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What’s normal for you and me might not be normal for someone we know who lives abroad. Or their neighbor. One of the harsh truths of life is that reality isn’t always as objective as we might think it is.

In a viral thread, Redditors shared the best examples of what’s completely normal for people from their country and absolutely weird for foreigners. We’ve compiled some of the best answers that we hope will make you smile and laugh.

Scroll down and upvote your favorite things that are normal for some people, but are unusual for the rest of the world. If you enjoyed this list, why not share it with your friends? And be sure to let everyone know in the comments if you’ve got any of your own stories about what’s normal for your country, but that you realize to be strange when you go abroad.

#1

Going bankrupt from medical debt. (USA)

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Ceredwyn Ealanta
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We don't just find it weird, we find it sad and we're worried about if you're okay.

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#2

Everyone rags on the US for using imperial, but can we talk for a second about how weird we are here in the UK for using both inconsistently?

You buy a pint of milk or beer, but a litre of coke and 25ml of whiskey

People know how many miles to the gallon their cars get, but you buy fuel at pence per litre.

You watch the weather forecast and the temperature is in Celsius but the wind speed is in miles per hour

Most people can tell you their weight in kilograms, and their height in feet, and if they can't give you kilograms they can probably give you stone instead, which is even older than pounds, which nobody uses as a unit of measurement, probably because of the confusion between lbs and £...

It's a glorious mess.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The US also uses Metric...and Imperial. Perhaps not that the extent described. But alcohol, soda, and other products are measured in liters, milliliters, etc. Milk, water, etc are in gallons, ounces, etc. medications are in milligrams but food is in ounces/pounds.

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#3

upset? have a cup of tea

happy? cup of tea

bored? cup of tea

literally any feeling? cup of tea

edit: yes, I’m from the UK, tea is our answer to all of life’s problems.

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Lucas
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep, tea. I'm in the UK. My sister got married and had an afternoon tea party. FFS. Celebrating with bloody tea.

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Reddit user Ojlol2’s thread on the ‘Ask Reddit’ subreddit got more than 63,000 upvotes in a day, as well as over 48,000 comments. Wow, now that’s a lot of people wanting to share their experience about how normality can differ from nation to nation.

From bizarre actions to eyebrow-raising phrases, there will always be things that seem out of place, as long as different countries, cultures, and ethnicities exist. And it’s a wonderful thing because a shift in your perspective can lead to more creativity and a more objective understanding of yourself.

#4

Unsuccessfully helping your dad look for one of his missing thongs and then watching him squeeze into one of your mum's so he can go out into the back yard and get the laundry. I'm told the rest of you (incorrectly) call them flip flops. (Australia)

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#5

Eating with our hands.

In 1969 (the same year the man landed on the moon), Miss Gloria Diaz coveted the Philippines' first Miss Universe Crown. During the preliminary Q&A, she was asked "Is it true that you Filipinos use your hand when you eat?" To which she replied "Why? Do you use your feet?" and went her way to winning the crown. (Phillipines)

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#6

Tax not included in advertised price (USA)

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The United States of America is one of the most powerful countries on Planet Earth, but it doesn’t mean that everything its citizens do is the norm across the world. Some things are minor differences. While some take you aback, make you stop, and keep you awake at night thinking about the cosmos, Multiverse theory, and humankind as a whole.

#7

Bears on motorcycles driving on roads, drinking vodka and playing balalaikas.

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Hahaha! Gotcha. What I said was untrue. Russia doesn't have roads.

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#8

Putting broken glass bottles on the walls around your house so burglars cant jump it and rob you. I moved to Canada and they don't even have walls around the houses! (Brazil)

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#9

Having a reality tv star as president (USA)

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or an actor as president? Or a non-American actor as governor? Americans must think that people in the public eye are automatically qualified to run things...

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For example, one thing that is really odd is how Americans write today’s date by starting with the month, then writing down the day, and ending with the year. Most countries in the world start with the day or end with it. While we’re on the subject, how is it that the US still uses the Imperial System? It seems like the American War of Independence didn’t get rid of all of Britain’s influence over the colonies.

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#10

In my high school (US) we had a group of australian students come to live a day in the life of an american high school. They all thought it was so bizarre and cult-ish that every morning we had to stand and recite the pledge of allegiance to the flag with our hands over our hearts. I couldn't agree more that it is, indeed, bizarre and cult-ish.

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#11

Direct democracy in Switzerland. It often baffles me when I read what the government can pull off in other countries without ever involving the population. Like...yea, you get to elect representatives but it often seems to me that those people then elect someone who elects someone who elects someone...is it really still democracy if you're about five steps removed from the actual decisions? (Switzerland)

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#12

Men holding hands in public as a display of friendship is normal in Afghanistan but super weird in the west.

