to be hit particularly hard by the loss of jobs, and there is an ageist bias that makes it much more difficult to find a new job as you get older. So, my intention was to help people in the 55-75 year old range to recognize that we are still relevant, we still have a lot to give and encourage them to stay engaged."
"Many of us were very active politically when we were younger," Wendy explained. "Many of us are re-engaging in that activism and working with young people is a win for all of us. My show also features guests that are reinventing themselves after leaving full time careers, finding adventures and facing challenges. It is a pretty cool show."
just about the furthest left leaning guy you’ll find, and i’m pretty against cancel culture. in theory i understand it, & think it should still be “used” w people like kanye west. but when we’re digging YEARS back to find something someone tweeted once when they were 16… that seems a little unfair. i held opinions at 16 that i now think are silly at 25. people change, they shouldn’t be immediately crucified.
If you don't have some dumb attitudes before you're 25, you're not 'normal'. After that, it's then a refusal to review those attitudes that becomes your problem.
I don’t need a subscription for everything. No you don’t need my phone number or email just let me buy my shirt and get the f**k out of the store
Most features in cars should have buttons. Want to turn on your heated seat, button, not scroll through three screens.
Very distracting indeed when you look through 4 screens to figure out how to lower the temperature. Some cars are better than others.
But Wendy is not a fan of using our generational titles to divide us. "I do think we put too much emphasis on the differences between generations," she told Bored Panda. "Each generation is shaped by the events that occurred in their life times. I think learning from each other is the better approach rather that isolating and making fun or different generations. I always cringe when I hear people speak negatively about any one generation. We are all individuals. It does not make sense to generalize. I encourage people to look at their own internal biases and attempt to build conversations and relationships with all age groups. It takes away the feelings of 'the other'.”
If you'd like to hear more words of wisdom from Wendy and check out her podcast Hey, Boomer!, be sure to visit her website right here!
You should be able to live and sustain a family off of one income!
When you’re in a public place you should respect others around you but not being disruptive with your behavior. For example, not playing music on your phone without headphones while on a bus, in a restaurant etc.
That's not old-fashioned, that's just about whether you're a civilised human being or a feral shitbag.
Electronic devices should be repairable. All of them.
Tv's and smartphones should last for at least 10 years. How is that we are all *enviromental friendly* but we switch iPhones every 2 or 3 years?
I went back to France for the first time in two years and was very surprised to see "indices de réparabilité" on all electronic devices and appliances. For those who don't speak French, it is reparability index and means how easy it is to repair something. I don't know how much it influences buyers, but I think it is good to have manufacturers and consumers think about it.
We also reached out to Jean Mader and Laura Bettinger to learn more about this topic. Jean and Laura are two sisters, best friends and boomers who host a podcast called OK Boomer. Awhile back, (hard for Boomers to keep track of time as the years go by so fast, they noted!) Laura started listening to podcasts and announced to Jean, "This seems like fun, we already chat for hours so why not start a podcast?"
"We are blessed with seven Millennial children and their Millennial partners between us," Jean and Laura told Bored Panda. "We consider ourselves experts regarding 'Boomers and Millennials and everyone in between', so boom, the OK Boomer Podcast was born. We launched our podcast in early 2020, thanks to Pat Rullo at SpeakUpTalkRadio."
You should really put your phone down when you're out to eat with people. Maybe it's because I grew up with that rule but I know when I'm getting lunch with a friend or something I find it incredibly irritating when they're on their phone
Edit: holy s**t my first award??
I want a human customer service operator not an automated operator or chat bot.
As a person with lots of experience in Customer Service/ Helpdesk: this is the future. ALL corporations are drooling for a proper AI that correctly recognises voices. As soon as a good one is on the market, thousands of people will loose their jobs, on top of other administrative tasks being moved to southeast asia to cut the costs even further
Music in bars is too loud.
(Edit to add that I've been a touring musician and live sound technician. I love music but it actually sounds better at lower volumes, and I want to be able to hear it in to my old age)
Loud music turns into a mush. You can no longer distinguish the nuances from it and your ears hurt. Who wants to purposely be uncomfortable and suffer from tinnitus for the rest of their lives? The music is too loud even in shops, not to mention the cinema. I read a while ago that a woman suffering from misophonia found a solution in earplugs intended for this, which dampen the sound, but not as much as traditional earplugs. Sounds heavenly.
