“Age, Past 35”: 46 Things That Are Normal For Men But Taboo When Women Do Them
Depending on whether you're a man or a woman, the way you walk through this life can be wildly different. In 2017, Pew asked Americans what qualities they value most in men and in women.
Perhaps unsurprisingly, most respondents said that physical attractiveness, being nurturing, and being empathetic are the top traits for women. For men, the top three are honesty, morality, and professional success.
It seems like we all still have a long way to go when it comes to traditional gender roles. For instance, there are a lot of things men think women might never understand about being a man.
But this time, we're shining a light on the things that are deemed normal when men do it, but somehow weird if a woman does it. We've found the most interesting answers from folks in the thread where one netizen asked: " What are men allowed to do but when women do it it's a big no-no?" and present them to you here!
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Have five kids across three spouses, cheat notoriously, pay [adult workers], defend sexual [attack], while being bankrolled by a guy with 14 kids with 6 women, mostly out of wedlock.
Leave most of the parenting to the other partner.
A parent can still be a deadbeat despite living in the same household and still be in a relationship with the other parent. If more people viewed in this perspective maybe society will understand how twisted we treat mothers.
As a childfree older woman, I was always about just... leaving parenting altogether for people who actually want to be parents. Any pushback on my body, my life, my choices told me exactly who that person was, and they were just immdiately dropped. No regrets.
sadly enough you have people who have kids because they feel like its a right, or to pass down the family name or to have someone to take care of you when you get old - but dont want to have to actually take responsibility. and more often than not the guy is the one who can dip out :/
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Have pockets large enough to hold things.
This has gotta be a conspiracy, it's so crazy that women's clothing has such terrible small pockets (or no pockets at all). I think if men had to deal with that, we'd definitely carry purses ourselves, lol.
I 100% believe the conspiracy theory that women's pockets are small to make them buy more handbags and keep the handbag's industry alive.
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Make choices about their reproductive health.
Advocate. Advocate. Advocate for yourself. If you're not feeling supported by one doctor, seek out another, and keep doing that until you find one that actually listens.
In this case I believe it is about the state/country taking away your reproductive health options.
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Enjoy bodily autonomy.
Enjoy it, and hype it up. Again, anyone who pushes back can be dropped without feeling bad at all. Anyone who pushes back is, IMO, outing themselves as a predator, or if it's a woman, someone with really pathetic internalized misogyny.
When was the last time America drafted its soldiers. And by the way, the taco gubment just made it less safe to be a female soldier, just today.
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Walk alone at night.
This is entirely dependent on where you live. I have no fears walking in my area at night.
Show anger. Men get respect, women get called emotional.
And that's if we're lucky - if we're unlucky, we get called hormonal or crazy.
Yeah, I don't know any man who gets respect for losing his temper. Case in point, we had a Zoom meeting at work recently and one of the senior VPs was on the call, losing his mind over something that definitely didn't require that sort of response (although even if it did, I still don't think it would've been appropriate). After he left the call, several of us -- mostly the guys -- called him out for being unprofessional and melodramatic.
Good for you. Åsshole behaviour needs to be called out.
Load More Replies...Show anger, but do so when it makes the biggest impact. Constant anger gets ignored. Choose your moment, and showing anger as a woman is nothing but power. Society fears women's anger precisely because it is so powerful and devastating.
Be topless.
This has always dumbstruck me. There are men out there with bigger breasts than some women. We all have nipples, but somehow a woman's is shameful. Some men I would prefer to not see them topless.
Cos the bewbs on men are gross and ugly. On women, they are a magical thing. Don’t know why, but we are mesmerized by them and behave stupidly when we see them in public.
Load More Replies...I heard that in Scotland, people assigned man at birth but transitioning to women have staged a topless protest. If the police arrest them for indecent exposure, they have to agree that they are arresting women, because male chest nudity is not a crime in the UK. If on the other hand the police want to consider them as men, they can't be arrested. Checkmate and genius.
The sad thing isn't that women can't go topless, it's that they'd have to be out of their minds to do so. It's been legal in Canada for decades but I've never seen a single woman do it. There'd be instant harassment, if not violence. Personally, I'd say that I don't want to see 99.9% of the people in the world topless. Even a misanthrope like me would never subject humanity to the war crime that is my upper body.
Even as a male, I never understand this. My best guess is because for females they actually do something.