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Constantly tipping everyone, no matter how well they did their jobs, also causes a lot of people to shrug and give Americans peculiar looks. Japan’s a real wonderland in that regard: there’s almost no tipping.

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#13

In my country you bike everywhere. Cars aren't used much. For longer distances you mostly use train and public transport. Also being 6 foot is normal (The Netherlands)

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#14

I have two to share since I'm half and I get to see those every year. Dead. We celebrate dead and we have parades about dead. We laugh about dead. Dead is our friend. In Mexico we treat dead with love and fun.

Also in Japan we celebrate kanamara Matsuri. Wich is basically a parade about fertility with dicks everywhere. Small dicks. Giant dicks. Dicks as food.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This means during Kanamara Matsuri you can tell someone to go eat a d**k without sounding suspicious.

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#15

Small talk in Poland actually is quite sincere. If someone asks you what's up, you tell them exactly that it's s**tty etc.

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#16

Being left off of maps (New Zealand)

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#17

Whole restaurants cheering when a plate or glass is smashed (UK). Once was in a Canadian bar/restaurant on holiday and a waiter dropped a tray of glasses, the local looked horrified when i was out of my seat screaming “wheyyyyyy”

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#18

Leaving your baby alone outside for their nap, even if it rains or snows. (Norway)

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lithuanian there, was sleeping in balcony straight out of hospital (born at the end of November), this is also very common in Estonia

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#19

Being middle-class with a property having a 6' wall, electric fencing linked to an alarm, automated gate and garage doors (with security clamps over the gate motor to prevent theft of the motor), security gates over every door, burglar bars, and a house alarm system with infra-red sensors linked to armed response with a reaction time of under 3-4 minutes. (South Africa)

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Catherine Waite
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was something I found very hard to adjust to when I moved to South Africa from the UK. I went from if you forget to close a window or lock a door odds were you would be fine. ~To nope nope nope, you do that and you're probably coming home to an empty house if lacking said security features.

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#20

We have no sun here. Around this time of year everyone start asking each other "You been taking vitamin D?". It doesn't matter if you're talking about feeling sad, dealing with the flu, or missing limbs... you been taking vitamin D bro? (Canada)

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Geoffrey Holland
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It depends on where you are in Canada obviously. We have plenty of sun here on the West coast.

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#21

To get money back when you bring empty plastic bottles to the supermarket. In Germany its called Pfand. Each bottles makes 25 cents.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish we had that where I live. I remember buying soda “gegen Pfand” in Germany and turning the bottle back in.

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#22

On Valentine's day, men don't give any gifts. Only women give gifts, they only give it to men, it's always chocolate, and they get it for all the men in their lives, including coworkers. Then there is a day on the 14th of March where the men reciprocate. The gifts are only from men to women this time, and are chocolate or jewelry or nice clothes, and the amount spent is directly related to the amount of chocolate received. (Japan)

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#23

Eating most of the organs of an animal, I had some people look at me in disgust when I told them how tasty the brain and the heart of an animal are (Romania)

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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that's the main problem with today's western culture-when thinking of a chicken you get chicken breast or a leg rather than a chicken medley. post-CCCP countries (romania, bulgaria, poland, lithuania, the whole eastern block and the balkans), much like still asian and african cultures, utilized not so long ago the whole animal and did not waste any parts, hence the brain (stir fried), gut soup, bone soup, blood sausage, lard with bread, cow tounges and many other delish dishes.

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#24

I think tips are a thing in other countries, but in America you have to tip almost everywhere you eat or you get hardly judged by everyone. And if the tip isn’t big enough, they judge you too. It’s so dumb.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In civilised countries employees are paid a proper wage and their tips are an extra for them. Tips are considered a token of appreciation on how well the server did. Bad service means no or very small tip. In America servers rely on their tips to get a decent income.

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Flash Henry
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We tip our food servers because they only get paid like $2 an hour. They need tips to live.