"The name of our podcast is based on the retort, 'OK, Boomer' which is often used to mock Baby Boomers and those who are perceived as old-fashioned and being out-of-touch," Jean and Laura shared. "We podcast twice a month, and we try to find the humor and joy of living this life. Listen in as we encourage all Boomers, Millennials and everyone in between to be happily okay together."
We were curious if there's anything boomers typically get made fun of for that Jean and Laura actually agree with. "Hey, we love to make fun of ourselves," they shared. "And we understand that Millennials are spot-on about many things we Boomers do our say. But no matter what our Millennials tell us, we are still going to carry cash, because electronic wallets befuddle us."
"Yes, we know we can text businesses and restaurants, but we would rather call a person," Jean and Laura noted. "Uber and Lyft are indeed beyond us. Ordering fast food online and picking it up, or having it delivered is very confusing and stressful for us. We’ve had computers and smartphones for 25 years now, and we still need our kids to help us reboot them. Or explain what those funny symbols are that we can’t really see without our glasses. And don’t put us in a Granny Flat!"
Not everyone deserves a trophy. You SHOULD experience failure and disappointment in life. It's a teaching experience, stop getting so p**sy when you don't automatically get your way.
It is, however, perfectly natural to feel sad, angry, disappointed, whatever when you do experience that failure. Don't take it out on other people, but don't deny the emotion either.
Couldn't have said it better myself. When you teach the little ones how to deal with the inevitable dissapointments, you give them the tools to be functional adults.
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this is the problem that parents cause. I dont know a single kid who asked for that trophy. its the parents.
My daughter was on a competition cheer team. We came in like 5-6 place and they still got a trophy. My daughter said "why did we get a trophy,? Kids know that anything past 3rd doesn't deserve a trophy
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Totally agree! You learn life lessons by losing. It taught me resilience and to work harder to get that trophy next time by winning the damn thing.
Participation trophies were invented by the parents. Don't blame the people who were trained to expect them and do better with your own kids.
I know more adults that were screwed up by parents that told them they didn't deserve a reward for trying because they weren't good enough than adults who were praised for their effort. Read any parenting book: they all say you will raise a stronger child by rewarding their efforts instead of their results. Being praised for trying and failing never makes children complacent - in fact it makes them feel more safe and resolved to try again. If kids only feel like their parents will be proud of them if they succeed and disappointed if they don't, then you're more likely to teach them it's too dangerous to try and fail. Rewarding effort makes them feel safe regardless of outcome - safe enough to keep trying and trying until they do succeed.
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"The only experience that's a failure is the one you don't learn from." - me (to all my students)
That was what I was raised with. Everything else was a learning experience.
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How can you improve if you don't get called out when it's wrong? I get the concept but in practice it's turned into no one must be told they are wrong or they might get hurt or worse yet, their parents have a melt down/law suit cause they know for a fact little Billy can do nothing incorrectly
I'm on the fence about this one. As someone who always tried their hardest, and never saw any benefit from it... it made me feel pretty useless. Worthless. So getting SOMETHING every now and then that acknowledged that effort would have been nice.
We are seriously doing our children a disservice with this b******t. Kids NEED to know that you will not always win, you will not always be first choice and you will not be great at everything or get recognized for everything. They need to experience disappointment and how to lose gracefully. Yes its important to always try your best but its important for them to know that things will not always go their way and that its OK. There kids are in for a rude awakening once they get in the real world and experience their first no or failure if parents and society keeps this up
That kind of thinking is what led to a generation who gets "triggered" at the slightest provocation and believes that society should cater to their feelings.
My generation was the generation of participation trophies growing up and I hated it back then as much as I do now.
Depends on the age. Children should be celebrated and praised for everything. If you want to give them mental and emotional problems in their adult life, then by all means, tell them that they only deserve to be praised if they're producing results you see as satisfactory. You know what ... I take it back, even adults deserve to be appreciated no matter the outcome of their attempts are. Our society is too f***ing judgemental. Tell people they're great for trying - that will make them KEEP TRYING This wasn't the main point they were making, but I do agree that there is nothing wrong with failure and disappointment. I'm saying that you can praise children (and adults) for their effort instead of their results. If you teach a kid that effort doesn't matter and they will only earn rewards if they succeed, then you're teaching them that it might be safer to NOT TRY. Participation trophies are proven to teach kids to keep trying more than winner-only trophies
I somewhat agree, but then again I remember being one of the only kids not even getting the lowest of the low certificate on our sport event in elementary school despite trying my best. I of course learned that I still tried and that was what mattered. But honestly I just wanted something for trying so hard (I was about 7-10 years old back then) Once I was 12 we all got certificates when we participated, it felt rewarding, but honestly it didn't change anything. The kids that wanted to do well did their best and sometimes failed, and others didn't even try. I personally think it is important to encourage children, teenagers and even adults that even if they failed they can try again.