I'll never forget when my granddaughter was maybe 5 years old and we saw a man running with no shirt on. She was stunned, like "Grandma, he's naked!".He wasn't really but her reaction was priceless.
Opt out of participating in family function planning scheduling. A husband/man can just not participate and no one bats an eye. But if the in laws reach out to organize Thanksgiving/Christmas/summer/family traditions and she doesn’t respond or jump into happily planning she is a “[jerk] that is trying to steal our son/brother/friend”.
And her parents wouldn’t reach out to him to expect him to plan. She gets the privilege of doing both sides of the family.
The way to avoid that is to live a long way away from both families.
My former in-laws were so prickly that I had my husband do any planning that involved them.
Load More Replies...I was married twice for 25 years and somehow got very lucky and never had to do this. First time, first husband lived a long way away, both parents were dead, and he had a step-father he was NC with for good reason. Second time, (now late) husband was a natural social planner, and he enjoyed it, so it worked for us. You CAN step back, and that's the lesson here.
Not know how to do basic life skills.
If a man doesn’t know how to clean, cook, do laundry etc women are expected to do it for them and/or their mothers are blamed for not teaching it
Women are just not allowed to not know. If they don’t know they have to figure it out.
This works both ways. Men are expected to know how to wire a plug, change a socket, put up a shelf, or change a tyre, but women aren't. Only today I saw a post of BP where a woman said she "got her boyfriend to change the locks". Why couldn't she do it? And I say that as a fully trained man who can do the cooking, cleaning, laundry, lawn mowing, minor electrical work, small car repairs, and decorating. EVERYONE should be able to do at least some of these things, regardless of gender (and both my stepdaughters know how to change a tyre, by the way).
I agree. However, I think one difference is those type of tasks are infrequent, whereas laundry, cooking, dishes, cleaning the house, etc. are very frequent.
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Not smiling.
Big fan of not smiling here, unless I actually want to, simply because it's such a sexist stereotype, and expected. It's a powerful microfeminist way of pushing back against patriarchy. Highly recommend. It's your face, do with it what you will.
I was actually reprimanded by another woman while walking one day. She yelled at me to "SMILE". I had just lost my mother. As they say, be kind to others. Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about. 💔
This must be a Gilead thing. I live in South Africa and have never been told to smile, not once.
Eat big portions. Men are "hungry," women are "unladylike.".
Man: That's not ladylike!" Woman: "Neither is a blow job but I don't hear you complaining!"
Load More Replies...Again, eat the big portions, and out those who are body shamers and who project their own food issues, then drop them.
Abandon their child. I say this laying on a hospital couch next to my sleeping wife after she just gave birth to our daughter.
Single moms pick up the slack all the time and the farther is just considered a dead beat. If a mother abandoned the family, she is considered vile and heartless.
And often single mums are look down on for being single mums - as if they were ther only ones who could have prevented it.
Oh don’t worry - there are plenty of us Dad’s who do not overlook the actions of deadbeat s***m donors.
Have hair everywhere but their head.
When I shaved my head people asked me if I : Had cancer, went to the military (I was 17), got punished by my parents. They were all dumbfounded when I answered that I just liked having my head shaved. Anyway, my head has been hair-free for 3 years now and it's heaven !
also how hair dressers will pretty much cry or announce it as being brave when a woman wants to cut her hair short omg
Load More Replies...6 months after cancer remission I wanted to "brave the shave". My boss F, told me I would have to buy and wear a wig.
If F wants you to wear a wig, F can F'ing well pay for it. Wigs are expensive.
Load More Replies...I known several women who shaved their heads. You need the right type of personality, but it is certainly low maintenance.
I was determined to rock my bald head when my hair fell out after chemo. But no one tells you that the reason most people wear scarves, hats or wigs is that you feel uncomfortable with no hair. Every little gust of wind feels odd, you put your hand up to brush through your hair and hit bare skin. I couldn't take it and wore a scarf, tied like a doek (rhymes with Babadook), which is what South African black people call a scarf tied the traditional way. I got so many compliments!
Don't of these are ridiculous. Not everyone is treated like this. My wife doesn't shave her armpits or legs and doesn't bother anyone we know myself included
Age, past 35.
Well, I guess the women who've had the privilege and opportunity to live past 35 have broken this rule.
Apparently 40 is the new 60 because the amount of times I've heard that a 40 year old is an old woman... I'm 44 and I still feel young.