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Bean53
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Americans have lost the understanding of what a tip is. It shouldn't be required, should be allowed and, indeed, employees should be paid a decent wage.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is talk about passing legislation to prevent waiters from being exempted from minimum wage. This is why tipping is expected, b/c the waiter is making a whipping $2/hr when minimum wage in the area is $10. This takes the burden of being a good employer off of the employer...which I disagree with. I tip b/c I know they work hard and get paid nothing for it, but I disagree with the entire concept of it. A tip is for going above and beyond, doing extra, going further then could ever be expected. It is to recognize and encourage this, not to provide a basic living wage.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here in UK hairdressers, taxi drivers and some restaurants expect tips and are not happy if you don't tip, however it is not obligatory , many smaller restaurants or cafes do not expect tips but are pleased to get one of course. Some have a container on the counter so when you pay your bill you can drop the change into the pot if you wish

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Jane Alexander
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The tip should be, as it used to be, a bonus for excellent service. Now it's expected and demanded regardless of the service. It used to be my profession and I'm appalled at how shabby it's become.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah because that’s is basically their income. America is just f*****g r******d... worst health system, worst pay situations... among a million other things wrong with it... “AmeRIcA iS ThE BesT cOUntRy iN thE WorLD”....no....no it’s for f*****g not.

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Jane Alexander
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One poor excuse for a waiter chased us down in the parking lot with his hand out.

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Bill Thomas
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not everywhere, only when there is personal service involved. Ie. not fast food.

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Beata Forysiak
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get it. tip should be given when you receive a 'good+" service, not just because somebody brought sth to your table. Or to tip hairdresser. And I get it that they are paid a little, but it;s just weird for us.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I couldn't give a monkeys where I am, good service gets a good tip, bad service gets nothing.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

American here...I will gladly tip servers who bring everything to the table. Starbucks? Nope.

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Coco
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's very funny to see americans telling other people: you should refuse to do X thing in your country, while they happily pay wages that employees should pay instead of them. DOHHHH

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Martin Mcbride
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't get me started on American tipping practices - it's utter madness, insanity, and makes not even cursory sense but they all believe in it more than their Bible or right to bear arms to kill people that don't tip

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

even if waiters made a decent wage, which they don't, I would still want to tip 20%. no I'm not wealthy but I know what it's like to be a server and people are rude, indecent, and miserable. it doesn't hurt me at all to give my waiter a good tip to show them I appreciate their service. I do not understand how people can be so miserly about tips as if it's a personal assault being asked to give someone a tip for great service. and there are options to NOT tip if your service was terrible! no one expects you to tip if you received awful service!

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that is someone trying to take advantage of you. if you are ever unsure of how much to tip or it's not provided on your receipt, ask a manager or assume 10% for sub par service, 20% for great service, no tip for awful service. No tip is an option but if they think they can guilt you into giving more, they just might and that's not acceptable.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to think it was dumb until I discovered that restaurant workers in the USA get paid as little as $2 an hour and depend on tips to make a living wage. It's a disgusting policy that shouldn't be legal, but until that changes, it's important to tip in the USA.

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Kathleen Barlow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tip if the service was good and ONLY of the service is good. I don't care if I am judged harshly by someone, it's not my problem if your boss can't pay you a decent wage....good service or no tip.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I and a couple other people downvoted you but you’re not totally wrong actually. I used to wait tables, sometimes people don’t like you and don’t tip well. It’s a normal part of the day / week, and just gets absorbed in with the extra high tips so things even out. Getting a s****y tip from some bitter person is part of the job, but if you don’t suck as a waiter then it ends up okay.

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People are always shocked at in my country: 1) our “public” restroom stalls are constructed in such a way that you can pretty much see what a person is doing in there thanks to a constant crack between the door and its frame... 2) I say “public” in quotes because most of our so-called public restrooms are in private businesses who don’t let our surprisingly very large number of homeless use and since there is no actual fully public restroom to use, said homeless often piss and sometimes even s**t in our streets. Oh- and we have a higher percentage of our population in jail than literally every single nation on earth. (USA)

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Wil Vanderheijden
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of people refer to the US as "Backwardistan" or "Dumbfvckistan" since the tangerine toddler took office.

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Strangers sitting totally naked skin to skin in a steamy room heated to +80 to +100C... and us having competitions on who can last the longest in there. (Finland)

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some 50 years ago this was unthinkable in Austria but today it's common for strangers to sit naked in a sauna, except for the skin-to-skin part. Even the slightest touching is totally inappropriate.

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In my friend's country, Easter is when gangs of boys roam the countryside, pouring water over girls and beating them (gently) with sticks. The girls then have to thank them for it. I thought that was pretty weird. (Slovakia)

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Queuing politely (UK)

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Si
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t understand the mentality that it’s okay to push in front of somebody who’s already waiting.

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Putting cable ties, branches, fake eyes etc on helmets, buckets and hats in spring time to scare away the birds. Magpies are vicious bastards (Australia)

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm 30+ and I've never been swooped. In fact I used to take refuge from the school bullies underneath the magpie trees because the birds would swoop the bullies but not me.

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Calling a Traffic Light a Robot (South Africa)

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