Competition breeds greatness. Giving a trophy for just playing breeds indifference and complacency.
Sets up a failure in society. You don't get a job with everyone, you don't get a consolation car when the loan fails. Just stop, there are winners and losers
There will be winners and losers in life. The softies need to acknowledge this fact and adapt to survive, not try to force the world to adapt to their tender feelings.
Very important lesson...also disappointments happen. No matter how hard you try things will not always go your way. Makes you appreciate it better when they do go right.
Tell that to preschooler parents and kids. They had been raising ruckus and entitled demands even for not getting a sticker.
I feel sorry for people who come up against bullies, manipulators, predators, etc. They won't be able to cope.
I got one participation trophy, for junior high sports. It motivated me to excel at the next thing, and I graduated from high school with the John Philip Sousa Award (for musical excellence).
Although I agree with this as a parent and as a former teacher, I would like to assume that your asterisked word is patsy. Some words are gratuitous.
This↑↑ My brother in law did this to me when I was 14 and played rec basketball with his team.... He had a favorite player and it made all of us feel like s**t when he got trophy's for all of us when we didn't deserved it we didn't have a chance to try to shine on tge court just his favorite player.... This was back in 94 and yeah I totally agree this is something you should never do!
You will fail many times in your life, but you will never be a failure until you start blaming others.
Edison didn't fail to make the incandescent light bulb, he figure out 2,000 ways not to make a light bulb.
There's multiple books on this topic. This entry is basically about fixed mindset vs growth mindset. It's really interesting, actually
No one knows how to give constructive criticism in a way that doesn't make people feel bad about themselves
Right. So we should praise our children for trying and failing right? So they feel safe to keep trying and failing. Like, maybe we could reward their effort with some kind of... Participation trophy. Ohhh, wait a minute... It's almost like that's the whole point of the participation trophy, is to tell them that were great for TRYING and not to feel bad about failing, so that they aren't afraid of making mistakes, so they can always keep growing.
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Didn't get the sensored word right at first, and couldn't figure out how someone could get so..um.."cat-like" when they didn't automatically get their way 😆
Everyone makes mistakes. The difference between an amateur and a professional is that the professional knows how to correct his mistakes. The amateur has to call in the professional.
Certain things shouldn't require you to download an app and/or create a whole account, including:
- Ordering food in a restaurant
- Paying for parking
- Buying something online
- Sending a parcel
I don’t really know if this is a boomer opinion per say but you don’t need to document everything thing you do and post it to your social media. Sometimes it’s better to just live in the moment and enjoy what’s happening around you
We also asked Jean and Laura if they disagree with anything Boomers often say or believe. "At this point in our lives, we are ready to love everyone," they told Bored Panda. "But we do think Boomers should be more like Millennials when it comes to taking care of your physical and mental health. Millennials are not 'snowflakes', they are just not as 'seasoned' as us oldies."
If you’re walking on a crowded sidewalk, get off your f*****g phone it’s not the job of other pedestrians to avoid you while you make your vlog. Awareness of your surroundings is important.
I prefer physical menus over QR codes.
Physical keyboards are better than virtual keyboards.
Jean and Laura just want to see all generations living in harmony. "We put too much emphasis on generational differences, we can all learn and grow from each other. We truly adore our Millennial children and friends and love learning from them, keeps life interesting, maybe keeps us young! And 'Wordle' unites us all!"
"We live in beautiful Ohio," they also shared. "In fact, Laura played the piano and recorded the opening music you hear at the start of each podcast episode. The song is 'Beautiful Ohio'- the official song of our state. We want everyone to have a beautiful life. Oh and we tried the Tik Tok Balsamic Vinegar & Sparkling Water Coke Hack challenge on our podcast!"
If you'd like to hear more from these fun ladies, be sure to check out the OK, Boomer podcast right here!
It’s ok if you’re non-binary, but it’s also ok if that notion takes a little bit of getting used to for the rest of us.