Something is about perspective. When I was 20, 40 was old. Now I'm over 40 and I feel most people my age are still in their prime. Well, until I get a random pain when I wake up 😆
Load More Replies...I read somewhere, I know I'm supposed to fear and dread aging, but every year I sink more and more blissfully into this miasma of realness, DGAF, and pleasing myself, and it just rocks so hard... or something like that. I'm 50+, can confirm, 10/10, recommend!
What an odd thing to say. You can't go for a minute without finding some article, photo spread, social media post celebrating women aging gracefully. Pamela Anderson got a movie deal and a return to relevence by constantly yapping about how she's aging naturally and doesn't wear makeup. She's a hero. She's so brave! Meanwhile, the VAST majority of men are Yeah sure, whatever. We didn't really care in the first place. Again, another thing that doesn't really exist anymore but women feel the need to constantly perpetuate.
Have hair on your legs or armpits. Not wanting to be alone with your own kids. Not doing a single chore on days they have to work. Not wearing makeup to important events. Watching something on their phone at events they don't want to be at. Not being ready for kids until their 30s or 40s (even though s***m quality decreases with age).
Now maybe THAT's more likely to cause autism than giving a woman in pain the right medication?
I wish I could upvote this comment more than once!
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Speak up for ourselves in the workplace.
When men do it, they're being confident and decisive and fill in the blank with a positive term.
When women do it, we are being b*tches or, my favorite expression -- we *have a tone*. No man on this earth has ever been told in the workplace that he *has a tone*.
No, I'm a guy, and my last principal told me I had a "tone". When I asked what sort of tone, he had no answer. Never did come up with one. The best response was Philip Marlowe's - "I know. I get a lot of complaints about it. I pace the floor long winter evenings worrying about it. But somehow it never changes."
My mum got told by her boss that she was “loud, cantankerous, rowdy, and dominating.”
Absolutely speak up for yourself! Again, it outs those who are authoritarian (usually without any real understanding of authority), control freaks, tone police, all of which we can do without. And as Michael Largey says, question it, what tone? Explain. Then wait.
And why is this woman wearing a top over her shirt? That looks bizarre!
Yes! I got accused of harrassing and bullying my boss when I spoke up
Not know how to handle their children. This peeves me. How is it women get slated for not being able to handle a tantrum or children’s behaviour but for men it’s just cute….
I've seen men handle tantrums well. Pick them up and out the door. I love seeing all parents do this at the store.
The problem is that men often are to heavy to be lifted out the door when needed? 🙃
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Be president.
Okay, US citizens, when you look at a map try panning your eyes past the boundaries of the USA. You'll discover the vast world of other countries. You can learn about these other countries, where you'll find an assortment of female leaders, including Presidents. That's right. The USA is not the only country with a President. You'll be astonished that there have been, and are, female Presidents.
And possibly be astonished that there have been, and are, other countries!
Load More Replies...I think the issue is that all the female would-be presidents are progressive-minded (and by "issue" I mean "why they don't get elected president in USA"
And sadly, I don't see it happening as long as the Soviet Right is steering US policy.
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Have equal representation in government in the US.
Be president in the US.
Have strong opinions. When men do this, it's normal. When women do this, they are a [jerk], a ball buster, a shrew, etc.
Control what happens to her own body. Make her own reproductive choices. No one tells a man what to do with his testicles. But everyone seems to want to tell a woman what to do with her uterus.
Have lots of [intercourse] with different people. When men do this they are seen as studs and are applauded. When women do this, they are labeled as sluts and denigrated.
My partner has had many different partners in her youth. She has absolutely no shame about it, and nor should she. She has always been highly sexual, and doesn't see it as something to be ashamed of. On the plus side, she loves sêx, and 'goes down faster than a granny on a frosty morning' as she herself quips. I'm not complaining!
Equal representation? Why not vote? Why did a majority of white women voters vote for Trump and Republicans, who took away their choices? Sometimes people are their own worst enemy, just like minimum wage workers who vote for tax cuts for billionaires.
Be a deadbeat parent 😅 heading into year 6 of my kid's 'donor' deciding fatherhood wasn't for him (has since abandoned a second kid too, me and that kid's mum are now best friends and are raising the kids together).
at least you got a new friend out of it if that's any consolation :)
Interrupt men while they’re talking….