Also, the amount of attention this issue gets is *far* out of proportion to the scope of the actual issue.
yep, it's something like 2% in firstworld countries and almost non-existent in others.
Basic home appliances (fridge, washer/dryer, etc) do NOT need a touch screen
Or internet connection. Why should the NSA know what's in my fridge?
Screw fast fashion, my clothes should be made to last.
I’m not rich so it’s unavoidable, but I’m willing to spend extra on clothes that aren’t made of plastic and I do my best to repair my damaged clothing instead of throwing it out.
Some cheap pieces can last very long time (but may not be sustainable), some expensive clothes are of poor quality (and not sustainable as well), you have to keep eyes open.
Are you suddenly feeling like your vision and hearing aren’t working as well as they used to? Do you feel immediate rage when you can’t figure out how to work a new piece of technology? Do you not understand TikTok and why the young people are obsessed with it? You might have more in common with boomers than you think! Keep upvoting the responses that you resonate with, and let us know in the comments if you think the boomers have made some good points about anything else. Then if you want to check out Bored Panda’s last article on this same topic after you’re finished with this list, you can find another piece featuring things that are better done the “old-fashioned way” right here.
Things aren’t made like they used to be. Everything you buy now is so cheaply manufactured. Even high end furniture uses cheap particle board and crappy joinery. We bought a pretty high end couch a few years back and it’s barely holding together.
Edit: thanks everyone for commenting and thank you for the award! I’ve been on Reddit since 2008 and have never had a comment get this much action
Standard headlights on new automobiles are too bright. Literally being blinded by every other car DURING THE DAYTIME wondering if their brights are on
LED headlights when they fail. Old headlights much simpler, bulb fails, get bulb and replace but thanks to LED tech so many headlights need to be fully replaced and dumping the whole unit is just so wasteful when you have all the companies talking about how environmental their cars are. Things should be more modular.
Turn the music down, no, you don’t have “excellent taste in music” and nobody wants to hear it. Stop being jerks.
TV is getting too dark. Not emotionally - it is visually too dark and I can’t see it
Okay, but "emotionally" is true, too. Like 80% of the modern media are those bleak grimdark craps without a shred of positivity and sincerity which think that "mature" means "extreme violence, gore and erotica".
I prefer reading on paper, not on screen
I'm a boomer, and i love physical books. But i also love my Kindle. I can carry dozens and dozens of books with me. If, for some reason, i don't feel like reading THAT one right now, i can take a look at THIS one.
You are a clueless idiot if you pay 150$ for a concert ticket and spend the whole time watching it on your cell phone.
And if you’re holding up your phone/tablet and blocking my view doing so, I will kick you lightly in the back of the knee
The sheer amount of younger people I’ve seen with horrible people/social/conversational skills blows my mind, and I firmly believe it is greatly in part due to phones and social media.
Boomers always say s**t like “go play outside, interact with the world, spend less time on your phone” etc etc and I wholehearted agree.
A lot of products *were* made better in the past.
Pyrex is a prime example but there's thousands more.
Planned obsolescence as a consequence of prioritizing quarterly profits over customer satisfaction is another nail in the coffin of this current version of the economy we live in.
My grandfather taught my dad who taught me, how to build furniture. Handcrafted, dove tail joints, real wood not particle board....I'm teaching my son how to now as well. Owning all the furniture my dad made for me and my son, now that dad passed away, is priceless to me. Plus it's things that'll last FOREVER
If you have shared walls or live in an apartment building, you need to respect quiet hours of 10pm - 8am.
I get so grumpy if my building neighbors are loud past 10pm.
Even if you DON'T have shared walls. No one in a house wants to hear the rowdy party down the street.
Just because you CAN say something, doesn’t mean you SHOULD. Think twice, speak once. I’m only 28, raised by my father who was 39 years older than me. Just seems like people pop off at the mouth way faster than in previous generations.
All these comments make me feel much younger now, glad I wasn’t the only one who got the old school raising.
I really don't want to hear about anybody's sex life in graphic detail
They slip it in and beat it about, ramming their sex life down our throats. They should think long and hard before just whipping it in to the conversation. We should stop beating about the bush and tell them "NO' they are a pain in the a*s with it.
Family dinners with everyone sitting down, eating and talking, no tv and no phones are essential
Having to create a username and password to join just about anything online is a royal pain in the a*s
Good gravy this got way more attention that I was expecting. I will check out Password Manager seeing as it is highly recommended.