Speaking as an introvert, yes this is useful, but just realize it takes energy. I hate it, but I'd much rather just stop talking and wander off while they're mid-sentence, than interrupt, get louder, and have an overt shouting/pissing match that costs me way too much energy. Two interruptions max, it's not accidental, and I just tend to stop talking and start walking.
Exactly. Is it really going to be worth the hassle?
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Scratch our [private stuff] nonchalantly in public.
Dan, why are you here? If every post is upsetting you, why not just move on to a different topic?
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Get called a great parent for doing things with their kid one day a week. Oh and they get to pick the fun weekend things and ignore the boring stuff. Double points if they have a YouTube channel.
My ex practically wanted a parade in his honor for taking out the trash
Sit around on holidays. They might get up to help move a table and chairs but otherwise they get to sit in a recliner all day watching sports while the women do all the work.
Meanwhile if there’s a grown woman in the family sitting for longer than 5 minutes she’s a lazy [jerk] not doing her share of work.
My ex's family, during their gatherings, the men would actually move themselves from the dining room to the living room after the meal and say aloud "We'll let the women clean up." The day we broke up, I lost all his weight and having to deal with his sexist family. I grew up where everyone pitches in.
"We'll *let* the women clean up"??? LET THEM? What, like it's a special treat that women are normally denied, so the men decide to allow them to do the dishes since it's a holiday. Ridiculous!
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Have opinions.
Absolutely have opinions, especially inconvenient opinions, and voice them! Once again, you out those who are old-fashioned, conventional, conservative, backward, sexist, misogynist. Better to know how they really feel, so you can avoid them, drop them, go NC or LC as needed.
Those are not all bad qualities. My maternal grandparents were both old fashioned and conventional, but radically progressive. (They had to flee their homeland because of it.).
Load More Replies...OK dan s, so what is your opinion on whether a s*xily (that's an e if you are confused) dressed woman should be able to walk home alone safely at night? Or can we dim street-lights to save the planet?
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Hide or guard their emotions and feelings.
I've met women who do this much like men, and they always seem to be shunned away from the rest of the girls. .
Oh, we’re allowed—expected—to hide anger, sadness, really any negative emotion. People expect women to be bright and cheery 24/7.
My parents did that to me - now I freak out my psychiatrists by telling them - "Life has no meaning to me" with a constant bright smile😁
Load More Replies...I'm noticing a pattern with a lot of these and it seems like the ones not allowing women to do these things is other women, but I'm guessing the patriarchy is making them do it.
A lot of women throw other women under the bus so they can get mens’ approval. This is nothing new.
Load More Replies...I've been criticized many times for being "cold" by feelers, when I'm very much a thinker, an introvert, and someone who's reserved and private. Let them think that, and feel all their widdle feewings. Criticize me? Then watch me never open up to you, because you're critical, judgmental, and unsafe. I open up in my own good time, and that can't be rushed.
Standing up for yourself. Easy way to get labeled a [jerk].
I'm a hardcore believer in standing up for oneself, precisely because it outs those who are users, losers, abusers, boundary tramplers, sexists, and so on. Do it often and early in relationships to get someone's true character, then make your best decision.
Have a high body count.
I dated a guy for a while who asked me how many previous partners I'd had. When I told him, he was both shocked & disappointed, saying that was far too many. I asked how many he'd had, and he quoted a number literally six times higher than mine - but that was different, he said, because he's a guy. Interestingly enough, the fact that I'd already had "too many" partners didn't stop him from pressuring me for sex.
After a few years of marriage, I mentioned that I had once, as a child, been r***d. He told me that that meant I had lied about the number of men I had slept with. Divorce followed soon after.
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Be ugly/unkempt.
Speaking as a plain/average woman who's been overweight all my life, just giving up on being high femme is liberating. I stopped trying to wear heels late teens/early 20s. I also gave up makeup (except for picture day as a teacher, otherwise I REALLY looked washed out), and never liked dresses. It's liberating to dress comfortably, and just expect people to like and accept me as I am. Never felt a loss for people who expected total femmy presentation. Not my people, not my group, and no loss.
The best thing about being plain & dumpy is that I've never had to worry about "losing my good looks." I've had crow's feet & elevens (vertical frown lines between the eyebrows) since I was a kid, so who cares about another wrinkle now that I'm in my 60s? I sure don't, and my partner of 27 years doesn't, either.
Load More Replies...And too many men abùse the privilege. Ditch the baseball caps, pull up your pants, and throw away the stretched out, stained t-shirts.
Especially the ones where the sweat stains have turned into holes. Please.
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Ask for an abortion.
This is a regional issue. In Canada, women have free will to have an abortion. I'm sure other countries do, as well.
Actually a woman does NOT have the right to an abortion in the UK. She needs the consent of two doctors who must confirm that it will affect her physical or mental health. Now, that's currently a low bar but, give Farage and his ilk the power, then we could be looking at the same ball of sh*t as the USA.
About the same in Germany, only it's not doctors but official state recognized counseling centers, which are often christian leaning. Otherwise it's a criminal offense. And there are parties who want to have even stricter laws. In Malta and Poland it's almost impossible to get an abortion if you are not actively dying. Used to be the same in Ireland until a few years ago. So no, unfortunately it's not as simple as free will to have an abortion in all of Europe.
Load More Replies...The payment of parental support might affect the other gender!
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Burping. if i let out a big belch, my dad commends it. if my sister does the same thing, he is disgusted and says “that’s not cute :/“
edit: just for clarity, my dad would do literally anything for my sister or i, we constantly talk about how grateful we are to have him. this is the ONLY thing i’ve ever seen him say to her, and she’s never told me she has any ill feelings toward it, just something i noticed. it doesn’t make it okay but rest assured she wouldn’t trade him for anyone.
Why is it commendable for anybody to do a big burp? It happens….people’s bodies do that. But I don’t think it’s funny or cute when anybody does it, male or female. Just say, “Excuse me,” and don’t make a big deal out of it.
Abandon their kids!
Nothing. Women can do it all, men just won't let them.
I for one don't want or need someone else's "permission" to do whatever I want to anyway. I'm going to do it. Yes, I'll think before I act, and consider the cost, but I'm 50+, and my idea is, if a man can get away with it, a woman can too, and those who judge just aren't worth keeping around. Live life on easy/easier mode. Do less.
Date or marry much younger men.
My bf is 10 years younger than me. We met as adults. We are adults. It's no one's business. If it were the other way around, no one would bat an eye. Yet, I've been called a "cradle robber". Really? He wasn't underage when we met. Not even close.
My last boyfriend was 10 years younger than me and my wife is 14 years younger. My older sister's husband is the same age as my wife. We're all over 40 at this point.
Probably to over explain something in depth, but do it in a way that is completely wrong or backward. Men love to do this, and they’re good at it, but when women do it they seem to get called out 🤔.
Men are allowed to give long, boring monologues. My ex-FIL did it all the time. I don’t think he even realized it; to him, that was just talking.
Haha, that's my current boss -- he loves to hear himself talk, and goes off on tangents when we're trying to keep to the point.
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Control their reproductive rights?
This can’t be repeated enough. We are not livestock to be bred.
Show agitation at the office or in meetings.
The amount of times I've been "counselled" over getting a bit stressed, or letting out a *sigh* would be comical if it didn't p**s me off even more.
Show it, but again, be strategic. Constant emotion gets everyone labeled as a drama king/queen. Showing agitation over what's worth it is a power move.
After reading many saying "Have an opinion", it just clicked for me why women are naturally so indirect with their communication!
I always wondered why they won't just be direct with men, especially in relationships or when dating.
You'all been conditioned into doing this by society! 😂.
“Be more assertive.” [Woman: states her piece directly.] “No, not like that! You’re too aggressive.”
Be assertive and direct, and out those who are sexist, old-fashioned, conventional, conservative, etc. All of my advice is ways to test people's character. Then use the information to drop them or keep them.
Age.
Aging is natural. I never mind saying how old I am (66), but I'll never tell how much I weigh! 😁
Speak up in meetings. No really. There's studies on this.
The sooner everybody shuts up, the sooner the meeting will be over.
Speak up. The purpose of meetings is to stop bad ideas right at the beginning.
Sit with legs wide apart. Why it’s acceptable for men?
Women also tend to do this naturally. Maybe not to such an extent, but many women literally clench their legs together or sit with their legs crossed, to avoid looking spread eagle. Our thigh fat, labia and wider hips push out our legs at rest.
hang a couple of grapes out of your cooter and try sitting without squashing them
Grow a beard.
Meh. Beards are highly overrated. I’m not even fond of them on men.