For the record-I often see boomers much more fed up with computer requirements that require jumping through hoops more than younger generations. I don't think younger generations love these irritating requirements but if anyone feels this is not a boomer opinion I really don't have the energy or care enough to argue
tipping has gotten out of control- coming from someone who relies on tips for income. it hurts people who actually should be getting them because now people are extremely agitated about any and all tipping. i was just at a music festival and the guy who exchanges your cash for drink tickets (not even the person who pours the beverage) had an ipad with tip options starting at 18%
Where will this tipping situation end... getting a circumcision and leaving the doctor a tip...OK, bad example
Sometimes it's faster (and easier) to just plug something in, instead of dealing with bluetooth connectivity. There's something nice about knowing how to get it connected and being able to physically connect/disconnect.
Charging your phone is indeed faster with a cable than over Bluetooth.
Language has evolved really quickly and what's socially acceptable changes every year. I'm with the boomers in that if we use language that is outdated, please assume ignorance not malice! I accidentally used a slur a few years ago that is common in my community (referring to eye shape) and had no idea it was a slur until someone told me...thankfully kindly and privately. I do wish the assumption was "you probably didn't know this but..." and not "YOU ARE A BIGOT!"
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Perhaps it's my TV/ soundbar combo but I've noticed over the last few years that volume levels on TV shows and movies are all over the place. By that I mean you will be watching a scene with someone talking and it's at a comfortable sound level then some background music plays or there's a gunshot and it's as if the volume has suddenly jumped up to window shaking levels. It's seems I spend most of the time turning the volume up or down depending on what's happening on screen.
A lot of mumbling too with overly loud background music. Then you get told to get your hearing checked but the clock ticking in the other room can still be heard by yourself.
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Also - the current world makes it very hard for the elderly, with the expectation that everyone has a smart phone and access to the internet/ and can use it, even a phone call with options to choose from can be too much for them. Please be aware and support where it's needed!!
It's also highly discriminatory against people with visual or learning difficulties.
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Nokia smartphones have this feature (yes, Nokia makes smartphones!)
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Teach your children manners - they still make a difference- also teaches respect
When your SEXUALITY walks in a room before you do. Every time, Every where. Hi, I'm bi-sexual... and my name is He/She spelled with an Xi. Goes to work? Hi, I'm Trans gender so It's against the rules if you don't want to listen to me talk about MY SEXUALITY Goes to the gas station? NO ONE cares if you need to pee... But if you have size 50 GGG size boobs stuck any where on your body and have Viking braids in your beard your not going in there with my kids or my Grannie. And if you go in there with ME, I'm going to fight you for the big stall. Sick of peoples SEXUALITY being their PERSONALITY.
THIS!! So many sites make you give your email just to LOOK at their stuff, then they abuse it with a daily bombarding of ads, like they think they are the only site sending you stuff so you shouldn't mind. Of course, I unsubscribe after I receive my items, but then when another interesting ad comes up in my feed, I have to give them the email AGAIN just to look. It's become such a pain on so many sites that I just don't shop where they ask for email anymore. Instead, I take the description of the item that caught my attention and search to find somewhere else to buy it. I hope they all lose business this way.
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Holding a door open. An actual store to shop in. Actual customer service. Not having to tip for everything I'm doing to serve myself. Not taking surveys everywhere. Rewards programs that I've only used your store once and now my email gets everything. Just applying to a job and getting an interview. Not 3k questions they are on the resume. Cursive handwriting. Ya kids can type at age 4 now but writing a beautiful card by hand over printing it out is better
Oh dear. You were doing so well and then you threw in the thing about cursive. Some things just aren't relevant to teach any more. Do you know how to use a slide rule or logarithm tables? How about correct use of a writing slate? These were the previous complaints by older generations about "the youth of today".
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These aren't things boomers say, they're things everybody says. Keep ageism out of it.
What is clear is people don't know what the Boomer generation is. If you were born between 1946 and 1964, you qualify. If not, you are something else. If your Boomer parent is telling you to go outside and play, the youngest they are is 58.
1: I need to try on all my outfits and shoes. I hate clothing stores that don't tell me if an object is in the store, until I've clicked on it. I'm NOT buying it if I can't try it on first. 2: Job sites assuming you can drive- so they end up giving you jobs 30 minutes away from home- or if you ask for a city with transit- they end up giving you something that isn't in reach of bus. 3: I'd much rather get my new bank card at the bank- instead of it being mailed to me. Same with Driver's License and ID"s, it's easier to go in person.
Most of these were spot on some were repetitive and a couple were just Karen's Karen-ing 🤷🏾 Either way a thoroughly enjoyable read
Can people please stop going to websites on the Internet to complain about the Internet. Go for a walk if it bothers you so much.
Nothing will improve if we don't complain about the things we don't like. Every complaint is an opportunity for someone to develop a better product.
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I think a lot of this is based on moderation/variety. Some people like qr codes and internet fridges, the rest of us want more options. Phones arent great, but learning self control doesn't mean ditching phones completely (prob not even possible in this environment), just learning moderation and other interests.
Never a truer word has been said! So glad I'm not alone with many of these modern day peeves!
I stopped watching TV shows years ago. I might fire it up to watch a movie. I worked as sys admin in IT for 20 years. I have an android phone, friend has an iphone. I hate both phones. The screen is too small, the keyboard is worse. Finding the setting you want to change takes way too long. I just want to make phone calls. I'd use an old Nokia flip phone if I could find anyone that would support it.
I've read all the points and while all are valid, I noticed one was missing. Actually two. One, the spelling nowadays has become atrocious and two, if I one more incorrect usage of 's in a professional setting, I'm going to have a meltdown right then and there! It's Birthdays, not Birthday's people! Come on!
I agreed with every one. It's very refreshing to be on the side of righteousness for a change. Yes, I'm being snarky, but I do agree with them all. Mostly because they promulgate common sense and consideration for others which helps the world go around more smoothly. Enjoyable read to know others feel similarly.
How about - I shouldn't have to use my credentials to up vote on your silly little poll.
The decline in morals and socially acceptable behavior astounds me. I'm 50. When I was growing up stealing was wrong. Now people "show-off" in riots as they destroy property and take whatever they want. Sex scenes were tame in the movies and on t.v. Now they're extremely graphic. And when did we all agree that the f-word was ok to use everyday in every sentence? It's supposed to be used when you really mean it, when you're really mad or just nailed your thumb to the roof, etc. The examples of what I'm talking about are endless, and these are just simplistic examples of a few. Must everything/everyone be so crude?
I don't think I should occasionally get a notification in my phone's personal notification bar. Like how in the world does McDonald's have the money or power to do that and just randomly push a noti on my phone in MY NOTI BAR for their fries??? Advertising is effing wild now and way too persistent and harsh.
My boomer dad doesn't seem to mind all these things I/we find annoying. I can't stand so much unnecessary tech. It's obnoxious at this point.
Perhaps it's my TV/ soundbar combo but I've noticed over the last few years that volume levels on TV shows and movies are all over the place. By that I mean you will be watching a scene with someone talking and it's at a comfortable sound level then some background music plays or there's a gunshot and it's as if the volume has suddenly jumped up to window shaking levels. It's seems I spend most of the time turning the volume up or down depending on what's happening on screen.
A lot of mumbling too with overly loud background music. Then you get told to get your hearing checked but the clock ticking in the other room can still be heard by yourself.
Load More Replies... Also - the current world makes it very hard for the elderly, with the expectation that everyone has a smart phone and access to the internet/ and can use it, even a phone call with options to choose from can be too much for them. Please be aware and support where it's needed!!
It's also highly discriminatory against people with visual or learning difficulties.
Load More Replies... Notification lights on older phones. You'd put your phone down on the table etc, the little LED would blink if you had a message or if your battery was running low but now it seems they are a thing of the past on so many phones meaning you have to pick the phone up, activate the screen just to see if a message came through you were waiting for.
Nokia smartphones have this feature (yes, Nokia makes smartphones!)
Load More Replies... Teach your children manners - they still make a difference- also teaches respect
When your SEXUALITY walks in a room before you do. Every time, Every where. Hi, I'm bi-sexual... and my name is He/She spelled with an Xi. Goes to work? Hi, I'm Trans gender so It's against the rules if you don't want to listen to me talk about MY SEXUALITY Goes to the gas station? NO ONE cares if you need to pee... But if you have size 50 GGG size boobs stuck any where on your body and have Viking braids in your beard your not going in there with my kids or my Grannie. And if you go in there with ME, I'm going to fight you for the big stall. Sick of peoples SEXUALITY being their PERSONALITY.