I wear a beard because I feel like I need it to help shape my face and chin -- but beards are a bit of a pain. You have to keep after them all the time, trimming them just right or you end up looking scruffy really quickly. The hair on your head, you can let it go and it's usually going to be fine if you miss a few haircuts -- but not beards.
Normalizing women with goatees would ease a lot of worry for some of us post-menopausal ladies....
Stand up comedy. Much harder for women to be liked and accepted as funny.
There's a lot now in the UK. It started mainly with the late and definitely great Victoria Wood, but since then we've had Jo Brand, Angela Barnes, Maisie Adam, Ellie Taylor, Holly Walsh, Rosie Jones, Roisin Conaty, Sara Pascoe, Kerry Godliman, Zoe Lyons and a few imports like Katherine Ryan, Ria Lina, Aisling Bea, Sandi Toksvig, among others (there are 46 mentioned here: https://www.imdb.com/list/ls543013629/ - although ignore Kim Murray, not a comedian, just Sir Andy Murray's wife). The one they all have to live up to was probably Joan Rivers.
Is it that, or is it that there just aren't as many women comics? I haven't really watched stand-up comedy for decades, so I'm not that familiar with the current scene. But back in the day, I loved comics like Janeane Garofalo, Paula Poundstone, Rita Rudner, Elayne Boosler, Judy Tenuta, Carol Leifer, etc. I also like Sarah Silverman a lot (although her latest special was a dud, unfortunately).
Wanda Sykes. And BITD, Carol Burnett. And the Golden Girls.
Load More Replies...I don't think it's an allowance type of thing, but as a woman, some female comics come across as trying too hard to win over women. I find there are a lot of male comics I enjoy watching because they come up with stuff that can be funny to anyone, and they do it seemingly effortlessly. When some female comics are on stage sometimes I can feel the nervousness and they come off as stiff and say things to try to shock or shame men. Even male comics who shame or shock women I can't stand. There are female comics I do like. Jamie Lee Curtis, she may not be a stand-up comic, but she's hilarious and a talented actress. I believe there have been female stand-up acts that were really good, too. I don't want to overshadow the good ones. But I digress. Women are allowed to be funny stand-up comics. It all just comes down to taste.
Have body hair, particularly leg hair. No women ever demands men shave their legs, nor refuses to date men with leg hair and claim it’s their ‘preference’
Like I genuinely get so angered by men who prefer hairless women and defend their right to have a preference, when they themselves have the same d**n hair on their legs. Gtf over yourself, we’re all mammals. .
Men can't have this preference? As a woman you are perfectly allowed to have hair, or whatever else, but men are also allowed to not like it. Everyone can have their preferences in who and what they want while dating.
honestly I agree - but on the other side women are EXPECTED to be hairless while men can CHOOSE to shave. It's not the same
Load More Replies...I wouldn't say "no women ever". Maybe leg and underarm hair is not a big concern, but I have heard of women complain about men's chest and back hair, especially if it's really thick. I have known some men who do shave their legs and arm pits, and I'm sure they meet women who prefer it that way but don't say anything about it.
Pretty much every woman I've dated has had more body hair than I do. And what little I've got (on my arms, for instance), is so blond you can't even tell it's there. But I do have thick hair on the top of my head, for which I'm grateful as I get older. No male pattern baldness in my family line... just smooth legs and a smooth chest, haha.
Play a didgeridoo.
It’s a taboo in Aboriginal culture for a woman to play a didgeridoo. Stores won’t sell them to women and there are massive signs asking those who purchase them not to allow women to play them.
This applies to all women, not just Aboriginal women.
Scotland should have a law against women playing bag pipes. And one for men too.
Wtf? This is a real rule now. Should be higher in the list. What is the reason for this, Aussies?
It's a cultural tradition that only men play the didgeridoo during ceremonies. How this applies to casual playing outside of ceremonies varies from place to place. There are many different Aboriginal nations, so it's not always easy to generalise.
Load More Replies...Not exactly on theme, but doesnt using an electrical toothbrush sound very similar? I always beg my sister to try play a tune when she brushes her teeth. She never does though😑
Fart.
There was a French streamer talking about farts on her live and I saw someone say "you're not very elegant" and I answered with "why should she be elegant ??". Women are expected not to p0o, burp or fart but men are allowed to do a 15 minutes comedy sketch about it ??
Everyone farts, and absolutely no one wants to hear or smell anyone else's farts, sometimes even our own.
Agree. The human digestive system is poorly designed.