THIS!! So many sites make you give your email just to LOOK at their stuff, then they abuse it with a daily bombarding of ads, like they think they are the only site sending you stuff so you shouldn't mind. Of course, I unsubscribe after I receive my items, but then when another interesting ad comes up in my feed, I have to give them the email AGAIN just to look. It's become such a pain on so many sites that I just don't shop where they ask for email anymore. Instead, I take the description of the item that caught my attention and search to find somewhere else to buy it. I hope they all lose business this way.
Load More Replies... Holding a door open. An actual store to shop in. Actual customer service. Not having to tip for everything I'm doing to serve myself. Not taking surveys everywhere. Rewards programs that I've only used your store once and now my email gets everything. Just applying to a job and getting an interview. Not 3k questions they are on the resume. Cursive handwriting. Ya kids can type at age 4 now but writing a beautiful card by hand over printing it out is better
Oh dear. You were doing so well and then you threw in the thing about cursive. Some things just aren't relevant to teach any more. Do you know how to use a slide rule or logarithm tables? How about correct use of a writing slate? These were the previous complaints by older generations about "the youth of today".
Load More Replies... These aren't things boomers say, they're things everybody says. Keep ageism out of it.
What is clear is people don't know what the Boomer generation is. If you were born between 1946 and 1964, you qualify. If not, you are something else. If your Boomer parent is telling you to go outside and play, the youngest they are is 58.
1: I need to try on all my outfits and shoes. I hate clothing stores that don't tell me if an object is in the store, until I've clicked on it. I'm NOT buying it if I can't try it on first. 2: Job sites assuming you can drive- so they end up giving you jobs 30 minutes away from home- or if you ask for a city with transit- they end up giving you something that isn't in reach of bus. 3: I'd much rather get my new bank card at the bank- instead of it being mailed to me. Same with Driver's License and ID"s, it's easier to go in person.
Most of these were spot on some were repetitive and a couple were just Karen's Karen-ing 🤷🏾 Either way a thoroughly enjoyable read
Can people please stop going to websites on the Internet to complain about the Internet. Go for a walk if it bothers you so much.
Nothing will improve if we don't complain about the things we don't like. Every complaint is an opportunity for someone to develop a better product.
Load More Replies... Went to PF Chang's only to have to download the menu. We won't be back between that and the ugly makeover
I think a lot of this is based on moderation/variety. Some people like qr codes and internet fridges, the rest of us want more options. Phones arent great, but learning self control doesn't mean ditching phones completely (prob not even possible in this environment), just learning moderation and other interests.
Never a truer word has been said! So glad I'm not alone with many of these modern day peeves!
I stopped watching TV shows years ago. I might fire it up to watch a movie. I worked as sys admin in IT for 20 years. I have an android phone, friend has an iphone. I hate both phones. The screen is too small, the keyboard is worse. Finding the setting you want to change takes way too long. I just want to make phone calls. I'd use an old Nokia flip phone if I could find anyone that would support it.
I've read all the points and while all are valid, I noticed one was missing. Actually two. One, the spelling nowadays has become atrocious and two, if I one more incorrect usage of 's in a professional setting, I'm going to have a meltdown right then and there! It's Birthdays, not Birthday's people! Come on!
I agreed with every one. It's very refreshing to be on the side of righteousness for a change. Yes, I'm being snarky, but I do agree with them all. Mostly because they promulgate common sense and consideration for others which helps the world go around more smoothly. Enjoyable read to know others feel similarly.
How about - I shouldn't have to use my credentials to up vote on your silly little poll.
The decline in morals and socially acceptable behavior astounds me. I'm 50. When I was growing up stealing was wrong. Now people "show-off" in riots as they destroy property and take whatever they want. Sex scenes were tame in the movies and on t.v. Now they're extremely graphic. And when did we all agree that the f-word was ok to use everyday in every sentence? It's supposed to be used when you really mean it, when you're really mad or just nailed your thumb to the roof, etc. The examples of what I'm talking about are endless, and these are just simplistic examples of a few. Must everything/everyone be so crude?
I don't think I should occasionally get a notification in my phone's personal notification bar. Like how in the world does McDonald's have the money or power to do that and just randomly push a noti on my phone in MY NOTI BAR for their fries??? Advertising is effing wild now and way too persistent and harsh.
My boomer dad doesn't seem to mind all these things I/we find annoying. I can't stand so much unnecessary tech. It's obnoxious at this point.