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Women are expected to be the parent that never makes mistakes.
Not true with my parents because my mother was the (positively) emotional one and my dad was the one who thought things through. I went to my mom for support and my dad for advice.
Have a bad day and act grumpy.
Not smile when dealing with coworkers.
Raise their voice in the workplace.
Walk alone at night, in general.
Brutally make fun of their buddy's haircuts.
Oh, girls definitely do this. "Your high ponytail is so stupid." "Omg, you wear a bun because you're a ballerina wannabe, but you're too fat. hahaha."
I've NEVER had a female friend do that and I wouldn't put up with it.
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Writing your name in the snow while [peeing].
I can’t say I feel deprived because I can’t do this. 🤷🏻♀️
Agreed. Oddly enough I've never had a strong desire to pee outside whether there's snow on the ground or not, let alone use it to write my name.
Load More Replies...I ain't exposing my v****a in -25C with a windchill of -35C, anyways. Ya crazy?
Go topless at the Superbowl. Usher? No problem. Janet Jackson? Absolutely not. But she didn’t even go topless really.
Write bland to the point emails.
Pee standing up.
I checked all through this thread looking for just this point! I was afraid I'd have to add it! BTW, some Japanese firm has manufactured standing urinals for women, and I saw a portable one for travel. It looks like a triangular trough connected to a flexible hose leading to a container of sorts. It was on some safari website.
Have much younger romantic partners.
My last boyfriend was 10 years younger and my wife is 14 years younger..My older sister's husband is the same age as my wife.
That sounds like an interesting and fun personal life.
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Casually mention [self-pleasure] as a normal thing that is done in life.
Have you actually hung out with a lot of men? Because we really don't talk about choking the chicken with other guys. I feel like women are probably more open about such things, talking about which vibrator types they like best... but maybe I'm wrong.
They mean more in general society, like it's just assumed men do it and it's ok.
Load More Replies...No, I have never spoken about wanking to my mates. My girlfriend on the other hand talks to her friends about stuff like that all the time. Edit: Wanking got through the BP censor!
Really? The BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend) is an extremely well-known concept amongst women that I know.
Viciously insult their good friends to their face constantly.
Another one that I don’t understand. Why would you want to do this?
Because a lot of guys are afraid of being genuine and showing actual warmth to their male friends, wrongfully feeling that their buddies will think they're weak or "effeminate". Thankfully, I think the tide is turning with the younger generations, and it's really refreshing to see.
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Sleep around.
My double standard story. I hunt. With a bunch of 40-70 year old russian guys. Well if you ever heard a russian guy in a "less than an art gallery" setting, they use a LOT of profanity. My favorite one is: After the hunting drive, the men are regrouping. A guy on the radio in russian of course: "My, d**k, is at you?" Me piping up also in russian: "what, those are detachable now???" The guy used the word d**k as a comma- he wanted to ask if his dog was with the other hunter, but forgot to include the word dog. :D Yet when I, on a cold rainy morning say: "Lets go and try to f**k over (k**l) the moose quickly and get the f**k out of here" - I get shocked gasps. Dude - I learned russian it by listening to you! I have no idea how to "lady speak" in russian.
Maybe the correct wording for a lady would have been: "Young men, wouldnt it be nice-ly if we went to the forest-ly and unalived the moose-ly quickly?"
Load More Replies...Yeah, because it's a well known fact that men NEVER blame women for ANYTHING.
Load More Replies...My double standard story. I hunt. With a bunch of 40-70 year old russian guys. Well if you ever heard a russian guy in a "less than an art gallery" setting, they use a LOT of profanity. My favorite one is: After the hunting drive, the men are regrouping. A guy on the radio in russian of course: "My, d**k, is at you?" Me piping up also in russian: "what, those are detachable now???" The guy used the word d**k as a comma- he wanted to ask if his dog was with the other hunter, but forgot to include the word dog. :D Yet when I, on a cold rainy morning say: "Lets go and try to f**k over (k**l) the moose quickly and get the f**k out of here" - I get shocked gasps. Dude - I learned russian it by listening to you! I have no idea how to "lady speak" in russian.
Maybe the correct wording for a lady would have been: "Young men, wouldnt it be nice-ly if we went to the forest-ly and unalived the moose-ly quickly?"
Load More Replies...Yeah, because it's a well known fact that men NEVER blame women for ANYTHING.
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